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I Have Been Betrayed By Friends

You once trusted them. You really did. They trusted you as well, or so you thought. You end up shocked to find out what they did. This is what happened to us. Share us your experience. 6,840 People

    So at the end of 2014 I found out

    that my best friend of 9 years and her bf plotted to use me for my money and my helpfulness. We had always talked about our future and things we wanted to do and I felt so attached to her. I found out shes a narcissistic sociopath. More like I came to the realization because she...
    aquamoongoddess aquamoongoddess 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    hailyscomet hailyscomet 31-35, F Sep 10, 2015

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    Goodbye

    I am writing this letter as a cathartic goodbye.  If you read it, OK, and if you don’t, that is OK too. I am glad that you have realized that you are worthy of affection, and that people will be able to have affection for you.  You have done a lot of work to find that...
    RSCL RSCL 46-50 Mar 16, 2012

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    They say you must watch yourself from those

    that seem to believe in something. Those that say they truly believe in the essence of friendship/partnership seem to be the same ones that would give up first on their word. It's all a game of illusions that certain people likes to play.
    LonelyPassenger LonelyPassenger 31-35, M Oct 28, 2015

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    I have been betrayed by my friend

    when i was in 6th grade because she was the "bystander who agrees with the bully" and she was also my "friend" . so when the bully would come , she would side with the bully and act like we were never friends and always help the bully make me miserable , she even sided with the...
    Rosey3686 Rosey3686 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 22, 2015

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    I just got rid of an old friend of mine today.

    She didn't know how to be a friend. She was a terrible person. It's going to be different now that she's out of my life. But I think it's for the best. I didn't really like her anyway
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 9, 2015

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    My best friend since third grade betrayed me a

    lot and because she was "troubled" I wanted to believe it was her issues and not her weakness of character causing her actions and over and over I gave her chances until joke was on me and when she got her life together she dropped me like a bad habit. As we got older the...
    sambular1313 sambular1313 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    My ex friend would stalk my sister on social

    media and then lie about it to my face after my sister confronted me. I had been friends with him for years at that point and he never once met my family because he was too afraid. But yet somehow he thinks my sister would "give him a chance." How is she supposed to give him a...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F Jan 31

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    Good They Did.

    At least now I know whom to trust and whom not to. I'm happy about the fact, that such people are out of my life. I was wrong to mourn their loss, even when I knew how badly they betrayed me. But not anymore.
    bluie19 bluie19 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 18, 2011

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    BryceNickerson BryceNickerson 13-15, M Oct 27, 2015

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    This experience would be more accurate

    if it were "I've been betrayed by EX-friends" A person who betrays your trust is no friend at all.
    KaskadingKoquette KaskadingKoquette 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 18, 2014

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    Stop asking me to trust you

    while I'm still coughing up water from the last time you let me drown.....
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 28, 2015

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    I am no longer friends with one of my best

    friends . Every time I would ask her meet for drinks she would always say she's busy and hardly goes out much. Then I would see pics on fb of her with friends at a bar or club. So I deleted her and told her she was a lying *****.
    js1276 js1276 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2015

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    I just realized that my old friend's

    relationship with me was almost exactly like my relationship with my old phone. The first time I got it, I was so thrilled and amazed and sort of happy that I've got it. I'd do random things with it and pretty much take it anywhere I go. However, after a while, it gets...
    GacruxAlbireo GacruxAlbireo 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    To my not-so-dear ex-best friend,

    You were the only one who was there when the whole world turned against me. You gave me the ability to see what not many could see. I can't deny all that fact, but I also can't deny the fact that.. I hate you. I hate you so much. You made my life miserable for the entire 3...
    GacruxAlbireo GacruxAlbireo 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2015

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    countless times...and

    now it's by the least expected person to do such a thing to me ..than Jk s a lit *****...go **** yourself
    DaveEatsToast DaveEatsToast 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 14, 2015

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    When my friends betray me I know there not my

    friend and they no that I don't like lies
    Mrsforgotten25 Mrsforgotten25 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    We used to be best buddies.

    I used to share everything with him, every secret, every problem, every happiness, joy and pain. I have been betrayed a lot of times before too, but this friend seemed genuine. I had trusted him blindly despite of my past experiences, the bitter experiences. He knew about all...
    knightstar95 knightstar95 18-21, M 5 Responses Oct 21, 2015

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    My 'so-called' Friends...

    A 'friend' uses you to accomplish a means to an end.. When you cry, they callously brush it aside and yet expect you to sympathise when things arent goin right with them.. Where are they when you need help? They are doin their own things until its time to call you to their side...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    Why have I continued opening up to you?

    I put my trust in you and you always tell them everything. Secrets are kept secret for a reason, but since you apparently don't know that, I will no longer put the burden of trust upon you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 18, 2015

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    They have betrayed me like in the movies,

    now I have no best mates. Now I sit on my apps all day and play sad, sad, hip hop or country songs. They even double crossed me like in the cliche movies smh.
    BenedictJones BenedictJones 13-15, M 2 Responses May 9, 2015

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    We should forgive better Especially

    if our spouse /bf/gf is parent to our child. Why? 1) The children's sake. 2) That child is living evidence we see something worth getting together for. Both parties.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 1, 2015

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    Need to just get this off my chest.

