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I Have Been Betrayed By Friends

You once trusted them. You really did. They trusted you as well, or so you thought. You end up shocked to find out what they did. This is what happened to us. Share us your experience. 6,454 People

    Abandoned.

    I don't know about anyone else here, but this seems to happen to me all the time in my life. I make a friend, in real life or online, it doesn't matter, the same thing happens either way. We become friends and close, we share everything together, this could even go on for a long...
    ForestRain ForestRain 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2012

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    khankale khankale 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 8

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    yes..just so many times that

    now i cant even remember all of them..i sometimes think whether its them or me...i think something is seriously wrong with me...I trust too much...on everybody with everything...n that is where they take me for granted...I tell everyone whatever is on my mind...that is where i...
    sb3007 sb3007 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    My trust is irreparably ****** up,

    the only person I trust to have my back is myself. People these days will screw you over without a second thought if it serves their interests to do so.
    orlyfixation orlyfixation 22-25, F 3 Responses May 22, 2014

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    I have been betrayed by my friend

    when i was in 6th grade because she was the "bystander who agrees with the bully" and she was also my "friend" . so when the bully would come , she would side with the bully and act like we were never friends and always help the bully make me miserable , she even sided with the...
    Rosey3686 Rosey3686 16-17, F 7 Responses Apr 22

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    The Giant Badger Himself Was Once Betrayed....

    Indeed, He was resting by the River Shashnorgarmagor, when His own disciple, the traitorous Lumloydo, did direct a legion of Bad Soldiers to His place of recumbentcy. Thembagoshuns 1:3 tells us:But the Lord Badger had no fear of them, and bade them approach, that He might share a...
    GiantBadgerDisciple GiantBadgerDisciple 26-30 Apr 27, 2013

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    It's a shame when most of the world

    either wants to rip you to shreds for something you enjoy, and yet you can only confide in a very select amount of people. Isn't it strange how just one or two people can change someones life? Then you get that one person who sneaks in unexpectedly and pretends to care for you...
    DaisukeIchijo DaisukeIchijo 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    yeah it sucks! my ex best friend betrayed me by

    having a relationship with my ex boyfriend its been few years but when i saw their face or even just to hear their name it brings back all the pain they have done
    filipinayel filipinayel 22-25, F Aug 8

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    Honestly when you're in a relationship

    and you're trying to get advice from the opposite sex that's NOT your significant other's friend I don't think the advice will ever be good. Because the guys in my life would treat me differently. And the girls in his life would because they've known us for a lot longer than we...
    taminglife taminglife 22-25, F Jul 19

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    I had two best friends ( my only friends) one

    of which we were for 30 years, until this last year. Last years my girlfriend of 30 years moved in with us I rented her a room 6 months later I caught her and my husband in my bed together there went the end of our friendship! Two months ago I caught my other friend and my...
    blueeyescryin69 blueeyescryin69 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I had a really good friend

    who did everything with me. We shared secrets and one day went as far as to tell each other our passwords to our social networks. About a week later she texts me. She says a bunch of hurtful things bringing up personal problems we promised we understood and then uses my password...
    varcx3 varcx3 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Been Betrayed By Friends..

    I thought they were my friends. I thought they were kind, sweet, and caring, as how they thought of me. One day, they got so scared that I didn't like them anymore, they pushed myself and themselves further away. One day, all was gone. Nobody to talk to, nobody to chat...
    lostgirl88 lostgirl88 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 1, 2007

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    afterthedead afterthedead 56-60, M Jul 19

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    Betrayed isn't the word I was looking for,

    more let down than anything. When you're there for close friends when they need it you'd expect the same in return. That's what true friendship is after all. But now someone I had been there for (when they were down in the dumps) is feeling better, they've discarded me as if I...
    Fabulousboy91 Fabulousboy91 22-25, M Aug 10, 2014

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    tkhsbandgeek2017 tkhsbandgeek2017 16-17, F 1 Response May 7

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    I had a friend, a good friend.

    We would talk all night and day and eventually slowed down but kept each other going. Yet recently a lot changed specifically on how she treats me. As far as I know we're tearing through political differences and views her being feminist anti establishment but mine being more...
    AwkwardKnowItAll AwkwardKnowItAll 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 26

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    To the a*@holes who have shown me

    that being a human being doesn't really make u worthy of being a human being I say thanks...you have taught me that my strength comes from within and God..life lessons comes with a price but today I am stronger and better than I was yesterday.
    Mystik7 Mystik7 36-40, F 1 Response May 19

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    Stop asking me to trust you

    while I'm still coughing up water from the last time you let me drown.....
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 28

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    aishu1996 aishu1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    We should forgive better Especially

    if our spouse /bf/gf is parent to our child. Why? 1) The children's sake. 2) That child is living evidence we see something worth getting together for. Both parties.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 1

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    Any friend of mine that's trying to be negative

    is no friend of mine. Because if you're comparing my situation to your own life and how things would be in your life than you're not being open minded and understanding. Sure you want to look out for me, but in which way? Really. I don't mean to push my friends away. But at the...
    taminglife taminglife 22-25, F Jul 19

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    I have been betrayed by friends

    so many time, but it built me up and made me stronger. Living well is the best revenge.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 15

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    A Simple Truth

    My story is simple to understand. I was betrayed. This isn't a sob story, but a simple truth that I've come to know through experience. There is an invisible line that has to be drawn when you befriend some one, one that dictate's how far a friend would go for that other friend...
    agathashelly agathashelly 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    This isn't really got betrayed

    but I couldn't find anything close to what I was saying.. Anyways.. Well I've known someone for like 9 years. Since pre-kay we've been friends and now we're in 8 grade.. (I don't use anything real such as name and age) but anyways.. I've known her that long and well today.. I...
    MackenzieJacobs MackenzieJacobs 18-21, F Jul 4

