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I Have Been Cheated On

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    My Wife Cheated

    Several months ago, I discovered that my wife of 17 years has been having affairs for the better part of our marriage and it has turned my world upside down, caused me unbelievable anguish, and has basically changed me from the inside out. She was everything to me, and I was so...
    MrJedi MrJedi 36-40, M 7 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    My first normal-ish relationship

    and he cheated on me.. with my best friend.. my younger sister. We got back together and he cheated on me with some fugly fat chick and she tried to rub it in my face turns out, him, her, and my sissy had chlamydia . Karma is a *****(:
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    It wasn't her that ruined us.

    ..it was you. I loved you unconditionally but you did the ONE thing I can't forgive. Swear I wanna forgive you but I know it will never be the same and you are no longer the person I thought you were. That really sucks bc I fell in love w that person...who doesn't exist.
    gkelyyy gkelyyy 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    I was 6 months pregnant

    when I found out he was cheating. He accidentally butt dialed me at 4 in the morning when he was with her...I can still remember the pain building up in my chest as it slowly dawned on me what it was I heard on the other line. I tried to give us the space to learn from the...
    cnk2015 cnk2015 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 17

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    I was with my ex for 10yrs

    and he constantly lied and cheated left me high and dry and then moved in with another woman how you up and do that i wish he would die
    nikka1985 nikka1985 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 9

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    I have been cheated on.

    I walked in on my fiancé' and what I thought was my best friend. It was the BEST thing that has ever happened to me! I moved out I found myself, I started a blog, I learned to be one with nature I leaned that I am just perfect being me. I have no interest in dating I know Mr...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 26

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    If They Want to Go Let Them Enjoy Life

    I know being cheated on is very difficult to deal with, for me it was not the case because my reaction to the girl who cheated on me really fustrated her and made her really pissed, I walked in on her and a guy kissing and touching each other and she tried with the apology thing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 3, 2009

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    Cheaters are selfish people.

    He had an affair. I love this excuse, to me this a cheater way out. I think one night stands are misunderstood. They make it seem like you have a one night stand with a stranger, and in most cases it's some you know. The affair is the excuse they use the "fog" as they call it...
    Smilesday Smilesday 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 15

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    .. we were workmates,

    friends and lovers around 4 years... at first I don't like commitment because of my previous relationship... I was traumatized., I thought i will never be happy again after that.. but he was consistent and showed me that he wants me in my life.. I know that I'm hurting him but I...
    kismet1427 kismet1427 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 12

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    I'm sorry, but I have to make this quick.

    Later, perhaps I shall add more. I have been in a loving relationship of two years. However, it all went downhill. I am writing to you a broken man. Tonight, as of right now, my lover is Snapchatting and messaging an old ex of hers, and I am almost certain that they are FaceTime...
    AFool422 AFool422 16-17 1 Response Nov 25

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    Not just once, but apparently multiple times.

    How do you get over this? How can I keep forgiving him when it just gets abused. My marriage is no where close to being perfect, and I'm having mixed emotions what to do.... I want a divorce, but I don't want to let him down. I know he has let me down time and time again, but I...
    Lld84 Lld84 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 4

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    When I found out my spouse of 18 years cheated

    on me I was devastated. The first thing I felt was a stomach ache. Then I had pain in my neck and shoulders. Had trouble sleeping and lost weight. I saw a doctor who gave me muscle relaxers to help me sleep and relieve the muscle aches. I also saw a divorce attorney and...
    AloneRestless AloneRestless 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 7

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    Cheater Of Beauty

    I see her walk down She looks so fine Would you like to stop For dinner sometime? But remember deep Deep in my side That she is just Another lie How about dinner? Table for two I think I'm liking this Me and you But remember deep Deep in my side That she is nothing more Than a...
    BloodRedShadow BloodRedShadow 18-21 5 Responses Jul 16, 2012

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    Selfish lieing cheating men ought to die alone.

