I Have A Very Negative View Of Myself

It is hard not to absorb the awful things that are said to you by people who supposedly love you. Ha. Love? Whatever. It exists only purely and sincerely  in the hearts of children. With some adults, it seems it is a strategy for...

You know I always feel that whenever i say I have a negative view of myself, it always feels like an understatement. I mean really, I could not be anymore vague on the whole idea of being self-hating? Man, it makes me laugh because no...

on days like today. back when i was lost in my dark life i hated myself beyond words. now that i've improved i usually don't hate myself so much but i still don't like myself either. i honestly don't see what you all see in me and doubt...

i know there are things I really cant help. I'm having trouble with a car, i don't have a job and my family doesn't have much money. and when i had my chance to get a car, something i cant help got in the way.
i really could try harder...

But I can't really think of anything else I have going for me. I'm very shy, not particularly skilled at anything other than maybe writing short stories, I'm kinda lazy, and I think I'm really boring. I don't talk much, so I'm...

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Peace.

hi there im kylee i cant see anything postive about myself,even though people tell me postive stuff i cant see it 

.If one hundred people like me and one doesn't then I have a tendency to focus on that...ignoring all the positive messages I get from the majority. I have had what feels like a long hard time of it this life...and it is hard for me to...

I am unhappy. I wish I could die, but I can't I am fat and disgusting looking, I have an ugly smile, ugly eyes, ugly teeth, ugly hair, ugly ears, ugly piercings. I am ugly. My body is HORRIBLE, I am stupid, I am a moron. I have nothing...

My view of my self is not about looks i know in that way im what others think of as attractive.

my negative view comes from a bit deeper i cant seem to get things right i seem to let people down alot, i dont do it on purpose it...

Some people just SERIOUSLY hate themselves, and I find that really sad to be honest. Sure, I've got a few negative things to say about myself but any normal human being does because no one is perfect! Including me! I'm far from the...

....have a negative view of myself. One of the things I hate about me is my nose. I think its big and has a bump in it. I wish I could get rhinoplasty.

I hate most things about myself:

1. The fact I look so ridiculously young (I am 25 nearly 26 but get told I look 16/18)
2. My looks in general, I have a big nose, flat chested and thin lips with stupidly small ears
3. I have a weird...

even when i do something worthwhile, never seems to be any good, i never like being told when i have done something good as it always sounds patronizing so i push people away

How do you undo close to 20 years of verbal, emotional, and physical abuse?

I mean, not all of it is my own doing.. you get told that your fat, ugly and worthless and you start to believe it don't you.  What I learnt...

I hope this isn't the wrong way to do this, but I have posted this in other groups in search for feedback and support.

I am a 52 year old man, have been suffering from depression and anxiety (officially) for the past 15 years, when I...