I Have An Abusive Brother

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    For 10 years I've suffered.

    Black eyes, bruises, scratches, hair pulled... you name it and I'll bet you dollars to donuts I have suffered it. My brother wasn't always this way. It started when he was... maybe 17? His early teen years weren't so bad thankfully. He would usually go to his friends home or...
    khushali11 khushali11
    31-35, F
    Jan 13, 2015

    I never really have a brother

    or anything. I don't have an abusive family that hit me in the face with their fist. But this is not about me,this is about my best friend. It's really sad to know that she's been going through some stuff like this and I really hope she can get through this. Just of today,she...
    seventeen182001 seventeen182001
    18-21, F
    May 6, 2014


    He is an abusive person. He abused me and my sister in several ways when we were kids. He verbally abused my mom when all she did was support him and try to help. He verbally and emotionally and physically abused his girlfriends in high school. That was all when he was a kid and...
    SurelyUnsure SurelyUnsure
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 16, 2013


    I have an abusive brother, half the stuff he's done to me I couldn't begin to tell here. To put it mildly, when I was 3 and he was 7, he would put stuff in my bed. like bees or spider, one time he put a wasp in my pillowcase and I had to go to school the next day with a swollen...
    anonymx anonymx
    Jul 15, 2012

    My Brother Is Abusing Me..

    It makes me feel so small like everyone's always judging me! 'How can you let your younger brother abuse you?' it makes me feel so worthless! I'm 14 and he's just turned 13 so although there isn't much of a difference he's still younger. He's a lot bigger than me so I guess that...
    Chelsea72 Chelsea72
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 21, 2013

    My brother has been abusive

    for years. Physically and verbally abusive. If something doesn't go his way, he beats my younger brother, my mom and myself. Today he lost it because he had to wait a bit to get picked up from work. It took us some time because there was traffic. He didn't answer his phone for...
    tobegladoflife tobegladoflife
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 31, 2014

    Friend's Abusive Brother.

          I can usualy handle hard situations. This just wasn't the case. My sister has this friend and she goes over to her house a lot. I don't have to worry, my sister isin't the trouble type. But now I worry a lot.     ...
    izzytherabbit izzytherabbit
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 13, 2009

    My Brother John And His 6itch Are Animals

    all they ever do is put me down and put my sister and dad and mum down.they think they are better then us just cuz they shaggg and work but they had a lot given to them and life easily dished out on  a platter by all and sundrymy brother almost burnt down the a house we were...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 5, 2012

    Anger Management

    I don't provoke him. I swear. He does this because I'll call him a jerk, or I won't respect him. He's my ******* brother. Not the Prime Minister! Don't get me wrong, I respect him, just not to the point that I kiss his feet and clean them with my spit. Apparently that's not good...
    FreezingFire FreezingFire
    6 Responses Nov 22, 2010

    I Don't Know What To Do

    My little brother is turning 16 on February 29. Trapped between a boy and a man and floundering under the care of inept parents, he refuses to control his anger, often screaming at the rest of us, hitting things or the animals. He will also throw things. He wants to be treated...
    LostInExperiences LostInExperiences
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 24, 2012

    Verbally Abusive

    All I did was drop my book on the ground while he was practicing guitar in the other room. I get called a "mother f,u,c,k,i,n,g c,u,n,t", I guess I am used to it by now, numbed. I get called a ***** on a daily bases because I do something he doesn't like. He likes to insult my...
    heyitsdanny heyitsdanny
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Apr 2, 2013

    I have an abusive brother.

    He has beaten me and attacked me physically and mentally for the entire 16 years of my life. My confidence has become extremely low as a result, to the point where every single bone in my body is trying to stop me from typing this. I have 2 brothers, one 19 and the other 22...
    radpink radpink
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Mar 21, 2014

    My older brother is now in university

    but each time he comes back for the summer it is a nightmare. He has anger management and his very stubborn, so he always thinks he's right. When he gets angry for little things he screams at my mom and I , bangs walls, throws things around and causes plenty of damage. He is...
    ElvinG5 ElvinG5
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Apr 25, 2014
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