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I Have a Step Daughter and She and Her Mom Cause Problems

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    Step Daughter and /or Bio Mom Problems!!!

    Well I have been with my husband for 11 yr, married 5. We have a beautiful 7 yr old son together. I have a 14 yr old SD, we use to be very close. Until this past Oct. The BM had DH's visitation suspended, we went to court after recieve notice. WMy husband appeared in front of the...
    queenwicked queenwicked 31-35 2 Responses May 5, 2009

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    Step Daughter Problem

      My Stepdaughter.   I think I have a very sad story to describe here but I need some advice…and I don’t know that is me if I’m doing the correct thing or if I’m way wrong…but I just want the best for my kids…I will describe...
    fabzionj fabzionj 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 22, 2009

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    I married my husband just over four months ago.

    His daughter just turned six. When I met my husband she was three. She fell in love with me because I'm girly and wear makeup and dresses and her mother is gay. She dresses like a man and keeps her hair very short and doesn't own a dress. Her best friend is in an open lesbian...
    ShaunaLyn ShaunaLyn 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    Frustrated 7mnth Pregnant , 1yr Old,& SD Problems!

    I am 25 year old female . When i met my BF he had a 3 yr old daughter. I knew what relationship and issues with baby momma (custody,child support and so on) that i was going to have to deal with. less then a yr of being together we got pregnant with our son due oct 2012 . during...
    joan10271018 joan10271018 26-30, F Nov 24, 2013

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    Im At A Loss

    I am recently married with 2 yrs under our belt.  My husband has 4 children from a previous marriage and this kids were raised by a bi-polar queen who was and still is emotionally and physically abusive.  I have tried and tried to understand these kids.  I feel like my husband...
    rosieposie210 rosieposie210 41-45 Dec 18, 2011

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    Please share your love for your daughter and let the world know... Tweet your selfies with your daughter on Twitter using hastang #SelfieWithDaughter
    DelightedRaj DelightedRaj 31-35, M 22 hrs ago

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    Me and my boyfriend have been togethor for 2 years now. We have a blended famity, me with my 4 kids to a previous marriage and him to a previous relationship. The mother to his...
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    I cannot get over the hurt that my husband caused me over three months ago. I am in therapy and doing all the reading etc. I can, but I cannot seem to let go of what happened and...
    Patilud Patilud 51-55, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    i swear my stepmom is out to get me i just dont know what to do anymore. yes i have made mistakes but i have tried to right my wrongs but once you do something that doesnt please...
    ayeitsjordyn ayeitsjordyn 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    To my father, my abuser for 25 years: I am writing to inform you that I know exactly who and what you are. Additionally, despite your many years of bullying & brainwashing...
    wowodeals wowodeals 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    To my father, my abuser for 25 years: I am writing to inform you that I know exactly who and what you are. Additionally, despite your many years of bullying & brainwashing...
    wowodeals wowodeals 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    To my father, my abuser for 25 years: I am writing to inform you that I know exactly who and what you are. Additionally, despite your many years of bullying & brainwashing...
    wowodeals wowodeals 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    It's actually pretty funny to think that growing up, everything seemed so normal, I never even considered that every other "normal" kid doesn't grow up like I did. Any how, I...
    TheHippieBitch TheHippieBitch 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    This is going to be very long winded and I'm posting this because I need to vent and need to know who else is going through something similar and how they're handling it. Here goes...
    Kristy37 Kristy37 36-40, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate being a step mother!!! I hate it! I hate it! I hate it! I know that blending families is a hard thing to do, and I love all of my children. I am tired of feeling wrong...
    Wzv63w Wzv63w 26-30, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    So I came back Missed friends
    Tasha15Girl Tasha15Girl 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have two!! I want a son also.
    bmorev bmorev 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    At what age should I stop letting my daughter see me naked
    benjaminbi benjaminbi 22-25, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    So I'm not trying to write a sob story, I guess I'm just looking for some kind of motivation or support or even coping strategies that may have worked for some people. So this is...
    HippieRose HippieRose 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I love my daughters more then anything, I have a special bond with everyone of them Paison, Hadley, Arianna & Jessa, I even have such a strong bond with me step-daughters Isla-Mae...
    AziahAndFamily AziahAndFamily 18-21, F a week ago

