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I Have An Unemployed Boyfriend

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    What Should I Do?

    Every day is a struggle for money. I've tried to be there for him. I've helped him in everyway I can but to no avail. He says he's depressed but won't try to talk to someone. He won't leave his house at all anymore unless it's to get weed. I've been sitting on my own for a long...
    LeaveAndTakeMeWithYou LeaveAndTakeMeWithYou 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 11, 2008

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    Am I Making This A Bigger Deal?

    Let's see where to begin - dating this guy for close to 6 years, 4 of those long distance. what finally made him move was losing his job. historically, ours has been a tumultous relationship - we stuck on and made it work for different reasons, i'm guessing, me out of the...
    anotherconfusedone anotherconfusedone 26-30 1 Response Mar 18, 2010

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    My boyfriend of six years graduated college a

    year and a half ago with a BA in graphic design. This was the summer of 2012, then he took the rest of the summer off. I started asking him when he was going to start work, then stated he wanted to re-do his portfolio. Me being a graphic designer (still in school) my self can...
    mvm626 mvm626 26-30, F Jan 19

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    Getting Tired Of Supporting Us

    Eric and I have been together for a year and a half. The relationship is great and we're wildly in love. Eric has never once held a job. At first it wasn't a big deal. When we started talking about getting serious and living together he said he was looking for a job. Now he is...
    garbanzogonzo garbanzogonzo 18-21, F Mar 24, 2013

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