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I Have a Std

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 73 People

    Ashamed For Life

    When I was raped at 17, I contracted Herpes.Now, I am 31. I want to be encouraging for others, yet no one really understands. Anytime I have to tell someone I have Herpes, it is so painful. When do you tell? You want to be upfront, but you don't want to ruin anything. I'm a...
    Whatever4ever Whatever4ever 31-35, F 6 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    Just Try To Forget And Be Positive

    I was tested positive 6 months ago. I was so sad and anxiety about this. And I felt be cheated. Because my bf, I only had him in my sex life. I cried three days and shouted to him. We broke up at last. I felt so sad and all the things in my life changed. I moved to a new place...
    leslovingJenny leslovingJenny 31-35, F Jul 31, 2013

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    Chlamydia .

    I have been in a long term relationship with the love of my life. I'm so scared to tell him. I cheated on him several times with another man, whom I always had unprotected sex with. This another man made me feel good about myself. I even believed I loved him. I would constantly...
    opiates opiates 22-25 4 Responses Jul 27, 2013

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    My Ex Gave Me Std...and I Still Love Him

    I recently had myself checked and found out that i had a minor STD. I believe I had gotten it from my ex boyfriend from two years ago. While I had been intimate with another man, I am certain I had never slept with anyone after my ex. This ex of mine is still present in my life...
    isabellabiatta isabellabiatta 26-30, F 3 Responses May 12, 2012

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    Love And Batrayal

    I met the most amazing man in my life few years ago. It started with us being friends and before we knew it we got attached and became lovers. We were together for few years until I noticed something funny. I went for a check up and little did I know that I got STD. I talked to...
    pyara9 pyara9 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 4, 2012

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    Where I Am Now

    I lost my viringity to my ex boyfriend 5 months ago. I thought we were in love but we werent. He treated me bad, never wanted me around, talked to me maybe 3 times a week but for like 30 mins at night. I was never first. I stood by him while he was in jail and had no one else. I...
    Vinyl123 Vinyl123 22-25 3 Responses Jul 17, 2013

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    I Just Test Positive

    I just found out I was HSV 1 months ago. I had cried two days when I knew the result. I had a boyfriend and we found out I had HIV a month into our relationship.We broke up 2 days ago and now I feel like my life is spiraling out of control . He was the one that made me feel ok...
    JOJOLOVE6 JOJOLOVE6 26-30, F Jul 29, 2013

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    Dated the Wrong Guy

    I have never been promiscious, but when I just turned 19 years old I started dating a 28 year old man and sure enough I got HPV and stuck with him for three years because if it, he cheated on me and gave me HSV and after that and all of the physical abuse I just had to cut...
    celestialsun celestialsun 22-25, F 1 Response May 13, 2009

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    Don't Wait Til They Find Out.. Its Worse

    He left me.  Im still crying.  I think I have genital warts.. They aren't bad.. gross or nothing.. just looks like a few skin tags down there... I noticed in January... a gift from my ex.. i was in monogomous relationships forever... so protection wasn't ever on my mind... my...
    kmhabbl kmhabbl 26-30 1 Response Dec 22, 2011

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    My Ex Gave Me A STD - Looking For Advice On How To Tell A New Partner

    My ex and I got tested before becoming sexually active. Both of us were clean, but I ended up contracting genital herpes (HSV2) from him performing oral sex on me (asymptomatic shedding from cold sores - HSV1). I was devastated, and my ex harbored a lot of guilt for infecting me...
    crimsonanimal crimsonanimal 31-35, F 8 Responses Mar 20, 2013

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    Sex Is A Problem For Me...

