I Have Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD)

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    I'm soo messed up. Very happy.

    Everything's going great but messed up. I can't even complete basic tasks. I'm still in college so its fine because my parents are there to back me up for now. I'm not a weak student academically but the only person in the entire class who doesn't finish anything on time. I'm...
    messedup09 messedup09
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 7, 2015

    I was dx several years ago unfortunately

    after high school. I started college and found it very difficult to focus and learn. The meds are ok but I sometimes feel like I have taken cold meds. A little fuzzy at times...
    needtobloved needtobloved
    41-45, M
    1 Response Mar 25, 2015

    I'm thinking about how to convey what goes on

    in a brain like mine to someone who could sit here in this chair for three hours and do nothing but one thing. I like seeing connections between things that others will see only five minutes later. I like being able to improvise a lecture someone asks me to give the day before...
    Dereckf Dereckf
    51-55, M
    1 Response Dec 6, 2015

    I was diagnosed at like 14

    and my mum has reminded me ever since so i researched it and it sounds just like me but my ***** mum screams abuse at me anytime i do something add even though shes the one who keeps telling me i have it! Shes such a ******* *****, i don't understand why she tortures me, it's...
    MushroomFaerie148 MushroomFaerie148
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 6, 2015

    I was diagnosed with ADD

    when I was 14 (I am now 20.) and have tried almost all of the medications out there. So far vyvance has worked the best for me. I'm currently on it and because I was switching doctors, I ran out for a week. This past week has been awful. I am so glad I was able to get a new...
    krazykay20 krazykay20
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 23, 2014

    Having ADD and perfectionism is probably one of

    the worst things in the world.
    mypawshaveprints mypawshaveprints
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 11, 2015

    Careers For Add Explorers

            Careers for ADD Explorers "The...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Dec 10, 2010

    Dreamy ADD

    I've got ADD without the 'H'. I'm not really hyper -- just easily distracted and with poor concentration. I love to daydream... especially when I'm supposed to b doing something boring. But I'm told I'm "impulsive" -- idk why I do stuff but if it seems like a good idea, I'll just...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 15, 2013

    I tend to be late almost everywhere I go.

    Is anyone else with ADD late a good bit of the time? Usually it's only a few minutes but sometimes a lot more than that. It's been like that for the past 10 yrs. or so. My family and people I work with say they can count on me to be only marginally on time. Ugh I don't get in...
    Allison7593 Allison7593
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Feb 8

    I have been taking medication off

    and on for years to help with my ADD. A few months ago I started taking Adderall instead of Concerta but I notice that after taking it for 3-4 days in a row, I get sooo exhausted and need to lay in bed for hours. I noticed that if I take a Concerta for 3 days and then switch to...
    Kate2point0 Kate2point0
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jan 30

    ADD

    I found out in second grade I have ADD. I couldn't focus in class and my mind was everywhere. I also couldn't keep still, I would shift in my chair and tap my foot. Now I take medication for it and I went from a D student to an A. My attention is sharp and I can stay completely...
    Jessicasfabulous39 Jessicasfabulous39
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 2, 2013

    This is my second post in this group,

    and I am writing it in hopes that I may find some understanding or like-minded people. I wonder if all these things that I'm about to share with you, and which are absolutely eating up maybe 70% of my nerves and emotional energy, are truly related to having ADD(inattentive type...
    MantisReligiosa MantisReligiosa
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 13, 2014

    I've always hated the word focus,

    especially the way my mother said it. "I can tell you're not focusing blah, blah, blah" if I didn't focus exactly the way she thought I should. I hate the word focus because it's usually the last thing I want to do. lol
    Allison7593 Allison7593
    41-45, F
    Mar 2

    High IQ, low GPA's, high SAT & ACT scores,

    long history of failed relationships, disorganized, witty yet quirky, impulsive, introverted, playful smart-***, I think too much, I'm find myself preoccupied, I have lots of unfinished projects, innovative ideas that I write down and forget about, I don't read what I've written...
    A1m1A A1m1A
    46-50, M
    5 Responses Jul 29, 2014

    I just recently was diagnosed with ADD,

    which is probably the best thing that has ever happened for me academically. As a high school student it was never much of a problem because I am naturally good at academics without much effort. When I came to college, staying on top of my studies was a battle, like it has...
    StrawBracelet StrawBracelet
    18-21, F
    Feb 12

    Anyone else struggle with having a conversation?

