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I Have a Trust Problem

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 103 People

    I Admit It

    I admit when it comes to men I have trust issues.  I am trying to get past it however.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses Feb 7, 2009

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    Not So Good With Puppets.

    I'm a control freak, so naturally I have trust issues. There's no way I can in good faith control another person's thoughts or actions, so there's never any guarantee that my trust won't be betrayed. I work on it, though. Just because I'm a touch misanthropic doesn't mean I give...
    SaintThursday SaintThursday 26-30 Dec 9, 2009

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    Just Guys.

    I have a problem trusting men. Maybe it's because I had a bad experience with my father as a kid, but I am immediately suspicious of any guy being friendly towards me. I just can't believe any guy would like me, even as just a friend, and it's frustrating sometimes...
    immaheidi immaheidi 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2009

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    Trust

    I some times had trust issues with some of my family  they have hurt me abused me . I have trust issues i know but when my trust has been broken i have not much of a relationship with the person when trust is broken what do you have? not much....
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F Jul 2, 2009

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    Big Time

    For me it's always been really hard to trust people with any part of my life, there are so many things that I haven't told people. Maybe just two or three people including my sister (oobergoobergreengirl) are the only ones I trust with everything, but it's still hard...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 10, 2009

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    I Can't Even Trust My Closest Friend

    Who happens to also be my roommate. She has no problem telling me things. And things I've told her I'm sure she's kept between us. But to me, a person who is free to talk to YOU about OTHER PEOPLE also has no problem doing the same thing to you. Which I think of her, despite her...
    cloudsinmycoffee cloudsinmycoffee 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 28, 2009

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    Thank You Note

    Thank you for being here for us! I do not have a "Trust Problem " anymore, I trust enormously and it s complicated issue! I think, I would be better to learn from someone to trust just a little. Not everything and everyone!
    carmelitas carmelitas 26-30 Jul 1, 2009

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    Trust Noone

    one of my favorite sayings is trust noone. If you trust yourself its a lot easier and the only person you can let down is you.  Sometimes i cant even trust myself...so there you go!.
    thehippy thehippy 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    A Big One

    I never trust people until they win my trust, and that takes a lot, most of the time. Once I trust them I can not let them go. It is very, very exhausting. It might break me up some day.
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F Mar 1, 2009

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    No Trust For You & Me

     Growing up I would trust everyone! Then my "friends" would break that trust by hurting me anyway they could! Now it takes me FOREVER to trust people! I have a friend that I have known for 7 years and I still to this day don't trust her! I want to but I just can't...
    OlesyaD OlesyaD 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    I Have

    I've gotten **** on one to many times to count.x
    AmericanAngel04 AmericanAngel04 26-30 1 Response Jan 24, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I have really bad trust issues. I always feel like people are just messing with me and are trying to hurt me. this causes me to push people out of my life. I hate this about myself...
    jessical6 jessical6 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I am 15 year old girl from India. I've grown up being called black and ugly. I never knew India could reach this extent of racism until I was admitted to a new school. I had an...
    Shreya16 Shreya16 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Too many. Way too many. People, a lot of those I've come across, lie, make false promises, make you believe in them and then show you the the other side of the picture, the reality...
    FallingApart33 FallingApart33 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    My Mom left my dad and I when I was 18 mo.old, my Grandmother tried to get me adopted at about 4 years old. My stepmother abused me physically,emotionally,sexually and any other...
    whiplash22 whiplash22 61-65, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Overthinking is ruining my life. I have moments where I stop overthinking and I feel truly happy. That's the worst part, knowing what life would be like if I just stopped...
    nlhunt876 nlhunt876 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I have no problem with interracial relationships. my family is all married to white women and men. I see no difference in people and I'm from the east side of San Antonio. I...
    claytonspain claytonspain 31-35, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Sooo many people who have issue with interracial marriage or relationships don't even bother to take any time to try to learn anything about the so called "races", how or what...
    AvGeek AvGeek 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Today I have totally given up on hoping to ever trust anyone. I cannot even trust my own mother. That bond broke today just a little bit more and I don't know if I have much more...
    js246 js246 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'd love to have an interracial friendship! it would be so interesting to share life experiences
    mariangelav mariangelav 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    My ex has turned me into a very untrusting person. I always believed him... Stood up for him... He had for years been doing things that left me trusting nothing about him...
    WastedShadedDaylight WastedShadedDaylight 31-35, F 15 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm super ******* lonely and all I want is a boyfriend, but every guy who shows an interest in me I just brush them off. As soon as I find out that they like me it makes me super...
    rainbro rainbro 18-21, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've been with him on and off for about a year and a half. We've got back together and have been with one another for about 6 months now. Things have taken a bit of a turn...
    HaightStreet HaightStreet 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I really dont trust and it ruins my relationships with people. . . its toxic to my life and i wish i could change it. . . . but people keep abusing my trust. . this has happened...
    212panda 212panda 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    this boy named nick, he's like super into me and I told him I can't be near him only because I'm scared... I'm scared to get close to someone like him...I've been threw some...
    SinfulSkin SinfulSkin 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    There is no one that I can tell everything to. I tell a few people a lot, and a lot of people a little. However, I tell no one everything.
    DreamRiver DreamRiver 70+, F 8 Responses Feb 4

