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I Have a Spouse Who Cheated On Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 99 People

    Feels Like A Long Road Ahead

    hello,husband "emotionally" cheated on me @ 3yrs ago with co-worker/former boss for well over a year~we have 4 children~the main reason i've not yet left the marriage as i'm a child of divorce myself. i thought i've done all the work i needed to do on myself to help us move...
    neverexpectedthis neverexpectedthis 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 27, 2012

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    Confidence

    So, I'm tired of being a whiny, little *****. This is not me. This crying and being depressed, it's very unnatural. Not gonna lie, it's still there, but I'm done letting it take over. I am at least 10x the woman she is. Always have been, always will be. She can't even come...
    Jgizmo Jgizmo 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    When Will It Go Away?

    My wife cheated on me. Her relationship with him has been over for a year now. Well not quite a year.  It was almost 2 years ago since I found out about it. 2 years and I can't stop thinking about her being with him. It was 21 months ago she stopped being intimate with...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 1 Response Oct 26, 2010

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    Cheating Wife

    I am a truck driver. I married my highschool sweet heart, the love of my life. My wife helped bring me closer to God and taught me what salvation truly was. We went on Missions trips together & we were planning  on going into ministry together. My wife had not...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 2 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    Can'T Shut My Brain Off!!

    I will just tell the short side of this story :) My fiancé and I have been together for almost 3 years we have been through ALOT! In the beginning he had a drinking problem we worked through it we moved out of town and started "over" we decided to her pregnant and have a baby...
    crazybipolargirl crazybipolargirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Toxic Betrayal

    My heart is heavy with sorrow, it's weight paralyzes my inner being . I am drowning in My tears.
    ErzulieTears ErzulieTears 46-50, F Mar 13, 2013

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    Why Did This Happen To Me?

    i was the lady at the lunch table that always said her husband would never cheat. he wasnt raised that way. boy was i naive....i found out 2 months ago that my husband had cheated on me. i feel like every morning i wake up i relive that it is really true all over again. its a...
    bulldogsmom bulldogsmom 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    My Wife Had An Affair Before We Were Married But Just Confessed

    Ok...here goes. The story that I can't let go. We'll start with some background. I have been married now for just over 3 years to who I feel is the "love of my life" "soul mate"....call it what you will. We were together about 10 years prior to making it official. The wait...
    cj71 cj71 41-45, M 5 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    Life Goes On

    It is now November 2013 and what has changed you ask? I will need to backtrack some to let you know that my wife hurt her back last year after my post. The pain and back damage was in the same area that mine have been all these years. The doctor told her that he could fix her...
    Tebb4407 Tebb4407 61-65, M Nov 18, 2013

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    Pain...

    He cheated in 2003. We rebuilt and got married in 2005. He cheated again in 2007. We rebuilt and had our children in 2008 and 2010. The woman from 2007 came back in 2011. We tried marriage counseling. We separated about a month ago. Everyone wants to tell me how to handle...
    Jgizmo Jgizmo 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    Does It Get Better?

    This is a little self indulgent, maybe that's not the right word, basically I needed to put "pen" to paper to get a few things out that have been eating at me and put them down here. It probably doesn't flow too well and the thoughts may seem like a shattered window with no...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 1 Response Mar 10, 2010

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    I'm going through some doubts, and it's making me very depressed. My husband has gone on bupe and sleeps most of the time. He's also picked up smoking so being near him is...
    rivers0ng rivers0ng 31-35, F 2 hrs ago

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    I have and am currently cheating on my husband for the affection. My husband and I still have sex semi-regularly, but I can't remember the last time he kissed me with any passion...
    MrsStrangeLust MrsStrangeLust 41-45 8 hrs ago

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    Not on my boyfriend but, on my ex husband and basically every long-term relationship I've had....I felt justified each time. I was married once before to an alcoholic. He would...
    simplysusan01 simplysusan01 41-45, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    When I was younger I was totally knew who I was as a person, I knew what I wanted and what I liked. But the older Im not so sure anymore. I feel like as an 'adult' I have to be...
    SunriseSammie SunriseSammie 22-25, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I just turned 22. Fairly attractive, but I have no friends. All the ones I did have ended up being selfish, jealous and backstabbers. My life is pretty boring. It's hard finding...
    thestarsarealigned thestarsarealigned 22-25, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    SORT of.. .
    cashetty69 cashetty69 51-55, M 16 hrs ago

