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I Have Been Cheated On With My Best Friend

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    Broken Trust

    I have been cheated on with my fake friend...i say fake b/c a real friend would never have done this. This was not the first time this has happened, so you would think I would know what to look for in relationships...but no.  The first time was when I walked in on my...
    cici cici 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    3 Years..And Now..?

    I was with my last girlfriend for 3 years... not such a long time to some people, but I started this relationship my Sophmore year of High School..and it held strong until I had to go off to college.. I loved her unconditionally, and I thought she did too..we were perfect for...
    Taurus056 Taurus056 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 5, 2013

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    Not Just Once

    it has happened. i have been in the shittiest relationships and was taken advantage of. i have been cheated on numerous times...times i cant count on both hands. a few months after my first love had cheated on me and we split, one of my best friends got with him and not only did...
    RockYouBebeh RockYouBebeh 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    My Husband Of 14 Years Has Had An Affair With My Best Friend Who Also Happens To Live Next Door

    my husband of 14years has had a affair with my best friend who also happens to live next door. I knew there was something wrong for ages. yet i still put it down to pressures of work. he put me down at every turn. my confidence fall and i put on a bit of weight. every time I met...
    lynash lynash 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    Cheated On With A Best Friend

    Not for anything and sorry if I hurt anyone but cheating on your best friend man or woman is a low blow.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2011

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    When I was in high school I was dating this guy.

    We were together for about 2 years. I thought things were going really well too. Had had met my parents, my dad even approved of him, which is crazy hard to do. Anyway. He was my first. It was pretty intense. One day he was supposed to meet up with me and my best friend to...
    MuseGrl4 MuseGrl4 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    I Hope This Brings Some Healing For All of Us Here

    T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in a profound way for the gift of freedom you have given to me. It felt life my world had collapsed when I found out that you had...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2008

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    Never In My Life Did I Think This Would Happen To Me

    me and my ex now had been going out for 5 years.i thought she was the one and loved her so much, i would do anything for her. the first time i introduced my ex to my best friend always seemed kind of weird now that i think about it. they got along really really good. but i never...
    niceguysfinishlastt niceguysfinishlastt 22-25 3 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    I was dating this guy

    that I liked and I was really crazy for him. We got really close and our relationship was just getting started and it really felt good. But I had this best friend, someone who I trusted and she kept hugging my boyfriend constantly, like I'd just be standing there and she'd hug...
    AliGeex AliGeex 22-25, F Feb 23, 2014

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    No Trust

    Although it was a few years ago now. I still hurt over this. My boyfriend slept with my then best friend and they denied it and lied to me for nearly 2 years. Then he had the cheek to blame me saying I annoyed him. She wanted to be all friendly again but I would never be...
    Bluemoo Bluemoo 18-21, F 1 Response May 11, 2007

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    Cheater's.

    i use to have this urge to be around you, and to wait up at night for you to knock on my window so we could sneak out, and to laugh when you say things that wasn't even funny. However that all changed when you decided to kiss him, you were my first lover, and he was my best...
    countryloverboy327 countryloverboy327 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 1, 2012

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    I Just Don't Know Anymore

    Hey, I'm sort of new to the website. But I'm 19 years old and I have just been recently found out i have been cheated on. To make it worst it was my best friend. I still love them both dearly but i don't know what to do. They both say that they want me. They don't want each...
    bitch8675309 bitch8675309 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2010

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    My Wife and My Ex

    I have been married now for almost 12 years. My wife had an affair with my "best friend" of over 20 years. The affair lasted just over two months until I found out on Oct 24, 2007 (I call it D-Day). I had suspected something for the entire time, but couldn't prove it and they...
    MrStrype MrStrype 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 17, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I have been cheated on in the past and unfortunately I remember what it felt like to have been betrayed in that way. The problem is when you think you've encountered the person...
    Msprissy Msprissy 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 25

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    I have been cheated on by 3 people (that I know of, it could be more) One was a relationship of 2 years and he had cheated on me for 5-6 months, pretty much had a new girlfriend...
    tastethiss tastethiss 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 25

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    Dear N, I am beyond angry and sad at the hurt and devastation you have caused not only to me and the girls, but dozens of friends and family. I don’t fully understand why you...
    CapricornDad CapricornDad 41-45, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have been married for 18 years to my highschool sweetheart. We have 2 children ages 20 and 14. My husband has cheated on me twice. The first was in 2007 and he wanted to be with...
    kbrown1974 kbrown1974 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 23

