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I Have Been Cheated On With My Best Friend

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    Not Just Once

    it has happened. i have been in the shittiest relationships and was taken advantage of. i have been cheated on numerous times...times i cant count on both hands. a few months after my first love had cheated on me and we split, one of my best friends got with him and not only did...
    RockYouBebeh RockYouBebeh 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    I was dating this guy

    that I liked and I was really crazy for him. We got really close and our relationship was just getting started and it really felt good. But I had this best friend, someone who I trusted and she kept hugging my boyfriend constantly, like I'd just be standing there and she'd hug...
    AliGeex AliGeex 22-25, F Feb 23

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    No Trust

    Although it was a few years ago now. I still hurt over this. My boyfriend slept with my then best friend and they denied it and lied to me for nearly 2 years. Then he had the cheek to blame me saying I annoyed him. She wanted to be all friendly again but I would never be...
    Bluemoo Bluemoo 21-25, F 1 Response May 11, 2007

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    My Husband Of 14 Years Has Had An Affair With My Best Friend Who Also Happens To Live Next Door

    my husband of 14years has had a affair with my best friend who also happens to live next door. I knew there was something wrong for ages. yet i still put it down to pressures of work. he put me down at every turn. my confidence fall and i put on a bit of weight. every time I met...
    lynash lynash 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    Cheated On With A Best Friend

    Not for anything and sorry if I hurt anyone but cheating on your best friend man or woman is a low blow.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2011

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    I Just Don't Know Anymore

    Hey, I'm sort of new to the website. But I'm 19 years old and I have just been recently found out i have been cheated on. To make it worst it was my best friend. I still love them both dearly but i don't know what to do. They both say that they want me. They don't want each...
    bitch8675309 bitch8675309 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2010

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    Cheater's.

    i use to have this urge to be around you, and to wait up at night for you to knock on my window so we could sneak out, and to laugh when you say things that wasn't even funny. However that all changed when you decided to kiss him, you were my first lover, and he was my best...
    countryloverboy327 countryloverboy327 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 1, 2012

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    I Hope This Brings Some Healing For All of Us Here

    T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in a profound way for the gift of freedom you have given to me. It felt life my world had collapsed when I found out that you had...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2008

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    Broken Trust

    I have been cheated on with my fake friend...i say fake b/c a real friend would never have done this. This was not the first time this has happened, so you would think I would know what to look for in relationships...but no.  The first time was when I walked in on my...
    cici cici 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    Never In My Life Did I Think This Would Happen To Me

    me and my ex now had been going out for 5 years.i thought she was the one and loved her so much, i would do anything for her. the first time i introduced my ex to my best friend always seemed kind of weird now that i think about it. they got along really really good. but i never...
    niceguysfinishlastt niceguysfinishlastt 22-25 3 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    3 Years..And Now..?

    I was with my last girlfriend for 3 years... not such a long time to some people, but I started this relationship my Sophmore year of High School..and it held strong until I had to go off to college.. I loved her unconditionally, and I thought she did too..we were perfect for...
    Taurus056 Taurus056 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 5, 2013

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    When I was in high school I was dating this guy.

    We were together for about 2 years. I thought things were going really well too. Had had met my parents, my dad even approved of him, which is crazy hard to do. Anyway. He was my first. It was pretty intense. One day he was supposed to meet up with me and my best friend to...
    MuseGrl4 MuseGrl4 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 23

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    My Wife and My Ex

    I have been married now for almost 12 years. My wife had an affair with my "best friend" of over 20 years. The affair lasted just over two months until I found out on Oct 24, 2007 (I call it D-Day). I had suspected something for the entire time, but couldn't prove it...
    MrStrype MrStrype 41-45, M 4 Responses Jan 17, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I have been cheated on , not just once . And I feel like I've become kind of paranoid :( I can't trust any guys anymore . It's painful to have your heart broken .
    Psychedilc Psychedilc 18-21, F 43 Responses Oct 9

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    My EX cheated on me with my 1st best friend . I forgave him and my best friend and then he cheated on me with my other best friend. That's why have begun to have serious doubts on...
    hulkgirl hulkgirl 18-21 9 Responses Oct 1

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    Married 11 years,been with her for 15, never set eyes on another girl since marriage.I loved her, adored her,never had any problems between us.Just found out that she has been...
    vinnew vinnew 36-40, M 19 Responses Oct 6

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    He proposed to her. He flipping proposed to the woman he cheated on me with and they're now engaged. WHAT? Lol ok ok don't get me wrong I'm glad I'm not with him anymore and know...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 13

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    Before I started dating the girl I'm with now, I had been in a relationship for 5 years with what I had thought to be a great girl. We had what I thought to be a great relationship...
    bluefireball4949 bluefireball4949 31-35, M Oct 6

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    I'm 18 years old and I have just recently found out that my girlfriend of 6 months cheated on me 3 times In the past week. My girl friend is 15 and is known for being flirty. I...
    Bry4n Bry4n 18-21, M 8 Responses Oct 2

