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I Have a Stepmother

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    Anna

    I have a stepmother. Her name is Anna. Her and my dad met through her son and daughter in law, my dad was their neighbor. Small world, huh? They started dating and did for a long time, and then got married, I believe a year later or so, and they've been together over 6 years. She...
    Sweetheartxoxo Sweetheartxoxo 26-30, F May 27, 2008

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    I Am Here....

    I have a stepmother who refuses to acknowledge that I am her stepson. She pretends that I don't exist and ignores me completely. She has a beautiful daughter between she and my father, who she loves and cares for with all her heart. I am so happy for her for that, but I still...
    stellarvore stellarvore 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 5, 2007

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    Gained Her On My Birthday

    Yes, my Nineteenth birthday gift was a brand new Stepmom! Many would probably resent this, but I like HER ok, so it wasn't SOOOO bad. She's too quiet for my taste at times, but we get along fine. I'm glad my Dad is with her; she's brought much happiness into his life. And she...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 12, 2008

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    Let Us ALONE Already!

    -She is a fellow EP User with the screen name "BergenBabe". She trolls me and accuses me of falsehood whenever I attempt to share traumatic experiences from my childhood. In reality she is and has been for the past 15 years the mouthpiece for a very dangerous and abusive man...
    VillaVuka VillaVuka 22-25, M Dec 13, 2014

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    Since September

     My dad remarried in September. His wife is really nice, and she owns a bookstore, which is basically like him marrying Santa Claus to me! I don't have a lot of contact with my dad, so I don't really know his wife that well yet, but so far she seems pretty cool. :) She has...
    Jenniedvm Jenniedvm 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2009

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    I Just Miss My Dad

    I dont know if its considered selfish to say this, but i feel like once my dad remarried, there was a barrier... something standing in between my father and i. I dont really get along with her very well, but now after so long i just miss my daddy and miss how it used to be...
    reachforthestars21 reachforthestars21 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2012

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    My Bonus Mom :))

    I don't even call her my stepmother. She is my mom or my other mom when i talk about her. I don't call her mom to her face, but she might as well be. She's been around since i was very very little, around 3 or 4 years old. She and my dad got married in October of '05 or '06. I...
    jabber13 jabber13 16-17, M 6 Responses Sep 28, 2012

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    I Love Her

    My step mother has been married to my dad for 6 years now.  She is a wonderful lady, especially considering my last stepmother was evil (and I don't speak poorly of many people).  She is truly my dad's soul mate, and I'm glad they found each other.  All the...
    NaelovesherArmyhusband NaelovesherArmyhusband 26-30, F Aug 17, 2008

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    It Ruins Everything

    Well I'm like most teenagers with a stepmother, but I just wish she didn't ruin me and my fathers relationship. My father and mother relationship was ruined by my stepmom,which causes a lot of problems now anyways my dad remarried when I was 10 to my stepmom she came from Spain...
    Trulyyoursxo Trulyyoursxo 18-21, F Jul 29, 2013

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    I'll Never Forget What She Said.

    Upon our first meeting my step-mother acted very kind and I hoped that she could be the homemaker woman that my mother wasn't. My father told me to be feel conferrable around everyone and that my two step siblings and two half sibling would love me. They were all very friendly...
    aliceXIONU aliceXIONU 22-25, F Sep 6, 2012

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    My stepmother

    I despise my step-mother. Growing up, I had nothing. The kids she had with my dad had everything handed to them on a sliver platter. My mom had to work two jobs just to make sure we had shelter and food on the table (and at times we were lucky for the food) They went on...
    DietIcedTea DietIcedTea 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 20, 2009

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    I Guess

    not sure what you would have really would have  called her i just called her mother, and i loved her very much you see she opened her home to me one sunday night a long time ago when she and her child dropped me of after a weekend with them and my father took a razor strape to...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Sep 5, 2011

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    Love The Way You Lie, My Hated One

