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I Have Been Cheated On

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    I vow I will never cheat on anyone.

    Especially in marriage. It's vile. You break up with someone THEN move on. I will not love like a liar in deceit, hiding in the shadows. So glad it's over.
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 6 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    while pregnant, he cheated on me with four

    different women. im a single mother now and im ok with it.
    StillHere84 StillHere84 31-35, F Jan 9

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    I've been in a marriage

    for many years now and found out he cheated on me. Not just a one time thing he had a girlfriend and me his wife. My world feels shattered and I am ready to go but I do not know why I can't. We have kids and they love him even though he's emotionally unattached with all of us. I...
    mkaylaa mkaylaa 26-30, F 17 Responses Feb 28

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    The Wh*re Of Miami

    Its taken me months, but finally im at a point where she isnt constantly on my mind and influencing my day. She's still in my dreams, and i can do nothing about that - but now, most mornings when i wake, its emptiness and not heartbreak that grip me, listening to the deafening...
    DiesSomnium DiesSomnium 31-35 2 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    This is not something I usually share,

    because honestly, it isn't the reason we are separated. I always assumed L was the one man who would never ever cheat. Never even crossed my mind to consider it possible. Then a few years ago, he began acting very strangely... his phone was ALWAYS on silent or vibrate, I wasn't...
    TheGoddessB TheGoddessB 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 4

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    Seriously, men, do you all cheat?

    Has there ever been a man that didn't cheat on some level?
    Awarr12 Awarr12 22-25, F 11 Responses Jun 18

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    I really don't know Whr to start

    and Whr to end but just because of him I lost everything I hate him I really hate him he is happy in his life but me and my son r struggling like any thing I really don't know what's my mistake is I agreed to my parents word and got married to him but he cheated me very badly...
    deepubm deepubm 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    so sick of jerks. I am old school

    and belief in forever. I want forever. Not mind games.
    maemae208 maemae208 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 3

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    My husband cheated on me with my daughter (not

    HIS, relax ,she's an adult).. how the hell do I get past it??
    meadbme meadbme 41-45, F 47 Responses Jan 17

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    He made me feel like i was the one being

    paranoid when he didnt answer his phone for a week or was hanging out with "her" alot. (I am 15 and he is 18 btw). He would Always tell me i should dye my hair brown or gain a few Pounds but i never thought he would cheat on me because i wasent "that". So thank you ex boyfriend...
    mypan1c mypan1c 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    When does the heartache go away?

    It's been a year and 7 months since I found out he destroyed our marriage, and it still hurts.
    Missgwenxo Missgwenxo 46-50, F 30 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    I've been cheated on

    though relationship before they got serious enough and I'm still looking for love
    quit7 quit7 41-45, F Jun 5

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    One day he will realize he lost a diamond

    while playing with. Playing with worthless stones..
    BeautifulDayDream BeautifulDayDream 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 24

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    I always trust everyone bcoz I think maybe

    he/she will be sincere like I'm with them but always ended up with lot of pain. ...
    armaan90 armaan90 22-25, M May 17

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    He told me yesterday

    that he cheated on me a few days ago. It was at a friend's birthday party and he was drunk. He is genuinely remorseful and sorry that he did it, and he said that it was a conscious decision even though he was drunk, but that he was being stupid and selfish. I'm incredibly hurt...
    SkyeDreams SkyeDreams 22-25, F 20 Responses Jan 10

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    Cheated

    My boyfriend of two years cheated on me for months last year when we were having a long distance relationship. We met abroad and lived together for a year before I had to go back home. Earlier this year I went to visit him for 3 months after being apart for a long time, of...
    untethered90 untethered90 22-25, F 14 Responses May 27, 2013

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    He Doesn't Know

    I was with my ex for a year and a few weeks, it was just a bit after out one year relationship. When I first met him he was charming and romantic, but once he'd gotten me to fall, everything changed and I was trapped. One minute I had so many friends, then he had deleted all...
    MirandaForever MirandaForever 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    My husband pretended to be the good Christian

    husband for 20 yrs. The devoted husband. It was a well planned lie. He was a cunning cheater. There were many signs but never a conviction. He was lazy. Accused me of exhausting him of accusing him of cheating. He even charmed our pastors wife and turned her against me. Everyone...
    trinny61 trinny61 51-55, F 5 Responses Apr 10

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    Thank you to all my friends ,

    for the good advice, the encouraging words, and support....Goodbye to all
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 4 Responses May 27

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    I went away to visit my brother

    for literally 2 days and in those 2 days my ex boyfriend decided to cheat on me with my ******* cousin. I was number 2 for the longest time always stuck by his side for 2 years even after I left him. We weren't together but it felt like we still were until he left I realized he...
    paty1996 paty1996 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 17

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    In my current relationship

    and the previous relationship. Which completely dumbfounds me. In a relationship I spoil my guys. Cook. Clean. Massage. Very active sex life. And yet....they cheated. So that tells me it's not me. So why? I don't get it.
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 12 Responses Mar 26

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    I was cheated on then dumped.

    now he wants me to wait to see if the new relationship works. I just want to move on. advice
    vbrooks1965 vbrooks1965 46-50, F 33 Responses Jun 17

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    It so hard to admit,

    so hard to believe, so hard to grasp. But it happened. I guess you can never put to much trust into the man you married. I'm just so sad, and it hurts and though I forgave him, fought for him. To this day the pain hurts. We let ourselves drift over the years, I guess. But I...
    Smilesday Smilesday 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    Can you guys give me your opinions on this.

    I have a few times found condems in my fiance's bags.And found a condem in his wallet twice.I'm trying to figure out away to confront him.Because I wanna have facts.So he can't lie...and twist ish around
    deleted deleted 26-30 36 Responses Jun 8

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    This is my story about being cheated on,

    lied to, manipulated and being left to deal with my demons myself. It contains the same elements and characters as any other similar story. But that fact does nothing to help the person going through this terrible terrible pain. This destruction of your self and everything that...
    rachinthewind rachinthewind 26-30, F Jun 16

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    It wasn't her that ruined us.

    ..it was you. I loved you unconditionally but you did the ONE thing I can't forgive. Swear I wanna forgive you but I know it will never be the same and you are no longer the person I thought you were. That really sucks bc I fell in love w that person...who doesn't exist.
    gkelyyy gkelyyy 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    my husband and i have been best friends

    for 20 years, in a relationship for 4 yrs and married for 1. I found out he was cheating on me just before we got married and was sending pics of himself to women and so on. I fell pregnant with our baby so i made the decision to stay as i thought i cpuld forgive him. its been...
    mumofj mumofj 26-30, F 13 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    I knew it from the second it happened,

    but when the words came out of your mouth it hurt a billion times more. I didn't want to believe it, I just wanted to curl up and die. It's not that you cheated on me, it's that you had feelings for her and still do. Now I have nightmares about it every night, now I never feel...
    fucksunshine fucksunshine 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 9

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    Forgiveness Is Complicated.... 6-17-13

    How can this be? this up and down...this back and forth...this love...this hate...this like and dislike...this need and disdain...my mind is in such turmoil...not a s much as it used to be...but still...in turmoil...even in moments of complete joy and bliss...I still find myself...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    Going sky diving today !

    !!! And no I didn't pack her chute it was done professionally
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 1 Response May 14

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    Hi im a newbie...i have a lot on my mind

    and it is a complicated story and i need advice...
    2xheartbroke 2xheartbroke 22-25, F 5 Responses May 23

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    I was married for 21 years

    and loved my husband very much. He had an affair with a female associate. She ended up pregnant with his baby. I found out from a girlfriend that he was cheating on me. I confronted him about it. He did not deny it happened. In disgust I immediately threw him out and...
    oldersinglemom oldersinglemom 41-45, F 19 Responses Jun 4

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    Cheaters are selfish people.

    He had an affair. I love this excuse, to me this a cheater way out. I think one night stands are misunderstood. They make it seem like you have a one night stand with a stranger, and in most cases it's some you know. The affair is the excuse they use the "fog" as they call it...
    Smilesday Smilesday 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    Hi, my dream is to centralise one forum

    for all people who have been betrayed in this way. Due to the popularity of the "I am not the other woman" I'm suggesting this group. If there's one central group for cheating support we can all help eachother and move towards healing. Please "me too" "I am not the other" woman...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 5 Responses May 6

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    My Wife Cheated On Me With Multiple Partners

    I just found out my wife has been cheating on me for about 9 months about a day and a half ago. The sad part is I have suspected it for about 9 months as well. Every time I accused her, at least 30 different times, of looking at cheating websites, texting people on her phone...
    BDeth BDeth 31-35, M 75 Responses Apr 29, 2012

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    I saw someone post on this topic

    that they hadn't had a bad day in a while and they things seemed pretty good. I didn't want to clutter up their post with this, but.. How can you tell it's going well? Cheaters don't advertise that they're cheating. What if it all seemed good when they were cheating? How will...
    streetcsi streetcsi 41-45, M 7 Responses Jun 10

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    If They Want to Go Let Them Enjoy Life

    I know being cheated on is very difficult to deal with, for me it was not the case because my reaction to the girl who cheated on me really fustrated her and made her really pissed, I walked in on her and a guy kissing and touching each other and she tried with the apology thing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 3, 2009

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    I know my situation is different

    than most.....that being said have any of you Google the 4 stages of a cheating wife ???? Very disturbing , I chose forgiveness but.....90 % of the time I now believe it's best to leave them and their emotional baggage behind. The only way to be sure problem is gone
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    swaggergirl29 swaggergirl29 18-21, F 10 Responses Jun 14

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    I thank you for that,

    girl. You gave me such a great chance to find someone much better and truthful than you. Besides to be honest I've known about it since before, I was just waiting for you to tell me and you did.. Thanks and I wish you all the very good luck.
    Pain24 Pain24 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    For some time now, my husband has been playing

    me as a fool by cheating on me. He has been finally caught when I hired a PI. I received his thorough investigative report three days ago. I confronted him with these devastating accusations. He tried to deny them but i pressured him to confess in which he finally did. I...
    femalemusiclover femalemusiclover 46-50, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    Another great week ! I have read

    that forgiveness is the highest form of love ,,,do you agree ? Thoughts on this .
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 6 Responses May 18

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    thongluvr582 thongluvr582 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 21

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    armaan90 armaan90 22-25, M May 17

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    Hi guys. I'm after some advice.

    I've suspected my girlfriend of 15 months has been cheating on me for a few months now! My mind has now been made up by the fact that I found some blocked numbers on her phone. 3 of them were Ex Boyfriends from ages ago that she said she didn't want to contact her again; I...
    Gutted123 Gutted123 36-40, M 9 Responses May 15

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    So what I was talking about

    before about me being worried out of my mind for his tumor and he ignored my msgs.. He finally responded to me and said that he's not getting surgery and never talked to me again I am somewhat really happy but really mad bc he knew I was worried I would txt cal and not go to...
    gkaren gkaren 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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