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I Have Been Cheated On

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    My wife and I have been together

    for 14 years. Last week while on the computer I kept noticing her Facebook notifications popping up. I have always trusted her completely and never pried in to her privacy but here right in my face she was having explicit message conversations with a couple different guys. She...
    Mywave68 Mywave68 46-50, M 11 Responses Nov 18, 2015

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    Hi, my dream is to centralise one forum

    for all people who have been betrayed in this way. Due to the popularity of the "I am not the other woman" I'm suggesting this group. If there's one central group for cheating support we can all help eachother and move towards healing. Please "me too" "I am not the other" woman...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 5 Responses May 6, 2015

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    I was cheated on then dumped.

    now he wants me to wait to see if the new relationship works. I just want to move on. advice
    vbrooks1965 vbrooks1965 46-50, F 26 Responses Jun 17, 2015

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    I wish I knew what he told her about our

    marriage. I wish I knew why she knew he was married and still slept with him. Even allowed herself to fall in love with him. Did he even love her? Or the idea of being with someone who did not have any children and could give him all the attention he craves? I really wish I...
    kayg4 kayg4 31-35, F 14 Responses Jul 3, 2015

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    He Doesn't Know

    I was with my ex for a year and a few weeks, it was just a bit after out one year relationship. When I first met him he was charming and romantic, but once he'd gotten me to fall, everything changed and I was trapped. One minute I had so many friends, then he had deleted all...
    MirandaForever MirandaForever 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    Love... love is complicated.

    I've seen women lifted by love. Countless of them surrounded, fed, kissed by love. Most recently I met a woman condemned by love. Alienated, starved and forgotten by love. The pain from love is visible in her eyes, heart and soul. She lives for love and dies for love...
    cmyk323 cmyk323 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 13, 2015

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    i was going out with my boyfriend

    for almost to years next week i have found out that he was cheating on me with his ex this whole time and we were engaged and happy i thought i knew him i thought we wouldnt do anything to hurt me he made me feel crazy he made me feel like it was my fault i was in pain and i was...
    katherine99babe katherine99babe 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    Janecc11aa Janecc11aa 26-30, F Nov 18, 2015

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    I have been married for 25 years.

    We have 2 kids together who are adults now. They were tweens when I found out about my wife's infidelity. I think I kept the marriage together for them. Now that they are grown, I feel empty in this marriage. We have what I call an in house separation. We don't share a bedroom...
    Etdos Etdos 41-45, M 11 Responses May 6, 2015

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    My boyfriend cheated on me

    and after 6 months of removing him from my life I forgave him and recently I caught him flirting with a girl over messages and he says it's my fault because my cowerker had texted me about work and he got jelous .. How is that my fault I didn't flirt or anything it was a simple...
    karrennn karrennn 18-21, F 14 Responses Jan 26

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    My husband cheated on me with my daughter (not

    HIS, relax ,she's an adult).. how the hell do I get past it??
    meadbme meadbme 41-45, F 43 Responses Jan 17, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    ardenccaa ardenccaa 26-30, F Jan 1

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    how do you forgive your lover

    when they cheated or you suspected they cheated but you chose to forgive them and move on. Its always on my mind and sometimes I bring it up because I have a hard time forgetting I don't want this to continue to cause problems in our future I just don't know how to let this go...
    epain33 epain33 26-30, F 31 Responses Aug 26, 2015

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    I have been cheated on more

    than one, it is a horrible feeling, I think its a horrible thing to be cheated on, its like feeling like you weren't even good enough to be told the truth. I hate being cheated on. Its a horrible feeling.
    HisLittleAriel HisLittleAriel 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2015

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    My bf just told me that the time we broke up bc

    he had cheated he went clubbing and got drunk and he honestly doesn't remember the amount of girls he fuxked but more than 6 ... My whole body hurts right now as I dnt know what to think ... He should've told me this when I decided to forgive him not now that he's done...
    karrennn karrennn 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2015

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    Cheated

    My boyfriend of two years cheated on me for months last year when we were having a long distance relationship. We met abroad and lived together for a year before I had to go back home. Earlier this year I went to visit him for 3 months after being apart for a long time, of...
    untethered90 untethered90 22-25, F 14 Responses May 27, 2013

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    just found out that my husband

    and best friend are sleeping together. she told me he's hiding from me. she told me it's just sex. no big deal, I don't want him. just ******* him. yet behind my back for 2yrs now! I'm upset at him more. but mind you he has not touched me in 4yrs
    lilolis43 lilolis43 41-45, F 13 Responses Sep 16, 2015

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    Somehow this seems more appropriate here

    than in the "I Love Jokes" group. And if it wasn't so damn true, it just might be funny. _____________________________________________________ A harried looking man with a gun unholstered on his hip, walks into the bar. At the top of his lungs he yells "I have a Colt 45 and...
    Longlegs2014 Longlegs2014 51-55, M 6 Responses Aug 12, 2015

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    I want some advise as my husband cheated on me

    after our engagement February 2015 and after our marriage September 2015. We are couple from 2005 until 2015 and all in all 10 years as girlfriend and boyfriend and we never experience a third party during the entire 10 years. I just found out that he cheated on me on July...
    AshleyFaith AshleyFaith 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    ditshwanelo ditshwanelo 26-30, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    ive been married 29 years

    and my wife has cheated on me hundres of times with atleast15 diffrent people in the last 4 years shesysshell stop andiwant to belive her but how can i can my marraiges be saved
    mondokahuna mondokahuna 51-55, M 8 Responses Jan 27

