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I Have Been Betrayed By Friends

You once trusted them. You really did. They trusted you as well, or so you thought. You end up shocked to find out what they did. This is what happened to us. Share us your experience. 6,015 People

    Why is it that you are there

    for your friends but they are nowhere during your emergency? I referee my two friends and the ex-hubby/boyfriend that made it a love triangle...on my grandpa's last day alive. Keep them from killing each other... But when I end up in a shelter or need help changing the locks...
    teadiva teadiva 31-35, F 1 Response May 4

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    It's a shame when most of the world

    either wants to rip you to shreds for something you enjoy, and yet you can only confide in a very select amount of people. Isn't it strange how just one or two people can change someones life? Then you get that one person who sneaks in unexpectedly and pretends to care for you...
    DaisukeIchijo DaisukeIchijo 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    This is so far off then what i wright im not

    sure i can express my feeling fully because the unknown feeling hurts and makes me want to block out the people around me, and i know that's not a good thing. So less start Im a person who believes in the old saying treat people how you wanted to be treated, so I have meet a...
    LadyE21 LadyE21 22-25 1 Response Mar 25

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    Redirection?

    Sometimes people lie to you because they don't know how to be honest with you, or more importantly themselves. But, you can't lie to someone who doesn't believe you. So, I guess I don't really consider it true betrayal because I knew all along... So if you are reading this...
    BrutMystik BrutMystik 36-40, F 15 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    I have been betrayed by

    so called friends throughout my life. The hardest thing was being so close to this boy when we were kids only to find out years later that he isn't the same person I remembered. As kids, he refused to hurt me but as a teenager and adult, he hurt me over and over. I finally had...
    sweetstar1 sweetstar1 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    It's so painful when your "friends" turn out to

    be the opposite. I had a woman friend that confided all my insecurities about my relationship and my current Bo. Imagine my anger and hurt when she knocked on our door at 4:30 in the morning, drunk, wanting my Bo to go "do" something for her... at that moment, she was no longer...
    angelonhigh angelonhigh 51-55, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2014

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    Abandoned.

    I don't know about anyone else here, but this seems to happen to me all the time in my life. I make a friend, in real life or online, it doesn't matter, the same thing happens either way. We become friends and close, we share everything together, this could even go on for a long...
    ForestRain ForestRain 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2012

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    When my friends betray me I know there not my

    friend and they no that I don't like lies
    Iloveanime25 Iloveanime25 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    In 6th grade I made friends with these girls

    who I thought really like me. Looking back, there were a lot of signs they didn't. (One of them even started dating the guy I had a crush on!) I guess I just didn't want to admit that they weren't my true friends. Anyway, I was facebook messaging one of these girls when she...
    spuffy101 spuffy101 22-25, F Jan 26, 2014

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    RickaylaBeard RickaylaBeard 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    It all begin when I was young now

    as I see & most of you should reaver your better off being alone there would be someone out there for you !!
    billyaldo billyaldo 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 16

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    **** you...I thought you'd never be the one to

    hurt me but here you are hurting me more than anyone else.
    heatherm10 heatherm10 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    tkhsbandgeek2017 tkhsbandgeek2017 16-17, F 1 Response May 7

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    I remember back in 6th grade I had a "friend"

    and we were good friends but then she started hanging with the popular crowd and after that she changed she wasnt her anymore. she would bring her new friends over to my table and tease me she used to call me names amd stuff subtle ig But she was my best friend and she turned on...
    Corneredblades Corneredblades 13-15, M Feb 15

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    I told my friend some personal information

    about me and this girl. The next day he blabs it to his social circle, and now I am receiving hate texts about it from them. He betrayed my trust, and I wonder if I can trust anyone. Broken trust seems to be a reoccurring theme with my social relationships. They always let me...
    SilentK17 SilentK17 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    My "friends" who said they'll always be there

    keep pushing me around, making fun of me, and hitting me. They see it as a joke but I'm really hurt. Not just physical but mental. Being called those names is like a stab in the back to me. Hypocrisy just doesn't do it for me.
    xocarasoulxo xocarasoulxo 18-21, F Dec 11, 2014

