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I Have Been Cheated On

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    I was in a relationship

    for 3 years and Yea I have been cheated on and lied to about it so I broke up with my boyfriend 4months ago and he tried everyday since then and I just rejected all his efforts. He would have flowers delivered to me and even bought me a puppy . I missed him so bad so last week I...
    gkaren gkaren 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Forgiveness Is Complicated.... 6-17-13

    How can this be? this up and down...this back and forth...this love...this hate...this like and dislike...this need and disdain...my mind is in such turmoil...not a s much as it used to be...but still...in turmoil...even in moments of complete joy and bliss...I still find myself...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    It wasn't her that ruined us.

    ..it was you. I loved you unconditionally but you did the ONE thing I can't forgive. Swear I wanna forgive you but I know it will never be the same and you are no longer the person I thought you were. That really sucks bc I fell in love w that person...who doesn't exist.
    gkelyyy gkelyyy 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    and I'm soooooo glad I found out

    before I wasted the rest of my life on sacrificing for him, providing for him, nurturing him, defending him or loving him. Gettin my groove back and hoping it's not too late for me
    canthinkofanything canthinkofanything 41-45, F 9 Responses Jan 9

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    It so hard to admit,

    so hard to believe, so hard to grasp. But it happened. I guess you can never put to much trust into the man you married. I'm just so sad, and it hurts and though I forgave him, fought for him. To this day the pain hurts. We let ourselves drift over the years, I guess. But I...
    Smilesday Smilesday 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    I honestly did not imagine myself being cheated

    on for the second with a different guy. The first time around I can feel my confidence level being torn into pieces. This time all those pain came back. What worse is that I have to act like I'm still my happy self this time around when I know damn well I'm not happy. I can't...
    kaceeeytl kaceeeytl 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    Cheater Of Beauty

    I see her walk down She looks so fine Would you like to stop For dinner sometime? But remember deep Deep in my side That she is just Another lie How about dinner? Table for two I think I'm liking this Me and you But remember deep Deep in my side That she is nothing more Than a...
    BloodRedShadow BloodRedShadow 18-21 5 Responses Jul 16, 2012

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    redlyn redlyn 26-30, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    He told me yesterday

    that he cheated on me a few days ago. It was at a friend's birthday party and he was drunk. He is genuinely remorseful and sorry that he did it, and he said that it was a conscious decision even though he was drunk, but that he was being stupid and selfish. I'm incredibly hurt...
    SkyeDreams SkyeDreams 22-25, F 26 Responses Jan 10

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    There is no pain like being ripped asunder by

    deceit...six months before she confessed to her affair ....healing hasnt come but wisdom surely has.
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 9 Responses Jan 12

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    So my ex destroyed me

    so bad I really liked him and I don't see myself w anyone else but I feel dumb if I forgive him for causing me so much damage. We talked yesterday and he said he's been kissing girls ever since we broke up but that he pictures me every time and he misses me badly he told me this...
    gkaren gkaren 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    IjUstDoNtCare12 IjUstDoNtCare12 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    Have been going to counseling

    for a couple weeks now , am having some issues reconnecting, working on it . Last session (yesterday) exact words . Mr. ....... in our professional opinions your wife cannot and should not be held accountable for her actions, and you somehow need to find a way to get over it...
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    How can your heart still want someone

    who caused you so much damage?
    gkaren gkaren 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    canuckrider canuckrider 46-50, F 3 days ago

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    So I've been cheated on

    and it sucks but I've come to realize that the negative things ppl do to others is a direct reflection of themselves. not saying I was perfect.
    Shannon87 Shannon87 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 4

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    whats good soul therapy

    for an angry soul who has been cheated on? I like railing against a God that can take it and listening to Hole. Man I fvckin love love love Courtney Love
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 17

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    I know we've all been cheated on .

    ... sadly. By a show of 'hearts' , how many have cheated?
    savysue savysue 26-30, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I have been cheated on.

    I walked in on my fiancé' and what I thought was my best friend. It was the BEST thing that has ever happened to me! I moved out I found myself, I started a blog, I learned to be one with nature I leaned that I am just perfect being me. I have no interest in dating I know Mr...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 26, 2014

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    My husband cheated on me with my daughter (not

    HIS, relax ,she's an adult).. how the hell do I get past it??
    meadbme meadbme 41-45, F 53 Responses Jan 17

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    so sick of jerks. I am old school

    and belief in forever. I want forever. Not mind games.
    maemae208 maemae208 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Cheated

    My boyfriend of two years cheated on me for months last year when we were having a long distance relationship. We met abroad and lived together for a year before I had to go back home. Earlier this year I went to visit him for 3 months after being apart for a long time, of...
    untethered90 untethered90 22-25, F 14 Responses May 27, 2013

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    well today i found out through his friend

    that i been cheated on by my boyfriend. i feel very angry, hurt, scared, and unloved. i feel very angry not only at him but i blame myself. i wish i was good enough. i am planning to confront him by mail tomorrow and get some answers and closure once and for all.
    db174 db174 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 4

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    I honestly don't understand

    why people feel the need to stay in a relationship if they cheat. If you're unable to stay faithful to someone, why keep stringing them along? Why not just be single and screw around with whoever you want, without hurting anyone else in the process? It's entirely selfish. It's...
    aintnoangel aintnoangel 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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    alisoncc11 alisoncc11 26-30, F 20 hrs ago

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    I vow I will never cheat on anyone.