    Making good decisions on sex has always been an issue for me. I have had two STDs and one child. I could say that I am lucky because I haven't contracted anything that could not be cured and my child is by someone that I love.I feel very bad about myself at times because I have...
    wowed2x wowed2x 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    Don't Upset By Herpes

    I have lived with Herpes for about 3 months now. I was infected by my wife failed to tell me that she had herpes. I was told that it was something else that was not contagious and because i was clueless about herpes i could not tell her anything different. I left my...
    stdmary stdmary 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 6, 2012

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    What Do I Do And Who Do I Go To

    Im 14 and think I have hepatitis, I am not sure about this however and dont know how to approach it ,where or who to go toso any comments on the matter would be very helpful
    Novak123 Novak123 13-15 1 Response May 14, 2012

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    Share A Successful Story From Matchherpes.Com

    Back in January 2013 I was looking through profiles and noticed Mr.R's. I saw that he was looking for a woman who was a Christian and wanted a serious relationship that would eventually end up in marriage. Everything about him I already liked but alas, he lived in Seattle 3000...
    leslovingJenny leslovingJenny 31-35, F Aug 11, 2013

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    Another Chance To Find Your Love

    Find someone to share your STD experience and love. HSV-Dating.com dedicated to help connect people living with STD together. We could find someone in the same situation to talk with. People here will not be discriminated and rejected. This a private and comfortable place where...
    JOJOLOVE6 JOJOLOVE6 26-30, F Nov 16, 2013

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    You Would Guess How Wrong Today Has Been With My Happy Attitude ( Don't Read You Cant Handle Reading About Gross Things)

    So again for those who know my story today is a painful day. dealing with two different symptoms that being cramps and an outbreak . the pain is absolutely horrible. There is a constant shooting pain but damnit this will not ******* affect me mentally .. i just cant let it...
    mzahr06 mzahr06 16-17, F Dec 30, 2012

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    Help!!!

    i have hpv and i found out about a year ago that i had it. my doctor told me that i can get rid of it by keeping my immune system up. i also have been with this guy for 4 months and we are head over heels for each other. i have told him everything except that i have hpv. we are...
    peaceandlove18 peaceandlove18 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 4, 2011

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    I know I always give positive advice to people

    but this is consuming me at the moment, it really is...
    pinkladyyy pinkladyyy 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 4, 2014

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    I Just Find A Good Club For Support And Love.

    Dear brothers and sisters, I found that many of us are looking for support and love. I just share a good club with you. I found it very reliable, private, safe and comfortable. You could find love, support, friendship and more. Share it with all of you. http://hivsingles...
    leslovingJenny leslovingJenny 31-35, F Jun 25, 2013

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    I Have Hpv

    Yesterday I noticed what looked like skin tags on my genitals. I thought at first they were skin tags, because having skin tags in your groin is apparently normal, but this seemed suspicious. I am 19 and I have only had two sexual partners willingly in my entire life. I was...
    ptc92 ptc92 18-21 1 Response Aug 19, 2012

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    Yes....

    Today I watched, "She's too young" on life-time. What comes to mind, when I think of STD, is what was being said on that movie, that she is a ****. Well NO! I am not a ****. I have HPV. I was Diagnossed with it two years ago.     I have only willingily been with...
    xSilentlySufferingx xSilentlySufferingx 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 25, 2010

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    What Should I Do

    Im 16 & i have a HPV. I've had it scince 12. The broblem is i play sports but i allways have to PRAY that when i get a physical they dot find signs of it. My other problem is that im gay & that i would like to have sex with a boy. So i was wondering does any one know how...
    yme73 yme73 16-17, M 5 Responses Apr 29, 2009

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    Yes....

    Today I watched, "She's too young" on life-time. What comes to mind, when I think of STD, is what was being said on that movie, that she is a ****. Well NO! I am not a ****. I have HPV. I was Diagnossed with it two years ago.     I have only willingily been with...
    xSilentlySufferingx xSilentlySufferingx 18-21, F Apr 25, 2010

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    Diagnosed With HPV 2

    Have been suffering with pain and discomfort for over a week and half now. Went to the doctor and got my results today and the tests that I now have HPV 2. I'm not sure how I am suppose to feel and seem to be going thru so many emotions in regards to this. Wanting to speak to...
    T2486 T2486 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2013

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    Telling Your Partner: Keep Your Head Up

