I Have An Evil Mother-in-law

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    Mil Has Borderline Personality Disorder

    I am lucky that my MIL lives 2,000 miles away from us and I have very little contact with her. So, I have no right to complain as much as some of you who live in the same town or even live WITH your MIL. I call her my monster-in-law. First, full disclosure... I have been told...
    2 Responses Jan 9, 2013

    Yesterday it was my father in laws birthday.

    My mother in law only had my husband and I and our two kids come over. The night before she asked us to bring the cake. My husband said "dad asked us not to bring anything". But, after an argument with my husband because I wanted to get him a tim hortons gift card, I said then...
    tatkayalee tatkayalee
    36-40
    1 Response Mar 16, 2014

    I started dating my boyfriend in early 2005.

    He had previously been married and divorced TWICE to the same woman due to her infidelities. They had a 6 year old son at the time that neither of them bothered to step up or raise, so grandma took on the duties. Fast Forward to 2014, we are together with two young children of...
    emilygrace1985 emilygrace1985
    26-30, F
    Jan 20, 2014

    My MIL took her evil actions to another level.

    I hate to say this but she's such a fake and negative person. She is unhappy about the fact that my husband and I are happy together with 0 complaints or problems in life. My roots are not from USA but I am way more americanised than that woman. She finds faults in everything...
    eezah eezah
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 1, 2015

    My Wicked Mother In-law

    I started dating my husband in our teens. I am 66 years old. When my two sons were born, she went around saying they were not my husband's kids. I have never been with another man in my life. When my oldest son was a year old, she put voodoo stuff in his crib. She denied my...
    jakechris jakechris
    66-70
    3 Responses Oct 25, 2012

    Tip of the Iceberg - Part One

    PART ONE             For over twelve years, my wife’s mother has brought terror, abuse, and pointless stress and ongoing trauma to our family, friends, and neighbors in ways that I truly believe that most people could not...
    Opossum Opossum
    46-50, M
    1 Response Dec 24, 2007

    Respect?

    I am hoping this will be theraputic since I am about to do something that goes against every fiber of my being. I know my story doesn't compare to some of the others posted and I feel for you all and my heart goes out to anyone whose mother in law pulls this kind of BS. My...
    Ailwynnnn Ailwynnnn
    26-30
    7 Responses Jan 17, 2011

    I have to say it!! We had the most PEACEFUL

    Holidays. Why you ask because this was the first year we didn't got to my in-laws and OMG it was ssoo nice! I'm sorry an hate to say it but I was the happiest woman on earth my MIL is the spawn of Satan and plays like she is Christian. That woman every chance she got she was/is...
    2mommy85 2mommy85
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 2, 2015

    Define Evil...

    Having qualities tending to injuries and mischief.  Having or exhibiting bad moral qualities. Wicked, vicious- conduct, thoughts, heart and words. Producing or threatening sorrow, distress, injury, calamity. Unpropitious.  Anthing which impairs the happiness of a being from the...
    tanya14 tanya14
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2011

    Trapped

    I've lived with MIL for 12 years.  The past two I have noticed things missing, items of my clothes torn, items placed in my car (my extra set of keys has been missing during this time), certain foods that I like always turned backwards in the refrigerator, endless...
    pisces1ch2000 pisces1ch2000
    46-50, M
    3 Responses May 18, 2010

    Horrid mother in law

    who I have been tolerating for the past 17.5 years thinking (oh so futilely), she'll realise I'm a good person..no no no. She was horrid before I got married and her horridness has only increased with time. and everything is so insidious that I'm ashamed of myself for having...
    cansomeonemakemymildisappear cansomeonemakemymildisappear
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 1, 2015

    Smile On Face, Knife Behind Back!

    This year I am turning 50 years old, and so is my sister-in-law (husband's sister). Her birthday is a month after mine. The mother-in-law helps to plan an early surprise 50th birthday party for sister-in-law on MY birthday. I love my sister-in-law and would not do anything to...
    meesmom meesmom
    46-50
    2 Responses Sep 10, 2012

    The Face Of Evil!

    10 years together, almost a year married. things have slowly gotten worse with his mother, will call her Hitler! after i had our first child he still lived with her.  i would stay a few days and every friday he got paid he would give us both 100 dollars. she had talked him into...
    kathyco kathyco
    26-30
    3 Responses Nov 14, 2011

    Pure Evil From A So Called Christian Mother In Law!

