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I Have Been Betrayed By Someone I Loved

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    Can I Forgive??

    I've been with my partner for 10 years we meet when I was 14 had a baby together at 16 but never had a proper relationship will I was 20. We now have 3 beautuful children together and I have recently found out that he has been cheating in me for at least the last 2 years. When I...
    Scaredlady009 Scaredlady009 26-30, F Aug 31, 2012

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    Best Friends For Never

    I have been best friends with her since second grade. We live near each other so i would go to her house all the time. it was like we were sisters. we shared everything with each other and i trusted her with all my heart. but this last year we moved to middle school, 7th grade...
    PandaLover1121 PandaLover1121 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2012

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    Getting Over An Affair

    I had a long talk with my hubby recently on why he cheated on me. Well first up he said that he never stopped loving me. He said that he sometimes called right before he did the deed to make sure I was safe at home, I had eaten well and I didn't worry about him cause he had...
    janecef janecef 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2013

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    More Than The Anger I Am Feeling Hurt

    last year i broke up with my bf. still in some corners of my heart i loved him and i cared about him. still i was worried about him that how he is living his life? what he is doing? but yesterday somehow i log in his fb account ( i know its wrong and didn't do intentionally. i...
    anukc anukc 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    The Double Blow: When A 'best Friend' Steals Your Spouse

    I'd known him since high sdchool. He lived nearby. We shared an interest in music. We learned a lot together about girls, booze, drugs, books, films, plays, beaches. As adults, we holidayed together, made epic journeys across the continent, surfed in isolated spots. I met her at...
    amberdextrous amberdextrous 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 30, 2009

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    By An Ex...

    He stole $ from me and betrayed me with his lies......
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F Dec 20, 2010

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    Drugged

    I cant believe that he stooped so low.. I was betrayed by the man I love. I can handle the fact that he has cheated on me and probably still is, has lied to me, and abused me... But I cant handle that he went so far as to lace my ciggrettes ..I have been clean for a while now...
    imperfectbeauty imperfectbeauty 18-21, F Aug 3, 2012

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    So My Ldr Failed 2 Months Premature.

    In July last year I met an absolutely beautiful Italian girl with a stunning personality and a love for life, who was on a working holiday in New Zealand. I hit it off with this girl and things were wonderful, when she left we kept in contact. We were spending insane amounts of...
    constructivecynicism constructivecynicism 22-25 6 Responses Sep 28, 2008

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    I'm so done babe I hope you had your fun

    babe You took my heart And destroyed it What the **** do you want from me? What can you want from me. Oh, how i don't deserve this sh*t I hope you burn babe
    Adaptationn Adaptationn 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    Betrayed By A "best Friend"

    Long story short, my best friend was angry that I reacted angrily towards her after finding out she had smacked her estranged husband so hard that she drew blood. I didn't want to speak to her for a while - we tried to talk but for years I've felt like I needed to get away from...
    bellatejanita bellatejanita 36-40, F May 3, 2010

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    What To Do?

    We were married for 8 years. Son 7 and Daughter 5. He had a affair for about 3 years, and I helped him to convince the girl to leave him during November last year. After that, I thought it should be over or rather less contact. Now he is in overseas, it is wrong for me to suspect...
    Heartache118 Heartache118 41-45 1 Response Apr 24, 2012

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    I Have Loved And Still Do

    me and my boyfriend have been on and off for the past two years he has been my first ever love and i havent loved anyone else because of him,i have tried other relationships and they havent lasted longer than a month because,well they are just not my love,i recently got back with...
    08angelcox 08angelcox 22-25 Mar 19, 2013

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    He Just Didn't Cared...

    If it hurts me ..or kills me or whatever.I discovered it when he manage to lie looking straight to my eyes.I thought I can trust him and that he is loyal to me as I'm to him.I was so wrong.It was the worst feeling you can imagine.I know it might be my fault that rather to go with...
    MissAgni MissAgni 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2012

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    It Sucks

    The details are not as important as the message. Karma is not just a friend to me, it's friends with a lot of people. You would serve yourself well to heed the message.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 24, 2011

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    He Left Me Shortly After His Release From Prison, Is He A Sociopath?