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    When my friends betray me I know there not my

    friend and they no that I don't like lies
    Iloveanime25 Iloveanime25 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    I told my friend some personal information

    about me and this girl. The next day he blabs it to his social circle, and now I am receiving hate texts about it from them. He betrayed my trust, and I wonder if I can trust anyone. Broken trust seems to be a reoccurring theme with my social relationships. They always let me...
    SilentK17 SilentK17 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    I can't even count on

    both hands how many times I've been betrayed and burned by someone. It takes a lot for me to want to give up part of myself to let someone be close to me again. People are so fake nowadays. All people care about half the time is what they can get out of you, and that's why I'm...
    bemyforeverlove97 bemyforeverlove97 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 15

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    After prom came prom house,

    and after prom house I realized not even blood is as thick as we think..... Senior Prom was a huge success, definitely one of the best nights of my life... but it seems the fun stopped there. My bestfriend and I decided we would spend Senior Week at a beachfront hotel in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 20

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    countless times...and

    now it's by the least expected person to do such a thing to me ..than Jk s a lit *****...go **** yourself
    DaveEatsToast DaveEatsToast 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 14

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    I don't understand why the people I trusted,

    all left the ones i made promises with that we'd always be there for each other, they all left me, I'm the only one who's still keeping their promises, because despite how much it hurts, I'm still always going to be there for them if they need me
    HeadStrongPro HeadStrongPro 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    My group ditched me many times to go hang out

    with someone else, and at that time me and the person they ditched me to go hang out with were in a fight.
    Kayla429 Kayla429 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    This experience would be more accurate

    if it were "I've been betrayed by EX-friends" A person who betrays your trust is no friend at all.
    KaskadingKoquette KaskadingKoquette 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 18, 2014

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    Goodbye

    I am writing this letter as a cathartic goodbye.  If you read it, OK, and if you don’t, that is OK too. I am glad that you have realized that you are worthy of affection, and that people will be able to have affection for you.  You have done a lot of work to find that...
    RSCL RSCL 46-50 Mar 16, 2012

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    **** you...I thought you'd never be the one to

    hurt me but here you are hurting me more than anyone else.
    heatherm10 heatherm10 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    My best friend and I used to be inseparable.

    Freshman and sophomore year, we were practically connected at the hip. At some point this year she changed, and for reasons unknown to me, I think she hates me. I don't want to go into senior year without her. I've tried to address this and she makes up fake apologies then...
    heatherm10 heatherm10 18-21, F Jul 13, 2014

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    I remember it so clearly I had everyone on a

    account. It was like an instant messenger and we talked all the time. Then one day everyone was gone because they couldn't accept me for who I was and who I wanted to be that should not have been an excuse to drop somebody into the dust. they actually didn't like me because I...
    Autumnflowers Autumnflowers 18-21 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Redirection?

    Sometimes people lie to you because they don't know how to be honest with you, or more importantly themselves. But, you can't lie to someone who doesn't believe you. So, I guess I don't really consider it true betrayal because I knew all along... So if you are reading this...
    BrutMystik BrutMystik 36-40, F 15 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    Why is it that you are there

    for your friends but they are nowhere during your emergency? I referee my two friends and the ex-hubby/boyfriend that made it a love triangle...on my grandpa's last day alive. Keep them from killing each other... But when I end up in a shelter or need help changing the locks...
    teadiva teadiva 31-35, F 1 Response May 4

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    Elementary school I had a lot of "friends"

    that only kept me around because I entertained them when I got in trouble a lot just for them to like me. In middle school, those same guys didn't talk to me, they didn't stand up for me when I was bullied, hell, some of them were the one bullying me. I'm glad we moved away...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 14

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    Makes it difficult to trust your own judgement

    when someone you thought of as a friend, could turn on you so easily and viciously.
    LonesumnTx LonesumnTx 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    yourcutelittlejo yourcutelittlejo 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 19

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    Good They Did.

    At least now I know whom to trust and whom not to. I'm happy about the fact, that such people are out of my life. I was wrong to mourn their loss, even when I knew how badly they betrayed me. But not anymore.
    bluie19 bluie19 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 18, 2011

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    My 'so-called' Friends...

    A 'friend' uses you to accomplish a means to an end.. When you cry, they callously brush it aside and yet expect you to sympathise when things arent goin right with them.. Where are they when you need help? They are doin their own things until its time to call you to their side...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    Too many times than I care to mention.

    I've often heard the phrase, "You can trust me", but you know what? it's utter bollocks, I've been let down by 'trustworthy' types. I'm the kind of person who would always be there if needed, I'd offer advice etc. But it was never reciprocated. You've let me down too many...
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 2

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    My "friends" stabbed me in the back.

    They spoke to one of the moms saying how terrible and angry I am. This mom gave me ****. I said whatever ignore it. Then I find out yesterday that my "friends" have been speaking about me behind my back. I have trust issues, I start trusting people I think are my friends and I...
    GeorgiaMaroulis GeorgiaMaroulis 18-21, F Jun 21

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    I have been betrayed by

    so called friends throughout my life. The hardest thing was being so close to this boy when we were kids only to find out years later that he isn't the same person I remembered. As kids, he refused to hurt me but as a teenager and adult, he hurt me over and over. I finally had...
    sweetstar1 sweetstar1 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 17, 2014