    They don't deserve any woman to care about them, look after them, give them any part of themselves. They deserve to live alone and lonely and die alone and have no one even notice they've died.
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 9

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    Forgiveness Is Complicated.... 6-17-13

    How can this be? this up and down...this back and forth...this love...this hate...this like and dislike...this need and disdain...my mind is in such turmoil...not a s much as it used to be...but still...in turmoil...even in moments of complete joy and bliss...I still find myself...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    Found out I was cheated on 12 times in a 6

    month relationship :( So glad he's out of my life now.
    Frankiehw Frankiehw 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    Well, it'll be a year in January

    since everything went down. I think I'm finally over it. I don't miss him anymore, I'm not really angry...well maybe I have a little anger left. It's weird but I'm kind of thankful it happened. I mean it was the most painful thing I've ever experienced but, I don't think I'd...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    Since being told my boyfriend (now ex

    since I broke up with him) cheated on me, my anxiety has been going crazy and hard to manage :/
    Kiolat Kiolat 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Who hasn't been caught by the deception of

    another's selfish acts. I am not a cheater, never have and never would. Its not for the lack of interest either. Many women have asked, but I am a one woman guy and love my partner. That's the thing here; love! If you love and respect someone why would you cheat? I don't...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 3 Responses Oct 20

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    If You Are Being Cheated On: Get real.

    The best predictor of future behavior is relevant past behavior. What do you predict? If your partner has cheated on you repeatedly and now swears he/she will stop, what are the chances that this is true? You can't change what you don't acknowledge. Isn't there a point at which...
    darkenedsoul200 darkenedsoul200 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 8

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    666LexiBabe666 666LexiBabe666 18-21, F 51 Responses Sep 3

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    Not much to say other

    than I recently just got cheated on, and I really don't know what to do with myself or the questions I have that no one can really answer. Wrapping my head around this whole situation is hard and I just wish I didn't feel as lonely through this all as I do now, because even...
    Panoramicdemon Panoramicdemon 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 12

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    Catch up with her today only to hear

    that she's seeing another guy. Thanks for leading me on ******* cow. Pointless relationship that was, didn't do anything wrong apart from study and train.
    Adam352 Adam352 18-21, M 5 Responses Nov 9

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    So, 45 years old today,

    I am sitting here alone since my marriage went down the drain this year. No, I am NOT feeling sorry for myself.....just reflecting. My last couple of birthdays, if I knew this is what my life would be like right now, I would have said "You mean, I won't be spending the rest...
    slowsurrender slowsurrender 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    kaye23e kaye23e 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 3

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    But neither my ex-boyfriend

    nor the girl he cheated with (one of my friends) know
    LittleRed2016 LittleRed2016 16-17, F Dec 16

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    And here I thought it couldn't get any worse.

    ...... WOW was I wrong!!! Sooooooooooooo he tells me today that his girlfriend is 4 mnths pregnant. But he's not sure it's his, but if it is he wants me to support him cause he will fight for custody.... That he accepted my two children when we first got together, that I...
    Lld84 Lld84 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 5

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    To "I am the other man",

    FU you coward. Thanks for your part in destroying my marriage. Yes I made mistakes but have been man enough to change and not hide.
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 2 Responses Sep 6

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    The Wh*re Of Miami

    Its taken me months, but finally im at a point where she isnt constantly on my mind and influencing my day. She's still in my dreams, and i can do nothing about that - but now, most mornings when i wake, its emptiness and not heartbreak that grip me, listening to the deafening...
    DiesSomnium DiesSomnium 31-35 2 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    Once again I'm on here.

    I started a new relationship just 3 months ago. Only to have it end because he has another. I can't get a break~!!!!
    gorda08 gorda08 36-40, F Dec 7

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    my husband is in love with another woman.

    she happens to work with him at the same institution. She had serious problems in her marriage and kind of ran away to my husband. she fell in love with him easily and so did he. The problem is I knew her before he did since both of us work in the same field. And when he did...
    Da7none Da7none 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 5

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    my husband and i have been best friends

    for 20 years, in a relationship for 4 yrs and married for 1. I found out he was cheating on me just before we got married and was sending pics of himself to women and so on. I fell pregnant with our baby so i made the decision to stay as i thought i cpuld forgive him. its been...
    mumofj mumofj 26-30, F 16 Responses Dec 17

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    Cheated

    My boyfriend of two years cheated on me for months last year when we were having a long distance relationship. We met abroad and lived together for a year before I had to go back home. Earlier this year I went to visit him for 3 months after being apart for a long time, of...
    untethered90 untethered90 22-25, F 14 Responses May 27, 2013

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    He Doesn't Know

    I was with my ex for a year and a few weeks, it was just a bit after out one year relationship. When I first met him he was charming and romantic, but once he'd gotten me to fall, everything changed and I was trapped. One minute I had so many friends, then he had deleted all...
    MirandaForever MirandaForever 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    I have been married to my wife

    for almost 10 years but together for 21 years. Our relationship started when we were both young, 21 and 22 years old. I was immature and ended up having a real bad drug and alcohol problem. We were deeply in love but I was a horrible boyfriend. We ended our relationship...
    crzy4mywife crzy4mywife 36-40 2 Responses Nov 11

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    Deep deep breath. Stretch.

