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I Have Been Cheated On

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    He Turned My World Upside Down - I trusted you. I took you in when you had no where to go and no job and still at this moment continue to take care of you. While I was at work you...
    jnurse1986 jnurse1986 26-30, F 1 Response May 10, 2013

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    I have been with my husband for 10 years. 9 Married. And ever since I've been with him i have been madly in love with him never falling out. I have done everything for that man...
    Rindylee85 Rindylee85 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 26

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    Two of my ex's cheated on me, why? Idk... I guess that's my luck with relationships..
    frozenteer frozenteer 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 10

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    I have been cheated on many times I'm sure. The first and most memorable was my first love. Cheated on me 3x and that 3rd time I cheated on him and boy did that feel good. He...
    GreekGoddesz GreekGoddesz 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    So my Husband and I have been together for 15 years and married for 13 next month. Yes maybe we did get married too young but we were happy and in love and well up until last...
    AnonyMuse8 AnonyMuse8 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 13

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    I dated this woman for about six months, she was great and said all the right words and knew all the catchy phrases. What ever i wanted if she could get it or do it she would. I...
    Hopeless50000 Hopeless50000 26-30 2 Responses Mar 3

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    It's time to say good-bye. I absolutely love EP and all that it has given me. My whole life, my whole being has been forever changed by my husband's affair. I have a really...
    Selfhelpme Selfhelpme 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 22

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    I will write about this. I actually kind of want to have at least one story for each experience I've got listed, but I doubt I will ever manage all of that. I will preface the...
    Lgl700 Lgl700 51-55, M 1 day ago

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    Usually it's the guy that cheats but it's the girl in this story. I dates this girl for 2 years and we were gunna get married and the day before I was going to propose I found out...
    sexy23guy sexy23guy 22-25, M 4 Responses Mar 3

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    So many times... I just don't get it.
    kaye23e kaye23e 22-25, F 10 Responses Mar 3

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    What Is The Best Way To Heal A Broken Heart? - Hmmmmm...I have been pondering that thought for a long time...how can I mend my broken heart...maybe replace one love with another...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    Multiple times and apart of me wishes I could do to them what they always do to me but it is strongly out of my character. I am the type of person that puts all of my attention...
    NeeverForget NeeverForget 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Hearts breaking... My girlfriend has been cheating on me for the past year, I knew about it the whole time though but until now I was ok with it..but... :'(
    BarelyAdulterated BarelyAdulterated 18-21, F 12 Responses Mar 25

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    i have been cheated for three times now my life is hell ..... i just feel to die all time :(
    vinutav vinutav 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    I Thought I Could Trust Him...... - My husband of 10 years cheated on me. It's been one year and I still can't get over it. I still check his phone, email, work van. I feel like...
    dl1120 dl1120 31-35, F 9 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    The Wh*re Of Miami - Its taken me months, but finally im at a point where she isnt constantly on my mind and influencing my day. She's still in my dreams, and i can do nothing...
    DiesSomnium DiesSomnium 31-35 1 Response Apr 13, 2013

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    I've been cheated on by my boyfriend they were signs there and I kept asking him to tell me the truth because if not the truth will come out, well it did I was hurt cuss him out...
    cara12345 cara12345 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    Just Sharing On Today 04-15-13 - "An apology is the super-glue of life. It can repair just about anything." --Lynn Johnston Wow...is all I can say today...I am totally exhausted...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 15, 2013

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    I Still Have My Moments - The last couple of days have been a "mental struggle" for me. Though things have been wonderful between my husband and I, I have still had to contend...
    Selfhelpme Selfhelpme 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 18, 2013

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    did i hurt? HELL YEAH!....was i broken? SHATTERED!.....did i learn a lesson? LOVE ME FIRST B4 TRYING TO LOVE SOMEONE ELSE.. P.S. REMEMBER YOU WERE BORN ALONE YOU WILL DIE ALONE...
    elle2122 elle2122 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    My Journey Begins. - RECONCILIATION: to be in accord; to restore; to bring into agreement or harmony; to reestablish a close relationship. Yes, I am in the throes of...
    Selfhelpme Selfhelpme 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 14, 2013

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    I wanted to share a couple of excerpts from the book "Getting Past the Affair- A Program To Help You Cope, Heal and Move On---Together or Apart" by Douglas K. Snyder, PhD, Donald...
    Selfhelpme Selfhelpme 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I need some advice. I've been married for 15 years and have 3 wonderful kids. We've been going through a rough patch for a year or so. Seemed like she was always angry at me and...
    lifeinhell27 lifeinhell27 46-50, M 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    When i got pregnant, i was having a hard time in dealing with being pregnant, im Bi polar type II and there are no resources where i live to have extra support for such things, now...
    XMadXMadisonX XMadXMadisonX 22-25, F Feb 18

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    "Some lessons are best learned through pain. Sometimes, our vision clears only after our eyes are washed with tears. Sometimes, we have to be broken so we can be whole again...
    Selfhelpme Selfhelpme 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    If They Want to Go Let Them Enjoy Life - I know being cheated on is very difficult to deal with, for me it was not the case because my reaction to the girl who cheated on me really...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 3, 2009

