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I Have Been Cheated On

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    It has been a month now,

    since I found out my husband cheated on me. We have been together for 20 years and have two kids. It was a co-worker and it lasted 6 months. He told me he had feelings for her, but it is over now. He said he wants to work things out with me. He thinks that us going to therapy...
    Amyc76 Amyc76 36-40, F 17 Responses 6 days ago

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    It wasn't her that ruined us.

    ..it was you. I loved you unconditionally but you did the ONE thing I can't forgive. Swear I wanna forgive you but I know it will never be the same and you are no longer the person I thought you were. That really sucks bc I fell in love w that person...who doesn't exist.
    gkelyyy gkelyyy 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    YourNewObstacle YourNewObstacle 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    but it's alright though maybe he came up with

    the right dough, bigger d I don't know must have been the best flow but f that I put alot in I'm hating
    mightyhealthy mightyhealthy 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    666LexiBabe666 666LexiBabe666 18-21, F 51 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    I saw someone post on this topic

    that they hadn't had a bad day in a while and they things seemed pretty good. I didn't want to clutter up their post with this, but.. How can you tell it's going well? Cheaters don't advertise that they're cheating. What if it all seemed good when they were cheating? How will...
    streetcsi streetcsi 46-50, M 8 Responses Jun 10

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    how do you forgive your lover

    when they cheated or you suspected they cheated but you chose to forgive them and move on. Its always on my mind and sometimes I bring it up because I have a hard time forgetting I don't want this to continue to cause problems in our future I just don't know how to let this go...
    epain33 epain33 26-30, F 35 Responses 6 days ago

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    and I witnessed it all.

    it's been 2 years since it happened and I can remember it like it was yesterday. my then girlfriend was a support worker for alcoholics and drug users which meant she had frequent visits to clients making sure they were ok and needed anything. I knew she had befriended a few of...
    sonicblaha sonicblaha 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 18

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    recently found out that my husband of 7 years

    had an affair with his coworker for 3 months while I was pregnant and have lost our second baby. To make matters worse I have all the phone records and while I was alone thru all this he has spent all that time with another person. My initial reaction was to give it time to try...
    Maja2011 Maja2011 31-35, F 9 Responses Aug 9

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    I have been married for 25 years.

    We have 2 kids together who are adults now. They were tweens when I found out about my wife's infidelity. I think I kept the marriage together for them. Now that they are grown, I feel empty in this marriage. We have what I call an in house separation. We don't share a bedroom...
    Etdos Etdos 41-45, M 14 Responses May 6

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    In my current relationship

    and the previous relationship. Which completely dumbfounds me. In a relationship I spoil my guys. Cook. Clean. Massage. Very active sex life. And yet....they cheated. So that tells me it's not me. So why? I don't get it.
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 14 Responses Mar 26

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    One day he will realize he lost a diamond

    while playing with. Playing with worthless stones..
    BeautifulDayDream BeautifulDayDream 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 24

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    We went on a trip to Chicago,

    the day we left I entered angry, psychotic, sybil mode. Needless to say, it did not go well. Who even AM I? At this point, I am more upset with my utter codependence ( I hate you, don't leave me) on this man. Uugh. I need to change these voices in my head. My weepiness is...
    notafraidrn notafraidrn 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    When does the heartache go away?

    It's been a year and 7 months since I found out he destroyed our marriage, and it still hurts.
    Missgwenxo Missgwenxo 46-50, F 31 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    I just found out that my girlfriend was

    cheating on me for months now and I feel like killing myself ,, I don't know what to do
    Corbin12 Corbin12 22-25, M 12 Responses Aug 9

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    And lied to, had the wool pulled over my eyes,

    loved an enemy in disguise. Trusted, given, been forsaken and forgiven. But how can you forget? I need to release you and cut ties, let the dreams we had fly, for to think of how you have changed so estranged, brings puddles of tears, but some are restrained.,I don't actually...
    BreakingBored BreakingBored 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 22

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    He was with me for 2 years !