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    I've been cheated on :( I've been together with my common law spouse for 15 years. We have 2 amazing kids. A boy who is 12 and a girl who is 11 going on 18! I found out last...
    YOLO73 YOLO73 41-45, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was Seeing my girlfriend for over 3years, she was my first love and I always have her what ever she wanted, she fell out with her family and moved into my house, for 5months we...
    nathanunited94 nathanunited94 18-21, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've been cheated on twice. I think I knew it but I was in such a bad head space that I just let it happen the first time. The second time though I didn't take it and I know I'm in...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 3

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    Who hasn't been caught by the deception of another's selfish acts. I am not a cheater, never have and never would. Its not for the lack of interest either. Many women have asked...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Whenever my "best friend" and I have a conversation it's always about her. If I try to make one about me she won't care about what I say and look bored. How is this a friendship...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    hes cheated at least 3 times once while i was having our child, everytime with someone i thought were friends, and friends knew but didnt tell me. How do you trust again, hes...
    dannielle80 dannielle80 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    its not like i expected to have a serious relationship with him but still .. it doesn't feel nice
    naomizz naomizz 16-17, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Now has anyone ever had a joyful experience being cheated on? Hold on I can't hear you with all the *wailing, crying & shaking, sounds of hearts shattering like a fallen chandelier...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 13

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    He's been cheating on me this whole time. Just got off the phone with girlfriend #2 and we got a plan to get some answers. No longer a military girlfriend.
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 3

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    I'm going through so much . I met a guy on Facebook he chased me for months before I finally gave him the time of day . I wouldn't really talk to him much but one day I finally...
    nicolevi nicolevi 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 8

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    I discovered that my husband had solicited a prostitute from Craigslist. They had exchanged numbers and he had given her a time and date to meet. When I confronted him about it he...
    Ann91708 Ann91708 26-30, F 8 Responses Oct 1

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    Nothing like finding out the person you love,the one you have given your everything to, the one you trusted, who kept your secrets and shame and fears for you, decided that you...
    DizzyGreenEyes DizzyGreenEyes 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 3

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    Well, it was confirmed... Joe was right, and my boyfriend (now ex) did cheat on me with his ex. His girlfriend must've started attending the school after I left for the Summer, so...
    XxxFallenAngelxxX XxxFallenAngelxxX 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 11

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    When ever I let someone in they're always telling me the nxt day tht they had the a gf the whole time we were talking and I don't want to do bc it hurts and now I have trust issues...
    loveandcareabout loveandcareabout 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 15

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    I found my husband talking to a prostitute and arranging a time to meet. Now I am constantly trying to catch him doing it again. I haven't found anything but I just think he has...
    Ann91708 Ann91708 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 17

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    So I was told more about my partner cheating on me turns out he slept with his mistress twice but I have such a hard time believing that anyone have any advice. Thank you
    reinventingyourexit reinventingyourexit 22-25, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I saw a video another man filmed of my wife and him having sex. I am still with her but every second of every day I am consumed with rage, jealousy, and emotional pain.
    antinous601 antinous601 31-35, M 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    This is a follow up to the first story I posted here. Some people asked what happened when I actually got whipped so I thought I would go ahead and explain. We don't always have...
    tardisprincess tardisprincess 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 2

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    I really am a woman, and motherly person at heart, but I am unable to afford the costs for transitioning..... :'( I live in Iowa, and I am on "SSI," So it is extremely how for me...
    DakotaRavenGraves DakotaRavenGraves 18-21, T 1 Response Oct 4

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    My father is a terrible role model. He has other family. Never looked after is. Brought other women to the house. Ask us to call the other women mummy. He only comes home when he...
    hildaq14 hildaq14 22-25, F Oct 6

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    when you cheat on, you hurt the other person, you deeply him/her and make him/her feel an earthquake in him/her soul... and then the aftershocks throb for many months...
    Enjoyyourlife Enjoyyourlife 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 26

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    Oh yes. Mrs Tryagainuk is a fine woman- clever, sexy and very attractive. And also wont to stray. She thinks I believe she has stopped- however iCloud tells me differently...
    tryagainuk tryagainuk 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 30

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    Her name was Savannah beautiful girl but when we were at a party she was kissing a guy i was so pissed :(
    MrCheatedOn MrCheatedOn 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 9

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    Ughhhh. Someone replaced a razor sharp samurai sword for the dagger that was twisted into my heart. Just learned her affair started more than a year and a half ago not four...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Deep deep breath. Stretch. Go. Fifty push ups. 3km run. Hit the weights. Swimming. Rock climbing. Ultimate frisbee. Dodgeball...go .,.work it out. "Year heart will heal faster if...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Some people never say sorry.They hurt me repeatedly and then say I am the one hurting tbem.They refuse to discuss it if I want to.Still I try to forgive for my sake but am not...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    Why did it even happen to me?
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 5

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    I refuse. I accept what has happened but let's be real, I hope we don't end up in the same afterlife . I forgave myself . Why should I forgive you?
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    I would enjoy any conversation about anything .☺
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 16

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