I Have Been Betrayed By Someone I Loved

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    Dilemmas of a Desperate Wife

    .....and deceived and lied to for 5 and a half years of an 8 year marriage. 6 mths ago I discovered that my husband has been a Walter Mitty character, his cousin no less.  He has cleared me out financially (created an on-line account from my own account and syphoned my...
    desperatewife desperatewife
    36-40
    3 Responses Jan 23, 2009

    The Hurt Is Turning to Resentment

    I have loved HIM for many years.  I left my husband and family for HIM.  It was the kind of love I have only dreamed of my entire life: supportive, affectionate, intimate, respectful...or so I thought.  I should have known better, boy, I should have known...
    tilag tilag
    41-45
    1 Response May 1, 2009

    It Feels Like It's My Only Identity Right Now.

    I was betrayed by my best friend any my husband when they had an affair together. I believe I can forgive him, but he has been on the fence about who to be with. He says he has decided to give our marriage a shot, but I can't help feel I'm being stupid. We have been...
    Surujen Surujen
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 26, 2009

    So My Ldr Failed 2 Months Premature.

    In July last year I met an absolutely beautiful Italian girl with a stunning personality and a love for life, who was on a working holiday in New Zealand. I hit it off with this girl and things were wonderful, when she left we kept in contact. We were spending insane amounts of...
    constructivecynicism constructivecynicism
    22-25
    5 Responses Sep 28, 2008

    It Sucks

    The details are not as important as the message. Karma is not just a friend to me, it's friends with a lot of people. You would serve yourself well to heed the message.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 24, 2011

    I'm so done babe I hope you had your fun

    babe You took my heart And destroyed it What the **** do you want from me? What can you want from me. Oh, how i don't deserve this sh*t I hope you burn babe
    Adaptationn Adaptationn
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 23, 2014

    After 9 years and 3 kids my woman went crazy

    and ended up cheating on me
    Brokenman38 Brokenman38
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Oct 3, 2015

    what is life really yet to offer?

    I have been into a serious relationship and was just waiting for us to settle down and get married....until the time came that I wish would just be a nightmare....I was very religious ...I am from a catholic family all the time I devote my life to church activities,,,I have...
    rockypoly rockypoly
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

    More Than The Anger I Am Feeling Hurt

    last year i broke up with my bf. still in some corners of my heart i loved him and i cared about him. still i was worried about him that how he is living his life? what he is doing? but yesterday somehow i log in his fb account ( i know its wrong and didn't do intentionally. i...
    anukc anukc
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 17, 2013

    How could the one who vowed to love

    and protect me, the one man I shared my dreams with, bring me such misery and pain? How could he hurt me and think I should forgive so easily? I understand that we fall short, we are not perfect but I took my vows seriously. I always think of you and our children before I make...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 10, 2015

    I've been doing everything with anger I feel

    like I need to channel my anger more
    MindlessInspiration MindlessInspiration
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 3, 2015

    Way Too Many Times

    I have been betrayed by boyfriends and family too many times to count. So needless to say they are no longer part of my life nor will they ever be. What hurts the most is when family does it and make up lies, because there life is that boring and useless. As for boyfriends that...
    unforgettable77 unforgettable77
    41-45, F
    Feb 9, 2013

    Betrayal. Forgive. Learning to love

    unconditionally. It is painful but getting there or maybe I am just stupid.
    stera20 stera20
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Oct 1, 2015

    The Double Blow: When A 'best Friend' Steals Your Spouse

    I'd known him since high sdchool. He lived nearby. We shared an interest in music. We learned a lot together about girls, booze, drugs, books, films, plays, beaches. As adults, we holidayed together, made epic journeys across the continent, surfed in isolated spots. I met her at...
    amberdextrous amberdextrous
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Oct 30, 2009

    My Wife Had An Affair Before We Were Married But Just Confessed

    Ok...here goes. The story that I can't let go. We'll start with some background. I have been married now for just over 3 years to who I feel is the "love of my life" "soul mate"....call it what you will. We were together about 10 years prior to making it official. The wait...
    cj71 cj71
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Feb 22, 2013

    This has already happened with three years back

    and its happening now again... feel like am a piece of **** :( :( does anyone even care for my feelings?
    rcsguy1a rcsguy1a
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jul 9, 2015

    There was this girl..

