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I Have Been Cheated On

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    Catch up with her today only to hear

    that she's seeing another guy. Thanks for leading me on ******* cow. Pointless relationship that was, didn't do anything wrong apart from study and train.
    Adam352 Adam352 18-21, M 4 Responses Nov 9

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    Deep deep breath. Stretch.

    Go. Fifty push ups. 3km run. Hit the weights. Swimming. Rock climbing. Ultimate frisbee. Dodgeball...go .,.work it out. "Year heart will heal faster if you work out your anger grief mourning...exercise,..get healthy" I can only work on myself. She has chosen to stab me in the...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 19

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    If You Are Being Cheated On: Get real.

    The best predictor of future behavior is relevant past behavior. What do you predict? If your partner has cheated on you repeatedly and now swears he/she will stop, what are the chances that this is true? You can't change what you don't acknowledge. Isn't there a point at which...
    darkenedsoul200 darkenedsoul200 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 8

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    He Doesn't Know

    I was with my ex for a year and a few weeks, it was just a bit after out one year relationship. When I first met him he was charming and romantic, but once he'd gotten me to fall, everything changed and I was trapped. One minute I had so many friends, then he had deleted all...
    MirandaForever MirandaForever 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    kaye23e kaye23e 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 3

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    Well, it was confirmed.

    .. Joe was right, and my boyfriend (now ex) did cheat on me with his ex. His girlfriend must've started attending the school after I left for the Summer, so Chris wouldn't be lonely. I have no idea how many times I've asked him if he was happy, and if there was any girl or doubts...
    XxxFallenAngelxxX XxxFallenAngelxxX 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 11

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    I found my husband talking to a prostitute

    and arranging a time to meet. Now I am constantly trying to catch him doing it again. I haven't found anything but I just think he has gotten better at hiding it. I feel like I am just driving myself crazy but I have to know.
    Ann91708 Ann91708 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 17

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    How did you find out your partner was cheating?

    I suspect but need advice on how to get evidence for myself
    nextstep345 nextstep345 26-30, F 11 Responses Oct 31

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    I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years

    recently. He was a habitual cheater. I thought I could move past it but I never could trust him and now I feel completely broken. I moved to a new city just to get away from him as I love him so much if we were closer we would be together. We still talk a bit and occasionally...
    allibabaa allibabaa 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    My first real relationship.

    .. He was three years older than me, and made me feel really special. So I let him lie to me. A girl told my friend he had been flirting with her for months and when I asked him about it he said that was crazy. He insisted nothing was going on for two months and kept seeing her...
    gwya gwya 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I saw a video another man filmed of my wife

    and him having sex. I am still with her but every second of every day I am consumed with rage, jealousy, and emotional pain.
    antinous601 antinous601 31-35, M 6 Responses Oct 20

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    I Thought I Could Trust Him......

    My husband of 10 years cheated on me. It's been one year and I still can't get over it. I still check his phone, email, work van. I feel like I have completely lost control of my life. It was my neighbor, right under my nose. I was friends with her. So I was betrayed by two...
    dl1120 dl1120 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    666LexiBabe666 666LexiBabe666 18-21, F 47 Responses Sep 3

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    my husband is in love with another woman.

    she happens to work with him at the same institution. She had serious problems in her marriage and kind of ran away to my husband. she fell in love with him easily and so did he. The problem is I knew her before he did since both of us work in the same field. And when he did...
    Da7none Da7none 26-30, F 12 Responses Nov 5

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    Forgiveness Is Complicated.... 6-17-13

    How can this be? this up and down...this back and forth...this love...this hate...this like and dislike...this need and disdain...my mind is in such turmoil...not a s much as it used to be...but still...in turmoil...even in moments of complete joy and bliss...I still find myself...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    Cheaters are selfish people.

    He had an affair. I love this excuse, to me this a cheater way out. I think one night stands are misunderstood. They make it seem like you have a one night stand with a stranger, and in most cases it's some you know. The affair is the excuse they use the "fog" as they call it...
    Smilesday Smilesday 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 15

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    .. we were workmates,

    friends and lovers around 4 years... at first I don't like commitment because of my previous relationship... I was traumatized., I thought i will never be happy again after that.. but he was consistent and showed me that he wants me in my life.. I know that I'm hurting him but I...
    kismet1427 kismet1427 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 12

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    My Wife Cheated On Me With Multiple Partners

