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I Have a Spouse Who Cheated On Me

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    Confidence

    So, I'm tired of being a whiny, little *****. This is not me. This crying and being depressed, it's very unnatural. Not gonna lie, it's still there, but I'm done letting it take over. I am at least 10x the woman she is. Always have been, always will be. She can't even come...
    Jgizmo Jgizmo 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    Pain...

    He cheated in 2003. We rebuilt and got married in 2005. He cheated again in 2007. We rebuilt and had our children in 2008 and 2010. The woman from 2007 came back in 2011. We tried marriage counseling. We separated about a month ago. Everyone wants to tell me how to handle...
    Jgizmo Jgizmo 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    My Wife Had An Affair Before We Were Married But Just Confessed

    Ok...here goes. The story that I can't let go. We'll start with some background. I have been married now for just over 3 years to who I feel is the "love of my life" "soul mate"....call it what you will. We were together about 10 years prior to making it official. The wait...
    cj71 cj71 41-45, M 5 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    Why Did This Happen To Me?

    i was the lady at the lunch table that always said her husband would never cheat. he wasnt raised that way. boy was i naive....i found out 2 months ago that my husband had cheated on me. i feel like every morning i wake up i relive that it is really true all over again. its a...
    bulldogsmom bulldogsmom 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    Feels Like A Long Road Ahead

    hello,husband "emotionally" cheated on me @ 3yrs ago with co-worker/former boss for well over a year~we have 4 children~the main reason i've not yet left the marriage as i'm a child of divorce myself. i thought i've done all the work i needed to do on myself to help us move...
    neverexpectedthis neverexpectedthis 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 27, 2012

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    When Will It Go Away?

    My wife cheated on me. Her relationship with him has been over for a year now. Well not quite a year.  It was almost 2 years ago since I found out about it. 2 years and I can't stop thinking about her being with him. It was 21 months ago she stopped being intimate with...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 1 Response Oct 26, 2010

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    Toxic Betrayal

    My heart is heavy with sorrow, it's weight paralyzes my inner being . I am drowning in My tears.
    ErzulieTears ErzulieTears 41-45, F Mar 13, 2013

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    Does It Get Better?

    This is a little self indulgent, maybe that's not the right word, basically I needed to put "pen" to paper to get a few things out that have been eating at me and put them down here. It probably doesn't flow too well and the thoughts may seem like a shattered window with no...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 1 Response Mar 10, 2010

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    Life Goes On

    It is now November 2013 and what has changed you ask? I will need to backtrack some to let you know that my wife hurt her back last year after my post. The pain and back damage was in the same area that mine have been all these years. The doctor told her that he could fix her...
    Tebb4407 Tebb4407 61-65, M Nov 18, 2013

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    Can'T Shut My Brain Off!!

    I will just tell the short side of this story :) My fiancé and I have been together for almost 3 years we have been through ALOT! In the beginning he had a drinking problem we worked through it we moved out of town and started "over" we decided to her pregnant and have a baby...
    crazybipolargirl crazybipolargirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Cheating Wife

    I am a truck driver. I married my highschool sweet heart, the love of my life. My wife helped bring me closer to God and taught me what salvation truly was. We went on Missions trips together & we were planning  on going into ministry together. My wife had not...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 2 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Sooo my boyfriend and I have been dating for more than a year and he sent Nudes to a girl and she sent them back. She told me . And he eventually confessed . He was so apologetic...
    bbjjadgghhhnnnnnnnnn bbjjadgghhhnnnnnnnnn 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Growing up, I was surrounded by a steady group of friends that loved each other and loved me for who I was. I never felt excluded or judged, or that I had to act as someone I wasn...
    snowflake11114 snowflake11114 22-25, F Aug 15

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    I had this same experience twice. J already wrote about one of them, when I was 17, but I also had this experience when I was 14. My twin sister was always out at her friends...
    Carlsoncarly Carlsoncarly 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Mike is his name. I participated in a 1/2 iron man this past weekend. For those of you who do not know what that is, here is the scripted version. Is a race consistent of three...
    breathingeasy breathingeasy 41-45, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    The most frustrating thing ever is trying to explain or express what you're going through to someone whose never been through it, they always seem to belittle the situation or make...
    Dauntlesssmile Dauntlesssmile 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I have recently moved and I am attending a new school. I made two great friends who I trust very much.but as soon as summer came they started ignoring me.they don't answer any of...
    reg212 reg212 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    Muhhamad Ali inspires me. my dad died (don't be sorry bcuz your not) at a young age so i had no one to really look up to except gang members ( I live in a bad area) i don't wanna...
    Mihkowakayios Mihkowakayios 13-15, M Aug 2

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    It is what it is..........................................unfortunately
    sisi19 sisi19 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I was 17, and my twin sister was at a volleyball camp. Normally my parents are ok leaving me with my twin sister and my at the time 12 and 8 year old sister, but without her, they...
    Carlsoncarly Carlsoncarly 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    We were really close a while back but now it seems like we're just drifting away. Well. It seems like I'm drifting away from them. I hate being alone so knowing this makes me...
    musicislifeandlove musicislifeandlove 13-15, F Aug 23