    & it was over for some girl he works with ! Now he won't stop begging to get back with him. YEAH RIGHT !
    MissEvon MissEvon 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    2 Canadians have committed suicide

    because of Ashley Madison leak....I suspect many more to come...this makes no sense , didn't they think there would be accountablity one day ,? Is it a big game to these cheaters ? People just can't wait to cheat on their spouses ? Have they thought about maybe having a heart to...
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    my husband and i have been best friends

    for 20 years, in a relationship for 4 yrs and married for 1. I found out he was cheating on me just before we got married and was sending pics of himself to women and so on. I fell pregnant with our baby so i made the decision to stay as i thought i cpuld forgive him. its been...
    mumofj mumofj 26-30, F 14 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    I am struggling with my wife's emotional,

    and soon-to-be-physical, affair. I want to forgive her and hope for reconciliation but I've been working at it for a year and have made no progress with her. I have young children and do not want a divorce but can't just abide with what she's doing without the stress and anger...
    VeryBear VeryBear 41-45, M 6 Responses Aug 16

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    Is it possible to forgive someone

    who cheated on you in college? We are both out of school now and he is currently in Bootcamp for the Army and now all of these emotions are running through me and I am finally feeling everything first hand since he is not here. I want to forgive and forget, but it is so much...
    kat115nk kat115nk 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 27

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    It's been just about 2 years

    since D-Day and I'm still looking this ***** up like it just happened or they're still talking. His little co-ed has been making the president's list at her University. life is seemingly successful for her, leaving me in the wake of her emotional destruction. it has been...
    Kettei Kettei 31-35, F 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    so sick of jerks. I am old school

    and belief in forever. I want forever. Not mind games.
    maemae208 maemae208 26-30, F 9 Responses Mar 3

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    He told me yesterday

    that he cheated on me a few days ago. It was at a friend's birthday party and he was drunk. He is genuinely remorseful and sorry that he did it, and he said that it was a conscious decision even though he was drunk, but that he was being stupid and selfish. I'm incredibly hurt...
    SkyeDreams SkyeDreams 22-25, F 22 Responses Jan 10

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    My husband slept with another woman.

    My knight. My safe haven. i am 43 years old with a beautiful 2 year old Lil boy. He is sorry, of course. Yet, I am still here. I have, however, put on lipstick every single day since discovery. It's the Lil thangs.
    notafraidrn notafraidrn 41-45, F 19 Responses Aug 21

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    Somehow this seems more appropriate here

    than in the "I Love Jokes" group. And if it wasn't so damn true, it just might be funny. _____________________________________________________ A harried looking man with a gun unholstered on his hip, walks into the bar. At the top of his lungs he yells "I have a Colt 45 and...
    Longlegs2014 Longlegs2014 46-50, M 7 Responses Aug 12

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    My wife cheated on me

    while I was deployed 3 years ago (she came clean while I was deployed). We've stayed together (kids), but the lack of trust is very tangible. Rarely does a day pass that I don't feel paranoid when she gets one of her endless texts from other people. I rarely address my concerns...
    RubixLube RubixLube 26-30, M 4 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I've not dated much, I have been stepped out on

    in every relationship I've had. I'm losing hopes of finding loyalty, honesty, and respect. it's a terrifying thought.
    Guardian029 Guardian029 26-30, M 5 Responses Aug 11

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    He Doesn't Know

    I was with my ex for a year and a few weeks, it was just a bit after out one year relationship. When I first met him he was charming and romantic, but once he'd gotten me to fall, everything changed and I was trapped. One minute I had so many friends, then he had deleted all...
    MirandaForever MirandaForever 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    The Wh*re Of Miami

    Its taken me months, but finally im at a point where she isnt constantly on my mind and influencing my day. She's still in my dreams, and i can do nothing about that - but now, most mornings when i wake, its emptiness and not heartbreak that grip me, listening to the deafening...
    DiesSomnium DiesSomnium 31-35 3 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    I knew it from the second it happened,

    but when the words came out of your mouth it hurt a billion times more. I didn't want to believe it, I just wanted to curl up and die. It's not that you cheated on me, it's that you had feelings for her and still do. Now I have nightmares about it every night, now I never feel...
    fucksunshine fucksunshine 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 9

