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I Have A Soldier In Basic Training Or In Ait

This is a group for us new to the military life with SIT's (soldiers in training) who just made one of the biggest decisions of their life. 475 People

    Seriously feel like there's a gaping hole in my

    stomach from missing him... And this is only his second week at basic. The thought of him getting deployed in the future breaks my heart into a million pieces.
    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2014

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    Missing My Soldier.

    I've been reading some of your stories of how everyone copes with the absence of their significant other. I don't seem to find the right words to describe those feelings right now. I just know its hard for my family to see me this down, since he left for BCT. It's my first...
    DreaCelest3 DreaCelest3 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 9, 2012

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    My boyfriend left for fort Leonard wood almost

    3 weeks ago I'm nervous over a few things we started dating 3 days before he left we've been friends since i can remember just having a hard time since we had a fight before he left so he didn't say bye :( but he did write our friend saying he was asking about me and would call...
    Vee12414 Vee12414 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 16, 2014

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    Today is finally the day I get to see my

    handsome solider and watch him get that blue cord placed on his shoulder & I cannot wait to see him! I am so proud of him and everything he has accomplished ! I cannot wait to start a life with him 😘
    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F May 7

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    I had an amazing time with my soldier

    while he was home. He proposed Christmas morning in front of my family. We are officially engaged :) My ring is absolutely beautiful. We spent every moment together. I missed him so much, his smile, his laugh, his cologne, his kisses on my nose and forehead that I think is so...
    ABella028 ABella028 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 5, 2014

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    My guy is at Ft. Benning.

    And although he only has one month left of AIT I feel like I can't stand one more day. Although he's been gone for 7 months already, when he came home for Christmas our bond got so much stronger and he rarely left my side. Having to send him off again was so hard. It's been a...
    TylersGirl18 TylersGirl18 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2014

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    Honestly these last 11 days are going to be the

    absolute hardest. Minutes are going by in hours. I'm so thankful that my boyfriend will get an almost 2 week break before AIT but it's gonna be so hard to say goodbye again. Especially with the baby coming so soon. I just feel so alone. He's the only one im gonna want by my side...
    rachelmarie28 rachelmarie28 18-21, F Dec 7, 2014

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    AIT is way better than basic !

    Even though it's only been a day I can already tell it's way better than basic, my fiancé gets to keep his phone all week long but can only talk during personal time which isn't that long but at least it's daily and it's a phone call . Although I admit I am going to miss the...
    odalisr odalisr 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    I GOT A PHONE CALL AFTER 66 DAYS!

    !!!!!!! One week left of basic and the DS surprised them with 10 minutes to call. I was on my way home from the beach and stopped at a store to get a drink for the hour ride home. While I was in there I heard my phone go off but didn't check because I just texted my dad and...
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2014

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    my boyfriend left to fort leonard wood

    for bootcamp a week ago and i haven't spoken to him since wednesday, it's not easy adjusting to all of this /:
    meowitsiris meowitsiris 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    It's been a week now.

    . A week since I saw him. A week since I talked to him. A week since I texted him. It's really hard not having him hear to talk to. I just want to hear his voice or even get a letter telling me how he is. I am trying to keep busy, but it's times like these where I am laying in...
    ZacksGirl51713 ZacksGirl51713 18-21 5 Responses Feb 4, 2014

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    I received a two minute call

    after a week !!! It made me soo happy to hear his voice again :)
    nancyyyy nancyyyy 18-21, F Apr 14

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    my boyfriend just told me in his last letter

    that he's only gotten 2 of my letters in the whole 2 months he's been there and I've sent at least like 50!!!! This is so frustrating: (
    vbjklk vbjklk 18-21, F Nov 10, 2014

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    So today I got a letter

    and it wasn't positive at all. He told me he's super depressed and stressed. I feel so helpless because I can't be there to comfort him or call him and tell him everything will be okay. I hope he doesn't stay this way for the rest of his time. I know it's hard for him but...
    rachelmarie28 rachelmarie28 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    I can't believe this time apart has gone by

    so fast. In just 8 days, I'll be with my soldier again!! I have so many mixed emotions about it, I can't sit still. I'm so incredibly proud of him for what's he's done so far and what he will do in the future. These last few days can't go by fast enough!
    ABella028 ABella028 31-35, F Dec 10, 2013

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    tessaccaa tessaccaa 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    Fort Jackson

    My boyfriend just left to basic at Fort Jackson on August 22nd and even thoe it has only been about 3 weeks it's been pretty tough for me. So far I have gotten two letters in the mail and each week I get soo excited for the next one to come! I miss him soo much it hurts! He is my...
    iFellinLoveWithASoldier iFellinLoveWithASoldier 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 11, 2012

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    They Say That Absence Makes The Heart Grow Fonder

    So I made it through the sucky weeks that my boyfriend spent at Basic. I'll be honest; there were many nights that I cried myself to sleep and would wake up in the morning to mentally slap myself and pull it all together until Sunday. I was actually very fortunate; my boyfriend...
    crackerz101 crackerz101 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2012

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    Tonight Is Really Hard.. Im Not Strong:(

    "You don’t know real love until you’ve wiped his tears from his eyes. You don’t know real love until you’ve waited those long sleepless nights for months, for just one kiss. You don’t know real love until you’ve replayed saved voice-mails over and over again just to...
    Broooooke Broooooke 16-17, F Aug 15, 2012

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    So Close! :)

    15 DAYS TILL I SEE HIM GUYS!!!!!! IM SO EXCITED!!!!!!!!
    HeyImMarissa HeyImMarissa 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    Young?

