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I Have a Stepmother

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    Marta

    I like her and we get along. she speaks okay english so usually I talk in spanish to her.
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F Dec 6, 2007

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    My Fathers Wife

    That is what I prefer to call her.  I just don't like anything about her.  I know that it is common, and that people say it is because she was trying to replace my natural mother, or taking away from my relationship with my father....... but seriously.  I don't...
    billyinvt billyinvt 36-40, M 5 Responses Sep 9, 2007

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    Who Is

    a fuucking crazy arse biitch.   no joke bipolar. makes my daddy sad. and is retarded. i finally stood up to her. :) just like two mins ago. i feel. i dont know good.
    asdflkjghlove asdflkjghlove 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2008

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    Love The Way You Lie, My Hated One

    She came when I was 11, after living alone with my dad for 7 years.When she comes home she can just drop her purse on the floor, and throw the mail on the table. When dad asks niceley how her day was she starts yelling at him.She slammed her computer on the table once, just...
    xLoveYoux xLoveYoux 18-21 Jul 8, 2011

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    I'll Never Forget What She Said.

    Upon our first meeting my step-mother acted very kind and I hoped that she could be the homemaker woman that my mother wasn't. My father told me to be feel conferrable around everyone and that my two step siblings and two half sibling would love me. They were all very friendly...
    aliceXIONU aliceXIONU 22-25, F Sep 6, 2012

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    I Just Miss My Dad

    I dont know if its considered selfish to say this, but i feel like once my dad remarried, there was a barrier... something standing in between my father and i. I dont really get along with her very well, but now after so long i just miss my daddy and miss how it used to be...
    reachforthestars21 reachforthestars21 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2012

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    Gained Her On My Birthday

    Yes, my Nineteenth birthday gift was a brand new Stepmom! Many would probably resent this, but I like HER ok, so it wasn't SOOOO bad. She's too quiet for my taste at times, but we get along fine. I'm glad my Dad is with her; she's brought much happiness into his life. And she...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 12, 2008

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    Alone And Lonely

    my mother passed away 8 years ago. my dad remarried 5 years ago. Things were okay, I guess. My brother and I weren't really close to her and my dad didn't ask us our opinion of her nor told us he was marrying her until details were all settled in. Things were really awkward...
    imjusttiredandconfused imjusttiredandconfused 16-17 1 Response Oct 20, 2011

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    I Guess

    not sure what you would have really would have  called her i just called her mother, and i loved her very much you see she opened her home to me one sunday night a long time ago when she and her child dropped me of after a weekend with them and my father took a razor strape to...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Sep 5, 2011

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    My stepmother

    I despise my step-mother. Growing up, I had nothing. The kids she had with my dad had everything handed to them on a sliver platter. My mom had to work two jobs just to make sure we had shelter and food on the table (and at times we were lucky for the food) They went on...
    DietIcedTea DietIcedTea 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 20, 2009

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    Anna

    I have a stepmother. Her name is Anna. Her and my dad met through her son and daughter in law, my dad was their neighbor. Small world, huh? They started dating and did for a long time, and then got married, I believe a year later or so, and they've been together over 6 years. She...
    Sweetheartxoxo Sweetheartxoxo 26-30, F May 27, 2008

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    My Wonderful Stepmother

    I was lucky enough to have a stepmother growing up, since when I was about 4. Well, she used to be my babysitter before and decided that, since she was now my father's wife, she should take it out on my sister and I. This girl was a piece of art. Her method of communication was...
    MarcZil MarcZil 26-30 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    It Ruins Everything

    Well I'm like most teenagers with a stepmother, but I just wish she didn't ruin me and my fathers relationship. My father and mother relationship was ruined by my stepmom,which causes a lot of problems now anyways my dad remarried when I was 10 to my stepmom she came from Spain...
    Trulyyoursxo Trulyyoursxo 16-17, F Jul 29, 2013

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    And I feel like she's trying to control me.

    .. I know that we all have things we like and dislike, but we shouldn't shove it down each other's throats. I like manga, and I like drawing it. Well recently I went to visit my mother in Missouri, and when I came back all of my drawings where gone. I was upset. All the drawings...
    melodicnoodles melodicnoodles 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    Same Old Story

    My story isn't very dramatic. A lot of people have worse things to deal with; alcoholics, abuse, neglect, etc... I just have a step who i don't like. For many reasons, don't get me wrong! Legitimate one's, too. But i know i could have it a lot worse. I have a step-mother, Amy...
    em828 em828 18-21, F Jun 24, 2011

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    Not Sure What Her 'title' Is Anymore...

    Kathy and I met when I was 3 years old.  My parents had just separated and I was way too young to figure out that the timing was all too soon.  From what little I remember, our mom dropped my 5 year old brother and I off at this little cabin my dad had been staying in.... and...
    fieryrockstar fieryrockstar 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2011

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    I Am Here....

    I have a stepmother who refuses to acknowledge that I am her stepson. She pretends that I don't exist and ignores me completely. She has a beautiful daughter between she and my father, who she loves and cares for with all her heart. I am so happy for her for that, but I still...
    stellarvore stellarvore 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 5, 2007

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    My Bonus Mom :))

    I don't even call her my stepmother. She is my mom or my other mom when i talk about her. I don't call her mom to her face, but she might as well be. She's been around since i was very very little, around 3 or 4 years old. She and my dad got married in October of '05 or '06. I...
    jabber13 jabber13 13-15, M 6 Responses Sep 28, 2012

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    I Love Her

    My step mother has been married to my dad for 6 years now.  She is a wonderful lady, especially considering my last stepmother was evil (and I don't speak poorly of many people).  She is truly my dad's soul mate, and I'm glad they found each other.  All the...
    NaelovesherArmyhusband NaelovesherArmyhusband 26-30, F Aug 17, 2008

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    "You've got her looking like a straight up

    TRAMP!" My stepfather was not pleased when he received the latest photos of me and emailed my stepmother to let it be known. One of the pictures showed me in a mini-skirt and sleeveless top in none matching colors along with make up. "Half of her chest is out! Put some...
    StandoffishBrat StandoffishBrat 18-21 Apr 5

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    Go Back to Wherever You Came From...

    I have a soon-to be-step-mother. She is a disaster... a complete alcoholic and jealous of my dad having another female in his life. I am no longer welcome in my dads home when she is there, despite my dad and I being closer than we've ever been. The story is much longer than this...
    trippingstars trippingstars 19-21, F Nov 6, 2007

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    Anna

    I have a stepmother. Her name is Anna. Her and my dad met through her son and daughter in law, my dad was their neighbor. Small world, huh? They started dating and did for a long time, and then got married, I believe a year later or so, and they've been together over 6 years. She...
    RealityTVJunkie RealityTVJunkie 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 14, 2009

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    Since September

     My dad remarried in September. His wife is really nice, and she owns a bookstore, which is basically like him marrying Santa Claus to me! I don't have a lot of contact with my dad, so I don't really know his wife that well yet, but so far she seems pretty cool. :) She has...
    Jenniedvm Jenniedvm 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2009

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