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I Have An Evil Mother-in-law

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    She Is The Devil!!!

    Hi I would like to share my MIL experience with you guys. This could end up being along story I have to share so here we go. I first meet my husband when I was 16 and he was 15. My future MIL acted like I was totally right for her son and she wanted nothing more than us to be...
    babydea81 babydea81 31-35 3 Responses Dec 26, 2012

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    You hear about mothers-in-law

    that aren't friendly or a little jealous that their baby boy is all grown-up, and I personally would love to have a mother-in-law like that! But noo, I had to get the crazy one! My MIL has 5 children, 3 boys and 2 girls. My husband is the youngest one. She tortured them...
    AnneMarie2245 AnneMarie2245 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 25

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    Yesterday it was my father in laws birthday.

    My mother in law only had my husband and I and our two kids come over. The night before she asked us to bring the cake. My husband said "dad asked us not to bring anything". But, after an argument with my husband because I wanted to get him a tim hortons gift card, I said then...
    tatkayalee tatkayalee 36-40 1 Response Mar 16, 2014

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    Tip of the Iceberg - Part One

    PART ONE             For over twelve years, my wife’s mother has brought terror, abuse, and pointless stress and ongoing trauma to our family, friends, and neighbors in ways that I truly believe that most people could not...
    Opossum Opossum 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 24, 2007

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    Cheapskate

    My wife and I have been supporting her mother financially for more than 20 years, which is nearly half of my wife’s life, most of our three children’s lives and more than a quarter of her own life. She is currently retired and living rent-free in a cottage we own. She pays...
    Mtaro Mtaro 70+, M 1 Response Apr 6, 2013

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    I have to say it!! We had the most PEACEFUL

    Holidays. Why you ask because this was the first year we didn't got to my in-laws and OMG it was ssoo nice! I'm sorry an hate to say it but I was the happiest woman on earth my MIL is the spawn of Satan and plays like she is Christian. That woman every chance she got she was/is...
    2mommy85 2mommy85 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Trapped

    I've lived with MIL for 12 years.  The past two I have noticed things missing, items of my clothes torn, items placed in my car (my extra set of keys has been missing during this time), certain foods that I like always turned backwards in the refrigerator, endless...
    pisces1ch2000 pisces1ch2000 46-50, M 3 Responses May 18, 2010

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    Mil Has Borderline Personality Disorder

    I am lucky that my MIL lives 2,000 miles away from us and I have very little contact with her. So, I have no right to complain as much as some of you who live in the same town or even live WITH your MIL. I call her my monster-in-law. First, full disclosure... I have been told...
    2 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    Define Evil...

    Having qualities tending to injuries and mischief.  Having or exhibiting bad moral qualities. Wicked, vicious- conduct, thoughts, heart and words. Producing or threatening sorrow, distress, injury, calamity. Unpropitious.  Anthing which impairs the happiness of a being from the...
    tanya14 tanya14 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2011

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    Finding The Strength From Within!

    A lot has happened since I wrote "Respect?" yesterday about my MIL. I commented on FB that respect is earned and not forced and she blew up. She has officially cut us out of her lives and is in the process of turning his family against us. Now for my sake I am really sorry it all...
    Ailwynnnn Ailwynnnn 26-30 3 Responses Jan 18, 2011

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    My Year 2013 with MIL FILs death meant

    that we saw MIL a lot now all of a sudden, which was a change as usually I go near her maybe three times a year. In January of 2013My husband works with MIL to execute FILs will with MIL, my DH still gives her his best regardless of she treats him, and there are meetings...
    AwayFromHer AwayFromHer 36-40 Mar 29, 2014

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    Respect?

