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I Have Been Cheated On With My Best Friend

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    Cheated On With A Best Friend

    Not for anything and sorry if I hurt anyone but cheating on your best friend man or woman is a low blow.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2011

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    I Just Don't Know Anymore

    Hey, I'm sort of new to the website. But I'm 19 years old and I have just been recently found out i have been cheated on. To make it worst it was my best friend. I still love them both dearly but i don't know what to do. They both say that they want me. They don't want each...
    bitch8675309 bitch8675309 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2010

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    3 Years..And Now..?

    I was with my last girlfriend for 3 years... not such a long time to some people, but I started this relationship my Sophmore year of High School..and it held strong until I had to go off to college.. I loved her unconditionally, and I thought she did too..we were perfect for...
    Taurus056 Taurus056 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 5, 2013

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    Not Just Once

    it has happened. i have been in the shittiest relationships and was taken advantage of. i have been cheated on numerous times...times i cant count on both hands. a few months after my first love had cheated on me and we split, one of my best friends got with him and not only did...
    RockYouBebeh RockYouBebeh 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    My Husband Of 14 Years Has Had An Affair With My Best Friend Who Also Happens To Live Next Door

    my husband of 14years has had a affair with my best friend who also happens to live next door. I knew there was something wrong for ages. yet i still put it down to pressures of work. he put me down at every turn. my confidence fall and i put on a bit of weight. every time I met...
    lynash lynash 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    I Hope This Brings Some Healing For All of Us Here

    T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in a profound way for the gift of freedom you have given to me. It felt life my world had collapsed when I found out that you had...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2008

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    Cheater's.

    i use to have this urge to be around you, and to wait up at night for you to knock on my window so we could sneak out, and to laugh when you say things that wasn't even funny. However that all changed when you decided to kiss him, you were my first lover, and he was my best...
    countryloverboy327 countryloverboy327 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 1, 2012

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    No Trust

    Although it was a few years ago now. I still hurt over this. My boyfriend slept with my then best friend and they denied it and lied to me for nearly 2 years. Then he had the cheek to blame me saying I annoyed him. She wanted to be all friendly again but I would never be...
    Bluemoo Bluemoo 18-21, F 1 Response May 11, 2007

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    My Wife and My Ex

    I have been married now for almost 12 years. My wife had an affair with my "best friend" of over 20 years. The affair lasted just over two months until I found out on Oct 24, 2007 (I call it D-Day). I had suspected something for the entire time, but couldn't prove it and they...
    MrStrype MrStrype 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 17, 2008

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    When I was in high school I was dating this guy.

    We were together for about 2 years. I thought things were going really well too. Had had met my parents, my dad even approved of him, which is crazy hard to do. Anyway. He was my first. It was pretty intense. One day he was supposed to meet up with me and my best friend to...
    MuseGrl4 MuseGrl4 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    I was dating this guy

    that I liked and I was really crazy for him. We got really close and our relationship was just getting started and it really felt good. But I had this best friend, someone who I trusted and she kept hugging my boyfriend constantly, like I'd just be standing there and she'd hug...
    AliGeex AliGeex 22-25, F Feb 23, 2014

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    Never In My Life Did I Think This Would Happen To Me

    me and my ex now had been going out for 5 years.i thought she was the one and loved her so much, i would do anything for her. the first time i introduced my ex to my best friend always seemed kind of weird now that i think about it. they got along really really good. but i never...
    niceguysfinishlastt niceguysfinishlastt 22-25 3 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Broken Trust

    I have been cheated on with my fake friend...i say fake b/c a real friend would never have done this. This was not the first time this has happened, so you would think I would know what to look for in relationships...but no.  The first time was when I walked in on my...
    cici cici 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    I have been intimate with an unhappy married woman...
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    I have been married for 25 years. We have 2 kids together who are adults now. They were tweens when I found out about my wife's infidelity. I think I kept the marriage together for...
    Etdos Etdos 41-45, M 14 Responses May 6

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    Hi there! I met a guy 3 years ago he was great he moved in with me and my 2 kids months later.. I found out he had cheated on me with 4 girls and one of those girls was his ex and...
    Missyk85 Missyk85 26-30 6 Responses May 21

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    this is a long story and i need to get it out. It you don't have patience don't read it... Me and Jo had been friends forever. we met in 9th grade and became friends. He...
    Rose11231 Rose11231 18-21, F a week ago

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    Hi, my dream is to centralise one forum for all people who have been betrayed in this way. Due to the popularity of the "I am not the other woman" I'm suggesting this group. If...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 5 Responses May 6

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    Well...first....i need to explain about US...so you understand completely. This is my first time here so....not sure what to expect. Well...here goes. 2 years ago I met a woman who...
    TheHerothatneedsSaving TheHerothatneedsSaving 16-17, M May 16

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    Does it ever get better? I feel pathetic because my wife cheated on me and continues to sleep with him. Up until that happened we were in a happy marriage and had an awesome life...
    dennis85 dennis85 26-30, M 8 Responses May 4

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    We were 4-5 months in the relationship. I was the happiest girl alive because he was my crush for the longest. We were just perfect but than one week (worst week ever) was the...
    blv76 blv76 16-17, F May 2

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    So what I was talking about before about me being worried out of my mind for his tumor and he ignored my msgs.. He finally responded to me and said that he's not getting surgery...
    gkaren gkaren 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    so my wife lied to me, cheated on me, and after that refrained from all physical contact for three months. now it's a year and a half later and she won't even respect me. doesn't...
    codynv88 codynv88 26-30, M May 18

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    Thank you to all my friends ,for the good advice, the encouraging words, and support....Goodbye to all
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Looking back on my last relationship honestly i cant really believe what happend to me.ever since i was a kid i have watched cases of people who have gone through that but i cant...
    IsmaelAlejandro IsmaelAlejandro 16-17, M 1 Response May 6

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    Hi guys. I'm after some advice. I've suspected my girlfriend of 15 months has been cheating on me for a few months now! My mind has now been made up by the fact that I found some...
    Gutted123 Gutted123 36-40, M 7 Responses May 15

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    So my girlfriend of eight months told me she had oral with another guy, but she didn't give him anything in return, he did the oral. I am not sure how I should take this. I love...
    james0855 james0855 22-25, M 2 Responses May 2

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    I hate cheaters... Like if you're not happy in your current relationship don't just ******* go out and **** with someone else. Like no, break it off with them if you're not happy...
    HazeyHaley HazeyHaley 13-15, F 1 Response May 4

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    My mom and husband slept together:"( I'm in intense therapy. I want to kill myself....but I have 2 adorable children with him....help.
    connie321 connie321 22-25, F 6 Responses May 4

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    PLEASE help me. I can't do this alone. I met him at the beginning of January 2015. He was perfect, I have never opened up to anyone before and I did with him. I have never...
    justagirl2991 justagirl2991 22-25, F 3 Responses May 5

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    Spent mothers day with my two favorite women ,, mom and wife ...another great week !!!
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M May 11

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    I always trust everyone bcoz I think maybe he/she will be sincere like I'm with them but always ended up with lot of pain. ...
    armaan90 armaan90 22-25, M May 17

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    Another great week ! I have read that forgiveness is the highest form of love ,,,do you agree ? Thoughts on this .
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 6 Responses May 18

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    I had a boyfriend who was a serial cheater. I knew he was doing it, but he'd deny it and tell me the other girl was just harrassing him and he wasn't doing anything. I finally went...
    gingerlythis gingerlythis 26-30, F 4 Responses May 18

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    The wrong person poked my chest with his finger. Nuff said
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 2 Responses May 22

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    Hi im a newbie...i have a lot on my mind and it is a complicated story and i need advice...
    2xheartbroke 2xheartbroke 22-25, F 5 Responses May 23

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    He made me feel like i was the one being paranoid when he didnt answer his phone for a week or was hanging out with "her" alot. (I am 15 and he is 18 btw). He would Always tell me...
    mypan1c mypan1c 13-15, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    It was the moment I thought she got me. . . she said "It was like looking in the mirror.' My eyes were beat red, wet tears were mixing with dry tears on my cheeks. My throat was...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13 31-35, F May 16

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    I met my soulmate when I was 18 years old. He truly is the love of my life. He completed me in every way possible. We planned our entire lives together and I could not see myself...
    S615 S615 18-21, F May 10

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    The Whippen of Mass Destruction I hesitate to tell this story. So severe was this punishment, that I fear it will motivate some parent to implement it when they feel they have no...
    phillysteve phillysteve 36-40, M 2 Responses May 17

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    Hi, i am new here, i hope its ok to share this with you. When i was a kid and even a teenager and i screwed up my mum or dad spanked me with a belt. it didnt happen that often...
    Miriam91 Miriam91 22-25, F 14 Responses May 25

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