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I Have Always Been a Bit of a Loner

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    I have always been somewhat a loner. When I was younger I was sick a lot so I was used to be by my self, or only with my family. As I grew up and started school I had no idea how to talk with the kids in my class. I remember going everyday to school, sitting in my seat, never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    I Like People But ...

    Through my life I've felt more comfortable when I'm alone. I'll seek others out from time to time but when I'm alone I get to do what I want and I don't have to compromise. When I'm hanging out with others I'm agreeable to what they want to do but I enjoy my time alone doing...
    Morgause Morgause 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    I Am A Loner

    At school after my fathers accident i felt that no one was with me at the house, the only one that cared for me was my father and since his incident no one payed attention to me When school started in Aug. i got used to being alone so i would just ignore everyone, One or two...
    ConfusedGirl101xxx ConfusedGirl101xxx 18-21, F May 3, 2012

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    Never Been Able To Keep Friends

    I have made friends at college etc but I don't mix personal and private together. I am a very very private person. I think I have been made to feel guilty all my life about the child sex abuse and made to feel guilty about everything in my life. my sister is the one who has...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Apr 13, 2011

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    Lone Wolf

    As much as I wish that I had friends, I prefer to hang out alone. I get lonely sometimes and wish I had people that I could talk to, but hate the process of getting to know people. Awkwardness is public enemy number 1. The meeting stages always feature awkward pauses, which are...
    TheEvilLeaper TheEvilLeaper 26-30, M 3 Responses May 7, 2010

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    Looking For A Change

    I have always felt I am a bit of a loner and a natural introverse, that's a fact. During the elementary and middle school I was very embarrassed in talking to girls, while it was easy to go on well with boys, thanks to football (I'm from Italy and almost every boy plays football...
    GiorgioGi GiorgioGi 26-30, M Nov 3, 2013

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    Growing Up Socially

    I'm 15. Until summer 2012 I had no real friends, because I hadnt realized their importance until then. I was really lonely that summer, I cried everyday. Im lucky this is the only big problem in my life. I was never 100% alone, I had a kind of group of friends but they didnt...
    ktkva ktkva 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2013

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    To Everyone.................

    i don't think i can muster up the courage to delete my account here.............................all the 128 stories i have written here are the proof that i love this place its like home and u all have been so much loving and caring.....................but i have realized i m not...
    destinygirl22 destinygirl22 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    Lonely.

    Most the time I have no one to talk to. Would someone like to talk to me?
    nodoubt01 nodoubt01 18-21, M 2 Responses May 25, 2012

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    Hello!!

    I want to make some new friends. I an awfully shy and don't have many friends in college. I cannot talk when I am in a crowd . always spent my lunch breaks in my dorm or library . I always used to be myself so far.I am really lonely. would someone talk to me?
    riaroy006 riaroy006 18-21, F Oct 23, 2013

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    I Don't Really Have Anybody

    So I joined this site because I saw a lot of other people enjoying the same things I do. I really don't have anybody to talk to though and it sucks; I wish I did. I don't talk to my parents and I dont have any friends. Ive never really had a best friend at all. Its hard to meet...
    nodoubt01 nodoubt01 18-21, M 2 Responses May 20, 2012

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    I am, and that Is just the way it is.

    Never been one to have friends, make fake friends or buy buddies.   Some have tried to understand me and have been on the sidelines for decades, but I just am not able to pretend to care about the latest pop culture gossip or the famiiy woes...  
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 11, 2009

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    Until now...... and this person Is not single. Just my damn luck. I have never been faithful to ANYONE except for now. For that reason I don't feel like I have ever really been...
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    I am a sophmore in high school, and I have never been kissed. There are kids in my class having sex and I still have not had my first kiss. Also I'm wondering WHEN IT WILL HAPPEN...
    jenseb jenseb 16-17, F 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I am almost 20. I have virtually no friends. None that are close anyway. I have never been on a date or anything of that sort. In truth its probably because I have the social...
    WalterKronkite WalterKronkite 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 9

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    Hey everyone! As the title says, I haven't been on in a while. I am currently messaging everyone back, accepting everyone as a friend, and responding to everyone. ALSO! If any of...
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    I am 29 years old and I have never been married. I got engaged once but we broke it off due to differences. I believe in the institution of marriage and would like to get married...
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    garagara garagara 16-17 2 Responses Mar 24

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    JustLazyLittleMe JustLazyLittleMe 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I used to have a gay friend and enjoyed confiding in him and would support him, then i found out he was telling people my business so the friendship ended Other times If Ive...
    Paulchanning Paulchanning 41-45, M Apr 5

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    Im really sorry to hear what u hve been through but what can u do about these conning men that do this it shouldnt be allowed the law must change and stricter rules should be...
    jotkaur1988 jotkaur1988 22-25, F Apr 6

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    Emotional attachment with men. The obvious notion may be that I had no such thing with my father, whom I met at six years of age. I cannot say for certain why I struggle to accept...
    merrygentry merrygentry 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I really want to experience this since I never have before. I've never had a mutual bond with someone in which we feel strongly for each other. I am jealous of other people who...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've always said I would get my first kiss before I turned 16. I have 4 days.
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    blossomgirl101 blossomgirl101 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I have been with my lover for over six years. We have a little boy now, he's about 19 months old. I think I will never ever be married. My heart sinks at the thought of it..I want...
    bunz610 bunz610 26-30, F Apr 12

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    I have been dating this boy for 4 months..we haven't kissed yet but we see each other every day. He pecked me on the lips once but it wasn't terribly good or passionate. Mm..hurry...
    4Ana 4Ana 16-17, F Mar 31

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    It's strange i have loved but never really been "In love" with any man, maybe i have not found the right one as yet i'm picky when it comes to my men, and felt guilty in my last...
    vierge vierge 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    technically im sure weve all been kissed when were little. ;)
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    WyettAmanda WyettAmanda 13-15 9 Responses Mar 29

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    I wish I could have a kiss on the lips even tho I never have all I have had was a kiss on the cheek 😩😄
    Wolflover247 Wolflover247 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 5