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I Have Been Betrayed By Someone I Loved

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 517 People

    Dilemmas of a Desperate Wife

    .....and deceived and lied to for 5 and a half years of an 8 year marriage. 6 mths ago I discovered that my husband has been a Walter Mitty character, his cousin no less.  He has cleared me out financially (created an on-line account from my own account and syphoned my...
    desperatewife desperatewife 36-40 3 Responses Jan 23, 2009

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    I'm so done babe I hope you had your fun

    babe You took my heart And destroyed it What the **** do you want from me? What can you want from me. Oh, how i don't deserve this sh*t I hope you burn babe
    Adaptationn Adaptationn 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    Idk if you call this betrayal.

    It was me all along and I feel betrayed. It was one sided, I know this isn't real but I like it. I loved this guy like for the first time I'm so happy. So it feels like he's been toying with my feelings which are real yes damn it. But I love him very much, but he doesn't...
    Kywen97 Kywen97 16-17, F Jun 15

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    Drugged

    I cant believe that he stooped so low.. I was betrayed by the man I love. I can handle the fact that he has cheated on me and probably still is, has lied to me, and abused me... But I cant handle that he went so far as to lace my ciggrettes ..I have been clean for a while now...
    imperfectbeauty imperfectbeauty 18-21, F Aug 3, 2012

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    By An Ex...

    He stole $ from me and betrayed me with his lies......
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F Dec 20, 2010

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    The Hurt Is Turning to Resentment

    I have loved HIM for many years.  I left my husband and family for HIM.  It was the kind of love I have only dreamed of my entire life: supportive, affectionate, intimate, respectful...or so I thought.  I should have known better, boy, I should have known...
    tilag tilag 41-45 1 Response May 1, 2009

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    I Have Loved And Still Do

    me and my boyfriend have been on and off for the past two years he has been my first ever love and i havent loved anyone else because of him,i have tried other relationships and they havent lasted longer than a month because,well they are just not my love,i recently got back with...
    08angelcox 08angelcox 22-25 Mar 19, 2013

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    Betrayed By A "best Friend"

    Long story short, my best friend was angry that I reacted angrily towards her after finding out she had smacked her estranged husband so hard that she drew blood. I didn't want to speak to her for a while - we tried to talk but for years I've felt like I needed to get away from...
    bellatejanita bellatejanita 36-40, F May 3, 2010

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    You ****** me over. I don't

    even know who the hell you are anymore! **** you!!
    TParrish TParrish 16-17, F Jul 15

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    It Hurts

    I have been in a relationship for 2+ years. We were engaged. He was always weird with his cell phone and when I would question him about it, he turned it on me making it seem like I was a suspicious, controlling nut job. Once he called me "Annie" (that's not my name) and when I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 28, 2011

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    Feel Lost

    Hi, Im Syue, I found out about 3 months ago that I was HIV Positive, I was devastated but was trying to forget what I was told, my husband died because of that. I didnt know I was infected. All I know was that my late husband was diagnosed with it. I love my late husband and...
    syue syue 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2013

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    He Betrayed My Trust, I Can't Seem To Let It Go.

    My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 9 years. He met this girl at his work about 4 years back when we were having some "issues" I've never met her before but the first time I found out about her was when we were at the movies and she texted him "hey hot stuff" ever...
    aBigHeart31 aBigHeart31 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    What I Miss

    What I miss the most is the feeling of security. Its been over a year since my life has changed. I am living with no trust , I now trust no one. I find this very sad. I find myself paranoid with the what if's, what if you leave, what if you don't love me. The unknown, Who am I...
    vmt1 vmt1 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 21, 2012

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    The Love That Was Never There.

    Dated this guy for almost a year. Been in love with him madly and we both told each other about our future together. Told each other how we loved each other and how it will never disappear. We talked about everything going on in our life's about houses, kids, love and family. But...
    Salinasophia Salinasophia 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2013

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    The Double Blow: When A 'best Friend' Steals Your Spouse

    I'd known him since high sdchool. He lived nearby. We shared an interest in music. We learned a lot together about girls, booze, drugs, books, films, plays, beaches. As adults, we holidayed together, made epic journeys across the continent, surfed in isolated spots. I met her at...
    amberdextrous amberdextrous 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 30, 2009

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    So My Ldr Failed 2 Months Premature.