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    Just found out from an old school friend

    that my cheating ex is cheating with everyone on the Other Woman who's now his fiance. He's on tinder hooking up with random women. Good thing is I've recovered from the experience to not care too much but it is amusing. Don't know if I should bother even gossiping to a mutual...
    jazzie1976 jazzie1976 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2015

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    I was married for 21 years

    and loved my husband very much. He had an affair with a female associate. She ended up pregnant with his baby. I found out from a girlfriend that he was cheating on me. I confronted him about it. He did not deny it happened. In disgust I immediately threw him out and...
    oldersinglemom oldersinglemom 46-50, F 17 Responses Jun 4, 2015

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    I choose every day to forgive him

    and work through this.
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 22, 2015

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    I feel like I have been cheated on by someone

    who I been with for the past almost 4 years. How could someone else just go behind my back and have sex with someone else without telling me?. You know as I hate cheaters as much as I hate liars, I can do hell of a lot better than these disgusting pigs, the thought of being told...
    agdnn agdnn 26-30, M Jan 22

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    He's been a bit off recently.

    My instincts are telling me something's not right. So I did some checking up. For about a week now he's been actively trying to get the attention of a girl on fb. Several hello messages and requests for chats. Lolol. She's ignored them all. Today I found he had deleted...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 19 Responses Oct 26, 2015

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    it has been two years

    and it still hurts that my first true love cheated on me
    iamDEMON iamDEMON 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 27, 2015

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    I was informed that my boyfriend of a year

    and a half cheated on me with roughly 15 guys. What in the hell do I do with that information? Sigh...we can try to fit the pieces back together and get through this...
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 11, 2015

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    I saw someone post on this topic

    that they hadn't had a bad day in a while and they things seemed pretty good. I didn't want to clutter up their post with this, but.. How can you tell it's going well? Cheaters don't advertise that they're cheating. What if it all seemed good when they were cheating? How will...
    streetcsi streetcsi 46-50, M 7 Responses Jun 10, 2015

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    My ex, who broke up with me

    because she thought I was cheating, actually cheated on me with her best friend...
    AskingEmilia AskingEmilia 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 28, 2015

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    Ladys and gentlemen. Nothing hurts more then

    being cheated on. I was cheated on and ended up forgiving that person. then it was a whole year of suffering and being paranoid. For your own good know what type of person you are if your forgive a cheater it may be a horrible choice depending on the person you are. If you know...
    jeremyolivieri jeremyolivieri 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 18, 2015

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    666LexiBabe666 666LexiBabe666 18-21, F 50 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    which isn't the reason

    why I'm still so bitter and angry. It's more because of his betrayal and countless lies. Why doesn't he see that? I told him I KNEW EVERYTHING and gave him numerous opportunities to come clean with me. I asked specific questions because I already knew the answers but he...
    ImNotTelling33 ImNotTelling33 41-45, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Some days I am so angry at him.

    Other days I feel completely confident we can get through this.
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 14

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    julieccaa11 julieccaa11 26-30, F Dec 10, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    brigetter brigetter 26-30, F Jan 6

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    I know what everyone says.

    I hear them echoing in my skull, "He won't stop, get out while you can." But when I look in to his eyes I see the sincerity, he wants to change and has every intention of trying his hardest to. I owe it to MYSELF and what I believe about love to let him try and fix this. It will...
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2015

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    I still remember like it was yesterday

    even though it happened 3 years ago when I found out I was married to a pathological cheater and a liar. She had slept with multiple men since our marriage. I remember feeling like this pain had no end in sight. I wasn't sure how I would coexist with this painful reality. I...
    Jumba2016 Jumba2016 41-45, M 10 Responses Dec 1, 2015

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    I've recently broke up with a guy.

    We was only together a few months so no big deal but he cheated on me. My last boyfriend, he was my everything and he cheated. My best friends partners have all recently done the same too. All the men I know cheat regularly. I'm really starting to believe that it's just men. If...
    Kerry1304 Kerry1304 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 6, 2015

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    My Husband and I have been married 4 years

    and we have 3 Children under 3, I am a stay at home mom, and my husband has been talking with other women our whole marriage. He said that he was going out to look at another job one day and I later found out that he was at a hotel with another woman. I haven't truly been able...
    Shortstuff440 Shortstuff440 26-30, F 15 Responses Oct 23, 2015

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    I was with this girl

    for 2 years. We were in a bit of a long distance relationship and didn't see each other as often as we'd like. Nonetheless I did everything I could for her. I fought for her, I walked 10 hours just to see her once, I fought through nights of depression where I just wanted to...
    BLowrey97 BLowrey97 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2015

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    He told me yesterday

    that he cheated on me a few days ago. It was at a friend's birthday party and he was drunk. He is genuinely remorseful and sorry that he did it, and he said that it was a conscious decision even though he was drunk, but that he was being stupid and selfish. I'm incredibly hurt...
    SkyeDreams SkyeDreams 22-25, F 21 Responses Jan 10, 2015

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    so sick of jerks. I am old school

    and belief in forever. I want forever. Not mind games.
    maemae208 maemae208 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 3, 2015

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    I am so hurt and heartbroken.

    My husband and I have been together for 13 years, married for 10. We have a beautiful 7 month old baby together which I had to go through hell and back to have him. I found out he had an affair by listening to my gut instincts....and I just found out they were talking on a...
    Hadley35 Hadley35 31-35, F 16 Responses Nov 5, 2015

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    When does the heartache go away?

    It's been a year and 7 months since I found out he destroyed our marriage, and it still hurts.
    Missgwenxo Missgwenxo 46-50, F 32 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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