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I Have a Spouse Who Cheated On Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 86 People

    When Will It Go Away?

    My wife cheated on me. Her relationship with him has been over for a year now. Well not quite a year.  It was almost 2 years ago since I found out about it. 2 years and I can't stop thinking about her being with him. It was 21 months ago she stopped being intimate with...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 1 Response Oct 26, 2010

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    Why Did This Happen To Me?

    i was the lady at the lunch table that always said her husband would never cheat. he wasnt raised that way. boy was i naive....i found out 2 months ago that my husband had cheated on me. i feel like every morning i wake up i relive that it is really true all over again. its a...
    bulldogsmom bulldogsmom 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    Confidence

    So, I'm tired of being a whiny, little *****. This is not me. This crying and being depressed, it's very unnatural. Not gonna lie, it's still there, but I'm done letting it take over. I am at least 10x the woman she is. Always have been, always will be. She can't even come...
    Jgizmo Jgizmo 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    Toxic Betrayal

    My heart is heavy with sorrow, it's weight paralyzes my inner being . I am drowning in My tears.
    ErzulieTears ErzulieTears 41-45, F Mar 13, 2013

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    Does It Get Better?

    This is a little self indulgent, maybe that's not the right word, basically I needed to put "pen" to paper to get a few things out that have been eating at me and put them down here. It probably doesn't flow too well and the thoughts may seem like a shattered window with no...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 1 Response Mar 10, 2010

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    My Wife Had An Affair Before We Were Married But Just Confessed

    Ok...here goes. The story that I can't let go. We'll start with some background. I have been married now for just over 3 years to who I feel is the "love of my life" "soul mate"....call it what you will. We were together about 10 years prior to making it official. The wait...
    cj71 cj71 41-45, M 5 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    Pain...

    He cheated in 2003. We rebuilt and got married in 2005. He cheated again in 2007. We rebuilt and had our children in 2008 and 2010. The woman from 2007 came back in 2011. We tried marriage counseling. We separated about a month ago. Everyone wants to tell me how to handle...
    Jgizmo Jgizmo 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    Life Goes On

    It is now November 2013 and what has changed you ask? I will need to backtrack some to let you know that my wife hurt her back last year after my post. The pain and back damage was in the same area that mine have been all these years. The doctor told her that he could fix her...
    Tebb4407 Tebb4407 61-65, M Nov 18, 2013

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    Feels Like A Long Road Ahead

    hello,husband "emotionally" cheated on me @ 3yrs ago with co-worker/former boss for well over a year~we have 4 children~the main reason i've not yet left the marriage as i'm a child of divorce myself. i thought i've done all the work i needed to do on myself to help us move...
    neverexpectedthis neverexpectedthis 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 27, 2012

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    Cheating Wife

    I am a truck driver. I married my highschool sweet heart, the love of my life. My wife helped bring me closer to God and taught me what salvation truly was. We went on Missions trips together & we were planning  on going into ministry together. My wife had not...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 2 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    Can'T Shut My Brain Off!!

    I will just tell the short side of this story :) My fiancé and I have been together for almost 3 years we have been through ALOT! In the beginning he had a drinking problem we worked through it we moved out of town and started "over" we decided to her pregnant and have a baby...
    crazybipolargirl crazybipolargirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Today is not a good day ! I just feel as though I've been swallowed into a big black hole :(
    Heartbroken46 Heartbroken46 41-45, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    When you try your best and it all gets thrown back in your face 😔 last year I paid for an overnight birthday treat in Liverpool and I got repaid by him getting a cob on...
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    Precise is the knife that cut my heart Nickwrocks1
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    I never thought it would happen with some friends but it has and it saddens me.
    bzylady bzylady 36-40, F 7 Responses Feb 18

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    I feel like I'm becoming less and less important to you each and everyday. You don't make an effort to talk to me anymore. Once I say "Hi", you would respond but that's it. You...
    queenmallow queenmallow 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I had a crush on a guy since about 8th grade. My freshman year of high school I was dating a guy who cheated on me and I told my crush, (let's call him P). We decided to meet up...
    jennamlb jennamlb 18-21, M Feb 6

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    I am married. I haven't ever cheated and believe what the Bible says about marriage.
    planter715 planter715 51-55, M 18 hrs ago

