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I Have a Spanking Fetish

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,288 People

    I love to be spanked.

    There is a an extreme level of enjoyment that comes from it. It is such an intimate experience to lie across someone's lap and receive discipline. It brings me closer to my husband to have this high level of trust. To me being spanked leaves me with a far better high then any...
    fourcrazyccats fourcrazyccats
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Dec 3, 2014

    I can't sleep! I'm thinking about getting my

    butt smacked and it's keeping me awake!
    Ashnikk Ashnikk
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Feb 14, 2016

    But now I feel its more due to my inexperience

    in sex and aversion towards ***********.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 27, 2015

    Completely And Totally Consumed By It

    For the longest time I have thrilled to all things related to spanking. Even as a young child when I had occasion to witness my sisters being spanked, and to a great degree being sentenced to a spanking, I got an electric charge from it. I hated actually being spanked,and the...
    spankedjenny spankedjenny
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Jun 5, 2011

    Lizzie Later

    Here's a story I've been meaning to share for a while. I wrote a story on here about a lovely, sassy girl named Lizzie I babysat for a while when I was a teenager. I once saw her spanked through her PJ's by her mother when she was about fourteen. A few years later I came home...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 19, 2013

    And so does my wife. My is

    for receiving, hers is for giving, and so it works out quite well. For example, Monday morning...home from work, graveyard shift. Did some chores, then took a shower. Got in bed with her, gave her oral pleasure. After talking a bit, she told me to 'go get a a paddle'. We...
    maleslaveShilo maleslaveShilo
    61-65, M
    1 Response Sep 16, 2014

    Need someone to instruct me with a self

    spanking? Tell me what you would make me do?
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jul 15, 2015

    I have been a long time spanking enthusiast.

    I am 63 now and have not been able to participate in this for about 10 years. I can give or get spanked but I am hetero only. I long for a female who can help me get my feelings back. Can someone please assist me? If so drop me an e-mail.
    KindSir KindSir
    66-70, M
    1 Response Oct 6, 2014

    I love spanking stories.

    I get spanked with my dads belt sometimes. It hurts but I enjoy it.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Nov 26, 2014

    When I got home from work tonight I discovered

    the rattan carpet beater was left out on my side of the bed. Laying on top of it was a note to be prepared for your punishment. Naughty girls get spanked!! I know he was not happy about my attitude and need to argue with him regarding an unplanned business trip but I could...
    Lovetimeandtenderness Lovetimeandtenderness
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Jan 4, 2014

    I Wish It Wasn't Just a Dream...

    This is a dream i have that i wish would come true... It's in my Point of view, by the way. I was not a very happy person.   I had had my phone for over a year and it was starting to break. It wasn't sending text messages, and sometimes the menu would disappear. It was...
    FreedomFighterR FreedomFighterR
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 3, 2009

    This happened last week right

    after the holiday ---- He came to pick me up. We were meeting Jim and Sue for dinner and drinks to discuss the fundraising event we are hosting together. He arrives at my place a 1/2 hour before we are to meet at the restaurant. He walks in to find me not ready and not even...
    Lovetimeandtenderness Lovetimeandtenderness
    51-55, F
    Jan 4, 2014

    I may not really know

    why we like spanking, and I am no sort of professional expert, but I have my notions as to why some of us crave it. I think it is basically psycho-dynamics between the inner components of our personality being externalized as the literal spanko acting roles in the drama we act...
    4myinnerchild 4myinnerchild
    56-60, M
    3 Responses Sep 29, 2014

    Spanking Fetish

    There's a great spanking chat server where you can meet others with the same interest. can be accessed thru both java and mirc
    MsAngelica MsAngelica
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Nov 2, 2009
    Lawrenceviper Lawrenceviper
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Dec 16, 2014

    Would some one spank me please * pouts * Id

    love it and like it . * bends over * Do what ever you want it's all yours .
    kittenmajor kittenmajor
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Dec 24, 2015

    Li'L Jenny

    I am an accountant by profession (which often surprises those people who are aware of how wild I was when I was younger!). I used to work in practice but nowadays I am freelance and also do a lot of one to one tutoring. One of my clients is a theatre college whose students must...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jun 19, 2013

    Naughty Dad is looking

    for a strict uncle for discipline...not only my boys need it from time to behaviour is sometimes ugly, too. Anyone can help me?
    BadBoySpanking BadBoySpanking
    36-40, M
    Dec 31, 2015

    I need to punish myself

    for being naughty any dirty ideas plzz message or respond plzz
    jenny221 jenny221
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 4, 2016

    Spank Or Be Spanked

    I have spanked and been spanked for many years.  i am 61 and happily married.  My wife is my primary spank but we are part of a group in which we share in mutual spanking sport,(not sex) for the enjoyment of the game. We also spank each other for punishment at home...
    TommyJohn TommyJohn
    13 Responses Jul 22, 2008

    Sexually Charged By Spanking.....

    Ok, I'm going to ramble, which means I apologize in advance. I have read the pros and cons regarding spanking. Obviously I have a slant, hells bells, I have a greased sliding board to it! In my experience over my mother's knee, I think lots of ground work that formed my sexual...
    otkeen otkeen
    51-55, M
    5 Responses Sep 8, 2010
    spankingdomandslave spankingdomandslave
    22-25, M
    Aug 28, 2015

    I have been absolutely fascinated with spanking

    since I was a little boy. Definitely before kindergarten. Of course it wasn't anything sexual about it, but I did think about being spanked by a woman in high heels. I would look up spanking in the dictionary. If it came up in a story in school, I'd read that part over and over...
    TommyRedBottom TommyRedBottom
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Sep 22, 2014

    Am about to run to WalMart to see

    if I can find some new creative implements for self-spanking, any suggestions?
    Ashnikk Ashnikk
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Dec 7, 2015

    I've had it since I was a teenager :) nice to

    see there are people out there just like me lol
    Niceguy890 Niceguy890
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 8, 2016

    She's Real: She's real,

    she's really real and she and I have began a D/s relationship that is finely tuned. I know her needs and I know how to bring her out to see a side of her she shares with no one else. Our first time was just the beginning. The 2 days we spent together bound us in a way I'm...
    SignalSarge SignalSarge
    51-55, M
    Dec 16, 2013
    Lawrenceviper Lawrenceviper
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Dec 16, 2014

    Ten Years Old...