    I run out of things to say quickly! Doesnt't matter if its someone new, old friend or family.
    grungie13 grungie13
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jun 7, 2015

    To those of you who are looking to strike a

    conversation with me, I'm warning you I find humour in almost anything. So please don't get offended. No insult intended, just very random person.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 13, 2014

    My psychiatrist told me I have this.

    It is because of anxiety. It isn't the same as ADHD. I don't get hyper. I will lose focus on something because I have too many thoughts. It doesn't mean I can't focus. That explains why I would daydream so much in school.
    softlywaking softlywaking
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 3

    I was diagnosed with ADD

    when I was in 2nd or 3rd grade. Grew up knowing my life was not going to be easy. I took my meds everyday that soon made it that I couldn't sleep. causing an addiction to sleeping pills by 10 or 11. I was pulled off all meds at 12. I had to teach myself how to cope with my...
    kaylavene2016 kaylavene2016
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 18, 2014

    I know I have ADD for about 10 months now.

    I had a depression before that, as I got stuck in several ways. My relation ended because of it so I had to move houses too. Now I'm trying to get back together, deal with the negative sides and enjoy the positive ones. Is someone having experiences with mindfullness and/or...
    Turquoise82 Turquoise82
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 17, 2015

    I sometimes wonder if people are incapable of

    understanding ADD. I was diagnosed two years ago (when I was 16 years old) and I kept hearing comments like "Oh my God! You're sure?" or "But your letters look so good" and all it did it's just **** me off. A) I was diagnosed by a doctor and have been through multiple tests, it...
    crazyellie crazyellie
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2015
    savfleek savfleek
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 21, 2015

    Anyone else have monologues with themself

    when they are alone in the house? I always do this. It's not something i have even thought about until now. It's really weird. I think i do it just to not have a bunch of different thoughts rushing through my head, but so i can have focus on the things i'm thinking about and...
    ThinkingCat ThinkingCat
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 27, 2015

    I'm working on listening.

    Really listening. It's hard to though when I have a thousand thoughts racing all the time. *sigh*
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 19, 2015

    it was detected when i was little

    but and.its giving me trubles at the school. if someone have amy advice it will be amaizing
    antomg1 antomg1
    18-21, F
    Jan 12

    Seriously, how can people sit in one place

    and not be distracted by something
    MidnightDragons MidnightDragons
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 15, 2015

    I don't have the hyper part at all,

    I just have attention problems. The hardest part is that I have such little control over it because I will be trying to get something important done and then 15 minutes later realize what happened.I find I had spaced out and got off task but while I am doing it,it is hard to...
    zen001 zen001
    22-25, M
    Feb 28, 2015

    I don't care if ppl tell me to slow down bec I

    can't help it. It's impulsivity that makes me jump to moving at a fast pace. I have s hard time keeping to other ppls slower paces in conversations, on the road, in stores when you swipe your card at CVS and you do it too soon. I do things way too soon.
    Joeyswiffey4life Joeyswiffey4life
    31-35, F
    May 11, 2015

    It's actually pretty fun

    so I guess I never understood why it's considered a problem. Well, that's not true, it does get very annoying for instances where you desperately need to focus such as in school or just when you want to listen fully to what someone's telling you. Sometimes you just want to...
    WindsomeFlurry WindsomeFlurry
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 4, 2014

    People just don't understand

    that it's more than the fact that I can't concentrate and it's really frustrating. My manager, coworkers, family, friends, and my boyfriend don't understand my ADD and how it affects me.
    SamanthaJadeee SamanthaJadeee
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 22, 2014

    Really wondering what I'm gonna do with my life.