    .. i liked her since the beginning of the year.. and when i first looked at her, I thought she was gorgeous... I couldnt stop thinking about her....so i asked for her number?and we became friends. Then, i told her i liked her ...and she said she had a bf.. (this was in december...
    yeahohwell yeahohwell
    13-15, F
    1 Response May 18, 2014

    He Left Me Shortly After His Release From Prison, Is He A Sociopath?

    History : (He was locked up for 10 years for armed robbery from the age of 16 to his current age 27.) Our relationship started while he was in there and only lasted for 1 month before things got sour and ended. I knew of him from childhood. we went to elementary and middle school...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 12, 2012

    What I Miss

    What I miss the most is the feeling of security. Its been over a year since my life has changed. I am living with no trust , I now trust no one. I find this very sad. I find myself paranoid with the what if's, what if you leave, what if you don't love me. The unknown, Who am I...
    vmt1 vmt1
    41-45, M
    1 Response Sep 21, 2012

    Betrayed By A "best Friend"

    Long story short, my best friend was angry that I reacted angrily towards her after finding out she had smacked her estranged husband so hard that she drew blood. I didn't want to speak to her for a while - we tried to talk but for years I've felt like I needed to get away from...
    bellatejanita bellatejanita
    36-40, F
    May 3, 2010

    I really thought that he loved me.

    .loved us. Boy was I wrong! I don't think you know how to love.
    imabitchimamother imabitchimamother
    36-40, F
    Mar 9, 2015

    by best friend ended up getting me sent to a

    mental hospital, but maybe it was a good thing. either way, I'm not mad, just indifferent.
    zydeko zydeko
    18-21
    Mar 9, 2015

    He Just Didn't Cared...

    If it hurts me ..or kills me or whatever.I discovered it when he manage to lie looking straight to my eyes.I thought I can trust him and that he is loyal to me as I'm to him.I was so wrong.It was the worst feeling you can imagine.I know it might be my fault that rather to go with...
    MissAgni MissAgni
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 15, 2012

    He Betrayed My Trust, I Can't Seem To Let It Go.

    My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 9 years. He met this girl at his work about 4 years back when we were having some "issues" I've never met her before but the first time I found out about her was when we were at the movies and she texted him "hey hot stuff" ever...
    aBigHeart31 aBigHeart31
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jul 27, 2012

    Just Get Over It..

    I have recently found out that my husband cheated on me when we were dating, about five years ago. I feel betrayed about his because I remember what was happening at the time. He had a female friend who he would hang out with and I got mad because I felt jealous. He told me he...
    shadowsofmyself shadowsofmyself
    26-30
    4 Responses Nov 19, 2012

    By An Ex...

    He stole $ from me and betrayed me with his lies......
    Val3ntine Val3ntine
    18-21, F
    Dec 20, 2010

    Idk if you call this betrayal.

    It was me all along and I feel betrayed. It was one sided, I know this isn't real but I like it. I loved this guy like for the first time I'm so happy. So it feels like he's been toying with my feelings which are real yes damn it. But I love him very much, but he doesn't...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 15, 2014

    Devil In Disguise

    (This is kind of like a story in poem form) "I'm never letting you go again." He said, while looking into her eyes. For the first time after living in nothing but constant fear, everything they fought for became a reality. That constant struggle and pain that was lived just...
    Vengeancex Vengeancex
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 16, 2012

