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I Have Been Cheated On With My Best Friend

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    I Just Don't Know Anymore

    Hey, I'm sort of new to the website. But I'm 19 years old and I have just been recently found out i have been cheated on. To make it worst it was my best friend. I still love them both dearly but i don't know what to do. They both say that they want me. They don't want each...
    bitch8675309 bitch8675309 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2010

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    I was dating this guy

    that I liked and I was really crazy for him. We got really close and our relationship was just getting started and it really felt good. But I had this best friend, someone who I trusted and she kept hugging my boyfriend constantly, like I'd just be standing there and she'd hug...
    AliGeex AliGeex 22-25, F Feb 23, 2014

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    When I was in high school I was dating this guy.

    We were together for about 2 years. I thought things were going really well too. Had had met my parents, my dad even approved of him, which is crazy hard to do. Anyway. He was my first. It was pretty intense. One day he was supposed to meet up with me and my best friend to...
    MuseGrl4 MuseGrl4 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    Not Just Once

    it has happened. i have been in the shittiest relationships and was taken advantage of. i have been cheated on numerous times...times i cant count on both hands. a few months after my first love had cheated on me and we split, one of my best friends got with him and not only did...
    RockYouBebeh RockYouBebeh 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    My Husband Of 14 Years Has Had An Affair With My Best Friend Who Also Happens To Live Next Door

    my husband of 14years has had a affair with my best friend who also happens to live next door. I knew there was something wrong for ages. yet i still put it down to pressures of work. he put me down at every turn. my confidence fall and i put on a bit of weight. every time I met...
    lynash lynash 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    I Hope This Brings Some Healing For All of Us Here

    T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in a profound way for the gift of freedom you have given to me. It felt life my world had collapsed when I found out that you had...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2008

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    My Wife and My Ex

    I have been married now for almost 12 years. My wife had an affair with my "best friend" of over 20 years. The affair lasted just over two months until I found out on Oct 24, 2007 (I call it D-Day). I had suspected something for the entire time, but couldn't prove it...
    MrStrype MrStrype 41-45, M 4 Responses Jan 17, 2008

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    Cheated On With A Best Friend

    Not for anything and sorry if I hurt anyone but cheating on your best friend man or woman is a low blow.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2011

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    Never In My Life Did I Think This Would Happen To Me

    me and my ex now had been going out for 5 years.i thought she was the one and loved her so much, i would do anything for her. the first time i introduced my ex to my best friend always seemed kind of weird now that i think about it. they got along really really good. but i never...
    niceguysfinishlastt niceguysfinishlastt 22-25 3 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    3 Years..And Now..?

    I was with my last girlfriend for 3 years... not such a long time to some people, but I started this relationship my Sophmore year of High School..and it held strong until I had to go off to college.. I loved her unconditionally, and I thought she did too..we were perfect for...
    Taurus056 Taurus056 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 5, 2013

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    Broken Trust

    I have been cheated on with my fake friend...i say fake b/c a real friend would never have done this. This was not the first time this has happened, so you would think I would know what to look for in relationships...but no.  The first time was when I walked in on my...
    cici cici 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    No Trust

    Although it was a few years ago now. I still hurt over this. My boyfriend slept with my then best friend and they denied it and lied to me for nearly 2 years. Then he had the cheek to blame me saying I annoyed him. She wanted to be all friendly again but I would never be...
    Bluemoo Bluemoo 21-25, F 1 Response May 11, 2007

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    Cheater's.

    i use to have this urge to be around you, and to wait up at night for you to knock on my window so we could sneak out, and to laugh when you say things that wasn't even funny. However that all changed when you decided to kiss him, you were my first lover, and he was my best...
    countryloverboy327 countryloverboy327 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 1, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I was in a relationship for 3 years and Yea I have been cheated on and lied to about it so I broke up with my boyfriend 4months ago and he tried everyday since then and I just...
    gkaren gkaren 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    All the names in here are changed This guy named Brian and I were dating for about a little more than year. He had a lot of female friends but I didn't really mind because we had...
    2323keka 2323keka 16-17 2 Responses Feb 13

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    well today i found out through his friend that i been cheated on by my boyfriend. i feel very angry, hurt, scared, and unloved. i feel very angry not only at him but i blame myself...
    db174 db174 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 4

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    So I've been cheated on and it sucks but I've come to realize that the negative things ppl do to others is a direct reflection of themselves. not saying I was perfect.
    Shannon87 Shannon87 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 4

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    whats good soul therapy for an angry soul who has been cheated on? I like railing against a God that can take it and listening to Hole. Man I fvckin love love love Courtney Love
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 17