    . My ADD gets in the way of practically everything. Everything requires 5x the effort than normal people. I wasn't diagnosed until highschool so I missed out on and forgot many important things in elementary and intermediate school, which is why I might be so stupid today. It's...
    kbeary kbeary
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 11, 2014

    Ive been reading about it

    for a min. And I seriously think I have it. My mom says I have it all the time, but I kinda laugh it off and yeah. I feel like I should go talk to someone about it.
    sleepyforever sleepyforever
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 11, 2015

    I only started realizing my lifetime of

    problems is ADD. Always losing things, disorganized, spacey, distracted, disoriented when there's several things going on around me. Do any of you have problems following a sentence when someone is talking to you? If it's a subject I can't relate to, I can't remember the...
    dawnmill dawnmill
    36-40
    2 Responses Feb 15

    Need relationship advice.

    I am having troubles in my relationship because of my distractability. My Boyfriend feels like i don't love him that much because i am distracted and sometimes forget about our appointments, or don't pay him enough attention when i'm doing other things. I love him over...
    ThinkingCat ThinkingCat
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 17

    I was diagnosed when I was like 6

    but I didn't get treatment until I was 15. I take Vyvanse and I'll be switching to Adderall XR soon. Its a double edged sword. These meds do help me function and without them I don't know if I would still be in college. However, the come with a sh*t ton of side effects. I always...
    blake000048 blake000048
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Aug 7, 2014

    Life Is Difficult Enough! (A.D.D) Makes It Worse...

    My whole life I have struggled with school. I'm scared to even raise my hand in class because I don't want the other students to laugh at me if I say something stupid. It's so hard to focus, and I always hear people say stuff like "yeah I'm so out of it today I think I have (A.D...
    MKM18 MKM18
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Aug 17, 2012

    Article:inside Attention Deficit Disorder - (no, You're Not Stupid, Lazy Or Crazy!)

    INSIDE ATTENTION DEFICIT DISORDER(No, you're NOT stupid, lazy or crazy!) By Shari Schreiber, M.A.www.GettinBetter.com   Attention Deficit Disorder or ADD, is a fairly common neurological issue that for years, has been recognized as a learning disability. If you’re born...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Jan 24, 2011

    A 26 Year Old Dreamer Sais Hi :)

    Hello everyone, I am a young woman of 26 years of Belgian origin. My parents have long suspected that something was not quite right, This has lasted until after my secondary .. till on a good day, they went to a psychologist with me, that finally confirmed that I had ADD. I've...
    wistaria87 wistaria87
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 20, 2013

    I have had this diagnosis

    for a long time now. I get distracted easily, my friend said it was kinda funny how distracted I got in a clothing store.. I have medication and it helps me a lot. I can concentrate better and I can focus on one thing again. (Excluding hyper focus) I had a hard time finishing...
    absenceofsound absenceofsound
    16-17, F
    Dec 9, 2013

    ADD can only get as bad

    as you let it... for those of you out there who are worried about having it. don't stress over it. it will not kill you. if you think you have it work on it, when you feel like your not focusing , Fix it yourself you don't need help and unless its bad you dont need medicine. I...
    jamsjams6 jamsjams6
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 11, 2015

    I have an overly stimulated brain

    that is constantly occupying itself and being pulled by every distraction that takes place. I get bored easily and conversations must flow at a very fast pace bec I feel like I'm gonna explode or jump out of my seat. I keep my mind occupied at all times and sometimes delve deep...
    Joeyswiffey4life Joeyswiffey4life
    31-35, F
    3 Responses May 9, 2015

    I was diagnosed at the age of 9 with ADD

    and it is pretty mild as i have been told. But i experience things that nobody else i have met has experienced. My doctor also says i am a bit of a special case. When anxious and stressed, I will experience tightening of the muscles in my lower back, feet, thighs, neck, and /or...
    BeingMeIsNotEasy BeingMeIsNotEasy
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 14, 2015
    Overdrive18 Overdrive18
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Feb 15, 2015

    I feel sometimes like my parents believe I'm

    going to have ADHD for the rest of my life a little too strongly. They don't want to help me try to get off medication so I can achieve my dream of joining the US Army...
    LivingBetweenRaindrops LivingBetweenRaindrops
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Feb 2

    Whenever people are like "Omg I'm

    so ADD" I'm always just like no, but really, you aren't. It's a serious condition and it's more than just being a little bit hyper -_-
    ysg93 ysg93
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Feb 23, 2015
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