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I Have Been Cheated On With My Best Friend

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    Broken Trust

    I have been cheated on with my fake friend...i say fake b/c a real friend would never have done this. This was not the first time this has happened, so you would think I would know what to look for in relationships...but no.  The first time was when I walked in on my...
    cici cici 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    When I was in high school I was dating this guy.

    We were together for about 2 years. I thought things were going really well too. Had had met my parents, my dad even approved of him, which is crazy hard to do. Anyway. He was my first. It was pretty intense. One day he was supposed to meet up with me and my best friend to...
    MuseGrl4 MuseGrl4 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    Cheater's.

    i use to have this urge to be around you, and to wait up at night for you to knock on my window so we could sneak out, and to laugh when you say things that wasn't even funny. However that all changed when you decided to kiss him, you were my first lover, and he was my best...
    countryloverboy327 countryloverboy327 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 1, 2012

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    Not Just Once

    it has happened. i have been in the shittiest relationships and was taken advantage of. i have been cheated on numerous times...times i cant count on both hands. a few months after my first love had cheated on me and we split, one of my best friends got with him and not only did...
    RockYouBebeh RockYouBebeh 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    I Hope This Brings Some Healing For All of Us Here

    T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in a profound way for the gift of freedom you have given to me. It felt life my world had collapsed when I found out that you had...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2008

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    My Wife and My Ex

    I have been married now for almost 12 years. My wife had an affair with my "best friend" of over 20 years. The affair lasted just over two months until I found out on Oct 24, 2007 (I call it D-Day). I had suspected something for the entire time, but couldn't prove it and they...
    MrStrype MrStrype 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 17, 2008

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    I was dating this guy

    that I liked and I was really crazy for him. We got really close and our relationship was just getting started and it really felt good. But I had this best friend, someone who I trusted and she kept hugging my boyfriend constantly, like I'd just be standing there and she'd hug...
    AliGeex AliGeex 22-25, F Feb 23, 2014

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    My Husband Of 14 Years Has Had An Affair With My Best Friend Who Also Happens To Live Next Door

    my husband of 14years has had a affair with my best friend who also happens to live next door. I knew there was something wrong for ages. yet i still put it down to pressures of work. he put me down at every turn. my confidence fall and i put on a bit of weight. every time I met...
    lynash lynash 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    Cheated On With A Best Friend

    Not for anything and sorry if I hurt anyone but cheating on your best friend man or woman is a low blow.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2011

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    No Trust

    Although it was a few years ago now. I still hurt over this. My boyfriend slept with my then best friend and they denied it and lied to me for nearly 2 years. Then he had the cheek to blame me saying I annoyed him. She wanted to be all friendly again but I would never be...
    Bluemoo Bluemoo 18-21, F 1 Response May 11, 2007

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    3 Years..And Now..?

    I was with my last girlfriend for 3 years... not such a long time to some people, but I started this relationship my Sophmore year of High School..and it held strong until I had to go off to college.. I loved her unconditionally, and I thought she did too..we were perfect for...
    Taurus056 Taurus056 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 5, 2013

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    Never In My Life Did I Think This Would Happen To Me

    me and my ex now had been going out for 5 years.i thought she was the one and loved her so much, i would do anything for her. the first time i introduced my ex to my best friend always seemed kind of weird now that i think about it. they got along really really good. but i never...
    niceguysfinishlastt niceguysfinishlastt 22-25 3 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    I Just Don't Know Anymore

    Hey, I'm sort of new to the website. But I'm 19 years old and I have just been recently found out i have been cheated on. To make it worst it was my best friend. I still love them both dearly but i don't know what to do. They both say that they want me. They don't want each...
    bitch8675309 bitch8675309 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2010

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    My best friend makes me laugh and smile when I want to cry. He has no idea how I feel and how much a little part of me dies when he talks about other men / women. We talk about...
    hopefullove86 hopefullove86 26-30, F 17 mins ago

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    Ugh it literally sucks I have a crush on this cute guy for about 2 years and he always tells me he like my best friend and it really hurts and I now know that they are both dating...
    vidiepie3174 vidiepie3174 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    I thought we were really good friends. I had considered him my best of the best friend. I told him all things about me and there was total transparacy from my side. I though he was...
    knightstar95 knightstar95 18-21, M 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    yeah I have been backstabbed by a friend.. I'd do anything for a person whom I care.. but I cant tolerate when a friend backstabs me.. it sucks when you find out that your best...
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am really tired at the moment, getting frustrated and depressed. I know I should not love him- that's really painful to me. He is my best friend. We can understand each other in...
    wantans wantans 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    my bf hits me with a belt when he's angry
    mk427 mk427 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    And now your just a stranger with all my secrets.
    YourNewObstacle YourNewObstacle 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    There was this girl at my school that I didn't know moved here until the 5th grade talent show. I had signed up thinking "I can do this. This one thing, I can do it." All the kids...
    AnimeFreak4 AnimeFreak4 13-15 4 days ago

