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I Have Been Cheated On With My Best Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 82 People

    I Hope This Brings Some Healing For All of Us Here

    T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in a profound way for the gift of freedom you have given to me. It felt life my world had collapsed when I found out that you had...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2008

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    Cheater's.

    i use to have this urge to be around you, and to wait up at night for you to knock on my window so we could sneak out, and to laugh when you say things that wasn't even funny. However that all changed when you decided to kiss him, you were my first lover, and he was my best...
    countryloverboy327 countryloverboy327 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 1, 2012

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    My Wife and My Ex

    I have been married now for almost 12 years. My wife had an affair with my "best friend" of over 20 years. The affair lasted just over two months until I found out on Oct 24, 2007 (I call it D-Day). I had suspected something for the entire time, but couldn't prove it...
    MrStrype MrStrype 41-45, M 4 Responses Jan 17, 2008

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    Never In My Life Did I Think This Would Happen To Me

    me and my ex now had been going out for 5 years.i thought she was the one and loved her so much, i would do anything for her. the first time i introduced my ex to my best friend always seemed kind of weird now that i think about it. they got along really really good. but i never...
    niceguysfinishlastt niceguysfinishlastt 22-25 3 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    My Husband Of 14 Years Has Had An Affair With My Best Friend Who Also Happens To Live Next Door

    my husband of 14years has had a affair with my best friend who also happens to live next door. I knew there was something wrong for ages. yet i still put it down to pressures of work. he put me down at every turn. my confidence fall and i put on a bit of weight. every time I met...
    lynash lynash 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    Broken Trust

    I have been cheated on with my fake friend...i say fake b/c a real friend would never have done this. This was not the first time this has happened, so you would think I would know what to look for in relationships...but no.  The first time was when I walked in on my...
    cici cici 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    Not Just Once

    it has happened. i have been in the shittiest relationships and was taken advantage of. i have been cheated on numerous times...times i cant count on both hands. a few months after my first love had cheated on me and we split, one of my best friends got with him and not only did...
    RockYouBebeh RockYouBebeh 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    No Trust

    Although it was a few years ago now. I still hurt over this. My boyfriend slept with my then best friend and they denied it and lied to me for nearly 2 years. Then he had the cheek to blame me saying I annoyed him. She wanted to be all friendly again but I would never be...
    Bluemoo Bluemoo 21-25, F 1 Response May 11, 2007

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    Cheated On With A Best Friend

    Not for anything and sorry if I hurt anyone but cheating on your best friend man or woman is a low blow.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2011

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    3 Years..And Now..?

    I was with my last girlfriend for 3 years... not such a long time to some people, but I started this relationship my Sophmore year of High School..and it held strong until I had to go off to college.. I loved her unconditionally, and I thought she did too..we were perfect for...
    Taurus056 Taurus056 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 5, 2013

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    I Just Don't Know Anymore

    Hey, I'm sort of new to the website. But I'm 19 years old and I have just been recently found out i have been cheated on. To make it worst it was my best friend. I still love them both dearly but i don't know what to do. They both say that they want me. They don't want each...
    bitch8675309 bitch8675309 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2010

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    When I was in high school I was dating this guy.

    We were together for about 2 years. I thought things were going really well too. Had had met my parents, my dad even approved of him, which is crazy hard to do. Anyway. He was my first. It was pretty intense. One day he was supposed to meet up with me and my best friend to...
    MuseGrl4 MuseGrl4 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 23

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    I was dating this guy

    that I liked and I was really crazy for him. We got really close and our relationship was just getting started and it really felt good. But I had this best friend, someone who I trusted and she kept hugging my boyfriend constantly, like I'd just be standing there and she'd hug...
    AliGeex AliGeex 22-25, F Feb 23

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    Related Experiences

    First, I know it's long, but please I need someone to help me. Any advice. Reading these stories bring tears to my eyes. I have been cheated on 3 times by the same guy. He lied...
    ArisDiCicco ArisDiCicco 18-21, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Like most Scandinavians we have a small family yacht and our parents raised us to being able to sail it. It's about thirty metres long, and has a large mast as well as a very...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 7

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    I am almost 40 years old and have been dealing with horrible headaches for 16 years now. I have tried all kinds of doctors, treatments, medications, even various surgeries...
    JunieMarie JunieMarie 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    my husband and i have been best friends for 20 years, in a relationship for 4 yrs and married for 1. I found out he was cheating on me just before we got married and was sending...
    mumofj mumofj 26-30, F 15 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    my wife of five years has cheated on me with nine different guys that I know of three of them were friends of mine and one was my best friend, but I can't bring myself to hurt my...
    george2323 george2323 22-25, M 4 Responses Nov 23

