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I Have a Stepmother

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    Go Back to Wherever You Came From...

    I have a soon-to be-step-mother. She is a disaster... a complete alcoholic and jealous of my dad having another female in his life. I am no longer welcome in my dads home when she is there, despite my dad and I being closer than we've ever been. The story is much longer than this...
    trippingstars trippingstars 19-21, F Nov 6, 2007

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    Anna

    I have a stepmother. Her name is Anna. Her and my dad met through her son and daughter in law, my dad was their neighbor. Small world, huh? They started dating and did for a long time, and then got married, I believe a year later or so, and they've been together over 6 years. She...
    Sweetheartxoxo Sweetheartxoxo 26-30, F May 27, 2008

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    And I feel like she's trying to control me.

    .. I know that we all have things we like and dislike, but we shouldn't shove it down each other's throats. I like manga, and I like drawing it. Well recently I went to visit my mother in Missouri, and when I came back all of my drawings where gone. I was upset. All the drawings...
    melodicnoodles melodicnoodles 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    Not Sure What Her 'title' Is Anymore...

    Kathy and I met when I was 3 years old.  My parents had just separated and I was way too young to figure out that the timing was all too soon.  From what little I remember, our mom dropped my 5 year old brother and I off at this little cabin my dad had been staying in.... and...
    fieryrockstar fieryrockstar 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2011

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    It Ruins Everything

    Well I'm like most teenagers with a stepmother, but I just wish she didn't ruin me and my fathers relationship. My father and mother relationship was ruined by my stepmom,which causes a lot of problems now anyways my dad remarried when I was 10 to my stepmom she came from Spain...
    Trulyyoursxo Trulyyoursxo 16-17, F Jul 29, 2013

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    Marta

    I like her and we get along. she speaks okay english so usually I talk in spanish to her.
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F Dec 6, 2007

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    My Fathers Wife

    That is what I prefer to call her.  I just don't like anything about her.  I know that it is common, and that people say it is because she was trying to replace my natural mother, or taking away from my relationship with my father....... but seriously.  I don't...
    billyinvt billyinvt 36-40, M 5 Responses Sep 9, 2007

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    My Bonus Mom :))

    I don't even call her my stepmother. She is my mom or my other mom when i talk about her. I don't call her mom to her face, but she might as well be. She's been around since i was very very little, around 3 or 4 years old. She and my dad got married in October of '05 or '06. I...
    jabber13 jabber13 13-15, M 6 Responses Sep 28, 2012

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    I Love Her

    My step mother has been married to my dad for 6 years now.  She is a wonderful lady, especially considering my last stepmother was evil (and I don't speak poorly of many people).  She is truly my dad's soul mate, and I'm glad they found each other.  All the...
    NaelovesherArmyhusband NaelovesherArmyhusband 26-30, F Aug 17, 2008

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    I Guess

    not sure what you would have really would have  called her i just called her mother, and i loved her very much you see she opened her home to me one sunday night a long time ago when she and her child dropped me of after a weekend with them and my father took a razor strape to...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Sep 5, 2011

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    My Wonderful Stepmother

    I was lucky enough to have a stepmother growing up, since when I was about 4. Well, she used to be my babysitter before and decided that, since she was now my father's wife, she should take it out on my sister and I. This girl was a piece of art. Her method of communication was...
    MarcZil MarcZil 26-30 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    Who Is

    a fuucking crazy arse biitch.   no joke bipolar. makes my daddy sad. and is retarded. i finally stood up to her. :) just like two mins ago. i feel. i dont know good.
    asdflkjghlove asdflkjghlove 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2008

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    Since September

     My dad remarried in September. His wife is really nice, and she owns a bookstore, which is basically like him marrying Santa Claus to me! I don't have a lot of contact with my dad, so I don't really know his wife that well yet, but so far she seems pretty cool. :) She has...
    Jenniedvm Jenniedvm 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2009

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    Gained Her On My Birthday

