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I Have Allowed Someone to Make Me Feel Less Than I Am

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    That's Pretty Much Everyone

    Ok...maybe not everyone.  But a good chunk of people none-the-less! Pretty much everyone I know tells me that I'm a great person and anyone would be lucky to have me as a friend.  Sometimes I have a hard time believing this...  Take my roommates as an example...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 15, 2010

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    Shame On Me

    Having a beautiful lunch on the patio, under an umbrella, he sat smiling, looking at pictures I had brought.   He listened, laughed and interjected making me the happiest I had been in years.  His large, callused hand would occasionally touch mine, squeezing just to let me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 11, 2011

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    It happened all the time in school

    and the effects STILL haven't worn off.I no longer believe I can amount to anything and due to lack of confidence I always find myself "winging it".My logic has always been: If I couldn't stand up to a bunch of cowards in school,how can I stand up to anything or anyone else in...
    KurMujun KurMujun 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 27

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    Once upon a time. But then I saw how miserable

    I was. So I kicked them out of my life:)
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Sep 27

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    After An Entire Year of Supporting This Person, Financially, Emotionally, and Way More Than Physically...

    it has put me into a depression unlike no other I have experienced.  One flower would have meant everything to me.  I pay for everything, I suck **** everyday I am allowed if not more, sex, oh please yes, meals, 3 squares a day.  I have been constantly left like...
    RedheadJolene RedheadJolene 41-45, F 10 Responses Aug 22, 2009

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    My Mother Beat Me And Told Me I Was Stupid

    I can rember befor i started school when i wa about 5 years old my mother thought she would  teach me how to wirte i rember it like it was yesterday her yelling at me i picked up the pencle and tryed to write my name i did even know the ABC'S i picked up the pencil with my...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F Nov 15, 2011

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    I Let Them Walk All Over Me.

     i really want them to be my friend so i let them walk on me so i can have their acceptance. thats why i have low self esteem issues, but no one understands anyway. 
    rainbowclouds rainbowclouds 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2009

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    Just last year, I didn't make great choices.

    I hung out with people who teased me online, called me code names that meant sexual things, and generally made me feel bad. I guess I thought it was normal. Now, looking back, I think, "What was I doing back then?"
    DrowningInRed DrowningInRed 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    I've experienced both emotional

    and verbal abuse...you can never take your words back. Be careful with them...they do damage more than you know.
    sixstring77 sixstring77 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 26

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    I Have Been Allowing...

    I'm confused every day. I don't know which way is the best to go..should I keep having him in my life and feel happy for a while and exhausted later? Is it worth it? I don't know... I may enlighten some day in the future.. My self-esteem is like a rollercoaster while being with...
    kanyakatoon kanyakatoon 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 21, 2011

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    I did once. Now I don't worry about what

    people say about me behind my back. After all, it's none of my business. If it was they would say it to my face. Kind regards, CS
    ConcreteSleeper ConcreteSleeper 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    This Happens To Me A Lot...

    I have low self esteem and am ashamed to say I allow people, especially certain people to make me feel less of a person. I have a co worker who goes very hot and cold. When she is in a good mood she makes me feel great as she is so complimentary and affectionate towards me but...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response May 18, 2011

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    Many People Have

    Consider how gender definitions confine our parents to try and raise us a certain way, then you understand. As for me; I was born a child with a magickal gift of imagination and an actual emotion I associated with magick, but I lived a life when I was hardly able to do what I...
    FunnyLookingCorpse FunnyLookingCorpse 18-21 Dec 16, 2012

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    My So Called Best Friend

    I used to call her my best friend, no idea why as she has always made me feel like I am not good enough. She did it to me in high school and I confonted her about it and it was all ok for a while. It was all ok until we starting going out to the clubs and we did a house share...
    Tigerlilly25 Tigerlilly25 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2011

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    The Shadows

    Ive killed someone. Ive killed myself. I was happy once. Long time ago. Seems silly im only 15 and being 4 seems like yesterday. when i was 4 that was the last time i remember being happy. Once i was 5 life just seemed to go down hill. Why? bullies. Hate them, they walked all...
    KaelaLOVESAll KaelaLOVESAll 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2011

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    All My Life

    All my life put downs were all I knew i even picked a few men that did the same toxic put downs to me they knew the right words to make me feel so less than they made me feel i desirved to be put down and walked on like a door mat. i started going to threarpy and now i know...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2011

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    I am so afraid to be with someone

    who treats me how they should. I appreciate it but I think I should expect it.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Sep 28

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    EllieAmazing EllieAmazing 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 27

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    And I would never do it again

    now that I have control over my life. I let my dad treat me like cramp because I was scared he would hit me. I finally stood up to him, and got hit way more than I expected) but I'm glad I did. It's been 10 years since he moved out, and 9 since he got out of jail.
    Theycallherelly Theycallherelly 13-15, F Sep 28

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    It Took Me Years...

