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I Have Always Been a Bit of a Loner

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 245 People

    Growing Up Socially

    I'm 15. Until summer 2012 I had no real friends, because I hadnt realized their importance until then. I was really lonely that summer, I cried everyday. Im lucky this is the only big problem in my life. I was never 100% alone, I had a kind of group of friends but they didnt...
    ktkva ktkva 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2013

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    I Like People But ...

    Through my life I've felt more comfortable when I'm alone. I'll seek others out from time to time but when I'm alone I get to do what I want and I don't have to compromise. When I'm hanging out with others I'm agreeable to what they want to do but I enjoy my time alone doing...
    Morgause Morgause 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    Never Been Able To Keep Friends

    I have made friends at college etc but I don't mix personal and private together. I am a very very private person. I think I have been made to feel guilty all my life about the child sex abuse and made to feel guilty about everything in my life. my sister is the one who has...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Apr 13, 2011

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    messed up childhood bouncing between foster

    homes a marriage that lasted 6 months . Luckily we had one son which I raised by myself. He seem to have avoided being a loner. Now he lives far away married himself. Needless to say I have trust issues. I am hoping a new start and a new town i can adapt
    oldguy221 oldguy221 51-55 1 Response Apr 29, 2014

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    Will I Ever Make Friends?

    Hi I'm Sarah-Jane from Fife.  I am 15 years old and have never made any friends.  I get upset about it because ever since primary one i have been getting bullied by practically everyone.  I think most people are just drawn to hating me just because I' very...
    gehnose gehnose 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2009

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    I Don't Really Have Anybody

    So I joined this site because I saw a lot of other people enjoying the same things I do. I really don't have anybody to talk to though and it sucks; I wish I did. I don't talk to my parents and I dont have any friends. Ive never really had a best friend at all. Its hard to meet...
    nodoubt01 nodoubt01 18-21, M 2 Responses May 20, 2012

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    Skydiving Is Insanely Fun

    Every person belongs to a group, be it an age group, a gender group or a base ball team. It gives comfort and a somewhat misleading feeling of safety. In return every group has its membership fee. The fee limits the access. Being convinced that the ultimate...
    moreandless moreandless 56-60, M 1 Response Aug 22, 2010

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    Hello!!

    I want to make some new friends. I an awfully shy and don't have many friends in college. I cannot talk when I am in a crowd . always spent my lunch breaks in my dorm or library . I always used to be myself so far.I am really lonely. would someone talk to me?
    riaroy006 riaroy006 18-21, F Oct 23, 2013

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    Looking For A Change

    I have always felt I am a bit of a loner and a natural introverse, that's a fact. During the elementary and middle school I was very embarrassed in talking to girls, while it was easy to go on well with boys, thanks to football (I'm from Italy and almost every boy plays football...
    GiorgioGi GiorgioGi 26-30, M Nov 3, 2013

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    To Everyone.................

    i don't think i can muster up the courage to delete my account here.............................all the 128 stories i have written here are the proof that i love this place its like home and u all have been so much loving and caring.....................but i have realized i m not...
    snuffal snuffal 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    I am, and that Is just the way it is.

    Never been one to have friends, make fake friends or buy buddies.   Some have tried to understand me and have been on the sidelines for decades, but I just am not able to pretend to care about the latest pop culture gossip or the famiiy woes...  
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 11, 2009

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    Changes

    I have always been somewhat a loner. When I was younger I was sick a lot so I was used to be by my self, or only with my family. As I grew up and started school I had no idea how to talk with the kids in my class. I remember going everyday to school, sitting in my seat, never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    I Am A Loner

    At school after my fathers accident i felt that no one was with me at the house, the only one that cared for me was my father and since his incident no one payed attention to me When school started in Aug. i got used to being alone so i would just ignore everyone, One or two...
    ConfusedGirl101xxx ConfusedGirl101xxx 18-21, F May 3, 2012

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    Lone Wolf

    As much as I wish that I had friends, I prefer to hang out alone. I get lonely sometimes and wish I had people that I could talk to, but hate the process of getting to know people. Awkwardness is public enemy number 1. The meeting stages always feature awkward pauses, which are...
    TheEvilLeaper TheEvilLeaper 26-30, M 3 Responses May 7, 2010

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    Lonely.

