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I Have Been Cheated On With My Best Friend

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    Cheater's.

    i use to have this urge to be around you, and to wait up at night for you to knock on my window so we could sneak out, and to laugh when you say things that wasn't even funny. However that all changed when you decided to kiss him, you were my first lover, and he was my best...
    countryloverboy327 countryloverboy327 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 1, 2012

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    My Husband Of 14 Years Has Had An Affair With My Best Friend Who Also Happens To Live Next Door

    my husband of 14years has had a affair with my best friend who also happens to live next door. I knew there was something wrong for ages. yet i still put it down to pressures of work. he put me down at every turn. my confidence fall and i put on a bit of weight. every time I met...
    lynash lynash 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    Never In My Life Did I Think This Would Happen To Me

    me and my ex now had been going out for 5 years.i thought she was the one and loved her so much, i would do anything for her. the first time i introduced my ex to my best friend always seemed kind of weird now that i think about it. they got along really really good. but i never...
    niceguysfinishlastt niceguysfinishlastt 22-25 3 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    I Just Don't Know Anymore

    Hey, I'm sort of new to the website. But I'm 19 years old and I have just been recently found out i have been cheated on. To make it worst it was my best friend. I still love them both dearly but i don't know what to do. They both say that they want me. They don't want each...
    bitch8675309 bitch8675309 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2010

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    3 Years..And Now..?

    I was with my last girlfriend for 3 years... not such a long time to some people, but I started this relationship my Sophmore year of High School..and it held strong until I had to go off to college.. I loved her unconditionally, and I thought she did too..we were perfect for...
    Taurus056 Taurus056 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 5, 2013

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    Cheated On With A Best Friend

    Not for anything and sorry if I hurt anyone but cheating on your best friend man or woman is a low blow.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2011

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    My Wife and My Ex

    I have been married now for almost 12 years. My wife had an affair with my "best friend" of over 20 years. The affair lasted just over two months until I found out on Oct 24, 2007 (I call it D-Day). I had suspected something for the entire time, but couldn't prove it...
    MrStrype MrStrype 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 17, 2008

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    Broken Trust

    I have been cheated on with my fake friend...i say fake b/c a real friend would never have done this. This was not the first time this has happened, so you would think I would know what to look for in relationships...but no.  The first time was when I walked in on my...
    cici cici 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    When I was in high school I was dating this guy.

    We were together for about 2 years. I thought things were going really well too. Had had met my parents, my dad even approved of him, which is crazy hard to do. Anyway. He was my first. It was pretty intense. One day he was supposed to meet up with me and my best friend to...
    MuseGrl4 MuseGrl4 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    No Trust

    Although it was a few years ago now. I still hurt over this. My boyfriend slept with my then best friend and they denied it and lied to me for nearly 2 years. Then he had the cheek to blame me saying I annoyed him. She wanted to be all friendly again but I would never be...
    Bluemoo Bluemoo 21-25, F 1 Response May 11, 2007

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    Not Just Once

    it has happened. i have been in the shittiest relationships and was taken advantage of. i have been cheated on numerous times...times i cant count on both hands. a few months after my first love had cheated on me and we split, one of my best friends got with him and not only did...
    RockYouBebeh RockYouBebeh 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    I was dating this guy

    that I liked and I was really crazy for him. We got really close and our relationship was just getting started and it really felt good. But I had this best friend, someone who I trusted and she kept hugging my boyfriend constantly, like I'd just be standing there and she'd hug...
    AliGeex AliGeex 22-25, F Feb 23

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    I Hope This Brings Some Healing For All of Us Here

    T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in a profound way for the gift of freedom you have given to me. It felt life my world had collapsed when I found out that you had...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2008

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    I had been married for four months before I found out that my husband, whom I have been in a committed relationship for 9 years including a year-long engagement, cheated on me. It...
    krk314 krk314 31-35, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have a lot of internal conflicts. I am constantly blaming myself as to why certain things have happened to me in my life. I have secretly dealt with depression and self harm my...
    ImAWorkInProgress ImAWorkInProgress 16-17, F 18 hrs ago

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    Ive been cheated on more then enough times by several guys. Including the one I chose to stay with after I knew he cheated.
    celenahodgson celenahodgson 16-17, F Jul 8

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    I should just expect it: I've been cheated on every relationship I've been in, I should just expect it to happen. I don't know if it's because i'm nice and they think i'l forgive...
    addictedtoweightlifting addictedtoweightlifting 18-21, M 5 Responses Jul 4

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    I have been secretly dating the guy I was in live with for two years for a week- and 3 weeks ago he left for a trip to Europe. He messaged me on Facebook for 3 days and from then...
    MentoPiano MentoPiano 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    Since i already read a lot of stories in here maybe its time for me to share my story. So i have a secret crush to my girl best friend. We've been friends since we were in...
    stupid26 stupid26 18-21, M Jul 2

