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I Have a Spouse Who Cheated On Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 93 People

    When Will It Go Away?

    My wife cheated on me. Her relationship with him has been over for a year now. Well not quite a year.  It was almost 2 years ago since I found out about it. 2 years and I can't stop thinking about her being with him. It was 21 months ago she stopped being intimate with...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 1 Response Oct 26, 2010

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    Cheating Wife

    I am a truck driver. I married my highschool sweet heart, the love of my life. My wife helped bring me closer to God and taught me what salvation truly was. We went on Missions trips together & we were planning  on going into ministry together. My wife had not...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 2 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    Life Goes On

    It is now November 2013 and what has changed you ask? I will need to backtrack some to let you know that my wife hurt her back last year after my post. The pain and back damage was in the same area that mine have been all these years. The doctor told her that he could fix her...
    Tebb4407 Tebb4407 61-65, M Nov 18, 2013

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    Toxic Betrayal

    My heart is heavy with sorrow, it's weight paralyzes my inner being . I am drowning in My tears.
    ErzulieTears ErzulieTears 41-45, F Mar 13, 2013

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    Confidence

    So, I'm tired of being a whiny, little *****. This is not me. This crying and being depressed, it's very unnatural. Not gonna lie, it's still there, but I'm done letting it take over. I am at least 10x the woman she is. Always have been, always will be. She can't even come...
    Jgizmo Jgizmo 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    Why Did This Happen To Me?

    i was the lady at the lunch table that always said her husband would never cheat. he wasnt raised that way. boy was i naive....i found out 2 months ago that my husband had cheated on me. i feel like every morning i wake up i relive that it is really true all over again. its a...
    bulldogsmom bulldogsmom 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    My Wife Had An Affair Before We Were Married But Just Confessed

    Ok...here goes. The story that I can't let go. We'll start with some background. I have been married now for just over 3 years to who I feel is the "love of my life" "soul mate"....call it what you will. We were together about 10 years prior to making it official. The wait...
    cj71 cj71 41-45, M 5 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    Feels Like A Long Road Ahead

    hello,husband "emotionally" cheated on me @ 3yrs ago with co-worker/former boss for well over a year~we have 4 children~the main reason i've not yet left the marriage as i'm a child of divorce myself. i thought i've done all the work i needed to do on myself to help us move...
    neverexpectedthis neverexpectedthis 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 27, 2012

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    Does It Get Better?

    This is a little self indulgent, maybe that's not the right word, basically I needed to put "pen" to paper to get a few things out that have been eating at me and put them down here. It probably doesn't flow too well and the thoughts may seem like a shattered window with no...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 1 Response Mar 10, 2010

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    Can'T Shut My Brain Off!!

    I will just tell the short side of this story :) My fiancé and I have been together for almost 3 years we have been through ALOT! In the beginning he had a drinking problem we worked through it we moved out of town and started "over" we decided to her pregnant and have a baby...
    crazybipolargirl crazybipolargirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Pain...

    He cheated in 2003. We rebuilt and got married in 2005. He cheated again in 2007. We rebuilt and had our children in 2008 and 2010. The woman from 2007 came back in 2011. We tried marriage counseling. We separated about a month ago. Everyone wants to tell me how to handle...
    Jgizmo Jgizmo 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    To those who have a spouse who is having an emotional affair, would you marry your husband or wife again if you could turn the clock back?
    Mike405 Mike405 51-55, M 2 Responses May 13

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    So.. the whole thing is weird...we met and have been together for over 2 years and a half, however he has cheated on me at the beginning of our relationship and has been for about...
    alexxxboo alexxxboo 18-21, F May 10

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    When I way in college in 2004, I had my first real girlfriend. She was beautiful and funny and we got along really well. We were from different ethnic backgrounds but that never...
    grimfandango85 grimfandango85 26-30, M May 17

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    I know from my own experience that married men don't always leave the wife. I am the wife. I found out two years ago my husband had an affair with some married woman that he met...
    Truthbetold81 Truthbetold81 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    My husband is a workaholic he is unromantic and thinks that life should be all about working so our grandchildren which we don't have (I'm 29) can have a better life. I'm all about...
    StilettoEsquire StilettoEsquire 26-30, F May 16

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    my girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 years. In the beginning it was amazing. I fancied her for ages before be got together and we were both quite loved up when we did. we...
    callum00000 callum00000 26-30, M 2 Responses May 5

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    My parents have totally opposing sides of the same events that have happened in the past...n they are both convinced they couldn't be any right-er. When i hear my mom tell me the...
    lonewolf12358 lonewolf12358 13-15, F 1 Response May 8

