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I Have a Trust Problem

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    No Trust For You & Me

     Growing up I would trust everyone! Then my "friends" would break that trust by hurting me anyway they could! Now it takes me FOREVER to trust people! I have a friend that I have known for 7 years and I still to this day don't trust her! I want to but I just can't...
    OlesyaD OlesyaD 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    I Have

    I've gotten **** on one to many times to count.x
    AmericanAngel04 AmericanAngel04 26-30 1 Response Jan 24, 2009

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    Big Time

    For me it's always been really hard to trust people with any part of my life, there are so many things that I haven't told people. Maybe just two or three people including my sister (oobergoobergreengirl) are the only ones I trust with everything, but it's still hard...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 10, 2009

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    I Can't Even Trust My Closest Friend

    Who happens to also be my roommate. She has no problem telling me things. And things I've told her I'm sure she's kept between us. But to me, a person who is free to talk to YOU about OTHER PEOPLE also has no problem doing the same thing to you. Which I think of her, despite her...
    cloudsinmycoffee cloudsinmycoffee 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 28, 2009

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    Just Guys.

    I have a problem trusting men. Maybe it's because I had a bad experience with my father as a kid, but I am immediately suspicious of any guy being friendly towards me. I just can't believe any guy would like me, even as just a friend, and it's frustrating sometimes...
    immaheidi immaheidi 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2009

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    I Admit It

    I admit when it comes to men I have trust issues.  I am trying to get past it however.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses Feb 7, 2009

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    A Big One

    I never trust people until they win my trust, and that takes a lot, most of the time. Once I trust them I can not let them go. It is very, very exhausting. It might break me up some day.
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F Mar 1, 2009

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    Thank You Note

    Thank you for being here for us! I do not have a "Trust Problem " anymore, I trust enormously and it s complicated issue! I think, I would be better to learn from someone to trust just a little. Not everything and everyone!
    carmelitas carmelitas 26-30 Jul 1, 2009

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    Not So Good With Puppets.

    I'm a control freak, so naturally I have trust issues. There's no way I can in good faith control another person's thoughts or actions, so there's never any guarantee that my trust won't be betrayed. I work on it, though. Just because I'm a touch misanthropic doesn't mean I give...
    SaintThursday SaintThursday 22-25 Dec 9, 2009

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    Trust Noone

    one of my favorite sayings is trust noone. If you trust yourself its a lot easier and the only person you can let down is you.  Sometimes i cant even trust myself...so there you go!.
    thehippy thehippy 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    Trust

    I some times had trust issues with some of my family  they have hurt me abused me . I have trust issues i know but when my trust has been broken i have not much of a relationship with the person when trust is broken what do you have? not much....
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F Jul 2, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I feel like whoever I talk to, whether it be teachers or acquaintances or people on EP or even best friends, that i'm just being a burden on them. In my head, I believe that they...
    urbanparadigm urbanparadigm 16-17, M 4 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I really don't know why I have trust issues. It doesn't make sense why I do. I mean, I don't think I had them before I met my friend Isaac. But I can't be sure. Isaac has been my...
    DeJeKlu DeJeKlu 18-21, F Mar 29

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    My ex always said I could trust him. Then he started to hurt me. Said he had the trust issues when I never said anything about him but he started rumors. So now I have trust issues...
    Loveisupsetting Loveisupsetting 13-15, F Mar 29

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    Yes I have trust issues only because I grew up most of my child hood- early teen years being lied too from people I loved. But my trust has definitely gotten stronger the older I...
    kaseymwt kaseymwt 22-25, F Apr 10

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    I have trust issues because of my bullying from 1st grade to 9th grade. It was a bad experience.
    Done453 Done453 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I mostly have trust issues because of bad past relationships. In my entire 18 years of living, I've dated 3 people. The first guy I dated for 2 years and he broke up with me via...
    agm0829 agm0829 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I have a problem and it's me. I hit my boyfriend of 3yrs over the weekend. we had gone out for St. Patrick's day and had to much to drink. I know that is no excuse. I hold...
    wtfsolost wtfsolost 36-40, F Mar 19

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    I have no problems with interracial relationships at all. l believe in interracial couples dating, marrying, and having children together. I have dated and had three biracial...
    femalelovesanimals femalelovesanimals 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I have no problem with any interracial relationship nor does any of my family members and friends. It is a beautiful site seeing an interracial couple and family together.
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have huge trust issues. 1: my dad, ever since he came home drunk when I was 12 and had to call the cops on him. He spent a few months away from the family. He even missed my...
    broadwaybabe99 broadwaybabe99 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I'm new here and I just really wanna let this out, and maybe get some advice. So, my mom and I are extremely close, she is my bestfriend. I live with my mom and my dad lives in...
    xoxocs xoxocs 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    As I type this tonight, I find myself wishing I could turn back the clock and yet i realize that we are all here in this moment for a reason. From me writing this to you reading...
    PeterBGood PeterBGood 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    fionacc11 fionacc11 26-30, F Mar 21

