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I Have Been a Victim But I'm Grateful For It

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 43 People

    I Was Raped....twice

    When I was 14 years old I was date raped by my best friends older brother.  It took a long time for me to deal with it.  I didn't tell anyone until I was 17 years old.  Just recently I was raped by someone I didn't know at all  I was getting out of my car in...
    creed2002 creed2002 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 7, 2008

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    Its Not Easy Though...

    If I focus too hard on the past, or rather on specific events, I find that I'm not grateful at all that I was a victim. However, when I think about the how I ended up as the result of my experiences, I cannot help but be grateful. I've learned so much as a result of the things...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 18, 2008

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    I Was Bullied

    By an entire school for a year and a half, i dont just mean students either, the teachers actually encouraged it indirectly so i couldnt prove it but i knew, it was in North Carolina but in the bible belt and this entire school thought i was gay, from one guy called me it once...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    Its Not Easy Though...

    If I focus too hard on the past, or rather on specific events, I find that I'm not grateful at all that I was a victim. However, when I think about the how I ended up as the result of my experiences, I cannot help but be grateful. I've learned so much as a result of the things...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 5, 2008

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    No Pain, No Gain.

    I'm a bully victim that's the reason why I have a low self-esteem. My classmates are good in using reverse psychology. They love to mock other people.--> That's how I describe them as what I've seen and experienced. Though, they are bully I never fail to see their beauty. They...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 19, 2012

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    Being Molested .

    At the time that I was molested I hated it and for many years after.  I started to realize that me being molested at 7 years of age protected me in the years to come.  I thought this but didn't really know how to to say it without it sounding sick.  While I hated the fact...
    TexasLily TexasLily 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2008

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    There have been many times in my short life when people have told me that I'm useless and no good to anyone :( I have been told this enough times that I am starting to believe it...
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    I have been told by many people, including my friends, that I am an ugly girl and that I'm a complete loser on top of it. I don't have many friends and I'm just looking for people...
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    I lost mine to distance. Now I'm looking for an online relationship or someone close to home.
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    sethjackson2015 sethjackson2015 16-17, M Dec 5

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    I think one of the reasons why I'm an introvert is because I've been disappointed by so many so called friends during school days and my adult life that I have learnt to be on my...
    Roz2014 Roz2014 41-45, F Dec 10

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    imgivingupnow imgivingupnow 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 17

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    Have you ever been in a relationship but you're not in love to that person? I know this is crazy,I'm doing it wrong but with my situation, I cant even figure out how will this...
    Achelle07 Achelle07 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm depressed. It's been over six years, I think, since I've fallen in love with her. It will never happen, but something inside just refuses to let her go and the memory is...
    or19937 or19937 18-21, M Dec 3

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    tormentedinternally tormentedinternally 26-30, M Dec 11

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    I have been in relationships with men. I find both men as well as women attractive. My. First sexual experiences were with girls. I enjoyed them, but I was to young to understand...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 14

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    I'm ready to explore what's out there. I miss having that connection. I have a type though... Lately I've been drawn to younger, military men. Obviously it hasn't worked! I'm...
    flutterby0913 flutterby0913 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    I wanted to go home since I remember, I never know why, just wanna go home. Lived with my parents quite long, it wasn't the best, but at least it was familiar. Do not misunderstood...
    eDitka eDitka 31-35, F Dec 2

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    lookin at the number of people on this page I can say not a lot of people experience it... I do thou...been for a while now...gt extreme after my marriage almost fell apart...
    itlay itlay 22-25, F Dec 12

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    me & my boyfriend we hardly talk anymore because last week his phone was off & now ever since he got it back on we hardly talk we only talked for 2 days (Friday & Saturday) its...
    dessmart1 dessmart1 13-15, F Dec 15

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    I'm not used to being by Myself and love being with someone. I'm hoping not to spend the rest of my days alone.
    shona1967 shona1967 46-50, F 5 days ago

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    i wouldent fight randomly I would fight for what I've got and what ill gett
    daringdo daringdo 16-17, T Nov 29

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    I'm 14 looking for a kind girl with a good personality and that I might love and has a phone so we can talk and say stuff to each other and I hope you'll be the right one for me
    Zerostigma Zerostigma 13-15, M Dec 2

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    if I fight someone I don't attack them but I attack their car or other personal stuff
    Donpi Donpi 18-21, T 1 Response Dec 2

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    I'll fight for what I love even if its useless
    Zerostigma Zerostigma 13-15, M 3 Responses Dec 2

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    I'm in pain. I love someone for 6 years, yet I hurt that person. We met few months ago, we were fine. Friends I guess. But I still feel pain. I tried to like or love others but I...
    BlueHowl08 BlueHowl08 16-17, F Dec 5

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    What's the point in living if no one ever asks me how I am without an ulterior motive... no one wants just genuine realness... everyones out for themselves... What's the point in...
    Misscoconut Misscoconut 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    EmmyChi EmmyChi 22-25 1 Response Dec 15

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    mismocielo mismocielo 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    itlay itlay 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 12

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    dreamz1203 dreamz1203 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 8

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    How come society makes us feel bad for thinking out the box when all the time it's made up to control us. Come play at secreterotica . com it's sexy, fun the groups and library are...
    YouKnowItMakesSense YouKnowItMakesSense 31-35, M Nov 28

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    the loneliness is more than i can take sometimes. always talk of change but still im here in the dark waiting..
    xyourxonlyxstarx xyourxonlyxstarx 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 14

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    I have never experienced a sugar daddy.... Or never even thought about it until now! Sounds like fun. ;)
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    I will always fight for what I believe in. No matter what.
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