I Have Bad Luck With Men

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 178 People

    The last two boys I've fallen in love with

    ended up being gay. Worst. Luck. Ever.
    Bambi9987 Bambi9987
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 11, 2014

    4th Month Fear.....

     I wake to me fighting in my sleep, tears pouring down my cheeks. I’m sweating from head to toe, still trying to become fully awake. IT seemed so real, so true. Could you really do that to me? Would it ever cross your mind?   I watch you sleep, so peaceful...
    browneyegirl89 browneyegirl89
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Feb 19, 2010

    They Find Me

    It seems the married ones come find me way too often however it could be that magnet on my forehead that says "Naive *****". LOL Okay hubby wasn't the best pick either but we do make pretty babies. I guess that MnM dude is okay too... LMAO (I'm gonna get **** for...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Sep 9, 2008

    Well after a year of talking to a guy,

    my best friend suggested I tell this guy I like him. I did and he ignored the statement all together and switched topics. Now I remember why I decided to just stay single over three years ago.
    angelexondra angelexondra
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 10, 2014

    Where Do I Go Wrong??? Same Pattern Always!!

    Ok so im only young so im sure theres plenty more frogs to kiss before i find my prince charming! However when i am with one of these frogs i always think its going great and then everything just changes and i dont know where i go wrong.  ive learned from my mistakes not...
    princesa2010 princesa2010
    22-25, F
    Mar 3, 2010

    Forever Tossed Aside

    I have had bad luck with men since before I was born. My mother had a very temporary relationship with my father and got pregnant with me. Beacuse she was single, and she lived in the ultra conservative south, her MALE doctor tried to abort me without her knowledge with...
    temporarysolution temporarysolution
    31-35, F
    Sep 10, 2009

    I was raised with a physically abusive

    alcoholic father and a verbally abusive mother. every relationship I have had over the years has ended up being verbally abusive. how many hits to one's self esteem can one take before you've had enough of everything.
    blueeyeddevil18 blueeyeddevil18
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 9, 2014

    It's always my fault.

    When I speak do my words just go through one ear to the next? Or do you actually understand what I am saying. I am trying to improve myself and make things better. I'm trying to change who I am. I'm trying to be the girl you want. I know I mess up but can you please also look at...
    Mangocupcakes Mangocupcakes
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 15, 2014

    Another One Bites The Dust

    its been 7 months since I've been happy, going on 8 months now the last day i was truly happy was valentines day of this year. my boyfriend gave me the sweetest card with the sweetest words anyone has ever said to me. a rose, a teddy bear , and some chocolates. we went out to...
    NeverBeenKissed93 NeverBeenKissed93
    22-25, F
    Aug 19, 2013

    I Always Attract The Men I Don't Fancy Or Want!

    I am an attractive woman and I do get my air share of attention from the opposite sex, but NEVER the guys I really want. The guys I want always fancy other girls. At the moment I really fancy my lecturer, and at one point I thought he liked me back, but sadly, I think he doesn't...
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 8, 2012

    i have dated about 10 men in my life time

    and im 22 old and only my first bf seemed to be sane, after that every guy i dated has somekind mental problems with insecurity or deppression even been cases of cutting and anger management problems, one even was a scitzophrenic, and well it is happening again i decided to date...
    BethLeKitteh BethLeKitteh
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 8, 2014


    The greatest obstacle to discovery is not ignorance; it is the illusion of knowledge. —Daniel J. Boorstin     I would never be so arrogant as to think I could never learn to make better choices. My husband is my choice.
    1Babe 1Babe
    46-50, F
    Aug 1, 2009

    What Can I Do?

    About a couple months back I met some guy on this random social site. We previously chatted before until some random racist guy posted things on my profile because I didn't want to talk to him. I said pretty nasty things back at him because he deserved it. So this guy decided to...
    Lilcrazyducky93 Lilcrazyducky93
    18-21, F
    Apr 19, 2013

    I'm a Loser Magnet

    yes..its true..i am a loser magnet..every guy i meet is either married, has 'issues', is an alcoholic, or a problem gambler ..they all lie..they all say that they're not married and then it turns out they are.. i met a guy once named Frank..he said he was single and lived with...
    MarleyChloesMum MarleyChloesMum
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Oct 22, 2008

    It's Like a Curse...