    Am I the only 16 year old on here with a boyfriend in basic right now? I know I can't be I'm just wondering.
    HeyImMarissa HeyImMarissa 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    AWBear0108 AWBear0108 18-21 Dec 4, 2014

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    my boyfriend left to fort benning

    for army basic training 2 days ago and im starting to become a mess. I have so many questions. I havent gotten a phone call from him, so when will I recieve one? And when will I get his address so I can start writing letters? I miss him so much. We've been together 15 months and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 9

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    Another letter!!!!!!!

    ! Ahhhhh 14 more days until I can hear his voice
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F Aug 7, 2014

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    He is not in basic, but my brother just went

    through his E7 boot camp. He said it was really hard.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 15

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    Okay so my boyfriend comes home on Friday

    and his family day is tomorrow and he said he'd be getting his phone but I haven't heard from him yet & I'm confused...
    rachelmarie28 rachelmarie28 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F May 25

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    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F Jul 17, 2014

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    my boyfriend left last Monday

    and I've never felt so alone the past few days 😩
    kimmayyx3 kimmayyx3 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    In 3 days 15 hours and 11 minutes my fiancé

    will becoming home for a week leave it may not be a long but it's better than not seeing him at all. It's the first time in 7 months that I've seen him and I can't help to be nervous and scared I waited for this day since he left back and it's finally near and I'm the most...
    odalisr odalisr 18-21, F Jun 29, 2014

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    Well my boyfriend left

    for basic training and I don't know what to do. I'm so lost without him and it's hard to focus without him here... Any tips?
    Gabbyiris Gabbyiris 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 2

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    jamiacc11 jamiacc11 26-30, F Jun 15

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    he left a few days ago

    and it sucks!:(
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 1 Response Mar 12

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    My friend is in the Army National Guard.

    When he came back from training he bought a jeep commander, a whole bunch of right winged bumper stickers, an AR-15 and acts like he is in delta-force
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 16

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    My boyfriend left for basic training on June

    first. I haven't heard from him since the third... should I be expecting to hear from him soon?
    espurresso espurresso 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    My boyfriend just left

    for basic training and ait last night. He will be gone untill mid December and the thought of not being able to talk to him really just breaks me heart. And I know he just left but I'm wondering if anyone knows when it will start to become easier
    meg2and meg2and 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Only a month left of AIT

    and everything has been going so we'll between us and I'm super excited time is passing by so fast . We fight but at the end of the day we know we want our relationship and a future together so we let go of anger. it does suck having him away but this experience is making our...
    odalisr odalisr 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 9, 2014

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    Do You Have A Bf At Fort Benning In Georgia! Look What I Found!:)

    So I was doing some intense fb stalking...lol And found this page! It's basically a page where they have picz of soldiers at basic training! All you have to do is pt in the first number of your guys company and then the number of which group he's in and wallah! I found like a...
    nubianqj09 nubianqj09 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    My boyfriend just left 5 minutes ago

    for Fort Lee in Virginia and I already wanna cry 😩 at least this time he will have his phone but he still won't be with me. It's going to be especially hard when he isn't here to witness the birth of his son in a few weeks...
    rachelmarie28 rachelmarie28 18-21, F Jan 4

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    My boyfriend is at fort benning Georgia

    and I got a letter stating... " The following items are considered as contraband? Please do not send? Any type of food Civilian reading material (except for religious text, i.e. Holy Bible, the Koran, ?) including internet jokes and newspaper clippings Firearms, knives, razors...
    swimmonkey swimmonkey 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Yay my boyfriend is going graduate Basic

    tomorrow and I couldn't be more proud of him! Despite the fact that I miss him a lot I'm very happy that he's doing what he likes and achieving his goals (:
    AWBear0108 AWBear0108 18-21 1 Response Jan 13

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    My boyfriend leaves for basic training

    and AIT in a month and I want to be there for him and also do something special for him before he leaves. Any suggestions to A) get him to open up a little and B) do something special for him?
    DJSoundHoff DJSoundHoff 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    July 23 feels so close

    yet so far away. 60 days away!!! 😩
    TRandolph20 TRandolph20 18-21, F 1 Response May 23

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    Shawn just left today around 12

    and it is really killing me... I have cried nonstop all day and I really wish I could just have at least 30 seconds with him. It was the hardest thing in the world for me to do. I need help coping with this someone please... Message me or text me.
    Love9997 Love9997 16-17 Jan 26

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    My boyfriend leaves for basic 5 days

    after Christmas. What are some good Christmas gift ideas?
    collegiatebison collegiatebison 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2014

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    I think I've re read the letters I've gotten

    from my soldier about a million times since last night. Slept with them next to me. This is my comfort for now. This is the first genuine smile I've had in weeks. Four weeks and no word from my love and then I get all my letters all at once yesterday. I prayed everyday since...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F Feb 8, 2014

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