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    I've loved dressing as a female since I was 7 years old. Didn't realise until late on that I really should have been born a female.
    xxxAngiexxx xxxAngiexxx 46-50, T 4 Responses May 9

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    I wrote about my experience somewhere... but in any case, here's to us, the Caregivers!
    lilmschirpy lilmschirpy 41-45, F 1 Response May 4

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    I hate having to lie about myself which is why I only tell people some of the truth so I am not lying.
    sroonaka616 sroonaka616 18-21 1 Response May 4

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    I might get an invite to their yearly popularity contest, better known as a birthday, but they almost never drop me a message asking how I am. I used to check on them all the time...
    RealLifePerson RealLifePerson 26-30, M 20 hrs ago

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    My husband blames my friends and our family for the advice that they gave during this time. He told me he hates his cousin and his aunt who both helped me during this separation...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    i slept with two married men before i don't feel guilty for it either I'm knot one who cheated they are
    candysissyfag candysissyfag 26-30, T 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    people tell me i am lucky i dont reply usually just say this in my heart am i lucky will be the person who will have her who will share sunsets and sunrises with her who will...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 1

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    I never expected this to happen like this. So about a year ago, I met this friend (I'll call her M) via my friend T, who i had known since freshman year of high school and...
    SynysterGates510 SynysterGates510 22-25, M May 7

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    Hypoc'ritical EP Queens: GTFOA few days ago a bunch of EP Queens decided to fl'ag and rep'ort the profile of a genuine user until it was deleted. Without notice. She's gone now...
    TearsOfTheChampion TearsOfTheChampion 22-25 2 Responses May 9

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    I have 5 children even though I am very young. I'm lucky to have my husband to help me out with them and we all get along really good. Our eldest is 5 (nearly 6) her name is Aimee...
    ElleTheLizard ElleTheLizard 18-21, F 10 Responses May 2

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    Did you know you already have a business?! Message me to join this amazing team to get one-on-one mentoring to grow it!Our company was featured in fortune 500, inc 500 and the wall...
    WrapMeFitnFab WrapMeFitnFab 26-30, F May 5

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    I don't really know what to say, but here it goes. I'm 19, and I met a relatively famous (in Britain anyway) actor a few months ago. We started talking and exchanged numbers. At...
    nightridehome nightridehome 18-21, F 2 Responses May 13

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    anyone have brothers who are your best friends and enemies, and who will always be there for you and who will bully you? yea I have brothers like that! :/
    emma0114 emma0114 13-15, F 1 Response May 17

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    of all the shitry stuff That has gone on through my life . im still very grateful for everything I have the experiences that made me strong and be exactly who I am today . I feel I...
    aliciastra aliciastra 18-21, F a week ago

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    just found out they have doctor who on that Disney XD channel now. they're starting with David tennant. nice!
    mrweerd mrweerd 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Ok i have friend whom i normally dont talk to much but still call him as my friend. But he sits near me in Math Class. He was depress that his girlfriend broke up with him. Now he...
    xxPurpleRosesxx xxPurpleRosesxx 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    For the World am happy with no complain. I live the live so normal that no one suspect. My Heart is divide. I never lived for myself, always for others. Why people are never happy...
    tomanyfeeling28 tomanyfeeling28 26-30, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I know I am hard to get close to, that I keep most of the world at best at arms length, but when I open my hearts windows, and finally let you in, I love without ceasing, I bend...
    angeleyes4urpleasure angeleyes4urpleasure 41-45, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Life doesn't hurt until you think about how much things have changed, who you've lost along the way, and how much of it was your fault...
    theoneyoullneverforget theoneyoullneverforget 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 28

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    It's been a month since I heard her voice. I went from talking to her every night for at least 2 hours ... come home, shower, have dinner, call her, fall asleep to her voice, wake...
    NYDom4ticklishsubfemLTR NYDom4ticklishsubfemLTR 46-50, M 6 Responses May 2

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    I have people who pretend to be my friend but nobody that really truly cares about me. I honestly hate that they even pretend to care...
    youngkinyteenmom youngkinyteenmom 18-21, F 2 Responses May 4

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    Hi my boyfriend just shipped off for the navy yesterday. We have been together for a year but known eachother for longer. In the year we have been together we have not spent a day...
    valentina6991 valentina6991 18-21, F 2 Responses May 5

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    I met my soulmate when I was 18 years old. He truly is the love of my life. He completed me in every way possible. We planned our entire lives together and I could not see myself...
    S615 S615 18-21, F May 10

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    i have questions. who is online?
    himenoko143 himenoko143 18-21, F 3 Responses May 14

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