    Ever since i was a teenager, i had bad luck with guys... I was a true wallflower, and the 1970's song, "at seventeen" is almost a flashback of what my life was like, back in highschool.  During college, things started turning around, but my bad luck with men still...
    loserinlove loserinlove
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Oct 11, 2008
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 2, 2014

    No - Not Any More. Never Again.

    Why? Has my luck changed? No. Have I met a fantastic man that is  Mel Gibson looking, has a Ghandhi persona, and Bill Gates entrepreneurial style?  Nope - I have not. But bad energy sows bad energy - and I am done with that. So - I ...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72
    36-40, F
    5 Responses May 9, 2009

    I Use To Have Bad Luck With Men

    And I hope that my story can help someone else believe there is true love out there for them.  I've tried dating services, on-line dating, blind dates and any other kind of dating there is to nature.  First I was set up on a blind date by a friend who I...
    candles24 candles24
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 30, 2010

    Great At Being a Friend ....

    suck at everything else!! :) 
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72
    36-40, F
    10 Responses Jan 6, 2009

    I Dont Know Why ...i Think Im Just Locked Behind A Mirror

    I think that guys don't like knowing I was abused ... they respond with aggression rather then genuine careguys don't like me cuz Im not rich or pretty or really that clever...someone wrote a question before about "what kind of bad guy is cute to you?" I am not into bad guys...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 5, 2012

    Never Enough.

    I have bad luck with men. I have a feeling I'm never enough for them. My first ex-boyfriend left me for his ex-girlfriend. Every guy I've tried dating they always end up happy with someone else. Recently, I was just seeing someone casually and he stopped talking to me. I found...
    xoch xoch
    1 Response Oct 17, 2012

    Is It Me Or Them?

    for most of my life, me and men have never mixed too well. i know for my part that i have issues with them that stem back from my childhood and affect the way i feel about them now as an adult. growing up with an abusive father and an uncle who sexually abused me didn't help...
    jerrica jerrica
    51-55, F
    13 Responses Jul 21, 2009

    I Have Bad Luck With Men

    guys really have never shown any interest. I have friends that r guys but they never like me more than that. I want to get out of the friend zone for once in my life! Most guys even tell me I have big boobs but they don't pursue with that comment. I love the respect that they...
    Nakapeepee Nakapeepee
    Aug 6, 2011

    all man not brings bad luck

    if that there is no sentence that I'm so lucky with my love. a perfect man can give a girl heavens happiness. bad luck man may in the world but good mans present is have. good luck.
    shamim462 shamim462
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jun 1, 2015

    Forever The Loser

    Once again, i've been dumped...i was nice to him and i don't know what i did wrong, but nevertheless, he just didn't like me for some reason.  Like all of them, he seemed to like me at first, and was the one who started pursuing me, but then for some unknown reason i guess...
    loserinlove loserinlove
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Oct 31, 2009

    Last November (29 nov ) i met this wonderful

    guy from Europe on this site. he was the one to messaged me and we chatted and it just clicked. i'm bad at talking to people and having a developing a connection with people but with him it felt right. i fell i could be myself with him and it also helped that he was tall and...
    missnicething missnicething
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 7, 2015

    It's Happening Again....

    Oh here i go again....i helped and encouraged somebody i was attracted to, to get promoted at work...was their biggest cheerleader for them and always gave them words of support as well as write their bosses commending letters.   As soon as they get promoted, they kick me to the...
    loserinlove loserinlove
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jan 12, 2011

    I think I have to just vent my frustration

    somewhere because I think my friends are sick of hearing me get f**ked over time and time again.. So my last relationship was about 3 years ago and I was with him for 6years, it was a typical, I loved him I wanted things to progress into something a little more serious but he...
    LucyLoo83 LucyLoo83
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 5, 2014

    Snake Eyes...I Lose.

    I don't know why. I let them be themselves, but they feel guilty about "not being enough" for me. I have care staff so I don't expect their focus to be on my every breath. Then, it can go the other way, I am considered so much of an inspiration, that the responsibility...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    23 Responses Sep 21, 2008

    Every man I date is seeking sex

    or is wanting sex nothing serious. Been single 5 years and starting to give up. Now, I don't care about even giving a try. I know it will go no where.
    cthomas123 cthomas123
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 31, 2015
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