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I Have Been Betrayed By Friends

You once trusted them. You really did. They trusted you as well, or so you thought. You end up shocked to find out what they did. This is what happened to us. Share us your experience. 5,015 People

    I was just betrayed by one of my "closest" friends. She just ditched me while we were on a weekend away. She planned the weekend for us. She seemed so excited about it. Then there...
    iseekhim iseekhim 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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    Redirection? - Sometimes people lie to you because they don't know how to be honest with you, or more importantly themselves. But, you can't lie to someone who doesn't believe you...
    BrutMystik BrutMystik 36-40, F 16 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    Betrayed And Manipulated - I should have gone with my gut feelings and shut her out of my life before I got reeled in fully. She was supposed to be my closest friend. I met her 2...
    LittleFerrett LittleFerrett 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    The Best Of Times The Worst Of Times - I have been betrayed by friends, I have also betrayed friends. I don't know which is more painful to be honest, if anything they are equally...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 23, 2012

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    To me a true friend is one who sticks by you through good and bad times ,they are there for you ALWAYS! You share ,joy,laughter ,tears sadness with them . But the most important...
    angelofsweetness angelofsweetness 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    I Hope I Can Trust Again.... - Wow, it's been almost 6 months since someone I thought was a friend totally rocked my world, and not in a good way. It has taken me this long to get...
    luvangels luvangels 51-55, F 4 Responses Aug 12, 2008

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    Spent 4 hours volunteering for homeless charity this a.m.. I enjoy that so that doesn''t count. Went to official gov office and met a woman there that needed help filling out a...
    Gladez Gladez 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Et tu, sister?-- I have had an obscenely difficult time dealing with others my age, and it has completely ruined my ability to trust and to focus in school. I am a senior in high...
    LuciaIsabella LuciaIsabella 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Yes - I have been betrayed by friends. That is why I don't make real friends. Now I have real friends out side of EP. I dont want to mention those friends' name because I made...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 13 Responses May 21, 2008

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    Who Needs Enemies When You Have Friends... - My story isn't a very uncommon one... but it was very upseting for me.. My boyfriend of almost 2 years who was unbelieveable. He...
    Silverlily19 Silverlily19 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    Have you ever felt like people don't like you for exactly who you are? You've never noticed the things you do "wrong", just that friends come and go, and you don't know why...
    bsto18 bsto18 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    Forgive but don't forget. You never know when they might back stab you again
    Pandaontherocksplease Pandaontherocksplease 16-17, F Jan 5

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    In 6th grade I made friends with these girls who I thought really like me. Looking back, there were a lot of signs they didn't. (One of them even started dating the guy I had a...
    spuffy101 spuffy101 22-25, F Jan 26

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    I was from a mixed family since young . My father was a half British and Taiwan . My mother was half Hong Kong and France . I studied in Hong Kong international school . I wasn't...
    Daniel1183 Daniel1183 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 8

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    Ive had a few friends and have been betrayed by pretty much all of them. My one friend that Ive known all my life tried sleeping with my fiance. Her and I havent been friends since...
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    My 'so-called' Friends... - A 'friend' uses you to accomplish a means to an end.. When you cry, they callously brush it aside and yet expect you to sympathise when things arent...
    starlit11 starlit11 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    Been Betrayed By Friends.. - I thought they were my friends. I thought they were kind, sweet, and caring, as how they thought of me. One day, they got so scared that I didn't...
    lostgirl88 lostgirl88 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 1, 2007

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    It hurts so much to know that no matter how many people I know, I still feel awfully friendless and alone. I feel like a ghost when I walk from class to class and I'm tired of it...
    sunatdawn214 sunatdawn214 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    The Past Is The Past - i had many friends and i was always there 4 them what was mine was theres. plenty times i laid my life down 4 them , but we made thru those f up nights, only...
    itsindaeyes itsindaeyes 26-30, M May 27, 2013

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    The Giant Badger Himself Was Once Betrayed.... - Indeed, He was resting by the River Shashnorgarmagor, when His own disciple, the traitorous Lumloydo, did direct a legion of Bad...
    GiantBadgerDisciple GiantBadgerDisciple 26-30 1 Response Apr 27, 2013

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    Ep Has Become A Place Of Pain For Me. - I know better now than to make "new" friends on EP. I'm sure the person or persons responsible will be thrilled to hear it.  Twice now...
    DenverNative DenverNative 46-50, M 8 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    My Life - It all started when really liked this boy in this story ill call him d . So d liked my bff,s, and my other bff,a, likes him. So a told all of our friends that she liked...
    superfuntimerockingirl superfuntimerockingirl 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2013

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    Abandoned. - I don't know about anyone else here, but this seems to happen to me all the time in my life. I make a friend, in real life or online, it doesn't matter, the same thing...
    ForestRain ForestRain 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2012

