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I Have a Trust Problem

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    No Trust For You & Me

     Growing up I would trust everyone! Then my "friends" would break that trust by hurting me anyway they could! Now it takes me FOREVER to trust people! I have a friend that I have known for 7 years and I still to this day don't trust her! I want to but I just can't...
    OlesyaD OlesyaD 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    I Have

    I've gotten **** on one to many times to count.x
    AmericanAngel04 AmericanAngel04 26-30 1 Response Jan 24, 2009

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    Big Time

    For me it's always been really hard to trust people with any part of my life, there are so many things that I haven't told people. Maybe just two or three people including my sister (oobergoobergreengirl) are the only ones I trust with everything, but it's still hard...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 10, 2009

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    Trust

    I some times had trust issues with some of my family  they have hurt me abused me . I have trust issues i know but when my trust has been broken i have not much of a relationship with the person when trust is broken what do you have? not much....
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F Jul 2, 2009

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    Not So Good With Puppets.

    I'm a control freak, so naturally I have trust issues. There's no way I can in good faith control another person's thoughts or actions, so there's never any guarantee that my trust won't be betrayed. I work on it, though. Just because I'm a touch misanthropic doesn't mean I give...
    SaintThursday SaintThursday 26-30 Dec 9, 2009

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    I Can't Even Trust My Closest Friend

    Who happens to also be my roommate. She has no problem telling me things. And things I've told her I'm sure she's kept between us. But to me, a person who is free to talk to YOU about OTHER PEOPLE also has no problem doing the same thing to you. Which I think of her, despite her...
    cloudsinmycoffee cloudsinmycoffee 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 28, 2009

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    A Big One

    I never trust people until they win my trust, and that takes a lot, most of the time. Once I trust them I can not let them go. It is very, very exhausting. It might break me up some day.
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F Mar 1, 2009

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    Trust Noone

    one of my favorite sayings is trust noone. If you trust yourself its a lot easier and the only person you can let down is you.  Sometimes i cant even trust myself...so there you go!.
    thehippy thehippy 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    Thank You Note

    Thank you for being here for us! I do not have a "Trust Problem " anymore, I trust enormously and it s complicated issue! I think, I would be better to learn from someone to trust just a little. Not everything and everyone!
    carmelitas carmelitas 26-30 Jul 1, 2009

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    I Admit It

    I admit when it comes to men I have trust issues.  I am trying to get past it however.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses Feb 7, 2009

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    Just Guys.

    I have a problem trusting men. Maybe it's because I had a bad experience with my father as a kid, but I am immediately suspicious of any guy being friendly towards me. I just can't believe any guy would like me, even as just a friend, and it's frustrating sometimes...
    immaheidi immaheidi 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    My whole life I had have trust issues. It seemed like I was always told something and then it would change. I never knew what to believe? I have a very hard time trusting people. I...
    ButterflyPrincess876 ButterflyPrincess876 22-25, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have trust issues. I hate it. I try so hard to ignore them that I ignore warning signals. I then put myself in a situation that enforces my trust issues. I will stay where I hate...
    friendstrong friendstrong 41-45, F 1 Response May 3

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    I have trust issues because I have had more disappointment and sadness in my life than joy and happiness. I was in love with a guy that abused me and the trust just went out the...
    Kimmi2001 Kimmi2001 31-35, F 4 Responses May 14

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    I may have trust issue but I guarantee you. I would ignore millions of guys if you would just let me in. Instead of leaving me out on the porch knocking at your trust door.
    ANNI3PI3 ANNI3PI3 16-17, F May 20

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    Don't you just hate it when all your friends stab you in the back? When you make a promise that you'll never leave one another even in times where one is in need or in trouble...
    SebbyPewPew12 SebbyPewPew12 13-15, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have trust issues , and its destroying me
    faithnhope22 faithnhope22 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    I have trust issues because I've always had the unexpected happen from people I was close with, it showed me that you never truly know someone when they are put in certain...
    groovyhugsbunny groovyhugsbunny 18-21, F 2 Responses May 11

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    I knew a girl that I worked with and we became extremely close friends and had hung out multiple times. I knew her 3 years and I decided to host a birthday party for her. well she...
    freebirdkimmi freebirdkimmi 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I have this problem.... I look better than I do in real life in my selfie pictures and on top of that my voice sounds s€xy on the phone.... I feel like people get a false...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket 36-40, F 6 Responses May 6