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    I wonder if we have this whole "men are the hunters, women are the gatherers" thing reversed. Look at the design of the penis and how it flops about when men chase. The vagina is...
    DrLizzyFreud DrLizzyFreud 26-30, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I think their afraid of what's going to happen to them. But to tell you the truth, it still ****** me off. Since none of the friends I have ever respond to rude comments they get...
    Eninferno Eninferno 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I wish things would've worked out. I see people and wish i have someone who will love me just as much as i love him, who will appreciate and understand me. Someone who will give...
    CrystalSekhmet CrystalSekhmet 22-25 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have to say, that this has been an extremely long road. My husband has Asperger's. We didn't know, we had a pretty normal life for the first two years or so. After we had a...
    DeeDoo1 DeeDoo1 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    Everything always ends well. If not – it's probably not the end.
    seniordingdong seniordingdong 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    He was an Engineer, workaholic and led a routine family life.Finally the wife decided to say, "I want a divorce". She's bored of their married life.He paused for a while then asked...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Wishy washy! I am not going to even worry about EP neither anyone else for that matter with mood swings!
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Horrid mother in law who I have been tolerating for the past 17.5 years thinking (oh so futilely), she'll realise I'm a good person..no no no. She was horrid before I got married...
    cansomeonemakemymildisappear cansomeonemakemymildisappear 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    I met this Italian lady (29 now) 2 years ago when visiting a friend. We were both struck by lightning and fell in love with each other though we did not mention it at the time. She...
    DutchDaniel DutchDaniel 26-30, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am the baby at 46. My parents have children from previous marriages so all of my siblings (6 total, 3 sisters, 3 brothers) are half. They are considerably older than me, were...
    blondenhazel blondenhazel 46-50, F 4 days ago

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    My wife cheated on me while I was deployed 3 years ago (she came clean while I was deployed). We've stayed together (kids), but the lack of trust is very tangible. Rarely does a...
    RubixLube RubixLube 26-30, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Would love to see my wife have sex w another man and or woman..would enjoy chatting w others who've had success w their spouses having sex w others
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've got a pretty heavy prescription, too. I'm nearsighted so without my glasses I may as well be blind. In fact, I have friends who are nearsighted and even some of them say that...
    ArtieParty39 ArtieParty39 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I've lost my way, forgotten who i was, i only know what i am now, and i am now someone who is bitter, guarded, and angry at the world
    shatteredglass378 shatteredglass378 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    so true, me too .
    cashetty69 cashetty69 51-55, M 6 days ago

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    My spouse use the Experience Project to cheat on me.
    maxfischerplayer maxfischerplayer 46-50, M 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I never knew what it felt like til I lost my precious baby almost a year ago. It still hurts me today. Time doesn't heal all. A parent should NEVER have to bury a child. I find...
    Photogirl685 Photogirl685 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I made a huge mistake when I didn't give an ultimatum when I found out about my wife's emotional affair.
    Niceguy6 Niceguy6 51-55, M 6 days ago

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    I had a friend who moved away in fourth grade. She's been gone for over three years now. She had to move to Singapore(we both lived In Alabama) because her dad got a job over there...
    cheatahboo cheatahboo 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    how is it with someone with aspergers syndrome? I have it. I had one serious relationship. I wonder if its very miserable being with me. since she cheated and my other short...
    kittyanthony kittyanthony 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    When you can't let go and just trust people, you lose them.
    MeIncarnated MeIncarnated 70+, M Aug 28

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    The most recent was an EP friend I thought. Only to learn that they were really not tuned in to our friendship like I was. My big mistake I confess it was my fault. The world can...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F Aug 27

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    Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted.
    seniordingdong seniordingdong 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 27

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    I want to be accepted as myself. I'm mute and wear diapers 24/7. I think I might be gay.
    tylerlovesdisposablediapers tylerlovesdisposablediapers 16-17, M Aug 27

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    I met a the love of my life when I moved on my own to Miami at 17 . He was a party boy just like me and in the beginning I didn't even like him very much I thought he was ugly. We...
    Miranda187 Miranda187 18-21, F Aug 26