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    He Couldn't Wait - I loved him with everything in my heart, but when he became ill he began praying that God would take my life at the same time he took his. He hadn't done as God...
    wLady5 wLady5 51-55, F Apr 11, 2012

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    Need To Walk Away - I have been with a man for over 7 years~ we work together. I was aware he had an affair with a girl we work with when he was married. Time had passed and we...
    Booseeboo2 Booseeboo2 41-45 Apr 11, 2012

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    I have been cheated on alot. My first long term relationship ended in me finding out he had cheated on me atleast 5 times. When i eventually moved on, i got cheated on again, same...
    Soldottern Soldottern 16-17, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I thought everything was perfect in my relationship, I had given up my family and my home to be with the girl, but not long afterwards she cheated on me with someone I know (and...
    Kurt18 Kurt18 18-21, M Mar 19

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    I have been cheated on many times I'm sure. The first and most memorable was my first love. Cheated on me 3x and that 3rd time I cheated on him and boy did that feel good. He...
    GreekGoddesz GreekGoddesz 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I will write about this. I actually kind of want to have at least one story for each experience I've got listed, but I doubt I will ever manage all of that. I will preface the...
    Lgl700 Lgl700 51-55, M 1 day ago

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    Ok so from my previous post my husband has been cheating on me and I just found out. Before I get in to what I'm going to say first off I'm playing on living him but we are trying...
    chris760 chris760 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I've been cheated on by my boyfriend they were signs there and I kept asking him to tell me the truth because if not the truth will come out, well it did I was hurt cuss him out...
    cara12345 cara12345 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I was dating a girl that I have been friends with and known since elementary school. We even went to the same college. We didn't date until the end of last year and it was great...
    Brennancr Brennancr 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    I need some advice. I've been married for 15 years and have 3 wonderful kids. We've been going through a rough patch for a year or so. Seemed like she was always angry at me and...
    lifeinhell27 lifeinhell27 46-50, M 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hearts breaking... My girlfriend has been cheating on me for the past year, I knew about it the whole time though but until now I was ok with it..but... :'(
    BarelyAdulterated BarelyAdulterated 18-21, F 12 Responses Mar 25

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    .yeah screw you. I have been such a gentleman doing the Conservative way of asking for you. I have spent all my time watching for you, doing everything that makes you happy. But...
    lonewolf000 lonewolf000 18-21, M Mar 20

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    I wanted to share a couple of excerpts from the book "Getting Past the Affair- A Program To Help You Cope, Heal and Move On---Together or Apart" by Douglas K. Snyder, PhD, Donald...
    Selfhelpme Selfhelpme 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hello everyone... Seriously.. How do u move on after being cheated on.. It has been 2 freaking years. I am still with my boyfriend (the cheater) but we keep on fighting and...
    Confusedgirlforever Confusedgirlforever 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 27

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    I just found out yesterday that my girlfriend cheated on me with one of her coworkers. We'd been together for over two years. I'm so lost and confused. I feel so weak and unloved...
    MrStayPositive MrStayPositive 22-25, M 7 Responses Mar 18

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    My last boyfriend was my first love, and everything was perfect between us. He told me he wanted to be with me forever, we were planning on moving out, and everytning was great...
    visionsofexile visionsofexile 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    My first boyfriend cheated on me with several of his ex girlfriends. I was 17 when I got with him and he was 18. He was somewhat of a player before me so I probably should've known...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    Long story short: I found out my (then) fiancé had cheated on me. I decided to forgive and fight through it. We got married. I found out that it had happened again, so we sought...
    seatothebay seatothebay 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    In August of 2013 my bf dropped me off at home after his cousins 21st Birthday party that we celebrated together. Once he got home he called me and told me that he had cheated on...
    Bluestarrr Bluestarrr 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I dated this guy when we where young and long story shot it was a dare and he cheated on me and broke my old i pod so im more sad about my old i pod than anything but uh yea
    RavenHearts RavenHearts 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Almost 3 years later and the pain is still there. A conversation last night about a meeting up with an ex brought out the ocean of hurt in me. Now she wants me to "take...
    gatorgirl1205 gatorgirl1205 26-30, F Mar 27

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    My husband had an affair with another woman...I have fantasies about having sex with her myself. I'm curious as to why her...anyone else have those thoughts?
    justmeasme justmeasme 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 21

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    Ugh. Worst feeling ever. Have some respect for the one you claim to love people!!!
    thatgirlem thatgirlem 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    It didn't bother me at all, if anything, I felt sorry for the guy! Not because she was ugly, because she wasn't, she was very beautiful. But, I now realise how little morals she...
    Ryanholmes20375 Ryanholmes20375 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Multiple times and apart of me wishes I could do to them what they always do to me but it is strongly out of my character. I am the type of person that puts all of my attention...
    NeeverForget NeeverForget 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Once again, I have no where to turn. Just five days before I ship out. I have laid in bed for the past 3 days upset over my ex girlfriend. I ate a bowl of soup yesterday and a...
    MrStayPositive MrStayPositive 22-25, M 5 Responses Mar 19

