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I Have Been Cheated On With My Best Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 90 People

    I Hope This Brings Some Healing For All of Us Here

    T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in a profound way for the gift of freedom you have given to me. It felt life my world had collapsed when I found out that you had...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2008

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    Broken Trust

    I have been cheated on with my fake friend...i say fake b/c a real friend would never have done this. This was not the first time this has happened, so you would think I would know what to look for in relationships...but no.  The first time was when I walked in on my...
    cici cici 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    Cheated On With A Best Friend

    Not for anything and sorry if I hurt anyone but cheating on your best friend man or woman is a low blow.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2011

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    My Husband Of 14 Years Has Had An Affair With My Best Friend Who Also Happens To Live Next Door

    my husband of 14years has had a affair with my best friend who also happens to live next door. I knew there was something wrong for ages. yet i still put it down to pressures of work. he put me down at every turn. my confidence fall and i put on a bit of weight. every time I met...
    lynash lynash 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    I Just Don't Know Anymore

    Hey, I'm sort of new to the website. But I'm 19 years old and I have just been recently found out i have been cheated on. To make it worst it was my best friend. I still love them both dearly but i don't know what to do. They both say that they want me. They don't want each...
    bitch8675309 bitch8675309 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2010

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    My Wife and My Ex

    I have been married now for almost 12 years. My wife had an affair with my "best friend" of over 20 years. The affair lasted just over two months until I found out on Oct 24, 2007 (I call it D-Day). I had suspected something for the entire time, but couldn't prove it and they...
    MrStrype MrStrype 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 17, 2008

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    3 Years..And Now..?

    I was with my last girlfriend for 3 years... not such a long time to some people, but I started this relationship my Sophmore year of High School..and it held strong until I had to go off to college.. I loved her unconditionally, and I thought she did too..we were perfect for...
    Taurus056 Taurus056 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 5, 2013

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    No Trust

    Although it was a few years ago now. I still hurt over this. My boyfriend slept with my then best friend and they denied it and lied to me for nearly 2 years. Then he had the cheek to blame me saying I annoyed him. She wanted to be all friendly again but I would never be...
    Bluemoo Bluemoo 18-21, F 1 Response May 11, 2007

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    When I was in high school I was dating this guy.

    We were together for about 2 years. I thought things were going really well too. Had had met my parents, my dad even approved of him, which is crazy hard to do. Anyway. He was my first. It was pretty intense. One day he was supposed to meet up with me and my best friend to...
    MuseGrl4 MuseGrl4 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    I was dating this guy

    that I liked and I was really crazy for him. We got really close and our relationship was just getting started and it really felt good. But I had this best friend, someone who I trusted and she kept hugging my boyfriend constantly, like I'd just be standing there and she'd hug...
    AliGeex AliGeex 26-30, F Feb 23, 2014

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    Never In My Life Did I Think This Would Happen To Me

    me and my ex now had been going out for 5 years.i thought she was the one and loved her so much, i would do anything for her. the first time i introduced my ex to my best friend always seemed kind of weird now that i think about it. they got along really really good. but i never...
    niceguysfinishlastt niceguysfinishlastt 22-25 3 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Not Just Once

    it has happened. i have been in the shittiest relationships and was taken advantage of. i have been cheated on numerous times...times i cant count on both hands. a few months after my first love had cheated on me and we split, one of my best friends got with him and not only did...
    RockYouBebeh RockYouBebeh 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    Cheater's.

    i use to have this urge to be around you, and to wait up at night for you to knock on my window so we could sneak out, and to laugh when you say things that wasn't even funny. However that all changed when you decided to kiss him, you were my first lover, and he was my best...
    countryloverboy327 countryloverboy327 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 1, 2012

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    My best friend of 3 years from my work started being best friends with the new hostess there when she started working with us about a half a year ago. My best friend and I were so...
    Positivevibes12 Positivevibes12 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    sometimes i wonder what really happened. our moms put us together from the begining. we were best friends. then something changed. it started with our moms. then suddenly i wasnt...
    KittyKat402 KittyKat402 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I thought I had one, but I was wrong. My supposed best friend literally threw me in the trash bin when I told him that his new girlfriend didn't convince me, being too obsessive...
    Viserys91 Viserys91 22-25, M 10 hrs ago

