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I Have Been Cheated On With My Best Friend

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    Not Just Once

    it has happened. i have been in the shittiest relationships and was taken advantage of. i have been cheated on numerous times...times i cant count on both hands. a few months after my first love had cheated on me and we split, one of my best friends got with him and not only did...
    RockYouBebeh RockYouBebeh 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    My Wife and My Ex

    I have been married now for almost 12 years. My wife had an affair with my "best friend" of over 20 years. The affair lasted just over two months until I found out on Oct 24, 2007 (I call it D-Day). I had suspected something for the entire time, but couldn't prove it...
    MrStrype MrStrype 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 17, 2008

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    No Trust

    Although it was a few years ago now. I still hurt over this. My boyfriend slept with my then best friend and they denied it and lied to me for nearly 2 years. Then he had the cheek to blame me saying I annoyed him. She wanted to be all friendly again but I would never be...
    Bluemoo Bluemoo 21-25, F 1 Response May 11, 2007

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    When I was in high school I was dating this guy.

    We were together for about 2 years. I thought things were going really well too. Had had met my parents, my dad even approved of him, which is crazy hard to do. Anyway. He was my first. It was pretty intense. One day he was supposed to meet up with me and my best friend to...
    MuseGrl4 MuseGrl4 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    Cheater's.

    i use to have this urge to be around you, and to wait up at night for you to knock on my window so we could sneak out, and to laugh when you say things that wasn't even funny. However that all changed when you decided to kiss him, you were my first lover, and he was my best...
    countryloverboy327 countryloverboy327 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 1, 2012

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    Broken Trust

    I have been cheated on with my fake friend...i say fake b/c a real friend would never have done this. This was not the first time this has happened, so you would think I would know what to look for in relationships...but no.  The first time was when I walked in on my...
    cici cici 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    Never In My Life Did I Think This Would Happen To Me

    me and my ex now had been going out for 5 years.i thought she was the one and loved her so much, i would do anything for her. the first time i introduced my ex to my best friend always seemed kind of weird now that i think about it. they got along really really good. but i never...
    niceguysfinishlastt niceguysfinishlastt 22-25 3 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Cheated On With A Best Friend

    Not for anything and sorry if I hurt anyone but cheating on your best friend man or woman is a low blow.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2011

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    3 Years..And Now..?

    I was with my last girlfriend for 3 years... not such a long time to some people, but I started this relationship my Sophmore year of High School..and it held strong until I had to go off to college.. I loved her unconditionally, and I thought she did too..we were perfect for...
    Taurus056 Taurus056 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 5, 2013

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    My Husband Of 14 Years Has Had An Affair With My Best Friend Who Also Happens To Live Next Door

    my husband of 14years has had a affair with my best friend who also happens to live next door. I knew there was something wrong for ages. yet i still put it down to pressures of work. he put me down at every turn. my confidence fall and i put on a bit of weight. every time I met...
    lynash lynash 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    I Hope This Brings Some Healing For All of Us Here

    T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in a profound way for the gift of freedom you have given to me. It felt life my world had collapsed when I found out that you had...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2008

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    I Just Don't Know Anymore

    Hey, I'm sort of new to the website. But I'm 19 years old and I have just been recently found out i have been cheated on. To make it worst it was my best friend. I still love them both dearly but i don't know what to do. They both say that they want me. They don't want each...
    bitch8675309 bitch8675309 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2010

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    I was dating this guy

    that I liked and I was really crazy for him. We got really close and our relationship was just getting started and it really felt good. But I had this best friend, someone who I trusted and she kept hugging my boyfriend constantly, like I'd just be standing there and she'd hug...
    AliGeex AliGeex 22-25, F Feb 23

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    Related Experiences

    I had been married for four months before I found out that my husband, whom I have been in a committed relationship for 9 years including a year-long engagement, cheated on me. It...
    krk314 krk314 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    I have been cheated on. I walked in on my fiancé' and what I thought was my best friend. It was the BEST thing that has ever happened to me! I moved out I found myself, I started...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 26

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    My first normal-ish relationship and he cheated on me.. with my best friend.. my younger sister. We got back together and he cheated on me with some fugly fat chick and she tried...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I have a lot of internal conflicts. I am constantly blaming myself as to why certain things have happened to me in my life. I have secretly dealt with depression and self harm my...
    ImAWorkInProgress ImAWorkInProgress 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    The very first guy that I was with cheated on me.....with my at the time best friend. Guys TRUST your intuition. I knew something was wrong whenever he'd come around us. Anyway...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I'm sharing this with you because I want to know how I can move forward from this. I do love my husband but I feel so betrayed by his actions. And not just him his family and...
    2011dolly40 2011dolly40 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    well that's a lie. i think to be cheated on, you have to have been in a seriousness relationship so I guess it's not even a possibility that I've been cheated on fml
    amyrobbyy amyrobbyy 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    I have been with my bf for 4 yrs. I found out he cheated once just because the other girl found out about me and confronted me about it. They've been going out for 6 mos. He left...
    justmezel justmezel 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    So I have been friends with this girl for over a year and now we are honestly best friends. I haven't been this close to someone ever in my life. We met at work and after a couple...
    cj177 cj177 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 25