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    To me a true friend is one

    who sticks by you through good and bad times ,they are there for you ALWAYS! You share ,joy,laughter ,tears sadness with them . But the most important thing is HONESTY! If you can't be totally honest then you are NOT a true friend ,once you tell me a lie ,the trust is...
    angelofsweetness angelofsweetness 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 30, 2014

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    After prom came prom house,

    and after prom house I realized not even blood is as thick as we think..... Senior Prom was a huge success, definitely one of the best nights of my life... but it seems the fun stopped there. My bestfriend and I decided we would spend Senior Week at a beachfront hotel in...
    sa3r1na sa3r1na 18-21, F 2 Responses May 20

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    there was this girl I loved

    and he knew I loved her, he supported me encouraged me until one day I found out he's been sleeping with her for months. to this day I think about it and wonder if my other friends would do the same.
    SeriousSquirrel SeriousSquirrel 22-25, M Feb 15

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    Been Betrayed By Friends..

    I thought they were my friends. I thought they were kind, sweet, and caring, as how they thought of me. One day, they got so scared that I didn't like them anymore, they pushed myself and themselves further away. One day, all was gone. Nobody to talk to, nobody to chat...
    lostgirl88 lostgirl88 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 1, 2007

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    She was my friend in 8th grade.

    I had a friend that put a dress in my purse. I didn't even know it was in there until the security guard stopped me when the lights went on. I was 13 at the time. My friend a week later confessed that she did it and I was FURIOUS with her! I couldn't believe my friend would do...
    MizzChocolate99 MizzChocolate99 22-25, F Apr 14

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    I say I don't trust anybody,

    But I still want to have fun with everyone. That indecision is making every day pure agony for me..
    MyLostProperty MyLostProperty 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 29

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    I can't even count on

    both hands how many times I've been betrayed and burned by someone. It takes a lot for me to want to give up part of myself to let someone be close to me again. People are so fake nowadays. All people care about half the time is what they can get out of you, and that's why I'm...
    bemyforeverlove97 bemyforeverlove97 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 15

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    Forgive but don't forget.

    You never know when they might back stab you again
    Pandainpinktutu Pandainpinktutu 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 5, 2014

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    Trust and Respect are given to be earned.

    It's just not right to contemplate on them betraying you. It's also wise to think of who and what you are as a friend. Just the thing that I'm doing right now.
    abcdefghisabelmnopqrst abcdefghisabelmnopqrst 26-30, F Feb 21

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    Okay Im pretty much done with my friends.

    Like seriously I am really upset. I have always been the one to text my friends first so I decided it was their turn. It's been two weeks. I am so upset. Bella who texts this guy who had been so rude to me and verbally abusive and attacked me for no reason texts him everyday...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    Being betrayed by anyone is never easy,

    but being betrayed by someone you love and trust is especially difficult. Honestly, after being betrayed by someone I considered to be my best friend and greatest love has left me shattered. I just don't know how to heal from this latest blow. I just don't know how. I...
    WiltedTulip WiltedTulip 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    This experience would be more accurate

    if it were "I've been betrayed by EX-friends" A person who betrays your trust is no friend at all.
    CascadingCoquette CascadingCoquette 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 18, 2014

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    They have betrayed me like in the movies,

    now I have no best mates. Now I sit on my apps all day and play sad, sad, hip hop or country songs. They even double crossed me like in the cliche movies smh.
    BenedictJones BenedictJones 13-15, M 3 Responses May 9

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    Good They Did.

