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I Have a Spouse Who Cheated On Me

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    Toxic Betrayal - My heart is heavy with sorrow, it's weight paralyzes my inner being . I am drowning in My tears.
    ErzulieTears ErzulieTears 41-45, F Mar 13, 2013

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    Confidence - So, I'm tired of being a whiny, little *****. This is not me. This crying and being depressed, it's very unnatural. Not gonna lie, it's still there, but I'm done...
    Jgizmo Jgizmo 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    Does It Get Better? - This is a little self indulgent, maybe that's not the right word, basically I needed to put "pen" to paper to get a few things out that have been eating at...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 1 Response Mar 10, 2010

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    When Will It Go Away? - My wife cheated on me. Her relationship with him has been over for a year now. Well not quite a year.  It was almost 2 years ago since I found out...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 1 Response Oct 26, 2010

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    Feels Like A Long Road Ahead - hello,husband "emotionally" cheated on me @ 3yrs ago with co-worker/former boss for well over a year~we have 4 children~the main reason i've not yet...
    neverexpectedthis neverexpectedthis 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 27, 2012

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    Cheating Wife - I am a truck driver. I married my highschool sweet heart, the love of my life. My wife helped bring me closer to God and taught me what salvation truly was. We...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 2 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    Pain... - He cheated in 2003. We rebuilt and got married in 2005. He cheated again in 2007. We rebuilt and had our children in 2008 and 2010. The woman from 2007 came back in 2...
    Jgizmo Jgizmo 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    Why Did This Happen To Me? - i was the lady at the lunch table that always said her husband would never cheat. he wasnt raised that way. boy was i naive....i found out 2 months ago...
    bulldogsmom bulldogsmom 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    Life Goes On - It is now November 2013 and what has changed you ask? I will need to backtrack some to let you know that my wife hurt her back last year after my post. The pain and...
    Tebb4407 Tebb4407 61-65, M Nov 18, 2013

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    My Wife Had An Affair Before We Were Married But Just Confessed - Ok...here goes. The story that I can't let go. We'll start with some background. I have been married now for...
    cj71 cj71 41-45, M 6 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    Can'T Shut My Brain Off!! - I will just tell the short side of this story :) My fiancé and I have been together for almost 3 years we have been through ALOT! In the beginning he...
    crazybipolargirl crazybipolargirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Im really sorry to hear what u hve been through but what can u do about these conning men that do this it shouldnt be allowed the law must change and stricter rules should be...
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    This girl was my best friend from sixth grade to sophomore year of high school. I moved my junior year and she never even bothered to call, write, text. I was so confused and...
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    Yep and they're mostly from my previous forum. Funny cause I used to think they're better than my friends who can actually see me in person. They understand me, at least I think...
    kixisback kixisback 22-25 1 Response Apr 6

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    I guess it's my fault. I moved around a lot as a kid and found it difficult to make friends, especially being a socially awkward ISTJ. I was never the popular "New Kid" or...
    NekroNomikon NekroNomikon 18-21, F Mar 23

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    I have a addiction to cokes I had 60$ for about a week know I only have left is 20 something all from cokes
    funnygirl32226 funnygirl32226 13-15, F Mar 27

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    my parents cause i got a job and cody diddent, cause cody has a kid on the way at ******* age 17!! think i should quit so he could have it its his fault he blew it not mine!! they...
    Darkpuppy550 Darkpuppy550 16-17, F Apr 6

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    I limit my friends to 2 or even just one because i know in the end,t he person would get bored because of me or doesnt even like me in the first place but became my friend to not...
    Amature14 Amature14 13-15, F Mar 18

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    I've been thinking when I turn 16 I'm going to divorce my parents
    funnygirl32226 funnygirl32226 13-15, F Mar 22

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    That's my destiny :) I'm proud :D
    00Wieme00 00Wieme00 16-17, F Mar 24

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    Maybe she will talk to me again, and maybe she wont. Im okay with it... I deserve it...
    nate2045 nate2045 18-21, T Apr 3

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    They made me understand what relationship is based on in reality and how important being independent is. I don't want to see it as all my fault anymore. I hate to dread myself from...
    Ssslm Ssslm 26-30, F Apr 4

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    Some times I think you're an ******* but I know you really aren't. I just feel like I'm annoying you, that's why I try not to text you. I just don't want you to leave me alone. I...
    bethepea bethepea 16-17, F Apr 4

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    Well I just blocked some of my family I hate to be like this but they caused this not me
    funnygirl32226 funnygirl32226 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    That explains my temper...lol
    nerdybabe nerdybabe 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    am looking for a man or women to take me an dress me up as a sissyboy so i can be set free live in lakeland fl have spouse who dosenot want me in a sex less marreg to help me all...
    eaglecry eaglecry 61-65, M 4 Responses Mar 26

