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I Have Been Cheated On With My Best Friend

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    My Husband Of 14 Years Has Had An Affair With My Best Friend Who Also Happens To Live Next Door

    my husband of 14years has had a affair with my best friend who also happens to live next door. I knew there was something wrong for ages. yet i still put it down to pressures of work. he put me down at every turn. my confidence fall and i put on a bit of weight. every time I met...
    lynash lynash 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    I Just Don't Know Anymore

    Hey, I'm sort of new to the website. But I'm 19 years old and I have just been recently found out i have been cheated on. To make it worst it was my best friend. I still love them both dearly but i don't know what to do. They both say that they want me. They don't want each...
    bitch8675309 bitch8675309 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2010

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    No Trust

    Although it was a few years ago now. I still hurt over this. My boyfriend slept with my then best friend and they denied it and lied to me for nearly 2 years. Then he had the cheek to blame me saying I annoyed him. She wanted to be all friendly again but I would never be...
    Bluemoo Bluemoo 18-21, F 1 Response May 11, 2007

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    Cheated On With A Best Friend

    Not for anything and sorry if I hurt anyone but cheating on your best friend man or woman is a low blow.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2011

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    My Wife and My Ex

    I have been married now for almost 12 years. My wife had an affair with my "best friend" of over 20 years. The affair lasted just over two months until I found out on Oct 24, 2007 (I call it D-Day). I had suspected something for the entire time, but couldn't prove it and they...
    MrStrype MrStrype 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 17, 2008

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    Broken Trust

    I have been cheated on with my fake friend...i say fake b/c a real friend would never have done this. This was not the first time this has happened, so you would think I would know what to look for in relationships...but no.  The first time was when I walked in on my...
    cici cici 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    Not Just Once

    it has happened. i have been in the shittiest relationships and was taken advantage of. i have been cheated on numerous times...times i cant count on both hands. a few months after my first love had cheated on me and we split, one of my best friends got with him and not only did...
    RockYouBebeh RockYouBebeh 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    I Hope This Brings Some Healing For All of Us Here

    T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in a profound way for the gift of freedom you have given to me. It felt life my world had collapsed when I found out that you had...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2008

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    Never In My Life Did I Think This Would Happen To Me

    me and my ex now had been going out for 5 years.i thought she was the one and loved her so much, i would do anything for her. the first time i introduced my ex to my best friend always seemed kind of weird now that i think about it. they got along really really good. but i never...
    niceguysfinishlastt niceguysfinishlastt 22-25 3 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    When I was in high school I was dating this guy.

    We were together for about 2 years. I thought things were going really well too. Had had met my parents, my dad even approved of him, which is crazy hard to do. Anyway. He was my first. It was pretty intense. One day he was supposed to meet up with me and my best friend to...
    MuseGrl4 MuseGrl4 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    I was dating this guy

    that I liked and I was really crazy for him. We got really close and our relationship was just getting started and it really felt good. But I had this best friend, someone who I trusted and she kept hugging my boyfriend constantly, like I'd just be standing there and she'd hug...
    AliGeex AliGeex 22-25, F Feb 23, 2014

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    3 Years..And Now..?

    I was with my last girlfriend for 3 years... not such a long time to some people, but I started this relationship my Sophmore year of High School..and it held strong until I had to go off to college.. I loved her unconditionally, and I thought she did too..we were perfect for...
    Taurus056 Taurus056 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 5, 2013

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    Cheater's.

    i use to have this urge to be around you, and to wait up at night for you to knock on my window so we could sneak out, and to laugh when you say things that wasn't even funny. However that all changed when you decided to kiss him, you were my first lover, and he was my best...
    countryloverboy327 countryloverboy327 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 1, 2012

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    Ayers010 Ayers010 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    Just out of a relationship and looking for a new best friend and lover.
    jonnymowat jonnymowat 26-30, M 7 hrs ago

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    Thought I found him... Yet he tried to destroy me and everything I've worked hard upon. I sometimes miss his company, yet I realize that I wasn't his best friend, even if I let him...
    ConsciousExplorer ConsciousExplorer 18-21, M 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Guys i need help:) So im a girl taurus girl and im liking a guy scorpio.I will write all our story so it wilk be a long story but please red it :D So i know this guy who is a...
    Mema255 Mema255 16-17, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    My best friend is female. She and I have been best friends since Kindergarten. Things have never been weird between us. we have always been there for each other. she's dated guys...
    xtremside xtremside 36-40, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Every. Single. God. Damn. Relationship.
    bubblebubba bubblebubba 18-21, F 5 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I have been to a large number of locations for traveling. (mostly vacationing with my family) i have been to: Florida, New York, California, Colorado (asoni), Dubai, Hawaii...
    ricke3 ricke3 18-21, M 3 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I am 22 years old. Until almost a year ago, I had never had a girlfriend. Unfortunately, this relationship only lasted a month, but that was the greatest month in my life. Today...
    charlesrook charlesrook 18-21 1 day ago

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    I wish I knew what he told her about our marriage. I wish I knew why she knew he was married and still slept with him. Even allowed herself to fall in love with him. Did he even...
    kayg4 kayg4 31-35, F 15 Responses 2 days ago

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    Growing up in the mid 60 and 70 the switch was used mostly by my mother. I had to go and pick my own switch and bring it to her. it was always used bare from the waist down , If...
    spanklover spanklover 51-55, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm scared that I have to leave my best friend behind once we go to college. She may be unusual to others but to me, she's like my twin sister. I value her more than my well-being...
    Elmia Elmia 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I really wish I had 3 close friends, so then we will be a group of 4 girls together that are really good friend and we can trust each other with anything and tell each other...
    Babygirl3799 Babygirl3799 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My friend and I became best friends four to five years ago, when we were in primary school. It started when she started going to the same tutorial center as me and we just drifted...
    rosyvision rosyvision 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Think that a switch is very effective when kids need a real severe whipping
    swespank swespank 46-50, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    AND ITS ALL GONE! When I saw my face this morning I made a sound I didn't even know was humanly possible. ....I think I scared my dog....
    bowsandarrows bowsandarrows 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Two years ago I've seen something I shouldn't have seen. Something that shouldn't have happened. I should have known he would be like that. He told me countless times to **** off...
    LBMia LBMia 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I moved on. I'm dating a me guy now who is amazing . I don't get why every time a love song comes up I still think of you though? Why does your face Pop up on some dates? Is it...
    gkaren gkaren 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I feel like I cant go on,I feel like so much is happening and I have no control, I feel like doing bad things I havent done for a few years but I know it will get me no where, I...
    hidingintheshaddows hidingintheshaddows 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    from when I first had my boyfriend till last time I had a boyfriend every single one of my boyfriends have cheated on me so I don't trust that it won't happen again
    susananngoga32 susananngoga32 31-35, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I know my situation is different than most.....that being said have any of you Google the 4 stages of a cheating wife ???? Very disturbing , I chose forgiveness but.....90 % of the...
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Just three months ago, I hit my sister and dad said he had enough of my attitude. He took meoutside and showed me how to cut a switch from our tree. Then he took me to our...
    ashannon18 ashannon18 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    We had been best friends for 5 years when he confessed he has feelings for me.i didn't love him back so i told him that i only think of him as a friend and we can't be more than...
    Hafizamassoud Hafizamassoud 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I thank you for that, girl. You gave me such a great chance to find someone much better and truthful than you. Besides to be honest I've known about it since before, I was just...
    Pain24 Pain24 13-15, F a week ago

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    For some time now, my husband has been playing me as a fool by cheating on me. He has been finally caught when I hired a PI. I received his thorough investigative report three...
    femalemusiclover femalemusiclover 46-50, F 8 Responses Jun 27

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    I had this one really good friend since the very beginning of freshman year in high school (Maia), eventually we got closer and I got to meet her family, she had a sister which was...
    Himmydimmy Himmydimmy 16-17, M Jun 26

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    There was Martinique, Shaynece, Adrianna, Tanisha, My preschool besty who's name I can't remember. My kindergarten besty who's name started with a J. The last time I had a best...
    theprettysideofugly theprettysideofugly 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    YES after years of mental and emotional struggles I have been pinpointed with ASD :( Anyone else have ASD and want to talk about it??????
    mpslickrocks mpslickrocks 51-55 2 Responses Jun 25

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    You ask yourself was any of it true ? Was I the only one who was in this relationship . If you weren't happy why couldn't just just have left ? Why did you have to hurt me for your...
    Coolcatsandcoffee Coolcatsandcoffee 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    I've only had one real relationship in my life. He broke my heart and it took me years to get over it. I still have not given anyone my whole heart since. But... I forgive him...
    KingMarcray37 KingMarcray37 22-25, M Jun 21

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    My husband cheated on me 13 years ago. He apologized and I forgave him. It still hurts. I doubt that he will ever understand why our marriage will never be the same again.