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I Have Been Cheated On

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    After being together

    for none years, six married, it's over. I found out she'd been cheating with several guys over the last couple years. Are there any good women left out there?!
    decker5479 decker5479 31-35, M 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Since the first time i dated a guy,

    it will end up with break ups, he cheated on me or they got a job in another country. Like one time i caught my boyfriend ( when he was still mine ) cheating on me, i heard him saying to a girl, " Yeah, my girlfriend is so talkative, i dont even know what she's saying, like 'au...
    annaambrose annaambrose 16-17 1 Response Jan 13

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    I'm seven months pregnant with his child,

    and he swears this will never happen again. It's only been three days since everything was brought out into the open. I guess I'm just wondering if anyone else has tried and succeeded in making a relationship work after someone cheated? How do you even begin to heal? I feel so...
    haleybug1026 haleybug1026 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Guess there is just so many campsites in a

    fifty mile radius. Damn I don't even want to open the door
    jocu123 jocu123 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    He told me yesterday

    that he cheated on me a few days ago. It was at a friend's birthday party and he was drunk. He is genuinely remorseful and sorry that he did it, and he said that it was a conscious decision even though he was drunk, but that he was being stupid and selfish. I'm incredibly hurt...
    SkyeDreams SkyeDreams 22-25, F 28 Responses Jan 10

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    Forgiveness Is Complicated.... 6-17-13

    How can this be? this up and down...this back and forth...this love...this hate...this like and dislike...this need and disdain...my mind is in such turmoil...not a s much as it used to be...but still...in turmoil...even in moments of complete joy and bliss...I still find myself...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    she is just a friend,

    you don't know what you saw, you weren't there when I needed you, she made me feel wanted. ugh I swallowed all of the excuses its amazing I didn't choke
    regalshewolf regalshewolf 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    She cheated in january 2014

    and finally told me a year later. The cheating occured three months into the relationship. The only reason it was brought up was she seen a friend last Friday night that she met in college. Odd, because she went away to a remote school so why is he in her town? When I finally...
    RockinTTS RockinTTS 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 11

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    We had been dating for a year

    and a half, and he cheated on me with a girl who I thought was a close friend.
    LittleRed2016 LittleRed2016 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 19

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    Yes few times it sucks

    when there's more fake heartless people then real
    1nicecharmer 1nicecharmer 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I honestly just got on this site to meet

    different girls just to talk as friends or soemthing I'm tired of this bullshit in this small *** ttown
    eazy8008 eazy8008 18-21, M Jan 13

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    When does the heartache go away?

    It's been a year and 7 months since I found out he destroyed our marriage, and it still hurts.
    Missgwenxo Missgwenxo 46-50, F 31 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    while pregnant, he cheated on me with four

    different women. im a single mother now and im ok with it.
    StillHere84 StillHere84 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    It was while ago now,

    and I've never held it against him. That time wasn't an easy time for him, or for us. Things moved very fast for us, very quickly. We had only just started seeing each other when I got pregnant, and it was quite tough. I had HG, and even when that calmed down,I found...
    TooMuchProsecco TooMuchProsecco 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    Hearts breaking... My girlfriend has been

    cheating on me for the past year, I knew about it the whole time though but until now I was ok with it..but... :'(
    BarelyAdulterated BarelyAdulterated 18-21, F 10 Responses Mar 25, 2014

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    He Doesn't Know

    I was with my ex for a year and a few weeks, it was just a bit after out one year relationship. When I first met him he was charming and romantic, but once he'd gotten me to fall, everything changed and I was trapped. One minute I had so many friends, then he had deleted all...
    MirandaForever MirandaForever 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    My husband cheated on me with my daughter (not

    HIS, relax ,she's an adult).. how the hell do I get past it??
    meadbme meadbme 41-45, F 54 Responses Jan 17

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    Seven years together

    and i still feel alone. I am 26 and have been with same man it seems like forever i have always been faithful even when opportunity's have presented themselves. Unfortunately i cant say the same about the man in my life. I know he's cheated on me once and thought we had gotten...
    tolongalone tolongalone 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 8

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    It has been four days

    now since I left my wife, actually I feel good and feel like a lot of weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I have several hundred ignored calls on my phone and at lest a hundred texts .I haven't answered or read any. Should I ? I do miss things though, I miss the snuggling...
    jocu123 jocu123 26-30, M 7 Responses Jan 16

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    Cheated

    My boyfriend of two years cheated on me for months last year when we were having a long distance relationship. We met abroad and lived together for a year before I had to go back home. Earlier this year I went to visit him for 3 months after being apart for a long time, of...
    untethered90 untethered90 22-25, F 14 Responses May 27, 2013

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    He was my first love.