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    Hi, my dream is to centralise one forum

    for all people who have been betrayed in this way. Due to the popularity of the "I am not the other woman" I'm suggesting this group. If there's one central group for cheating support we can all help eachother and move towards healing. Please "me too" "I am not the other" woman...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 5 Responses May 6

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    I mean for real I was 25 he was 49 I thought I

    loved him and I wS way younger than him way beautiful but I can't control my feelings he ended up cheating on me !! Haha what a joke !
    sedna123 sedna123 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    My boyfriend cheated on me

    and in April I made him my ex, then he called me a ***** and never spoke to him again but a friend we have in common said he wanted to talk to me but that he's in love with my sister and next week I'm going to school and it would be really awkward. I don't want to see him but...
    YungAngel17 YungAngel17 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    You and me, we made a vow For better

    or for worse I can't believe you let me down But the proof's in the way it hurts For months on end I've had my doubts Denying every tear I wish this would be over now But I know that I still need you here You say I'm crazy 'Cause you don't think I know what you've done But...
    lilithity lilithity 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    My husband cheated on me with my daughter (not

    HIS, relax ,she's an adult).. how the hell do I get past it??
    meadbme meadbme 41-45, F 46 Responses Jan 17

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    I recently found out my husband of 6 years

    cheated on me with a colleague at work. They both got fired. I now find myself in a position where we are living together, I'm supporting him but although he says he wants to stay with me & no longer sees the woman, he refuses to cut all contact with her & she's still on his...
    111betrayed 111betrayed 31-35, F 17 Responses Aug 12

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    allisoncc11 allisoncc11 26-30, F Aug 13

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    It was 21 years ago. It was my 38th birthday.

    I had been married to my wife almost 6.5 years. My wife had been out with co-workers volunteering at a city event. She did not come home when she said she would, so I went to bed around 11:30. I woke up about an hour and a half later and she was still not in bed. I started...
    sppbeep sppbeep 56-60, M 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was married for 21 years

    and loved my husband very much. He had an affair with a female associate. She ended up pregnant with his baby. I found out from a girlfriend that he was cheating on me. I confronted him about it. He did not deny it happened. In disgust I immediately threw him out and...
    oldersinglemom oldersinglemom 46-50, F 17 Responses Jun 4

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    and I'm soooooo glad I found out

    before I wasted the rest of my life on sacrificing for him, providing for him, nurturing him, defending him or loving him. Gettin my groove back and hoping it's not too late for me
    canthinkofanything canthinkofanything 41-45, F 8 Responses Jan 9

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    My Wife Cheated On Me With Multiple Partners

    I just found out my wife has been cheating on me for about 9 months about a day and a half ago. The sad part is I have suspected it for about 9 months as well. Every time I accused her, at least 30 different times, of looking at cheating websites, texting people on her phone...
    BDeth BDeth 31-35, M 76 Responses Apr 29, 2012

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    Love... love is complicated.

    I've seen women lifted by love. Countless of them surrounded, fed, kissed by love. Most recently I met a woman condemned by love. Alienated, starved and forgotten by love. The pain from love is visible in her eyes, heart and soul. She lives for love and dies for love...
    cmyk323 cmyk323 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 13

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    I've been in a marriage

    for many years now and found out he cheated on me. Not just a one time thing he had a girlfriend and me his wife. My world feels shattered and I am ready to go but I do not know why I can't. We have kids and they love him even though he's emotionally unattached with all of us. I...
    mkaylaa mkaylaa 26-30, F 17 Responses Feb 28

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    Right under my nose. I had no idea.

    He and a friend of mine. All he said was that she said she might fall in love with him one day and the thought of the chase excited him. He left with that and I the faithful fool. So much time I had waisted.
    1977Justme 1977Justme 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago