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I Have Always Been a Bit of a Loner

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    Hello!!

    I want to make some new friends. I an awfully shy and don't have many friends in college. I cannot talk when I am in a crowd . always spent my lunch breaks in my dorm or library . I always used to be myself so far.I am really lonely. would someone talk to me?
    riaroy006 riaroy006 18-21, F Oct 23, 2013

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    I Like People But ...

    Through my life I've felt more comfortable when I'm alone. I'll seek others out from time to time but when I'm alone I get to do what I want and I don't have to compromise. When I'm hanging out with others I'm agreeable to what they want to do but I enjoy my time alone doing...
    Morgause Morgause 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    Will I Ever Make Friends?

    Hi I'm Sarah-Jane from Fife.  I am 15 years old and have never made any friends.  I get upset about it because ever since primary one i have been getting bullied by practically everyone.  I think most people are just drawn to hating me just because I' very...
    gehnose gehnose 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2009

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    Lone Wolf

    As much as I wish that I had friends, I prefer to hang out alone. I get lonely sometimes and wish I had people that I could talk to, but hate the process of getting to know people. Awkwardness is public enemy number 1. The meeting stages always feature awkward pauses, which are...
    TheEvilLeaper TheEvilLeaper 26-30, M 3 Responses May 7, 2010

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    I Am A Loner

    At school after my fathers accident i felt that no one was with me at the house, the only one that cared for me was my father and since his incident no one payed attention to me When school started in Aug. i got used to being alone so i would just ignore everyone, One or two...
    ConfusedGirl101xxx ConfusedGirl101xxx 18-21, F May 3, 2012

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    Changes

    I have always been somewhat a loner. When I was younger I was sick a lot so I was used to be by my self, or only with my family. As I grew up and started school I had no idea how to talk with the kids in my class. I remember going everyday to school, sitting in my seat, never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    messed up childhood bouncing between foster

    homes a marriage that lasted 6 months . Luckily we had one son which I raised by myself. He seem to have avoided being a loner. Now he lives far away married himself. Needless to say I have trust issues. I am hoping a new start and a new town i can adapt
    oldguy221 oldguy221 51-55 1 Response Apr 29, 2014

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    Growing Up Socially

    I'm 15. Until summer 2012 I had no real friends, because I hadnt realized their importance until then. I was really lonely that summer, I cried everyday. Im lucky this is the only big problem in my life. I was never 100% alone, I had a kind of group of friends but they didnt...
    ktkva ktkva 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2013

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    To Everyone.................

    i don't think i can muster up the courage to delete my account here.............................all the 128 stories i have written here are the proof that i love this place its like home and u all have been so much loving and caring.....................but i have realized i m not...
    snuffal snuffal 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    I am, and that Is just the way it is.

    Never been one to have friends, make fake friends or buy buddies.   Some have tried to understand me and have been on the sidelines for decades, but I just am not able to pretend to care about the latest pop culture gossip or the famiiy woes...  
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 11, 2009

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    Skydiving Is Insanely Fun

    Every person belongs to a group, be it an age group, a gender group or a base ball team. It gives comfort and a somewhat misleading feeling of safety. In return every group has its membership fee. The fee limits the access. Being convinced that the ultimate...
    moreandless moreandless 56-60, M 1 Response Aug 22, 2010

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    Looking For A Change

    I have always felt I am a bit of a loner and a natural introverse, that's a fact. During the elementary and middle school I was very embarrassed in talking to girls, while it was easy to go on well with boys, thanks to football (I'm from Italy and almost every boy plays football...
    GiorgioGi GiorgioGi 26-30, M Nov 3, 2013

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    Lonely.

    Most the time I have no one to talk to. Would someone like to talk to me?
    nodoubt01 nodoubt01 18-21, M 2 Responses May 25, 2012

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    Never Been Able To Keep Friends

    I have made friends at college etc but I don't mix personal and private together. I am a very very private person. I think I have been made to feel guilty all my life about the child sex abuse and made to feel guilty about everything in my life. my sister is the one who has...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Apr 13, 2011

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    I Don't Really Have Anybody

    So I joined this site because I saw a lot of other people enjoying the same things I do. I really don't have anybody to talk to though and it sucks; I wish I did. I don't talk to my parents and I dont have any friends. Ive never really had a best friend at all. Its hard to meet...
    nodoubt01 nodoubt01 18-21, M 2 Responses May 20, 2012