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    Not much to say other than I recently just got cheated on, and I really don't know what to do with myself or the questions I have that no one can really answer. Wrapping my head...
    Panoramicdemon Panoramicdemon 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    But neither my ex-boyfriend nor the girl he cheated with (one of my friends) know
    LittleRed2016 LittleRed2016 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    My first real relationship... He was three years older than me, and made me feel really special. So I let him lie to me. A girl told my friend he had been flirting with her for...
    gwya gwya 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 23

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    I'm sorry, but I have to make this quick. Later, perhaps I shall add more. I have been in a loving relationship of two years. However, it all went downhill. I am writing to you a...
    AFool422 AFool422 16-17 1 Response Nov 25

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    It was just the once for me. It was a charity event in a pub I worked in about 20 years ago - I would have been 24 or 25 at the time. I think it must have been Children in Need. It...
    Sarah667 Sarah667 46-50, F Dec 1

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    I was 6 months pregnant when I found out he was cheating. He accidentally butt dialed me at 4 in the morning when he was with her...I can still remember the pain building up in my...
    cnk2015 cnk2015 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    So my storys a little different. I fell in love with my bestfriend and after 2 years we started dating. We dated for 2years and our relationship was going great, he was the perfect...
    gkelyyy gkelyyy 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    I've been in a relationship with this guy for a while. 2 months ago I got a message from his ex saying that they always kept seeing each other and not just as friends. I confronted...
    MaryLaurenx MaryLaurenx 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 20

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    Well, it'll be a year in January since everything went down. I think I'm finally over it. I don't miss him anymore, I'm not really angry...well maybe I have a little anger left...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    My boyfriend of 3 years just cheated on me with his ex. One of her friends was nice enough to tell me about it( she even had pictures of there conversation ) when I asked him he...
    EverWinter EverWinter 22-25, F 32 Responses Nov 17

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    Not just once, but apparently multiple times. How do you get over this? How can I keep forgiving him when it just gets abused. My marriage is no where close to being perfect, and I...
    Lld84 Lld84 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 4

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    My boyfriend Alan Richert cheated on me more times than I can count. He is addicted to having sex with as many people as possible. And he is accomplishing this goal with great...
    honestyisbest1960 honestyisbest1960 56-60, F Nov 24

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    Found out I was cheated on 12 times in a 6 month relationship :( So glad he's out of my life now.
    Frankiehw Frankiehw 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    Being cheated on hurts like a *****
    feelinghelpless4 feelinghelpless4 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    Is there really moving on after your partner has been unfaithful? I feel like he's moving forward and I'm still struggling, & I don't want to keep bringing it up as we have agreed...
    manders86 manders86 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 4

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    I have, and I am ok with it... what is done is done.... But it made me think differently. Now I wonder what it would be like to see her getting fcd by some random stranger. I...
    Secretname555666 Secretname555666 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 17

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    I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years recently. He was a habitual cheater. I thought I could move past it but I never could trust him and now I feel completely broken. I moved to...
    allibabaa allibabaa 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 18

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    Everyone is in agreement that I deserve so much better and it's true. It's just that sometimes I find myself asking "what if" or "why". With all of that said however, I can't bring...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 28

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    Once again I'm on here. I started a new relationship just 3 months ago. Only to have it end because he has another. I can't get a break~!!!!
    gorda08 gorda08 36-40, F Dec 7

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    He knows that I am leaving..... He told me last night, he could see it in my actions. That he doesn't know what he did that I can't forgive him. I told him flat out my reasons. I...
    Lld84 Lld84 26-30, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    Let me tell you this maybe hyperbole but she is worth it :) I met her and we were kinda forced to know eachother ! Well that was just the start she was shy smart *** and Me crazy...
    ThisIsMeYeah ThisIsMeYeah 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    My parents are super strict, and I still get spanked whenever I'm in trouble. Sometimes it's just with a hand, others it's with a belt or paddle. They know how to spank me pretty...
    emilygirl1 emilygirl1 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 30

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    How do we expect for the person that broke us, to be the one to fix us?
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 18

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    And here I thought it couldn't get any worse....... WOW was I wrong!!! Sooooooooooooo he tells me today that his girlfriend is 4 mnths pregnant. But he's not sure it's his, but...
    Lld84 Lld84 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 5

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    It wasn't her that ruined us...it was you. I loved you unconditionally but you did the ONE thing I can't forgive. Swear I wanna forgive you but I know it will never be the same and...
    gkelyyy gkelyyy 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    I had a question. And probably should not be here but could not find anywhere else my oh told me that the reason he does not like sex is because it's painful. I want him to see a...
    Pippa131 Pippa131 36-40, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I'm 14. If I start HRT now what can I expect?
    Mastivious Mastivious 13-15, M Nov 23

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    I was diagnosed 6 years ago when I was 25. Considering the circumstances I am doing very well. If anyone ever wants someone to talk to, I'm here <3
    danc3rz danc3rz 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    And I feel ya'lls daily pain.
    mentallytortured mentallytortured 18-21, F 5 days ago