    I am hoping this will be theraputic since I am about to do something that goes against every fiber of my being. I know my story doesn't compare to some of the others posted and I feel for you all and my heart goes out to anyone whose mother in law pulls this kind of BS. My...
    Ailwynnnn Ailwynnnn 26-30 7 Responses Jan 17, 2011

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    All For Naught

    My husband and I are both 27, and we have been married 3.5 years. We met 5 years ago, randomly at a random party, and things clicked. We have been together exclusively ever since. Being two nationalities, we decided to marry halfway between our parents' homes in a courthouse...
    HJ86 HJ86 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 8, 2013

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    Had To Ring Police To Remove Mother In Law

        So my MIL is a real psycho. Last year i ended up getting a protection order against her due to her abuse to me and my one year old daughter........ After six months she managed to wean her way back into my home, sstaying in my living room, controling me...
    EzyBreezyBeautiful EzyBreezyBeautiful 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    My Wicked Mother In-law

    I started dating my husband in our teens. I am 66 years old. When my two sons were born, she went around saying they were not my husband's kids. I have never been with another man in my life. When my oldest son was a year old, she put voodoo stuff in his crib. She denied my...
    jakechris jakechris 66-70 3 Responses Oct 25, 2012

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    2014 with MIL so far,

    At the start of the year, MIL is now calling relatives and friends a lot with messages about not being alive much longer. End of January she is now doing suicide attempts, and then after the attempt she called both BIL and DH to announce what she did and leaves a suicide note...
    AwayFromHer AwayFromHer 36-40 2 Responses Mar 29, 2014

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    Had To Ring Police To Remove Mother In Law

        So my MIL is a real psycho. Last year i ended up getting a protection order against her due to her abuse to me and my one year old daughter........ After six months she managed to wean her way back into my home, sstaying in my living room, controling me...
    EzyBreezyBeautiful EzyBreezyBeautiful 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    Waiting For The Other Shoe To Drop!

       I'm not even sure wear to start. I'm not even married to him yet, we will marry on Oct/16 this year 2010. we have bean in love seance we were in the 8Th grade but never dated till we were 22.  throe all those years his mother and i were VERY CLOSE, i did not...
    waytoforgiving waytoforgiving 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 10, 2010

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    I started dating my boyfriend in early 2005.

    He had previously been married and divorced TWICE to the same woman due to her infidelities. They had a 6 year old son at the time that neither of them bothered to step up or raise, so grandma took on the duties. Fast Forward to 2014, we are together with two young children of...
    emilygrace1985 emilygrace1985 26-30, F Jan 20, 2014

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    Why Me...>???? Hoping I'm Not Alone

    Such a long/complicated story..where to begin... about 16 yrs ago, I called my MIL to ask if she would send her "then" husband over to my house to re-light the pilot on my furnace...it was cold outside and I had a brand new baby and my hubby was working graveyard..so I was alone...
    Crissy1173 Crissy1173 36-40 Jun 17, 2012

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for 4 years we're soul mates. my problem is my disgusting mother in law!!! she doesnt have a partner and shes so jealous of me and her son. She is constantly telling him im not right for him and he should break up with me. she's interfering, spiteful and belongs in a mental home...
    jbecker1990 jbecker1990 22-25, F 3 Responses May 1

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    MIL Manipulator

    I dated my husband for 10 years before we got married. I've been married now for less than a year and the moment I returned from my honeymoon my mother in law has made my life hell. In the years that I have dated my husband she was very insulting she would say things like she...
    katbat00 katbat00 41-45 5 Responses Mar 29, 2013

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    The Face Of Evil!

    10 years together, almost a year married. things have slowly gotten worse with his mother, will call her Hitler! after i had our first child he still lived with her.  i would stay a few days and every friday he got paid he would give us both 100 dollars. she had talked him into...
    kathyco kathyco 26-30 3 Responses Nov 14, 2011

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    Smile On Face, Knife Behind Back!

    This year I am turning 50 years old, and so is my sister-in-law (husband's sister). Her birthday is a month after mine. The mother-in-law helps to plan an early surprise 50th birthday party for sister-in-law on MY birthday. I love my sister-in-law and would not do anything to...
    meesmom meesmom 46-50 2 Responses Sep 10, 2012

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    That's it! She does evil things.