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    I'm someone that would love to be in a interracial relationship. I'm a young African-American guy that has always had a thing for white girls and especially foreign girls...
    MrIppikodoku MrIppikodoku 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 4

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    So its not me its my mom Her heart veins/nerves is bended like idk what it triggered it or maybe since she was young she had bended veins in her heart but im so scared to lose my...
    treasure1212 treasure1212 16-17, F Feb 3

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    I think it is all about taste. I am white and have a black man, always had and have no idea why, but that is what I like
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 3

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    It really shouldn't be a problem. It's 2016. Change is happening. I hate people who judge others for liking other races. It's not a big deal
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority 18-21, F 10 Responses Feb 2

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    And if you can't accept that then please warn me before commencing communication... I have willingly given the fruits of my soul too often, in the hope for what? An imaginary...
    Listening80 Listening80 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 2

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    I don't have trust issues. People have lying issues. I'm so over having to label myself this way as if I've never trusted anyone before. Every time I put my trust in someone they...
    BeverlyPills BeverlyPills 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 1

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    I hate when girls say "don't worry, he's just a friend." Uhh I remember not to long ago when I was your "friend" and wanted to get with you the entire time!
    navywill navywill 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 1

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    I'm always waiting for the other person to turn their back on me, betray me or just leave me. I don't believe anyone will ever (want to) stay. Yes, I know I'm insecure. Yes, it's...
    js246 js246 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    I definitely have no problem with interracial relationships. I have dated, married and even been get pregnant several times by different black men. I am a white woman and just...
    vabeachfemale vabeachfemale 51-55, F 5 Responses Jan 31

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    but not in relationships. usually just with simple things like small favors and what not. I'm so motivated to get things done, I'd rather do them myself then attempt to trust...
    justtttt justtttt 18-21, F Jan 31

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    The world ive seen is full of lies. Ever since i was a little girl, i knew that my father was telling so many lies. I think it really made me the person i am today, someone who can...
    reddddddddd reddddddddd 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    I have never been in a relationship because of the simple fact that I don't trust anyone, with anything. In fact, I am still a virgin because I don't trust anyone enough to put a...
    anonyme23 anonyme23 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    My mom always likes to borrow my Facebook to look up people she knows but I don't like it and she always says she does not like Facebook but I want her to get one so she doesn't...
    megos21 megos21 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 30

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    I've been in a relationship for 3 weeks and I feel so wierd. I have to start a communication on Facebook if I want to go out with her. I don't even know if she wants to be with me...
    Racer19872 Racer19872 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    I have been abused before. It wasn't nice, he moved away before the police could get him. My mother knew.
    Ducostrinity Ducostrinity 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 28

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