I Have a Soft Heart

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    I can be a pretty hard headed person

    but when it comes to love, I have a soft heart. I tend to try and see the best in people. With some people though, it's almost impossible.
    lizzielazylove97 lizzielazylove97
    18-21, F
    Jan 16, 2015

    I hate to admit it, I truly do,

    but I secretly care about people. It bothers me. I was made to be cold, not warm!
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    Jan 9

    If your heart aches mine aches with it.

    and even if you have stabbed me in the back a few times at the end of day if you need someone. I will be right by your side .
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    1 Response Apr 2, 2015


    though the fighter in me tears everything apart to reach the destination, my consciousness makes me feel bad after a while. Therefore I begin making up with those that I hurt. They can’t be mad forever =P Plus I have a short memory for the bad things that happen in my life...
    Dan193 Dan193
    22-25, M
    Feb 4, 2014

    If someone that I like asks me to do something

    im like putty in their hands
    Bonjovi11 Bonjovi11
    16-17, M
    Jan 15, 2015

    Scar Tissue

    My heart is far too soft.. but I'm still trying to decide if that is a bad thing or not. It definitely has shaped me into the person I am- I love others so easily.. not in a romantic way but in a I'd do anything for them sort of way. I have often put other people's needs...
    NovemberBlue NovemberBlue
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 21, 2011

    Today a friend of mines mentioned me not being

    selfish enough after I said something I don't remember. I remember my mom being one of the first people to say I "wore my heart on my sleeve". Not sure how I got this way or how I can stop. I just chalk it up to being a truly good person inside which is why I am this crabby b...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 15, 2015

    my accupuncturist told me I have a soft heart -

    I am quiet speaking and gentle she said- I needed a nice compliment - made my day
    blonde10 blonde10
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 1, 2015

    A Help In Hand...

    A few years ago a group of salesmen went to a regional sales convention in Chicago .. They had assured their wives that they would be home in plenty of time for Friday night's dinner. In their rush, with tickets and briefcases, one of these salesmen inadvertently kicked over a...
    YohanS YohanS
    22-25, M
    May 7, 2013

    Big Soft Heart

    it's true i have a big soft heart and i have noticed this for a long time and no matter what happens to me that never changes no matter how many times i get dirt kicked in my face or be betrayed by somebody or have my heart broken it never changes i never start being mean to...
    rmcrockett rmcrockett
    22-25, M
    Aug 11, 2012

    I do! I really do! I have a huge,

    soft, loving heart!!
    lagatta lagatta
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

    I tend to take things to serious

    and too the heart.When I see sad things going on in the world,I just wish I could help people out when they are in a bad situation.I even cry sometimes when I see them depressing commercials about the starving kids or animals in the pound.when I see whats going in the world...
    shygirlaquamarine shygirlaquamarine
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 1, 2014

    I'm too soft sometimes - well most of the time.

    I tend to let people take advantage of me. I will not speak mean to anyone even if they have to me. Dealing with a very close family member now that got mad at me for me taking up for myself (that was rare of me to do so) and now I'm now seems we will not get families together...
    Browneyesgirl Browneyesgirl
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Dec 21, 2013

    Sometimes I wish I was like the Grinch,

    but my heart is always breaking. Just need to tape it up and keep going on.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 29, 2015

    Soft Heart

    i was teached to have a soft heart,to love everyone , and not to judge nobody even myself. but in some areas of my life i have learned to have a strong heart to be ready to any kind of situation,i think that after see my mom that died of cancer when she was 56 years old, i...
    passion4fitness passion4fitness
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 17, 2009

    Ol' Softie!

    Hurt, or sad, or lonely?  Come to me!  I am such a softie,  I have to force myself not to go where I might find an animal that "needs" me!  I would have to take out a permit for a zoo!    I have a cat now that is diabetic and I spoil him...
    swirlingmist swirlingmist
    51-55, F
    1 Response Feb 28, 2009

    I care too much at times

    for this fast paced hardened world
    goodwitchofthenorth goodwitchofthenorth
    36-40, F
    Nov 29, 2015

    I'm such a forgiving person.