    History : (He was locked up for 10 years for armed robbery from the age of 16 to his current age 27.) Our relationship started while he was in there and only lasted for 1 month before things got sour and ended. I knew of him from childhood. we went to elementary and middle school...
    rubyrage986 rubyrage986 22-25, F Aug 12, 2012

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    He Betrayed My Trust, I Can't Seem To Let It Go.

    My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 9 years. He met this girl at his work about 4 years back when we were having some "issues" I've never met her before but the first time I found out about her was when we were at the movies and she texted him "hey hot stuff" ever...
    aBigHeart31 aBigHeart31 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    My Wife Had An Affair Before We Were Married But Just Confessed

    Ok...here goes. The story that I can't let go. We'll start with some background. I have been married now for just over 3 years to who I feel is the "love of my life" "soul mate"....call it what you will. We were together about 10 years prior to making it official. The wait...
    cj71 cj71 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    This Is.........

    Long dark roads is all i see, Dried leaves everywhere resembling the sea, Tall trees covering every ray of light, Not a single sound, just my own plight, This is my foresight The once bright skies now gloomy, Was alive and happy currently dead and slimy, The progress made from...
    afraidtoreveal afraidtoreveal 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2012

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    Feel Lost

    Hi, Im Syue, I found out about 3 months ago that I was HIV Positive, I was devastated but was trying to forget what I was told, my husband died because of that. I didnt know I was infected. All I know was that my late husband was diagnosed with it. I love my late husband and...
    syue syue 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2013

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    The Hurt Is Turning to Resentment

    I have loved HIM for many years.  I left my husband and family for HIM.  It was the kind of love I have only dreamed of my entire life: supportive, affectionate, intimate, respectful...or so I thought.  I should have known better, boy, I should have known...
    tilag tilag 41-45 1 Response May 1, 2009

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    My Mother

    I was given away by my mother when I was 7 yrs old.. To this day, I have seen her 4 times since.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    Dilemmas of a Desperate Wife

    .....and deceived and lied to for 5 and a half years of an 8 year marriage. 6 mths ago I discovered that my husband has been a Walter Mitty character, his cousin no less.  He has cleared me out financially (created an on-line account from my own account and syphoned my...
    desperatewife desperatewife 36-40 3 Responses Jan 23, 2009

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    The Love That Was Never There.

    Dated this guy for almost a year. Been in love with him madly and we both told each other about our future together. Told each other how we loved each other and how it will never disappear. We talked about everything going on in our life's about houses, kids, love and family. But...
    Salinasophia Salinasophia 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2013

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    It Hurts

    I have been in a relationship for 2+ years. We were engaged. He was always weird with his cell phone and when I would question him about it, he turned it on me making it seem like I was a suspicious, controlling nut job. Once he called me "Annie" (that's not my name) and when I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 28, 2011

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    Just Get Over It..

    I have recently found out that my husband cheated on me when we were dating, about five years ago. I feel betrayed about his because I remember what was happening at the time. He had a female friend who he would hang out with and I got mad because I felt jealous. He told me he...
    shadowsofmyself shadowsofmyself 26-30 4 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    Way Too Many Times

    I have been betrayed by boyfriends and family too many times to count. So needless to say they are no longer part of my life nor will they ever be. What hurts the most is when family does it and make up lies, because there life is that boring and useless. As for boyfriends that...
    unforgettable77 unforgettable77 36-40, F Feb 9, 2013

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    Devil In Disguise

    (This is kind of like a story in poem form) "I'm never letting you go again." He said, while looking into her eyes. For the first time after living in nothing but constant fear, everything they fought for became a reality. That constant struggle and pain that was lived just...
    Vengeancex Vengeancex 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2012

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    Is There Any Justice In This World?

    Well here goes my story, I married my husband 5 years ago. We met a year befor that and we were working in the same office. My family was aganist this match, but I anyway went ahead with the wedding. Due to this my relations with my family are somewhat strained. Also my husband...
    Cinthia Cinthia 31-35 7 Responses Apr 9, 2009

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    It Feels Like It's My Only Identity Right Now.

    I was betrayed by my best friend any my husband when they had an affair together. I believe I can forgive him, but he has been on the fence about who to be with. He says he has decided to give our marriage a shot, but I can't help feel I'm being stupid. We have been...
    Surujen Surujen 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    A Poem

    On My Pillow In mourning the death of a dream and a spirit, I discovered my tears were sweet. I unleashed a tenderness that was my own sadness, and I wept. It was for no one I knew, just lives and loneliness. On my pillow, a fragrance of peace and heartache left only by that...
    camxn camxn 26-30 Aug 1, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I'm not going into what exactly the two friends of mine did but it was to me the ultimate betrayal. I trusted them completely ,trusted them with my life, loved them, shared...
    liberosis liberosis 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    my girlfriend betrayed me! she broke up with me to be with another guy is what she told me. then she broke up with him and went out with another guy
    americanfledgling americanfledgling 18-21, M Apr 2

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    My friend betrayed me by trying to go out with my ex. She has a "bf" in Jamaica though. That's girl code you don't go out with your friends ex's or if you do wait 4months. She's...
    juliaek1 juliaek1 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    I don't think I got the memo to where I became someone's maid,and personal punching bag when did this happen when did I let it get this bad
    nadirah96 nadirah96 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    Where are they when I needed them? They only be friendly to me when they needed me or needs me to be their scapegoat! But after that they will just go back and ignore or being...
    betrayedoncemore betrayedoncemore 13-15, F Apr 11

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    Spent 4 hours volunteering for homeless charity this a.m.. I enjoy that so that doesn''t count. Went to official gov office and met a woman there that needed help filling out a...
    Gladez Gladez 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Ugh. Writing off bad friends on a weekly basis. Last weekend was truly a nightmare. To sum it up I went a friends house (2 hours away), sat uncomfortably in a bar she works at for...
    SC27 SC27 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    To me a true friend is one who sticks by you through good and bad times ,they are there for you ALWAYS! You share ,joy,laughter ,tears sadness with them . But the most important...
    angelofsweetness angelofsweetness 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    When I was young I had so many friends and most became very close . As my years grew we departed and from the time till now I've notice that we don't stay in touch and sometimes we...
    billyaldo billyaldo 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    Sometimes I think I'm bisexual😐
    ezzyrock ezzyrock 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I hate when ur surrounded by that *****
    LeakkhenaKL LeakkhenaKL 16-17, F Apr 9

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    I was dating a girl that I have been friends with and known since elementary school. We even went to the same college. We didn't date until the end of last year and it was great...
    Brennancr Brennancr 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    Probably the most embarrassing situation I ever have been in... Met a girl online. Talked a lot... She seemed so perfect. Had a really tragic past and I just got drawn in so...
    EmptinessofSeth EmptinessofSeth 31-35, M 3 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I got my first job as an artist's model as a 19 year old and it was all about the money. Soon I found out how much I loved being a model. I am comfortable nude, but also really...
    artonthebrain artonthebrain 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    I have been cheated on alot. My first long term relationship ended in me finding out he had cheated on me atleast 5 times. When i eventually moved on, i got cheated on again, same...
    Soldottern Soldottern 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was a wild dancer that loved to do powermoves. I am a member of a Breakers Crew. However I consider myself an ex dancer. Years ago I wanted to continue practicing powermoves, and...
    HandsomeRocker HandsomeRocker 18-21, M Apr 7

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    This past months were not easy at all. I wanted to die so many times. Inside I felt empty sometimes sad. I knew that my problem was because my heart was torn between what was and...
    888ob 888ob 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    For a little over a year I have been trying to explain the reasons and motivations behind the way I have lived my life since I married my husband. I have never been able to explain...
    isis55 isis55 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    A Decision I Made... Years Ago. To have and to hold from this day forward. Sept 15, 2001 on this date I informed my spouse and said "I was going to transition into a woman, many...
    Trisha60ts Trisha60ts 61-65, T 3 Responses Mar 24

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    My husband and I have been married for 6 weeks now. I've loved him for 19 years though. Still just as much as I did when we met. He's been an addict his entire adult life. I...
    kct0314 kct0314 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 26

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    I have had someone stalking me for over ten years. It is mostly online but has completely ruined my life. I had to apply for jobs in person when I was job hunting. I landed a...
    ObiOneyouremyonlyhope ObiOneyouremyonlyhope 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    It it interesting to see the reactions of others to my situation. My family, friends, strangers, everyone has an opinion and a strong one at that. I married my hubby for the wrong...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 2

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