    She came when I was 11, after living alone with my dad for 7 years.When she comes home she can just drop her purse on the floor, and throw the mail on the table. When dad asks niceley how her day was she starts yelling at him.She slammed her computer on the table once, just...
    xLoveYoux xLoveYoux 18-21 Jul 8, 2011

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    "You've got her looking like a straight up

    TRAMP!" My stepfather was not pleased when he received the latest photos of me and emailed my stepmother to let it be known. One of the pictures showed me in a mini-skirt and sleeveless top in none matching colors along with make up. "Half of her chest is out! Put some...
    StandoffishBrat StandoffishBrat 18-21 Apr 5, 2014

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    My Fathers Wife

    That is what I prefer to call her.  I just don't like anything about her.  I know that it is common, and that people say it is because she was trying to replace my natural mother, or taking away from my relationship with my father....... but seriously.  I don't...
    billyinvt billyinvt 36-40, M 5 Responses Sep 9, 2007

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    Anna

    I have a stepmother. Her name is Anna. Her and my dad met through her son and daughter in law, my dad was their neighbor. Small world, huh? They started dating and did for a long time, and then got married, I believe a year later or so, and they've been together over 6 years. She...
    RealityTVJunkie RealityTVJunkie 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 14, 2009

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    Alone And Lonely

    my mother passed away 8 years ago. my dad remarried 5 years ago. Things were okay, I guess. My brother and I weren't really close to her and my dad didn't ask us our opinion of her nor told us he was marrying her until details were all settled in. Things were really awkward...
    imjusttiredandconfused imjusttiredandconfused 16-17 1 Response Oct 20, 2011

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    And I feel like she's trying to control me.

    .. I know that we all have things we like and dislike, but we shouldn't shove it down each other's throats. I like manga, and I like drawing it. Well recently I went to visit my mother in Missouri, and when I came back all of my drawings where gone. I was upset. All the drawings...
    melodicnoodles melodicnoodles 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16, 2014

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    Same Old Story

    My story isn't very dramatic. A lot of people have worse things to deal with; alcoholics, abuse, neglect, etc... I just have a step who i don't like. For many reasons, don't get me wrong! Legitimate one's, too. But i know i could have it a lot worse. I have a step-mother, Amy...
    em828 em828 18-21, F Jun 24, 2011

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    Marta

    I like her and we get along. she speaks okay english so usually I talk in spanish to her.
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F Dec 6, 2007

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    My Wonderful Stepmother

    I was lucky enough to have a stepmother growing up, since when I was about 4. Well, she used to be my babysitter before and decided that, since she was now my father's wife, she should take it out on my sister and I. This girl was a piece of art. Her method of communication was...
    MarcZil MarcZil 26-30 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    Not Sure What Her 'title' Is Anymore...

    Kathy and I met when I was 3 years old.  My parents had just separated and I was way too young to figure out that the timing was all too soon.  From what little I remember, our mom dropped my 5 year old brother and I off at this little cabin my dad had been staying in.... and...
    fieryrockstar fieryrockstar 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2011

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    Who Is

    a fuucking crazy arse biitch.   no joke bipolar. makes my daddy sad. and is retarded. i finally stood up to her. :) just like two mins ago. i feel. i dont know good.
    asdflkjghlove asdflkjghlove 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2008

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    Go Back to Wherever You Came From...