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    The school uniform I wore back in the day had belts, albeit called "girdles" because of some kind of archaic quirk. We'd use them as weapons sometime, since they worked very well...
    Gauntlets28 Gauntlets28 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My Idiot Father Just Couldnt Let Me Be!-I eased the side door open and entered the house through the kitchen,then headed towards the front door to leave my shoes, so it would look...
    SoullessEyes SoullessEyes 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have one of the best friends I could ever ask for. Trouble is, we communicate mainly over text message. I think it can be to easy to get the wrong idea or impression and miss...
    rehabparty23 rehabparty23 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have better conversations with my friends parents. The only time I'm able to talk serious about random things with my friends is at like 3 am after playing minecraft and watching...
    Lcy2472 Lcy2472 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I had a best friend for 9 years. It was crazy. We started out in the first grade through freshman year. It's now almost the beginning of sophomore year. I always talked about my...
    alexazevola alexazevola 13-15 6 days ago

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    Is it possible to forgive someone who cheated on you in college? We are both out of school now and he is currently in Bootcamp for the Army and now all of these emotions are...
    kat115nk kat115nk 22-25, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    tessaccaa tessaccaa 26-30, F a week ago

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    Soul mates aren't the ones who make you happiest. No. They're instead the ones who make you "feel" the most. Burning edges and scars and stars! Old pains and pangs. Captivating and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 a week ago

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    Me and my boyfriend were inseparable. We truly were best friends for 4 years. He had a lot going on in his head though. Alot of things nagging at him from his brother and his aunts...
    hungryforchange hungryforchange 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 26

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    I am a lesbian and I like my straight best friend (cliche I know). We have been friends for eight years and if I told her I liked her I know for a fact we'd still be friends, so...
    olk00 olk00 18-21, F Jul 24

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    I think I lost my best friend. we used to do everything together. And in the last week she has disappeared from my life. I only get texts from her saying she's hanging out with...
    Smurfette1 Smurfette1 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    And lied to, had the wool pulled over my eyes, loved an enemy in disguise. Trusted, given, been forsaken and forgiven. But how can you forget? I need to release you and cut ties...
    BreakingBored BreakingBored 41-45, F 8 Responses Jul 22

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    They'd been together since before I'd been with him. He told her he loved her, he told her he missed her. He sent her pictures of a smile I thought only I'd seen, of an...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 22

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    No one underpants just what I've been through
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jul 22

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    9 months ago today I got the call that God took my best friend home. It killed me to go to your casket and see your there. I tried to wake you up I tried my best. It's been so...
    lizaboo lizaboo 16-17, F Jul 22

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    I think I'm in love with my best friend. Let's just call him Bob, So I met Bob in 5th grade, I despised him greatly because he was annoying. So, I basically bullied him. However...
    kng123 kng123 18-21, F Jul 21

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    Ashley Madison peeps are going crazy ....lol some are seeking lawyers...thiz **** is almost funny to watch unfold ....
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Four years has passes by since losing 3 best friends from my own betrayal. It's been a long journey to recovery and I can almost say I am doing a lot better than I used to be. I...
    dailydreamer70 dailydreamer70 22-25, M Jul 21

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    My best friend and I have been friends since we were in grade school and best friends since the start of junior high. We both agree that we're soul mates but in a friend form. We...
    iwishtobeunnamed iwishtobeunnamed 16-17, F Jul 20

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    Today the fate of 37 million cheaters lay in the fate of hackers that threaten to expose all real names and affairs of those members if 2 sites are not shut down ......your...
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 20

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    two best friends actually. one is a guy and the other is a girl, both on EP :) my guy best friend and i have known each other longer than my girl best friend and he's like a little...
    randomgirl42 randomgirl42 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    Alright, so I'll start at the beginning. It was my first year of middle school--sixth grade. I had recently been stabbed in the back by one of my best friends and was devastated by...
    NavyArmadillo NavyArmadillo 13-15, F