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I Have a Trust Problem

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 92 People

    Just Guys.

    I have a problem trusting men. Maybe it's because I had a bad experience with my father as a kid, but I am immediately suspicious of any guy being friendly towards me. I just can't believe any guy would like me, even as just a friend, and it's frustrating sometimes...
    immaheidi immaheidi 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2009

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    I Have

    I've gotten **** on one to many times to count.x
    AmericanAngel04 AmericanAngel04 26-30 1 Response Jan 24, 2009

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    Thank You Note

    Thank you for being here for us! I do not have a "Trust Problem " anymore, I trust enormously and it s complicated issue! I think, I would be better to learn from someone to trust just a little. Not everything and everyone!
    carmelitas carmelitas 26-30 Jul 1, 2009

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    No Trust For You & Me

     Growing up I would trust everyone! Then my "friends" would break that trust by hurting me anyway they could! Now it takes me FOREVER to trust people! I have a friend that I have known for 7 years and I still to this day don't trust her! I want to but I just can't...
    OlesyaD OlesyaD 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    Not So Good With Puppets.

    I'm a control freak, so naturally I have trust issues. There's no way I can in good faith control another person's thoughts or actions, so there's never any guarantee that my trust won't be betrayed. I work on it, though. Just because I'm a touch misanthropic doesn't mean I give...
    SaintThursday SaintThursday 22-25 Dec 9, 2009

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    Trust Noone

    one of my favorite sayings is trust noone. If you trust yourself its a lot easier and the only person you can let down is you.  Sometimes i cant even trust myself...so there you go!.
    thehippy thehippy 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    Big Time

    For me it's always been really hard to trust people with any part of my life, there are so many things that I haven't told people. Maybe just two or three people including my sister (oobergoobergreengirl) are the only ones I trust with everything, but it's still hard...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 10, 2009

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    I Can't Even Trust My Closest Friend

    Who happens to also be my roommate. She has no problem telling me things. And things I've told her I'm sure she's kept between us. But to me, a person who is free to talk to YOU about OTHER PEOPLE also has no problem doing the same thing to you. Which I think of her, despite her...
    cloudsinmycoffee cloudsinmycoffee 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 28, 2009

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    All my life. Honestly,

    All my life, people come up to me. Smile, say hi, whatever. We become friends, then best friends. And then this person would turn around and back stab me. I. Am. Sick. Of. It. I feel like that I should hate every living thing in this world now. Innocent or not, young or old. I...
    evie2001 evie2001 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2014

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    A Big One

    I never trust people until they win my trust, and that takes a lot, most of the time. Once I trust them I can not let them go. It is very, very exhausting. It might break me up some day.
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F Mar 1, 2009

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    Trust

    I some times had trust issues with some of my family  they have hurt me abused me . I have trust issues i know but when my trust has been broken i have not much of a relationship with the person when trust is broken what do you have? not much....
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F Jul 2, 2009

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    I Admit It

    I admit when it comes to men I have trust issues.  I am trying to get past it however.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses Feb 7, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    To all those who have trust issues. I understand how you feel. I have been betrayed and betrayed several of times by my own kind, the one who gave birth to me. I understand how...
    Supersoumya Supersoumya 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    I think everyone has a little bit of trust issues. I have trust issues because of my experience with people. It's very traumatizing. People lie and with lying comes power and...
    Ghostprojection Ghostprojection 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    I think we all have trust issues. I've been to he'll and back, knocked to my knees, confidence blown to he'll. sometimes I wonder if I even fit into.humanity, society. I'm still...
    ck1964 ck1964 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    I don't have a problem with caffeine..... I have a problem without caffeine! ~Author Unknown
    expressomarkie expressomarkie 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 17

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    If you have a problem with then you need to start living in the 21st century my friend. We have past a time where violence and hatred between races we are done with. Let's start...
    JonnyBurrows10 JonnyBurrows10 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    I have a problem with wanting what I cant have
    IDCFUKK IDCFUKK 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 8

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    Is there anyone who have thyroid problem? Doctors say that I have thyroid. They have asked me for blood tests and CT scan so he may examine me better. Is there any other person...
    faisal6309 faisal6309 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 17