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    I tried trusting people, but they always let me down, they are always only out for themselvses. They hurt me and kept on hurting me,for years and years, to the point where im...
    Wi5huponastar Wi5huponastar 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Trust issues are a serious thing. It angers me when people just expect me to trust them right off the bat. Not just me, but no one should do that. It's like the person doesn't...
    JustCammy JustCammy 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    Having to trust someone too easily has always been my weak point. Each time I tried to trust someone whole fully, they always ended up letting me down or hurting me. Maybe it's...
    Mischief222 Mischief222 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 18

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    I've never been able to trust the man I'm with, it doesn't matter who they are. I always run away, find an excuse and leave them. I trust the universe and know that everything that...
    ragdollissues ragdollissues 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 21

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    I can't trust anyone As soon as I start talking to someone and begin to trust them, they're out the door once again. I don't even know.
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    THIS DEFINITELY. It's either I trust too easily/super super wary of you. I know there's no in between for me. I always end up trusting the wrong people & doubting the people who I...
    ELSAhugsyou ELSAhugsyou 18-21, F Apr 5

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    I don't trust anybody and I know I can't trust you. I sleep next to you every night and ask myself when when is it going to be enough what's it going to take to walk out ... I'm...
    KrzySexyCool KrzySexyCool 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    been betrayed by so many people I don't even know what trust is anymore
    pinkisperfect pinkisperfect 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I used to be so naive and only believed in innocence. But then people turned out to be not what I thought they were. So now it's very hard for me to trust people cuz history does...
    azngirl123 azngirl123 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    The thing about me is that I need to be ABSOLUTELY sure that you will be true to your word. I don't want to find out you have lied to me next day. I've had trust issues since I was...
    Kitzami Kitzami 13-15, M Mar 21

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    I hate having trust issues. It sucks. Especially when you're in a long distance relationship. I hate being on edge.
    Amydenson1 Amydenson1 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Mostly what happened to me in the past makes me not trust many people today... I didn't mean to make my friend think I'm pushing him away, it's just instinct because I don't want...
    mangadrawer12321 mangadrawer12321 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 30

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    I can't trust people too easily...
    sometimesquiet sometimesquiet 13-15, F Mar 31

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    My issues come from being left so many times. Also they stem from being cheated on. How will I ever be able to trust anyone again?
    BiO811HazarD BiO811HazarD 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 1

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    People are so fickle,I know this because I'm fickle. Me,human and fickle. I wish I wasn't,I wish I could deem myself superior to all humanity but I'm not. I try to do my best,to...
    RedeemingRose RedeemingRose 18-21, F Apr 4

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    Idk if I cab ever trust ppl if I open up to someone I already know that they are going to talk about me regardless
    Reynastaxx Reynastaxx 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Every guy I've been with gives me multiple reasons not to trust then... But I give people chance.. After chance... After chance.. After chance..
    Alleyahnevaeh Alleyahnevaeh 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    My whole family sexually abused me when I was little and the only one who didn't (my mom) doesn't believe me and takes their side. I don't trust anyone or their intensions but I...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I trust you to an extent...
    lifesize lifesize 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    You get burnt enough times and it's hard to imagine anything else will happen besides that. I try to give every man the benefit of the doubt, but sometimes.... I just don't know...
    mashay mashay 26-30, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    Every guy I have ever liked in my entire life has either not felt the same way as me, has ended up being a total jerk, has used me, forgotten me, hurt me, or has simply tossed me...
    Sapphire14 Sapphire14 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    My boyfriends, john, best friend,Paul, died in a car accident in November. Paul was going to marry a girl. Now my boyfriend and her talk often. Which is understandable but lately...
    dixie201425 dixie201425 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hello, I am thirty five years old, and I have a huge issue. I happen to be attracted to young guys. Now, I don't mean like little twelve year olds...but like fifteen and up. It's...
    OldWoman9 OldWoman9 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    My boyfriend is an atheist and I'm catholic . Sometimes I feel like we weren't work in the future because of that . But we've talked aboutt everything under the stars when it comes...
    bananasxoxo bananasxoxo 18-21, F Mar 22

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    I see no problem with dating any ethnicity however there is some my mother and father wouldn't tolerate so I know if I want them to be at my wedding I must stick to what they say...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    It's a wonder why there's even a "problem" with some people in the first place. When you fall in love with someone, that should be something to celebrate, not something to stick...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 4 Responses Mar 28

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    How to make this funny but serious... I believe I was born from a bottle of tanning lotion! Okay no never mind but Snooki could totally be my cousin from the way she looks. I...
    Shiznitone Shiznitone 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm not an alcoholic, but I use alcohol to cope sometimes. I'm trying very hard to make sure this doesn't develop into a problem, but I like the way I feel when I drink. I don't...
    misslizziemae misslizziemae 22-25, F 5 days ago

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