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I Have a Trust Problem

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 91 People

    Thank You Note

    Thank you for being here for us! I do not have a "Trust Problem " anymore, I trust enormously and it s complicated issue! I think, I would be better to learn from someone to trust just a little. Not everything and everyone!
    carmelitas carmelitas 26-30 Jul 1, 2009

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    I Admit It

    I admit when it comes to men I have trust issues.  I am trying to get past it however.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses Feb 7, 2009

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    I Can't Even Trust My Closest Friend

    Who happens to also be my roommate. She has no problem telling me things. And things I've told her I'm sure she's kept between us. But to me, a person who is free to talk to YOU about OTHER PEOPLE also has no problem doing the same thing to you. Which I think of her, despite her...
    cloudsinmycoffee cloudsinmycoffee 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 28, 2009

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    All my life. Honestly,

    All my life, people come up to me. Smile, say hi, whatever. We become friends, then best friends. And then this person would turn around and back stab me. I. Am. Sick. Of. It. I feel like that I should hate every living thing in this world now. Innocent or not, young or old. I...
    evie2001 evie2001 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2014

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    Just Guys.

    I have a problem trusting men. Maybe it's because I had a bad experience with my father as a kid, but I am immediately suspicious of any guy being friendly towards me. I just can't believe any guy would like me, even as just a friend, and it's frustrating sometimes...
    immaheidi immaheidi 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2009

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    Trust Noone

    one of my favorite sayings is trust noone. If you trust yourself its a lot easier and the only person you can let down is you.  Sometimes i cant even trust myself...so there you go!.
    thehippy thehippy 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    Big Time

    For me it's always been really hard to trust people with any part of my life, there are so many things that I haven't told people. Maybe just two or three people including my sister (oobergoobergreengirl) are the only ones I trust with everything, but it's still hard...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 10, 2009

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    Not So Good With Puppets.

    I'm a control freak, so naturally I have trust issues. There's no way I can in good faith control another person's thoughts or actions, so there's never any guarantee that my trust won't be betrayed. I work on it, though. Just because I'm a touch misanthropic doesn't mean I give...
    SaintThursday SaintThursday 22-25 Dec 9, 2009

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    I Have

    I've gotten **** on one to many times to count.x
    AmericanAngel04 AmericanAngel04 26-30 1 Response Jan 24, 2009

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    A Big One

    I never trust people until they win my trust, and that takes a lot, most of the time. Once I trust them I can not let them go. It is very, very exhausting. It might break me up some day.
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F Mar 1, 2009

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    Trust

    I some times had trust issues with some of my family  they have hurt me abused me . I have trust issues i know but when my trust has been broken i have not much of a relationship with the person when trust is broken what do you have? not much....
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F Jul 2, 2009

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    No Trust For You & Me

     Growing up I would trust everyone! Then my "friends" would break that trust by hurting me anyway they could! Now it takes me FOREVER to trust people! I have a friend that I have known for 7 years and I still to this day don't trust her! I want to but I just can't...
    OlesyaD OlesyaD 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I joined this group because yes I have trust issues. I am not alone in this, I am today's norm when it comes to the world. Trust issues is on the rise every day that goes by...
    Yeahbaybey Yeahbaybey 46-50, F Mar 26

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    It's really weird because although I have trust issues I open up to people wayyy too often and then regret it later asking myself "did I say too much?". I got screwed over by...
    MsScaredOfLonely MsScaredOfLonely 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I have trust issues and it gets in the way a lor
    lostbrokeheart lostbrokeheart 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 6

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    the way people have treated me is why I have trust issues and keep my close circle small, some people think they're in it but they really aren't..
    iamblackvelvet iamblackvelvet 22-25, F Apr 10