    Especially in marriage. It's vile. You break up with someone THEN move on. I will not love like a liar in deceit, hiding in the shadows. So glad it's over.
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 6 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I was 6 months pregnant

    when I found out he was cheating. He accidentally butt dialed me at 4 in the morning when he was with her...I can still remember the pain building up in my chest as it slowly dawned on me what it was I heard on the other line. I tried to give us the space to learn from the...
    cnk2015 cnk2015 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    I am saving a life whenever I go to a gym.

    I hit the weights instead of hitting him. Clearly I could take his jaw clean off if I clocked him.I am through being angry at myself. I have done my soul work. Grrrr... 
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 17

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    I've been in a marriage

    for many years now and found out he cheated on me. Not just a one time thing he had a girlfriend and me his wife. My world feels shattered and I am ready to go but I do not know why I can't. We have kids and they love him even though he's emotionally unattached with all of us. I...
    mkaylaa mkaylaa 26-30, F 21 Responses 5 days ago

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    My ex and I were in a long-distance

    relationship from April 2014 to June the same year, then again from September until January of this year. We took a break because his career kept him too busy to keep in constant contact, and he was getting a lot of flak from his family for the age difference (he's 43, I'm 27...
    Mollywobbles225 Mollywobbles225 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    while pregnant, he cheated on me with four

    different women. im a single mother now and im ok with it.
    StillHere84 StillHere84 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    Deep deep breath. Stretch.

    Go. Fifty push ups. 3km run. Hit the weights. Swimming. Rock climbing. Ultimate frisbee. Dodgeball...go .,.work it out. "Year heart will heal faster if you work out your anger grief mourning...exercise,..get healthy" I can only work on myself. She has chosen to stab me in the...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    When does the heartache go away?

    It's been a year and 7 months since I found out he destroyed our marriage, and it still hurts.
    Missgwenxo Missgwenxo 46-50, F 31 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    She is gone, long gone now,

    even from my heart - I only wish her well if I do think of her, which is seldom - perhaps occasionally during prayers. She was the greatest gal in the world. I never thought I would get to be with the greatest gal in the world, so I am happy because I got to be with her...
    disappointedindallas disappointedindallas 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    666LexiBabe666 666LexiBabe666 18-21, F 57 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    I just found out my ex fiance cheated on me

    and went to florida to meet his ex girlfriend two days before my birthday ... I just need some help ive never been cheated on before and I feel so ******* stupid for ever thinking he wouldnt have done that to me so anybody else that knows how I am feeling wants to talk about im...
    alexmorales123 alexmorales123 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have been with my husband

    for almost 11 years and we have two beautiful children. He has been cheating on me for the past six months. It's pretty crazy what goes on in your head once you find out. Today the other woman phoned me and we talked a lot. I just find it strange that it was so easy to talk to...
    sunnygirl29 sunnygirl29 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Cheaters are selfish people.

    He had an affair. I love this excuse, to me this a cheater way out. I think one night stands are misunderstood. They make it seem like you have a one night stand with a stranger, and in most cases it's some you know. The affair is the excuse they use the "fog" as they call it...
    Smilesday Smilesday 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    I knew it from the second it happened,

    but when the words came out of your mouth it hurt a billion times more. I didn't want to believe it, I just wanted to curl up and die. It's not that you cheated on me, it's that you had feelings for her and still do. Now I have nightmares about it every night, now I never feel...
    fucksunshine fucksunshine 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 9

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    Hearts breaking... My girlfriend has been

    cheating on me for the past year, I knew about it the whole time though but until now I was ok with it..but... :'(
    BarelyAdulterated BarelyAdulterated 18-21, F 10 Responses Mar 25, 2014

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    my skye dolley.

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    albanis albanis 22-25, F Feb 21

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    The Wh*re Of Miami

    Its taken me months, but finally im at a point where she isnt constantly on my mind and influencing my day. She's still in my dreams, and i can do nothing about that - but now, most mornings when i wake, its emptiness and not heartbreak that grip me, listening to the deafening...
    DiesSomnium DiesSomnium 31-35 2 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    My Wife Cheated On Me With Multiple Partners

    I just found out my wife has been cheating on me for about 9 months about a day and a half ago. The sad part is I have suspected it for about 9 months as well. Every time I accused her, at least 30 different times, of looking at cheating websites, texting people on her phone...
    BDeth BDeth 31-35, M 70 Responses Apr 29, 2012

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    I found out I was just cheated on by my

    boyfriend. Today at school I didn't tell him why I was upset I just yelled at him not to talk to me. I tried texting him but he won't reply. I want to make things right and I don't know what to say or do about this..
    makailafish makailafish 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    He Doesn't Know

    I was with my ex for a year and a few weeks, it was just a bit after out one year relationship. When I first met him he was charming and romantic, but once he'd gotten me to fall, everything changed and I was trapped. One minute I had so many friends, then he had deleted all...
    MirandaForever MirandaForever 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    Even though its like eating glass

    when I say his name--the other man---it is of incredible benefit to my children that they have a good time with other man and their mom.They don't need to have to feel they have to carry secrets cause they are scared to tell me and hurt my feelings. It was not their choice that...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 17

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    2 weeks ago, I found out my husband cheated.

    I discovered sexual texts on his phone and immediately confronted him. He lied to my face! Even when I showed it to him it took him 30 minutes to own up to what he did. After that devastation, I couldn't sit back and not check his other social media accounts. I still felt like...
    lizziem333 lizziem333 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 24