    I just found out my wife has been cheating on me for about 9 months about a day and a half ago. The sad part is I have suspected it for about 9 months as well. Every time I accused her, at least 30 different times, of looking at cheating websites, texting people on her phone...
    BDeth BDeth 31-35, M 63 Responses Apr 29, 2012

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    Ughhhh. Someone replaced a razor sharp samurai

    sword for the dagger that was twisted into my heart. Just learned her affair started more than a year and a half ago not four months ago,.. "I wanted to tell you how lonely I was feeling" Well THANKS for using your actions instead of your words. Wow! I never knew my soul...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 19

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    Hearts breaking... My girlfriend has been

    cheating on me for the past year, I knew about it the whole time though but until now I was ok with it..but... :'(
    BarelyAdulterated BarelyAdulterated 18-21, F 10 Responses Mar 25

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    I have, and I am ok with it.

    .. what is done is done.... But it made me think differently. Now I wonder what it would be like to see her getting fcd by some random stranger. I might even join in :-)
    Secretname555666 Secretname555666 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 17

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    I've never cheated on anybody in any of my past

    relationship but somehow that always happened to me 😡
    angieloveee angieloveee 18-21, F 10 Responses Jun 11

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    Recently my husband left me

    and my 11yr old. I've never been so devastating in my life. We was married for 4years and was together for 13yrs. I've never felt so much pain, hurt and betrayal. I'm trying to keep myself busy and it is hard. I'm googling everything possible to understand what's going on. I'm...
    Lostlove16 Lostlove16 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 11

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    I honestly don't understand

    why people feel the need to stay in a relationship if they cheat. If you're unable to stay faithful to someone, why keep stringing them along? Why not just be single and screw around with whoever you want, without hurting anyone else in the process? It's entirely selfish. It's...
    aintnoangel aintnoangel 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 11

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    I have been married to my wife

    for almost 10 years but together for 21 years. Our relationship started when we were both young, 21 and 22 years old. I was immature and ended up having a real bad drug and alcohol problem. We were deeply in love but I was a horrible boyfriend. We ended our relationship...
    crzy4mywife crzy4mywife 36-40 3 Responses Nov 11

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    I'm sorry, but I have to make this quick.

    Later, perhaps I shall add more. I have been in a loving relationship of two years. However, it all went downhill. I am writing to you a broken man. Tonight, as of right now, my lover is Snapchatting and messaging an old ex of hers, and I am almost certain that they are FaceTime...
    AFool422 AFool422 16-17 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Cheated

    My boyfriend of two years cheated on me for months last year when we were having a long distance relationship. We met abroad and lived together for a year before I had to go back home. Earlier this year I went to visit him for 3 months after being apart for a long time, of...
    untethered90 untethered90 22-25, F 14 Responses May 27, 2013

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    Cheater Of Beauty

    I see her walk down She looks so fine Would you like to stop For dinner sometime? But remember deep Deep in my side That she is just Another lie How about dinner? Table for two I think I'm liking this Me and you But remember deep Deep in my side That she is nothing more Than a...
    BloodRedShadow BloodRedShadow 18-21 5 Responses Jul 16, 2012

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    I recently found out my husband of 20 years

    and the father of my four children was having a 5 month long affair. It's the most god awful pain I have ever felt. i do not wish it on anyone. It's been almost a month since I found out and I still cry. We are working it out now and I can honestly tell u that it made me...
    kerey kerey 41-45, F 13 Responses Nov 11

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    So I was told more about my partner cheating on

    me turns out he slept with his mistress twice but I have such a hard time believing that anyone have any advice. Thank you
    reinventingyourexit reinventingyourexit 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 19

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    Bingo!!!! Knew something was going on.

    He's sleeping with a friend (not mine) who has a kid and partner. No proof, just a huge vibe and gut feeling. Is it bad I'm still in shock and not upset yet? Will it hit me? It only occurred to me a few minutes ago 🙊
    nextstep345 nextstep345 26-30, F 14 Responses Nov 2

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    Kryfette Kryfette 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 11

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    I have been cheated on.