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    is it any wonder I have trust Issues? You close yourself off from people because you've been betrayed enough times that you throw up walls to protect yourself. Then somebody...
    RestlessWarrior1 RestlessWarrior1 46-50, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    is it any wonder I have trust Issues? You close yourself off from people because you've been betrayed enough times that you throw up walls to protect yourself. Then somebody...
    RestlessWarrior1 RestlessWarrior1 46-50, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    AM ALL ABOUT IT! my mom is mixed my dad is mixed basically my whole family is mixed. so i don't have any problems with interacial dating. As a matter of fact i would love to be in...
    Californialexiiiiiii Californialexiiiiiii 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    An interracial relationship isn't just something with which I have no problem, it is a preference of mine. I want to date a woman of different color and different history.
    metagross metagross 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    If I did, I would have a problem with myself. My girlfriend is a white European, I'm black and my family is from Africa. I know, perhaps I'm to 'young' to have a girlfriend. But I...
    ma005 ma005 13-15, M 4 Responses Apr 8

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    I definitely have no problem with interracial relationships. The truth is I love women of all backgrounds.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Apr 9

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    I have no problem with interracial relationships but my parents do so that sucks for me :/
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    how can i learn to trust people? i can't trust anyone with anything even the simplest things just stress me out... I don't trust my boyfriend with anyone. even if he wanted to go...
    whiskey1993 whiskey1993 18-21, F 4 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    BUT.. I trust my boyfriend :D it feels AMAZING to trust him. He's the first guy I've ever actually trusted. He's my best friend and I love him so ******* much :) I'm so grateful...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Lol when your ex wants you to come out clubbing because no one else will.... What makes you think I'd trust you to look after my drunk arse... Big NOPE plus your dad and brother...
    Catho Catho 18-21, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I wish I could have my old boyfriend back, the one who was my best friend and the one I used to have fun with. I hate how people change
    Nessy22 Nessy22 22-25, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I don't know anymore who do i trust and don't. This two weeks are very very tough. i lost two friends.They're not EP friends.. one was okay...one was not friend in correct. He's...
    Juri0902 Juri0902 31-35, F Mar 18

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    I don't know what to do?! Have been married for 5 years and not very happy due to security issues with my husband. He lies to me with smoothness, drinks around 12 everyday, can't...
    georgialady28 georgialady28 26-30, F 18 Responses Mar 29

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    Is anyone really surprised? With as many times as I've been lied to and used should I even trust anyone? Maybe I'm just bitter and getting cynical the older I get but I feel as if...
    XxDazzle XxDazzle 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    I am having family troubles . For the first time in my life I have stood up to my family. My younger sister is envious of me and talks badly of people behind there backs including...
    ozgirl77 ozgirl77 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 18

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    I've had them since I can remember, after all I am an observer and noticing how much people get backstabbed I've come to try not to get close to anyone. I probably only have a few...
    Meirin Meirin 18-21, F Apr 10

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    I have always been the person people talk to when they need to unload. I have no interest in telling tales or sharing rumors. Finding someone trustworthy to share hidden thoughts...
    Matt60053 Matt60053 36-40, M Mar 25

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    I feel that authority is often placed in the weak minded who cannot handle it. Authority often changes people--the pursuit of power creates an inherent evil in other people, which...
    Fuzzies Fuzzies 56-60, M 5 days ago

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    I find it hard to trust people because every time I think I can trust someone they betray that trust and screw me over?
    Danas1999 Danas1999 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I can never believe you again. Ever. You have lied about everything. We were supposed to be married. We were supposed to work together and have each other's backs. Instead, you...
    WorkItMami WorkItMami 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    So I had a cousin who is literally almost like a sister. Our fathers are brothers and our moms are sisters. They had a double wedding. Since we were younger we would talk 24/7. We...
    VGASR VGASR 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    i don't trust men. my dad deserted me and never looked back and my mums ex partner was an abusive alcoholic drug user, my first real boyfriend cheated on me, controlled me and made...
    shannonjade shannonjade 18-21, F 14 Responses 5 days ago

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    It's harder for me to trust anyone now. I reply back only certain people on this site. I have pretty much all the social apps but I just post stuff. I don't really communicate with...
    masmelo masmelo 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Will I ever trust my husband again because I know that we belong together and we do love each other very much. Can't bring myself to trust him fully again and he is very good to me...
    williecaro williecaro 41-45 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    It seems so hard to trust people now a days.
    breezy612 breezy612 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    hell I trusted her but I feel like I'm betrayed... She didn't reply to my messages even I knew she was there but she didn't..... That so hurts me...
    LuckyLam LuckyLam 18-21 1 Response Mar 20

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