    And how must an experience be 25 characters before you can post. I'm a short and sweet kinda person. There... 214 something characters.
    VeniceTheFree VeniceTheFree 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    Urgh!

    So after a long time of MIL pretty much being gone, she is back again. FIL has passed away and the time of my MIL journey that I have been dreading the most is now upon us, MIL in widowhood. As usual, MIL has to be the corpse at every funeral and the bride at every wedding, so...
    AwayFromHer AwayFromHer 36-40 1 Response Jun 1, 2013

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    Pure Evil From A So Called Christian Mother In Law!

    My 'dear' mother in law has told me to, "go back to....where I came from..." She has lied so much I have lost track. She has told my husband that apparently he needs "my permission to do 'stuff...' SHe has told me that I have NOTHING whatever to do with the...
    sicktomystomachwithMIL sicktomystomachwithMIL 46-50, F 8 Responses Nov 18, 2009

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    Who tells the mother in law that your have filed for divorce from her son ?
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    Is it bad that I have naughty feelings to my mother in law she only 51 and she has a fit body for her age I start looking at her a sexy way as at the weekend we were our doing...
    Cheekymonkey74 Cheekymonkey74 36-40, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My husband believes the issues between my mother in law and I are my fault because I am "hard to talk to". I have been married since june but together a little over a year with a...
    ShannonKV ShannonKV 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Facing a bit of a dilemma. I recently reached out to an ex who I was very serious with before my current relationship. His mother passed and I wanted to give my condolences. That's...
    Oneluckygal Oneluckygal 31-35, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    We all learned how things are from the environment we grew up in. My MIL learned to manipulate to get what she wanted because her father made it so he wasn’t approachable, so she...
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Pizza guy comes, BIL pays at the door. Me: You got pizza?! (excited, happy) SIL: It's all mine. (Period. No remorse. Eats 3 slices, and leaves the rest; cold.) Me to MIL...
    mysisterinlawisfuckedup mysisterinlawisfuckedup 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    A man, his wife, and his mother-in-law took a vacation to the Holy Land. While there his mother-in-law died. The undertaker told him they could go ahead and have her buried there...
    Bumblelion Bumblelion 31-35, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Just wanted to share that. My mother in law is brilliant. My husband is another story. Come to think of it I've got on with all 3 of my long term partners mothers better than I got...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    My husband recently made the decision that going to his brothers wedding and pretending that there is some sort of family harmony wasn't something he wanted to participate in. This...
    wordofwarning wordofwarning 51-55, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I have then having sex with my 60 year old mother in law for about a year we have sex about 4 times a week and she loved every bit of it
    garbgeman garbgeman 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 21

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    Im a 20 year old muslim girl. Part of our culture is we have arranged marragies where the mother or father of the guy comes to the girls family and ask for her hand in marriage...
    Zozolove Zozolove 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    I haven't responded in ages, but feel like I have to vent. My husband and I went to visit mil last week. After many months of not visiting her, I caved in and gave in to hubby's...
    genie201 genie201 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 21

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    I am hanging by a think thread of sanity. I have been married for less than three years and my MIL has lived with us from day 1. Her excuse was that she was helping us adjust to...
    SmritiP SmritiP 26-30, F 9 Responses Jul 21

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    so here is my third post ... my mother in law brang over this alcohol stuff because my son woke up with stiff neck ... OMG when I read the ingredients I was shocked ! this stuff...
    rsnnz88 rsnnz88 26-30, F Jul 20

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    I had sex with my 68 year old mother in law
    Suffolk64 Suffolk64 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 20

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    I've been married 27 years and have put up with DH's enmeshed bunch of nutball relatives for more than half my life. The "queen" of the bunch is one of the three SIL's, the self...
    eniederer eniederer 51-55, F 5 Responses Jul 19

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