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    My first boyfriend, a guy named Jeremy, cheated on me with a girl from work after being together for a year and two months. I had always had trust issues due to a combination of...
    ZombiesAndMusic ZombiesAndMusic 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 1

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    My first boyfriend cheated on me with several of his ex girlfriends. I was 17 when I got with him and he was 18. He was somewhat of a player before me so I probably should've known...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    What Makes Being Cheating On A Whole Lot Worse? - When they cheat on you with someone who is a whole lot more attractive than you! Not only do you feel worthless but you feel that...
    FadedSilhouette FadedSilhouette 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    I Dont Understand "Open" Relationships - I see people who cheat on their spouse. I see people who hide it and others who do it openly with full support and sometimes a spouse who...
    xFrostyx xFrostyx 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 15, 2009

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    Here it is 2014, and I am actually happier than I have ever been. I still have my moments with my husband. I still ruminate sometimes. I still get angry sometimes. Yet, I am still...
    Selfhelpme Selfhelpme 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    I was married for 28 years. I found out my husband was cheating on me when we had been married 17 years. I put him out because he left home on day before dinner to meet his lady...
    trainer411 trainer411 51-55, F 3 Responses Feb 11

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    Cheater Of Beauty - I see her walk down She looks so fine Would you like to stop For dinner sometime? But remember deep Deep in my side That she is just Another lie How about...
    BloodRedShadow BloodRedShadow 18-21 5 Responses Jul 16, 2012

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    My Ex (a.k.a The Bastard) And His Best (female) Friend (a.k.a. The *****)...... - I really do not understand why society accepts these three's a crowd type relationships. Whatever...
    M3rmaid M3rmaid 26-30, F 18 Responses Oct 11, 2012

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    Forgiveness Is Complicated.... 6-17-13 - How can this be? this up and down...this back and forth...this love...this hate...this like and dislike...this need and disdain...my mind...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 17, 2013

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    It didn't bother me at all, if anything, I felt sorry for the guy! Not because she was ugly, because she wasn't, she was very beautiful. But, I now realise how little morals she...
    Ryanholmes20375 Ryanholmes20375 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I Was Cheated On While I Was Pregnant...awful - I was about five months pregnant with my daughter and I invited my friend Kim over to a barbecue at our house.You see Kim and I are...
    maivelz maivelz 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 6, 2012

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    Cheated - My boyfriend of two years cheated on me for months last year when we were having a long distance relationship. We met abroad and lived together for a year before I had to...
    untethered90 untethered90 22-25, F 15 Responses May 27, 2013

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    He Doesn't Know - I was with my ex for a year and a few weeks, it was just a bit after out one year relationship. When I first met him he was charming and romantic, but once he'd...
    MirandaForever MirandaForever 18-21, F 12 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    I was dating a girl that I have been friends with and known since elementary school. We even went to the same college. We didn't date until the end of last year and it was great...
    Brennancr Brennancr 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    Almost 3 years later and the pain is still there. A conversation last night about a meeting up with an ex brought out the ocean of hurt in me. Now she wants me to "take...
    gatorgirl1205 gatorgirl1205 26-30, F Mar 27

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    So, 45 years old today, I am sitting here alone since my marriage went down the drain this year. No, I am NOT feeling sorry for myself.....just reflecting. My last couple of...
    slowsurrender slowsurrender 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    Is This My Life? - I just had a moment. I am new to this site, I've only been on for a few days. But, I can't believe I am actually here. I needed an outlet for my feelings, and...
    dl1120 dl1120 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 15, 2013

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    She Had The Same Name As Me - I've been cheated on only once (from what I know of...) His name was Ivan. He was a Mexicano with great looks and charm. He would speak to me in...
    Maia000 Maia000 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 28, 2012

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    The Word 'Cheater' - Here is a quote I found that really moved me: “livid, adj. **** You for cheating on me. **** you for reducing it to the word cheating. As if this were a...
    slowsurrender slowsurrender 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    Still struggling everyday. I did a little digging today & found that some of the things I asked him to back off of, like saving pics of other women (strangers from social media...
    tessa70 tessa70 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 1

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    My Wife Cheated On Me With Multiple Partners - I just found out my wife has been cheating on me for about 9 months about a day and a half ago. The sad part is I have suspected it...
    BDeth BDeth 31-35, M 56 Responses Apr 29, 2012

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    My ex boyfriend of 6 years who I thought I would be with forever cheated on me. I would much rather have just gone our separate ways. I feel like I was too young to get married in...
    brittd90 brittd90 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 14

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    Right now I'm lucky to be in a healthy trust worthy relationship. But alll absolutely all my past boyfriends cheated on me. It's funny because it only took them less than a month...
    pinkblueberry2 pinkblueberry2 18-21, F Mar 5

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    And it is one of the worst feelings in the world, especially if you really care for that person. You have to learn to forgive that person and move on because if not, it can eat you...
    KingLlnk KingLlnk 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 12

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    My husband had an affair with another woman...I have fantasies about having sex with her myself. I'm curious as to why her...anyone else have those thoughts?
    justmeasme justmeasme 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 21

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