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I Have Been Cheated On With My Best Friend

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    My Husband Of 14 Years Has Had An Affair With My Best Friend Who Also Happens To Live Next Door

    my husband of 14years has had a affair with my best friend who also happens to live next door. I knew there was something wrong for ages. yet i still put it down to pressures of work. he put me down at every turn. my confidence fall and i put on a bit of weight. every time I met...
    lynash lynash 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    I was dating this guy

    that I liked and I was really crazy for him. We got really close and our relationship was just getting started and it really felt good. But I had this best friend, someone who I trusted and she kept hugging my boyfriend constantly, like I'd just be standing there and she'd hug...
    AliGeex AliGeex 22-25, F Feb 23

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    3 Years..And Now..?

    I was with my last girlfriend for 3 years... not such a long time to some people, but I started this relationship my Sophmore year of High School..and it held strong until I had to go off to college.. I loved her unconditionally, and I thought she did too..we were perfect for...
    Taurus056 Taurus056 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 5, 2013

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    Broken Trust

    I have been cheated on with my fake friend...i say fake b/c a real friend would never have done this. This was not the first time this has happened, so you would think I would know what to look for in relationships...but no.  The first time was when I walked in on my...
    cici cici 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    No Trust

    Although it was a few years ago now. I still hurt over this. My boyfriend slept with my then best friend and they denied it and lied to me for nearly 2 years. Then he had the cheek to blame me saying I annoyed him. She wanted to be all friendly again but I would never be...
    Bluemoo Bluemoo 21-25, F 1 Response May 11, 2007

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    I Hope This Brings Some Healing For All of Us Here

    T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in a profound way for the gift of freedom you have given to me. It felt life my world had collapsed when I found out that you had...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2008

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    Never In My Life Did I Think This Would Happen To Me

    me and my ex now had been going out for 5 years.i thought she was the one and loved her so much, i would do anything for her. the first time i introduced my ex to my best friend always seemed kind of weird now that i think about it. they got along really really good. but i never...
    niceguysfinishlastt niceguysfinishlastt 22-25 3 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Not Just Once

    it has happened. i have been in the shittiest relationships and was taken advantage of. i have been cheated on numerous times...times i cant count on both hands. a few months after my first love had cheated on me and we split, one of my best friends got with him and not only did...
    RockYouBebeh RockYouBebeh 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    Cheated On With A Best Friend

    Not for anything and sorry if I hurt anyone but cheating on your best friend man or woman is a low blow.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2011

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    I Just Don't Know Anymore

    Hey, I'm sort of new to the website. But I'm 19 years old and I have just been recently found out i have been cheated on. To make it worst it was my best friend. I still love them both dearly but i don't know what to do. They both say that they want me. They don't want each...
    bitch8675309 bitch8675309 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2010

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    When I was in high school I was dating this guy.

    We were together for about 2 years. I thought things were going really well too. Had had met my parents, my dad even approved of him, which is crazy hard to do. Anyway. He was my first. It was pretty intense. One day he was supposed to meet up with me and my best friend to...
    MuseGrl4 MuseGrl4 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    Cheater's.

    i use to have this urge to be around you, and to wait up at night for you to knock on my window so we could sneak out, and to laugh when you say things that wasn't even funny. However that all changed when you decided to kiss him, you were my first lover, and he was my best...
    countryloverboy327 countryloverboy327 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 1, 2012

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    My Wife and My Ex

    I have been married now for almost 12 years. My wife had an affair with my "best friend" of over 20 years. The affair lasted just over two months until I found out on Oct 24, 2007 (I call it D-Day). I had suspected something for the entire time, but couldn't prove it...
    MrStrype MrStrype 41-45, M 4 Responses Jan 17, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I have been cheated on more than a couple times, my latest ex cheated on me but is now texting me all the time.part of me feels like hey karma is a ***** because he says the new...
    LoudMouse LoudMouse 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    I live in a city that is very expensive and only work in a fairly low paid industry. long story short I cant live with family and I am a Christian who believes it is better for me...
    funkykristi funkykristi 31-35, F a week ago

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    Update! There's hope guys - don't settle! Last time I posted it had been only one month since being cheated on - and I was a mess. Only thing I was sure of is that there was no way...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    My husband cheated on me online. He never met the woman but many of their conversations were very heart felt and emotional. He even asked her to marry him twice. (he claims he was...
    hasinalady hasinalady 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    Just something I felt like sharing/talking about. My current bf and I had a fight and I guess this was his way of "getting back" at me. He began entertaining conversations with...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F Aug 30

