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I Have Always Been a Bit of a Loner

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 307 People

    I Like People But ...

    Through my life I've felt more comfortable when I'm alone. I'll seek others out from time to time but when I'm alone I get to do what I want and I don't have to compromise. When I'm hanging out with others I'm agreeable to what they want to do but I enjoy my time alone doing...
    Morgause Morgause 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    Will I Ever Make Friends?

    Hi I'm Sarah-Jane from Fife.  I am 15 years old and have never made any friends.  I get upset about it because ever since primary one i have been getting bullied by practically everyone.  I think most people are just drawn to hating me just because I' very...
    gehnose gehnose 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2009

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    Lonely.

    Most the time I have no one to talk to. Would someone like to talk to me?
    nodoubt01 nodoubt01 18-21, M 2 Responses May 25, 2012

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    Never Been Able To Keep Friends

    I have made friends at college etc but I don't mix personal and private together. I am a very very private person. I think I have been made to feel guilty all my life about the child sex abuse and made to feel guilty about everything in my life. my sister is the one who has...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Apr 13, 2011

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    Changes

    I have always been somewhat a loner. When I was younger I was sick a lot so I was used to be by my self, or only with my family. As I grew up and started school I had no idea how to talk with the kids in my class. I remember going everyday to school, sitting in my seat, never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    To Everyone.................

    i don't think i can muster up the courage to delete my account here.............................all the 128 stories i have written here are the proof that i love this place its like home and u all have been so much loving and caring.....................but i have realized i m not...
    snuffal snuffal 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    Skydiving Is Insanely Fun

    Every person belongs to a group, be it an age group, a gender group or a base ball team. It gives comfort and a somewhat misleading feeling of safety. In return every group has its membership fee. The fee limits the access. Being convinced that the ultimate...
    moreandless moreandless 56-60, M 1 Response Aug 22, 2010

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    I could blame my upbringing

    but it's just what I chose for most of my life
    sahmmama sahmmama 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    I am, and that Is just the way it is.

    Never been one to have friends, make fake friends or buy buddies.   Some have tried to understand me and have been on the sidelines for decades, but I just am not able to pretend to care about the latest pop culture gossip or the famiiy woes...  
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 11, 2009

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    I Am A Loner

    At school after my fathers accident i felt that no one was with me at the house, the only one that cared for me was my father and since his incident no one payed attention to me When school started in Aug. i got used to being alone so i would just ignore everyone, One or two...
    ConfusedGirl101xxx ConfusedGirl101xxx 18-21, F May 3, 2012

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    I Don't Really Have Anybody

    So I joined this site because I saw a lot of other people enjoying the same things I do. I really don't have anybody to talk to though and it sucks; I wish I did. I don't talk to my parents and I dont have any friends. Ive never really had a best friend at all. Its hard to meet...
    nodoubt01 nodoubt01 18-21, M 2 Responses May 20, 2012

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    Lone Wolf

    As much as I wish that I had friends, I prefer to hang out alone. I get lonely sometimes and wish I had people that I could talk to, but hate the process of getting to know people. Awkwardness is public enemy number 1. The meeting stages always feature awkward pauses, which are...
    TheEvilLeaper TheEvilLeaper 26-30, M 3 Responses May 7, 2010

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    Growing Up Socially

    I'm 15. Until summer 2012 I had no real friends, because I hadnt realized their importance until then. I was really lonely that summer, I cried everyday. Im lucky this is the only big problem in my life. I was never 100% alone, I had a kind of group of friends but they didnt...
    ktkva ktkva 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2013

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    Looking For A Change

    I have always felt I am a bit of a loner and a natural introverse, that's a fact. During the elementary and middle school I was very embarrassed in talking to girls, while it was easy to go on well with boys, thanks to football (I'm from Italy and almost every boy plays football...
    GiorgioGi GiorgioGi 26-30, M Nov 3, 2013

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    messed up childhood bouncing between foster

    homes a marriage that lasted 6 months . Luckily we had one son which I raised by myself. He seem to have avoided being a loner. Now he lives far away married himself. Needless to say I have trust issues. I am hoping a new start and a new town i can adapt
    oldguy221 oldguy221 51-55 1 Response Apr 29, 2014

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    Hello!!