    My 'dear' mother in law has told me to, "go back to....where I came from..." She has lied so much I have lost track. She has told my husband that apparently he needs "my permission to do 'stuff...' SHe has told me that I have NOTHING whatever to do with the...
    sicktomystomachwithMIL sicktomystomachwithMIL
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Nov 18, 2009

    I have been with my boyfriend

    for 4 years we're soul mates. my problem is my disgusting mother in law!!! she doesnt have a partner and shes so jealous of me and her son. She is constantly telling him im not right for him and he should break up with me. she's interfering, spiteful and belongs in a mental home...
    jbecker1990 jbecker1990
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 1, 2015

    That's it! She does evil things.

    And how must an experience be 25 characters before you can post. I'm a short and sweet kinda person. There... 214 something characters.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 16, 2015

    You hear about mothers-in-law

    that aren't friendly or a little jealous that their baby boy is all grown-up, and I personally would love to have a mother-in-law like that! But noo, I had to get the crazy one! My MIL has 5 children, 3 boys and 2 girls. My husband is the youngest one. She tortured them...
    AnneMarie2245 AnneMarie2245
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 25, 2015

    Hi guys. Just want to share this experience.

    And I don't know how to deal with this. I have this "Mother-In-Law" that's so annoying and Evil. My husband and I used to live with his family. And this MIL, whenever my husband's around. She says anything that agree with him, like she's okay with everything. But when he's not...
    ishkaaay ishkaaay
    22-25
    2 Responses Nov 22, 2015

    All For Naught

    My husband and I are both 27, and we have been married 3.5 years. We met 5 years ago, randomly at a random party, and things clicked. We have been together exclusively ever since. Being two nationalities, we decided to marry halfway between our parents' homes in a courthouse...
    HJ86 HJ86
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Aug 8, 2013

    Finding The Strength From Within!

    A lot has happened since I wrote "Respect?" yesterday about my MIL. I commented on FB that respect is earned and not forced and she blew up. She has officially cut us out of her lives and is in the process of turning his family against us. Now for my sake I am really sorry it all...
    Ailwynnnn Ailwynnnn
    26-30
    3 Responses Jan 18, 2011

    MIL Manipulator

    I dated my husband for 10 years before we got married. I've been married now for less than a year and the moment I returned from my honeymoon my mother in law has made my life hell. In the years that I have dated my husband she was very insulting she would say things like she...
    katbat00 katbat00
    41-45
    4 Responses Mar 29, 2013

    Why Me...>???? Hoping I'm Not Alone

    Such a long/complicated story..where to begin... about 16 yrs ago, I called my MIL to ask if she would send her "then" husband over to my house to re-light the pilot on my furnace...it was cold outside and I had a brand new baby and my hubby was working graveyard..so I was alone...
    Crissy1173 Crissy1173
    36-40
    Jun 17, 2012

    Had To Ring Police To Remove Mother In Law

        So my MIL is a real psycho. Last year i ended up getting a protection order against her due to her abuse to me and my one year old daughter........ After six months she managed to wean her way back into my home, sstaying in my living room, controling me...
    EzyBreezyBeautiful EzyBreezyBeautiful
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 8, 2009

    Cheapskate

    My wife and I have been supporting her mother financially for more than 20 years, which is nearly half of my wife’s life, most of our three children’s lives and more than a quarter of her own life. She is currently retired and living rent-free in a cottage we own. She pays...
    Mtaro Mtaro
    70+, M
    1 Response Apr 6, 2013

    Had To Ring Police To Remove Mother In Law

        So my MIL is a real psycho. Last year i ended up getting a protection order against her due to her abuse to me and my one year old daughter........ After six months she managed to wean her way back into my home, sstaying in my living room, controling me...
    EzyBreezyBeautiful EzyBreezyBeautiful
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 8, 2009

    She Is The Devil!!!

    Hi I would like to share my MIL experience with you guys. This could end up being along story I have to share so here we go. I first meet my husband when I was 16 and he was 15. My future MIL acted like I was totally right for her son and she wanted nothing more than us to be...
    babydea81 babydea81
    31-35
    3 Responses Dec 26, 2012

    Waiting For The Other Shoe To Drop!

       I'm not even sure wear to start. I'm not even married to him yet, we will marry on Oct/16 this year 2010. we have bean in love seance we were in the 8Th grade but never dated till we were 22.  throe all those years his mother and i were VERY CLOSE, i did not...
    waytoforgiving waytoforgiving
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 10, 2010

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