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    me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 years have a son together and for those 7 years he has been caught flirting online with multiple girls..you might say then just leave...
    mzlonely01 mzlonely01 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    Have any of you fully Gained your trust back up ? Is it truly worth working out ? I have read where some marriages are stronger after the apocalypse , how fu..ing long does it...
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 25

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    To be hurt and forgive. This is the biggest deepest thing I am being called to. With my stbx cheating wife. Father ....this is the biggest challenge ever. I forgive with my words...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    Its contagious, be careful, I don't know how long I have left to live.... My friend is a brilliant doctor for finding my prognosis and diagnosing me... (:D )
    philex2014 philex2014 13-15, F Apr 18

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    Aftermath of being cheated on. Don't do it. PRAY:Family Court Parent Agreement Today STBX refuses to just sit and work out plan for kids. We are using a Mediatir (Canadien ) she...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 5 Responses Apr 27

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    A couple months after me and my girlfriend started dating, she cheated on me with her ex in which they were groping each other and making out Then, at the Valentine's dance, she...
    newprofile04 newprofile04 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Does it ever get better? I feel pathetic because my wife cheated on me and continues to sleep with him. Up until that happened we were in a happy marriage and had an awesome life...
    dennis85 dennis85 26-30, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I found that person that makes me addicted to his presence. That loves me, and craddles every inch of my being, but he cheated on me. He always noted how grateful he is to have me...
    caarolyn0525 caarolyn0525 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    Okay, so I want to tell my story about the first guys I had real feelings for so please be kind. So in early February I went to a really important leadership conference. It was...
    sarah81199 sarah81199 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    So me ex (which yes cheated on me and lied)I forgave him and got back w him for two weeks but he treated me bad and unappreciative so we broke up bc I finally realized he wasn't...
    gkaren gkaren 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 13

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    My girlfriend cheated on me with a girl so I was just like, how can I compete with that ya'll have fun I guess.
    KelsonTheDragon KelsonTheDragon 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 27

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    We were 4-5 months in the relationship. I was the happiest girl alive because he was my crush for the longest. We were just perfect but than one week (worst week ever) was the...
    blv76 blv76 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I am really confused about what to do. I found out 10 days ago that my husband off over 22 years and with whom I have 2 teenage boys, has been cheating on me with another woman. He...
    madpeg madpeg 41-45, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    My husband pretended to be the good Christian husband for 20 yrs. The devoted husband. It was a well planned lie. He was a cunning cheater. There were many signs but never a...
    trinny61 trinny61 51-55, F 5 Responses Apr 10

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    If you care to read this, comment or anything I would like to thank you, This is my story. I am a man, I turned 19 late December last year and unfortunately also developed strep...
    AlejandroDelux AlejandroDelux 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 10

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    I was 16 at the time and my pig boyfriend was having sex with a 13 year old. i think he was 17. glad he vanished outta my life.
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    When someone cheats, what I found worst wasn't the part of my trust being let down. Or the fact that despite him constantly being worried of me being faithful, he ended up being...
    Featherwings Featherwings 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16

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    One day he will realize he lost a diamond while playing with. Playing with worthless stones..
    RebeccaMontero RebeccaMontero 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 24

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    This is something that's very hard for me. My boyfriend has cheated on me in the past, by flirting & contacting other women on social networks. And we broke up for a few months...
    shesdifferent516 shesdifferent516 18-21, F Apr 25

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    So my girlfriend of eight months told me she had oral with another guy, but she didn't give him anything in return, he did the oral. I am not sure how I should take this. I love...
    james0855 james0855 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I hate cheaters... Like if you're not happy in your current relationship don't just ******* go out and **** with someone else. Like no, break it off with them if you're not happy...
    HazeyHaley HazeyHaley 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My mom and husband slept together:"( I'm in intense therapy. I want to kill myself....but I have 2 adorable children with him....help.
    connie321 connie321 22-25, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    PLEASE help me. I can't do this alone. I met him at the beginning of January 2015. He was perfect, I have never opened up to anyone before and I did with him. I have never...
    justagirl2991 justagirl2991 22-25, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    ​So the other day I had ordered some breast forms because they were significantly on sale. I wasnt sure if they would help or hurt and just be a reminder that I dont have breasts...
    Napeti Napeti 18-21, T 1 Response Apr 10

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    I've forgiven my father who left but now I have to forgive my step-father who seems non-existent in my life and because he seems this way I treat him as such so when he says...
    ChelseaJN ChelseaJN 18-21, F Apr 10

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    my neighbour whos the same age as me bullied me throughout my childhood, we're both 21 now, i see her every now an then, she has a daughter now, it would only bother me worst to...
    apperentlyicanthavemynameagain apperentlyicanthavemynameagain 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11