    My first official and serious relationship. I loved him more than life itself. My whole world, my future and life revolved around him. He was everything. For 2 years, I was happy. Happy and in love. He left for the Army and I wrote him every single day. Stayed faithful, waited...
    SummerOf22 SummerOf22 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 8

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    i hope i will find someone

    who will not cheat me
    berealistic82 berealistic82 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 13

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    minniecc11 minniecc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    It wasn't her that ruined us.

    ..it was you. I loved you unconditionally but you did the ONE thing I can't forgive. Swear I wanna forgive you but I know it will never be the same and you are no longer the person I thought you were. That really sucks bc I fell in love w that person...who doesn't exist.
    gkelyyy gkelyyy 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    Deep deep breath. Stretch.

    Go. Fifty push ups. 3km run. Hit the weights. Swimming. Rock climbing. Ultimate frisbee. Dodgeball...go .,.work it out. "Year heart will heal faster if you work out your anger grief mourning...exercise,..get healthy" I can only work on myself. She has chosen to stab me in the...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    kaye23e kaye23e 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 3, 2014

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    Cheater Of Beauty

    I see her walk down She looks so fine Would you like to stop For dinner sometime? But remember deep Deep in my side That she is just Another lie How about dinner? Table for two I think I'm liking this Me and you But remember deep Deep in my side That she is nothing more Than a...
    BloodRedShadow BloodRedShadow 18-21 5 Responses Jul 16, 2012

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    When I think of her now instead of sorrow I am

    starting to feel this anger & rage...it comes unbidden ...I allow myself a mean growl and then I gotta release it. Went for a run in the snow, which never happens and then hit the qigong like I was an ancient master zenning for the 11th enlightenment. It's taken such a toll on...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 6 Responses Jan 7

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    666LexiBabe666 666LexiBabe666 18-21, F 56 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    If They Want to Go Let Them Enjoy Life

    I know being cheated on is very difficult to deal with, for me it was not the case because my reaction to the girl who cheated on me really fustrated her and made her really pissed, I walked in on her and a guy kissing and touching each other and she tried with the apology thing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 3, 2009

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    Well. Im in a really confusing situation.

    .. Im 25 years old, and gay, and I started dating my 22 year old best friend 3 years ago after he realized he had feelings for me. Everything has been perfect. We have literally never had any argument or fight and we do everything together. Unfortunately, his schooling then...
    ChristopherLorenz ChristopherLorenz 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 12

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    and I'm soooooo glad I found out

    before I wasted the rest of my life on sacrificing for him, providing for him, nurturing him, defending him or loving him. Gettin my groove back and hoping it's not too late for me
    canthinkofanything canthinkofanything 41-45, F 11 Responses Jan 9

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    I Thought I Could Trust Him......

    My husband of 10 years cheated on me. It's been one year and I still can't get over it. I still check his phone, email, work van. I feel like I have completely lost control of my life. It was my neighbor, right under my nose. I was friends with her. So I was betrayed by two...
    dl1120 dl1120 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    Need advice! I apologize

    for the length! So ive been with this guy for over 2 1/2 years, living together for the last year and a half. It was all going pretty fantastic between us, we really do have a unique connection. Anyway, about a year ago i started getting this gut feeling that not all was as it...
    VictoriaD81 VictoriaD81 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 3

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    Cheaters are selfish people.

    He had an affair. I love this excuse, to me this a cheater way out. I think one night stands are misunderstood. They make it seem like you have a one night stand with a stranger, and in most cases it's some you know. The affair is the excuse they use the "fog" as they call it...
    Smilesday Smilesday 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    My Wife Cheated On Me With Multiple Partners

    I just found out my wife has been cheating on me for about 9 months about a day and a half ago. The sad part is I have suspected it for about 9 months as well. Every time I accused her, at least 30 different times, of looking at cheating websites, texting people on her phone...
    BDeth BDeth 31-35, M 70 Responses Apr 29, 2012

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    It was in high school

    so it might not seem as much but this guy I was with was with someone from a different state. I talked to the girl and found out that I was the "other woman." It was sad because he had no remorse and after I broke up with him, he stayed with her and had the nerve to tell me to...
    Dunebug94 Dunebug94 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 18

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    Sam Smith - I'm not the only one.