    Getting Over An Affair

    I had a long talk with my hubby recently on why he cheated on me. Well first up he said that he never stopped loving me. He said that he sometimes called right before he did the deed to make sure I was safe at home, I had eaten well and I didn't worry about him cause he had...
    janecef janecef
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 31, 2013

    Feel Lost

    Hi, Im Syue, I found out about 3 months ago that I was HIV Positive, I was devastated but was trying to forget what I was told, my husband died because of that. I didnt know I was infected. All I know was that my late husband was diagnosed with it. I love my late husband and...
    syue syue
    41-45, F
    1 Response Mar 18, 2013

    Drugged

    I cant believe that he stooped so low.. I was betrayed by the man I love. I can handle the fact that he has cheated on me and probably still is, has lied to me, and abused me... But I cant handle that he went so far as to lace my ciggrettes ..I have been clean for a while now...
    imperfectbeauty imperfectbeauty
    18-21, F
    Aug 3, 2012

    Hi everyone Well I don't really want to go on

    for hours about why I am here but I feel I need some advice I meet a woman 7 years ago the best thing that every happen to me we meet she lived in the states I lived in England but we meet and she moved to England and we got married The problem is this she is a alcoholic she...
    lovejoy65 lovejoy65
    46-50, F
    Jun 15, 2014

    Is There Any Justice In This World?

    Well here goes my story, I married my husband 5 years ago. We met a year befor that and we were working in the same office. My family was aganist this match, but I anyway went ahead with the wedding. Due to this my relations with my family are somewhat strained. Also my husband...
    Cinthia Cinthia
    31-35
    7 Responses Apr 9, 2009

    The Love That Was Never There.

    Dated this guy for almost a year. Been in love with him madly and we both told each other about our future together. Told each other how we loved each other and how it will never disappear. We talked about everything going on in our life's about houses, kids, love and family. But...
    Salinasophia Salinasophia
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 2, 2013
    imabitchimamother imabitchimamother
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 9, 2015

    I Have Loved And Still Do

    me and my boyfriend have been on and off for the past two years he has been my first ever love and i havent loved anyone else because of him,i have tried other relationships and they havent lasted longer than a month because,well they are just not my love,i recently got back with...
    08angelcox 08angelcox
    26-30
    Mar 19, 2013

    A Poem

    On My Pillow In mourning the death of a dream and a spirit, I discovered my tears were sweet. I unleashed a tenderness that was my own sadness, and I wept. It was for no one I knew, just lives and loneliness. On my pillow, a fragrance of peace and heartache left only by that...
    camxn camxn
    26-30
    Aug 1, 2012

    Can I Forgive??

    I've been with my partner for 10 years we meet when I was 14 had a baby together at 16 but never had a proper relationship will I was 20. We now have 3 beautuful children together and I have recently found out that he has been cheating in me for at least the last 2 years. When I...
    Scaredlady009 Scaredlady009
    26-30, F
    Aug 31, 2012

    It Hurts

    I have been in a relationship for 2+ years. We were engaged. He was always weird with his cell phone and when I would question him about it, he turned it on me making it seem like I was a suspicious, controlling nut job. Once he called me "Annie" (that's not my name) and when I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 28, 2011

    More like someone's Every single person I put

    my trust in Has betrayed me one way or another so what's the point in trusting anyone if they all end up betraying you in the end
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 10, 2015

    Dear ex-boyfriend, I'll try to make this short

    and sweet, and whether or not you care is no longer my concern. Remember to invite your friends over and make some popcorn. You'll probably be on for a few laughs with this one. I forgive you. I forgive you for everything you have done and every lie you have told. I forgive you...
    Vengeancex Vengeancex
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 17, 2014

    ^ i regret meeting you bt blessed to have known

    you,i hate you for making me feel that only love exited wit you & no1 else ,i hate you for making me fall deep in love wit you ,only to know that i have been fooled & laugh abt that :( , i hate you for making me choose between my happiness & life choices,i hate you for making...
    H143 H143
    18-21, F
    Feb 2, 2015
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