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I Have Been Cheated On With My Best Friend

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    Broken Trust

    I have been cheated on with my fake friend...i say fake b/c a real friend would never have done this. This was not the first time this has happened, so you would think I would know what to look for in relationships...but no.  The first time was when I walked in on my...
    cici cici 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    Cheated On With A Best Friend

    Not for anything and sorry if I hurt anyone but cheating on your best friend man or woman is a low blow.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2011

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    I Hope This Brings Some Healing For All of Us Here

    T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in a profound way for the gift of freedom you have given to me. It felt life my world had collapsed when I found out that you had...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2008

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    I Just Don't Know Anymore

    Hey, I'm sort of new to the website. But I'm 19 years old and I have just been recently found out i have been cheated on. To make it worst it was my best friend. I still love them both dearly but i don't know what to do. They both say that they want me. They don't want each...
    bitch8675309 bitch8675309 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2010

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    My Husband Of 14 Years Has Had An Affair With My Best Friend Who Also Happens To Live Next Door

    my husband of 14years has had a affair with my best friend who also happens to live next door. I knew there was something wrong for ages. yet i still put it down to pressures of work. he put me down at every turn. my confidence fall and i put on a bit of weight. every time I met...
    lynash lynash 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    No Trust

    Although it was a few years ago now. I still hurt over this. My boyfriend slept with my then best friend and they denied it and lied to me for nearly 2 years. Then he had the cheek to blame me saying I annoyed him. She wanted to be all friendly again but I would never be...
    Bluemoo Bluemoo 21-25, F 1 Response May 11, 2007

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    Cheater's.

    i use to have this urge to be around you, and to wait up at night for you to knock on my window so we could sneak out, and to laugh when you say things that wasn't even funny. However that all changed when you decided to kiss him, you were my first lover, and he was my best...
    countryloverboy327 countryloverboy327 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 1, 2012

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    3 Years..And Now..?

    I was with my last girlfriend for 3 years... not such a long time to some people, but I started this relationship my Sophmore year of High School..and it held strong until I had to go off to college.. I loved her unconditionally, and I thought she did too..we were perfect for...
    Taurus056 Taurus056 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 5, 2013

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    Never In My Life Did I Think This Would Happen To Me

    me and my ex now had been going out for 5 years.i thought she was the one and loved her so much, i would do anything for her. the first time i introduced my ex to my best friend always seemed kind of weird now that i think about it. they got along really really good. but i never...
    niceguysfinishlastt niceguysfinishlastt 22-25 3 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    When I was in high school I was dating this guy.

    We were together for about 2 years. I thought things were going really well too. Had had met my parents, my dad even approved of him, which is crazy hard to do. Anyway. He was my first. It was pretty intense. One day he was supposed to meet up with me and my best friend to...
    MuseGrl4 MuseGrl4 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    I was dating this guy

    that I liked and I was really crazy for him. We got really close and our relationship was just getting started and it really felt good. But I had this best friend, someone who I trusted and she kept hugging my boyfriend constantly, like I'd just be standing there and she'd hug...
    AliGeex AliGeex 22-25, F Feb 23, 2014

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    Not Just Once

    it has happened. i have been in the shittiest relationships and was taken advantage of. i have been cheated on numerous times...times i cant count on both hands. a few months after my first love had cheated on me and we split, one of my best friends got with him and not only did...
    RockYouBebeh RockYouBebeh 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    My Wife and My Ex

    I have been married now for almost 12 years. My wife had an affair with my "best friend" of over 20 years. The affair lasted just over two months until I found out on Oct 24, 2007 (I call it D-Day). I had suspected something for the entire time, but couldn't prove it...
    MrStrype MrStrype 41-45, M 4 Responses Jan 17, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    Just talking to myself... Feeling lonely and confused! Depression came to me after finding out the one I most lived and gave myself in full, cheated on me on the worst way possible...
    Letsrockit Letsrockit 36-40, M 7 Responses Jan 1

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    Need advice! I apologize for the length! So ive been with this guy for over 2 1/2 years, living together for the last year and a half. It was all going pretty fantastic between us...
    VictoriaD81 VictoriaD81 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 3

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    Well. Im in a really confusing situation... Im 25 years old, and gay, and I started dating my 22 year old best friend 3 years ago after he realized he had feelings for me...
    ChristopherLorenz ChristopherLorenz 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 12

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    He told me yesterday that he cheated on me a few days ago. It was at a friend's birthday party and he was drunk. He is genuinely remorseful and sorry that he did it, and he said...
    SkyeDreams SkyeDreams 22-25, F 28 Responses Jan 10

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    Seven years together and i still feel alone. I am 26 and have been with same man it seems like forever i have always been faithful even when opportunity's have presented themselves...
    tolongalone tolongalone 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 8

