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I Have a Spouse Who Cheated On Me

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    Does It Get Better?

    This is a little self indulgent, maybe that's not the right word, basically I needed to put "pen" to paper to get a few things out that have been eating at me and put them down here. It probably doesn't flow too well and the thoughts may seem like a shattered window with no...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 1 Response Mar 10, 2010

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    Can'T Shut My Brain Off!!

    I will just tell the short side of this story :) My fiancé and I have been together for almost 3 years we have been through ALOT! In the beginning he had a drinking problem we worked through it we moved out of town and started "over" we decided to her pregnant and have a baby...
    crazybipolargirl crazybipolargirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Why Did This Happen To Me?

    i was the lady at the lunch table that always said her husband would never cheat. he wasnt raised that way. boy was i naive....i found out 2 months ago that my husband had cheated on me. i feel like every morning i wake up i relive that it is really true all over again. its a...
    bulldogsmom bulldogsmom 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    Pain...

    He cheated in 2003. We rebuilt and got married in 2005. He cheated again in 2007. We rebuilt and had our children in 2008 and 2010. The woman from 2007 came back in 2011. We tried marriage counseling. We separated about a month ago. Everyone wants to tell me how to handle...
    Jgizmo Jgizmo 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    My Wife Had An Affair Before We Were Married But Just Confessed

    Ok...here goes. The story that I can't let go. We'll start with some background. I have been married now for just over 3 years to who I feel is the "love of my life" "soul mate"....call it what you will. We were together about 10 years prior to making it official. The wait...
    cj71 cj71 41-45, M 5 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    When Will It Go Away?

    My wife cheated on me. Her relationship with him has been over for a year now. Well not quite a year.  It was almost 2 years ago since I found out about it. 2 years and I can't stop thinking about her being with him. It was 21 months ago she stopped being intimate with...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 1 Response Oct 26, 2010

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    Cheating Wife

    I am a truck driver. I married my highschool sweet heart, the love of my life. My wife helped bring me closer to God and taught me what salvation truly was. We went on Missions trips together & we were planning  on going into ministry together. My wife had not...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 2 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    Confidence

    So, I'm tired of being a whiny, little *****. This is not me. This crying and being depressed, it's very unnatural. Not gonna lie, it's still there, but I'm done letting it take over. I am at least 10x the woman she is. Always have been, always will be. She can't even come...
    Jgizmo Jgizmo 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    Feels Like A Long Road Ahead

    hello,husband "emotionally" cheated on me @ 3yrs ago with co-worker/former boss for well over a year~we have 4 children~the main reason i've not yet left the marriage as i'm a child of divorce myself. i thought i've done all the work i needed to do on myself to help us move...
    neverexpectedthis neverexpectedthis 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 27, 2012

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    Toxic Betrayal

    My heart is heavy with sorrow, it's weight paralyzes my inner being . I am drowning in My tears.
    ErzulieTears ErzulieTears 41-45, F Mar 13, 2013

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    Life Goes On

    It is now November 2013 and what has changed you ask? I will need to backtrack some to let you know that my wife hurt her back last year after my post. The pain and back damage was in the same area that mine have been all these years. The doctor told her that he could fix her...
    Tebb4407 Tebb4407 61-65, M Nov 18, 2013

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    Sooo my boyfriend and I have been dating for more than a year and he sent Nudes to a girl and she sent them back. She told me . And he eventually confessed . He was so apologetic...
    bbjjadgghhhnnnnnnnnn bbjjadgghhhnnnnnnnnn 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I had this same experience twice. J already wrote about one of them, when I was 17, but I also had this experience when I was 14. My twin sister was always out at her friends...
    Carlsoncarly Carlsoncarly 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    Mike is his name. I participated in a 1/2 iron man this past weekend. For those of you who do not know what that is, here is the scripted version. Is a race consistent of three...
    breathingeasy breathingeasy 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 26

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    The most frustrating thing ever is trying to explain or express what you're going through to someone whose never been through it, they always seem to belittle the situation or make...
    Dauntlesssmile Dauntlesssmile 18-21, F Aug 30

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    My father accepts me for my sexuality. He has since the start more over the fact he was aware from tiny hints since I was young.. I understand why he wants me a bit cautious...
    romeo27 romeo27 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    I came home find my husband watching a movie in the dark with his daughters 15 yr old best friend with one cushion in between them. This picture was on her page and he liked it.
    kreativebelle kreativebelle 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 5

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    I was 17, and my twin sister was at a volleyball camp. Normally my parents are ok leaving me with my twin sister and my at the time 12 and 8 year old sister, but without her, they...
    Carlsoncarly Carlsoncarly 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    We were really close a while back but now it seems like we're just drifting away. Well. It seems like I'm drifting away from them. I hate being alone so knowing this makes me...
    musicislifeandlove musicislifeandlove 13-15, F Aug 23

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    It's not okay, no matter the circumstance. By cheating you betray the person who you supposedly "love" and throw away their trust. It is a horrible and despicable thing to do...
    VoraciousTurtles VoraciousTurtles 16-17, F Aug 20

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    I love my mom and i care for her but its getting bad with her. I've dealt with her having a nervous break down and she killed my cat when i was a child. At that age i didn't know...
    yuna86 yuna86 26-30, F Sep 5

