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I Have An Evil Mother-in-law

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    Finding The Strength From Within!

    A lot has happened since I wrote "Respect?" yesterday about my MIL. I commented on FB that respect is earned and not forced and she blew up. She has officially cut us out of her lives and is in the process of turning his family against us. Now for my sake I am really sorry it all...
    Ailwynnnn Ailwynnnn 26-30 3 Responses Jan 18, 2011

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    Had To Ring Police To Remove Mother In Law

        So my MIL is a real psycho. Last year i ended up getting a protection order against her due to her abuse to me and my one year old daughter........ After six months she managed to wean her way back into my home, sstaying in my living room, controling me...
    EzyBreezyBeautiful EzyBreezyBeautiful 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    Mil Has Borderline Personality Disorder

    I am lucky that my MIL lives 2,000 miles away from us and I have very little contact with her. So, I have no right to complain as much as some of you who live in the same town or even live WITH your MIL. I call her my monster-in-law. First, full disclosure... I have been told...
    2 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    Smile On Face, Knife Behind Back!

    This year I am turning 50 years old, and so is my sister-in-law (husband's sister). Her birthday is a month after mine. The mother-in-law helps to plan an early surprise 50th birthday party for sister-in-law on MY birthday. I love my sister-in-law and would not do anything to...
    meesmom meesmom 46-50 2 Responses Sep 10, 2012

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    Why Me...>???? Hoping I'm Not Alone

    Such a long/complicated story..where to begin... about 16 yrs ago, I called my MIL to ask if she would send her "then" husband over to my house to re-light the pilot on my furnace...it was cold outside and I had a brand new baby and my hubby was working graveyard..so I was alone...
    Crissy1173 Crissy1173 36-40 Jun 17, 2012

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    I started dating my boyfriend in early 2005.

    He had previously been married and divorced TWICE to the same woman due to her infidelities. They had a 6 year old son at the time that neither of them bothered to step up or raise, so grandma took on the duties. Fast Forward to 2014, we are together with two young children of...
    emilygrace1985 emilygrace1985 26-30, F Jan 20

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    MIL Manipulator

    I dated my husband for 10 years before we got married. I've been married now for less than a year and the moment I returned from my honeymoon my mother in law has made my life hell. In the years that I have dated my husband she was very insulting she would say things like she...
    katbat00 katbat00 36-40 5 Responses Mar 29, 2013

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    The Face Of Evil!

    10 years together, almost a year married. things have slowly gotten worse with his mother, will call her Hitler! after i had our first child he still lived with her.  i would stay a few days and every friday he got paid he would give us both 100 dollars. she had talked him into...
    kathyco kathyco 26-30 3 Responses Nov 14, 2011

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    She Is The Devil!!!

    Hi I would like to share my MIL experience with you guys. This could end up being along story I have to share so here we go. I first meet my husband when I was 16 and he was 15. My future MIL acted like I was totally right for her son and she wanted nothing more than us to be...
    babydea81 babydea81 31-35 3 Responses Dec 26, 2012

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    Define Evil...

    Having qualities tending to injuries and mischief.  Having or exhibiting bad moral qualities. Wicked, vicious- conduct, thoughts, heart and words. Producing or threatening sorrow, distress, injury, calamity. Unpropitious.  Anthing which impairs the happiness of a being from the...
    tanya14 tanya14 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2011

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    All For Naught

    My husband and I are both 27, and we have been married 3.5 years. We met 5 years ago, randomly at a random party, and things clicked. We have been together exclusively ever since. Being two nationalities, we decided to marry halfway between our parents' homes in a courthouse...
    HJ86 HJ86 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 8, 2013

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    Cheapskate

    My wife and I have been supporting her mother financially for more than 20 years, which is nearly half of my wife’s life, most of our three children’s lives and more than a quarter of her own life. She is currently retired and living rent-free in a cottage we own. She pays...
    Mtaro Mtaro 70+, M 1 Response Apr 6, 2013

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    My Wicked Mother In-law

    I started dating my husband in our teens. I am 66 years old. When my two sons were born, she went around saying they were not my husband's kids. I have never been with another man in my life. When my oldest son was a year old, she put voodoo stuff in his crib. She denied my...
    jakechris jakechris 66-70 3 Responses Oct 25, 2012

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    Waiting For The Other Shoe To Drop!

