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I Have A Spouse That Has Dissociative Identity Disorder

A place for those who has someone important to them who has DID, a place to find support and understanding from people that can understand. 155 People

    He'S So Lost.. - My husband was my best friend for eight years before we started dating two years ago. I knew about his DID when we met, though not right away. Little things, times...
    harlequinbliss harlequinbliss 26-30 3 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    A Word From Someone Who's There - My name is Trayus and Parsain is my wife. A few people have asked about me and therefore I decided to make a single post here myself. Having a...
    Trayus Trayus 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 24, 2010

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    My spouse had DID and multiple alternates. As of now I know of three, and I've had first-hand experience with two of them. One is a six-year-old girl, one is a sixteen year old...
    40linesofgay 40linesofgay 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    Interesting And Amazing Life Of A Spouse With DID - Hi there, My husband too has DID. I can relate. There are tough times, but I couldn't ever imagine my life without him and the...
    xxxLisaxxx xxxLisaxxx 41-45, F 12 Responses May 29, 2011

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    Young Relationship, Dealing With DID - Hi. :) I don't know much about this site but I was just looking at DID relationship help sites and decided to post here to see if I got any...
    guitarplayer20 guitarplayer20 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 11, 2013

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    We Have Come So Far Since 2007 - If it had been the years 2007-2009, I would have been able to write interesting and beyond belief post. Fortunately life has been pretty stable and...
    xxxLisaxxx xxxLisaxxx 41-45, F Jun 13, 2011

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    Oh Thank God Above that I have found this page!! Where were you 3 years ago when the box was opened and my husband's childhood came crashing in? I have read so many books and gone...
    JaneEllenB JaneEllenB 51-55, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I myself am in a lesbian relationship. My partner suffers with DID. I have previously read lots of stories online about others experiences and they speak about talking and...
    jammyjayjay jammyjayjay 18-21 4 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    My husband of 25 years and I are divorcing, sad as I am I think at this point it is in my best interest that this is happening. My husband was diagnosed 10 years ago and we have...
    25years 25years 51-55, F 5 Responses Jan 19

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    I am in a lesbian relationship with a woman who has two alters that we know of. Emilee who is of equal strength as my partner. And Stephanie who is nine. We are currently living...
    map2thestars map2thestars 22-25, F Jan 28

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    New To This!! - I am in a new relationship (just 5 months) and within the first two months I had already fallen in love with this man. At around the 2-1/2 month mark of our...
    Raffeee Raffeee 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 29, 2012

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    I'M Still New To This. - There are so many things I still don't undrestand. I've done countless hours of research adn my partner does try and help me understand. I won't to know...
    melconfusion melconfusion 41-45 2 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    This will be long so I do apologize. My reason for writing this is that I would love to talk to people in similar situations for advice. I have known H for about a year now, and...
    Annabella6 Annabella6 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    I Just Found Out - My man (A) is very self-conscious about people thinking badly of him or looking at him in a different light and would not appreciate me mentioning this to people...
    bekemlia bekemlia 22-25 6 Responses May 14, 2013

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    Just as soon as I think im on good ground with my partners (her name is Evy) protector Emilee, **** hits the fan. Ussually Emilee only shows herself when Evy is emotional and angry...
    map2thestars map2thestars 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    My Husbands Alter Doesn't Want A Wife - hello new here and didn't know where else to turn...my hubby and I have been together for over 12yrs...and have worked hard to build our...
    elderwitch47 elderwitch47 46-50, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2012

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    I Cant Understand - Hi am New here and i just recently found out that my boyfriend has DID and i would like to help him anyway i can but i am not that talkive :( could someone give...
    AmberDawn25 AmberDawn25 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    My Wife Has Did. - I don't know quite where to begin. I actually "discovered" that my wife has DID. She had been diagnosed with a host of mental illnesses from childhood but not...
    thuie1313 thuie1313 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    Cant Cope Any More - I have never had any support for living with someone with DID. It is him who always gets the help support and sympathy. he doesnt understand that I should have...
    leiennja leiennja 46-50 3 Responses Jul 22, 2012

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    This American Life - I wrote to this american life from NPR and asked them to do a storie on people with DID and their partners. I love how they can take most subjects and no...
    ruthieargyle ruthieargyle 36-40, F Jan 14, 2013

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    My Husbands Alter Wants To Get Rid Of Me - I thought I could do this on my own... but I can't. I'm here for help. I NEED support. My husband hasn't told too many people about his...
    artistinchaos artistinchaos 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 30, 2013

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    Just Realizing That My Wife's Did Will Be A Lifetime Experience -  Although I've known my wife (then girlfriend) has DID since we first met 3 years ago, I'd thought it was...
    Jape61 Jape61 51-55 4 Responses Jan 26, 2012

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    March 9th 2010 - I got married to an amazing man, a decision I do not and will not ever regret. The night before my marriage he was helping me pick out what to wear when he...
    Parsain Parsain 18-21, F 9 Responses Apr 13, 2010

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    Roommates Or Married Couple? - My wife's DID was in remission for 20 years, after intense therapy with excellent therapist. Sandy Hook and sitting in a room with a crazy guy who...
    Spousedilemma Spousedilemma 46-50 2 Responses May 9, 2013

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    Changes On The Horizon. . . - First off to update everyone, I got pregnant again. I'm currently 21 weeks. It's a boy. Things have not stayed calm for us this time around. Despite...
    Parsain Parsain 18-21, F 10 Responses May 31, 2011

