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I Have a Stepmother

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    I Love Her - My step mother has been married to my dad for 6 years now.  She is a wonderful lady, especially considering my last stepmother was evil (and I don't speak poorly...
    NaelovesherArmyhusband NaelovesherArmyhusband 26-30, F Aug 17, 2008

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    My Fathers Wife - That is what I prefer to call her.  I just don't like anything about her.  I know that it is common, and that people say it is because she was trying to...
    billyinvt billyinvt 36-40, M 5 Responses Sep 9, 2007

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    Not Sure What Her 'title' Is Anymore... - Kathy and I met when I was 3 years old.  My parents had just separated and I was way too young to figure out that the timing was all too...
    fieryrockstar fieryrockstar 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2011

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    My Bonus Mom :)) - I don't even call her my stepmother. She is my mom or my other mom when i talk about her. I don't call her mom to her face, but she might as well be. She's been...
    jabber13 jabber13 13-15, M 6 Responses Sep 28, 2012

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    My stepmother - I despise my step-mother. Growing up, I had nothing. The kids she had with my dad had everything handed to them on a sliver platter. My mom had to work two jobs...
    DietIcedTea DietIcedTea 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 20, 2009

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    Who Is - a fuucking crazy arse biitch.   no joke bipolar. makes my daddy sad. and is retarded. i finally stood up to her. :) just like two mins ago. i feel. i dont...
    asdflkjghlove asdflkjghlove 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2008

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    I'll Never Forget What She Said. - Upon our first meeting my step-mother acted very kind and I hoped that she could be the homemaker woman that my mother wasn't. My father told me...
    aliceXIONU aliceXIONU 18-21, F Sep 6, 2012

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    My Wonderful Stepmother - I was lucky enough to have a stepmother growing up, since when I was about 4. Well, she used to be my babysitter before and decided that, since she was...
    MarcZil MarcZil 26-30 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    Since September -  My dad remarried in September. His wife is really nice, and she owns a bookstore, which is basically like him marrying Santa Claus to me! I don't have a lot...
    Jenniedvm Jenniedvm 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2009

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    Anna - I have a stepmother. Her name is Anna. Her and my dad met through her son and daughter in law, my dad was their neighbor. Small world, huh? They started dating and did for a...
    Sweetheartxoxo Sweetheartxoxo 26-30, F May 27, 2008

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    Marta - I like her and we get along. she speaks okay english so usually I talk in spanish to her.
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F Dec 6, 2007

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    Anna - I have a stepmother. Her name is Anna. Her and my dad met through her son and daughter in law, my dad was their neighbor. Small world, huh? They started dating and did for a...
    RealityTVJunkie RealityTVJunkie 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 14, 2009

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    Go Back to Wherever You Came From... - I have a soon-to be-step-mother. She is a disaster... a complete alcoholic and jealous of my dad having another female in his life. I am no...
    trippingstars trippingstars 19-21, F Nov 6, 2007

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    Alone And Lonely - my mother passed away 8 years ago. my dad remarried 5 years ago. Things were okay, I guess. My brother and I weren't really close to her and my dad didn't ask us...
    imjusttiredandconfused imjusttiredandconfused 16-17 1 Response Oct 20, 2011

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    "You've got her looking like a straight up TRAMP!" My stepfather was not pleased when he received the latest photos of me and emailed my stepmother to let it be known. One of the...
    StandoffishBrat StandoffishBrat 18-21 Apr 5

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    It Ruins Everything - Well I'm like most teenagers with a stepmother, but I just wish she didn't ruin me and my fathers relationship. My father and mother relationship was ruined...
    Trulyyoursxo Trulyyoursxo 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2013

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    Love The Way You Lie, My Hated One - She came when I was 11, after living alone with my dad for 7 years.When she comes home she can just drop her purse on the floor, and throw...
    xLoveYoux xLoveYoux 18-21 Jul 8, 2011

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    I Am Here.... - I have a stepmother who refuses to acknowledge that I am her stepson. She pretends that I don't exist and ignores me completely. She has a beautiful daughter...
    stellarvore stellarvore 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 5, 2007

