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I Have Always Been a Bit of a Loner

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 248 People

    Looking For A Change

    I have always felt I am a bit of a loner and a natural introverse, that's a fact. During the elementary and middle school I was very embarrassed in talking to girls, while it was easy to go on well with boys, thanks to football (I'm from Italy and almost every boy plays football...
    GiorgioGi GiorgioGi 26-30, M Nov 3, 2013

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    I Don't Really Have Anybody

    So I joined this site because I saw a lot of other people enjoying the same things I do. I really don't have anybody to talk to though and it sucks; I wish I did. I don't talk to my parents and I dont have any friends. Ive never really had a best friend at all. Its hard to meet...
    nodoubt01 nodoubt01 18-21, M 2 Responses May 20, 2012

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    I am, and that Is just the way it is.

    Never been one to have friends, make fake friends or buy buddies.   Some have tried to understand me and have been on the sidelines for decades, but I just am not able to pretend to care about the latest pop culture gossip or the famiiy woes...  
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 11, 2009

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    Skydiving Is Insanely Fun

    Every person belongs to a group, be it an age group, a gender group or a base ball team. It gives comfort and a somewhat misleading feeling of safety. In return every group has its membership fee. The fee limits the access. Being convinced that the ultimate...
    moreandless moreandless 56-60, M 1 Response Aug 22, 2010

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    Hello!!

    I want to make some new friends. I an awfully shy and don't have many friends in college. I cannot talk when I am in a crowd . always spent my lunch breaks in my dorm or library . I always used to be myself so far.I am really lonely. would someone talk to me?
    riaroy006 riaroy006 18-21, F Oct 23, 2013

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    Will I Ever Make Friends?

    Hi I'm Sarah-Jane from Fife.  I am 15 years old and have never made any friends.  I get upset about it because ever since primary one i have been getting bullied by practically everyone.  I think most people are just drawn to hating me just because I' very...
    gehnose gehnose 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2009

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    Lone Wolf

    As much as I wish that I had friends, I prefer to hang out alone. I get lonely sometimes and wish I had people that I could talk to, but hate the process of getting to know people. Awkwardness is public enemy number 1. The meeting stages always feature awkward pauses, which are...
    TheEvilLeaper TheEvilLeaper 26-30, M 3 Responses May 7, 2010

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    Lonely.

    Most the time I have no one to talk to. Would someone like to talk to me?
    nodoubt01 nodoubt01 18-21, M 2 Responses May 25, 2012

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    Growing Up Socially

    I'm 15. Until summer 2012 I had no real friends, because I hadnt realized their importance until then. I was really lonely that summer, I cried everyday. Im lucky this is the only big problem in my life. I was never 100% alone, I had a kind of group of friends but they didnt...
    ktkva ktkva 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2013

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    I Am A Loner

    At school after my fathers accident i felt that no one was with me at the house, the only one that cared for me was my father and since his incident no one payed attention to me When school started in Aug. i got used to being alone so i would just ignore everyone, One or two...
    ConfusedGirl101xxx ConfusedGirl101xxx 18-21, F May 3, 2012

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    To Everyone.................

    i don't think i can muster up the courage to delete my account here.............................all the 128 stories i have written here are the proof that i love this place its like home and u all have been so much loving and caring.....................but i have realized i m not...
    snuffal snuffal 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    I Like People But ...

    Through my life I've felt more comfortable when I'm alone. I'll seek others out from time to time but when I'm alone I get to do what I want and I don't have to compromise. When I'm hanging out with others I'm agreeable to what they want to do but I enjoy my time alone doing...
    Morgause Morgause 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    messed up childhood bouncing between foster

    homes a marriage that lasted 6 months . Luckily we had one son which I raised by myself. He seem to have avoided being a loner. Now he lives far away married himself. Needless to say I have trust issues. I am hoping a new start and a new town i can adapt
    oldguy221 oldguy221 51-55 1 Response Apr 29, 2014

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    Never Been Able To Keep Friends

    I have made friends at college etc but I don't mix personal and private together. I am a very very private person. I think I have been made to feel guilty all my life about the child sex abuse and made to feel guilty about everything in my life. my sister is the one who has...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Apr 13, 2011

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    Changes

    I have always been somewhat a loner. When I was younger I was sick a lot so I was used to be by my self, or only with my family. As I grew up and started school I had no idea how to talk with the kids in my class. I remember going everyday to school, sitting in my seat, never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    Even though I'm young I've been with an older man who was 26 years older than me, I find them more attractive and more interesting
    alanaharrington2 alanaharrington2 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Would Titanic have steered clear of the iceberg if she didn't go into reverse? I believe that this negated the effect of the central propeller on the rudder.
    MarioT96 MarioT96 18-21, M Feb 20

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    All my life, someone has been trying to destroy me and prevent me from succeeding! It's amazing! When I look at it, it's always been there.
    MoreOfTheSame MoreOfTheSame 51-55 6 Responses Feb 16

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    I am 18 and have never been kissed, or have dated. I feel pathetic for writing this because I know that the vast majority off people my own age have at least gone on a date. I have...
    Narp12 Narp12 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    Sooo....I got my phone taken away and haven't been on for several weeks. I got my laptop fixed a few days ago (which I'm ecstatic about :D) and now I'm here. I NEVER use the web...
    queenettejeanette queenettejeanette 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 5

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    I have never been in a relationship. I'm 36, gay and never been in a relationship with a male or female. I'm scared out of my mind because I'm sensitive to people and there...
    monteJ monteJ 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    Omg hi people of ep!!!!! I'm actually pretty good...I haven't been on in a long time but I'm better thanks to the help of my boyfriend we've been together almost 10 months now and...
    teenagegirl1 teenagegirl1 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    I'm 26 and have never been kissed. It's just gotten to the point where I'm too embarassed that it will be my first kiss to have my first kiss. if that makes sense.
    sfoss21 sfoss21 26-30, F 9 Responses Feb 16

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    I have never been kissed I am still waiting for a girl to kiss me
    paul642 paul642 22-25, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Hello everyone I know that I haven't been on in a while so how's everyone doing? And what's new
    outgoing11 outgoing11 46-50, M a week ago

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    I haven't been very active at Experience Project. That's because I got very little if any responses to what I posted on it. Plus they removed one of them. What's amazing is...
    karlgold25 karlgold25 51-55, M 6 days ago

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    Even if Valentine is part of my name, I've never been blessed enough to have love, even on this day. I don't suppose it's surprising; I'm a friendly person but not necessarily...
    metallic28 metallic28 16-17, M 5 Responses Feb 14

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    Why is my only friend my bf? Even he has multiple friends and I don't really have any. Forever alone.
    ysimm23 ysimm23 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Since i was a kid, my parents kept on discouraging me. Saying bad things about me that i am a "*****" even i wasnt doing any bitchy thing. I really love my parents. And i felt...
    blitzkrieg7 blitzkrieg7 22-25, F Feb 9

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    Not to sure it sounds too great tbh though I am partial to a glass of cider. I did shots out of egg cups once with my friend and we got a bit tipsy but never drunk
    Minutes2Midnight Minutes2Midnight 13-15, F Feb 11

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    This is not a regret, it's something I've known would happen. Parents thankfully divorced at age 4. My dad had weekend custody and is a great dad. Still, I saw how hard being a...
    MissASC77 MissASC77 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    Gonna go with my Bf on a Carnival Cruise, anyone ever been? How is it?
    prettyg1 prettyg1 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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    Have you ever wondered if all those bad guys from those movies who desire world domination would ever say lol and mean it? Like it would totally ruin their badguy reputation.well...
    NarutoShippudenFanGirl NarutoShippudenFanGirl 13-15, F Feb 3

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    I been missing days like crazy because of the weather, and getting sick I really need to get it together if I want to keep my GPA up😷☹
    HerTrapQueen HerTrapQueen 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I never been in a 3 year relationship. I should say 2 but I be lying. In the 2 years it was off and on. The max of my relationships was 6 months total.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I got a bad grade on one of my assignments and I'm doing my best to keep it away from my parents :/ I know I'll have to tell them eventually :/
    CollegeGirl95 CollegeGirl95 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 6

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    I have noticed several people in relationships, even going so far as to get married. They're all like "you'll find someone one day" this and "you need a partner" that and I'm...
    orderedchaos orderedchaos 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 7

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    We live in all whacked out world. I dialed the wrong number trying to reach a friend. This was the voicemail the person had on their message. There is a cancer in the middle east...
    mhartgrove mhartgrove 36-40, M 3 Responses Feb 11

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    It's a little past midnight, and here I am thinking about a conversation I had with someone earlier. He pm'd me and asked, what one thing I really want in life. My answer was to...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 12

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    Haven't had power in 4 days sorry y'all
    wantedfunfriends wantedfunfriends 18-21, M Feb 19

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    I have trouble speaking my mind and defending myself whilst trying to keep up a friendship :(
    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    I have never tho or real one fake people
    ridleyswaq ridleyswaq 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Life is more easier alone than with others
    VicDixon VicDixon 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 15

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    20, almost 21 years that I am single. I don't even try anymore.
    L1aW L1aW 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Really, thanks for your concern, but I'm happy this way. Probably happier than you, so if you could stop asking me to "socialize more" so I don't end up "being deppreseed" I would...
    Awanputih Awanputih 18-21 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm a young STRAIT teen sub or dom who is into a lot of kinky things. Message me?
    frobro15 frobro15 13-15, M Feb 17

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    I wonder if anyone has ever considered me their best friend, or if I was a thorn in their side... I'd like to think I am not alone...
    Harper101 Harper101 16-17, F 4 Responses Feb 2

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