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I Have An Open Marriage

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    Helping My Little Sister

    My sister Megan is 10 years younger than me and divorced. She's also a new mom again breastfeeding her baby. She's a lot like me and we look a lot alike and we've were into some pretty intense swinging when she was married. Like me her sex drive is very strong and she had a guy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 20, 2012

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    A Surprising Path to Open Marriage

    I am writing because I need to share what's happening in my marriage, and can't talk about it with friends. I've had a good, strong, healthy marriage for over 20 years. My wife is the canonical devoted mother and spouse. She is very involved our children and volunteers for...
    asdpoi asdpoi 46-50 32 Responses Nov 12, 2008

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    Making A New Friend (part 1)

      Making a New Friend My husband and I have been married for 9 ½ years and have had an open marriage for about 7 ½ years.  We’re also both bi so we enjoy having sex with both men and women.  We have a circle of friends we like to play with...
    Trysta09 Trysta09 36-40, F 11 Responses Nov 12, 2009

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    A Way To Declare Your Open Relationship To Each Other And To Others

    My open marriage (to my wife of 32 years) is based on our mutual understanding that sexual monogamy is just a way of taking control of each other's bodies. We agree that that is so wrong! Without such a mutual understanding, the psychological toll of an open relationship might be...
    PapaJoe418 PapaJoe418 56-60, M Jul 14, 2013

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    One Day At A Time

    My husband and I have been in the lifestyle on and off for 10 years when we met a couple at a private party. We all l clicked and have been seeing eachother regularly for 6 weeks now. We had never played seperate and this couple only played in separate rooms. We were open to the...
    BFFRay13 BFFRay13 41-45, F 3 Responses May 23, 2013

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    This Might Be A Solution For Us

    I met a couple about 8 months ago. I didn't know that they had an open marriage. I just ended up becoming really good friends with the wife. She is pretty much my best friend now. She has been through it all with me this past year and is probably the first girlfriend in 20+ years...
    lisa36 lisa36 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 24, 2011

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    I Want To Find Easy Woman To Love Me

    my name is halim .am 20.am easy boy . i love music and dance . i love to visite to any place touristic and i want to finished my story with a woman who can to if her want to do it the same for an easy life and thanx
    pinouhimou pinouhimou 18-21, M May 9, 2013

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    Open realationship

    recently my gf asked me if i would let her sleep with other men like a free pass after her finally convincing me to let her she made a deal id get to dress her up and pick what she wears out and she wod give me sex with out wearing condom which she never has let me in our 4years...
    benjames23 benjames23 41-45 2 Responses Apr 19, 2013

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    Making A New Friend (part 2)

      I woke up slowly the next morning.  I was lying mostly on my stomach with my left leg on a body pillow and felt fingers slowly stroking up and down my back, shoulders and buttocks.  It was not my husband’s touch and it took me a few seconds to remember...
    Trysta09 Trysta09 36-40, F 13 Responses Nov 15, 2009

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    Negotiating An Agreement

    My husband and I opened our marriage up about a year ago. Since then I've slowly been approaching outside relationships. I think one thing that was a success was my ability to work with my husband to come to a mutually agreeable arrangement. It may be helpful to others, so I...
    northernhiker northernhiker 36-40, F 8 Responses Jan 5, 2013

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    Starting An Open Relationship And Having Issues

    My story echoes many of yours on here, so I apologize if there are other threads that I should post to. Wife and I are married 5 years and together nearly 10. We have 2 kids. We have had a rocky last year. 6 months ago my wife brought up the idea of open marriage (she has been...
    xGUSTOx xGUSTOx 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 5, 2013

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    A lot of people ask us

    why we have an open marriage. The answer to that is simple . . . We love each other! We read an article in Psychology Today which stated . . . "Love is bigger than you are. You can invite love, but you cannot dictate how, when, and where love expresses itself. You can choose to...
    ColoradoPolyCpl ColoradoPolyCpl 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Open To Cybersex

    I am new to the concept of the open marriage but have been reading a lot about it lately. I discovered my wife in a sexting/texting/phoning relationship with many guys and it freaked me out and almost destroyed our marriage of 21 years. After gaining assurances that the affairs...
    elborbah elborbah 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    A few weeks ago my wife

    and I agreed to have an open marriage. We agreed to tell each other everything. Since then she has been with two men on her Friday afternoon play sessions and let me be there to watch the fun. But she has not been on any dates, per se. Today she took things a step further. She...
    cloudgazr7 cloudgazr7 46-50, M 8 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    How To Ruin A Good Thing:

    Ok gentlemen, how many of you would enjoy the pleasure of another man’s wife? I have written many stories of my wife’s adventures with a young man. In these adventures I lent him my home, allowed my wife to travel to him, and what did I get in return? I got disrespected and...
    KSaunders1954 KSaunders1954 51-55, M 20 Responses Jul 12, 2010

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    New To This

    My husband and I decided after 10 years of marriage that an open marriage may be what will work best for us. This was decided after many years of trying to deny what came natural. I think for him he is way more comfortable accepting this relationship, but for me it is not so easy...
    acsmith81 acsmith81 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    My Second Affair

    Ok so my Friday night... I got in the shower after getting home from work and shaved all the important parts....well everything, I shaved everything...legs, under arms, lady parts...it was all as smooth as can be. I didnt dress up too much for a few reasons...1-I didnt want to...
    Green123123123123 Green123123123123 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 5, 2013

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    My Wife Wants An Open Marriage But..

    My wife and I have fantasized for years about sex with a third person both male and female. she was always a little hesitant about the MMF scenario. I warmed her to the idea over time. She had gotten friendly with a man via Facebook. One day she announced that she was ready...
    Indigo4u Indigo4u 41-45 4 Responses Jun 9, 2011

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    My Adventure So Far In The Open Marriage World.

    Im 22 and im a mother of two young children, ive known my husband for 7 years and we have been married 4 years. We have always been a very open couple very able to talk and share our feelings. This december i got a facebook message from a friend who i had not seen since school...
    youngmama88 youngmama88 22-25, F 9 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    Honesty Beats Frustration Every Time.

    My wife and I have always had healthy libidos, and we're mature enough to realize that almost everyone likes a little variety or takes a fancy to a stranger now and then. Once we had that out in the open, it was easy to set a few simple ground rules to avoid complications. We...
    witchsire witchsire 46-50, M 6 Responses Mar 21, 2008

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    Unfortunately I dont

    but I wish I did.
    MrSTF MrSTF 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    Risks Of An Open Marriage Or Getting Greedy

    As many of you know, my husband Bru and I have what I like to call a semi-open marriage. My husband Bru attracts women like he's a magnet. It used to bother me, but I've become very open and accepting to this fact of life. He's extremely handsome, charming and, let's face it...
    Lasvegasnluvnit Lasvegasnluvnit 46-50, F Aug 31, 2012

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    My Wife Wants To Have A Boy Toy.

    My wife asked me the other day if she could have a boy toy I guess someone to hang out with talk to and anything else that may happen I told her it was ok and that i wanted her to be happy I have never done anything like this before and i am just looking for some advice. Will...
    Pitsnipe30 Pitsnipe30 31-35, M 7 Responses Mar 14, 2013

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    I Kind Of Hate My Stories....

    I'm starting to realize how much of my story and how much of what I feel like I need to talk about is how I feel about my cheating. It all leads up to where we are today, which is completely open and completely honest, but I'm wondering if I should have put all of this crap in a...
    Fishielove Fishielove 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 14, 2013

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    How To Find Someone...

    My husband and I have an open marriage. It is a fairly new concept for us, but I am very happy with our decision. So now what? I haven't been in the dating scene in 10 years. We've been married for 7 and frankly I don't know what to do now. I ultimately would like to find a...
    Green123123123123 Green123123123123 31-35, F 10 Responses Aug 6, 2012

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    Looking For Advice From Other Couples

    We have been together for 8 years, married for six months. I realize that is not very long at all. You see, we've been together since we were really young and despite our relationship I have never been interested in the romance, dating, and sex and all that...until recently. I'm...
    KeevaRaev KeevaRaev 18-21, F 1 Response May 16, 2013

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    We Stayed In A Hotel All Day....Round 3

    After we went to lunch we came back to the room and layed down...both very full from the food and very tired from the mornings activities. We both went ahead and got naked but did not do anything to each other at first besides cuddle. We talked about our familes, our jobs, the...
    Green123123123123 Green123123123123 31-35, F Mar 19, 2013

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    We Stayed In A Hotel All Day...

