I Have a Sexless Relationship, Not Be Choice

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    My boyfriend rejected me sexually.

    I feel like my ego is ruined
    aklittlejohn aklittlejohn
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 19, 2015

    I joined this site specifically to talk about

    my experience. I feel like no one understands why this is a big deal for me. I'm in my early 30s, a female, and I'm with a man that's a bit older than me. Early on, sex was a big deal to us, and things seemed to be great. But things slowed down very quickly and it became a...
    secretlysidhe secretlysidhe
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 8, 2015

    New Home for the ILIASM Community Folks

    dealing with sexless marriages have -- for years -- sought and offered support at the Experience Project in the experience “I Live In A Sexless Marriage” and related experiences. Member of “ILIASM” comprise all ages, walks of life, economic classes, and nationalities...
    46-50, F
    Apr 4, 2016

    I been in a relationship

    for 10 years and sex has become none existent once in 6 months and its driving me mad to be far she has never really had a high sex drive but throught this is normal for a bloke to want it more then a female so didn't really bother me. is there any male or females which has had...
    mann30 mann30
    36-40, M
    1 Response Nov 23, 2014

    My partner went off sex years ago .

    .... She is very happy to have a hug instead..... Oh joy lol
    TeddyboyUK72 TeddyboyUK72
    41-45, M
    Dec 21, 2014
    novaesq novaesq
    61-65, M
    1 Response Feb 8, 2015

    What is oral sex??? LOL I'm being sarcastic

    with that question but to be honest my girlfriend NEVER performs oral sex. I asked her more than once. I give her oral but NOTHING in return. She told me that she hates doing that. Is this a deal breaker?
    Floridabound2016 Floridabound2016
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Jun 21, 2015

    Well my gf told me she didn't want to have sex

    until she leaves her adolescense (teenage). We are in a two-year relationship and we have argued because i played a mental game with her and realised she wanted my sexual attention, but she denied it and get offended arguing that i said i didn't want to respect her decision of...
    datxexu datxexu
    18-21, M
    Jul 23, 2015

    I had a dream last night

    that put me even more in the mood than usual. Then we went to a movie (Jurassic World) and honestly, I've never been a Chris Pratt fan but right now, I think I'd find any man attractive. Even though typically, I'm not like that. After the movie, he walked the dog and I tried...
    secretlysidhe secretlysidhe
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 11, 2015

    I said that I'd write PART 2 ;) So,

    there it is. About the breaks... I am virtually relentless in doing whatever I can to make what he wants happen, especially in light of what the tone of our relationship is... and, I'll tell you, this is a daily basis situation. This is our life every day. Why I'm here. In the...
    ImnessAntiess ImnessAntiess
    26-30, F
    Dec 27, 2014

    I just dont know what to do anymore.

    He hasnt touched me in almost 2 weeks. Im lucky if I get a kiss anymore. I know for a fact hes having two emotional affairs and I cant confornt him about it because I shouldnt have been snooping in his facebook or text messages. I know I love him with everything I have. Not...
    brokenangel32579 brokenangel32579
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 3, 2015


    ;) ...It seems to me that by the time most people get here, we are at the point of ranting...or, at least, to the peak of frustration. Today, right now, I feel exactly the opposite. I'd like to make this complicated, but it isn't. But, where do I start? We're young, not 30...
    ImnessAntiess ImnessAntiess
    26-30, F
    Dec 27, 2014

    I've been with the same boyfriend

    for 6 years. He does not want to have sex. We've gone as long as 1 year 7 months & had sex once because I initiated it. He doesn't want to be forced. Every thing else is good. We've done counseling, he says he loves me, but he refuses to try anything. I love him, but I'm sad...
    freedomfaith freedomfaith
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 14, 2014
    Empty00 Empty00
    1 Response Apr 1, 2015

    Last Two Years Are Almost Sexless

    my relationship is dying....I agree that sex and intimacy is a huge part ( if NOT the larger of all parts) of a relationship. In my case, we have been living together for 12 years. Neither of us want marriage for our own reasons. The last two years we have had sex about 5...
    jstnolan jstnolan
    6 Responses Apr 15, 2009

    This is really it...PART 3 ;) After these

    encounters, I find myself with mixed emotions. There is an emotional and, sometimes, sexual charge there. Then, I feel guilty for having had the experience of feeling that way, although it was not intentional. Then, as soon as I realize that there is a feeling of guilt, I ask...
    ImnessAntiess ImnessAntiess
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

    I have been with my boyfriend

    for four years. We have a beautiful daughter together, but I just can't take this anymore. It has been a year since we last and sex and it's destroying my self esteem. I feel like I'm living with a room mate not my boyfriend. I've addressed the topic too many times to count but...
    Jerseytee Jerseytee
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 30, 2015

    Ive been in a relationship

    for 3 years now. At first we did it all the time multiple times a day then things started slowing down. we just bought a house and the sex has basically stopped. I'm at the point where I don't know what to do anymore. I get shot down almost everyday if and when i ask, even if I...
    RavinFury RavinFury
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 7, 2015

    My partner always seems too tired to have sex

    nowadays. We are lucky to have sex twice a month now. Every time I try he doesn't seem interested.
    Lasey94 Lasey94
    22-25, F
    Nov 23, 2014

    Me and my bf haven't had sex in awhile

    because we've both been busy working but tonight we did and it was great. :
    sydneyrosza sydneyrosza
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 24, 2015

    I know I've already posted about this

    but it seems to be getting worse. Tonight we got in the shower and i pulled him to start making out with him to lead to other things..you know and he grabbed my shoulders pushed me away and moved me out of the water so he could get under and then just stood there. I said...
    RavinFury RavinFury
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 24, 2015

    I have been with my boyfriend

    for almost 6 months. Recently our sex life has changed a lot. From twice a week sex to no sex for a month. He enjoys holding my hand and kisses me.. Just it seems sex is not his thing anymore. I feel rejected and unattractive. I started to be suspicious that he is cheating on me...
    kiyomiky kiyomiky
    1 Response Jan 3, 2015

    We Love Each Other So Much....

    ...seriously!  And, I'm attracted to him, and I think he's attracted to me... We've been together for 7 years and live together, but, because of his medication, he has literally no sex drive.  We tried viagra, he tried changing meds,  I lost weight, I try lingerie...
    jewessjeans jewessjeans
    1 Response Jun 28, 2010
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