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I Have Been Cheated On With My Best Friend

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    I Just Don't Know Anymore

    Hey, I'm sort of new to the website. But I'm 19 years old and I have just been recently found out i have been cheated on. To make it worst it was my best friend. I still love them both dearly but i don't know what to do. They both say that they want me. They don't want each...
    bitch8675309 bitch8675309 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2010

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    Broken Trust

    I have been cheated on with my fake friend...i say fake b/c a real friend would never have done this. This was not the first time this has happened, so you would think I would know what to look for in relationships...but no.  The first time was when I walked in on my...
    cici cici 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    My Wife and My Ex

    I have been married now for almost 12 years. My wife had an affair with my "best friend" of over 20 years. The affair lasted just over two months until I found out on Oct 24, 2007 (I call it D-Day). I had suspected something for the entire time, but couldn't prove it...
    MrStrype MrStrype 41-45, M 4 Responses Jan 17, 2008

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    I was dating this guy

    that I liked and I was really crazy for him. We got really close and our relationship was just getting started and it really felt good. But I had this best friend, someone who I trusted and she kept hugging my boyfriend constantly, like I'd just be standing there and she'd hug...
    AliGeex AliGeex 22-25, F Feb 23

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    No Trust

    Although it was a few years ago now. I still hurt over this. My boyfriend slept with my then best friend and they denied it and lied to me for nearly 2 years. Then he had the cheek to blame me saying I annoyed him. She wanted to be all friendly again but I would never be...
    Bluemoo Bluemoo 21-25, F 1 Response May 11, 2007

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    3 Years..And Now..?

    I was with my last girlfriend for 3 years... not such a long time to some people, but I started this relationship my Sophmore year of High School..and it held strong until I had to go off to college.. I loved her unconditionally, and I thought she did too..we were perfect for...
    Taurus056 Taurus056 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 5, 2013

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    Cheater's.

    i use to have this urge to be around you, and to wait up at night for you to knock on my window so we could sneak out, and to laugh when you say things that wasn't even funny. However that all changed when you decided to kiss him, you were my first lover, and he was my best...
    countryloverboy327 countryloverboy327 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 1, 2012

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    My Husband Of 14 Years Has Had An Affair With My Best Friend Who Also Happens To Live Next Door

    my husband of 14years has had a affair with my best friend who also happens to live next door. I knew there was something wrong for ages. yet i still put it down to pressures of work. he put me down at every turn. my confidence fall and i put on a bit of weight. every time I met...
    lynash lynash 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    When I was in high school I was dating this guy.

    We were together for about 2 years. I thought things were going really well too. Had had met my parents, my dad even approved of him, which is crazy hard to do. Anyway. He was my first. It was pretty intense. One day he was supposed to meet up with me and my best friend to...
    MuseGrl4 MuseGrl4 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 23

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    Cheated On With A Best Friend

    Not for anything and sorry if I hurt anyone but cheating on your best friend man or woman is a low blow.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2011

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    I Hope This Brings Some Healing For All of Us Here

    T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in a profound way for the gift of freedom you have given to me. It felt life my world had collapsed when I found out that you had...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2008

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    Not Just Once

    it has happened. i have been in the shittiest relationships and was taken advantage of. i have been cheated on numerous times...times i cant count on both hands. a few months after my first love had cheated on me and we split, one of my best friends got with him and not only did...
    RockYouBebeh RockYouBebeh 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    Never In My Life Did I Think This Would Happen To Me

    me and my ex now had been going out for 5 years.i thought she was the one and loved her so much, i would do anything for her. the first time i introduced my ex to my best friend always seemed kind of weird now that i think about it. they got along really really good. but i never...
    niceguysfinishlastt niceguysfinishlastt 22-25 3 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    I have been cheated on. I had suspicions that my ex was cheating and I eventually found a secret fb page that she made for all the people who knew she was cheating and there was...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 10 Responses Nov 1

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    my wife of five years has cheated on me with nine different guys that I know of three of them were friends of mine and one was my best friend, but I can't bring myself to hurt my...
    george2323 george2323 22-25, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Now that's it's been a few days since we've broken up I am starting to see what happened from a different perspective. At first I just wanted to forgive and reconcile. Then I was...
    theresawallis theresawallis 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 4

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    I have been married to my wife for almost 10 years but together for 21 years. Our relationship started when we were both young, 21 and 22 years old. I was immature and ended up...
    crzy4mywife crzy4mywife 36-40 2 Responses Nov 11

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    I've been cheated on so much.
    emgal emgal 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 16

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    My first real relationship... He was three years older than me, and made me feel really special. So I let him lie to me. A girl told my friend he had been flirting with her for...
    gwya gwya 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Bingo!!!! Knew something was going on. He's sleeping with a friend (not mine) who has a kid and partner. No proof, just a huge vibe and gut feeling. Is it bad I'm still in shock...
    nextstep345 nextstep345 26-30, F 14 Responses Nov 2