    My current boyfriend/FWB/FB/boy toy/whatever (ta-may-toe/ta-mah-toe) and I spent the entire day in a hotel room today. We had been planning it for a few weeks now. I have spring break this week and was going to be at home most of the week. He mentioned a few weeks ago how it...
    Green123123123123 Green123123123123 31-35, F Mar 19, 2013

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    One-sided Open Marriage

    My husband Brian and I have been married for 3 years and ever since our honeymoon night, we have enjoyed an open marriage.  Mostly me actually and that is the problem.  He wants me to hook him up with some of my friends but I am afraid that the word will get out and my...
    debbie356 debbie356 22-25, F 19 Responses Oct 31, 2009

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    The Starting Line

    Well my story is not unlike many I have read. My husband and I have been married for over 16 years now. We moved in together when I was barely 17 and hubby was 20. We married 2 years later and have 2 beautiful kids. We are actually pretty happy as a couple especially the past...
    Curiouskitty77 Curiouskitty77 36-40, F 10 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    We Stayed In A Hotel All Day....Round 2

    After round 1 was over we layed together and cuddled and talked a while. I got up and cleaned up a tad bit and layed back down with him again. Twenty maybe thirty minutes later he reaches over and begins twisting my nipples, then moved closer to kiss me. He grabbed one of my...
    Green123123123123 Green123123123123 31-35, F Mar 19, 2013

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    Starting An Open Marriage

    so I recently told my husband that I had seen other men while we were married. we have agreed to do an open marriage but he seems to be having hard time with it is there anyway to make this easier or dose it just happen over time when the trust becomes stronger knowing I am not...
    AMtogether AMtogether 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 28, 2013

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    Sex Is A Good Thing And Nice People Do It.

    We've had an open marriage for about 15 years now. For a while we were heavy in the "swinger' scene, but not so much anymore. Nothing against it, just takes a lot of time and seemed like we didn't have much in common with most people we met at sex parties or clubs. But we're...
    magnuspym63 magnuspym63 46-50, M 8 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    We have been swinging

    for several years now. I have always liked sex but now I totally enjoy it. My husband loves sex but is content more and more to watch and loves to line up young guys to watch me with.
    twobitwhore1 twobitwhore1 51-55, F 4 Responses Mar 5

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    My boyfriend and I have been dating

    for 2.5 years and about 6 months ago I found out that he has been seeing a girl. He hasn't been honest because he was afraid to loose me. He told me about his problem that he had all his adult life that he is not a monogamous person and it's making him unhappy to be with only 1...
    MilashkaNY MilashkaNY 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    Navigating An Open Marriage. (part VIII)

    The night that I had my encounter with my guy friend's buddy I had seen my husband's friend at the bar (the one I'd given the borderline inappropriate back rub to). We seemed to have a hard time staying away from each other and eventually spoke about the fact that we really...
    Fishielove Fishielove 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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    Are You In A Commmitted Open Relationship?

    If you are, we want you! "The Goddess," a new Off-Broadway comedy about a modern open marriage, is hosting three special talk-backs during the show's run from Oct 10 to Nov 6. These post-show talk-backs will feature relationship experts and couples in open relationships. The...
    LookingGlassTheatre LookingGlassTheatre 18-21 Sep 15, 2013

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    We have been sharing each other

    since we were dating.
    averagebimale averagebimale 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 28

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    We Stayed In A Hotel All Day....Final Round

    Once we cleaned the mess from round 3, he laid back and rested for just a few minutes when he sat up, leaned over me and grabbed the gspot vibrator I brought from home. He turned on the toy, spread my legs out and started rubbing me both with the toy and with his fingers. Then...
    Green123123123123 Green123123123123 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    Ok, That Was A Little Slutty!