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    A Decision I Made... Years Ago. To have and to hold from this day forward. Sept 15, 2001 on this date I informed my spouse and said "I was going to transition into a woman, many...
    Trisha60ts Trisha60ts 61-65, T 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I've been on this site now for a little while and am trying to create a support group for people who are working to cope with chronic pain in their spouse. This site would help...
    JustKeepSinging JustKeepSinging 26-30 Mar 31

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    Hello, this is my first experience on here. I wanted to share something that has lingered in my heart for a very long time till this very day. Most people think of cheating as an...
    halieghnicole halieghnicole 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    They are not human being , judging after their IQ i think they might be camels . Their life philoshophy is called Fashion .Their affection is called social gain , and their...
    ReversedLumiere ReversedLumiere 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    My best friend all through elementary recently moved away. She wasn't the kind of friend you talk to, though, she was just fun to be around. We had the same sense of silly, non...
    Marvilles Marvilles 13-15, F Mar 24

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    I thought I was happy with who I was, what I'm doing, how I'm doing it. But I suddenly feel, and quite arrogantly I admit, that I am more than what I have become. I may be 20 years...
    Ryanholmes20375 Ryanholmes20375 18-21, M Mar 24

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    It astounds me. I've given this a lot of thought. I've tried to decide if I'm just too needy or if I just choose the wrong people as friends. Of course, I'm very sensitive so...
    chastewhisperer chastewhisperer 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    Seriously ... I took 1mg xanax earlier. Have now been drinking. Considering taking the other 25mg xanax and killing the rest of the booze with hopes of not waking up. INB4 so...
    Kolakona Kolakona 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    Today I have the whole house to myself with no one it! So I get to dress up like a girl completely! just uploaded more pics go check them out!
    mrman77 mrman77 22-25, M 4 Responses Apr 4

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    My boyfriend went to jail a few days ago for CDV aggravated nature. He punched me in the mouth with his fist and then threw a 3 blade knife towards me. He got a 15 thousand dollar...
    mariepugh1961 mariepugh1961 51-55, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I know with some people I worked with in my life might think I have autism. What I do know and what I have documented that I have a language based learning disability. The talk...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    I'm 26 have a husband, a beautiful two year old & plenty of acquaintances and feel completely alone. I've always had few friends and felt like the odd one out growing up. Seemed to...
    prayforpeace87 prayforpeace87 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I've written about this before, but now it's more final. I had a boyfriend for a little over a year, and he was gone basically in a day. I know that we were going to be apart...
    NorthernWindFeather NorthernWindFeather 18-21, F 12 Responses a week ago

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    I met an amazingly sweet sweet person. I have problems who doesn't, and I feel like I am worthless and annoying. This person has helped me so much I don't know how I could ever...
    paciboy1418 paciboy1418 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Is it worse to have parents who don't even acknowledge your experience or to have parents who shoot you down with hurtful words with anything you do?
    Celstie Celstie 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't have anyone who i feel is truly my friend, but i will stay optimistic cause i believe that every one definitely has that one friend they can be with and i wait till that...
    xMisty xMisty 13-15 1 Response Mar 23

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    Its a part of myself I'm not proud of. I started when I was fifteen. It's a sort of release, granted its not a good thing. I haven't in a long time but when things get bad I think...
    dixiecrystal1 dixiecrystal1 18-21, F Mar 31

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    7 and counting. I kind of have a half sleeve on my right arm with my name down each forearm first and last. I have a tattoo going down my ribs from nipple to hip, its my middle...
    DiosesOscuros DiosesOscuros 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I've had Fibromyalgia for over 20 years... I'm in pain all the time and I have a daughter with it too and also a disease called POTS. Does anyone have kids who are suffering along...
    dfeiner dfeiner 41-45, F Apr 1

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    I am an introvert, so I've never understood the point of having more than two or three friends. I never quite understood how a person could have dozens of friends and spend time...
    BohemianHippy BohemianHippy 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I'm tired of this and I want to get better. Anyone else with me? I found this in depth self help manual online and I'm going to give it a shot. I was wondering if anyone else wants...
    femmefatality femmefatality 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    We spoke the other day. Well, you talked while I cried and listened and was at a loss for words. Well, the words are here now. And even though I know the chances of you seeing this...
    stayingstrongtoday stayingstrongtoday 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    My husband has been drinking every single day for the last 17 years. I can count on one hand the number of days he has gone without drinking in the last 10 years. Two months ago I...
    MrsElizabeth MrsElizabeth 31-35, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago