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I Have Always Been a Bit of a Loner

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    Lonely.

    Most the time I have no one to talk to. Would someone like to talk to me?
    nodoubt01 nodoubt01 18-21, M 2 Responses May 25, 2012

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    I am, and that Is just the way it is.

    Never been one to have friends, make fake friends or buy buddies.   Some have tried to understand me and have been on the sidelines for decades, but I just am not able to pretend to care about the latest pop culture gossip or the famiiy woes...  
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 11, 2009

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    To Everyone.................

    i don't think i can muster up the courage to delete my account here.............................all the 128 stories i have written here are the proof that i love this place its like home and u all have been so much loving and caring.....................but i have realized i m not...
    destinygirl22 destinygirl22 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    I Like People But ...

    Through my life I've felt more comfortable when I'm alone. I'll seek others out from time to time but when I'm alone I get to do what I want and I don't have to compromise. When I'm hanging out with others I'm agreeable to what they want to do but I enjoy my time alone doing...
    Morgause Morgause 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    Skydiving Is Insanely Fun

    Every person belongs to a group, be it an age group, a gender group or a base ball team. It gives comfort and a somewhat misleading feeling of safety. In return every group has its membership fee. The fee limits the access. Being convinced that the ultimate...
    moreandless moreandless 56-60, M 1 Response Aug 22, 2010

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    I Am A Loner

    At school after my fathers accident i felt that no one was with me at the house, the only one that cared for me was my father and since his incident no one payed attention to me When school started in Aug. i got used to being alone so i would just ignore everyone, One or two...
    ConfusedGirl101xxx ConfusedGirl101xxx 18-21, F May 3, 2012

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    Changes

    I have always been somewhat a loner. When I was younger I was sick a lot so I was used to be by my self, or only with my family. As I grew up and started school I had no idea how to talk with the kids in my class. I remember going everyday to school, sitting in my seat, never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    Looking For A Change

    I have always felt I am a bit of a loner and a natural introverse, that's a fact. During the elementary and middle school I was very embarrassed in talking to girls, while it was easy to go on well with boys, thanks to football (I'm from Italy and almost every boy plays football...
    GiorgioGi GiorgioGi 26-30, M Nov 3, 2013

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    Lone Wolf

    As much as I wish that I had friends, I prefer to hang out alone. I get lonely sometimes and wish I had people that I could talk to, but hate the process of getting to know people. Awkwardness is public enemy number 1. The meeting stages always feature awkward pauses, which are...
    TheEvilLeaper TheEvilLeaper 26-30, M 3 Responses May 7, 2010

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    Hello!!

    I want to make some new friends. I an awfully shy and don't have many friends in college. I cannot talk when I am in a crowd . always spent my lunch breaks in my dorm or library . I always used to be myself so far.I am really lonely. would someone talk to me?
    riaroy006 riaroy006 18-21, F Oct 23, 2013

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    Growing Up Socially

    I'm 15. Until summer 2012 I had no real friends, because I hadnt realized their importance until then. I was really lonely that summer, I cried everyday. Im lucky this is the only big problem in my life. I was never 100% alone, I had a kind of group of friends but they didnt...
    ktkva ktkva 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2013

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    Never Been Able To Keep Friends

    I have made friends at college etc but I don't mix personal and private together. I am a very very private person. I think I have been made to feel guilty all my life about the child sex abuse and made to feel guilty about everything in my life. my sister is the one who has...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Apr 13, 2011

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    messed up childhood bouncing between foster

    homes a marriage that lasted 6 months . Luckily we had one son which I raised by myself. He seem to have avoided being a loner. Now he lives far away married himself. Needless to say I have trust issues. I am hoping a new start and a new town i can adapt
    oldguy221 oldguy221 51-55 1 Response Apr 29

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    Will I Ever Make Friends?

    Hi I'm Sarah-Jane from Fife.  I am 15 years old and have never made any friends.  I get upset about it because ever since primary one i have been getting bullied by practically everyone.  I think most people are just drawn to hating me just because I' very...
    gehnose gehnose 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2009

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    I Don't Really Have Anybody

    So I joined this site because I saw a lot of other people enjoying the same things I do. I really don't have anybody to talk to though and it sucks; I wish I did. I don't talk to my parents and I dont have any friends. Ive never really had a best friend at all. Its hard to meet...
    nodoubt01 nodoubt01 18-21, M 2 Responses May 20, 2012

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    Haven't been on here in a while.... took a break from well here and places... time to get life on the road again.
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    I haven't been one for many reasons. 1. I haven't dressed as a girl for 2 months. I just stopped for a while. 2. I need more help becoming a girl again 3. I have been really...
    Sarahismygirlname Sarahismygirlname 13-15, T 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am a male 24 yr old professional. I own a house and work hard. According to a friend of mine I am a catch, yet I have never been in a relationship.
    blicky1234 blicky1234 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I do talk. But im quiet. Some ppl might think i talk quite a bit. But i never relly say much. Im just clozed off to ppl. I dont trust like anybody anymore. so i will talk. but...
    Love2helpu20 Love2helpu20 18-21, F Oct 10

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    stuckinhereforever stuckinhereforever 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    And I have bitten my fingers for a while but I can now remain passive no longer. The majority of posts on here are superficial and short-termist. People aren't that interested in...
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 12

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    Well, I'm bi, at least I'm pretty sure I am. I've always thought I was straight, but then I had my first female crush a year ago and it's only getting stronger but I love my...
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    Scarlett13 Scarlett13 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    I always had asked them out They don't have the guts
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    I've never been kissed. No, not even amiss people class as 'not a real kiss'. I've never kissed or been kissed at all. Never been asked out or dated anyone. I'm 22 and don't see...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 2 Responses Oct 5

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    I've never been "properly" kissed the last guy i kissed nearly licked my face like i was an ice cream cone or something! Now im affraid of kissing someone because i dont want to...
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    Joanne0chan Joanne0chan 31-35 1 Response Oct 14

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    Wow! It's been super long. Sorry all! Updates--> My boyfriend and I are doing a lot better, and my parents are not fighting as much anymore. Also, I came out to my dad and stepmom...
    Greenman777 Greenman777 13-15, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I haven't met someone that understands me for who i am, i guess im still young but i do feel lonely most of the time
    Qcf257 Qcf257 18-21, M Sep 25

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    The reason I never had a girl as a friend just aquintances that turn to be nothing some people are lucky to have friends that are girls and this is the point from where everything...
    Darlinghton Darlinghton 18-21, M Sep 27

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    I actually really miss kissing so much. I've only kissed women, and have yet to experience this with a man, but I can't wait. I want to be kissed so much.
    Parkerluv1 Parkerluv1 22-25, M Oct 5

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    Gonna be 20 later this month and I still have not had my first kiss yet Reminds just how ugly and worthless I am to girls
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 6

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    17 years old, there's one thing in life I want to experience even if it's just once. There's two things we have the closest to magic disney and love. Sometimes I wonder if it's my...
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    Nope never have an never will. Its just not in me.
    SadisticPsychoBitch SadisticPsychoBitch 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    And I Never Will Be! Men have their uses, but not I am not into guys.
    DonnaDomm DonnaDomm 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Apparently, my niece and nephew have recruited me for Halloween this year. My niece wants to be Neytiri and my nephew wants to be Jake Sully's Na'vi avatar from the Avatar movie...
    Triscuitan Triscuitan 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    If I'm going to die alone it might as well be an epic death. So I imagine that I must first acquire a weather balloon and an air tight capsule and suit. From that point I space...
    Youngnerd Youngnerd 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 3

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    I have met someone for the first time in my life and we have known each other for about five months. We talk every day and slowly growing closer.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 14

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    I know I will never feel love. I have sunk deep down where no girl will find me. My life is just pain I have no happiness to give, girls all have lives they all have things going...
    benjiescobar benjiescobar 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 15

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    Being my age and being a virgin doesn't bother me as much, since I need my first time to mean something in terms of commitment. Maybe that's why I haven't ever kissed a woman/girl...
    jdhammer84 jdhammer84 26-30, M 19 hrs ago

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    I called my bus driver a ******* when she let my off the bus and left, btw she didn't hear me cause she was gone when I said it
    danielle2002 danielle2002 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Both genders atracts me a lot,I would love to experience more and also my likings over one gender or another varies with my mood.Sometimes I rather females over males...others I...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 27

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    Older men do it better. At least from my experiences. <