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    Dear ----, I am writing to express my confused feelings about our relationship. I know we have gone through a lot in the past two years and we have both felt like there was no...
    ILoveYouVeryMuch ILoveYouVeryMuch 18-21, F Aug 18

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    I have a friend, who I will call Melissa (not her real name) who has more than her share of challenges in life. I have known her most of my life as we attended the same grade...
    ginger1979 ginger1979 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I was about 13.. I had this friend who I was hanging out with on a parking garage, he said he would jump if I left him too go home, I had too be home. When I got home he called me...
    TaylorRenee14 TaylorRenee14 16-17, F Aug 30

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    [Somewhere at a Whole Foods] Kanye: Pardon me sir, would you have pumpkin? Whole Foods Drone: (hands Kanye a pumpkin) here. Kanye: No no NO! PUMPKIN! It's a type of SPICE!
    tenente tenente 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    I'm like Alice from Alice in wonderland, i often day dream and I also identify myself with Ariel from the little mermaid, i know this sounds corny but all Ariel wanted was to have...
    zooniverse zooniverse 22-25, F Aug 23

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    I know for a fact that I could never have someone who I believe is extremely beautiful. So, I settled for just anyone who could make me happy. I just wish she knew that if I do...
    heisjessica4372 heisjessica4372 31-35, M Sep 4

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    When i was a kid i had teenage babysitters so when i became a teen i expected not to have babysitters. WRONG! My mom worked or went out most nights and left me with babysitters...
    Cleancut Cleancut 41-45 2 Responses a week ago

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    Recently my 13 yr old daughter has started becoming obsessed with 'Teenager Post'. Anyone else have teens who are obsessed with these posts?
    JoMumOfFour JoMumOfFour 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    you can go thru life second guessing and wondering this or that. The problem with that is, you'll never be truly happy with what you've already done or have. It's good to strive...
    Rc831 Rc831 51-55, M Aug 19

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    About 4 years ago I went to my GP with an annoying pain in my left side. I was sent for an xray which showed small ovarian cysts. I told the GP I didnt think this was the cause of...
    mrsminxster mrsminxster 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    "I don't understand you always get what you want so why are you like this." But what I said in my head made it hard to breathe because it was the truth. "I want him to stay, but...
    Augustends Augustends 16-17, F Aug 26

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    I am 20 years old and I don't have my license or permit. Usually when people turn 16 they are so set on driving and get their permit and license right away. I am not in any kind of...
    Samhopexo Samhopexo 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    I hate being one of those girls but it seems I always have someone who has my interest. And they are usually unavailable which is worse.
    CeeAirAHH CeeAirAHH 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I started regularly weekly therapy 5 years ago after a lifetime of severe trauma. I was immediately diagnosed with BPD. Actually, I was pretty thrilled to know there was a real...
    AlleywayGospel AlleywayGospel 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    There is no reason (save one that I can think of) that would excuse cheating. Not one. It is very selfish to simply go out, sleep around, then go home and expect your wife/husband...
    VainGoddess VainGoddess 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Update! There's hope guys - don't settle! Last time I posted it had been only one month since being cheated on - and I was a mess. Only thing I was sure of is that there was no way...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    About three years ago, my ex girlfriend cheated on me with three other men, and then did the same years later with an emo Australian. She then started dating my friends and cheated...
    austinmmyers1994 austinmmyers1994 18-21, M Aug 24

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    I have been cheated on more than a couple times, my latest ex cheated on me but is now texting me all the time.part of me feels like hey karma is a ***** because he says the new...
    LoudMouse LoudMouse 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    gifts been given by both party and presented by a 3rd party (your Father gave you his restored antique vehicle)What when there is a lawyer lien submitted While using the divorce...
    Diana63by Diana63by 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 7

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    My husband cheated on me online. He never met the woman but many of their conversations were very heart felt and emotional. He even asked her to marry him twice. (he claims he was...
    hasinalady hasinalady 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    I cheated on my ex husband with a childhood boyfriend who has a habit of coming in and out of my life. He was my first kiss and a few other firsts... We did it at the bottle shop...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I have been dating my boyfriend for two years now. He just told me a month ago he cheated on me two times, and when he was away at college, was someone else. Whenever I visited him...
    grey9 grey9 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 3

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    Last night was our monthly Retrouvaille support group (called CORE) for marriage meeting. Summary, for anyone new to this part of EP, we are over a year since I discovered his...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    I'm writing this because I am stuck in a situation I can't discuss with my wife or friends, nor the woman I have fallen back in love with. I just need to get this off my chest as...
    Tryingtobefriends Tryingtobefriends 41-45, M 11 Responses Sep 3

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    So this is actually a 2nd crazy girlfriend story, the first one in on my profile, but you can just read this one. So, afew years ago in high school I dated a girl, little bit older...
    Travjack21 Travjack21 18-21, M Sep 3

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    Well I used to date someone and recently i found out that he cheated on me with my bestfriend. My bestfriend turn him down and he came back for me.. And I found out that he asked...
    NynnaDavis NynnaDavis 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    We had been together nearly two years when I found out he cheated. He admitted what he done but lied about the whole truth which I found out later, it was a one time thing. He's my...
    karennxx karennxx 18-21, F Aug 31

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