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I Have Been Cheated On

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    when you cheat on, you hurt the other person,

    you deeply him/her and make him/her feel an earthquake in him/her soul... and then the aftershocks throb for many months...
    Enjoyyourlife Enjoyyourlife 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 26

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    Its been over a year

    since I found out my ex had been cheating on me and its been almost a year since I last heard from him at all. I have to start by saying I miss him every day. Jeff Cordell Ulmer cheated on me, we fought a lot, said some hateful **** to each other and he abandoned both our...
    harlow8776 harlow8776 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    Husband had a texting relationship.

    . I may already posted this, but new to site and can't find my post (if I did)
    movingalong movingalong 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    Yep sadly ALL my girlfriends cheated on me!

    Why? Phew still not 100% sure about that, mostly they said that people cant fall in love with me. Strange cuz after weeks or months they message me, telling me how much they miss me... Cant chicks realize earlier that I'm actually a nice guy? :/
    ChipmunkTV ChipmunkTV 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    Forgiveness Is Complicated.... 6-17-13

    How can this be? this up and down...this back and forth...this love...this hate...this like and dislike...this need and disdain...my mind is in such turmoil...not a s much as it used to be...but still...in turmoil...even in moments of complete joy and bliss...I still find myself...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    When does the heartache go away?

    It's been a year and 7 months since I found out he destroyed our marriage, and it still hurts.
    Missgwenxo Missgwenxo 41-45, F 32 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    abbybryan abbybryan 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 26

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    I saw a video another man filmed of my wife

    and him having sex. I am still with her but every second of every day I am consumed with rage, jealousy, and emotional pain.
    antinous601 antinous601 31-35, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Everyone I have ever been with has cheated.

    . But you can't let it define your life.
    Jodyann1 Jodyann1 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 22

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    I have been cheated on more times

    than I can count, I feel that person wasn't meant to be mine if he cheated on me in the first place. Yes it hurts but you know there is someone else out there who is meant to be yours. So my suggestion is too wait until the right one cones along. If a person has to cheat then...
    denaellis575 denaellis575 46-50, F 8 Responses Sep 24

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    What Is The Best Way To Heal A Broken Heart?

    Hmmmmm...I have been pondering that thought for a long time...how can I mend my broken heart...maybe replace one love with another...concentrate on other things and other people...pray...pray ...pray......evade ...evade...evade....Well my cousin told me a quote...."The best way...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    Married 11 years,been with her

    for 15, never set eyes on another girl since marriage.I loved her, adored her,never had any problems between us.Just found out that she has been cheating on me for the last 2 years with a mutual friend.Faced the situation the best I could without losing sanity and didnt say a...
    vinnew vinnew 36-40, M 20 Responses Oct 6

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    kaye23e kaye23e 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 3

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    Hearts breaking... My girlfriend has been

    cheating on me for the past year, I knew about it the whole time though but until now I was ok with it..but... :'(
    BarelyAdulterated BarelyAdulterated 18-21, F 10 Responses Mar 25

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    The Tangeld Webs We Weave...

    Originally Posted February 25th, 2010 at 1:02PM OK so it all started back in November of 2009 when a good friend family friend and his wife were in need of some help. The husband (we will call him MW and her Lucy) was about to get laid off and they needed help with a babysitter...
    LifeChangingLove LifeChangingLove 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 25, 2013

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    Who hasn't been caught by the deception of

    another's selfish acts. I am not a cheater, never have and never would. Its not for the lack of interest either. Many women have asked, but I am a one woman guy and love my partner. That's the thing here; love! If you love and respect someone why would you cheat? I don't...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    So, 45 years old today,

    I am sitting here alone since my marriage went down the drain this year. No, I am NOT feeling sorry for myself.....just reflecting. My last couple of birthdays, if I knew this is what my life would be like right now, I would have said "You mean, I won't be spending the rest...
    slowsurrender slowsurrender 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    Deep deep breath. Stretch.

    Go. Fifty push ups. 3km run. Hit the weights. Swimming. Rock climbing. Ultimate frisbee. Dodgeball...go .,.work it out. "Year heart will heal faster if you work out your anger grief mourning...exercise,..get healthy" I can only work on myself. She has chosen to stab me in the...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    My husband cheated on me online.

    He never met the woman but many of their conversations were very heart felt and emotional. He even asked her to marry him twice. (he claims he was joking around). I trusted him fully, we have been married for 25 years and have 2 older children. He created a completely fake...
    hasinalady hasinalady 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    Nothing like finding out the person you love,

    the one you have given your everything to, the one you trusted, who kept your secrets and shame and fears for you, decided that you weren't enough for them. It hurts. A lot.
    DizzyGreenEyes DizzyGreenEyes 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 3

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    I've been cheated on by my partner of 6 years.

