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I Have Been Betrayed By Friends

You once trusted them. You really did. They trusted you as well, or so you thought. You end up shocked to find out what they did. This is what happened to us. Share us your experience. 5,888 People

    there was this girl I loved

    and he knew I loved her, he supported me encouraged me until one day I found out he's been sleeping with her for months. to this day I think about it and wonder if my other friends would do the same.
    SeriousSquirrel SeriousSquirrel 22-25, M Feb 15

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    It's a shame when most of the world

    either wants to rip you to shreds for something you enjoy, and yet you can only confide in a very select amount of people. Isn't it strange how just one or two people can change someones life? Then you get that one person who sneaks in unexpectedly and pretends to care for you...
    DaisukeIchijo DaisukeIchijo 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    Goodbye

    I am writing this letter as a cathartic goodbye.  If you read it, OK, and if you don’t, that is OK too. I am glad that you have realized that you are worthy of affection, and that people will be able to have affection for you.  You have done a lot of work to find that...
    RSCL RSCL 46-50 Mar 16, 2012

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    Looked at friend B's blog.

    I do occasionally. I don't know why. I get bored and she comes to mind at least once a week sometimes, even though that is pathetic. I can go a month or two without thinking about her blog. It is a random cycle. In the past she has changed her username so I've struggled to...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 2 Responses Nov 23, 2014

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    I feel like everyone I get close to pushes me

    away :( and then i feel regretful because idk what I did to make them leave me when I needed them the most
    up97 up97 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    What is a real friend ?

    Me and my "best friend" knew each other for a year and we were pretty isolated by the time, we are a lot alike, we both had social phobia (social anxiety for her), and that s what brings us closer at first. Then we managed to make new friends together. We all get along well for...
    gneugna gneugna 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2014

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    Abandoned.

    I don't know about anyone else here, but this seems to happen to me all the time in my life. I make a friend, in real life or online, it doesn't matter, the same thing happens either way. We become friends and close, we share everything together, this could even go on for a long...
    ForestRain ForestRain 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2012

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    I have been betrayed by a really close friend.

    Basically she was my roomate at university and we became very good friends but we were really different,she was tattoed with piercings and she was always going out to parties until late.And she was always forcing me to go to parties with her,first time i went she got really...
    Tessa3 Tessa3 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    This is so far off then what i wright im not

    sure i can express my feeling fully because the unknown feeling hurts and makes me want to block out the people around me, and i know that's not a good thing. So less start Im a person who believes in the old saying treat people how you wanted to be treated, so I have meet a...
    LadyE21 LadyE21 22-25 1 Response 6 days ago

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    **** you...I thought you'd never be the one to

    hurt me but here you are hurting me more than anyone else.
    heatherm10 heatherm10 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    I had a couple really close friends.

    .. And how none of them reply to me... Like I'd understand if I never messaged them and tried to check in but I try so hard to stay in touch while I travel.... I've tried and tried and it just feels like I'm talking to a ****** wall. I'm soo over these people... They can't...
    katherinapmts katherinapmts 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 4, 2014

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    Yeah I also hate myself

    but now I hate my friends way more than I hate myself . ( offline Friends ) . They are all ******** . We planned a trip for like 2 month and we wanted to go tomorrow (!!) now my " Best friend " told me that he isn't coming and the other person I wanted to go with , told me that...
    Dunkelweis Dunkelweis 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    Forgive but don't forget.

    You never know when they might back stab you again
    Pandainpinktutu Pandainpinktutu 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 5, 2014

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    eviepalacios eviepalacios 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 27, 2014

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    I've had so many so called friends

    who really never cared about me.. how cruel.. pretend to want to get to know me and hang out and then go right behind my back and gossip about me. sometimes I know your doing it because I just know, I can feel it.. other times people tell me you did.. and any other time IVE...
    hannahrose29 hannahrose29 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 15

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    This experience would be more accurate

    if it were "I've been betrayed by EX-friends" A person who betrays your trust is no friend at all.
    CascadingCoquette CascadingCoquette 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 18, 2014