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    This experience would be more accurate if it were "I've been betrayed by EX-friends" A person who betrays your trust is no friend at all.
    MadameMM MadameMM 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    I hate when ur surrounded by that *****
    LeakkhenaKL LeakkhenaKL 16-17, F Apr 9

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    Friends, people, everyone stays at a distance I control how much I hang out with people, people can't be trusted. I never get close, it doesn't feel right. I never let people get...
    ariecon23 ariecon23 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2013

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    A Simple Truth - My story is simple to understand. I was betrayed. This isn't a sob story, but a simple truth that I've come to know through experience. There is an invisible line...
    agathashelly agathashelly 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    My friend betrayed me by trying to go out with my ex. She has a "bf" in Jamaica though. That's girl code you don't go out with your friends ex's or if you do wait 4months. She's...
    juliaek1 juliaek1 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Goodbye - I am writing this letter as a cathartic goodbye.  If you read it, OK, and if you don’t, that is OK too. I am glad that you have realized that you are worthy of...
    RSCL RSCL 46-50 Mar 16, 2012

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    They said they'd be there. Where are they? They only come to me when they need help or advice but don't talk to me if they don't need anything. I hate them all.
    demondayskid demondayskid 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 11

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    I have been betrayed by friends, indeed. I assume a stranger might hurt me more often than a friend would. It hurts more when a friend does it. It hurts more when I realize that...
    embracingit embracingit 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 21, 2013

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    I had a couple really close friends... And how none of them reply to me... Like I'd understand if I never messaged them and tried to check in but I try so hard to stay in touch...
    katherinapmts katherinapmts 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I hate fake friends I have one friend, who I have called my best friend for years now... But every time we plan to do something now she forgets about me and does something with...
    JessieTheaS JessieTheaS 16-17, F Jan 11

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    I Thought They Knew Better... - I'm not mad. Just shaking my head in utter disappointment as I figured they knew better than to be swayed by people who obviously have some sort of...
    VynRt VynRt 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 16, 2008

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    If a betray comes from strangers, it hurts but you can forget it in seconds but when it comes from close people, it kills to forget it you would need another life. Dear heart, how...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 13

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    I don't think I got the memo to where I became someone's maid,and personal punching bag when did this happen when did I let it get this bad
    nadirah96 nadirah96 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    Have Been Let Down A Lot.... - Cast aside, used, lied to....you name it. I sometimes can't get over how my life has changed socially. I had a firm group of close friends who I...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2011

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    When I was young I had so many friends and most became very close . As my years grew we departed and from the time till now I've notice that we don't stay in touch and sometimes we...
    billyaldo billyaldo 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    Pain Is Not Always Good.... - After completing my engineering I shifted to Mumbai.I was quite lonely in the city.I wanted do my MBA so I joined a crash course for the same and met...
    anandisonline anandisonline 21-25, M Jan 15, 2008

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    Sometimes I think I'm bisexual😐
    ezzyrock ezzyrock 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I Don't Believe In Friendship Anymore! - I am a 22 year old woman, who once (2 years back) had huge groups friends. I was one of the most vivacious, confident, popular girl in my...
    Syncstar Syncstar 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2012

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    My Scandal Especially Made By My Close And Trusted Friends Of Mine - i am now in my last academic semester in college. many students knows about me but i only have 4 close friends...
    kulangsapansin20 kulangsapansin20 26-30 1 Response Nov 17, 2011

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    How Many Times? I Can't Even Remember All of Them. - so many times. so many times it's happened, that at one point, I didn't want to make any friends anymore because I was tired of...
    inoatheart inoatheart 19-21, F 4 Responses Jan 16, 2008

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    Under My Table Where I Eat?! - This happened a long time ago, but I will never forget this and I will always trust my instints on people,even if I think I am wrong. I work at a...
    hekatemoon hekatemoon 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2010

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    She told me I was her friend and she wouldn't let people change that she chose the others and left me accusing me of being a sick freak, they all laughed at me, but one day I will...
    Bruceyboii Bruceyboii 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    I'm not going into what exactly the two friends of mine did but it was to me the ultimate betrayal. I trusted them completely ,trusted them with my life, loved them, shared...
    liberosis liberosis 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    I have always been quite in person or quite around anyone my bestfriend was a football player i told him everything about my relationships and he told me about his one day i told...
    ericslife1234 ericslife1234 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 22, 2013

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    Good They Did. - At least now I know whom to trust and whom not to. I'm happy about the fact, that such people are out of my life. I was wrong to mourn their loss, even when I knew...
    bluie19 bluie19 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 18, 2011

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    Ugh. Writing off bad friends on a weekly basis. Last weekend was truly a nightmare. To sum it up I went a friends house (2 hours away), sat uncomfortably in a bar she works at for...
    SC27 SC27 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    My "best friend" isn't my best friend to me anymore :( she started dating this guy and started to change. She started bulling me and telling me that I was just a nobody. She would...
    Justanobody17 Justanobody17 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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