    Most the time I have no one to talk to. Would someone like to talk to me?
    nodoubt01 nodoubt01 18-21, M 2 Responses May 25, 2012

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    What world I'm from I don't know, because I'm more fascinated by a single raindrop traveling down a window pane than I am by a space rocket.
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    This is me forever!!! That's life though.
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    I apologize for my English. And I'm bad with words. And I'm seldom able to put my feelings into words. But how I've been feeling these past few months, it's the worst ever. I've...
    MargoRothSpiegelman MargoRothSpiegelman 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    I have never been kissed I am still waiting for my first kiss I have never been kissed probably because I am shy
    Paul998 Paul998 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 2

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    I'm sorry I haven't been on to all that have messaged me, I am working on replying to everyone! I haven't been ignoring anyone or being rude, just haven't had time lately to do...
    YoungForeverr YoungForeverr 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    At my age, i feel ive been with a nice amount of women when it comes to dating and gfs and so on. But i have never been with a black woman, not that i dont find black women...
    lonelysoul1088 lonelysoul1088 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 20

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    Unlike a ton of people I know I haven't been married as of yet. Two of my closest friends are married. I feel like if I was in a much better financial situation than my life has...
    eartheyes82 eartheyes82 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have never been in love, and I am fine with that. I am young and just having fun! I have had a few boyfriends but I knew with each of them that nothing was going to come from it...
    enviouseyes enviouseyes 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I have never been in any remote relationship with anyone and I'm not in the prime of my life and don't know what to do. I have nobody and have absolutely zero confidence with...
    rugby78 rugby78 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 7

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    I work on a TV show and we are looking for people who have never been kissed to come on our show. Please contact me if you are interested at tvshow17@yahoo.com. Thanks!
    tvshow17 tvshow17 36-40 Jan 21

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    Miss people on here I knew. Or know and haven't talked to for ages. Makes me sad.... Haven't been able to log on much really. Used to get on everyday about two years ago.. Life's...
    Bonnienz Bonnienz 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Yes, it is true. I have never been to Disneyland. Hopefully one day I will :)
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Since I'm in the phone I won't enlong the text. Well.. My life has been keeping me spining, back and foward, into where I have question, over and over. I may know where I might...
    DanAlex DanAlex 18-21, M 1 Response 36 mins ago

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    i always used to think to myself "whats wrong with me?" but these days i dont ask myself that any more,i just became more accepting of who i am, and tell myself that the world...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 13

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    My depression has ruined my relationships. I have gotten rid of all my friends. I had lost interest in my boyfriend and he thought that I was cheating on him, so he left me broken...
    BloomBabyBloom BloomBabyBloom 18-21, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    It was always easier. I had some good friends when I was a little kid. They all moved away. Once I started 1st grade I just didn't fit in, was painfully shy and it was easier to...
    Scott1954 Scott1954 56-60, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    Not so "have just" thogh, it happened two weeks ago I was in a 3 years long relationship. My GF and I were really close the type of "Best Friends & Lovers" Well three weeks...
    ChubbyFox ChubbyFox 18-21, M Jan 1

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    The first time I was bitten I was a kid and my friends uncles dog had puppies. When we went to see them I learned very quickly not to touch a strange dogs puppies. I didn't even...
    Twichl Twichl 18-21, F Jan 20

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    I'm not shy or weird. Maybe I just don't have anything to say?
    thestruggle7126 thestruggle7126 18-21, M Jan 20

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F Jan 4

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    If Only Have you ever wanted something so badly, and then not get it? Whether it be a love interest, a job, or another opportunity, you were just sure would be the perfect fit...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 15 Responses Jan 13

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    that is...until I found this site...I've met a lot of truly sincere, funny, and kind people here. and I guess I just want to say thanks to those people and let you know that all of...
    Inara24 Inara24 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Society has long become more open to the idea of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of...
    angelacc11 angelacc11 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I never kiss anyone before.I want to kiss a woman. :( I wonder how does it feel.I always want to kiss my former therapist,teachers and professors because they were very beautiful...
    Stephanieloveowl Stephanieloveowl 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Ever since I was 4 or 5 I felt like a girl. I was jealous of my sister by her body I didn't understand what was wrong with me I always would dress in her clothes when everyone was...
    jessicw jessicw 41-45 Jan 8

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    To shorten the story, I have an ex fiance from 2004. My father died and he walked away due to my father's death. You know why as good as I do. I ended up having an emotional...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jan 18

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    I told myself I wont post anything anymore about me being alone and lonely and sad about my none existent lovelife... but recent event made me write and I just have no one to share...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 18-21, F 41 Responses Jan 6

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    So as of a few days ago I was convinced that I have been in love 3 times in my life. Twice with co workers and once with someone on EP. But I've started to think, maybe I wasn't in...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    My account has been showing me as logged on when I am not actually on here. It is times when I have been sleeping or busy. I am going to report it, I have also changed my password...
    kinkysexybabe kinkysexybabe 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 21

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    I just had one of those crazy dreams where you think everything that is happening is real, I just had a thought that maybe it's my mind trying to tell me something. I've been to...
    jolley2k jolley2k 18-21, M a week ago

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    I have been cuffed and spanked and now self cuff and self spank. Any questions? Ask away!!!
    canadarm canadarm 61-65, M 6 days ago

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