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I Have Been a Victim But I'm Grateful For It

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    No Pain, No Gain.

    I'm a bully victim that's the reason why I have a low self-esteem. My classmates are good in using reverse psychology. They love to mock other people.--> That's how I describe them as what I've seen and experienced. Though, they are bully I never fail to see their beauty. They...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 19, 2012

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    Being Molested .

    At the time that I was molested I hated it and for many years after.  I started to realize that me being molested at 7 years of age protected me in the years to come.  I thought this but didn't really know how to to say it without it sounding sick.  While I hated the fact...
    TexasLily TexasLily 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2008

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    I Was Raped....twice

    When I was 14 years old I was date raped by my best friends older brother.  It took a long time for me to deal with it.  I didn't tell anyone until I was 17 years old.  Just recently I was raped by someone I didn't know at all  I was getting out of my car in...
    creed2002 creed2002 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 7, 2008

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    Its Not Easy Though...

    If I focus too hard on the past, or rather on specific events, I find that I'm not grateful at all that I was a victim. However, when I think about the how I ended up as the result of my experiences, I cannot help but be grateful. I've learned so much as a result of the things...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 18, 2008

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    I Was Bullied

    By an entire school for a year and a half, i dont just mean students either, the teachers actually encouraged it indirectly so i couldnt prove it but i knew, it was in North Carolina but in the bible belt and this entire school thought i was gay, from one guy called me it once...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    Its Not Easy Though...

    If I focus too hard on the past, or rather on specific events, I find that I'm not grateful at all that I was a victim. However, when I think about the how I ended up as the result of my experiences, I cannot help but be grateful. I've learned so much as a result of the things...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 5, 2008

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    Today at this moment, I am grateful for: 1) Xuan!! 2) Fireball because it tastes so fun and reminds me of my buddies 3) Quiet time; peace (some duration during each day; and soon I...
    Nyxii Nyxii 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    These are the 10 things I am grateful for: 1. God 2. Jesus 3. Whitney Houston 4. Nia (doll I've had since I was 7) 5. A second chance at life from God and my angel 6. The knowledge...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Aug 19

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    Ive been friends with this guy at school for more than 6 months now. I was dating someone else when we met but I've been single for 4 months now. We talk almost everyday and I can...
    Moelyn95 Moelyn95 18-21, F Aug 11

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    There is a person who is like my heart. but he doesn't know that. He doesn't know how much I love him.he doesn't know how much he is important to me. If a day he says stop...
    Martin7470 Martin7470 18-21, M 9 Responses Aug 21

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    I just don't get why people think that all introverts are shy. These are two complete different dimensions. Someone can be shy and extroverted. I'm an introvert but very confident...
    OnlyDeadHumansAreGoodHumans OnlyDeadHumansAreGoodHumans 18-21, M 18 hrs ago

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    I've been dating this guy for almost 2 1/2 years and we've had our ups and downs but its kinda gone into barely speaking with his either being busy and me starting senior year in...
    fallenfar fallenfar 18-21, F Aug 22

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    I have been told i seam like i am 18 but nope I'm just a 14 year old who drank a lot if milk and is in advanced math class Its funny because I'm more mature and have a deeper voice...
    CuddlesNSnuggles CuddlesNSnuggles 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 2

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    I loved my ex boyfriend a lot. We were so perfect together. We were like two peas in a pod, he smiled, I smiled. When we would argue we would know exactly what the other was...
    hellerpeople hellerpeople 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I have been told this as it seems I always bring up sad issues for no apparent reason, even if it wasn't a big deal or even that sad. I do catch myself feeling like I'm purposely...
    lilyranger90 lilyranger90 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I'm actually not too shy at all.. Message me for my Skype... I'm hard and horny and headed for the shower... So don't wait;)
    sexhibit74 sexhibit74 36-40, M Aug 18

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    Couldn't sleep after thinking about how tomorrow's my last day with my boyfriend before he leaves for college. We're going to schools that are only two hours or so apart and I'm so...
    jycdartmniac jycdartmniac 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    The grass seems greener on the other side, when I'm in a relationship wishing to be single, when single wishing to be with someone.
    maks1m maks1m 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    Who wants to chat while I'm making a nice spaghetti dinner!!? ;)
    livemanlive livemanlive 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    I live my life in a small community in a state that I have no ties to, other than the people that I've met along the way. I was married for 4 years back in my early 20's, but...
    Gimli1982 Gimli1982 31-35, M Aug 8