    Yes, my Nineteenth birthday gift was a brand new Stepmom! Many would probably resent this, but I like HER ok, so it wasn't SOOOO bad. She's too quiet for my taste at times, but we get along fine. I'm glad my Dad is with her; she's brought much happiness into his life. And she...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 12, 2008

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    Anna

    I have a stepmother. Her name is Anna. Her and my dad met through her son and daughter in law, my dad was their neighbor. Small world, huh? They started dating and did for a long time, and then got married, I believe a year later or so, and they've been together over 6 years. She...
    RealityTVJunkie RealityTVJunkie 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 14, 2009

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    My stepmother

    I despise my step-mother. Growing up, I had nothing. The kids she had with my dad had everything handed to them on a sliver platter. My mom had to work two jobs just to make sure we had shelter and food on the table (and at times we were lucky for the food) They went on...
    DietIcedTea DietIcedTea 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 20, 2009

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    She is a moaning *****.

    But she does have great jugs.
    dirtyteenguy dirtyteenguy 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    "You've got her looking like a straight up

    TRAMP!" My stepfather was not pleased when he received the latest photos of me and emailed my stepmother to let it be known. One of the pictures showed me in a mini-skirt and sleeveless top in none matching colors along with make up. "Half of her chest is out! Put some...
    StandoffishBrat StandoffishBrat 18-21 Apr 5

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    Love The Way You Lie, My Hated One

    She came when I was 11, after living alone with my dad for 7 years.When she comes home she can just drop her purse on the floor, and throw the mail on the table. When dad asks niceley how her day was she starts yelling at him.She slammed her computer on the table once, just...
    xLoveYoux xLoveYoux 18-21 Jul 8, 2011

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    Same Old Story

    My story isn't very dramatic. A lot of people have worse things to deal with; alcoholics, abuse, neglect, etc... I just have a step who i don't like. For many reasons, don't get me wrong! Legitimate one's, too. But i know i could have it a lot worse. I have a step-mother, Amy...
    em828 em828 18-21, F Jun 24, 2011

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    I Am Here....

    I have a stepmother who refuses to acknowledge that I am her stepson. She pretends that I don't exist and ignores me completely. She has a beautiful daughter between she and my father, who she loves and cares for with all her heart. I am so happy for her for that, but I still...
    stellarvore stellarvore 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 5, 2007

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    I Just Miss My Dad

    I dont know if its considered selfish to say this, but i feel like once my dad remarried, there was a barrier... something standing in between my father and i. I dont really get along with her very well, but now after so long i just miss my daddy and miss how it used to be...
    reachforthestars21 reachforthestars21 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2012

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    I'll Never Forget What She Said.

    Upon our first meeting my step-mother acted very kind and I hoped that she could be the homemaker woman that my mother wasn't. My father told me to be feel conferrable around everyone and that my two step siblings and two half sibling would love me. They were all very friendly...
    aliceXIONU aliceXIONU 22-25, F Sep 6, 2012

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    Alone And Lonely

    my mother passed away 8 years ago. my dad remarried 5 years ago. Things were okay, I guess. My brother and I weren't really close to her and my dad didn't ask us our opinion of her nor told us he was marrying her until details were all settled in. Things were really awkward...
    imjusttiredandconfused imjusttiredandconfused 16-17 1 Response Oct 20, 2011

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    My 13 year old step-daughter was sitting down here talking and she talks so dang fast, I could barely understand her. She was telling me about how all she wants to do is go have...
    MzKtlyn MzKtlyn 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 27

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    she is immature, childish and a total bully! Okay so a little background. I may have a little pity on her sometimes because I personally think she has PTSD. When she was 15, she...
    123imonajourney 123imonajourney 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    I remember the first time I met my boyfriends son. I was so nervous so I bought him a bag full of candy (he was 5). He walked in looking at me sideways and then we took him to the...
    DenSan DenSan 22-25, F Nov 8