    Hey all, I know how hard it is to face an STI, I have been there. When I was 19, I was diagnosed with chlamydia that I unknowingly had from a previous relationship. I was with my boyfriend of 1.5 years at the time, and had to tell him. My heart was pounding in my chest as I...
    BelieveInLove7 BelieveInLove7 18-21 1 Response Apr 20, 2011

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    The world's leading online community for people living with Herpes (HSV-1, HSV-2) worldwide to seek love, friendship and support. MatchHerpes.com 15, 000+ daily active members...
    leslovingJenny leslovingJenny 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    I found out in Feb. I have genital warts. I was crushed. depressed it was horrible. noone will love me or wanna be with me its a hard thing to swallow. im going through treatments...
    lisalisa2064 lisalisa2064 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I know I do but been to ashamed to get them papers I feel ruined and l discusseded like why am I still alive guys say I'm sexy but if they only new I hate my self and think about...
    kaylynndabooty kaylynndabooty 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Awww...I think I have to delete myself from this group. 3 STD's in 6 months. Gladly all solved by antibiotics. Now why is it that in sex education they scare the hell out of us...
    AbsintheMinded08 AbsintheMinded08 26-30 2 Responses a week ago

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    The world's leading online community for people living with Herpes (HSV-1, HSV-2) worldwide to seek love, friendship and support.MatchHerpes.com15, 000+ daily active members500...
    leslovingJenny leslovingJenny 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    Hi, I may have a husband who is thinking about cheating. I dont know yet. So today we were watching his channel and the subject of STD came up on tv. Then he starts talking about...
    clausy clausy 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I was told in late of January that I have herpes when a few days before I had been feeling flu like symptoms n days later I got the bumps in my private I haven't gotten blood work...
    livelife91 livelife91 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 13

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    I have never had an STD. I do have sympathy for certain ones that do though. Sometimes a mate might have cheated or someone may have gave them the STD without their knowledge. I am...
    FrankK70 FrankK70 41-45, M 5 days ago

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    For fours years, I've been on the pill. Everything was great. I had no side effects, I never forgot to take it. In June 2014, a good friend of mine shared her experience about...
    Troianne Troianne 22-25, F Mar 30

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    So here are a lot of things I've learned since I've had this illness. A standard STD/STI doesn't screen for Herpes. Some people never show outward symptoms. You could be infected...
    Stella27 Stella27 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    Hate condoms, very rarely use them, prostituted in the past, and been with atleast 50-75 different m/f and no STDs?Guess You Gotta Be Some Type Of Rachet; though I do ADMIT I had a...
    MinxVampHarlot MinxVampHarlot 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 3

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    I want to **** someone, I don't care what body type you have as long as you are female and don't have an STD. You must be between the ages of 16 an 19 for legal purposes.
    sexyman1997 sexyman1997 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Naturally, although it is not impossible to get children with herpes, you'll need to take additional precautions. You could have a kid without giving herpes to it, but you as well...
    smitha143 smitha143 26-30, F Apr 15

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    I never have, but it's Friday, whoo Whooo anything can happen. What do you plan on doin this weekend?
    TexasRocker TexasRocker 46-50, M Apr 17

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    It was September last year got with a girl and a couple nights after our first sexual encounter I noticed red bumps was hoping it was nothing but got tested and came back positive...
    necrothrash necrothrash 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 19

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    Never have had any and I plan on with the grace of God never to get any.I haven't been with that many women in my life. I am only planning on being with just one for the end of my...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M a week ago

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    Was hanging out with a guy and he came over and we watched a movie. He started trying to get touchy feely and I told him I didn't want to do anything. He could tell something was...
    Redvelvet58 Redvelvet58 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Yesterday...I noticed the warts...it's a VERY small cluster of raised flesh colored ones. Only had sex with one person, never had a STD, so of course, I did all the research...
    Liyah101 Liyah101 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    And I think I am the runner. It has been a while since we have spoken to each other. I wrote this a while ago. I was trying to convince myself I deserved my twin, but eventually I...
    frootloops123 frootloops123 22-25 4 hrs ago