    In July last year I met an absolutely beautiful Italian girl with a stunning personality and a love for life, who was on a working holiday in New Zealand. I hit it off with this girl and things were wonderful, when she left we kept in contact. We were spending insane amounts of...
    constructivecynicism constructivecynicism 22-25 5 Responses Sep 28, 2008

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    Dear ex-boyfriend, I'll try to make this short

    and sweet, and whether or not you care is no longer my concern. Remember to invite your friends over and make some popcorn. You'll probably be on for a few laughs with this one. I forgive you. I forgive you for everything you have done and every lie you have told. I forgive you...
    Vengeancex Vengeancex 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    Is There Any Justice In This World?

    Well here goes my story, I married my husband 5 years ago. We met a year befor that and we were working in the same office. My family was aganist this match, but I anyway went ahead with the wedding. Due to this my relations with my family are somewhat strained. Also my husband...
    Cinthia Cinthia 31-35 7 Responses Apr 9, 2009

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    Devil In Disguise

    (This is kind of like a story in poem form) "I'm never letting you go again." He said, while looking into her eyes. For the first time after living in nothing but constant fear, everything they fought for became a reality. That constant struggle and pain that was lived just...
    Vengeancex Vengeancex 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2012

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    What To Do?

    We were married for 8 years. Son 7 and Daughter 5. He had a affair for about 3 years, and I helped him to convince the girl to leave him during November last year. After that, I thought it should be over or rather less contact. Now he is in overseas, it is wrong for me to suspect...
    Heartache118 Heartache118 41-45 1 Response Apr 24, 2012

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    Can I Forgive??

    I've been with my partner for 10 years we meet when I was 14 had a baby together at 16 but never had a proper relationship will I was 20. We now have 3 beautuful children together and I have recently found out that he has been cheating in me for at least the last 2 years. When I...
    Scaredlady009 Scaredlady009 26-30, F Aug 31, 2012

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    Best Friends For Never

    I have been best friends with her since second grade. We live near each other so i would go to her house all the time. it was like we were sisters. we shared everything with each other and i trusted her with all my heart. but this last year we moved to middle school, 7th grade...
    PandaLover1121 PandaLover1121 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2012

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    It Sucks

    The details are not as important as the message. Karma is not just a friend to me, it's friends with a lot of people. You would serve yourself well to heed the message.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 24, 2011

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    He Just Didn't Cared...

    If it hurts me ..or kills me or whatever.I discovered it when he manage to lie looking straight to my eyes.I thought I can trust him and that he is loyal to me as I'm to him.I was so wrong.It was the worst feeling you can imagine.I know it might be my fault that rather to go with...
    MissAgni MissAgni 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2012

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    Just Get Over It..

    I have recently found out that my husband cheated on me when we were dating, about five years ago. I feel betrayed about his because I remember what was happening at the time. He had a female friend who he would hang out with and I got mad because I felt jealous. He told me he...
    shadowsofmyself shadowsofmyself 26-30 4 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    My Wife Had An Affair Before We Were Married But Just Confessed

    Ok...here goes. The story that I can't let go. We'll start with some background. I have been married now for just over 3 years to who I feel is the "love of my life" "soul mate"....call it what you will. We were together about 10 years prior to making it official. The wait...
    cj71 cj71 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    Way Too Many Times

    I have been betrayed by boyfriends and family too many times to count. So needless to say they are no longer part of my life nor will they ever be. What hurts the most is when family does it and make up lies, because there life is that boring and useless. As for boyfriends that...
    unforgettable77 unforgettable77 41-45, F Feb 9, 2013

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    I've had a few relationships,

    but only two of the girls I dated I ended up falling on love with. The first was my first love (a bit obvious). The second was my recent ex. I trusted them both, the later I trusted fully, completely. I loved her, and I couldn't picture having a life with anyone but her for so...
    shadow2233 shadow2233 18-21, M Oct 21

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    This Is.........

    Long dark roads is all i see, Dried leaves everywhere resembling the sea, Tall trees covering every ray of light, Not a single sound, just my own plight, This is my foresight The once bright skies now gloomy, Was alive and happy currently dead and slimy, The progress made from...
    afraidtoreveal afraidtoreveal 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2012

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    Hi everyone Well I don't really want to go on

    for hours about why I am here but I feel I need some advice I meet a woman 7 years ago the best thing that every happen to me we meet she lived in the states I lived in England but we meet and she moved to England and we got married The problem is this she is a alcoholic she...
    lovejoy65 lovejoy65 46-50, F Jun 15

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    It Feels Like It's My Only Identity Right Now.

