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I Have Been Cheated On

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    while pregnant, he cheated on me with four

    different women. im a single mother now and im ok with it.
    StillHere84 StillHere84 31-35, F Jan 9

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    This is my story about being cheated on,

    lied to, manipulated and being left to deal with my demons myself. It contains the same elements and characters as any other similar story. But that fact does nothing to help the person going through this terrible terrible pain. This destruction of your self and everything that...
    rachinthewind rachinthewind 26-30, F Jun 16

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    swaggergirl29 swaggergirl29 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 14

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    I was married for 21 years

    and loved my husband very much. He had an affair with a female associate. She ended up pregnant with his baby. I found out from a girlfriend that he was cheating on me. I confronted him about it. He did not deny it happened. In disgust I immediately threw him out and...
    oldersinglemom oldersinglemom 41-45, F 19 Responses Jun 4

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    By my second Girlfriend with my former best

    mate at the time was angry but maybe dun me a favour in the long run
    BrynDavid BrynDavid 31-35, M Jul 12

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    Hi, my dream is to centralise one forum

    for all people who have been betrayed in this way. Due to the popularity of the "I am not the other woman" I'm suggesting this group. If there's one central group for cheating support we can all help eachother and move towards healing. Please "me too" "I am not the other" woman...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 5 Responses May 6

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    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses a week ago

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    I was cheated on then dumped.

    now he wants me to wait to see if the new relationship works. I just want to move on. advice
    vbrooks1965 vbrooks1965 46-50, F 31 Responses Jun 17

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    I vow I will never cheat on anyone.

    Especially in marriage. It's vile. You break up with someone THEN move on. I will not love like a liar in deceit, hiding in the shadows. So glad it's over.
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 6 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I have been married for 25 years.

    We have 2 kids together who are adults now. They were tweens when I found out about my wife's infidelity. I think I kept the marriage together for them. Now that they are grown, I feel empty in this marriage. We have what I call an in house separation. We don't share a bedroom...
    Etdos Etdos 41-45, M 13 Responses May 6

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    bubblebubba bubblebubba 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 5

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    Seriously, men, do you all cheat?

    Has there ever been a man that didn't cheat on some level?
    Awarr12 Awarr12 22-25, F 11 Responses Jun 18

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 21

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    my husband and i have been best friends

    for 20 years, in a relationship for 4 yrs and married for 1. I found out he was cheating on me just before we got married and was sending pics of himself to women and so on. I fell pregnant with our baby so i made the decision to stay as i thought i cpuld forgive him. its been...
    mumofj mumofj 26-30, F 13 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    And lied to, had the wool pulled over my eyes,

    loved an enemy in disguise. Trusted, given, been forsaken and forgiven. But how can you forget? I need to release you and cut ties, let the dreams we had fly, for to think of how you have changed so estranged, brings puddles of tears, but some are restrained.,I don't actually...
    BreakingBored BreakingBored 41-45, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    Is it possible to forgive someone

    who cheated on you in college? We are both out of school now and he is currently in Bootcamp for the Army and now all of these emotions are running through me and I am finally feeling everything first hand since he is not here. I want to forgive and forget, but it is so much...
    kat115nk kat115nk 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    When I think of her now instead of sorrow I am

    starting to feel this anger & rage...it comes unbidden ...I allow myself a mean growl and then I gotta release it. Went for a run in the snow, which never happens and then hit the qigong like I was an ancient master zenning for the 11th enlightenment. It's taken such a toll on...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 5 Responses Jan 7

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    I thank you for that,

    girl. You gave me such a great chance to find someone much better and truthful than you. Besides to be honest I've known about it since before, I was just waiting for you to tell me and you did.. Thanks and I wish you all the very good luck.
    Pain24 Pain24 13-15, F Jun 28

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    One day he will realize he lost a diamond

    while playing with. Playing with worthless stones..
    BeautifulDayDream BeautifulDayDream 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 24

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    My husband pretended to be the good Christian

    husband for 20 yrs. The devoted husband. It was a well planned lie. He was a cunning cheater. There were many signs but never a conviction. He was lazy. Accused me of exhausting him of accusing him of cheating. He even charmed our pastors wife and turned her against me. Everyone...
    trinny61 trinny61 51-55, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    I really don't know Whr to start

    and Whr to end but just because of him I lost everything I hate him I really hate him he is happy in his life but me and my son r struggling like any thing I really don't know what's my mistake is I agreed to my parents word and got married to him but he cheated me very badly...
    deepubm deepubm 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    I wish I knew what he told her about our

    marriage. I wish I knew why she knew he was married and still slept with him. Even allowed herself to fall in love with him. Did he even love her? Or the idea of being with someone who did not have any children and could give him all the attention he craves? I really wish I...
    kayg4 kayg4 31-35, F 14 Responses Jul 3

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    The Wh*re Of Miami

    Its taken me months, but finally im at a point where she isnt constantly on my mind and influencing my day. She's still in my dreams, and i can do nothing about that - but now, most mornings when i wake, its emptiness and not heartbreak that grip me, listening to the deafening...
    DiesSomnium DiesSomnium 31-35 2 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    If They Want to Go Let Them Enjoy Life

    I know being cheated on is very difficult to deal with, for me it was not the case because my reaction to the girl who cheated on me really fustrated her and made her really pissed, I walked in on her and a guy kissing and touching each other and she tried with the apology thing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 3, 2009

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    I went away to visit my brother

    for literally 2 days and in those 2 days my ex boyfriend decided to cheat on me with my ******* cousin. I was number 2 for the longest time always stuck by his side for 2 years even after I left him. We weren't together but it felt like we still were until he left I realized he...
    paty1996 paty1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 17

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    Two years ago I've seen something I shouldn't

    have seen. Something that shouldn't have happened. I should have known he would be like that. He told me countless times to **** off, calling me a *****. I was crazy in love with him back then. I was such a fool for loving him and treating him right. The girl he was with, he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 1

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    In my current relationship

    and the previous relationship. Which completely dumbfounds me. In a relationship I spoil my guys. Cook. Clean. Massage. Very active sex life. And yet....they cheated. So that tells me it's not me. So why? I don't get it.
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 13 Responses Mar 26

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    He apologized. I took him back.