       I'm not even sure wear to start. I'm not even married to him yet, we will marry on Oct/16 this year 2010. we have bean in love seance we were in the 8Th grade but never dated till we were 22.  throe all those years his mother and i were VERY CLOSE, i did not...
    waytoforgiving waytoforgiving 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 10, 2010

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    2014 with MIL so far,

    At the start of the year, MIL is now calling relatives and friends a lot with messages about not being alive much longer. End of January she is now doing suicide attempts, and then after the attempt she called both BIL and DH to announce what she did and leaves a suicide note...
    AwayFromHer AwayFromHer 36-40 2 Responses Mar 29

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    Trapped

    I've lived with MIL for 12 years.  The past two I have noticed things missing, items of my clothes torn, items placed in my car (my extra set of keys has been missing during this time), certain foods that I like always turned backwards in the refrigerator, endless...
    pisces1ch2000 pisces1ch2000 46-50, M 3 Responses May 18, 2010

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    My Year 2013 with MIL FILs death meant

    that we saw MIL a lot now all of a sudden, which was a change as usually I go near her maybe three times a year. In January of 2013My husband works with MIL to execute FILs will with MIL, my DH still gives her his best regardless of she treats him, and there are meetings...
    AwayFromHer AwayFromHer 36-40 Mar 29

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    Respect?

    I am hoping this will be theraputic since I am about to do something that goes against every fiber of my being. I know my story doesn't compare to some of the others posted and I feel for you all and my heart goes out to anyone whose mother in law pulls this kind of BS. My...
    Ailwynnnn Ailwynnnn 26-30 7 Responses Jan 17, 2011

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    Tip of the Iceberg - Part One

    PART ONE             For over twelve years, my wife’s mother has brought terror, abuse, and pointless stress and ongoing trauma to our family, friends, and neighbors in ways that I truly believe that most people could not...
    Opossum Opossum 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 24, 2007

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    Urgh!

    So after a long time of MIL pretty much being gone, she is back again. FIL has passed away and the time of my MIL journey that I have been dreading the most is now upon us, MIL in widowhood. As usual, MIL has to be the corpse at every funeral and the bride at every wedding, so...
    AwayFromHer AwayFromHer 36-40 1 Response Jun 1, 2013

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    Pure Evil From A So Called Christian Mother In Law!

    My 'dear' mother in law has told me to, "go back to....where I came from..." She has lied so much I have lost track. She has told my husband that apparently he needs "my permission to do 'stuff...' SHe has told me that I have NOTHING whatever to do with the...
    sicktomystomachwithMIL sicktomystomachwithMIL 46-50, F 7 Responses Nov 18, 2009

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    Yesterday it was my father in laws birthday.

    My mother in law only had my husband and I and our two kids come over. The night before she asked us to bring the cake. My husband said "dad asked us not to bring anything". But, after an argument with my husband because I wanted to get him a tim hortons gift card, I said then...
    tatkayalee tatkayalee 36-40 1 Response Mar 16

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    Had To Ring Police To Remove Mother In Law

        So my MIL is a real psycho. Last year i ended up getting a protection order against her due to her abuse to me and my one year old daughter........ After six months she managed to wean her way back into my home, sstaying in my living room, controling me...
    EzyBreezyBeautiful EzyBreezyBeautiful 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    Me and my girlfriend have maintained a very good relationship for the past years despite the difficulties and problems that cropped up. One of these problems has been my girlfriend...
    fireblastm fireblastm 26-30, M a week ago

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    Here's an update to end all updates... My mother-in-law has LEFT my father-in-law and has moved in with our former landlords-these landlords are friends of my husband's family...
    mnh1982 mnh1982 31-35, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I was having sex with my mother in law when my wife called her to talk about me. To complain that she thought I was fooling around on her. My mother in law assured her that she did...
    Mrhughcock Mrhughcock 36-40, M 4 Responses Sep 13

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    My daughter's 2nd birthday is coming up. I am making a habit of making something hand-made for my daughter for every birthday. For her first birthday, I made her a Waldorf Doll (I...
    frostyflower frostyflower 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 19