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    So I just told my boyfriend I think we should have a break as We are starting to 'fade away' from each other and he tells me he's been seeing someone else for a few months now! So...
    cbailey301 cbailey301 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 4

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    I'm sorry, but I have to make this quick. Later, perhaps I shall add more. I have been in a loving relationship of two years. However, it all went downhill. I am writing to you a...
    AFool422 AFool422 16-17 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It sucks how my best friend is. All he worries about is finding his next boyfriend and he goes threw them faster than he changes socks and says the same thing about all of them" oh...
    Sparkles4Soul Sparkles4Soul 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    I wish i could say my father was a stupid man. but hes not. hes incredibly intelligent and controlling. In front of people hes charming and sweet, and he seems very open minded...
    n706 n706 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 16

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    Everyone is in agreement that I deserve so much better and it's true. It's just that sometimes I find myself asking "what if" or "why". With all of that said however, I can't bring...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 5 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    If You Are Being Cheated On: Get real. The best predictor of future behavior is relevant past behavior. What do you predict? If your partner has cheated on you repeatedly and now...
    darkenedsoul200 darkenedsoul200 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 8

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    I've been in a relationship with this guy for a while. 2 months ago I got a message from his ex saying that they always kept seeing each other and not just as friends. I confronted...
    MaryLaurenx MaryLaurenx 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    My boyfriend of 3 years just cheated on me with his ex. One of her friends was nice enough to tell me about it( she even had pictures of there conversation ) when I asked him he...
    EverWinter EverWinter 22-25, F 34 Responses Nov 17

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    my husband is in love with another woman. she happens to work with him at the same institution. She had serious problems in her marriage and kind of ran away to my husband. she...
    Da7none Da7none 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 5

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    being cheated on is the worst feeling ivy ever had to deal with always be faithful it hurts your partner in ways that just destroyed a person
    Tracyforrest Tracyforrest 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 5

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    When I found out my spouse of 18 years cheated on me I was devastated. The first thing I felt was a stomach ache. Then I had pain in my neck and shoulders. Had trouble sleeping...
    AloneRestless AloneRestless 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 7

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    I was with my ex for 10yrs and he constantly lied and cheated left me high and dry and then moved in with another woman how you up and do that i wish he would die
    nikka1985 nikka1985 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 9

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    My boyfriend Alan Richert cheated on me more times than I can count. He is addicted to having sex with as many people as possible. And he is accomplishing this goal with great...
    honestyisbest1960 honestyisbest1960 56-60, F 4 days ago

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    .. we were workmates, friends and lovers around 4 years... at first I don't like commitment because of my previous relationship... I was traumatized., I thought i will never be...
    kismet1427 kismet1427 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 12

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    Recently my husband left me and my 11yr old. I've never been so devastating in my life. We was married for 4years and was together for 13yrs. I've never felt so much pain, hurt and...
    Lostlove16 Lostlove16 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 11

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    Anyone feel weird getting on their social media knowing they have probably inadvertently added one of their exes sick sex personas? Sometimes it's triggering. She's a sly covert...
    Bsnarky Bsnarky 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 7

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    My boyfriend and I were in a 4 year relationship, then suddenly a girl texted me saying that she's in a 1yr relationship with my boyfriend. I asked him about it and he denied it...
    iminamess iminamess 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 16

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    Selfish lieing cheating men ought to die alone. They don't deserve any woman to care about them, look after them, give them any part of themselves. They deserve to live alone and...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 9

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    Catch up with her today only to hear that she's seeing another guy. Thanks for leading me on ******* cow. Pointless relationship that was, didn't do anything wrong apart from study...
    Adam352 Adam352 18-21, M 5 Responses Nov 9

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    I have, and I am ok with it... what is done is done.... But it made me think differently. Now I wonder what it would be like to see her getting fcd by some random stranger. I...
    Secretname555666 Secretname555666 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 17

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    I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years recently. He was a habitual cheater. I thought I could move past it but I never could trust him and now I feel completely broken. I moved to...
    allibabaa allibabaa 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 18

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    Her and I stopped talking over 2 years ago for personal reasons. She suddenly contacted me and it's as if we just picked right up where we left off as if we never stopped talking...
    ph0x ph0x 26-30, F Nov 1

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    Coming to a realisation that I feel I have more female personality in me than male. I feel stronger for being able to express this outwardly. Feel alot happier too :)
    GsyBTBBoots GsyBTBBoots 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 2

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    We all make choices in our lives. I have accepted just recently I feel I have more feminine personality than male. its accepting who you truly are. I have alot of feminine energy...
    GsyBTBBoots GsyBTBBoots 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 7

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    How did you find out your partner was cheating? I suspect but need advice on how to get evidence for myself
    nextstep345 nextstep345 26-30, F 10 Responses Oct 31

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    Guys like to cheat. It happens :/
    Kryfette Kryfette 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 11

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    I wish people would just leave instead of killing every emotion in a person by doing this. I guess some people can handle it better then others but let me tell you it really...
    2isbetterthan1 2isbetterthan1 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 12