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I Have a Spouse Who Cheated On Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 110 People

    Confidence

    So, I'm tired of being a whiny, little *****. This is not me. This crying and being depressed, it's very unnatural. Not gonna lie, it's still there, but I'm done letting it take over. I am at least 10x the woman she is. Always have been, always will be. She can't even come...
    Jgizmo Jgizmo 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    Can'T Shut My Brain Off!!

    I will just tell the short side of this story :) My fiancé and I have been together for almost 3 years we have been through ALOT! In the beginning he had a drinking problem we worked through it we moved out of town and started "over" we decided to her pregnant and have a baby...
    crazybipolargirl crazybipolargirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    When Will It Go Away?

    My wife cheated on me. Her relationship with him has been over for a year now. Well not quite a year.  It was almost 2 years ago since I found out about it. 2 years and I can't stop thinking about her being with him. It was 21 months ago she stopped being intimate with...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 1 Response Oct 26, 2010

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    Cheating Wife

    I am a truck driver. I married my highschool sweet heart, the love of my life. My wife helped bring me closer to God and taught me what salvation truly was. We went on Missions trips together & we were planning  on going into ministry together. My wife had not...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 2 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    Pain...

    He cheated in 2003. We rebuilt and got married in 2005. He cheated again in 2007. We rebuilt and had our children in 2008 and 2010. The woman from 2007 came back in 2011. We tried marriage counseling. We separated about a month ago. Everyone wants to tell me how to handle...
    Jgizmo Jgizmo 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    my ex wife slept with 25 guys

    and 13 girls over the course of our last month together. I know it was at least that many because my lawyer hired a detective to follow her.
    Ruadon Ruadon 36-40, M 4 Responses Jan 13

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    Toxic Betrayal

    My heart is heavy with sorrow, it's weight paralyzes my inner being . I am drowning in My tears.
    ErzulieTears ErzulieTears 46-50, F Mar 13, 2013

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    Why Did This Happen To Me?

    i was the lady at the lunch table that always said her husband would never cheat. he wasnt raised that way. boy was i naive....i found out 2 months ago that my husband had cheated on me. i feel like every morning i wake up i relive that it is really true all over again. its a...
    bulldogsmom bulldogsmom 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    Does It Get Better?

    This is a little self indulgent, maybe that's not the right word, basically I needed to put "pen" to paper to get a few things out that have been eating at me and put them down here. It probably doesn't flow too well and the thoughts may seem like a shattered window with no...
    JackDempsey JackDempsey 26-30 1 Response Mar 10, 2010

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    My Wife Had An Affair Before We Were Married But Just Confessed

    Ok...here goes. The story that I can't let go. We'll start with some background. I have been married now for just over 3 years to who I feel is the "love of my life" "soul mate"....call it what you will. We were together about 10 years prior to making it official. The wait...
    cj71 cj71 41-45, M 5 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    Life Goes On

    It is now November 2013 and what has changed you ask? I will need to backtrack some to let you know that my wife hurt her back last year after my post. The pain and back damage was in the same area that mine have been all these years. The doctor told her that he could fix her...
    Tebb4407 Tebb4407 61-65, M Nov 18, 2013

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    Feels Like A Long Road Ahead

    hello,husband "emotionally" cheated on me @ 3yrs ago with co-worker/former boss for well over a year~we have 4 children~the main reason i've not yet left the marriage as i'm a child of divorce myself. i thought i've done all the work i needed to do on myself to help us move...
    neverexpectedthis neverexpectedthis 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 27, 2012

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    LOST ... need help plz, I'm ashamed and I hate seeing him hurt. We have been married for 8 faithful years. I have been unhappy with him for awhile. He has had 7 knee surgerys in 3...
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    Two days ago was our one year anniversary and four days ago, the day after my birthday, I finally left. After being beaten, lied to about everything, cheated on, and manipulated...
    ashespain ashespain 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I just came back from the repair shoppe to get my iPad. My stranger for a Mother or one of her boyfriend's family members most likely broke it while I was having seizures. It...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 8 hrs ago

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    In my youth I was arrogant ,reckless, and ignorant. I acted solely to help only myself and I didn't see the truth because I did not wish to see. I did things I wasn't proud of...
    SladeTheLegend SladeTheLegend 18-21, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Hello. I'm new here. I found this great forum while searching for "how to handle a bipolar spouse" I noticed a lot of other people deal with this and could really use the support...
    Tjm1919 Tjm1919 26-30, F 9 hrs ago

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    I am devastated my wife of 37 years told me she does not love me and I irritate her. She is planning on leaving. I am heartbroken. I have no family of my own only hers and my...
    myfanwy1uk myfanwy1uk 61-65, M 8 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    After experiencing a year of university, I have broadened my perspective and social circle a lot more. It's made me realise many things; several things being some people will never...
    turtlemonster turtlemonster 18-21, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and 5 months, and I recently found out he cheated on me 4 years ago. Four years ago, I was at his house at night and his phone rang. He...
    MoxieLioness MoxieLioness 22-25, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    RememberTomorrow RememberTomorrow 31-35, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    It is only recently that I truly understand what a partner is, what it means to have someone who makes you more than you are simply by being by your side. Legitimately your better...
    foolishwiseguy foolishwiseguy 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    hello...i don't know where to post this exactly, sorry if it ends up in the wrong category/group. i have a situation that i cannot discuss with anyone, but i need some feedback...
    mommajllc mommajllc 36-40, F 21 Responses 4 days ago

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    hello...i don't know where to post this exactly, sorry if it ends up in the wrong category/group. i have a situation that i cannot discuss with anyone, but i need some feedback...
    mommajllc mommajllc 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    I went on Big Brother (a reality show) last year it was so fun!!! Now I am actually a somebody who people know and care about. I have people who look up to me. It was such a great...
    PSOM PSOM 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    Hi there. When I was younger I was weak, scared, and I let people pick on me. I used to think that I'd always be that way.. But I've changed. I am now very strong and I protect the...
    CandyHeart123 CandyHeart123 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I really do not understand cheating either as I have been happy with the same beautiful lady for the past 21 years. I have not had any urges to find another or have more than one...
    cpguy cpguy 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    If i dont remember wrong the percentage of women who cheated were higher Than men, atleast in america.
    darkspiritwolf darkspiritwolf 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    We both Hurt each other in different ways. Very bad... I feel responsible for everything, but I know everyone is responsible for their own decisions, including what we put in our...
    Starkizzed21 Starkizzed21 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I want some advise as my husband cheated on me after our engagement February 2015 and after our marriage September 2015. We are couple from 2005 until 2015 and all in all 10...
    AshleyFaith AshleyFaith 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I love my wife dearly. On many levels, she and I are perfect for one another. Since I found her, I don't even see other women the same way that I used to.That being said, I have a...
    Stepdadoutside Stepdadoutside 36-40, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    [x]Smoked A Cigarette [x] Smoked A Cigar [x] Kissed A Member Of The Same Sex [x] Are / Been In Love [x] Dumped someone [] Been Fired [x] Been In A Fist Fight [x] Had A Crush On An...
    xxladyjadedxx xxladyjadedxx 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    And i realize some will never get answers.
    Treasure7 Treasure7 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    I wonder if all those times he kept the toilet seat up on purpose?
    Treasure7 Treasure7 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    NyxInvictus NyxInvictus 41-45 Jan 29

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