    ...to realize that the nasty-mouthed wise-as*es putting me down were doing so because they were inferior and they were putting me down as the only way to come up to my level. It took a lot of respected folks telling me this to finally get my self-esteem out of the dumps that my...
    eleanorssong eleanorssong 56-60, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2011

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    A Fresh Start

    Well I have decided to regret nothing in my past, even though its littered with pain its shaped me into the person i am today, i am going to take care who i give my heart too,keep strong, and laugh in the face of anyone else who tries to pull me down, it truly cannot get any...
    soulsearchingforever soulsearchingforever 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 31, 2013

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    Insecurities, low self esteem

    and major body image issues led me to treated like crap because at the time I just felt so desperate to feel something from someone that I let them walk all over me.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 27

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    And it was all my own fault

    because I didn't believe in myself. Now I look back and I'm like, wow, I seriously let that girl screw up my mind. Never let anybody tell you that you are not good enough, because they don't know you better than you know yourself. Only you can know if you are good enough.
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F Sep 27

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    My 'dad'

    Well firstly, he isn't my biological dad. I'm adopted and have been ever since I was a baby. Secondly, I hate him and he hates me. He abuses me physically and verbally. Mainly he just makes me feel like nothing, I always say to myself that the next time he does it I will stay...
    ImOkayNow ImOkayNow 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I certainly don't want to forget the past, and the lessons it gave...The truth is - life now is getting out fully of the dark and into the light. "When we begin to take our...
    samemay54 samemay54 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    I think I have hurt someone.So I met this guy who called himself weird but that's okay becoz I liked weird guys since they were fun.And after some conversations he started talking...
    AksharGoyal AksharGoyal 13-15, M Oct 6

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    We are all rowing our boat across the river of life; all starting on the same shore, all going to the shore across the way. Some row one way; some row another way. The current runs...
    samemay54 samemay54 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 9

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    Bday party at the office, year after year. It has become a permanent date in the calendar. That day, I already set my mind on what to do. As I use the motorbike to work more than...
    samemay54 samemay54 41-45, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've ruined flirtationship with someone . i'd rather feel pain but it came up that i felt nothing at all . though I've feeling for him much.
    Mmontag Mmontag 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I met her on omegle and she was very friendly and cool . I was impressed by her genuineness and how bold she is being a single mother . She said to me recently that she finds me...
    1nfern0o 1nfern0o 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I spose we'd be hard pressed to find someone who hadn't. I like to think more about all the times I've drifted off to sleep with a smile on my face. The numbers may not be even...
    niklb niklb 41-45, F Oct 3

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    Because if I don't feel pain, I won't feel anything
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 4

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    and the tears just keep rolling. praying I don't make a dumb mistake. it's not good to make decisions when you're upset.
    lizygurl lizygurl 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    My younger brother died a month ago from blood cancer. He was 18 years old. I can't stop thinking that it should be ME, not him. He was such an amazing guy, he could have achieved...
    cyanesque cyanesque 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I don't wanna say I am too selfcentered, but in my opinion all the people around me are extremely inferior to me concerning philosophical, political, idiological and lifestyle...
    minotaurusmann minotaurusmann 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 23

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    It was a hard thing to do and a long story but isnt a good feeling to save others life?
    Nano567 Nano567 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 25

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    I am 16, she is 14. She is a freshman and I am a junior. I am 4-11 and its humiliating. She is 6-1 and has been a varsity swimmer since 7th grade. She harasses me, tells...
    Carlsoncarly Carlsoncarly 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 27

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    When I was a kid I saved my twin sister's life when she jumped into a pool after forgetting to wear a float. I called my dad, several feet away, back turned, who was preoccupied...
    Suada117 Suada117 26-30, F Oct 4

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    I was on the train heading to LA for a little while to see my aunt get married when I saw this lady come on. She had sooo many bags and a child on her hip and she looked like she...
    cupidzgift cupidzgift 22-25, F Oct 9

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    The last little while hasn't been easy, we've been fighting, I usually start them over the stupidest things. For the last two weeks we were really happy, and I found out about some...
    Mj13ahestrella Mj13ahestrella 22-25, F Oct 12

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    Yup about 3 peoples lives It's a good feeling(:
    iamj iamj 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I told someone to stop when a car was coming... I don't know If that counts
    dashuria dashuria 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It's one of those nights. I hate myself. Ahhh this feeling suuuucks. It's gonna be a long night!
    lizygurl lizygurl 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 2

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    Ok first off totally love this song!!!! Secondly I do have to agree. Pain lets you know you're still alive. Its also a turn on at times. ;)
    SadisticPsychoBitch SadisticPsychoBitch 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    A few years ago my Mum died after having a heart attack, I was holding her hand when her heart finally stopped, that's something nobody should ever have to go through :(
    DefianceUK DefianceUK 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 23

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    The first was when I was working in a small Hospital. I had got to know one of the patients well and we always had a little chat about the book she was reading because she was...
    chrissie58 chrissie58 46-50, F 4 Responses Sep 26

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    I killed two of the gang that raped and beat me for 7 years. I burnt them, I made it look like an accident :) I wish I could have seen it happen =D
    RazorToMySkin RazorToMySkin 16-17, M Oct 10

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    To be honest, this past month have been one of the hardest month in my short life. A couple weeks ago, my best friend called me and told me: Im thinking about suicide. I talked to...
    Amy107 Amy107 13-15, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    This would be a long story. I will write it all out - one of my mad weeks I have had one day, maybe.
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M Sep 23

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    Yeah.. But I'm still ready for the day..
    1DarkBeauty 1DarkBeauty 13-15, F