    Ten years old is a tough time for any child growing up, but my life seemed tougher than other children my age because of my "love" of certain things that I was sure others would find very bizarre. I was sure that if you were to ask any other child if they wanted a spanking, 98...
    spankme2tears spankme2tears
    56-60, M
    Dec 28, 2012

    I Crave To Spank A Woman'S Bare Bottom...

    Alright, another round of thoughts for the world to chew on... I'm still learning about and exploring my interest as I've only been "officially" dealing with and openly exploring these thoughts for a little over two years. However, this has been with me all my life. I actually...
    HRC1971 HRC1971
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Jun 6, 2013

    ..ever one year in London England.

    .. Summer of 1973 to summer of 1974. Walking along some street..... chanced on a street vendor, purveying books, what we might refer to as "mature content". I picked up (and paid for) a couple, related to spanking / CP. I have been in love with the idea, ever since.
    maleslaveShilo maleslaveShilo
    61-65, M
    1 Response Mar 31, 2014

    I Wish My Husband Would Spank Me Again

    He used to spank me during role play and he never hit me that hard. It was just a swat on my butt and he told me that is how hard you hit kids. But yet they cry over that and he said it hurts for him more but it never hurts them really. No marks or nothing, no injuries. Just a...
    girlwithanxiety girlwithanxiety
    26-30, F
    6 Responses May 25, 2012

    One sometimes hears, "children

    who are spanked may grow up to be fetishists as a result." In my case, I didn't bother waiting to grow up. I became a fetishist while I was still a toddler.I can't remember a time when I wasn't fascinated by the subject of spanking. When I used to sit on my mother or father's...
    Badseed1956 Badseed1956
    61-65, M
    8 Responses Jan 17, 2014

    Self Spanker In Need Of A Spanker

    Since I could remember I have always wanted to be spanked. Growing up I never got spanked like my other friends for doing something I shouldn't have. I have never been able to ask for a good spanking but I am longing to get one! For many years I have tried to do the self...
    courios2010 courios2010
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Aug 12, 2012

    I would love a spanking master to disciple me,

    I've been bad and I really love spanking my butt. It hurts but everything about it turns me on. Message me if your interested to talk about spankings or being my spanking master.
    bballer1222 bballer1222
    26-30, F
    10 Responses Mar 13, 2015

    I think what I really have to wonder is

    if there are any spankos out there that really do not have any depression, anxiety , or PTSD. it seems to me like most of us that are honest enough to admit it, and have done some self exploring, do have these symptoms. I think PTSD is always a source of more anxiety. Could it...
    4myinnerchild 4myinnerchild
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Jan 30, 2016

    Naughty Dad is looking

    for a strict uncle to show him, who is his place. I'm often out of control and really need to change it.
    BadBoySpanking BadBoySpanking
    36-40, M
    Mar 20, 2016

    I was so confused as a kid

    but now it all makes sense lol
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 31, 2015

    Bought a fiction spanking book online

    and hubby was home when the package came, hope I get it tonight for spending money ;)
    drubear drubear
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 29, 2015

    I Love To Be Plugged And Spanked

    There's nothing better than sitting with anticipation, knowing my husband is on his way home from work and being completely aware of what is going to happen as soon as he gets in the door. Braless and pantiless, i wait; my ***** growing more moist as the moments pass, my...
    zombiegal zombiegal
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 8, 2013


    As long as I can remember, I have been fascinated with spanking. Sometimes I wonder in some case, (or in my case) this interest was passed on.  My father was NOT a spanker, though I wished, often, as a kid that there was a male in my family who was.  It was my mother...
    otkeen otkeen
    51-55, M
    5 Responses Sep 7, 2010

    How I Think I Got Into Spanking (Part 5 Of 5)

    Sorry for the lenth of this final part:-  I had moved back to my home having experienced several spankings whilst staying with Louise. We both stayed in touch with each other, purely as friendship. A couple of years had gone by and I was travelling back from Scotland, stopping...
    caneme100 caneme100
    46-50, M
    2 Responses May 2, 2013

    She's Really Real: Holding her tight

    and caring for her at the close of our session it was time for us to part ways. I did not want to let her go but both of our lives obligations were calling on us. However; I did know this, I would not let her leave without planning to see her again. We began pre-planning our...
    SignalSarge SignalSarge
    51-55, M
    Jan 6, 2014

    Need someone to talk spanking with girl

    or older women are preferred
    Etg4days Etg4days
    26-30, M
    1 Response Oct 20, 2015

    Last night I dreamed my young Sir.

    He wore short black leather trousers. He was shirtless. Bare-chested, he handled masterly the whip tearing my flesh. I reached the brink of agony. I hardly restrained from howling like a wolf in the woods. Naked, with my wrists and ankles fastened, I was at Sir’s mercy. A...
    deleted deleted
    Jun 13, 2015

    Spanked In Front Of Others

    I love spankings, and will do anything to be spanked with an audience. Me and a friend once sneaked into a girls bungalow to get a better look. We got away with it for about ten minutes, but wanted an even better look, and got busted by two girls in panties and t shirts. The...
    Spankbos2 Spankbos2
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Feb 20, 2012
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