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    I have no problem with it. I was in one myself with a lady from America. I'm black and she's white. Before I got into one with her I never imagined me being in an interracial...
    RastaGotSoul RastaGotSoul 22-25, M 1 Response May 10

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    I have No problem With Interracial dating but I think in my country South Africa it is still a problem :(
    Prudyzee Prudyzee 22-25, F 1 Response May 11

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    I have no problem with you being you. I have no problem with you being religious or atheist, gay, straight, male, female or anything in between or outside of those boxes. I don't...
    JSUNJ JSUNJ 36-40, M 1 Response May 11

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    I have no problem with interracial relationships ever. I have dated several black men over the years. I am now married to a black man. I have had 3 of my kids by him. My other...
    femalewithredhair femalewithredhair 31-35, F 3 Responses May 10

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    Ok so I have a problem...I like this guy and I want to ask him out...but my best friend also really likes him...she told me that she likes him but I haven't told her that I like...
    JordanBaby246 JordanBaby246 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    Not your typical trust issues though. I trust people too much, and I trust until I have a reason to not trust them. It's an issue because people easily lie to me, and I constantly...
    jellolia jellolia 16-17, F 5 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I'm really starting to question who I can trust anymore. In the past 8 months I've seen so many people who I considered friends and who I thought I knew really well, slowly reveal...
    TheNarratorGrim TheNarratorGrim 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Okay , so this goes to all the people single out there. When people say that they aren't gonna **** you over and they promise you and they give you and tell you everything and then...
    malibubabi malibubabi 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    My sister abruptly stopped talking to me after 20 years of a really close friendship. I was 40 at the time and I asked her to tell me why. She said I was self righteous and...
    bubblesfloat bubblesfloat 51-55, F 2 Responses May 20

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    It's been going on many times. I had bad experience with someone I loved before.I trusted him that he loved me and I trusted him in every ways.But I realized I wasn't the only one...
    des3low des3low 31-35, F 3 Responses May 3

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    so my boyfriend gave me his phone to use and I saw a Facebook message from awhile ago from a blocked person saying baby baby and him sweet talking them... I immediately flipped out...
    emlindsay emlindsay 16-17, F 1 Response May 6

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    Write about your experienceThere are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a...
    Julieccaa Julieccaa 26-30, F 2 Responses May 12

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    Struggling with trust today. Trust hurts. But i do not want to lose the ability to trust or take the chance in missing out on something amazing because of my lack of it. i do not...
    DiaLeigh DiaLeigh 26-30, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    There's too many reasons to list why I have a hard time trusting. I'm in a relationship and I fear that I will lose my best friend because of this. He has done nothing to me to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 13

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    Ever since I was little I've always been afraid of trusting people;afraid that once I let them in they'd do something and hurt me. Now I give my trust to people and they use it...
    Xxtriciakittyxx Xxtriciakittyxx 13-15, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Trust issues are not rare. They are sane. The wealthy created crimes. The poor copied those crimes. And trust got rare.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 2 Responses May 2

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    How can i trust others when i can not trust my own "thoughts" about anyone else . . . .
    212panda 212panda 31-35, F 1 Response May 12

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    I really can't trust to save my life. It's ruining everything, and right now. I'm on the verge to messing everything with someone who means the world to me because I just can't...
    aDesperado aDesperado 18-21, M 3 Responses May 14

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    I've been lied to and stepped on in the past to many times to just let someone into my bubble. i dont trust easily but i can trust. its hard to break my walls down but if you show...
    littleshit04 littleshit04 16-17, F 1 Response May 15

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    How do you trust someone else when you don't even trust yourself?
    dejamariex dejamariex 18-21, F 5 Responses May 16

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    We don't trust people not because we have second thoughts about the person. It's because they haven't showed or did something convincing enough to trust them.
    shuv20 shuv20 18-21, M 1 Response May 12

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    I used to trust so easily. Things have changed quite a bit. I think it's safe to say that I am more aware than I used to be. Trust issues at such an early age? I don't even know...
    CyanideY CyanideY 70+, F 2 Responses May 16

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