    And I care for people sometimes I think too much. I have a lot of trust issues and I think believing in people and trying to see the best in people so much is the reason I feel the way I do. I love doing good for people and showing them there's someone that cares regardless of...
    Tristag8 Tristag8
    18-21, F
    Jan 21, 2015

    I sometimes wish I didn't have

    such a soft heart but I probably wouldn't be the same person I am today. I've always had a soft heart for the underdog that's trying to do the right thing and anybody that tries their best.
    countryguy30 countryguy30
    26-30, M
    Dec 26, 2014

    My son told Me .....

       Dad you have a tough shell but a soft heart.   It felt great hearing this after my accident.......
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5
    41-45, M
    18 Responses Jun 3, 2009

    and it doesn't help that my dad is ex-military,

    bipolar, compulsive, OCD, and a big scary looking guy. he's harsh with his words and it hurts so much. I end up crying after every single lecture and he tells me I shouldn't be so soft because I'm old enough to where I should take some harshness and deal with it. I'm a sensitive...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jan 16, 2015

    Soooo Soft.

    Sooooooooooooo, sooooo soft. Like a feather pillow on a cute lil cloud soft but!.. softer. Truth be told.. That doesnt mean anything besides me crying ALOT, i CRY SOOO MUCH *grabs chest* it hurts mom!!! im so soft.. mean words crumble me like cheap paper, i like pottery, tending...
    Doxtah Doxtah
    26-30, M
    7 Responses Apr 21, 2011

    Even Now..

    I've noticed in the last couple years I am getting far more curmodgeony...  Yeah, I'm at the intersection of Who Cares and Get off my lawn..  but at the same time, I still get teary eyed when the underdog wins, or when I see someone hurting...  I can't even look at...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel
    31-35, M
    Dec 20, 2009

    I have tried to play hard-***

    for many, many years after an awful experience with an ex very young, but inside I have a soft heart, that has been dying to be loved. I get hurt badly by betrayal and lies, so I rarely let anyone near. I build walls so high, so deep that only the kindest, most loving souls...
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    8 Responses Jan 29, 2014


    Hi frnds...., Finally I caught my future husband....November 7 is my marriage.... He is nice guy and also caring person....I liked him.....:) :) :) :)
    preety21 preety21
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Sep 3, 2013

    My Heart........

    Is very soft. So please, if you see it on the ground, pick it up gently & hold it in your hands. Give it a sweet dusting so that it doesn't look so tarnished & perhaps seal any cracks or breaks it may have sustained in the fall..... Take good care because if you do, it...
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    1 Response Mar 18, 2009

    Wonders And Ponders Of The Heart...

    You choose what you desire to so willfully, nothing can stop you, passionate little fierce thing you are... like a little angel you can't bare the absence of tender joy. Your strong, your silly, your funny, your filled with joy yet have your tearful drip-dropping moments... Your...
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    1 Response Jul 25, 2013


    I have always been a soft touch. It doesnt take much for you to touch my heart strings. I could be watchig a movie that has something in it that gets me gong and I will be crying like a baby. There is one commercial that I cant stand to watch. When it comes on I have to change...
    61-65, F
    1 Response Jan 9, 2009

    I'm a teller supervisor in a bank

    and I had to give one of my tellers a written warning because several transactions she's done within the past few months have resulted in fairly large losses for our branch. She's only been working in banking for 6 months but the losses could have been avoided with more care and...
    Libbs036 Libbs036
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 19, 2014

    I was born with a soft heart

    that hasn't always been appreciated and well cared for. Like most soft-hearted people, I've been used, abused, manipulated, taken for granted, and even cast aside. Yet my big, soft heart continues to beat strong. It's been broken more times than I can count, yet it's managed to...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Oct 29, 2015

    About a month ago my boyfriend confessed

    that in our time separate but still together, that he cheated on me with some chick and my hear was shattered. As much as I wanted to leave him because i don't do cheaters, I did love him and he pleaded for me not to leave and so I forgave him, only if he swore never to cheat...
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    1 Response Nov 25, 2014

    yeah ..sometimes its a good thing

    but sometimes pll just take it as a weakness ..so i just have to be rude with some kinds of ppl
    salmax99 salmax99
    16-17, F
    Apr 6, 2015
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