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    Gained Her On My Birthday - Yes, my Nineteenth birthday gift was a brand new Stepmom! Many would probably resent this, but I like HER ok, so it wasn't SOOOO bad. She's too quiet...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 12, 2008

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    I Just Miss My Dad - I dont know if its considered selfish to say this, but i feel like once my dad remarried, there was a barrier... something standing in between my father and i...
    reachforthestars21 reachforthestars21 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2012

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    Confused Little Girl- I did not even know I had a biological father until a judge ordered me to his custody in Europe. Before that I lived with my widowed stepfather. My mother had...
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    My biological father desired a title that was NEVER his to claim. Rather he failed to impress me as best I can put it. My stepfather took back my mother even after she had an...
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    Forced to Be Catholic-The only thing I dislike about my stepfather is the issue of religion. In order to save my surely damned soul eternal fire I was baptized Catholic shortly...
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    The Child I Have Never Met-My husband fathered a child with a black woman during his 1st year in America. He had nothing to offer the child&honestly he had no idea to do with a...
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    I have been with my partner since October of 2011 and love him very much. I have never been crazy about children but decided to give it a try. His son is almost 5 now and it really...
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    I don't think I'd ever tell anyone but I might as well. I have Schizoaffective Disorder which, in a basic definition, it's like Bipolar and Schizophrenia, some people have...
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    My husband has been drinking every single day for the last 17 years. I can count on one hand the number of days he has gone without drinking in the last 10 years. Two months ago I...
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    I'm making a list of "Things I’m proud of about myself." Thus far, there is only one item on the list (the inspiration for the list in itself). It may not seem like much to you...
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    I know this sounds weird and even sick to others ... but for me its one thing I have always wanted ... I have always wanted to have as many children that I can physically possible...
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    FOR MEN WHO LIKE TROPHY WOMEN: The prettier they are the more psycho they are... only in the most rare cases will you find the one who isn't.. even then she still requires a lot...
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    I find it impossible to love myself, and I don't know why. I have had an amazing upbringing with supportive parents and a great life, but every moment of my life I'm putting myself...
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    The past year I have been attacked by my anxiety it is now the only constant I have. My depression was under control when this round of anxiety started doc said I need to get my...
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    Yes, I sometimes do. I sometimes, but only some times, want to have an illicit affair, with all of the things that comes with this. And when I say this, of course, because it is me...
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    Since, childhood i have been waking up at 6am in the mornings :) i have the habit of combing my hair always and looking my self into the mirror, i always saw myself pretty with my...
    shlproy123 shlproy123 26-30, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    1.) When people chew with their mouth open or talk with their mouth full. 2.) I don't care how old they are, but it really ticks me off when someone is disrespectful. 3.) When...
    DoveBreath DoveBreath 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    Give a man a fish & feed him for a day Teach him to fish & you feed him for a lifetime. Many people set out into the world to help everyone and end up never really helping anyone...
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    Though I have chosen to mostly integrate, I still have child energy-alters who show up. When life gets sticky or a task becomes difficult, there is still the urge to throw it onto...
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    I have a friend named kami. She's helped me out throughout my life and the better part of six years. During my marriage and in the dead middle of it, she was there for me to nag...
    flibsley flibsley 31-35, M 3 hrs ago

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    I haven't slept at all this week. I was lucky to even get 2 hours. Most nights I lay up staring at the ceilings because I'm so stressed. And the times I do have anxiety attacks...
    ADifferentLight ADifferentLight 16-17, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    There has been no official diagnosis. But, all my life I have felt very different from everyone else. Job after job I have had a difficult time forming close relationships and...
    pottersclay pottersclay 41-45, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I woke up randomly at 3:30 this morning and haven't gone back to sleep. My stomach was fine and I was just stressed. A few minutes after I thought that I started having sort of gas...
    Raynbowe Raynbowe 22-25, F 12 hrs ago

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    I have sons currently I am looking for someone sane mature and stable.I would love to have another child.I just want a great mate.
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