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    To "I am the other man", FU you coward. Thanks for your part in destroying my marriage. Yes I made mistakes but have been man enough to change and not hide.
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and he is my life but the guy before me was a jerk. He had sex with someone in my bed whilst I was at work luckily I was left off work...
    mparker7789 mparker7789 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Well I used to date someone and recently i found out that he cheated on me with my bestfriend. My bestfriend turn him down and he came back for me.. And I found out that he asked...
    NynnaDavis NynnaDavis 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Its been over a year since I found out my ex had been cheating on me and its been almost a year since I last heard from him at all. I have to start by saying I miss him every day...
    harlow8776 harlow8776 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    The last guy i dated cheated on me. With a dude.
    666LexiBabe666 666LexiBabe666 18-21, F 35 Responses Sep 3

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    Yep sadly ALL my girlfriends cheated on me! Why? Phew still not 100% sure about that, mostly they said that people cant fall in love with me. Strange cuz after weeks or months they...
    ChipmunkTV ChipmunkTV 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    my ex cheated on me for two years ✌️
    mablerylee mablerylee 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    Literally ALL my girlfriends cheated on me. Thats basically why I became bisexual... I do love women but I dont trust them anymore. All girls lied to me and I dont even no why! If...
    ChipmunkTV ChipmunkTV 22-25, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    So now i dont wanna get committed to any boys. Friend is the limit
    adrinnasweet adrinnasweet 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    And I feel so blessed to have them in my life.
    imextraordinary imextraordinary 18-21, F Sep 4

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    Our big sister's favorite tool to spank me and my little sis with... A metal switch!!! Stings big time!!!
    MtnDewForever MtnDewForever 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    This isn't exactly about my own switching, although I got several into my teen years about which I have posted stories. Instead, I am writing about a story I just saw on T.V. about...
    phillysteve phillysteve 36-40, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Would meeting a girl on chat roulette and showing each other parts count as cheating?
    GemArt GemArt 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 27

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    Husband had a texting relationship.. I may already posted this, but new to site and can't find my post (if I did)
    movingalong movingalong 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I think she is. <3 Ain't she fineeeeee??? Gawd she is soo pretty and she thinks she's ugly asf.
    KittyKatLuvsYhu KittyKatLuvsYhu 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I do like meeting strangers, the thrill of the anonimity, but only like to talk about naughty stuff when and if there is a connection on other levels. Like a personality that leaks...
    osito2polar osito2polar 36-40, M Sep 4

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    It's been a long time since my best friend and I had ended our friendship. She was the most caring person that I know and the most crazy of all. Everyday we chat, talk to each...
    Guin2ne1 Guin2ne1 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I am so lucky that she is my best friend. We met just by luck, as she moved into the same area I moved into at the same time (it's still a ten min car ride to her house though) we...
    unicornbeliever123 unicornbeliever123 18-21, F Sep 9

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    When u find a best friend, enjoy the friendship, don't take each others for granted and always be good to each others. I have no best mate, a male or a female. I'm 43. I know I...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    Can I Have An Online FEMALE Best Friend? Anyone? No? Kay. ={
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 4

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    So my friend is moving to Tanzania today. I won't see her for at least a year. She's doing some charity work, and I'm so proud of her...I really am...but...I kinda miss her already...
    Lindadk Lindadk 16-17, F 8 hrs ago

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    We don't get to choose our families unfortunately. If we did it would be nice though. I come from a very unaccepting, judgmental, conditional love sort of family and recently it...
    crystalc1973 crystalc1973 36-40, F 7 hrs ago

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    His name is Andrew. He's not the best looking guy out there, but I've known him for 10 years so far. I realized that I loved him over summer (June of 2014, this year) I would...
    AutumnKitty AutumnKitty 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I literally am reading all these stories and my heart aches. I have been in two mental hospitals and been batteling depression for six years. I have cutt every place there is skin...
    Gonzales96 Gonzales96 18-21, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I'm suppose to be studying right now. So if I'm not replying, that's what I'm doing. Or I'm with a friend, or getting food, or thinking, at the gym, shopping, watching anime...
    Sourminds Sourminds 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    She has been my friend since first grade. We been super close for so many years. I only found out after I had gave up on her and now with my current boyfriend. She told me, I told...
    AirSlice AirSlice 18-21, F Aug 21

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    Obviously I've been hurt many times.. but I'll never forget one of those times.. I still remember the pain as if it was yesterday.. I still feel the pain sometimes.. I used to be...
    Lily449 Lily449 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    Ok so I'm a girl and I think im in love with my girl best friend. It scares me a lot because I didn't think I could love a person so much. Our friendship started a few years ago...
    teddy237 teddy237 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    I am in love with my best friend - it all started in junior year when I met my best friend, I met her thanks to her sister that I had met the previous year, my best friend's sister...
    Silverfang40 Silverfang40 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    This happened just this past weekend and I am still going thought a bit of shock. I've not really talked to them any. The must know something is up, but probably not sure what that...
    MelissaSmith24740 MelissaSmith24740 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 21

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