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    Hey everyone, I haven't been on here since I announced I was having a baby girl, well I'm going to do a little update for you. A quick background for people who don't remember me...
    AziahAndFamily AziahAndFamily 18-21, F a week ago

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    We used to be best friends and talk about everything and tell one another everything with out judging, now it's not like that anymore. We have faded slowly and it sucks so bad cuz...
    LuvLostSoul LuvLostSoul 26-30, F Jun 27

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    and i think i may meet one from here...
    amylynne17 amylynne17 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 27

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    I recently graduated high school, first person in my family to walk the stage too. My dad wasn't able to come and my mom didn't want too. When I logged onto Facebook and Instagram...
    genericidiot genericidiot 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    THE WHITE LADY One of the creepiest, and earliest - experiences that I can remember is the ghost of an elderly woman who would visit me at night when I was a little girl. The...
    littlelostfox littlelostfox 18-21, F Jun 26

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    I am to the point that I just don't even care anymore. I met my man 5 years ago. He was just finalizing his divorce. He had been separated from his ex for almost 2 years at...
    roxmac roxmac 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    She is really starting to get under my skin. During my sons therapies she always butts in and makes it hard for him to focus. She has this smart *** mouth on her. Just this morning...
    xADOSx xADOSx 26-30, F Jun 26

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    I am really struggling right now, so I thought maybe writing about it might help. At least maybe distract me. Hopefully. I'm feeling incredibly hopeless and frustrated with regards...
    Aimee17 Aimee17 41-45, F 24 Responses Jun 25

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    I guess it comes down to this - do I make my hubby pay for his SD? My stepdaughter is in her late 20's, and a complete sociopath. I let her stay with us when she didn't have a...
    jenna5972 jenna5972 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 25

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    I met a man(H) six years ago who was married once to a woman(X) for only about 3 years, during those 3 years they had a daughter(SD). X cheated on H several times with different...
    justgotreal justgotreal 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    so my SD mom doesn't think her daughter needs counseling. my husband has told her she is violent and never wants to grow up. her mom say, its oh because she is going to go through...
    kthomas12 kthomas12 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    My life is perfect... When its just me my husband and our daughter. But when we get my step daughter my life is a living hell. I feel like a horrible person for having bad feelings...
    stepmom310 stepmom310 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 24

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    My step daughter has just turned 12 her dad has had custody since she was 1 years old. About 3 years ago his daughter really wanted to meet her mom and was crying for her so he...
    Hollymmcc Hollymmcc 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Misguided Quest Who would've thought I could change the world? What about the parrot? Yes, I admit it-the world we now live in is my fault...though the parrot isn't without blame...
    zydeko zydeko 18-21 Jun 22

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    I have a 7 y/o step daughter who stays a couple days once a month with us. a couple weeks ago she stayed for 2 weeks. in this span of 2 weeks the following happen bleach was...
    imoverit00 imoverit00 22-25, F Jun 22

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    ugh woke up irritated as always. I get up so I can go get my husband something for fathers day. my daughter heard me and got up and here comes my step daughter. now they both...
    kthomas12 kthomas12 31-35, F Jun 20

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    My eleven year old is having awful pains from what the doctor says is her tendons not being able to keep pace with the growth of the rest of her body. The last four months or so...
    ineedadrink ineedadrink 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 19

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    see I am mad. so my step daughter has this habit of calling her mom after a few days of her being with us to tell her what we do or whatever. we just got a house phone so I don't...
    kthomas12 kthomas12 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    I used to dislike children all together, but as I get older I have found that I really love them. I feel a huge need to protect them, provide good memories for them, and let them...
    ThatGirlIsPoison23 ThatGirlIsPoison23 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    AdalinesMother AdalinesMother 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 19