    So , I will fill you all in on my "Date" last night. Put on your seatbelt because this gets a little squirrely. I spent the day yesterday feeling horribly anxious about meeting my 30 yr old boy friend at a local place for a drink. I am smart like a fox though because I scheduled...
    Krzychick Krzychick 41-45, F 11 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    Beware Of Verma Family In Prashant Vihar

    Dont give your beautiful daughter and precious daughter to this family .They are very cruel Please don't give your daughter in this family .It's very true and 100 % correct information . Please save your girls /child/daughter to this cruel family
    An67 An67 22-25 1 Response Apr 25, 2013

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    Sex Life Is Through The Roof!

    I can't claim that we have an "open" marriage. But, we do flirt and play a lot more than most traditional couples. I want to open our marriage to the degree that we have ********** (MFF). I have no desire to take on a male lover and my husband doesn't want me to, either. But...
    Lasvegasnluvnit Lasvegasnluvnit 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 31, 2011

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    Not A Usual Open Marriage.

    My husband and I have been married for almost 5years now. I love our open marriage, buts not your usual open marriage. He can date and have sex with women, and I love it!! I only date and have sex with women. I guess you can call it a half open marriage. I love it because we...
    abilene8907 abilene8907 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    My First Affair After Opening Up Our Marriage.

    I met him online via the Yahoo chat rooms. We chatted and text and talked for almost 2 weeks before I agreed to meet him... We were going to meet at a resturant but when I got there (before him) there was a LONG line. So I called and asked if there was somewhere else he'd...
    Green123123123123 Green123123123123 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 12, 2013

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    Today I Have An Open Marriage ???? Wtf

    This was my blog post today: So... today I woke up and realized that over the past couple of days I have managed to negotiate an Open Marriage with my husband of 13 years. This is something I have been working on for a while now but havent been able to get all of my "conditions...
    Krzychick Krzychick 41-45, F 7 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    I Have A Husband...and A Boyfriend.

    Stats:  Married for 7 years.  Mother of 3 little girls, all under the age of 8.  I trust and respect my husband completely.  But there is something missing, and its not his or my fault, I don't feel that one person can be the everything for someone...
    Jeanniekins Jeanniekins 31-35, F 15 Responses Nov 21, 2010

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    Wow!! That is all I can say.

    Wow on how amazing that was. When you let go of preconceptions and shallow thought patterns, the world opens up. Wow on my husband and the fact that me being with another man turned him on so much. We have had problems with his performance abilities and suddenly he can perform...
    Taselle Taselle 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 11

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    Committed Open Relationship

    Are you in one or trying to be in one?
    LookingGlassTheatre LookingGlassTheatre 18-21 2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    The New Girl!!!!

    My husband Bruce and I are very happily married and have what some might consider a rather unusual relationship. Bru is not only allowed to have sexual relationships with other women, but he is encouraged to do so with my support and blessing. I do not have sexual relationships...
    Lasvegasnluvnit Lasvegasnluvnit 46-50, F 9 Responses Aug 27, 2012

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    Just Starting Out

    My husband and I have been married for 17 years and have three wonderful children. My husband confessed several years into our marriage that he likes to watch. So, I tried, for him. We found several men online, couple of friends. I couldn't get comfortable. I always felt...
    sexxymama sexxymama 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 8, 2009

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    Making A New Friend (part 3)

    I woke up the next morning to the sound of rain on the roof and the feeling of a finger stroking my *****. It was very wet so I suspected that the stroking had been going on for a while—but I’m not one to complain. I lay still and just enjoyed Jessica’s...
    Trysta09 Trysta09 36-40, F 16 Responses May 25, 2010

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    Navigating An Open Marriage (Part VII)

    After my conversation with my husband about what I was looking for when I went out, I felt we had made a major breakthrough. I was starting to really come to terms with what it was that I felt I needed and I felt like he was coming into a place where he could be receptive to...
    Fishielove Fishielove 31-35, F Mar 14, 2013

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    Open Marriage Now What

    Long long time married, we were both faithful and we were totally for hot each other. We decided to have an open marriage, did the research, set the ground rules. No problem, we divulged as much (or as little) as we agreed upon. A year later I find myself dealing with the little...
    bsgs bsgs 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 29, 2013