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    okay so.. i'm young. and i've done things, been through things. my life wasn't the best. i drink, smoke, have sex, i cheated... don't think i did these things because i want to be...
    angelgoinghome angelgoinghome 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 18

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    Truth be told, I am not 100% sure. It is hard to get a clear clairsentient "definition" and I've read it described many ways. At the very least I am a natural empath for sure. I...
    boompowsplat boompowsplat 26-30, F Feb 20

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    Things are perfect on paper.I got enough to be working,doing a bit that I want to,and being able to plan for the future,maybe a masters.I have friends who love me,and people who...
    aquabunny aquabunny 22-25, F Feb 20

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    It would be amazing to have someone who cares enough about me to point out little things I do that I've never noticed. To have someone who knows all my flaws but doesn't try to...
    Ellytheoutcast Ellytheoutcast 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    In this series I will be writing about the angels or the goddesses I have met in EP so far and they all are special to me since they were not mean and also very kind. First is...
    FightingTillTheEnd FightingTillTheEnd 31-35, M Feb 19

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    It runs in my family, my aunt is one of the people who have it, who is alive right now. I've so far been diagnosed with depression, ADD. Before i got "investigated" for ADD, my...
    EverythingAndAnything EverythingAndAnything 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    You're awesome man. Without you I wouldn't have anyone to vent with through this break up. Thanks to you, I have someone who isn't a complete *** to talk to haha. Thanks
    GuuIsAwesome GuuIsAwesome 18-21, M Feb 8

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    The last few days have been so emotionally draining, I have no idea why it's happening but I do know I'm hurting. I can't fight this feeling of immense pain, I try to have positive...
    destiny00000 destiny00000 36-40 Feb 14

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    I have my little sister Megan she's 10 and I have my older sister Payton she's 15. they are both annoying megan is a spoiled brat and then you have payton who just thinks she's...
    Laughoutloud24 Laughoutloud24 18-21, M Feb 18

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    When did I become a Monday-Friday 9-5 girlfriend? I thought I was smarter than that. Before this experience, I used to think just like many of you, I would see affairs as the...
    LostStar28 LostStar28 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    AgeMeet.com is promoting the concept of age gap dating where older men can date younger women. The trend of older men younger women dating of getting popular day by day and the...
    norahmarlin norahmarlin 26-30, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    AgeMeet.com is promoting the concept of age gap dating where older men can date younger women. The trend of older men younger women dating of getting popular day by day and the...
    norahmarlin norahmarlin 26-30, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    first of all i have never cheated and second of all i dont have a husband. but seriously, how come is it so easy for other people to cheat on their spouses when i can barely find...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 20

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    Politics are such bullshit. Republicans couldn't care less about you if you're not at least a middle class, white, and Christian. Democrats, on the other hand, spend too much time...
    CloseButNoGuitar CloseButNoGuitar 26-30, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I decided to forgive my ex and were tryng to make things work but it's so hard sometimes I feel we were better off our own ways bc we were already starting to see other people but...
    gkaren gkaren 18-21, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I've been with my boyfriend for a few months, however he's been my best friend for over a year. We've always been very close, and I thought we were completely open with each other...
    wednesdayy wednesdayy 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Please, to those who come across my post, I'm in desperate need of advice. Approximately 3-4 months ago I found out my boyfriend of six years cheated on me. "Always trust your...
    Jninety3 Jninety3 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have been cheated on and I have cheated. I met this guy named Ryan when I was in 8th grade. We got together after about a month of knowing each other and it was really good (we...
    2323keka 2323keka 16-17 2 days ago

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    In 2012, I cheated on my best friend. I lost my virginity to someone else. The one thing I wanted more than anything in the world was for me to be with him in that way. I even have...
    Headlights Headlights 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 5

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    One of my very worst relationships, it kept going for 1.5 year total, dont ask me why i kept going back to him because i have no memory of those times, i only know what has...
    EverythingAndAnything EverythingAndAnything 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Curseoftheblade Curseoftheblade 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    im 37 and he is 46. we've been dating for over a year now and he cheated on me with my best friend 8 months into our relationship. it's been 6 months since he cheated and I am...
    lifecanberough lifecanberough 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 20