    I was betrayed by my best friend any my husband when they had an affair together. I believe I can forgive him, but he has been on the fence about who to be with. He says he has decided to give our marriage a shot, but I can't help feel I'm being stupid. We have been...
    Surujen Surujen 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    More Than The Anger I Am Feeling Hurt

    last year i broke up with my bf. still in some corners of my heart i loved him and i cared about him. still i was worried about him that how he is living his life? what he is doing? but yesterday somehow i log in his fb account ( i know its wrong and didn't do intentionally. i...
    anukc anukc 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    Getting Over An Affair

    I had a long talk with my hubby recently on why he cheated on me. Well first up he said that he never stopped loving me. He said that he sometimes called right before he did the deed to make sure I was safe at home, I had eaten well and I didn't worry about him cause he had...
    janecef janecef 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2013

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    A Poem

    On My Pillow In mourning the death of a dream and a spirit, I discovered my tears were sweet. I unleashed a tenderness that was my own sadness, and I wept. It was for no one I knew, just lives and loneliness. On my pillow, a fragrance of peace and heartache left only by that...
    camxn camxn 26-30 Aug 1, 2012

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    He Left Me Shortly After His Release From Prison, Is He A Sociopath?

    History : (He was locked up for 10 years for armed robbery from the age of 16 to his current age 27.) Our relationship started while he was in there and only lasted for 1 month before things got sour and ended. I knew of him from childhood. we went to elementary and middle school...
    rubyrage986 rubyrage986 22-25, F Aug 12, 2012

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    There was this girl..

    .. i liked her since the beginning of the year.. and when i first looked at her, I thought she was gorgeous... I couldnt stop thinking about her....so i asked for her number?and we became friends. Then, i told her i liked her ...and she said she had a bf.. (this was in december...
    yeahohwell yeahohwell 13-15, F 1 Response May 18

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    My Mother

    I was given away by my mother when I was 7 yrs old.. To this day, I have seen her 4 times since.
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 22, 2012

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    He threw a heavy porcelain bowl at my head.

    I ducked, and filed for divorce. Talk about betrayal! Gonna bash my head in?
    HippyDippyTrippy HippyDippyTrippy 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 17

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    what is life really yet to offer?

    I have been into a serious relationship and was just waiting for us to settle down and get married....until the time came that I wish would just be a nightmare....I was very religious ...I am from a catholic family all the time I devote my life to church activities,,,I have...
    rockypoly rockypoly 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Related Experiences

    I have been friends with "Joe" for 17 years. We have come in and out of each others' lives at different times (moving, college, etc), but it always seemed we had a loyal bond that...
    butrrcup butrrcup 31-35, T Nov 12

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    Yeah I also hate myself but now I hate my friends way more than I hate myself . ( offline Friends ) . They are all ******** . We planned a trip for like 2 month and we wanted to go...
    Catffeinated Catffeinated 13-15, F 5 Responses Nov 7

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    So I had these two girlfriends and they completely wronged me. One day we were all together and I found out that someone had hacked my phone and have taken private photos of me. So...
    Bellissimaa Bellissimaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 14

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    Well...Hmm... Find a New One who you can Trust.. Its Never Gonna be Easy. A Real Friend is Only One. Having Two is Rare. Not Everyone who smiles at you is your Real Friend. Hey,I'm...
    ishi78252 ishi78252 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    Friends are just people that haven't ****** you over yet.
    MhairiM MhairiM 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 28

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    Indeed. This is why I have trust issues and why I clearly just don't give a **** anymore about whether I have friends or not ^_^ I can only make guy friends for the most part. I...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 28

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    Seriously... I can't take it! Why won't any of those people who called them self my friends, give me a solid reason for leaving me! I can't take it! It happens so often and I'm so...
    Zineq Zineq 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 1

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    There are people in the world that I know. That's a big difference from being my friend. I don't have to many of them anymore.
    midniteinc midniteinc 31-35, M Nov 11

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    so I liked a guy named brock and only one of my friends knew about it. same with cutting and all the other ****. but I don't think I can trust Samantha anymore because she told...
    zarasmith zarasmith 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    a reconciled friend is half an enemy
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F Oct 28

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    **** you Texas !!!! >:((((((
    Conspiracys Conspiracys 13-15, M Oct 28

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