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I Have Been Cheated On With My Best Friend

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    My Husband Of 14 Years Has Had An Affair With My Best Friend Who Also Happens To Live Next Door

    my husband of 14years has had a affair with my best friend who also happens to live next door. I knew there was something wrong for ages. yet i still put it down to pressures of work. he put me down at every turn. my confidence fall and i put on a bit of weight. every time I met...
    lynash lynash 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    I Just Don't Know Anymore

    Hey, I'm sort of new to the website. But I'm 19 years old and I have just been recently found out i have been cheated on. To make it worst it was my best friend. I still love them both dearly but i don't know what to do. They both say that they want me. They don't want each...
    bitch8675309 bitch8675309 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2010

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    3 Years..And Now..?

    I was with my last girlfriend for 3 years... not such a long time to some people, but I started this relationship my Sophmore year of High School..and it held strong until I had to go off to college.. I loved her unconditionally, and I thought she did too..we were perfect for...
    Taurus056 Taurus056 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 5, 2013

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    Never In My Life Did I Think This Would Happen To Me

    me and my ex now had been going out for 5 years.i thought she was the one and loved her so much, i would do anything for her. the first time i introduced my ex to my best friend always seemed kind of weird now that i think about it. they got along really really good. but i never...
    niceguysfinishlastt niceguysfinishlastt 22-25 3 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    I Hope This Brings Some Healing For All of Us Here

    T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in a profound way for the gift of freedom you have given to me. It felt life my world had collapsed when I found out that you had...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2008

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    When I was in high school I was dating this guy.

    We were together for about 2 years. I thought things were going really well too. Had had met my parents, my dad even approved of him, which is crazy hard to do. Anyway. He was my first. It was pretty intense. One day he was supposed to meet up with me and my best friend to...
    MuseGrl4 MuseGrl4 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    My Wife and My Ex

    I have been married now for almost 12 years. My wife had an affair with my "best friend" of over 20 years. The affair lasted just over two months until I found out on Oct 24, 2007 (I call it D-Day). I had suspected something for the entire time, but couldn't prove it and they...
    MrStrype MrStrype 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 17, 2008

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    I was dating this guy

    that I liked and I was really crazy for him. We got really close and our relationship was just getting started and it really felt good. But I had this best friend, someone who I trusted and she kept hugging my boyfriend constantly, like I'd just be standing there and she'd hug...
    AliGeex AliGeex 22-25, F Feb 23, 2014

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    Cheated On With A Best Friend

    Not for anything and sorry if I hurt anyone but cheating on your best friend man or woman is a low blow.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2011

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    Cheater's.

    i use to have this urge to be around you, and to wait up at night for you to knock on my window so we could sneak out, and to laugh when you say things that wasn't even funny. However that all changed when you decided to kiss him, you were my first lover, and he was my best...
    countryloverboy327 countryloverboy327 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 1, 2012

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    Not Just Once

    it has happened. i have been in the shittiest relationships and was taken advantage of. i have been cheated on numerous times...times i cant count on both hands. a few months after my first love had cheated on me and we split, one of my best friends got with him and not only did...
    RockYouBebeh RockYouBebeh 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    No Trust

    Although it was a few years ago now. I still hurt over this. My boyfriend slept with my then best friend and they denied it and lied to me for nearly 2 years. Then he had the cheek to blame me saying I annoyed him. She wanted to be all friendly again but I would never be...
    Bluemoo Bluemoo 18-21, F 1 Response May 11, 2007

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    Broken Trust

    I have been cheated on with my fake friend...i say fake b/c a real friend would never have done this. This was not the first time this has happened, so you would think I would know what to look for in relationships...but no.  The first time was when I walked in on my...
    cici cici 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    Related Experiences

    I've discovered and realised recently that I enjoy being with my husband. In the early marriage, it was hard for us to talk without arguing. Only after I told him a few weeks ago I...
    lpch lpch 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    So, my boyfriend's best friend and I got really close after we broke up and i grew feelings for him fast , honestly I fell for him. He gave me a feeling I've never experienced. The...
    brandeelo23 brandeelo23 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    12 months ago I created my profile and picked a name for my feminine self. 12 months ago Jessica came into my life (Virgos rule, BTW) What a year it's been.... I won't bother...
    JessicaDale JessicaDale 51-55, T 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Why am I so jealous of my best friend? She is currently studying and have befriended with a lot of people in her new school. She had hardships in her life, and I was there for her...
    Erivalentino Erivalentino 22-25, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    My best friend and I have known each other for 10 years. Lol it's going to sound lame but he is also my only friend. My only friend back in Texas. The first thing that entered my...
    Perseph0ne Perseph0ne 26-30, F 12 hrs ago

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    but it's alright though maybe he came up with the right dough, bigger d I don't know must have been the best flow but f that I put alot in I'm hating
    mightyhealthy mightyhealthy 22-25, M 13 hrs ago

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    This evening I had my first experience of the belt. I hope I make sure it's my last.
    HC43 HC43 41-45, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I want to tell you about a spanking I got in my teen years. I think I learned how to be responsible and do the right thing due to this. I was dating this girl when I was in HS. She...
    davedexp davedexp 56-60, M 2 days ago

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    It was 21 years ago. It was my 38th birthday. I had been married to my wife almost 6.5 years. My wife had been out with co-workers volunteering at a city event. She did not come...
    sppbeep sppbeep 56-60, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    how do you forgive your lover when they cheated or you suspected they cheated but you chose to forgive them and move on. Its always on my mind and sometimes I bring it up because I...
    epain33 epain33 26-30, F 36 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've been with this guy for about 5 years and I'm fed up with him. This story is a bit crazy. I use to check his Facebook page often and notice that he conversates a lot with his...
    FrancinePryor FrancinePryor 46-50, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    It has been a month now, since I found out my husband cheated on me. We have been together for 20 years and have two kids. It was a co-worker and it lasted 6 months. He told me he...
    Amyc76 Amyc76 36-40, F 16 Responses 3 days ago

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    5 days ago my husband of 24 years left his cell phone at home. I discovered a 3 month affair he's been having. I am completely broken.
    maire08 maire08 41-45, F 43 Responses 4 days ago

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    2 Canadians have committed suicide because of Ashley Madison leak....I suspect many more to come...this makes no sense , didn't they think there would be accountablity one day...
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    it makes me scream and cry from the first hit. yesterday i got 30 lashes my butt is still crimson red and it stings like hell.
    SadGirl2002x SadGirl2002x 13-15, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    I saw my hematologist Fri and he decided to send me for a muscle biopsy and encouraged me to get a 2nd opinion from a rheumatologist. I had blood work done and he says my...
    wandawoof2015 wandawoof2015 51-55, F 5 days ago

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    It was a picnic to the woods. My younger brother insisted for dipping into the small river for a swim together. only the three of us were there.
    peetboy peetboy 56-60, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    We went on a trip to Chicago, the day we left I entered angry, psychotic, sybil mode. Needless to say, it did not go well. Who even AM I? At this point, I am more upset with my...
    notafraidrn notafraidrn 41-45, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have been communicating with someone to seduce my beautiful 53 year old wife. She , of course, has no idea. She will be contacted(by email) anonymously soon. I will read the...
    NiceNEasy4U NiceNEasy4U 51-55, M 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Mabey because they still cause me pain I don't forgive
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I still must go to cut my own switch in the garden ;( thet can be embarrassing sometimes
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have been chatting with this guy from school. I'm also a guy but I have a crush on him, he's a year younger than me. So, there's this welcome party for the freshmen in our...
    LeoNyxus LeoNyxus 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My bf has it @ 41. How does it not make you feel less than? How arousing can you get when you get no response from him yet he seems to get excited by pics of guns (no, just an NRA...
    jules021775 jules021775 36-40, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    My husband slept with another woman. My knight. My safe haven. i am 43 years old with a beautiful 2 year old Lil boy. He is sorry, of course. Yet, I am still here. I have, however...
    notafraidrn notafraidrn 41-45, F 19 Responses Aug 21

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    My boyfriend cheated on me and in April I made him my ex, then he called me a ***** and never spoke to him again but a friend we have in common said he wanted to talk to me but...
    YungAngel17 YungAngel17 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Tomorrow morning at 7.55 am my local radio station will read a list of people from the area that had Ashley Maddison accounts.....the info has now been released in full..I need...
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    My best friend is getting married this December and she has just gone through the wedding course. I am blessed that I've been with her from the beginning, in fact, I'm the one that...
    teeekilicious18 teeekilicious18 18-21, F Aug 19

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    I mean for real I was 25 he was 49 I thought I loved him and I wS way younger than him way beautiful but I can't control my feelings he ended up cheating on me !! Haha what a joke...
    sedna123 sedna123 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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