    Wondering where he is right now. Will it happen again. I don't wanna hurt anymore..
    Thevisible3 Thevisible3 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    so sick of jerks. I am old school

    and belief in forever. I want forever. Not mind games.
    maemae208 maemae208 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 3

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    I knew it from the second it happened,

    but when the words came out of your mouth it hurt a billion times more. I didn't want to believe it, I just wanted to curl up and die. It's not that you cheated on me, it's that you had feelings for her and still do. Now I have nightmares about it every night, now I never feel...
    fucksunshine fucksunshine 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 9

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    It wasn't her that ruined us.

    ..it was you. I loved you unconditionally but you did the ONE thing I can't forgive. Swear I wanna forgive you but I know it will never be the same and you are no longer the person I thought you were. That really sucks bc I fell in love w that person...who doesn't exist.
    gkelyyy gkelyyy 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    Everything is moving along pretty damn good.

    ...haven't had a bad day in a while
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 10

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    My Wife Cheated On Me With Multiple Partners

    I just found out my wife has been cheating on me for about 9 months about a day and a half ago. The sad part is I have suspected it for about 9 months as well. Every time I accused her, at least 30 different times, of looking at cheating websites, texting people on her phone...
    BDeth BDeth 31-35, M 75 Responses Apr 29, 2012

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    When does the heartache go away?

    It's been a year and 7 months since I found out he destroyed our marriage, and it still hurts.
    Missgwenxo Missgwenxo 46-50, F 30 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    Cheated

    My boyfriend of two years cheated on me for months last year when we were having a long distance relationship. We met abroad and lived together for a year before I had to go back home. Earlier this year I went to visit him for 3 months after being apart for a long time, of...
    untethered90 untethered90 22-25, F 14 Responses May 27, 2013

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    I know my situation is different

    than most.....that being said have any of you Google the 4 stages of a cheating wife ???? Very disturbing , I chose forgiveness but.....90 % of the time I now believe it's best to leave them and their emotional baggage behind. The only way to be sure problem is gone
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 30

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    I've been in a marriage

    for many years now and found out he cheated on me. Not just a one time thing he had a girlfriend and me his wife. My world feels shattered and I am ready to go but I do not know why I can't. We have kids and they love him even though he's emotionally unattached with all of us. I...
    mkaylaa mkaylaa 26-30, F 17 Responses Feb 28

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    Well, I'm in kind of a pickle right now.

    My ex who cheated on me and broke up with me is staying with me like every day for the past week. We plan on spending the entire Summer together because she's going to college near where I live and she's just staying with family during the Summer. Mid August I leave for College...
    StillSurprised StillSurprised 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 12

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    For some time now, my husband has been playing

    me as a fool by cheating on me. He has been finally caught when I hired a PI. I received his thorough investigative report three days ago. I confronted him with these devastating accusations. He tried to deny them but i pressured him to confess in which he finally did. I...
    femalemusiclover femalemusiclover 46-50, F 8 Responses Jun 27

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    and I'm soooooo glad I found out

    before I wasted the rest of my life on sacrificing for him, providing for him, nurturing him, defending him or loving him. Gettin my groove back and hoping it's not too late for me
    canthinkofanything canthinkofanything 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 9

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    My boyfriend of 6 years cheated on me in January

    and I barely found out about over a week ago... The only time he met up with the girl was when the cheating happened. But he continued to talk to her up until about the end of June. I made him send an email to her cutting off all contact. I feel like this passed 7 months have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 16

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    So my girl went to Portland

    and we got into a argument so she sexually texted one of her guy friends and sent him stuff. she didn't tell me till a couple months after and she just went on like everything was ok. I feel cheated on and betrayed but she says she didn't cheat because we were not ? dating" but...
    coolxman123 coolxman123 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I moved on. I'm dating a me guy

    now who is amazing . I don't get why every time a love song comes up I still think of you though? Why does your face Pop up on some dates? Is it because we knew each other for 5 years why can't I just be happy with my new bf and forget about you :( I mean girls usually hate ex's...
    gkaren gkaren 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    They'd been together since

    before I'd been with him. He told her he loved her, he told her he missed her. He sent her pictures of a smile I thought only I'd seen, of an expression I was sure had been reserved for me. And in return, she sent him pictures of a body he told her he yearned to touch, of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response a week ago

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    My boyfriend of three years cheated.

    We got past it and he blocked her and I thought we were okay, despite me feeling like **** when I'm with him bc I can't trust him. Now he is hanging out with his ex. He always told me he needed me and couldn't live without me and loved me more than anything and my only mistake...
    nadiabowls nadiabowls 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    666LexiBabe666 666LexiBabe666 18-21, F 51 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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