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I Have An Inorgasmic Husband

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    Male Inorgasmia

    Hi,  My husband is unable to have an organism through intercourse, oral sex or hand manipulation with me. He is able to organism if he masturbates himself.  I always thought things would get better, but they don't.  I have been unable to find any help on this...
    Mary701 Mary701 46-50, F 8 Responses Mar 15, 2008

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