    To make things worse were married, have a child together, and I'm the bread winner. I would think my spouse would at least be nice but I'm told everyday jokingly that I'm cheating I'd never cheat but I'm beyond upset about the constant accusations.. To make things worse I'm...
    reinventingyourexit reinventingyourexit 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 24

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    Cheaters are selfish people.

    He had an affair. I love this excuse, to me this a cheater way out. I think one night stands are misunderstood. They make it seem like you have a one night stand with a stranger, and in most cases it's some you know. The affair is the excuse they use the "fog" as they call it...
    Smilesday Smilesday 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 15

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    Literally ALL my girlfriends cheated on me.

    Thats basically why I became bisexual... I do love women but I dont trust them anymore. All girls lied to me and I dont even no why! If I'm ugly... Well dont date me then but they did! Sometimes I really dont understand their logic!
    ChipmunkTV ChipmunkTV 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 10

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    She Had The Same Name As Me

    I've been cheated on only once (from what I know of...) His name was Ivan. He was a Mexicano with great looks and charm. He would speak to me in Spanish and my heart would melt, I would speak to him in Russian and I thought his heart melted too, but I was wrong, his **** just...
    Maia000 Maia000 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 28, 2012

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    He Turned My World Upside Down

    I trusted you. I took you in when you had no where to go and no job and still at this moment continue to take care of you. While I was at work you brought another into our house and in our bed and denied it until when I heard you and her talking about it I should have not been...
    jnurse1986 jnurse1986 26-30, F 2 Responses May 10, 2013

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    Ughhhh. Someone replaced a razor sharp samurai

    sword for the dagger that was twisted into my heart. Just learned her affair started more than a year and a half ago not four months ago,.. "I wanted to tell you how lonely I was feeling" Well THANKS for using your actions instead of your words. Wow! I never knew my soul...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    My Wife Cheated On Me With Multiple Partners

    I just found out my wife has been cheating on me for about 9 months about a day and a half ago. The sad part is I have suspected it for about 9 months as well. Every time I accused her, at least 30 different times, of looking at cheating websites, texting people on her phone...
    BDeth BDeth 31-35, M 61 Responses Apr 29, 2012

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    My first normal-ish relationship

    and he cheated on me.. with my best friend.. my younger sister. We got back together and he cheated on me with some fugly fat chick and she tried to rub it in my face turns out, him, her, and my sissy had chlamydia . Karma is a *****(:
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Cheated

    My boyfriend of two years cheated on me for months last year when we were having a long distance relationship. We met abroad and lived together for a year before I had to go back home. Earlier this year I went to visit him for 3 months after being apart for a long time, of...
    untethered90 untethered90 22-25, F 14 Responses May 27, 2013

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    My Last Relationship

    I was going through a really tough time running my business. I was losing money left and right and I couldn't do anything to salvage it in time. I was in a severe depression, but I was doing the best I could to not bring it down like it did.I was eating Chipotle one day when an...
    djdoughboy djdoughboy 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    To "I am the other man",

    FU you coward. Thanks for your part in destroying my marriage. Yes I made mistakes but have been man enough to change and not hide.
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 6

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    (pics)my wife dated multiple guys

    while we were married. Here are some pics she has sent to other guys, plus one of her naked and showing her face. Tell me the dirty things you would do to her, or tribute.
    arsenal2814 arsenal2814 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 23

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    It really sucks. The day I found out it was

    still early he was sleeping in our bed and I was playing Poppit on his smart phone I did it all the time but that day pops up a new message on FB from a C. I just started reading message after message exchanged. I felt my heart drop. I never realized that pain like true hurt...
    MissTori MissTori 18-21, F Sep 17

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    I honestly don't understand

    why people feel the need to stay in a relationship if they cheat. If you're unable to stay faithful to someone, why keep stringing them along? Why not just be single and screw around with whoever you want, without hurting anyone else in the process? It's entirely selfish. It's...
    aintnoangel aintnoangel 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 11

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    I've been cheated on :( I've been together

    with my common law spouse for 15 years. We have 2 amazing kids. A boy who is 12 and a girl who is 11 going on 18! I found out last year that my husband was cheating on me and I decided to give him a chance because of our kids. It was going great until a few days ago I found...
    YOLO73 YOLO73 41-45, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I found my husband talking to a prostitute

    and arranging a time to meet. Now I am constantly trying to catch him doing it again. I haven't found anything but I just think he has gotten better at hiding it. I feel like I am just driving myself crazy but I have to know.
    Ann91708 Ann91708 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    My Wife Cheated