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    I have a problem with my boyfriend 😭
    cutedimplesxx cutedimplesxx 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I realize I have a problem. And sadly I'm stuck in a trap until I can understand how to break the cycle. I'm needy for love, affection, attention...from men. It's disgusting...
    elowen elowen F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    its so hard to trust again when everything you believed in got ripped apart when you were six. when I finally started to trust people again they just rip it apart like it was...
    BrokenSilence22 BrokenSilence22 18-21, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I can't stand being treated like crap and being lied to my husband and I are married for 20 years and shouldn't have for the longest time he is not loyal and a conniving creep I'm...
    Bella70 Bella70 41-45, F 4 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    My parents are of Indian descent and in our culture we are supposed to respect our parents at all costs - even when they are wrong. However, I grew up in the United States and have...
    a2771440 a2771440 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    I do... and I don't... Like, I think my problem is that I trust people TO much. I put my complete trust into some people, tell them everything, and put faith into them, just for...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Okay, so my boyfriend is very good to me when I am good to him(not accusing him, not being jealous and making him stressed out) he's great,caring, likes me hanging out with his mom...
    MissLizy MissLizy 22-25, F Dec 27, 2014

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    When I was nine I was uprooted from my small town. My life would be different or maybe it would not. My tenth birthday was spent moving and going to new school. My first sducidal...
    flowerpower15 flowerpower15 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    I've dreamt for the past two nights different scenarios that end in my bf sneaking behind my back to smoke and in the first one cheat on me with someone ... he says he cares but I...
    Karmickitten Karmickitten 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    Im never aloud to do anything. like they all lock me in my room and never let me go anywhere unless they are with me. i have no life. i have no friends because im not aloud to go...
    TiffanyNicoleLovesNene TiffanyNicoleLovesNene 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I know there's still racism in the world, but being that I am a black women married to a white man, so far I having experienced much, I know 60 years ago in some part our marriage...
    devi2n devi2n 22-25, F 9 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    People always say: "Just trust me." And all I wanna do is scream that I can't just trust someone. Millions of questions and comments shoot through my mind. I always end up not...
    hxlils hxlils 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 13

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    I have some pretty deep rooted trust issues that come from the fact that I was molested when I was 13 by a very close friend, Im not gonna go into a ton of detail there because i...
    Sulka19 Sulka19 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    it seems like everytime I try N be as trusting as i can be.. I get burned. I mean back before all the hate anf dislike I was one that trusted just bout everyone. I learned the...
    Lookingupalways Lookingupalways 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    I told my friend I will likely never have a significant other anyway. Friend: why? Me:Because I have trouble enough with trusting friends. Friend: How come? Me: I don't know...
    YeahthatsMylife YeahthatsMylife 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 14

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    minniecc11 minniecc11 26-30, F Jan 15

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    minnieccaa minnieccaa 26-30, F a week ago

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    It's hard for me to trust other women it really is.Most women and girls ive met havent been the nicest to me,so i usually trust men more easily.The only girl i trust to a certain...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    How can I trust others if I can't even trust myself?
    TxSS TxSS 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I want so much to be able to trust what is said and I try so hard to believe and trust but there is always that stupid little voice that says remember what happened last time...
    imgivingupnow imgivingupnow 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    I've trusted to many people and yet I have gotten hurt. I have isolated myself from society. I thought I could trust one girl and she proved me wrong. I feel as if I can be...
    Ginger1313 Ginger1313 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    I am sitting in a rest room at one corner and looking at group of people who are laughing and enjoying. I could join them but i cant. I have seen horrible past about people. I am...
    esteem29 esteem29 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 8

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    Beautiful man. Everyone seems to want you, even other men. You say you're mine but are you really? I won't let myself get too close to you. I want to... But I've been let down so...
    aanicole aanicole 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    It seems like every time you get close to somebody they do something to hurt you and you can't trust them. Every time you try it seems like it get worse and worser. From your...
    myanouska myanouska 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    Guys.. Never trust google..: When I was 11... I wanted to see people with horns.. So I googled "h0rny people.." My life changed forever that day.. Google took me to a place I...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 16 Responses Jan 14

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    I AM AFRAID TO SHARE IT WITH EP.....I SHARED IT WITH THE OUTSIDE WORLD AND THEY CALLED ME CRAZY, EVIL, SATAN, A FALSE PROPHET........I NO LONGER TRUST ANYBODY WITH MY AWESOME AND...
    LadySweetness LadySweetness 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 18

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    It sucks when all you want is someone to be by you and love you and care for you and they always hurt you. I don't wanna be hurt. I keep blocking everyone out. I just want one...
    Thatgirl2001 Thatgirl2001 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    I only have self esteem issues when it comes to my job. I don't always feel like I'm right for this job. Maybe it's just the way some people treat me in regards to my job. Trust...
    ttbridge ttbridge 36-40, F a week ago