    At least now I know whom to trust and whom not to. I'm happy about the fact, that such people are out of my life. I was wrong to mourn their loss, even when I knew how badly they betrayed me. But not anymore.
    bluie19 bluie19 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 18, 2011

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    The worst betrayal I can imagine is

    when your best friend's Bo hits on you. Okay, I can't say that I was not thrilled because I knew I could have had him anytime I wanted him. You see he was once my Bo along time ago in High School. It's been 10 years and yes he was my first love. He broke it off with me. So do I...
    tmorr tmorr 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2014

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    Goodbye

    I am writing this letter as a cathartic goodbye.  If you read it, OK, and if you don’t, that is OK too. I am glad that you have realized that you are worthy of affection, and that people will be able to have affection for you.  You have done a lot of work to find that...
    RSCL RSCL 46-50 Mar 16, 2012

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    I believed she would help me When I'm in

    trouble she always helped me.When she was in trouble I helps her.But then she didn't even help me
    MusicLover4Eternity MusicLover4Eternity 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    I feel like everyone I get close to pushes me

    away :( and then i feel regretful because idk what I did to make them leave me when I needed them the most
    up97 up97 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    Stop asking me to trust you

    while I'm still coughing up water from the last time you let me drown.....
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 28

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    To the a*@holes who have shown me

    that being a human being doesn't really make u worthy of being a human being I say thanks...you have taught me that my strength comes from within and God..life lessons comes with a price but today I am stronger and better than I was yesterday.
    Lyss1 Lyss1 36-40, F 2 Responses May 19

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    My 'so-called' Friends...

    A 'friend' uses you to accomplish a means to an end.. When you cry, they callously brush it aside and yet expect you to sympathise when things arent goin right with them.. Where are they when you need help? They are doin their own things until its time to call you to their side...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    Betrayed isn't the word I was looking for,

    more let down than anything. When you're there for close friends when they need it you'd expect the same in return. That's what true friendship is after all. But now someone I had been there for (when they were down in the dumps) is feeling better, they've discarded me as if I...
    Fabulousboy91 Fabulousboy91 22-25, M Aug 10, 2014

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    I had a couple really close friends.

    .. And how none of them reply to me... Like I'd understand if I never messaged them and tried to check in but I try so hard to stay in touch while I travel.... I've tried and tried and it just feels like I'm talking to a ****** wall. I'm soo over these people... They can't...
    katherinapmts katherinapmts 22-25, F Jan 4, 2014

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    My trust is irreparably ****** up,

    the only person I trust to have my back is myself. People these days will screw you over without a second thought if it serves their interests to do so.
    orlyfixation orlyfixation 22-25, F 3 Responses May 22, 2014

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    Have you ever gone to someone needing help

    and support and find out instead that they are betraying you? That while they said they wanted to support you and help you, they instead were talking behind your back and making you out to be a fool? I've gone through that. It's not easy to contend with.
    AllergyDog66 AllergyDog66 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 14, 2014

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    My best friend and I used to be inseparable.

    Freshman and sophomore year, we were practically connected at the hip. At some point this year she changed, and for reasons unknown to me, I think she hates me. I don't want to go into senior year without her. I've tried to address this and she makes up fake apologies then...
    heatherm10 heatherm10 18-21, F Jul 13, 2014

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    I thought they were my best friends,

    but really they didn't give a **** about me. I trusted them, with everything and they abandoned me. I would've take a bullet for them and yet they wouldn't give a **** if I dropped dead tonight. Man I thought they would help me get to where I need to be, help me be happy. And...
    Paperboyc Paperboyc 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 19

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    PinksTheNewBlack PinksTheNewBlack 13-15, F 1 Response May 3

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    Told a dear friend of mine (well I thought she

    was a friend) a secret and I recently found out she told a couple of people. I feel so betrayed. I want to confront her but I don't know if I should. Don't want to waste my breathe.
    ttaK ttaK 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    My ex best friend told my mom all of my secrets

    about what I have done with boys and when and where
    Hollieraeee Hollieraeee 16-17, F 1 Response May 10

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