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I Have Always Been a Bit of a Loner

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    Never Been Able To Keep Friends

    I have made friends at college etc but I don't mix personal and private together. I am a very very private person. I think I have been made to feel guilty all my life about the child sex abuse and made to feel guilty about everything in my life. my sister is the one who has...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Apr 13, 2011

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    Hello!!

    I want to make some new friends. I an awfully shy and don't have many friends in college. I cannot talk when I am in a crowd . always spent my lunch breaks in my dorm or library . I always used to be myself so far.I am really lonely. would someone talk to me?
    riaroy006 riaroy006 18-21, F Oct 23, 2013

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    Growing Up Socially

    I'm 15. Until summer 2012 I had no real friends, because I hadnt realized their importance until then. I was really lonely that summer, I cried everyday. Im lucky this is the only big problem in my life. I was never 100% alone, I had a kind of group of friends but they didnt...
    ktkva ktkva 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2013

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    Looking For A Change

    I have always felt I am a bit of a loner and a natural introverse, that's a fact. During the elementary and middle school I was very embarrassed in talking to girls, while it was easy to go on well with boys, thanks to football (I'm from Italy and almost every boy plays football...
    GiorgioGi GiorgioGi 26-30, M Nov 3, 2013

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    Lone Wolf

    As much as I wish that I had friends, I prefer to hang out alone. I get lonely sometimes and wish I had people that I could talk to, but hate the process of getting to know people. Awkwardness is public enemy number 1. The meeting stages always feature awkward pauses, which are...
    TheEvilLeaper TheEvilLeaper 26-30, M 3 Responses May 7, 2010

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    Lonely.

    Most the time I have no one to talk to. Would someone like to talk to me?
    nodoubt01 nodoubt01 18-21, M 2 Responses May 25, 2012

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    messed up childhood bouncing between foster

    homes a marriage that lasted 6 months . Luckily we had one son which I raised by myself. He seem to have avoided being a loner. Now he lives far away married himself. Needless to say I have trust issues. I am hoping a new start and a new town i can adapt
    oldguy221 oldguy221 51-55 1 Response Apr 29

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    Skydiving Is Insanely Fun

    Every person belongs to a group, be it an age group, a gender group or a base ball team. It gives comfort and a somewhat misleading feeling of safety. In return every group has its membership fee. The fee limits the access. Being convinced that the ultimate...
    moreandless moreandless 56-60, M 1 Response Aug 22, 2010

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    I am, and that Is just the way it is.

    Never been one to have friends, make fake friends or buy buddies.   Some have tried to understand me and have been on the sidelines for decades, but I just am not able to pretend to care about the latest pop culture gossip or the famiiy woes...  
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 11, 2009

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    Changes

    I have always been somewhat a loner. When I was younger I was sick a lot so I was used to be by my self, or only with my family. As I grew up and started school I had no idea how to talk with the kids in my class. I remember going everyday to school, sitting in my seat, never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    Will I Ever Make Friends?

    Hi I'm Sarah-Jane from Fife.  I am 15 years old and have never made any friends.  I get upset about it because ever since primary one i have been getting bullied by practically everyone.  I think most people are just drawn to hating me just because I' very...
    gehnose gehnose 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2009

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    I Don't Really Have Anybody

    So I joined this site because I saw a lot of other people enjoying the same things I do. I really don't have anybody to talk to though and it sucks; I wish I did. I don't talk to my parents and I dont have any friends. Ive never really had a best friend at all. Its hard to meet...
    nodoubt01 nodoubt01 18-21, M 2 Responses May 20, 2012

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    To Everyone.................

    i don't think i can muster up the courage to delete my account here.............................all the 128 stories i have written here are the proof that i love this place its like home and u all have been so much loving and caring.....................but i have realized i m not...
    destinygirl22 destinygirl22 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    I Like People But ...

    Through my life I've felt more comfortable when I'm alone. I'll seek others out from time to time but when I'm alone I get to do what I want and I don't have to compromise. When I'm hanging out with others I'm agreeable to what they want to do but I enjoy my time alone doing...
    Morgause Morgause 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    I Am A Loner

    At school after my fathers accident i felt that no one was with me at the house, the only one that cared for me was my father and since his incident no one payed attention to me When school started in Aug. i got used to being alone so i would just ignore everyone, One or two...
    ConfusedGirl101xxx ConfusedGirl101xxx 18-21, F May 3, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I am writing my experience here because I can't do it anywhere else without family and friends thinking I'm being "negative" and generally not being interested or even getting...
    SeaweedEater SeaweedEater 22-25 6 days ago

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    I've always felt this inexplicable connection to TITANIC... Yes, I am a history buff, but it goes beyond that. It's so much more than a subject of interest for me. It's a major...
    amazingcuzitis amazingcuzitis 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I'm a merger history buff and have been studying the titanic sense i was 5 and im now 13 going on 14 ik pretty much everything about the titanic so if any of u need help on...
    Blackbelt4ever Blackbelt4ever 13-15, F Aug 11

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    I have been single my whole life and I don't feel attractive at all. I am very picky and would much rather stay single . I don't like many guys my own age. They are so annoying...
    ScorpioPhoenix ScorpioPhoenix 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    To different people. Some of are exotic ( at least from my perception), unique, quiet and keep to themselves, introverted, very deep thinkers, independent minded, and tended to be...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F Jul 31