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    Facebook Groups - If anyone is interested this is a facebook group for partners of those with DID. http://www.facebook.com/groups/109928755839920/ "This group is to provide much...
    Parsain Parsain 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2012

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    Who Did I Meet First - well let's see.... when i meet my SO he introduced himself as a women due to being in a womans body and I assumed that was who I had been with for 7.5 years...
    jennaval jennaval 46-50, F Sep 10, 2013

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    Finally-other Spouses Like Me!!!!!!!!!! - hello........i have been married to my wife for 14 yrs. after 4 mo. of living together, the 1st alter shared his presence with me, of...
    allchokedup allchokedup 46-50, F 4 Responses May 18, 2010

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    Prostitution, Compulive Spening, I Have Lost My Life To My Husbands Alter - We have been married for 15 years. Many of them happy. When our oldest son turned 5, my beautiful...
    angik angik 36-40, F 5 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    The Mean One - I always have to let out a big breath hide in the basement (my little sanctuary) and drink a beer before I write. So many things have happend since my partner has...
    ruthieargyle ruthieargyle 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 14, 2013

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    Anyone Ever Hear Of Individual Intensive Trauma Therapy? - Hello All, I am sorry but I don't have time to post the whole long tragic tale, but my husband was recently diagnosed...
    DesperateDancer DesperateDancer 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    Update On Fay - Fay has been out a few times since we came back from PA. She recently has come out to teach me sign language. You see, Fay is mute.She wants me to learn sign so her...
    xxxLisaxxx xxxLisaxxx 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 14, 2012

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    Honestly this is all pretty new for me. My girlfriend has been living with DID since she was a little girl...she is now 34. I knew something was off when we first started dating...
    CB1977 CB1977 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    Can I Handle His Did? ? - I have been with my boyfriend almost 3 years. I would say they have been the happiest years of my life up until like 3 months ago. He just started being...
    gmskap gmskap 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2013

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    Double Take. (Never Shared This Before, So It's Long) - Take ONE. I met a man online through a virtual gaming site in 2011. We exchanged pictures and became fast friends...
    RadiantBeauti RadiantBeauti 26-30, F May 16, 2013

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    Trying To Figure It All Out - So my husband and I have been married three years, blended family, three kids for me and two for him, ranging in age from 16 to 10. I did not know...
    aphrodite1470 aphrodite1470 41-45, F 1 Response May 13, 2013

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    Living Wth Two Individuals Who Both Have Did - As you all know my husband has DID. We are well on our way with therapy and toward the end with one mor to reach. My husband's niece...
    xxxLisaxxx xxxLisaxxx 41-45, F 9 Responses Aug 23, 2011

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    Hopeless - Hi am new here, didn't know where else to go. My wife has DID. I have been with my wife for 10 years we have a 4 year old together. We both have been through childhood...
    powerske powerske 31-35 5 Responses Sep 9, 2012

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    Need To Unburden My Heart - As I've said before my husband and I think he has DID. I've never dealt with anything like this and have no experience in this. My husband says that he...
    wyomingsahm wyomingsahm 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 4, 2011

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    Pregnancy - I am currently in my second month of pregnancy. We have only had one, maybe two, transitions since finding out. Everything has been bizarrely calm. I strongly desire...
    Parsain Parsain 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2010

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    Life - I guess I am lucky in the sense that my husband doesn't transition often. But when something does happen it is huge. Most recently was last summer. It was his mother who...
    jessikus jessikus 26-30, F 4 Responses May 4, 2010

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    Just Seeing The Whole Picture -  Well, I have known my husband for almost 10 years, but we have been married for about 3.5. Over this time, I have found myself crazily trying to...
    amg1980 amg1980 31-35 15 Responses Aug 21, 2011

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    My Husband Has DID - My husband has DID, we have been married for almost 4 years. I have known my husband since we were 10. I found out about his DID right before we got married in...
    Devanya7077 Devanya7077 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    10 Sayings You Know Your Partner With Dissociative Identity Disorder Drives You Crazy About... - 1.  "That wasn't me," or " I didn't say that!" 2.  "You like them better...
    DoWop87 DoWop87 22-25 10 Responses Aug 12, 2010

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    Don't Know If I Can Do This Anymore! - Where do I begin? I met a man 7 years ago who was perfect, my everything. There were times he acted different but I just thought he was weird...
    dragonflydpark dragonflydpark 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    How Do You Manage? - Well I have a boyfriend and I haven't got round to telling him yet but the doctors and other treatment people ( WHO I HATE) reckon (98% sure) I have DID what...
    Starlight7777 Starlight7777 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 2, 2012

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    Finally - I have talked about my husband's last alter Fay, who needs to emerge and tell her story.We had to come to his hometown because of an emergency. Fay has shown herself a...
    xxxLisaxxx xxxLisaxxx 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    We Just Discovered My Husband Has Did - We've Been Married For 22 Years. - My husband suffered a massive panic attack 3 years ago, which began our ride to the discovery that he has...
    vcap23 vcap23 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 28, 2011

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    A Typical Day in My Life - Hi again, I just thought I would share a little more about my husband and tell of a typical day in my life. My husband is disabled from the military. I...
    xxxLisaxxx xxxLisaxxx 41-45, F 5 Responses May 30, 2011

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    If You Are The Friend Of Some One Who Has Did/mpd - We both know it is not something we would want to have to live with. Kindness and compassion are how we are to deal with these...
    mpde mpde 56-60, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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