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    I am the wife of a United States Marine. I am also the ex-girlfriend of another Marine, who cheated on me for a year while I waited patiently and faithfully for him at home...
    HeatherMD02 HeatherMD02 18-21 2 Responses Aug 11

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    It's not okay, no matter the circumstance. By cheating you betray the person who you supposedly "love" and throw away their trust. It is a horrible and despicable thing to do...
    VoraciousTurtles VoraciousTurtles 16-17, F Aug 20

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    Soon it will be 2 months and It still feels like a bad dream. I never expected him to do this to me cos I thought that he loved me. We have shared so much, are bounded by so much...
    Sharniab Sharniab 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 9

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    I'm not going to find stupid love or whatever the hell it is. Just sounds ridiculous now that my BFF told me it's not a damn fairy tale...and people have told me marriage and love...
    GrumpyMe GrumpyMe 22-25, F 2 Responses 34 mins ago

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    A SERIOUS MATTER NOT WORTH JOKING AROUND! It’s easy to see a person so bubbly, energetic, humorous and alive, thinking ‘wow that person has it all, a great life’ maybe they...
    imperfectedsoul imperfectedsoul 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    Dear ----, I am writing to express my confused feelings about our relationship. I know we have gone through a lot in the past two years and we have both felt like there was no...
    ILoveYouVeryMuch ILoveYouVeryMuch 18-21, F Aug 18

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    I was about 13.. I had this friend who I was hanging out with on a parking garage, he said he would jump if I left him too go home, I had too be home. When I got home he called me...
    TaylorRenee14 TaylorRenee14 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    My son started seeing his now wife about seven years ago. I never liked her from the start. He and I used to be very close and after she came into the picture our relationship was...
    Plava111 Plava111 51-55 3 Responses Aug 15

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    I'm like Alice from Alice in wonderland, i often day dream and I also identify myself with Ariel from the little mermaid, i know this sounds corny but all Ariel wanted was to have...
    zooniverse zooniverse 22-25, F Aug 23

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    all I need is good company that does not take me to the glasses and that does not take me to smoke! I have friends who smoke and drink but already asked me if I wanted cigarettes...
    lovingCuteSmartGirl lovingCuteSmartGirl 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 1

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    I have a whole playlist of songs that make me feel understood, these are the ones that focus on my MPD. "Animal I have Become" Three Days Grace "Monster" Skillet "I am an Illusion...
    BrokenOneX BrokenOneX 31-35 Aug 1

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    I have a whole playlist of songs that make me feel understood, these are the ones that focus on my DID... "Animal I have Become" Three Days Grace "Monster" Skillet "I am an...
    BrokenOneX BrokenOneX 31-35 Aug 1

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    It's always fun and exciting but there is never any depth. All they can talk about is their single profession. I want to be excited by a man but also have someone who is...
    GlitterAndFootball GlitterAndFootball 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    It feels so good to finally have someone who makes me smile so much that by the end of the day my cheeks are sore lol I've never been so excited about someone new like this and I...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 9

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    I love my girls they are my world but I just get a but down being the only adult they have to make their world perfect. We are halfway through our main summer holidays and I...
    Sunrise13 Sunrise13 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    Recently my 13 yr old daughter has started becoming obsessed with 'Teenager Post'. Anyone else have teens who are obsessed with these posts?
    JoMumOfFour JoMumOfFour 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    you can go thru life second guessing and wondering this or that. The problem with that is, you'll never be truly happy with what you've already done or have. It's good to strive...
    Rc831 Rc831 51-55, M Aug 19

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    About 4 years ago I went to my GP with an annoying pain in my left side. I was sent for an xray which showed small ovarian cysts. I told the GP I didnt think this was the cause of...
    mrsminxster mrsminxster 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    "I don't understand you always get what you want so why are you like this." But what I said in my head made it hard to breathe because it was the truth. "I want him to stay, but...
    Augustends Augustends 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I cheated on the love of my life, I wanted so much more because the relationship hadn't changed in a year. She wants to work it out but I don't know if it will work out. I'm trying...
    PurpleJay PurpleJay 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    New to this. I'm 26 and have been with my fiancé for almost 8 years and we have a 3 year old son. My son's father started taking percocets and moved to smoking crack and shooting...
    Danielle727 Danielle727 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Update! There's hope guys - don't settle! Last time I posted it had been only one month since being cheated on - and I was a mess. Only thing I was sure of is that there was no way...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I cheated on my boyfriend, whom i have been a year with, with one of my sisters good friends, who is also in a relationship. The connection we had, was passionate and thrilling...
    gugly14 gugly14 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Long story short; he cheated. pissed off some mutual friends of the mistress. so they messaged me telling me of the child as a way to get back at him, they were hoping that I would...
    SilentRider SilentRider 18-21, F Aug 14

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    I'm not sure what to do. My boyfriend and I had been talking for a while before he finally decided to ask me out the other day. Let me tell you a little bit about him. He has had a...
    unluckiestginger unluckiestginger 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    About three years ago, my ex girlfriend cheated on me with three other men, and then did the same years later with an emo Australian. She then started dating my friends and cheated...
    austinmmyers1994 austinmmyers1994 18-21, M a week ago

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    We had been together nearly two years when I found out he cheated. He admitted what he done but lied about the whole truth which I found out later, it was a one time thing. He's my...
    karennxx karennxx 18-21, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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