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    lovebustyladies lovebustyladies 41-45, M Mar 7

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    As one example that nothing has "always been this way" - here is the history of water purification Historic Milestones in Drinking Water History Circa 400 B.C.: Hippocrates...
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    And while I accept that, it's just who I am and my life, it doesn't mean that it's not hard sometimes. Tonight is one of those times. I was reading a book that I didn't expect to...
    IrisArrow IrisArrow 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    I've always been "different", I knew the path god had in store for me was going to be different than the norm. Might have something to do with the fact that I'm an INFJ
    minuet1965 minuet1965 46-50, F Mar 8

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    I have always had really vivid dreams. Sometimes, my dreams are visions of what will happen in the next day, like my mom making a sandwich or getting a call from a relative. Lately...
    nicolerubinstein nicolerubinstein 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have never been tested for an STD, because I've never needed it. I've only been with my wife and she's only been with me. She was a sweet, innocent virginal girl when we met and...
    devotedhusband devotedhusband 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 11

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    i have too been never in a relationship str8male .love to talk to someone who really wanna fall in love wid me
    ashu15 ashu15 22-25, M Mar 15

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    The truth is I have never been in love. I'm in HighSchool and it sucks not having a girlfriend, I'm 17 and I'm a junior. I can't wait till high school is over and done with
    TheStapes32 TheStapes32 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Have Never Been to Disneyland
    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    I have a lot of mixed feelings when I mention this to people. You know, you always get the response of "How can that be? You are so pretty!" or the most frequent, "You will be soon...
    HopeInConstruction HopeInConstruction 18-21, F Mar 16

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    I think that there are many examples of all the changes that have occurred for the better - through out history and I invite my friends to join this group. We have only begun to...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    This is me. I'm always a person who I tell myself , "I won't care what ppl think and Imma get myself a guy or a girl (I'm bi), and we gonna talk, kiss, cuddle, make love, go out to...
    wondering4me wondering4me 18-21, M Mar 11

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    Sometimes I think I am pretty and sometimes I don't. But either way I try to remind myself that pretty or not, it doesn't determine my worth. Every day i struggle to build my...
    cowellowl cowellowl 22-25 2 Responses Mar 19

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    when I tell girl that I'm interested in that I never been in a relationship before . They become less interested in me and disappear.
    lmt1828 lmt1828 26-30, M Mar 5

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    18 and have never even been kissed. I'm embarrassed about this kiss thing, not so much the never being in a relationship or being a virgin thing. Somedays I want to just get it...
    lookingtovent lookingtovent 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    I feel like society pushes dating at the earliest and I feel that it makes kids like me who have never dated feel worse because of being single and such. I've never done all of the...
    TheStapes32 TheStapes32 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    I'm 16 never had a girlfriend. I've hooked up with girls, but we just made out. I have trouble getting girls to like or notice me. The last girl I had a thing with broke my heart...
    skaterguy skaterguy 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Nope...so not much to say on the subject. I have had boyfriends but too ill to go out. All I can imagine is I guess I would find it nerve wracking.
    stargirl58 stargirl58 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 6

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    I was just spanked by my husband with his strap. I was given 60 swats the most I have ever received. My b.ottom hurts so bad I think this one I will remember for a few good days...
    Jillian525 Jillian525 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    What is the point in asking people to write about real life experiences then tell them what they can write??. I entered a real life story, an actual experience in the section I AM...
    123biggeorge 123biggeorge 51-55, M 1 day ago

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    ....... a little part of me that loves to let go
    luminesce luminesce 51-55, F Mar 14

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    But Wendy was no better than Linda !
    lindaishere lindaishere 36-40, F Mar 17

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    I can get down about myself sometimes. I feel excluded, sort of lonely. I want a boyfriend but at the same time I don't. I'm afraid. I'm afraid of new experiences, new people. I'm...
    elley1 elley1 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    It's a dream of mine but I want to be with someone who is like me. I'm so unique that it's hard to find a girl like me. I find so many shallow girls who want me to be taller or...
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 8

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    all gonna change tonight LOL :'D haha I hope I don't find it weird.
    WhatChrisDid4Love WhatChrisDid4Love 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 14

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    I'm not sure if it's more painful or embarrassing...
    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    It's so embarrassing. I feel like I wouldn't even do it right.
    BlueGirl666 BlueGirl666 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 16

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