    .. Can't sleep so maybe this will help. so here goes.. I have had a best friend from the age of 4 years old. On here i will call her B. So through all of those years we have been very close, some years we would lose touch for a short amount of time and one time we didnt talk...
    cupcakes1995 cupcakes1995 18-21, F Oct 1, 2015

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    My friend since elementary throw away our 15

    year friendship just because she wants to be princess and wants everything to involved around her .For years we would fight and make up but there was times we stop talking and when I was getting back with a ex she posted his picture and sayings I would get hurt . For the past...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    been talking to a "girl"

    for a while now. I've had good talks with "her" and shared a lot. the fact that 'killme23' turns out to be a guy, has hurt me... :( shows that u can't trust a lot of people anymore. he knows too much now....
    jessebabes jessebabes 18-21, F 26 Responses Dec 16, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 21, 2015

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    Been Betrayed By Friends..

    I thought they were my friends. I thought they were kind, sweet, and caring, as how they thought of me. One day, they got so scared that I didn't like them anymore, they pushed myself and themselves further away. One day, all was gone. Nobody to talk to, nobody to chat...
    lostgirl88 lostgirl88 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 1, 2007

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    Redirection?

    Sometimes people lie to you because they don't know how to be honest with you, or more importantly themselves. But, you can't lie to someone who doesn't believe you. So, I guess I don't really consider it true betrayal because I knew all along... So if you are reading this...
    BrutMystik BrutMystik 36-40, F 15 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    Okay I'll keep this short.

    My good friend mostly recently called my boyfriend and told him the reason that he and I have had issues was because she believes that he and she were meant to be together. He was meant for her. Just because the night we met him she saw him first. Even though he is not...
    Zeita75 Zeita75 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2015

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    dgjf123 dgjf123 26-30, M Jan 2

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    **** you...I thought you'd never be the one to

    hurt me but here you are hurting me more than anyone else.
    heatherm10 heatherm10 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    I was best friends with a girl

    who made up such terrible stories about me. She turned everyone against me, and somehow I forgave her. She was my best friend, she knew me better than just about anyone. But she did it again. She blew off my birthday and then became friends with the one girl I hate in this world...
    heartlesswind heartlesswind 26-30, F Dec 5, 2015

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    Never have I ever thought

    that I would be in that stupid girl situation where I would just be completely betrayed by my closest friend because of a boy, but it happened and I feel so stupid because of it, though I know it's partly my fault because I don't like to tell people the way I feel. Me and this...
    whenwherewhat whenwherewhat 18-21, F Oct 28, 2015

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    yeah it sucks! my ex best friend betrayed me by

    having a relationship with my ex boyfriend its been few years but when i saw their face or even just to hear their name it brings back all the pain they have done
    filipinayel filipinayel 22-25, F Aug 8, 2015

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    Gladez Gladez 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 27, 2015

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    Abandoned.

    I don't know about anyone else here, but this seems to happen to me all the time in my life. I make a friend, in real life or online, it doesn't matter, the same thing happens either way. We become friends and close, we share everything together, this could even go on for a long...
    ForestRain ForestRain 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2012

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    I was always second. I was never your favourite

    friend. In year 7 I knew you first but you preferred to hang around with the other kid before you knew that kid we were like best friends. I tried to be good friends with you but you always chose someone else. You fell out with him in year 9 and stopped talking to him. That was...
    darkseeker100 darkseeker100 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 26, 2015

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    A Simple Truth

    My story is simple to understand. I was betrayed. This isn't a sob story, but a simple truth that I've come to know through experience. There is an invisible line that has to be drawn when you befriend some one, one that dictate's how far a friend would go for that other friend...
    agathashelly agathashelly 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    I had a really good friend

    who did everything with me. We shared secrets and one day went as far as to tell each other our passwords to our social networks. About a week later she texts me. She says a bunch of hurtful things bringing up personal problems we promised we understood and then uses my password...
    varcx3 varcx3 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 24, 2015

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    I had two best friends ( my only friends) one

    of which we were for 30 years, until this last year. Last years my girlfriend of 30 years moved in with us I rented her a room 6 months later I caught her and my husband in my bed together there went the end of our friendship! Two months ago I caught my other friend and my...
    blueeyescryin69 blueeyescryin69 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 8, 2015

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    RickaylaBeard RickaylaBeard 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 2, 2015

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    When you spent half a month

    or a month being friendly, flirting & messing/playing around with someone and then you reject them for necessary reasons. So they begin to try & make you look bad around others.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 27, 2015

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    Okay, so, I'm in a friend group of 5 people

    including myself. One of my friends who I'll call A, is a liar. As a group, we started "collecting" the lies she's told, we did this before and confronted her and she ran away crying, bought us chocolate and continued. This time, one of the friends who was with us, who I'll call...
    remi00 remi00 13-15, T 1 Response Sep 25, 2015

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    It's a shame when most of the world

    either wants to rip you to shreds for something you enjoy, and yet you can only confide in a very select amount of people. Isn't it strange how just one or two people can change someones life? Then you get that one person who sneaks in unexpectedly and pretends to care for you...
    DaisukeIchijo DaisukeIchijo 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    I can't even count on

    both hands how many times I've been betrayed and burned by someone. It takes a lot for me to want to give up part of myself to let someone be close to me again. People are so fake nowadays. All people care about half the time is what they can get out of you, and that's why I'm...
    bemyforeverlove97 bemyforeverlove97 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 15, 2015

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