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I Have a Trust Problem

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    No Trust For You & Me

     Growing up I would trust everyone! Then my "friends" would break that trust by hurting me anyway they could! Now it takes me FOREVER to trust people! I have a friend that I have known for 7 years and I still to this day don't trust her! I want to but I just can't...
    OlesyaD OlesyaD 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    Not So Good With Puppets.

    I'm a control freak, so naturally I have trust issues. There's no way I can in good faith control another person's thoughts or actions, so there's never any guarantee that my trust won't be betrayed. I work on it, though. Just because I'm a touch misanthropic doesn't mean I give...
    SaintThursday SaintThursday 26-30 Dec 9, 2009

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    Trust Noone

    one of my favorite sayings is trust noone. If you trust yourself its a lot easier and the only person you can let down is you.  Sometimes i cant even trust myself...so there you go!.
    thehippy thehippy 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    Thank You Note

    Thank you for being here for us! I do not have a "Trust Problem " anymore, I trust enormously and it s complicated issue! I think, I would be better to learn from someone to trust just a little. Not everything and everyone!
    carmelitas carmelitas 26-30 Jul 1, 2009

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    I Have

    I've gotten **** on one to many times to count.x
    AmericanAngel04 AmericanAngel04 26-30 1 Response Jan 24, 2009

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    A Big One

    I never trust people until they win my trust, and that takes a lot, most of the time. Once I trust them I can not let them go. It is very, very exhausting. It might break me up some day.
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F Mar 1, 2009

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    I Admit It

    I admit when it comes to men I have trust issues.  I am trying to get past it however.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses Feb 7, 2009

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    Trust

    I some times had trust issues with some of my family  they have hurt me abused me . I have trust issues i know but when my trust has been broken i have not much of a relationship with the person when trust is broken what do you have? not much....
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F Jul 2, 2009

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    I Can't Even Trust My Closest Friend

    Who happens to also be my roommate. She has no problem telling me things. And things I've told her I'm sure she's kept between us. But to me, a person who is free to talk to YOU about OTHER PEOPLE also has no problem doing the same thing to you. Which I think of her, despite her...
    cloudsinmycoffee cloudsinmycoffee 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 28, 2009

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    Big Time

    For me it's always been really hard to trust people with any part of my life, there are so many things that I haven't told people. Maybe just two or three people including my sister (oobergoobergreengirl) are the only ones I trust with everything, but it's still hard...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 10, 2009

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    Just Guys.

    I have a problem trusting men. Maybe it's because I had a bad experience with my father as a kid, but I am immediately suspicious of any guy being friendly towards me. I just can't believe any guy would like me, even as just a friend, and it's frustrating sometimes...
    immaheidi immaheidi 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I have trust issues and I know that. I'm working on it, but it's up to the world to stop helping to **** it up.
    moonlight1989 moonlight1989 26-30, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    chavacc11 chavacc11 26-30, F 19 hrs ago

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    I've had these issues for a long time. Now, unfortunately after having the same experience over and over and over again, I've come to understand. I tend to date the same man...
    boompowsplat boompowsplat 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Dont trust a man that calls you beautiful when everything is fine and dandy but ugly when he's mad at you. It means he's projecting his ugliness onto you.
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm huge on trust. If I no longer trust you or you give me the slightest reason not to trust you, you're pretty much dead to me. It'll be hard to gain my friendship, trust and...
    moonlight1989 moonlight1989 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I Have Trust Issues Because My Family Talks To Me And Then Tell My Business I Try To Tell Everyone That I Think I Can Trust Whats Going On And They Just Think Im A Liar They Hate...
    Clarial Clarial 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I really wish this wasn't an issue for me! I used to be so naive- when people would tell me about hard times in their lives- I would be so thankful that I was so blessed and didn't...
    trying2hard trying2hard 36-40, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm not really sure what to believe I've been lied to so many times and it just causes issues in my relationships cuz they just can't understand why I don't fully trust
    BlairGrace BlairGrace 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have been betrayed by many people in the past even by my own parents so I find it extremely hard to trust anyone nowadays.
    StephBlakeIsInfinite StephBlakeIsInfinite 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have been lied to and let down by many people, so to trust, is to be hurt. Do I think everyone is untrustworthy? No! However, I do believe that some of us either attract or...
    LonesumnTx LonesumnTx 51-55, F 4 days ago

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    I don't trust anyone completely,including myself.
    comfi comfi 51-55, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I can't believe how **** my trust is for people, it brings me down and ruins relationships!
    lilbee2 lilbee2 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I find it so hard to trust my husband even though he shows me and tells me regularly that he loves me. I still think he's going to go out and cheat or leave me for another woman at...
    MrsRusty MrsRusty 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Is everyone perfect or not? I have NEVER met a person who confess their faults up front. I believe this is why the world is in this terrible condition today. A woman can meet a man...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    this should not be a surprise because how the world is now. You cannot trust anyone really. It all depends on what you are trusting them for. As far as my experiences most really...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    my trust issues aren't just paranoia, my trust issues are because so many people have proven time and time again that they can't be trusted.
    SilverSpiritWolf32 SilverSpiritWolf32 31-35, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I read on here about someone having trust issues. And thought I would write to see if anyone could offer me some advice. I have fallen deeply in love with my best friend whom I...
    Jacqualiner Jacqualiner 36-40, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    The sole reason I'm writing this is because of my father. Don't get me wrong, he is a talented man and skilled as a chef, an engineer, a philosopher, a housewife -yes, indeed. He...
    aliasewayne aliasewayne 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I am tired of being alone. The last 2 guys I was with really hurt my faith and trust in others. One traded me in for someone younger and prettier. The other said so many lies and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 19

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    trust issues come from being f*cked over.
    raiee raiee 26-30 Jul 19

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    I am trying to trust someone. It's extremely difficult. I play out all the scenarios in my head of ways he could be lying to me. It's put me into a ball of anxiety. I realize this...
    kitticat007 kitticat007 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 19

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    For me it's not so much about personal relationships as it is about the world at large. I have trouble trusting myself to make the "right" decisions, and I have trouble trusting in...
    AluraDawn AluraDawn 22-25, F Jul 18

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    When people ask why it's so hard for me to trust people, I ask them why is it so hard to keep a promise?
    nobody62442 nobody62442 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    Trust issues every since i became a non virgin, which has everything to do with my "I loved someone who didnt love me back" experience (my heartbreak).. I think everyone is out to...
    beautifulego beautifulego 16-17 Jul 18

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    I don't think my trust issues are too bad, I just have this problem with letting people in and on the rare occasion that I do they are their forever, I guess that's why I only...
    Josimms23 Josimms23 18-21, F Jul 17

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    aylinacc11 aylinacc11 26-30, F Jul 16

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    I have always been a caring and giving person. Despite this I had several early relationships where the woman was unfaithful to me. So now I find it difficult to trust in a...
    ScottyB3389 ScottyB3389 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    So this "British guy" from school went to my job today and even tho we hang out we different crowds we've had conversations before and he told me he was British and all this type...
    ImTheQueenFYM ImTheQueenFYM 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Lately I've been thinking about trust issues. I have them, hence my screen name. Sometimes though I wonder will I ever truly let anyone in. I always run when things feel out of my...
    ShyGrlKat ShyGrlKat 22-25, F Jul 14

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    I have trust issues! Wow do I, I feel almost paranoid about it. I think I am concerned about even bringing,someone into my world. I am afraid they will steal from me, steal my...
    Susiedisney Susiedisney 56-60, F 1 Response Jul 13

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