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    I have always loved fat but i never fully realized it until I got older. As a kid I would stuff pillows and blankets under my shirt simulating me being fat, and it always felt so...
    ilovefatforsomereason ilovefatforsomereason 22-25, M Jul 22

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    It's been such a long time since I've used this I kinda forgot about it but now I'm back bitchezz!! Oh and by the way sorry if you messaged me and I never answered but like I said...
    caitlyn2033 caitlyn2033 13-15, F Aug 11

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    I'm 17 (turning 18) and I have never been in a relationship. Nor have I ever been asked out. I always had problems talking to guys. I'm just too awkward. The majority of guys where...
    DayFawn DayFawn 16-17, F Aug 12

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    I've been on here for a few years but i've always been on and off here, just getting back into it out and I have to stay I have missed it so I shall start posting things again and...
    ForeverOnABoat ForeverOnABoat 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Hello whoever actually reads what I write. I actually haven't been on in a long while, due to a ****** phone, ****** app and my computer actually broke a couple months back...
    GlamGasm GlamGasm 22-25, T Aug 12

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    Nope never been in a relationship. It doesn't bother me at all because my priorities has always been academics and my friends and family. I need to work hard for myself first and...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 15 Responses Aug 12

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    I am 29 years old and have never been in a relationship. Which means yes, I have no experience in the sack. Is that such a bad thing? It seems like these days men and women only...
    bakkenguy bakkenguy 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have always liked someone, or even had love for them, but I have never been in love. The idea seems so foreign to me
    adobson5194 adobson5194 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I have always wanted to be loved just as much as I love....Treated as well as I treat....Respected as much as I respect. Wishful thinking!
    Heartbroken0688 Heartbroken0688 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    Almost everyone in my school has been kissed and they ask me if I have and I tell them no. I am happy that I can say that. I tell them that I want to wait til I'm older. Like if...
    ilovemrfitz ilovemrfitz 13-15, F Jul 21

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    I am 17 years old, and i have never been legitimately kissed. I know, i know i am a horrible person, but hey! i am okay with that. I would rather make my first kiss special, with...
    emptyspaces009 emptyspaces009 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    well , im still 13 so yea, but i have never been kissed before on the lips on neck ( i got kissed on my hand today, but he was only 6 lol) i plan to be kissed when i get wedded but...
    nekokitty13 nekokitty13 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I'm this type of girl that would tell you I have never been kissed, but I don't really mind that much about how long it will take for my first one to happen.
    damnwestcoast damnwestcoast 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I have never been kissed before and I really, really want to know what it's like.
    Scax Scax 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I have a boyfriend... But I never have really been taken out to the movies or had a nice dinner with him. I hung out a lot at my house, but would you call that a date? Cause I don...
    anonymouschicky anonymouschicky 13-15, F a week ago

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    I always wanted to become an actress when I was a child. I even told my mom I did when I was younger. Now that I'm 16 I still want to chase that dream. Honestly I desperately want...
    alwaysjudged alwaysjudged 16-17, F Aug 4

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    Ya a friend can up hugged me and bit my on the neck it's like wtf u some vampire or something lol
    100BlackRoses 100BlackRoses 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    It had been a while... a long while.. way too long that my husband didnt kiss me properly... but these past 2 weeks we have made out more times than the past few yrs!!! The "bite...
    jewel76 jewel76 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    I never even knew what do people basically feels when they are in love. Like i always like someone, i don't know what love would be. Whenever i expressed my feelings for someone...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M Aug 7

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    When I was in high school, I did not care what so ever. I did even consider dating any guys or having a boyfriend and to me it wasn't a big deal. I was always oblivious to anyone...
    EyeOfLight EyeOfLight 18-21 3 Responses Aug 1

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    Im 38 we tried to conceive via surrogate in Jan 2014 it didn't work and we had no extra embryos to work with for another try. On July 4th 2014 I found out I have Endometrial cancer...
    supersad2014 supersad2014 36-40, F Aug 7

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    As a kid, I remember being very mature. Like the same mind I have now, is the same one I had then. The same thought process, the same thoughts and ideas. I did not have a child...
    dianeemariee dianeemariee 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Yup cuz they understand me more than girls .and they don't judge me like girls do and when I wear a t-shirt and jeans they don't tell me u look like a boy they only tell me that I...
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I have this big group of friends, and it was me and my friend who hadn't been kissed. Everyone else in the group had. Then my friend got a boyfriend. So now I'm the only one who...
    jordins22 jordins22 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    "When was your first kiss?" Everyone else: "10" "13" "11" Me:"..... I think I accidentally miight have bumped into a guy and our lips touched but it might've been a dream so..."
    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I almost went Sunday. I had been stuck behind this semi on 331 in lower Alabama for quite a while. Every time the road added a passing lane, he would stay in the left lane, not...
    System113 System113 18-21, M Jul 24

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    I really love my boyfriend, we've been dating for 2 years this fall. And I don't want to hurt him, that's why I've tried to rationally explain that I think we should break up and...
    RomanticLesbian RomanticLesbian 18-21, F Jul 29

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    The only time I ever bumped lips with someone, which in my opinion doesn't count as kissing, was when I was 12 for a dare and I didn't even feel it (thankfully). I don't really...
    Sasha0827 Sasha0827 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    I have been distant even from myself. Almost as if giving up. Which is hardly the case. I just feel distant and cannot get to grips with cacomorphobia. Got intimate with my wife...