    I want to make some new friends. I an awfully shy and don't have many friends in college. I cannot talk when I am in a crowd . always spent my lunch breaks in my dorm or library . I always used to be myself so far.I am really lonely. would someone talk to me?
    riaroy006 riaroy006 18-21, F Oct 23, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I am 24, I have always been an incredibly shy person. I suffer from social anxiety alot and because of that I never had a lot of friends. I am an extremely nice person, I always go...
    nlove90 nlove90 22-25, M May 9

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    It's the most uncomfortable thing to say, especially at my age. And worst part of it is, am not even sure if i am ready for one. But deep down inside, I know something in my life...
    Significant Significant 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    This is the way my life is turning out, and it's probably down to me for the most part. I've always been introverted and quite shy, maybe a little aloof too. And soon, the...
    RealLifePerson RealLifePerson 26-30, M 2 Responses May 21

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      Age has always been a factor in landing a job. This also happens in middle management level. Once, when you have gray hairs and bent back and you are a manager, you are...
    ruthlewis ruthlewis 31-35, F May 25

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    I am a 23 yr old male in college and even though I have been in college for 5 years, I have never had the opportunity to meet anyone. Let me explain. In high school, I never really...
    lonelyman1113 lonelyman1113 22-25, M 3 Responses May 22

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    I just finished college and have never been in a relationship. I've had several "almost" relationships with people... One friends with benefits situation that tore me apart, a...
    freegreentree freegreentree 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have never been on an actual date but I might get my first this Friday at the movies to see avengers. I want to date this girl badly so I have been googling date things and...
    BenedictJones BenedictJones 13-15, M 3 Responses May 18

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    I am confessing that I haven't been on a date ever. I am not ashamed or......
    AngelsinDevon AngelsinDevon 18-21, M May 19

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    Has anyone here ever been to The Fillmore Silver Spring in Silver Spring, Maryland? I just bought two tickets - one for me and one for my mom - to the VIP area of the venue to see...
    neverendingfairytale2 neverendingfairytale2 36-40, F May 20

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    23 and never been kissed. Thats far older than most of the people posting under this topic but i just wanted to say theres really nothing wrong with waiting if you don't think its...
    Jothic Jothic 22-25, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    My parents should have never gotten together, and thus I should have never been born.
    PendulEmPlum PendulEmPlum 18-21, F May 7

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    I am a 27 years african guy and have never been in a relationship before, either online or physical ...I am very shy because of my small stature and girls don't find me attractive...
    silenthill87 silenthill87 26-30, M 2 Responses May 16

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    No I have not been arrested and don't want too. I don't want to have to explain it to future employers.
    rubyjuly rubyjuly 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I am a loner and I have been this for as long as I can remember I don't have friends and I don't know how to talk to people. So I'll probably be this way forever but I guess I'm ok...
    erasemyexistence93 erasemyexistence93 22-25, M 1 Response May 5

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    Some may disagree with me, but I'm a loner to the core. I only engage with people when I have to. Life has taught me not to trust people. I'm happy to be alone, no one to rely on...
    Derfthequantumpotato Derfthequantumpotato 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I am just a ***** and Jesus Hates me what is the point of living and even being born when He hates u & wants you in hell and is going to condemn you ? And then He curses you and...
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F 1 Response May 5

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    I'm 20 and I never had any kind of relationship. I see all these happy couples around me, and I feel sick, angry and sad. I hate that I feel like that. I never wanna go out because...
    Sal395 Sal395 18-21, M 1 Response May 23

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    "Resting ***** Face" hahaha Some girls just have it - I guess including me. hahaha
    endlessl0ve endlessl0ve 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I think the hardest part about being 21 and having never come close to getting kissed is how much harder it makes figuring out my sexuality. I feel like I'm one way but my total...
    CurvyQueen41421 CurvyQueen41421 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I need a mistress! Any sort of femdom, sadly online only as I'm young. I'm into almost anything and am in serious need. Have very few limits, any age welcome, female only. Does not...
    frobro15 frobro15 13-15, M May 15

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    I'm a 19 year old girl thats never been kissed, never been in a relationship, and (surprise) never had sex. I dont like myself to begin with, so its hard for me to believe a guy...
    ab524 ab524 18-21, F 3 Responses May 22

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    i.m 35 and never been in a relationship I'm terrible and terrified talking to women or ask them out I've been thinking that I'm better off not being in a relationship
    eric8811 eric8811 31-35, M 1 Response May 23

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    im 19, soon to be 20 in july and i've never been kissed or had a boyfriend. the more i think about it, the more it brings me down. i feel like if it hasnt happened already, that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 6

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    "Hey, lady!" one guy cried out to a young woman at the gym. "You ever been mistaken for a man?" "No," she replied. "Have you?"
    NarutoShippudenFanGirl NarutoShippudenFanGirl 13-15, F May 8

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    I've never been to juvie, jail. and never been arrested and don't have a criminal record. Im a good girl
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F 1 Response May 9

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    I'm 20 and never been kissed. All my friends have been kissed, in relationships, and had sex. At first I felt left out and felt like I was missing alot. But now that I grew up and...
    TheAlyJ101 TheAlyJ101 18-21, F May 20

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