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I Have a Spouse Who Cheated On Me

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    Can'T Shut My Brain Off!!

    I will just tell the short side of this story :) My fiancé and I have been together for almost 3 years we have been through ALOT! In the beginning he had a drinking problem we worked through it we moved out of town and started "over" we decided to her pregnant and have a baby...
    crazybipolargirl crazybipolargirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Pain...

    He cheated in 2003. We rebuilt and got married in 2005. He cheated again in 2007. We rebuilt and had our children in 2008 and 2010. The woman from 2007 came back in 2011. We tried marriage counseling. We separated about a month ago. Everyone wants to tell me how to handle...
    Jgizmo Jgizmo 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    Toxic Betrayal

    My heart is heavy with sorrow, it's weight paralyzes my inner being . I am drowning in My tears.
    ErzulieTears ErzulieTears 41-45, F Mar 13, 2013

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    Why Did This Happen To Me?

    i was the lady at the lunch table that always said her husband would never cheat. he wasnt raised that way. boy was i naive....i found out 2 months ago that my husband had cheated on me. i feel like every morning i wake up i relive that it is really true all over again. its a...
    bulldogsmom bulldogsmom 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    When Will It Go Away?

    My wife cheated on me. Her relationship with him has been over for a year now. Well not quite a year.  It was almost 2 years ago since I found out about it. 2 years and I can't stop thinking about her being with him. It was 21 months ago she stopped being intimate with...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 1 Response Oct 26, 2010

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    My Wife Had An Affair Before We Were Married But Just Confessed

    Ok...here goes. The story that I can't let go. We'll start with some background. I have been married now for just over 3 years to who I feel is the "love of my life" "soul mate"....call it what you will. We were together about 10 years prior to making it official. The wait...
    cj71 cj71 41-45, M 5 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    Does It Get Better?

    This is a little self indulgent, maybe that's not the right word, basically I needed to put "pen" to paper to get a few things out that have been eating at me and put them down here. It probably doesn't flow too well and the thoughts may seem like a shattered window with no...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 1 Response Mar 10, 2010

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    Feels Like A Long Road Ahead

    hello,husband "emotionally" cheated on me @ 3yrs ago with co-worker/former boss for well over a year~we have 4 children~the main reason i've not yet left the marriage as i'm a child of divorce myself. i thought i've done all the work i needed to do on myself to help us move...
    neverexpectedthis neverexpectedthis 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 27, 2012

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    Confidence

    So, I'm tired of being a whiny, little *****. This is not me. This crying and being depressed, it's very unnatural. Not gonna lie, it's still there, but I'm done letting it take over. I am at least 10x the woman she is. Always have been, always will be. She can't even come...
    Jgizmo Jgizmo 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    Cheating Wife

    I am a truck driver. I married my highschool sweet heart, the love of my life. My wife helped bring me closer to God and taught me what salvation truly was. We went on Missions trips together & we were planning  on going into ministry together. My wife had not...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 2 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    Life Goes On

    It is now November 2013 and what has changed you ask? I will need to backtrack some to let you know that my wife hurt her back last year after my post. The pain and back damage was in the same area that mine have been all these years. The doctor told her that he could fix her...
    Tebb4407 Tebb4407 61-65, M Nov 18, 2013

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    My wife is in her late 30s and has always been morbidly obese. She had always been comfortable with and accepting of her weight. When we got together 16 years ago she was 5'0...
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    Idk why, some just drifted away. zI tried my best to be nice snd friendly to the butI guess they just wanted a better person for them. I miss some terribly. The ones that mattered...
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    Yesssss. For decades. Some cant help. Most try. Why souwysiedal. Society aint run by them.
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    Okay so my dad had cancer, and we can't do anything about it. My mom tries her best to make him feel better or tries to serve him good food that his stomach can take, which is not...
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    You might think that people may hate you but deep in someone's heart is a secret lock that one day you will open it up
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    So I've had a flurry of angry messages about how horrible I am because I don't sext since I feel it's cheating. Some of them are saying how it's judging cheating and cheaters and...
    TheWomanYouHate TheWomanYouHate 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have a lot of internal conflicts. I am constantly blaming myself as to why certain things have happened to me in my life. I have secretly dealt with depression and self harm my...
    ImAWorkInProgress ImAWorkInProgress 16-17, F Jul 22

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    It is another lonely night.In this chaos that i am living i would really hope to have someone who could understand me and help me to move on. I came across with that song from...
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    YOU DESERVE TO HAVE SOMEONE Who Will Marry you and Love You forever. Who Will Worry and Care about You. Someone to Love You and Pamper You. Someone to Put You at the Center of the...
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    I work graveyard shift as a caregiver in a facility with people who have lost most of what makes them human and are at the end of their lives. I'm lonely although I have friends...
    FGB4 FGB4 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 5

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    I will try to help anyone who needs help, but assuming something in my possession belongs to you is wrong. Especially pain pills. I only have them when I am in pain. I don't take...
    reelman4372 reelman4372 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    at times, i may not know how to comfort people. but i have friends who arent there for me when i need them, so id want to be the friend that is there when someone needs a person to...
    mellowmisfit mellowmisfit 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    I'm 17. I love a girl who I work with that is 19. She is engaged. It's sad that I just met her last month and already feel this way. But she doesn't know and will probably never...
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    Cryingsmile Cryingsmile 16-17, T 2 Responses a week ago

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    Does anyone else feel like some days they don't have BPD? You go through a stint of feeling almost ok? Almost normal? Of course it isn't true, but you can pass it off in public? Or...
    Serenity14 Serenity14 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    The tittle say been told and not expressed as that is what i miss... I always have girls who say i love you and i open my heart to them and give my own heart key to each... Then i...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M Jul 14

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    I am an only child who was told in my early twenties that my mom had a baby when she was 19 and gave him up for adoption. She decided to tell me because she was looking for him...
    Sparkle20 Sparkle20 41-45, F Jul 17

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    4 months I had rotator cuff surgery with a full recovery expected. Needless to say after several phydical therapy tratments and pain meds I had little to no relief. Finally after...
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    I'm just a naturally quiet person. I don't have a lot of friends because in the past I have been hurt by people. A lot of times I have been brave enough to be open and keep it real...
    genuine94 genuine94 18-21, F Jul 2

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    I have the whole world on my back
    AngelZane224 AngelZane224 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    I'm feeling a little out of control today. Like things are moving too fast and I'm unable to do anything about it. This feeling became clear to me when I met an old friend of mine...
    TooLateForEdelweiss TooLateForEdelweiss 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I get an odd sense of accomplishment that I have friends who have never seen me with my natural hair color.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I didn't think it would ever be me. You hear stories about other people being cheated on, but you don't think it'll ever be you. 8 months ago my first relationship ended, of over a...
    ForBetterOrForWorse ForBetterOrForWorse 16-17, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Jul 21

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    So I've never been in like a real relationship before just open relationships. So I'm not used to being loyal. But I found this guy, tho he is younger than me & I fell head over...
    SapphireR SapphireR 16-17, F 7 hrs ago

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