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    My mother in law brings out the worst in people. I realised my in laws house is polluated with negativity. She has turned the household into a hostile, unloving and competitive...
    genie201 genie201 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 10

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    Hate is a strong word but I seriously dislike her. She has never been a fan of mine...she is a very strong woman. She gave birth to five children who are her life. Her oldest...
    FiestyJacqueline FiestyJacqueline 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 19

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    I work perm nights and often get woken by my dog who needs to go in the garden, one day knowing the house was empty I just got out of bed and let the dog out, the wife came home...
    Southlincsman Southlincsman 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    My mother-in-law is by far the most selfish and self-centered person I have ever met. She was a horrible mother who led by the example of denial and co-dependency. She never taught...
    notahater16 notahater16 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 16

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    I'm glad I finally found somewhere I can vent! My mother in law is so freaking annoying, I literally can not stand her! I try to talk to my husband but it always turns into a fight...
    Chaz14 Chaz14 26-30, F Sep 17

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    As a person who is absolutely proud of being able to deal with difficult or unpleasant people with grace, I have hit the wall with dealing with my mother in law. Here is a woman...
    Xiramat Xiramat 26-30, F Sep 22

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    My mother in law never had any respect for me or any of my family members always was very mean but, yet I should be her r pin cushion and just t take her crap
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    First time posting! So happy I've found this haven! My MIL is the epitome of evil and just today she pulled the most evil stunt of our 10 years of dealing with each other. First...
    blopez24 blopez24 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    I guess now my hatred has just grown to complete indifference, I really couldn't care either way about this woman now. After all she's put us through for the past nearly 3 years...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    She whined for years that none of the 4 boys wanted to take over the family farm. She wanted to retire with a nice chunk of change and listed it for over $400,000. 5 years later...
    delisi1007 delisi1007 41-45 3 Responses Sep 16

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    I am starting to bite my tongue, go to my room and cry out of sheer desperation! How can one lady be so fkng annoying! Worst of she's living with us temporarily! But that dsnt stop...
    honeybee86 honeybee86 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 8

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    I am seeing red pretty much all I am seeing right now. My MIL can't get the hint not even the hint but the truth of the matter that we are done with her. We had a big blow out a...
    snowbabe3 snowbabe3 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 12

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    My mil is a repeat offender. I have noticed that many family members and friends want nothing to do with her. Below are some examples of her failed relationships. 1. She doesn't...
    genie201 genie201 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    My brother in law is nuts!!
    cch25 cch25 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 16

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    I am married to a wonderful man who has an insane mother. A little over a year ago, I purchased a house with all my savings and money that my mother had willed to me. The first...
    thegreatestunknown thegreatestunknown 26-30 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    My husband and I are invisible to our dil. Married 20+ years with 2 daughters. Her parents live close as well (as we do). We definately get left overs. It could be worse (as I've...
    dogpoo dogpoo 61-65, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hello, I feel as though I should apologise in advance of the really long rant I'm about to have..thank you so much if you read any, let alone to the end. My husband have been...
    RedCurlyHair RedCurlyHair 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Good lord. She is always right. She knows best. My partner was sick, she kept telling me what was wrong and what would fix it/ because she knows best. She is doing my fkng head in...
    honeybee86 honeybee86 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 10

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    I'm having a very difficult time with my MIL. Mind you she is 75 and we are living with her for the time being. She drives me nuts and it almost seems as if she does it purposely...
    determinedwife determinedwife 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    My MIL has been living with us for 3 years. It's been hell from day one! She is lazy, vain, a liar, always has her nose stuck in her bible and tries to get you to believe like...
    yellowflower12345 yellowflower12345 46-50 6 days ago

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    I do not hate her. I'm at the point where I've accepted that I've allowed her behaviour to continue without setting clear boundaries. I've done this to balance other family...
    notbuyingintoit1 notbuyingintoit1 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    I have officially decided to cut my MIL out of my life for good. Maybe MIL isn't the exact title, since I'm only the fiance, but it's a shame that it had to come to this. I heard...
    curlyhairedgirl curlyhairedgirl 22-25, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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