    I have a soon-to be-step-mother. She is a disaster... a complete alcoholic and jealous of my dad having another female in his life. I am no longer welcome in my dads home when she is there, despite my dad and I being closer than we've ever been. The story is much longer than this...
    trippingstars trippingstars 18-21, F Nov 6, 2007

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    Where do I even begin.... My parents divorced when I was a baby. My mom took me and my older half-sister and moved us to another state to start a new life. She left behind my...
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    After almost 1 1/2 years of being married to my husband who has two children, 5 and 8 years old, respectively, from a previous marriage with 50/50 shared custody, I have to...
    SoCalStepmom SoCalStepmom 36-40, F Apr 27

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    Please give me advise 🙈🙈 Hi there, I am a mother of two and stepmother of one I have a son 9yrs and a daughter 1, my step son is also 9yrs. I would love for there to be...
    mumsy3 mumsy3 26-30, F 2 Responses May 1

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    Open Letter To My Husband's Ex-You are a very cunning manipulator. You have told lies for 17 years in a childish attempt to hurt your ex but the ONLY person you have hurt was your...
    KwiteMama KwiteMama 36-40, F 1 Response May 2

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    Almost right after my parents got divorced my dad starting seeing a new woman from work (this caused my mom, me and my siblings to believe there had been an affair going on). They...
    Mmbpink Mmbpink 13-15, F 1 Response May 7

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    Well, it's that one out of the year where Mothers are celebrated and loved. What about Stepmom's who help raise their partners children and some whose step kids live with them full...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 2 Responses May 10

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    How dare that jack*** call me insecure! I don't need someone who only knew me for a 2 years to tell me what I am or what I'm not. She never been around me for my whole life and she...
    gorgeusgirlSky3 gorgeusgirlSky3 13-15 Apr 22

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    She has to be the Devils child! She is the most evil human being I know. All she does is make up lies to me and my dad. Once we go to each other to talk about what she told us we...
    molly223 molly223 18-21, F Apr 23

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    it's funny...growing up I didn't like my step mother very much. It didn't even much have anything to do with the way she treated me, I disliked her for the role she played in my...
    Wisdomswisdom Wisdomswisdom 36-40, F Apr 23

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    Well, I'm engaged but it has been a rough road. I have 2 sons, one is 21 and lives 12 hours away where his father is. My other son lives with me and I have been the only real...
    jenniferthibodeaux jenniferthibodeaux 41-45, F Apr 24

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    I need advice! My husband works from 8am-4:30pm M-F and school from 5pm-10pm M-Th (all year, he takes courses every semester even in the summer now). He is also gone 1 weekend a...
    Amnjourney Amnjourney 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 25

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    My father is the one that i lost when i was sixteen. My father was visiting me in hospital for a stomach operation that i was about to have, strangely enough dad was having...
    Alanuin Alanuin 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    The only thing I have to do is not listen. It's as simple as that. Don't talk to him, don't listen to what he has to say, it's all lies. But I'm dumb. And weak. And I told Azriel...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I just merely have acquaintances. I never had a true friend and if I were to count one then I guess it was with that one girl in high school. It sucks to know that a friendship I...
    Xemplefied Xemplefied 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    I have 12 hour shifts all this weekend, back to back. I work on a ferry that takes passengers to and from the isle of wight. The job isn't hard really, everythings pretty...
    Skin0Man1 Skin0Man1 18-21, M 34 mins ago

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    I had a wonderful Grammy who had Alzheimer's. She was my second mom, and the best there ever was. Alzheimer's is a nasty disease, I remember about a month before she passed I sent...
    DancesWithUnicorns DancesWithUnicorns 22-25, F 23 mins ago

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    my skin never feels clean to me and i always feel absolutely disgusting. i spend about half an hour looking at the mirror at least a couple times a day, just trying to get the dirt...
    gemmed gemmed 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    To me the thought of having sex with another human being is as disturbing as having sex with dog, or a child. It seems wrong. I'm not supposed to. Bad. Bad!! No! These things...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I have never eaten healthy. It's always been just random stuff I liked. (I'm terribly picky with food.) If I eat a bag of chips and some ice cream, out they go. I know I'm...
    CyanideY CyanideY 70+, F 1 hr ago

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    I have a special person in my life that I actually met here on EP. After countless conversations we then had an amazing getaway together. I very much enjoyed our time together and...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 36-40, F 1 hr ago

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