    Several months ago, I discovered that my wife of 17 years has been having affairs for the better part of our marriage and it has turned my world upside down, caused me unbelievable anguish, and has basically changed me from the inside out. She was everything to me, and I was so...
    MrJedi MrJedi 36-40, M 9 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    I've never cheated on anybody in any of my past

    relationship but somehow that always happened to me 😡
    angieloveee angieloveee 18-21, F 10 Responses Jun 11

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    Her name was Savannah beautiful girl

    but when we were at a party she was kissing a guy i was so pissed :(
    MrCheatedOn MrCheatedOn 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 9

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    Cheater Of Beauty

    I see her walk down She looks so fine Would you like to stop For dinner sometime? But remember deep Deep in my side That she is just Another lie How about dinner? Table for two I think I'm liking this Me and you But remember deep Deep in my side That she is nothing more Than a...
    BloodRedShadow BloodRedShadow 18-21 5 Responses Jul 16, 2012

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    If They Want to Go Let Them Enjoy Life

    I know being cheated on is very difficult to deal with, for me it was not the case because my reaction to the girl who cheated on me really fustrated her and made her really pissed, I walked in on her and a guy kissing and touching each other and she tried with the apology thing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 3, 2009

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    I have been cheated on.

    I walked in on my fiancé' and what I thought was my best friend. It was the BEST thing that has ever happened to me! I moved out I found myself, I started a blog, I learned to be one with nature I leaned that I am just perfect being me. I have no interest in dating I know Mr...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 26

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    I Thought I Could Trust Him......

    My husband of 10 years cheated on me. It's been one year and I still can't get over it. I still check his phone, email, work van. I feel like I have completely lost control of my life. It was my neighbor, right under my nose. I was friends with her. So I was betrayed by two...
    dl1120 dl1120 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    He proposed to her. He flipping proposed to the

    woman he cheated on me with and they're now engaged. WHAT? Lol ok ok don't get me wrong I'm glad I'm not with him anymore and know we weren't meant to be but still....wtf?! We haven't even been broken up a year and you're engaged? :| after 4 years with me and 3 years of being...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 13

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    did i hurt? HELL YEAH!

    ....was i broken? SHATTERED!.....did i learn a lesson? LOVE ME FIRST B4 TRYING TO LOVE SOMEONE ELSE.. P.S. REMEMBER YOU WERE BORN ALONE YOU WILL DIE ALONE but IN BETWEEN LIFE & DEATH...LIVE EVERYDAY AS IF IT WERE YOUR LAST....DONT ALLOW ANOTHER TO STEAL YOUR JOY & HAPPINESS my...
    elle2122 elle2122 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    Oh boy do I have a story.

    ....Let's just start by saying, I do not need anyone telling me how stupid I am....no one can tell me anything I haven't already said to myself....I have been cheated on many times in the whatever you want to call it I am in....By no means am I stupid woman...I know the signs and...
    chitownfool chitownfool 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 24

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    So I was told more about my partner cheating on

    me turns out he slept with his mistress twice but I have such a hard time believing that anyone have any advice. Thank you
    reinventingyourexit reinventingyourexit 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    The Wh*re Of Miami

    Its taken me months, but finally im at a point where she isnt constantly on my mind and influencing my day. She's still in my dreams, and i can do nothing about that - but now, most mornings when i wake, its emptiness and not heartbreak that grip me, listening to the deafening...
    DiesSomnium DiesSomnium 31-35 2 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    666LexiBabe666 666LexiBabe666 18-21, F 47 Responses Sep 3

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    Well, it was confirmed.

    .. Joe was right, and my boyfriend (now ex) did cheat on me with his ex. His girlfriend must've started attending the school after I left for the Summer, so Chris wouldn't be lonely. I have no idea how many times I've asked him if he was happy, and if there was any girl or doubts...
    XxxFallenAngelxxX XxxFallenAngelxxX 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 11

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    He Doesn't Know

    I was with my ex for a year and a few weeks, it was just a bit after out one year relationship. When I first met him he was charming and romantic, but once he'd gotten me to fall, everything changed and I was trapped. One minute I had so many friends, then he had deleted all...
    MirandaForever MirandaForever 18-21, F 12 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    My EX cheated on me with my 1st best friend .

    I forgave him and my best friend and then he cheated on me with my other best friend. That's why have begun to have serious doubts on friendship and Love. :)
    hulkgirl hulkgirl 18-21 9 Responses Oct 1

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    Would meeting a girl on chat roulette

    and showing each other parts count as cheating?
    GemArt GemArt 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 27

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