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    SentimentalMood SentimentalMood 36-40, F 5 Responses Sep 26, 2014

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    I can't even count on

    both hands how many times I've been betrayed and burned by someone. It takes a lot for me to want to give up part of myself to let someone be close to me again. People are so fake nowadays. All people care about half the time is what they can get out of you, and that's why I'm...
    bemyforeverlove97 bemyforeverlove97 16-17, F 5 Responses Feb 15

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    My friends always seem to be saying

    if I'm upset it's alright to talk to them but I don't know how to tell them that sometimes what is the matter is them. The smallest things they do can upset me a bitter remark or an awkward joke. My friends can be so ignorant and hateful at times.
    Luckyflossy Luckyflossy 13-15, F Nov 17, 2014

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    I told my friend some personal information

    about me and this girl. The next day he blabs it to his social circle, and now I am receiving hate texts about it from them. He betrayed my trust, and I wonder if I can trust anyone. Broken trust seems to be a reoccurring theme with my social relationships. They always let me...
    SilentK17 SilentK17 22-25, M 5 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    So I had these two girlfriends

    and they completely wronged me. One day we were all together and I found out that someone had hacked my phone and have taken private photos of me. So I lean to my friends. One of them swore it was her ex. Yes you herd me. Her ex. There was a time I would contact him whenever...
    Bellissimaa Bellissimaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2014

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    To me a true friend is one

    who sticks by you through good and bad times ,they are there for you ALWAYS! You share ,joy,laughter ,tears sadness with them . But the most important thing is HONESTY! If you can't be totally honest then you are NOT a true friend ,once you tell me a lie ,the trust is...
    angelofsweetness angelofsweetness 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 30, 2014

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    My best friend...now former,

    has hurt me for the last time. why is it that once we make strong and personal connections, they always hurt you?
    Tor1Lynn Tor1Lynn 16-17 1 Response Dec 9, 2014

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    so I liked a guy named brock

    and only one of my friends knew about it. same with cutting and all the other ****. but I don't think I can trust Samantha anymore because she told everyone about that **** and now I am thinking about running in front of a bus so don't try and stop me because I have already lost...
    zarasmith zarasmith 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    My best friend and I used to be inseparable.

    Freshman and sophomore year, we were practically connected at the hip. At some point this year she changed, and for reasons unknown to me, I think she hates me. I don't want to go into senior year without her. I've tried to address this and she makes up fake apologies then...
    heatherm10 heatherm10 18-21, F Jul 13, 2014

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    My 'so-called' Friends...

    A 'friend' uses you to accomplish a means to an end.. When you cry, they callously brush it aside and yet expect you to sympathise when things arent goin right with them.. Where are they when you need help? They are doin their own things until its time to call you to their side...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    I remember back in 6th grade I had a "friend"

    and we were good friends but then she started hanging with the popular crowd and after that she changed she wasnt her anymore. she would bring her new friends over to my table and tease me she used to call me names amd stuff subtle ig But she was my best friend and she turned on...
    Corneredblades Corneredblades 13-15, M Feb 15

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    What are friends? Friends are really just

    enemies with secret identities and disguises to hide their true colors. And when you think your close enough to be brothers they'll slit your throat when you ain't looking
    whoscarlo5 whoscarlo5 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    In 6th grade I made friends with these girls

    who I thought really like me. Looking back, there were a lot of signs they didn't. (One of them even started dating the guy I had a crush on!) I guess I just didn't want to admit that they weren't my true friends. Anyway, I was facebook messaging one of these girls when she...
    spuffy101 spuffy101 22-25, F Jan 26, 2014

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    Told a dear friend of mine (well I thought she

    was a friend) a secret and I recently found out she told a couple of people. I feel so betrayed. I want to confront her but I don't know if I should. Don't want to waste my breathe.
    ttaK ttaK 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    My "friends" who said they'll always be there

    keep pushing me around, making fun of me, and hitting me. They see it as a joke but I'm really hurt. Not just physical but mental. Being called those names is like a stab in the back to me. Hypocrisy just doesn't do it for me.
    xocarasoulxo xocarasoulxo 18-21, F Dec 11, 2014

