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I Have Been Cheated On

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    Two years ago I've seen something I shouldn't

    have seen. Something that shouldn't have happened. I should have known he would be like that. He told me countless times to **** off, calling me a *****. I was crazy in love with him back then. I was such a fool for loving him and treating him right. The girl he was with, he...
    LBMia LBMia 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Everything is moving along pretty damn good.

    ...haven't had a bad day in a while
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 10

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    My husband pretended to be the good Christian

    husband for 20 yrs. The devoted husband. It was a well planned lie. He was a cunning cheater. There were many signs but never a conviction. He was lazy. Accused me of exhausting him of accusing him of cheating. He even charmed our pastors wife and turned her against me. Everyone...
    trinny61 trinny61 51-55, F 5 Responses Apr 10

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    I saw someone post on this topic

    that they hadn't had a bad day in a while and they things seemed pretty good. I didn't want to clutter up their post with this, but.. How can you tell it's going well? Cheaters don't advertise that they're cheating. What if it all seemed good when they were cheating? How will...
    streetcsi streetcsi 41-45, M 7 Responses Jun 10

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    For some time now, my husband has been playing

    me as a fool by cheating on me. He has been finally caught when I hired a PI. I received his thorough investigative report three days ago. I confronted him with these devastating accusations. He tried to deny them but i pressured him to confess in which he finally did. I...
    femalemusiclover femalemusiclover 46-50, F 8 Responses Jun 27

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    My husband cheated on me with my daughter (not

    HIS, relax ,she's an adult).. how the hell do I get past it??
    meadbme meadbme 41-45, F 47 Responses Jan 17

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    My husband cheated on me,

    with my sister. The full story is on "I know my husband cheated on me with my sister". Anyway I found out through the guilt of my middle sister. I've confronted my husband and he admitted it. He is full of remorse and is desperate for forgiveness and a second chance. I love...
    Itslikecheatingonbeyonce Itslikecheatingonbeyonce 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 4

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    I've been cheated on

    though relationship before they got serious enough and I'm still looking for love
    quit7 quit7 41-45, F Jun 5

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    Cheated

    My boyfriend of two years cheated on me for months last year when we were having a long distance relationship. We met abroad and lived together for a year before I had to go back home. Earlier this year I went to visit him for 3 months after being apart for a long time, of...
    untethered90 untethered90 22-25, F 14 Responses May 27, 2013

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    He made me feel like i was the one being

    paranoid when he didnt answer his phone for a week or was hanging out with "her" alot. (I am 15 and he is 18 btw). He would Always tell me i should dye my hair brown or gain a few Pounds but i never thought he would cheat on me because i wasent "that". So thank you ex boyfriend...
    mypan1c mypan1c 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 2 Responses May 22

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    while pregnant, he cheated on me with four

    different women. im a single mother now and im ok with it.
    StillHere84 StillHere84 31-35, F Jan 9

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    I was cheated on then dumped.

    now he wants me to wait to see if the new relationship works. I just want to move on. advice
    vbrooks1965 vbrooks1965 46-50, F 32 Responses Jun 17

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    I was married for 21 years

    and loved my husband very much. He had an affair with a female associate. She ended up pregnant with his baby. I found out from a girlfriend that he was cheating on me. I confronted him about it. He did not deny it happened. In disgust I immediately threw him out and...
    oldersinglemom oldersinglemom 41-45, F 19 Responses Jun 4

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    armaan90 armaan90 22-25, M May 17

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    This is my story about being cheated on,

    lied to, manipulated and being left to deal with my demons myself. It contains the same elements and characters as any other similar story. But that fact does nothing to help the person going through this terrible terrible pain. This destruction of your self and everything that...
    rachinthewind rachinthewind 26-30, F Jun 16

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    Hi, my dream is to centralise one forum

    for all people who have been betrayed in this way. Due to the popularity of the "I am not the other woman" I'm suggesting this group. If there's one central group for cheating support we can all help eachother and move towards healing. Please "me too" "I am not the other" woman...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 5 Responses May 6

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    I had a boyfriend who was a serial cheater.

    I knew he was doing it, but he'd deny it and tell me the other girl was just harrassing him and he wasn't doing anything. I finally went through his phone (I'm not proud of that, but I needed proof that he couldn't explain away). I confronted him and broke up with him, and he...
    gingerlythis gingerlythis 26-30, F 4 Responses May 18

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    My Wife Cheated On Me With Multiple Partners

    I just found out my wife has been cheating on me for about 9 months about a day and a half ago. The sad part is I have suspected it for about 9 months as well. Every time I accused her, at least 30 different times, of looking at cheating websites, texting people on her phone...
    BDeth BDeth 31-35, M 75 Responses Apr 29, 2012

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    I really don't know Whr to start

    and Whr to end but just because of him I lost everything I hate him I really hate him he is happy in his life but me and my son r struggling like any thing I really don't know what's my mistake is I agreed to my parents word and got married to him but he cheated me very badly...
    deepubm deepubm 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    It wasn't her that ruined us.

    ..it was you. I loved you unconditionally but you did the ONE thing I can't forgive. Swear I wanna forgive you but I know it will never be the same and you are no longer the person I thought you were. That really sucks bc I fell in love w that person...who doesn't exist.
    gkelyyy gkelyyy 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    swaggergirl29 swaggergirl29 18-21, F 10 Responses Jun 14

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    I vow I will never cheat on anyone.