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    Idk if I am being cheated yet. He is away with ranger school in the Army right now. He asked me to put his phone in the bottom drawer of his dresser. When I got to his house, I...
    jlhhlj123 jlhhlj123 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    i have been with my husband since i was 15 married now 23 years but together much longer. last year in Feb while laying in bed watching a movie with my husband he was on FB. I...
    jplm420 jplm420 46-50, F 7 Responses Jun 25

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    I am gay and I like to chat with gay friends here. I started to chat with my new friend and had video call without clothes. It us fun that I could request another to do what I want...
    wasurato wasurato 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 26

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    My husband of many years who I have 7 beautiful children with has been have affairS yes capital S with other women...i am completely broken he doesn't want a divorce but wants to...
    sweetmelissa77 sweetmelissa77 36-40, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    My first real love cheated on me and left me for a girl who was 8 years older than him, and plus she left her fiancé to be with him. Oh! And he and one of my "best" guy friends...
    n0ceur n0ceur 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Two days after we got married my husband cheated on me with his ex who left him 6 months before he met me and after we married she came back to him and he cheated on me with her...
    jennny098765 jennny098765 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I think I had 8 boyfriends already and only one that I got pretty serious with. He was not my first bf but it was with him that I thought "ah yes, this must be love". So we got...
    mrmshkh mrmshkh 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    What's wrong with me that I was turned on when I found out he cheated on me?
    ChaseOnTheFly ChaseOnTheFly 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 30

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    Idk if I am being cheated on yet. He is away with ranger school in the army. I had to drop something off at his house yesterday that he told me to put it in the bottom drawer of...
    jlhhlj123 jlhhlj123 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    He cheated on me with the same girl. The first time i just knew he asked her out. I thought he would fix it but he didnt. The second time i finally knew he didnt just ask her out...
    shomal93 shomal93 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's been over 2 years since I found out. Sept will be 2 years that we left everything behind for a new beginning. Some days, I trust him with everything. Some days not so much...
    Rzrbldksss81 Rzrbldksss81 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Here we go again, 3rd time around I get curious whilst bf is working away! I logged into his email and found 2 new dating site profiles, and a lovely chat between himself and a 23...
    wjean71 wjean71 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 10

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    Alright so, Forgiveness - the art in which we "Allow oneself to overlook something someone has done" I've spent weeks, months, years even...talking to people researching, trying to...
    OGPrefix OGPrefix 26-30, M Jul 11

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    I went to study abroad for a few months and I began to have problems with my boyfriend. We eventually went on a break during which he slept with somebody he had been texting for...
    haoshumei haoshumei 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Husband swears his lack of affection toward me has nothing to do with her or my appearance. He says it's all my lack of respect for him. (Although, not sure he has done much to...
    amc0438 amc0438 46-50, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Did it with my best male friend. We were both waaaaasted. He got it in the wrong hole and it hurt for a week, blood and all. Ouchhh! So we are mutually not into each other but...
    amandapanda88 amandapanda88 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    “You land a second strike, this time just on my left cheek. It feels hard already and stings like hell. I imagine the red mark it has left on my behind as I thank you. As the...
    FrenchKissed FrenchKissed 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    15 years old, marks my 4 year journey with acne-- and still ongoing. Not only does it upset me so much that its been 4 years and still nothing has yet to help me with my acne, but...
    nikkimorgs nikkimorgs 13-15, F Jul 1

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    I am a sex addict I can't just be with one woman
    Poplody Poplody 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 6

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    Right now I am so angry! My mates have blamed everything on me and we have had a massive row because I told them to f*** off after they didn't do something. I was mad at the time...
    Ml4566 Ml4566 13-15, M Jul 13

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    I hate my ex boyfriend who couldn't be with me any more because he wasn't attracted to me. I hate him for saying that he wanted to be my forever and watched while I planned our...
    mooflower mooflower 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    It's some **** everyone goes through I guess
    dre07 dre07 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    I hate myself so much I can't believe I'm such an idiot I thought he really liked me but he had no interest in me...I'm broken and torn and crying and I just want to kill myself...
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 9

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    Yessssss. Big time. My brain wants their weapons in my trash. My brain say protect others by attacking. My heart says its a trap. To stay free and heal victims...
    converted converted 46-50, M Jul 11

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    I have dreams about my best friend who completely hates me, at least I think she does. Last night, I kept waking up in the middle of the night after dreams. I had 5 dreams and each...
    basketballislife15 basketballislife15 13-15, F Jul 14

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    So me and my best friend made a trip to NYC for fun for a week and we just got back today. While we were there I managed to meet a really cool girl. We hung out multiple times...
    Sevenup1 Sevenup1 22-25, M Jul 11

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    I used to think that i have a lot of best friends who i can count on. However, i end up having only 1 or no BFF at all... They do not think that i am their best friend. What am I...
    LeakkhenaKL LeakkhenaKL 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    So I am a boy, I met my friend, let's call her.. Katy, four years ago, we have grown to become best friends, we hug, we laugh, we ***** about people bad generally have a good time...
    livelife007 livelife007 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    So the last Friday I was chillin with some friends (boys) and I have this friend that my bf think that he is into me,but we are like bfs and for example he always text me like the...
    lopezcarolina lopezcarolina 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 22

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