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    A Simple Truth

    My story is simple to understand. I was betrayed. This isn't a sob story, but a simple truth that I've come to know through experience. There is an invisible line that has to be drawn when you befriend some one, one that dictate's how far a friend would go for that other friend...
    agathashelly agathashelly 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    He was my only friend

    and hope and he knew that, but yet he started bullying me and told me he just became friends with me because he felt sorry for me. WE WERE FRIENDS FOR 3 YEARS -.- and I have to see him at school everyday. Only 2 more years and I'm out of this school for good! I hope he becomes...
    iUniqueOrn iUniqueOrn 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    It's so painful when your "friends" turn out to

    be the opposite. I had a woman friend that confided all my insecurities about my relationship and my current Bo. Imagine my anger and hurt when she knocked on our door at 4:30 in the morning, drunk, wanting my Bo to go "do" something for her... at that moment, she was no longer...
    angelonhigh angelonhigh 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    Redirection?

    Sometimes people lie to you because they don't know how to be honest with you, or more importantly themselves. But, you can't lie to someone who doesn't believe you. So, I guess I don't really consider it true betrayal because I knew all along... So if you are reading this...
    BrutMystik BrutMystik 36-40, F 15 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    I don't understand why the people I trusted,

    all left the ones i made promises with that we'd always be there for each other, they all left me, I'm the only one who's still keeping their promises, because despite how much it hurts, I'm still always going to be there for them if they need me
    HeadStrongPro HeadStrongPro 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    My best friend basically just told me its my

    own fault my ex is trying to make my life miserable....that really hurts....
    Indeciciveme Indeciciveme 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2014

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    waleed9310 waleed9310 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    I have been betrayed by

    so called friends throughout my life. The hardest thing was being so close to this boy when we were kids only to find out years later that he isn't the same person I remembered. As kids, he refused to hurt me but as a teenager and adult, he hurt me over and over. I finally had...
    sweetstar1 sweetstar1 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    It all begin when I was young now

    as I see & most of you should reaver your better off being alone there would be someone out there for you !!
    billyaldo billyaldo 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 16

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    I thought they were my best friends,

    but really they didn't give a **** about me. I trusted them, with everything and they abandoned me. I would've take a bullet for them and yet they wouldn't give a **** if I dropped dead tonight. Man I thought they would help me get to where I need to be, help me be happy. And...
    Paperboyc Paperboyc 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 19

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    "Friends". "Loves". "Family".

    Blow me... you give your absolute all to someone and they rip your heart straight out of your chest with bare hands, shred it up and **** on it.
    Britt4ny Britt4ny 70+, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    There are people in the world

    that I know. That's a big difference from being my friend. I don't have to many of them anymore.
    midniteinc midniteinc 31-35, M Nov 11, 2014

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    Betrayed isn't the word I was looking for,

    more let down than anything. When you're there for close friends when they need it you'd expect the same in return. That's what true friendship is after all. But now someone I had been there for (when they were down in the dumps) is feeling better, they've discarded me as if I...
    Fabulousboy91 Fabulousboy91 22-25, M Aug 10, 2014

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    I showed a friend so much love

    but when it fell off I was like dam do I know this person.
    yrnjojo yrnjojo 16-17, M Feb 27

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    Okay Im pretty much done with my friends.

    Like seriously I am really upset. I have always been the one to text my friends first so I decided it was their turn. It's been two weeks. I am so upset. Bella who texts this guy who had been so rude to me and verbally abusive and attacked me for no reason texts him everyday...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    The Giant Badger Himself Was Once Betrayed....

    Indeed, He was resting by the River Shashnorgarmagor, when His own disciple, the traitorous Lumloydo, did direct a legion of Bad Soldiers to His place of recumbentcy. Thembagoshuns 1:3 tells us:But the Lord Badger had no fear of them, and bade them approach, that He might share a...