    Even after all these years, watching this music video was a massive trigger... I nearly bloody broke down! Ha!
    unluckE unluckE 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 20

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    I found out last October ,

    until now I can't get over still and losing all of self esteems , being depressing ... fortunately or not we live in the same area , last mounts I saw he was walking with another woman , I don't know how to explain that moment , over think and totally shed my tears before...
    joosie joosie 22-25 2 Responses Jan 16

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    My Wife Cheated

    Several months ago, I discovered that my wife of 17 years has been having affairs for the better part of our marriage and it has turned my world upside down, caused me unbelievable anguish, and has basically changed me from the inside out. She was everything to me, and I was so...
    MrJedi MrJedi 36-40, M 7 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    It so hard to admit,

    so hard to believe, so hard to grasp. But it happened. I guess you can never put to much trust into the man you married. I'm just so sad, and it hurts and though I forgave him, fought for him. To this day the pain hurts. We let ourselves drift over the years, I guess. But I...
    Smilesday Smilesday 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    My story is detailed in other posts

    but just summing up my last 20months of struggle... Unfortunately I couldn't handle my wife's affair and the fact she had sex with someone else... Special they way it happened! I swear I tried every day to let it go but it is way too much for me to handle and for our own good...
    Letsrockit Letsrockit 36-40, M 5 Responses Jan 14

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    I honestly don't understand

    why people feel the need to stay in a relationship if they cheat. If you're unable to stay faithful to someone, why keep stringing them along? Why not just be single and screw around with whoever you want, without hurting anyone else in the process? It's entirely selfish. It's...
    aintnoangel aintnoangel 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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      I have been with my boyfriend a year

    (every single day) Recently I was ready to move out and he freaked out we were perfect and then all of a sudden we started to fight as I felt he didn't love me... then i accepted the fact we wouldn't be moving in yet but i checked his Facebook and found him for the first time...
    laurenadl laurenadl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    I vow I will never cheat on anyone.

    Especially in marriage. It's vile. You break up with someone THEN move on. I will not love like a liar in deceit, hiding in the shadows. So glad it's over.
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 6 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    gave you 5 years and u cheat

    and treat me like i've done something to u. how could u not care, why are my moments and thoughts consumed by you. I want to move on...
    heartbrokenfem heartbrokenfem 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    I was 6 months pregnant

    when I found out he was cheating. He accidentally butt dialed me at 4 in the morning when he was with her...I can still remember the pain building up in my chest as it slowly dawned on me what it was I heard on the other line. I tried to give us the space to learn from the...
    cnk2015 cnk2015 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    I should have saw the signs sooner but.

    .. you live and learn I guess. After the divorce from a marriage of 10 years I didn't see anyone for 8 years. I took this time to rebuild my life and take care of my mother until she passed away. And lo and behold after all this time the 1st person I met cheated on me. I dated...
    srb76 srb76 36-40, M 9 Responses Jan 15

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    He Turned My World Upside Down

    I trusted you. I took you in when you had no where to go and no job and still at this moment continue to take care of you. While I was at work you brought another into our house and in our bed and denied it until when I heard you and her talking about it I should have not been...
    jnurse1986 jnurse1986 26-30, F 2 Responses May 10, 2013

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    So, 45 years old today,

    I am sitting here alone since my marriage went down the drain this year. No, I am NOT feeling sorry for myself.....just reflecting. My last couple of birthdays, if I knew this is what my life would be like right now, I would have said "You mean, I won't be spending the rest...
    slowsurrender slowsurrender 46-50, F 5 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    my husband and i have been best friends

    for 20 years, in a relationship for 4 yrs and married for 1. I found out he was cheating on me just before we got married and was sending pics of himself to women and so on. I fell pregnant with our baby so i made the decision to stay as i thought i cpuld forgive him. its been...
    mumofj mumofj 26-30, F 16 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    The Wh*re Of Miami

    Its taken me months, but finally im at a point where she isnt constantly on my mind and i