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    Me and this my ex were texting and he said he want to get back together and I said sure I soon realize he was dating another girl at a different school...
    Lololopj Lololopj 13-15, F Mar 17

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    my longterm-relationship boyfriend keeps contact with his first love( once or twice every month by calling/texting and meet her about twice a year) should I be worried? or it's...
    LoveIsDifficult LoveIsDifficult 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My husband cheated on me several times. I caught him on his chat with different women. He makes them feel special, telling them how beautiful they are, but not me. i really needed...
    Mbono Mbono 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Im really sorry to hear what u hve been through but what can u do about these conning men that do this it shouldnt be allowed the law must change and stricter rules should be...
    jotkaur1988 jotkaur1988 22-25, F Apr 6

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    I began my first relationship when I was 12. We were off and on ( mostly on ) for over 11 years. I spent more than half my life with him.. I got up at 5am for hockey practices and...
    AlynaBean AlynaBean 36-40, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I am glad I found this group because I can not tell anyone else this story. 20 years ago when we were 16 my first love and I fell deeply in love. We dated 3 years steady and...
    upsidedownandconfused upsidedownandconfused 36-40, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    In complete denial....... Hello all. I have read many posts of yalls dealing with this issue. I came searching for answers and help/support because I feel very alone and scared. I...
    ashoryb ashoryb 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I've been with my boyfriend almost 2 years now, we had a really big argument and he wouldn't speak to me for a while I was very drunk when the argument happened and couldn't have...
    louise4444 louise4444 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My husbands suddenly gone from healthy to not healthy at all. He is scheduled for open heart surgery next week and I'm just shocked. We have been struggling with bills since he was...
    crystalkat crystalkat 51-55, F 1 day ago

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    It it interesting to see the reactions of others to my situation. My family, friends, strangers, everyone has an opinion and a strong one at that. I married my hubby for the wrong...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I really wish it was. It wouldn't have been long distance. You wouldn't have cheated on me, because I would've shamed you in public because of it. You wouldn't have gotten...
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    husband is having an internet affair, we have been married almost 14 years and together almost 24 years, I don't know what to do
    0116reba 0116reba 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I went to a very relaxing nude caravan resort for two weeks on my own. I had been to a nude beach but thought it would be nice too be nude continually for two weeks. Although the...
    lezman lezman 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 19

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    Moreover, you need to take care that these are registered online resources or services and they abide by all the laws on personal privacy. Typically, the need for a hired service...
    mmogank12 mmogank12 22-25, F Mar 19

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    A Decision I Made... Years Ago. To have and to hold from this day forward. Sept 15, 2001 on this date I informed my spouse and said "I was going to transition into a woman, many...
    Trisha60ts Trisha60ts 61-65, T 3 Responses Mar 24

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    My husband and I have been married for 6 weeks now. I've loved him for 19 years though. Still just as much as I did when we met. He's been an addict his entire adult life. I...
    kct0314 kct0314 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 26

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    For a little over a year I have been trying to explain the reasons and motivations behind the way I have lived my life since I married my husband. I have never been able to explain...
    isis55 isis55 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I was bullied alot in my elementary years ... And I didn't have many friends ... I kept moving alot and was bullied due to my weight...I've also have been called ugly , and stupid...
    emmawinterfrost emmawinterfrost 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    These past 5 months have been a very emotional roller coaster as I've spoken to someone everyday, through xbox. We then proceeded to using viber, which wasn't working to well, so I...
    LaParee LaParee 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I have been to Canada several times, to see Niagara Falls and last year I went to Toronto for the first time. I really like it up there, but only in the warmer times of the year...
    greatgig91 greatgig91 22-25, M Mar 20

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    Today when I open my inbox. I have been 'blocked'. Why? am I wrong? So please informed  me if I wrong? And I have highlight the word, the red colour one. Above are some...
    Bert84 Bert84 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I have had someone stalking me for over ten years. It is mostly online but has completely ruined my life. I had to apply for jobs in person when I was job hunting. I landed a...
    ObiOneyouremyonlyhope ObiOneyouremyonlyhope 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Every day, I wonder how different things would have been if I never got into that car accident that night, and you were still here. I wonder if I would have been a good mother to...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I've been fat my entire life. When i was a kid people would say its cute but when i got old and still fat people looks at me like I'm a disgusting person. I don't ride a bike cause...
    elel110993 elel110993 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    when me and my bff where breaking up cuz her mom found out we had been watchingporn 2gther and i was s*xting guys i met on omegle after my breakup she wouldn't let us hang anymore...
    casssss casssss 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I got my first job as an artist's model as a 19 year old and it was all about the money. Soon I found out how much I loved being a model. I am comfortable nude, but also really...
    artonthebrain artonthebrain 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 7