    Go. Fifty push ups. 3km run. Hit the weights. Swimming. Rock climbing. Ultimate frisbee. Dodgeball...go .,.work it out. "Year heart will heal faster if you work out your anger grief mourning...exercise,..get healthy" I can only work on myself. She has chosen to stab me in the...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 3 Responses Oct 19

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    So my storys a little different.

    I fell in love with my bestfriend and after 2 years we started dating. We dated for 2years and our relationship was going great, he was the perfect boyfriend. He always spoiled me, showed me how much he loved me and even got fired from a couple jobs because of me. Then I find...
    gkelyyy gkelyyy 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    I've never cheated on anybody in any of my past

    relationship but somehow that always happened to me 😡
    angieloveee angieloveee 18-21, F 10 Responses Jun 11

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    Kryfette Kryfette 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 11

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    emgal emgal 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 16

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    Anyone feel weird getting on their social media

    knowing they have probably inadvertently added one of their exes sick sex personas? Sometimes it's triggering. She's a sly covert stalker so she can protect her real life public persona but I know she stalks me and it's been quiet for some time which is good/never good. Anyone...
    Bsnarky Bsnarky 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 7

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    Hearts breaking... My girlfriend has been

    cheating on me for the past year, I knew about it the whole time though but until now I was ok with it..but... :'(
    BarelyAdulterated BarelyAdulterated 18-21, F 10 Responses Mar 25

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    I honestly don't understand

    why people feel the need to stay in a relationship if they cheat. If you're unable to stay faithful to someone, why keep stringing them along? Why not just be single and screw around with whoever you want, without hurting anyone else in the process? It's entirely selfish. It's...
    aintnoangel aintnoangel 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 11

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    First, I know it's long,

    but please I need someone to help me. Any advice. Reading these stories bring tears to my eyes. I have been cheated on 3 times by the same guy. He lied every time. The first time and second time we weren't together so I guess he didn't "cheat", we were on and off and those times...
    ArisDiCicco ArisDiCicco 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 17

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    I Thought I Could Trust Him......

    My husband of 10 years cheated on me. It's been one year and I still can't get over it. I still check his phone, email, work van. I feel like I have completely lost control of my life. It was my neighbor, right under my nose. I was friends with her. So I was betrayed by two...
    dl1120 dl1120 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    I've been in a relationship with this guy

    for a while. 2 months ago I got a message from his ex saying that they always kept seeing each other and not just as friends. I confronted him and he was so scared to tell me the truth. I trusted him with my life. I wasn't really the type to look through his phone, but when I...
    MaryLaurenx MaryLaurenx 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 20

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    It so hard to admit,

    so hard to believe, so hard to grasp. But it happened. I guess you can never put to much trust into the man you married. I'm just so sad, and it hurts and though I forgave him, fought for him. To this day the pain hurts. We let ourselves drift over the years, I guess. But I...
    Smilesday Smilesday 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 14

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    He Turned My World Upside Down

    I trusted you. I took you in when you had no where to go and no job and still at this moment continue to take care of you. While I was at work you brought another into our house and in our bed and denied it until when I heard you and her talking about it I should have not been...
    jnurse1986 jnurse1986 26-30, F 2 Responses May 10, 2013

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    My Last Relationship

    I was going through a really tough time running my business. I was losing money left and right and I couldn't do anything to salvage it in time. I was in a severe depression, but I was doing the best I could to not bring it down like it did.I was eating Chipotle one day when an...
    djdoughboy djdoughboy 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    My Wife Cheated On Me With Multiple Partners

    I just found out my wife has been cheating on me for about 9 months about a day and a half ago. The sad part is I have suspected it for about 9 months as well. Every time I accused her, at least 30 different times, of looking at cheating websites, texting people on her phone...
    BDeth BDeth 31-35, M 65 Responses Apr 29, 2012

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    I have, and I am ok with it.

    .. what is done is done.... But it made me think differently. Now I wonder what it would be like to see her getting fcd by some random stranger. I might even join in :-)
    Secretname555666 Secretname555666 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 17

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