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    "Oblivious" might be the more correct term in these cases.. when someone is telling me something. I don't admit I know what or who they are talking about if it's going to make me...
    ShimmerSquirrels13 ShimmerSquirrels13 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    But i don't talk to people here cause i don't wanna make others bored -__-
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M Aug 16

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    I can barely look at other people let alone make conversation but I love people who are bubbly and love cuddles :)
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F Aug 16

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    I,m looking a female friend, i,m honest,kind,loving,hlpeing guy from gurgaon. looking smart,beautiful female friend for long type friendship. if you are looking who love you...
    rajanchaudhry25 rajanchaudhry25 41-45, M Aug 19

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    I really really really really like this guy on here and he's cute af!!!! I'm just really scared to ask him to b my bf...I brought it up yesterday and I told him " I like a guy on...
    Sprinklesnstuff Sprinklesnstuff 13-15, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    Is this legit? Does it make sense? There's only 2 people in this group! Does no one know how to understand it? I'm a girl who likes boys but I wish I were a boy 😯 I think people...
    RexxTheDinosawr RexxTheDinosawr 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    My bf and I have been dating for a year and a half now. I love him very much and we are fairly happy together. We are best friends and we know where we each stand. We are...
    danie410 danie410 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    There's this girl I like we talk a lot and I told her I like her I want to tell her I love her but I can't because I don't know what she'll say.
    xXtysonXx xXtysonXx 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    I was very afraid to speak my mind up until this morning when I was being spoke down to by my ex boyfriend. I was so scared to tell him how I really felt but now I feel better for...
    sademptynothing sademptynothing 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I have friends. I am in a sorority. I am involved in multiple organizations on campus. I do volunteer work in the community. I thought by doing all of this I'd be able to overcome...
    tendersoul22 tendersoul22 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    I have friends or have a group(s) but I don't know. I can't connect to them, it's like I just can't vibe with them and I feel indifferent to them and I just don't know how I feel...
    luisvstheuniverse luisvstheuniverse 16-17, M Aug 14

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    I had a childhood love. It was real and I believed it would last forever. Though we were little kids, secretly we got engaged. I knew I would spend the rest of my life with him but...
    Eyeaspasta Eyeaspasta 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Well i did try but when the other person is not willing to have a long distance relationship that kinda cuts me off at the knees. I would have definitely gone to the trouble of...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    304 million people live in the U.S. One in 25 people will have the disorders associated with 'no conscience' which include antisocial personality disorder, sociopath, and...
    TygerLylly TygerLylly 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I reckon the first one would be the ability to spell grateful ;)
    chizzleswizzle chizzleswizzle 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I should start sleeping early. School is just around the corner. I been sleeping what seems to be later and later. I'll be a zombie by the time classes start.
    Idreamtowaketofindthefate Idreamtowaketofindthefate 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Seduce me into silence until I am completely empty and brimming with your essence
    winterfall winterfall 36-40 Aug 2

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    who would've thought that id be able to love again. but it's true. it's happening. and it's amazing.
    Katelynann30 Katelynann30 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Insomnia anyone ? Nothing to do at 5am! Wishing I was in Paris. Where is love ?! Lol
    katrinapaytonxo katrinapaytonxo 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    Waking up at 5:30 am...I should be sleeping !
    katkitty7 katkitty7 41-45, F Aug 22

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    probably because i give 2 about current affairs and politics lol
    jackalfredthegr8 jackalfredthegr8 13-15, M Aug 2

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    Mouth says no words , deep inside burns silent fires, on lips are callous smiles while cries relentlessly the soul of mine …I miss you ,I miss you I miss you………..
    winterfall winterfall 36-40 Aug 5

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    My older sister lets me wear her older clothes and now I wanna be a girl but my mom thinks im gay and she doesnt like it when I cross-dress
    13urritoluva123 13urritoluva123 13-15 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I am in a relationship yet i still feel alone. Anyone else experiencing the same thing?
    Lilys3 Lilys3 18-21, F Aug 16

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    I applied for my provisional licence at 17, had driving lessons and past my driving test first time! ;-)
    queerinthehead queerinthehead 41-45, M Aug 17

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    I have the experience being called Fascist by some ignorant people. My cousins once were directly called that term. It shows that this world is still suffering from discrimination...
    Martin7470 Martin7470 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    I really like this guy on EP and we've only talked like once and wasn't even a real conversation he only replied once then I asked a question then just said bye :P but idk if he'll...
    Sprinklesnstuff Sprinklesnstuff 13-15, M Aug 21

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