    Especially in marriage. It's vile. You break up with someone THEN move on. I will not love like a liar in deceit, hiding in the shadows. So glad it's over.
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 6 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    my husband and i have been best friends

    for 20 years, in a relationship for 4 yrs and married for 1. I found out he was cheating on me just before we got married and was sending pics of himself to women and so on. I fell pregnant with our baby so i made the decision to stay as i thought i cpuld forgive him. its been...
    mumofj mumofj 26-30, F 13 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    Hi there! I met a guy 3 years ago he was great

    he moved in with me and my 2 kids months later.. I found out he had cheated on me with 4 girls and one of those girls was his ex and he had been sleeping with her ever since we got together!! I threw him out and he moved in with her and ever since he's txt me sent me gifts...
    Missyk85 Missyk85 26-30 6 Responses May 21

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    Forgiveness Is Complicated.... 6-17-13

    How can this be? this up and down...this back and forth...this love...this hate...this like and dislike...this need and disdain...my mind is in such turmoil...not a s much as it used to be...but still...in turmoil...even in moments of complete joy and bliss...I still find myself...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    He Doesn't Know

    I was with my ex for a year and a few weeks, it was just a bit after out one year relationship. When I first met him he was charming and romantic, but once he'd gotten me to fall, everything changed and I was trapped. One minute I had so many friends, then he had deleted all...
    MirandaForever MirandaForever 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    This is not something I usually share,

    because honestly, it isn't the reason we are separated. I always assumed L was the one man who would never ever cheat. Never even crossed my mind to consider it possible. Then a few years ago, he began acting very strangely... his phone was ALWAYS on silent or vibrate, I wasn't...
    TheGoddessB TheGoddessB 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 4

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    I wish I knew what he told her about our

    marriage. I wish I knew why she knew he was married and still slept with him. Even allowed herself to fall in love with him. Did he even love her? Or the idea of being with someone who did not have any children and could give him all the attention he craves? I really wish I...
    kayg4 kayg4 31-35, F 15 Responses 1 day ago

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    so sick of jerks. I am old school

    and belief in forever. I want forever. Not mind games.
    maemae208 maemae208 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 3

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    bubblebubba bubblebubba 18-21, F 4 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    from when I first had my boyfriend till last

    time I had a boyfriend every single one of my boyfriends have cheated on me so I don't trust that it won't happen again
    susananngoga32 susananngoga32 31-35, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I moved on. I'm dating a me guy

    now who is amazing . I don't get why every time a love song comes up I still think of you though? Why does your face Pop up on some dates? Is it because we knew each other for 5 years why can't I just be happy with my new bf and forget about you :( I mean girls usually hate ex's...
    gkaren gkaren 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hi im a newbie...i have a lot on my mind

    and it is a complicated story and i need advice...
    2xheartbroke 2xheartbroke 22-25, F 5 Responses May 23

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    I've been in a marriage

    for many years now and found out he cheated on me. Not just a one time thing he had a girlfriend and me his wife. My world feels shattered and I am ready to go but I do not know why I can't. We have kids and they love him even though he's emotionally unattached with all of us. I...
    mkaylaa mkaylaa 26-30, F 17 Responses Feb 28

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    One day he will realize he lost a diamond

    while playing with. Playing with worthless stones..
    BeautifulDayDream BeautifulDayDream 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 24

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    Thank you to all my friends ,

    for the good advice, the encouraging words, and support....Goodbye to all
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 4 Responses May 27

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    I knew it from the second it happened,

    but when the words came out of your mouth it hurt a billion times more. I didn't want to believe it, I just wanted to curl up and die. It's not that you cheated on me, it's that you had feelings for her and still do. Now I have nightmares about it every night, now I never feel...
    fucksunshine fucksunshine 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 9

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    I thank you for that,

    girl. You gave me such a great chance to find someone much better and truthful than you. Besides to be honest I've known about it since before, I was just waiting for you to tell me and you did.. Thanks and I wish you all the very good luck.
    Pain24 Pain24 13-15, F a week ago

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    When I think of her now instead of sorrow I am

    starting to feel this anger & rage...it comes unbidden ...I allow myself a mean growl and then I gotta release it. Went for a run in the snow, which never happens and then hit the qigong like I was an ancient master zenning for the 11th enlightenment. It's taken such a toll on...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 5 Responses Jan 7

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    Another great week ! I have read

    that forgiveness is the highest form of love ,,,do you agree ? Thoughts on this .
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 6 Responses May 18

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    666LexiBabe666 666LexiBabe666 18-21, F 54 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    In my current relationship

    and the previous relationship. Which completely dumbfounds me. In a relationship I spoil my guys. Cook. Clean. Massage. Very active sex life. And yet....they cheated. So that tells me it's not me. So why? I don't get it.
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 12 Responses Mar 26

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    Cheaters are selfish people.

    He had an affair. I love this excuse, to me this a cheater way out. I think one night stands are misunderstood. They make it seem like you have a one night stand with a stranger, and in most cases it's some you know. The affair is the excuse they use the "fog" as they call it...
    Smilesday Smilesday 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    I have been married for 25 years.

    We have 2 kids together who are adults now. They were tweens when I found out about my wife's infidelity. I think I kept the marriage together for them. Now that they are grown, I feel empty in this marriage. We have what I call an in house separation. We don't share a bedroom...
    Etdos Etdos 41-45, M 13 Responses May 6

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    I went away to visit my brother

    for literally 2 days and in those 2 days my ex boyfriend decided to cheat on me with my ******* cousin. I was number 2 for the longest time always stuck by his side for 2 years even after I left him. We weren't together but it felt like we still were until he left I realized he...
    paty1996 paty1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 17

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