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    To keep this a long story short; I am dating my best friend. I've learned that society has a way of telling people that it isn't worth wild, but I strongly believe otherwise. My...
    apalivoda18 apalivoda18 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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    That frickin HURT! I raised my children without any type of physical abuse...no one deserves to be hit.
    MsInvis MsInvis 46-50, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was never into the whole dating thing, I kind of just rolled with whatever my friends where doing. I've also always had my one true best friend, his position in my little friend...
    Jnatx Jnatx 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    To me, this is the only way it should be, but I have so much trouble making friends due to my social anxiety, let alone a best friend I feel I could ask out. I've never been in a...
    KittySoules KittySoules 22-25, T 2 days ago

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    Losing my best friend is definitely harder to go through than any breakup I've been. We were attached at the hip.. Then she ditched me and found a new best friend. (She pulled the...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover 16-17, F 10 Responses 5 days ago

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    Idk.. But Ill tell you My story. I met her once after school, on the bus. I sat down beside her in the lack of other places to sit. And she apparently were the kinda person that...
    darkspiritwolf darkspiritwolf 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    All my life I've been friends with girls. My best friend is a girl, we're really different but we get along pretty well. But I miss a guy's company. A few years back I were friends...
    lonelyrider11 lonelyrider11 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    This is a true story of what happened to Greg Zaffuto. I have just experienced much the same and do not want this to happen to you, so I am sharing the following. I apologize for...
    Grace2U Grace2U 66-70, F 6 days ago

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    The Switch Was Displayed in Public Sometime, when I reached my early teens, my parents decided to add the willow switch to their arsenal of implements. They felt that whatever the...
    phillysteve phillysteve 36-40, M a week ago

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    So at the end of 2014 I found out that my best friend of 9 years and her bf plotted to use me for my money and my helpfulness. We had always talked about our future and things we...
    aquamoongoddess aquamoongoddess 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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     ... but of course I'd never tell him that. I met Luke junior year of high school. He and my friend Haley went to homecoming together and I was head-over-heels the moment I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses a week ago

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    I hate myself for being the way I am. I am greedy and lustful and karma just hit me in the face. During a drunken night in University I let my best friend's ex stay at my place...
    14052822st 14052822st 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    I found my husband with a woman in my bed
    ditshwanelo ditshwanelo 26-30, F 8 Responses Feb 4

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    I want some advise as my husband cheated on me after our engagement February 2015 and after our marriage September 2015. We are couple from 2005 until 2015 and all in all 10...
    AshleyFaith AshleyFaith 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 4

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    which isn't the reason why I'm still so bitter and angry. It's more because of his betrayal and countless lies. Why doesn't he see that? I told him I KNEW EVERYTHING and gave...
    ImNotTelling33 ImNotTelling33 41-45, F 5 Responses Feb 2

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    I was betrayed by my best friend. She was my first friend in high school and we were best friends with each other. It has been 5 years since we have known each other. However, we...
    sxyylove sxyylove 16-17, F Feb 1

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    I've never actually known a girl that's just been my best friend. I've always just hung out with my guy friends and it was hard to make new friends of any kind because I've been...
    ApparentOrb9045 ApparentOrb9045 18-21, M Feb 1

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    My boyfriend cheated on me and I took him back. Now we live together, and I have caught him in several lies. Because of this I snuck into his phone (that he is so protective of...
    wantac1 wantac1 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 31

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    I miss having someone to text all day into the late hours of the night, call them at random times and talk about something funny that happened, or to talk about anything and...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover 16-17, F Jan 30

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    I think I'm losing my Best friend as a Best Friend. I've known my Best friend since the 6th grade. (Now We're both in 10th grade) and we all go to the same school. But, she met...
    Jgummy123 Jgummy123 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    Everything between us started off perfect. It was too good to be true of course. 1 month into our relationship he cheated on me. I forgave him like an idiot of course. He seemed...
    v1ct0rtilla v1ct0rtilla 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 30

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    Hello!... sooo... i am really looking for a best friend... a little about me - I am 18 years old girl from Latvia ready to end high school this year. I haven't had real best...
    Liiga Liiga 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    There is an active Facebook page for us. Check out Eosinophilic Fasciitis Support Group. Lots of good discussion there.
    LauraOLeary LauraOLeary 56-60, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    Yet again. I haven't been on this site in years. When I look back on it my stories were so.... ugh. But here I am again and yet again, I have a thing for one of my best friends...
    mayabutterfly mayabutterfly 16-17, F Jan 28

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    NEED HELP!! Me & my boyfriend were hanging out with some friends last night. This one guy in our group of friends, John. My bf always accuses me of having a thing for him or...
    Bluee44 Bluee44 16-17, F 10 Responses Jan 27

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