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    It was while ago now, and I've never held it against him. That time wasn't an easy time for him, or for us. Things moved very fast for us, very quickly. We had only just started...
    TooMuchProsecco TooMuchProsecco 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    He was my first love. My first official and serious relationship. I loved him more than life itself. My whole world, my future and life revolved around him. He was everything. For...
    SummerOf22 SummerOf22 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 8

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      I have been with my boyfriend a year (every single day) Recently I was ready to move out and he freaked out we were perfect and then all of a sudden we started to fight as...
    laurenadl laurenadl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    minniecc11 minniecc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    I found out last October , until now I can't get over still and losing all of self esteems , being depressing ... fortunately or not we live in the same area , last mounts I saw...
    joosie joosie 22-25 2 Responses Jan 16

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    After being together for none years, six married, it's over. I found out she'd been cheating with several guys over the last couple years. Are there any good women left out there...
    decker5479 decker5479 31-35, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I was driving home from a New Years Eve party in the early hours of New Years Day. I had been to a friends house with my boyfriend and I agreed not to drink so I could drive home...
    Sarah667 Sarah667 46-50, F 4 Responses Jan 2

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    She cheated in january 2014 and finally told me a year later. The cheating occured three months into the relationship. The only reason it was brought up was she seen a friend last...
    RockinTTS RockinTTS 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 11

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    We had been dating for a year and a half, and he cheated on me with a girl who I thought was a close friend.
    LittleRed2016 LittleRed2016 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 19

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    I should have saw the signs sooner but... you live and learn I guess. After the divorce from a marriage of 10 years I didn't see anyone for 8 years. I took this time to rebuild my...
    srb76 srb76 36-40, M 9 Responses Jan 15

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    More than once... The first time, he and I had an understanding. We were exclusive but he never said the word girlfriend to describe me. He hated titles. Anyways, while I was...
    summertimesadness16 summertimesadness16 22-25, F Jan 3

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    I'm seven months pregnant with his child, and he swears this will never happen again. It's only been three days since everything was brought out into the open. I guess I'm just...
    haleybug1026 haleybug1026 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    while pregnant, he cheated on me with four different women. im a single mother now and im ok with it.
    StillHere84 StillHere84 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    Since the first time i dated a guy, it will end up with break ups, he cheated on me or they got a job in another country. Like one time i caught my boyfriend ( when he was still...
    annaambrose annaambrose 13-15 1 Response Jan 13

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    My husband cheated on me with my daughter (not HIS, relax ,she's an adult).. how the hell do I get past it??
    meadbme meadbme 41-45, F 55 Responses Jan 17

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    It was in high school so it might not seem as much but this guy I was with was with someone from a different state. I talked to the girl and found out that I was the "other woman...
    Dunebug94 Dunebug94 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 18

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    she is just a friend, you don't know what you saw, you weren't there when I needed you, she made me feel wanted. ugh I swallowed all of the excuses its amazing I didn't choke
    regalshewolf regalshewolf 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    I honestly just got on this site to meet different girls just to talk as friends or soemthing I'm tired of this bullshit in this small *** ttown
    eazy8008 eazy8008 18-21, M Jan 13

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    It has been four days now since I left my wife, actually I feel good and feel like a lot of weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I have several hundred ignored calls on my...
    jocu123 jocu123 26-30, M 7 Responses Jan 16

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    so yesterday my husband tells me yet another little piece of dishonesty. when I found him in her appartment at 650am he said they were just talking (they met whilst at the kids...
    newstart1315 newstart1315 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 1

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    My story is detailed in other posts but just summing up my last 20months of struggle... Unfortunately I couldn't handle my wife's affair and the fact she had sex with someone else...
    Letsrockit Letsrockit 36-40, M 5 Responses Jan 14

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    When I think of her now instead of sorrow I am starting to feel this anger & rage...it comes unbidden ...I allow myself a mean growl and then I gotta release it. Went for a run in...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 6 Responses Jan 7

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    I ended up re - friending my ex friend on fb. All this because we liked the same guy. (No longer speaking to). I still have hurt from when I told her I liked him too. yet she went...
    meleternal meleternal 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    So apparently I have enough skills to make a funny comment that gets everyone laughing but it backfires cause ones they take notice they initiate conversation which can't do and...
    AlexanderGarcia AlexanderGarcia 16-17, M Jan 16

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    My momma use to wear my *** out with a belt.... It sucked but I needed it.
    AlwaysChellz AlwaysChellz 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    It didn't help anything. It just made me afraid of belts, especially considering that my mom would ONLY ever use corporal punishment when she was grumpy about something that...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    and I'm soooooo glad I found out before I wasted the rest of my life on sacrificing for him, providing for him, nurturing him, defending him or loving him. Gettin my groove back...
    canthinkofanything canthinkofanything 41-45, F 11 Responses Jan 9

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    There is no pain like being ripped asunder by deceit...six months before she confessed to her affair ....healing hasnt come but wisdom surely has.
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 9 Responses Jan 12

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