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    my life has gone upside down from the day i have saw my wife kissing our neighbour in a park.i dont know why destiny has made me to see it,it would be better if i have not...
    sachinwaitin4u sachinwaitin4u 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 27

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    her boyfriend hates me cuz I gave her advice to break up with him. I used to be best friends with her boyfriend then there was a period of time when they would barely talk and he...
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F Jul 29

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    How do I deal with bad fall outs with my friend? I'm worried about going back to school, she will take my best friend away from me
    ArizaSultan ArizaSultan 13-15, F Jul 31

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    I have fallen out with this one girl and I'm really worried about going back to school because she is going to take my best friend away from me because we are all in the same...
    ArizaSultan ArizaSultan 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    I sort of do life right now I'm certain would be totally different, and more interest than it is now. That, and my life sucks big time as it is I really wouldn't mind having such...
    strivexwulf strivexwulf 18-21, T 3 days ago

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    I'm not sure what to do. My boyfriend and I had been talking for a while before he finally decided to ask me out the other day. Let me tell you a little bit about him. He has had a...
    unluckiestginger unluckiestginger 16-17, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I just had my second child, he was born last week. This pregnancy was specially hard on me, I was in and out of the hospital. I was sick constantly yet, I tried my best to keep my...
    Thinkpink87 Thinkpink87 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I was never one to look through my boyfriend's phone . but when he would sit there and talk about this girl named Allisha all the time that was when I finally snapped . I looked...
    abbyhh25 abbyhh25 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 26

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    Second experience with being cheated on. The guy that I was with at the time disappeared on me out of the blue. He said that he was with family but I found it strange that I didn...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    Well, he's much younger than me and moved to my place since he lives in the countryside and dropped school really early. He works, but for sure I pay all the bills and etc. We've...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I believe my ex cheated on me....
    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    He cheated on me with the same girl. The first time i just knew he asked her out. I thought he would fix it but he didnt. The second time i finally knew he didnt just ask her out...
    shomal93 shomal93 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    My ex of 11 months cheated on me with 15 people , countless times with a few of those people . She's done both but hurt me .... It's hard trying to get over someone your so in love...
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me. He told me all these lies like I love you and I want to be with you when it turns out he has another girlfriend. I suspected it...
    Savone52798 Savone52798 16-17, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    It sucks. I know. He stole all the rent and had sex with a coworker and that coworker gave him HPV and now i have it because i trusted the guy whoi wanted to be with forever. turns...
    coerietheraven coerietheraven 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 1

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    It's been over 2 years since I found out. Sept will be 2 years that we left everything behind for a new beginning. Some days, I trust him with everything. Some days not so much...
    Rzrbldksss81 Rzrbldksss81 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    last weekend I took Phoebe to see Luke. Hilary (Luke's mum) told me that the divorce between Tracey & Andy was due to his adultery, not hers, this didn't come as a surprise! She...
    wjean71 wjean71 41-45, F Jul 31

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    I never really understood the point of cheating, if you're no longer interested in someone, break it off. I dated someone and caught them cheating on me, then she tried to pin it...
    VictorOfKokoro VictorOfKokoro 18-21 Jul 31

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    I think it's just something people go through. You choose what hurt controls you and I say f*** cheaters. If you don't want me, don't be with me. Competition isn't for me
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    We always have these fights sometimes. Some are big and some are small. Since i am usually quiet and not as fun as other people she goes and finds new bestfriends. She still is...
    Yuki2488 Yuki2488 13-15, F Jul 28

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    I barely open up to social media. Last night I open my facebook and see a photo where's my classmate from high school gathering and not invited me. Most of them came. I'm pretty...
    ingintahu ingintahu 18-21, F Aug 4

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    You can find Net hosting organizations that claim they supply “limitless disk House”, but most of the time they don’t. To determine the “legitimate...
    Jude068 Jude068 31-35, M 4 days ago

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    Ive only been hit once but my brothers get the belt all the time. Im bipolar and before we knew I was manic and was freaking out and I threw something at my wall and it made a hole...
    newaccountquinnmac newaccountquinnmac 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Update: Went on a date. I don't really have much words for it but it was quick and it hurt. I was expecting it to be doubled over once and lashed as I stand. That didn't happen. I...
    MissMasque MissMasque 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 1

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    Since I'm a high school teacher and girls volleyball coach. I'm around 9th-12th grade girls almost everyday. School starts in a couple weeks, and I already completed two days of...
    kazeblade kazeblade 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    After 12 years I have reconciled with my first real love, and the father of my oldest child. We both have remarried and had children with other people. We went through a horrible...
    907dreamer 907dreamer 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 9

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