    I walked in on my fiancé' and what I thought was my best friend. It was the BEST thing that has ever happened to me! I moved out I found myself, I started a blog, I learned to be one with nature I leaned that I am just perfect being me. I have no interest in dating I know Mr...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 26

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    I've been in a relationship with this guy

    for a while. 2 months ago I got a message from his ex saying that they always kept seeing each other and not just as friends. I confronted him and he was so scared to tell me the truth. I trusted him with my life. I wasn't really the type to look through his phone, but when I...
    MaryLaurenx MaryLaurenx 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    emgal emgal 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 16

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    My Wife Cheated

    Several months ago, I discovered that my wife of 17 years has been having affairs for the better part of our marriage and it has turned my world upside down, caused me unbelievable anguish, and has basically changed me from the inside out. She was everything to me, and I was so...
    MrJedi MrJedi 36-40, M 8 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    Now that's it's been a few days

    since we've broken up I am starting to see what happened from a different perspective. At first I just wanted to forgive and reconcile. Then I was angry and took some of his favorite clothes to throw away. Now I am trying to accept that this is the best thing. We had been dating...
    theresawallis theresawallis 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 4

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    I've been cheated on :( I've been together

    with my common law spouse for 15 years. We have 2 amazing kids. A boy who is 12 and a girl who is 11 going on 18! I found out last year that my husband was cheating on me and I decided to give him a chance because of our kids. It was going great until a few days ago I found...
    YOLO73 YOLO73 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 21

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    To "I am the other man",

    FU you coward. Thanks for your part in destroying my marriage. Yes I made mistakes but have been man enough to change and not hide.
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 2 Responses Sep 6

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    It so hard to admit,

    so hard to believe, so hard to grasp. But it happened. I guess you can never put to much trust into the man you married. I'm just so sad, and it hurts and though I forgave him, fought for him. To this day the pain hurts. We let ourselves drift over the years, I guess. But I...
    Smilesday Smilesday 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 14

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    Selfish lieing cheating men ought to die alone.

    They don't deserve any woman to care about them, look after them, give them any part of themselves. They deserve to live alone and lonely and die alone and have no one even notice they've died.
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 9

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    If They Want to Go Let Them Enjoy Life

    I know being cheated on is very difficult to deal with, for me it was not the case because my reaction to the girl who cheated on me really fustrated her and made her really pissed, I walked in on her and a guy kissing and touching each other and she tried with the apology thing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 3, 2009

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    I have been cheated on.

    I had suspicions that my ex was cheating and I eventually found a secret fb page that she made for all the people who knew she was cheating and there was all stuff on there about the other guy. When I confronted her about it though she turned it back on me making it seem like I...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 10 Responses Nov 1

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    I was with my ex for 10yrs

    and he constantly lied and cheated left me high and dry and then moved in with another woman how you up and do that i wish he would die
    nikka1985 nikka1985 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 9

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    When does the heartache go away?

    It's been a year and 7 months since I found out he destroyed our marriage, and it still hurts.
    Missgwenxo Missgwenxo 41-45, F 31 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    did i hurt? HELL YEAH!

    ....was i broken? SHATTERED!.....did i learn a lesson? LOVE ME FIRST B4 TRYING TO LOVE SOMEONE ELSE.. P.S. REMEMBER YOU WERE BORN ALONE YOU WILL DIE ALONE but IN BETWEEN LIFE & DEATH...LIVE EVERYDAY AS IF IT WERE YOUR LAST....DONT ALLOW ANOTHER TO STEAL YOUR JOY & HAPPINESS my...
    elle2122 elle2122 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    So, 45 years old today,

    I am sitting here alone since my marriage went down the drain this year. No, I am NOT feeling sorry for myself.....just reflecting. My last couple of birthdays, if I knew this is what my life would be like right now, I would have said "You mean, I won't be spending the rest...
    slowsurrender slowsurrender 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    My first normal-ish relationship

    and he cheated on me.. with my best friend.. my younger sister. We got back together and he cheated on me with some fugly fat chick and she tried to rub it in my face turns out, him, her, and my sissy had chlamydia . Karma is a *****(:
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    He Turned My World Upside Down

    I trusted you. I took you in when you had no where to go and no job and still at this moment continue to take care of you. While I was at work you brought another into our house and in our bed and denied it until when I heard you and her talking about it I should have not been...
    jnurse1986 jnurse1986 26-30, F 2 Responses May 10, 2013

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    When I found out my spouse of 18 years cheated

    on me I was devastated. The first thing I felt was a stomach ache. Then I had pain in my neck and shoulders. Had trouble sleeping and lost weight. I saw a doctor who gave me muscle relaxers to help me sleep and relieve the muscle aches. I also saw a divorce attorney and...
    AloneRestless AloneRestless 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 7

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    Who hasn't been caught by the deception of

    another's selfish acts. I am not a cheater, never have and never would. Its not for the lack of interest either. Many women have asked, but I am a one woman guy and love my partner. That's the thing here; love! If you love and respect someone why would you cheat? I don't...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 3 Responses Oct 20

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