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I Have a Trust Problem

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    Trust Noone

    one of my favorite sayings is trust noone. If you trust yourself its a lot easier and the only person you can let down is you.  Sometimes i cant even trust myself...so there you go!.
    thehippy thehippy 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    I Can't Even Trust My Closest Friend

    Who happens to also be my roommate. She has no problem telling me things. And things I've told her I'm sure she's kept between us. But to me, a person who is free to talk to YOU about OTHER PEOPLE also has no problem doing the same thing to you. Which I think of her, despite her...
    cloudsinmycoffee cloudsinmycoffee 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 28, 2009

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    Trust

    I some times had trust issues with some of my family  they have hurt me abused me . I have trust issues i know but when my trust has been broken i have not much of a relationship with the person when trust is broken what do you have? not much....
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F Jul 2, 2009

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    All my life. Honestly,

    All my life, people come up to me. Smile, say hi, whatever. We become friends, then best friends. And then this person would turn around and back stab me. I. Am. Sick. Of. It. I feel like that I should hate every living thing in this world now. Innocent or not, young or old. I...
    evie2001 evie2001 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    No Trust For You & Me

     Growing up I would trust everyone! Then my "friends" would break that trust by hurting me anyway they could! Now it takes me FOREVER to trust people! I have a friend that I have known for 7 years and I still to this day don't trust her! I want to but I just can't...
    OlesyaD OlesyaD 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    I Have

    I've gotten **** on one to many times to count.x
    AmericanAngel04 AmericanAngel04 26-30 1 Response Jan 24, 2009

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    I Admit It

    I admit when it comes to men I have trust issues.  I am trying to get past it however.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses Feb 7, 2009

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    Thank You Note

    Thank you for being here for us! I do not have a "Trust Problem " anymore, I trust enormously and it s complicated issue! I think, I would be better to learn from someone to trust just a little. Not everything and everyone!
    carmelitas carmelitas 26-30 Jul 1, 2009

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    A Big One

    I never trust people until they win my trust, and that takes a lot, most of the time. Once I trust them I can not let them go. It is very, very exhausting. It might break me up some day.
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F Mar 1, 2009

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    Big Time

    For me it's always been really hard to trust people with any part of my life, there are so many things that I haven't told people. Maybe just two or three people including my sister (oobergoobergreengirl) are the only ones I trust with everything, but it's still hard...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 10, 2009

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    Just Guys.

    I have a problem trusting men. Maybe it's because I had a bad experience with my father as a kid, but I am immediately suspicious of any guy being friendly towards me. I just can't believe any guy would like me, even as just a friend, and it's frustrating sometimes...
    immaheidi immaheidi 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2009

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    Not So Good With Puppets.

    I'm a control freak, so naturally I have trust issues. There's no way I can in good faith control another person's thoughts or actions, so there's never any guarantee that my trust won't be betrayed. I work on it, though. Just because I'm a touch misanthropic doesn't mean I give...
    SaintThursday SaintThursday 22-25 Dec 9, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I find this topic rather odd - a serious point, is there actually anyone (Nazis aside) who does have a problem with such relationship.
    Sam66a Sam66a 46-50, M 8 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I have no problem with interracial relationships my boyfriend is half black and it don't bother me at all we been together for 7 months and I couldn't be any happier
    godsgift1993 godsgift1993 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I think I have trusted people too much and I was let down badly by them.I don't know why I still trust people.Trusting less may mean getting hurt less.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 12 Responses Oct 29

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    I'm beginning to have trust issues today I know I shouldn't but it's getting worse Ever since my girlfriend left this site I don't know who to trust 😞 I feel so alone. No one...
    JonnyBurrows10 JonnyBurrows10 18-21, M 6 Responses Oct 24

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    Raisin cookies that looks like chocolate chip cookies are the main reason I have trust issues.
    hippiee hippiee 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    I've been played so many times in the past that I now have trust issues. I would love to not get played for once in my life.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 6 Responses Nov 1

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    I've dated guys/girls of the other colors so for me I have no problems with this.
    JazLife21 JazLife21 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 27

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    I really only like black guy. So I definitely don't have a problem with interacial relationships.
    PrincessKylieP PrincessKylieP 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    My female friend, who is white, is dating a girl who is black. I have no problem with that! :) Love isnt about the color of skin. Its about how much you love them and how much they...
    Sierra1993 Sierra1993 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 11

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    i am a Mexican American but i LOVE white girls and Asian girls i love them way more than Mexican American girls. i guess like they say, opposites attract, its true. i have brown...
    LightSparks LightSparks 26-30, M 4 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I was in a relationship with my highschool sweetheart for 5 years, and in that period of time, I realized that I did not know how to be a girlfriend and I did not know how to be in...
    thisgirl92 thisgirl92 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 8

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    I have always worn my emotions on my sleeves. I get angry so fast that it shocks me sometimes. I black out and before I know it I'm back and I'm looking at the person who made me...
    SheIsBroken SheIsBroken 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    I have No one Who brings me Happiness anymore, Is wrong to chase the girl Of My dreams Even if I doubt She would want to even talk to me My Brain gives off the worst mixed Signals...
    DanielisLost DanielisLost 18-21, T 11 hrs ago

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    I am in an interracial marriage and have three beautiful biracial children. I don't even think about it anymore, until I saw this topic. It caught me off guard really, then I said...
    justjayne justjayne 41-45, F 6 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Why I'm afraid. I'm afraid of being vulnerable. I used to think i had no control beyond my own skin. That all I could control.. I inflicted on myself. The pain I caused. Before...
    BelleRaven BelleRaven 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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    I have major trust issues. There were 2 men I truly trusted and both were not faithful and said awful things. It not only broke my spirit, but also my pride & my confidence. I can...
    UnfortunateCookie UnfortunateCookie 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    The power of trust: In these days of scams and unashamed graft, what comes to mind are Shakespeare's words, 'Love all, trust (only) a few'. Quite often we see the innocent and...
    rajblr1970 rajblr1970 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 28

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    it's funny how we always say I trust him/her it's just their friends I don't trust around them.. truth be told if we trusted them 100% they could be around the hottest person on...
    J41LBIRD93 J41LBIRD93 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    The hardest part about getting into a serious relationship is trusting that person. I used to think the ultimate form of trust, at least for myself, was sexual vulnerability. I was...
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 21

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    Trust... When someone you trust hurts you they have no idea how you feel. How bad the hurt is by what they have done and how ultimately betrayed you feel. And let me tell you...
    Jenezebel Jenezebel 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 31

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    The bad thing about just trusting one person and opening up a lot to just them is that once there gone your screwed.it's hard for me to really trust anyone so im very cautious with...
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 9

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    I once in a while find someone I feel trust with. Someone I begin to open up to. I never open up completely, but I start. Then when I am away from them I begin to question why...
    cocanola cocanola 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    dianacc11 dianacc11 26-30, F 21 hrs ago

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    So, in learning to trust again I have learned that I have become someone that isn't trustworthy. It seems like and easy fix...just start being honest, but it isn't. When you're...
    seesaw69 seesaw69 26-30 1 Response Oct 21

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    It is funny In this type of world where you know what kind of people exist. The moment you go to a house and ask them a simple question, how they stare suspiciously at you and ask...
    aproudwoman aproudwoman 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 27

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    Trust. Something I've never quite got the hang of. I try to trust people but it's such a struggle. It's really odd how my friends think they know me so well, but really they don...
    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 2

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    What is trust? It's the question I constantly ask myself. What is trust. How do you gain it. Why the **** does everyone tell me one thing and leave me alone the next day. What...
    piercethetaco000 piercethetaco000 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 4

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    I do. Serious trust issues. It's just like, you hurt me how can I expect the next person not to do the same too? But then again it kind of weaves into my "humanity is scum...
    ThereIsNoName ThereIsNoName 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My boyfriend is the only one who keeps me sane. Him being a jr boy and me being a sophomore everyone always says that things will last a maximum of a year or so. His ex...
    lydiathethingy lydiathethingy 13-15, F Oct 21

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    I feel I need to start talking about this to atleast just feel a bit better. My BF and I have been together for approx 6 months now. At the start when we were simply seeing each...
    Bells83 Bells83 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 22

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    Trust is a valuable thing. I believe in the restoration and making a new of all things lost, forgotten or broken. Time, love, care and 'Patience' are key. We walk out of every...
    Qwert143 Qwert143 22-25 2 Responses Oct 22

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    I have been hurt and lied to by the people I trust the most in relationships and out to people have felt the need to never be honest with me,and it has gotten bad to the point I...
    goddessxx goddessxx 18-21, F Nov 1

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    How can I trust you when everything you say is laced with lies? I'm tired of hoping that people will change, because they just stay the same Apologies mean nothing if you do the...
    YellowTulips YellowTulips 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 5

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    Trust is important, but some people make it hard .. if you talk to other girl and laugh with her then you say that she's not your girlfriend then she's what ??!!! :( I try to...
    Haneen269 Haneen269 18-21, F Nov 7

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