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    I miss my stepdaughter angelica..We haven't seen her in two months. Her mom always has an excuse why Angelica cant come. I dont understand the problem if someone loves your child...
    Jeannie3636 Jeannie3636 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 8

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    PaulDaleRoberts PaulDaleRoberts 51-55, M Nov 15

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    I am about to go into court and testify why my stepdaughter should have restricted visitation w/birth mom. We have a good relationship and I went through much of what she has gone...
    Peanuts3 Peanuts3 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 17

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    I swear I'm not crazy. Everyone always thinks I am but I'm not. I went only because I was sick of talking to doctors and wanted some sleep after 32 hours of being awake. While I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 27

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    Okay so when I was first born my mom had thought she rushed the relationship because three years earlier my mom got pregnant unexpectedly anyway when I was seven my dad married the...
    whysaybye whysaybye 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 31

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    Remembering the first time i was going to meet at the time my new boyfriends little boy. He was preparing me for the meet filling me in on what he was like telling me the mother...
    cccaus4 cccaus4 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 7

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    I think I may have borderline personality disorder. It's a little hard to deal with. I know something is wrong with me and I don't want to live my life thinking that and not doing...
    yonnie97 yonnie97 16-17, T 5 hrs ago

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    I have liked this girl for 4 and a half years now. Actually it's much passed "like". I've had so many chances to make a move on her, but I was to cowardly to do so. I was too...
    yoomyman yoomyman 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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    At first he happen to be caught in her glance, she had not noticed him her eyes were only focused on a friend as they whispered. Then slowly his existence started to grow, her eyes...
    Moonlight94 Moonlight94 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    Apparently I have an accent or speak odd to people. Apparently I don't pronounce my words correctly... I guess sometimes they don't come out correctly. Like haven't = 'aven't or he...
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I hate my aunt tomorow she is going to maried but i have to go eventhough at monday i"m going to have last semster test i mean what the hell her wedding going to take 2 days in a...
    reginacs reginacs 16-17, F 1 Response 28 mins ago

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    Sad predicament I know, but when I look back, I can see that the happiest times in my life have always been when I was between being in love. I felt like "Yay! I'm finally over...
    aag311 aag311 41-45, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I have horrible anxiety. It's with me all day every day, never goes away. Mind is racing, chest is pounding, I can't concentrate most of the time. It sucks. I usually just act like...
    barbee0 barbee0 13-15, F 5 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Yes I do it makes me upset with myself i have been able to cope with it but sometimes I burst into a firecracker and I just feel terrible. :(
    yeahis18 yeahis18 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    I'm a cutter, and burner. When I'm alone with my feelings I have to let them go by just one cut or one small burn. That's my secret, can you keep it?
    LenaBena1430 LenaBena1430 16-17, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I feel like my problems are minuscule after reading some of the posts on here, it makes me feel bad for being sad...I can't help it though, I feel so stupid. I'm 20 and I am...
    thecap246 thecap246 18-21, F 1 Response 59 mins ago

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    Facebook/Twitter/Instagram: People who write daily novels on their statuses. Same story every day. Usually somewhere along the lines of counting their daily blessings or how much...
    bombchu bombchu 22-25, F 48 mins ago

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    What are rights? Everyone loves to spew out that they have rights from their slobber soaked crumb ridden mouths. Like George Carlin said, you don't have rights. You have privileges...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 27

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    First Indirect Rejection When I was in 5th grade I had a crush on this guy in my class. I was and still am the nerdy quiet crazy girl who's always reading manga or doodling anime...
    Toriko Toriko 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 27

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    My confession is that I have cut before and am not proud of it. It happened so fast, just an impulse to feel something.
    ForTheFallen ForTheFallen 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 27

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    I have and still do wear diapers from time to time for recreation although they make me feel a bit safer on long car trips. So I have urinated in them and they turn me on. I'm not...
    ForTheFallen ForTheFallen 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 27

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