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    Even though its like eating glass when I say his name--the other man---it is of incredible benefit to my children that they have a good time with other man and their mom.They don't...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 17

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    Have been going to counseling for a couple weeks now , am having some issues reconnecting, working on it . Last session (yesterday) exact words . Mr. ....... in our professional...
    jocu123 jocu123 26-30, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    So for a few years now I've been dealing with my manic-depression and it's gotten better and worse through time. I began taking mediciation to help when I was 12 though it didn't...
    13nanna 13nanna 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I've been in a marriage for many years now and found out he cheated on me. Not just a one time thing he had a girlfriend and me his wife. My world feels shattered and I am ready to...
    mkaylaa mkaylaa 26-30, F 19 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    She is gone, long gone now, even from my heart - I only wish her well if I do think of her, which is seldom - perhaps occasionally during prayers. She was the greatest gal in the...
    disappointedindallas disappointedindallas 36-40, M 6 hrs ago

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    She said, "I can't believe you still believe in love". As if I have a choice...
    sixfiveguy sixfiveguy 26-30, M 8 hrs ago

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    One of my very worst relationships, it kept going for 1.5 year total, dont ask me why i kept going back to him because i have no memory of those times, i only know what has...
    EverythingAndAnything EverythingAndAnything 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    2 weeks ago, I found out my husband cheated. I discovered sexual texts on his phone and immediately confronted him. He lied to my face! Even when I showed it to him it took him 30...
    lizziem333 lizziem333 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I honestly did not imagine myself being cheated on for the second with a different guy. The first time around I can feel my confidence level being torn into pieces. This time all...
    kaceeeytl kaceeeytl 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    I knew it from the second it happened, but when the words came out of your mouth it hurt a billion times more. I didn't want to believe it, I just wanted to curl up and die. It's...
    fucksunshine fucksunshine 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 9

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    I am saving a life whenever I go to a gym. I hit the weights instead of hitting him. Clearly I could take his jaw clean off if I clocked him.I am through being angry at myself. I...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 17

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    found out recently that my husband of 25 years had over 25 internet/text/sexting affairs he swears he didn't meet or have sex with any of them how can I believe that it took me...
    mmj50 mmj50 46-50, F 6 Responses Feb 18

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    Like wtf did i ever do? She tells me how great i am and she loves me but i find out she's with another guy at the same time she dates me for three days?! Love is so cruel
    Austin10083 Austin10083 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    I have taken the first step I approached her with my ideas of her an having an affair together lets see how she feels about it...
    cuteinmypantiestoo cuteinmypantiestoo 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 14

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    I got my report card back. dad was super mad and he started spanking me with a belt for each subject that is not perfect
    ohbecca ohbecca 13-15, F Jan 31

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    CDMargaret CDMargaret 22-25, F Feb 18

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    My dad has done a lot to hurt me. No, he did not sexually abuse me nor has he ever beaten me. But, getting drunk enough that I have to take care of him, and staying out so late...
    tRueInSAnItY tRueInSAnItY 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm a high school teacher and coach, so I have deal with girls ages 14-18 every day. I'll have about one or two girls in each class trying to flirt with me. Then when there is...
    coachaxel coachaxel 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    Most infractions of my parents rules would earn an old fashioned padding by my mother - but that's another story. For serious misbehavior, we would merit a good strapping by my...
    whitebirch999 whitebirch999 66-70, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    How can your heart still want someone who caused you so much damage?
    gkaren gkaren 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Guess there is just so many campsites in a fifty mile radius. Damn I don't even want to open the door
    jocu123 jocu123 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 29

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    today I found out that my boyfriend is cheating on me
    IjUstDoNtCare12 IjUstDoNtCare12 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    my skye dolley.albanis
    albanis albanis 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    It's such a struggle when you aren't physically who you are mentally. Most of my problems in life are because of my body. I hate my body. I hate being a male.
    CuriousCD66 CuriousCD66 46-50, T 1 Response Feb 11

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    I don't understand relationships, any kind. So I push everyone away. I am starting today to fight everything that tells me to isolate and to instead bring people closer.
    roaminglostsoul roaminglostsoul 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    I'll take the compliment but not trying to go to jail!
    FuntimesinAZ FuntimesinAZ 41-45, M 3 days ago

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    Fifi, as she liked to be called, got herself mixed up with the wrong guy, and when he wouldn't leave his wife she got depressed. She dropped out of her studies, and returned home...
    Rovigatti Rovigatti 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    Guys are always straight forward and rarely have drama. I have two really great best friends that are guys and wish I had more. They tell you like it is and because we are just...
    sara263 sara263 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    I haven't seen my best friend in forever and I feel like I'll never see her again. Why can't she live closer?
    DeAnnR DeAnnR 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago