I Have Been Cheated On

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    Now has anyone ever had a joyful experience

    being cheated on? Hold on I can't hear you with all the *wailing, crying & shaking, sounds of hearts shattering like a fallen chandelier...* <> I didn't think so. Trust me you fu.ckin cheaters confessing your affair openly to your partner will hurt them *just as much* as...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Oct 13, 2014

    how do you fix a relationship

    after being cheated on?
    ChangingLife2015 ChangingLife2015
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 23, 2015
    Heartbroken46 Heartbroken46
    46-50, F
    9 Responses Mar 18, 2015

    A couple months after me

    and my girlfriend started dating, she cheated on me with her ex in which they were groping each other and making out Then, at the Valentine's dance, she cheated on me again with the same guy but it was just making out. Now, a couple weeks ago. Same guy, just making out. My...
    newprofile04 newprofile04
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 28, 2015

    14 years of my life down the drain.

    Where do I even begin. I was always so accommodating and never expected much and I know now that's were I went wrong. I'm sure he was cheating with different women through out the years but I only caught him once. It all unfolded at 6 am one morning when e was snoring so loudly...
    candace36 candace36
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Dec 10, 2013

    I swear like I never want to get married

    or fall in love,love is stupid ....I feel true love is thing of luck or chance :/ I don't care for finding the right one or the right one finding me ...ppl are unloyal unfaithful selfish greedy lying confused beings
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 14, 2015

    Being cheated on is literally the most ******

    up thing you can do to a person. It mentally and psychologically destroys people. I was cheated on 2 years ago, and I haven't been the same since. I'm battling the worst of depressions and Im just at rock bottom. It makes you lose self esteem, all of it. It makes you feel like...
    angela11xx angela11xx
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 9, 2013

    One of my very worst relationships,

    it kept going for 1.5 year total, dont ask me why i kept going back to him because i have no memory of those times, i only know what has happened. He cheated on me with atleast 7 girls that i know of, i had my suspicions multiple times and his bestfriend became my bestfriend. He...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 27, 2015

    I had been married for four months

    before I found out that my husband, whom I have been in a committed relationship for 9 years including a year-long engagement, cheated on me. It was a recipe for disaster, really. There were two instances before that he might have cheated on me, but trusting the relationship, I...
    krk314 krk314
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jul 21, 2014

    Someday you’ll miss me like i missed you.

    Someday you’ll need me like i needed you. Someday you’ll love me and but I won't love you.
    Heartbroken46 Heartbroken46
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Mar 5, 2015

    So my girlfriend of eight months told me she

    had oral with another guy, but she didn't give him anything in return, he did the oral. I am not sure how I should take this. I love her, and we are long distance. She told me he noticed she was sad, and asked if she was lonely. She said she was lonely, but not that kind of...
    james0855 james0855
    22-25, M
    2 Responses May 2, 2015

    I started dating my boyfriend in August.

    Recently, on vacation, I decided to check his phone messages. Something I had done only once early October before without finding anything bad. This time however I found he was texting a woman who was saying to him "hi handsome. And 'I want to be with you baby" and then when...
    syntheticrhyme syntheticrhyme
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Dec 13, 2015

    I am beginning to think there is something

    wrong with me that my boyfriend has to cheat on me. Although he has not physically cheated on me, I have caught him on a dating website twice now. He lies to these girls about his name, age, background and has no intention of hanging out with them, but that doesn't matter. I...
    creepinbeauty creepinbeauty
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 8, 2015

    i think we all have at one point

    and time been cheated on, whether we know it or not. but the feelings that come with it are horrible.. the crying the feeling of not good enough..and the comparing is enough to torture your mind
    moongoddess35 moongoddess35
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 27

    Is there really moving on

    after your partner has been unfaithful? I feel like he's moving forward and I'm still struggling, & I don't want to keep bringing it up as we have agreed to put it behind us but I'm beginning to resent him for being able to just pick up and carry on when my whole world has...
    manders86 manders86
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Dec 4, 2014

    My boyfriend and I were in a 4 year

    relationship, then suddenly a girl texted me saying that she's in a 1yr relationship with my boyfriend. I asked him about it and he denied it. Three months passed and the girl texted me again,. Saying that he chooses her over me, that they are living together & all those hurtful...
    iminamess iminamess
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 16, 2014

    The very first guy that I was with cheated on

    me.....with my at the time best friend. Guys TRUST your intuition. I knew something was wrong whenever he'd come around us. Anyway when I found out I left him and so did she because she "couldn't hurt me like that". She and I had decided to work out our friendship BUT I had...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 11, 2014

    My ex-boyfriend cheated on me a year ago

    and I'm still not over it I'm still upset he wants to be with some other black chick but he doesn't want to be with me because he's bisexual I'm just gay as hell so I don't know what to do since he broke up with me a year ago I try to be with other men but it didn't work… I...
    mattyn1993 mattyn1993
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 9, 2015

    How do we expect for the person

    that broke us, to be the one to fix us?
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 18, 2014

    My husband told me he had cheated on me over

    the last 5 years and the over the last 9 months he was having an affair with this woman. He ended up leaving me for another woman and even moved in with her. A week later we decided to make our marriage work, he moved back in and told me he would never cheat on me and was 100...
    mcduffcm mcduffcm
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jun 19, 2014

    It has broken me as a woman.

    I feel inadequate and unattractive. I don't know how to get over this betrayal. I wish I knew what was wrong with me so I could fix it and make my lover happy and fulfilled physically and emotionally.
    leftgirl88 leftgirl88
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Jan 28, 2014

    And as a result of this,

    and the end of my 14 year marriage, I am not able to deal with sexual things right now. I am aware that many people, perhaps more than not, feel sex is just a physical act, a bodily function, divorced from emotion, meaningless as eating a bowl of cereal in the morning, but I...
    MrMicrophone MrMicrophone
    46-50, M
    7 Responses Jan 24

    I wish people would just leave instead of

    killing every emotion in a person by doing this. I guess some people can handle it better then others but let me tell you it really destroys people like me.
    2isbetterthan1 2isbetterthan1
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Nov 12, 2014

    I have been cheated on ,

    not just once . And I feel like I've become kind of paranoid :( I can't trust any guys anymore . It's painful to have your heart broken .
    Psychedilc Psychedilc
    18-21, F
    37 Responses Oct 9, 2014

    How Much Does My Life Flow With Ease? / Commanding Respect

    "Don't devalue yourself by feeling you need to please people who don't appreciate your value." You can let go other people's transgressions upon you and keep your self respect through grace that would favor your self worth and be more becoming of your loveliness. This works for...
    AceofPentacles AceofPentacles
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Oct 30, 2011

    The biggest coward is a man

    who awakens a woman's love with no intention of loving her .
    Heartbroken46 Heartbroken46
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Mar 4, 2015

    My boyfriend of 3 years just cheated on me with

    his ex. One of her friends was nice enough to tell me about it( she even had pictures of there conversation ) when I asked him he blamed it all on her and said he was stopping anyway. But I realized he would of just continued if he wasn't caught:(
    EverWinter EverWinter
    26-30, F
    23 Responses Nov 17, 2014

    Why did I think I could be different?

    I thought his love for me was genuine and in return my love would fix his emptiness. I'm foolish to have trusted him and believed in him. I hate this lonely part of moving on. I have to stop letting him suck me back into him. The only way forward is to move on.
    leftgirl88 leftgirl88
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Feb 11, 2014

    being cheated on is the worst feeling ivy ever

    had to deal with always be faithful it hurts your partner in ways that just destroyed a person
    Tracyforrest Tracyforrest
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 5, 2014

    I have been cheated on by my ex.

    . And right now I'm scared to fall in love again :'(
    GiftJ GiftJ
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Jan 11, 2014

    I hate cheaters... Like

    if you're not happy in your current relationship don't just ******* go out and **** with someone else. Like no, break it off with them if you're not happy. Cheaters are just as worse as liars. Cheating may not really seem like a big deal to you, since you're the not the victim...
    HazeyHaley HazeyHaley
    16-17, F
    2 Responses May 4, 2015

    I was fifteen my sophomore year

    when I met an eighteen year old senior and fell in love. He told me he loved me after a week and by two months I thought we would be together forever. We both wore promise rings and we dated for two years. Near the end of our relationship we began to argue a lot. There were a...
    MarineGirlfriend0810 MarineGirlfriend0810
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 5, 2014

    I've been cheated on twice

    and the bad part about is the last guy swore he would never do me the same. I can't get passed it, I try to forget but can't. I just hate how they always text me to get me back. I want to get passed it and move on.
    TheTruth94 TheTruth94
    22-25, M
    Apr 3, 2015

    All the names in here are changed This guy

    named Brian and I were dating for about a little more than year. He had a lot of female friends but I didn't really mind because we had the same group of people and his friends were also my friends. One of his friends had made a comment about him and Kristen hanging out a lot by...
    2323keka 2323keka
    18-21
    1 Response Feb 13, 2015

    I've only had one real relationship in my life.

    He broke my heart and it took me years to get over it. I still have not given anyone my whole heart since. But... I forgive him. Love you, Tony.
    KingMarcray37 KingMarcray37
    22-25, M
    Jun 21, 2015

    My husband cheated on me 13 years ago.

    He apologized and I forgave him. It still hurts. I doubt that he will ever understand why our marriage will never be the same again.
    Connie85 Connie85
    46-50, F
    11 Responses Jun 21, 2015

    I'm sharing this with you

    because I want to know how I can move forward from this. I do love my husband but I feel so betrayed by his actions. And not just him his family and friends new about this too! I have been with my husband for six years and we have been married for three. A past relationship...
    2011dolly40 2011dolly40
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jul 23, 2014

    I think it's just something people go through.

    You choose what hurt controls you and I say f*** cheaters. If you don't want me, don't be with me. Competition isn't for me
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    Aug 11, 2014

    Cheating, Spying And Getting Caught

    My wife had a so called emotional affair with someone over a 3 month period in a car while going to and back from work daily. They were in the car together for about 2 hours total a day. They ended up holding hands, pulling to the side of the road and kissing a handful of times...
    lost143 lost143
    41-45
    56 Responses Jun 20, 2012

    Getting Cheated On Hurts

    I was married for 5 years and I never cheated on my ex wife and I had offers and I just said sorry i am married. The first time she was caught cheating i forgive her and told her if she ever cheated again I would divorce her. She got caught the second time & I divorced her...
    1woody 1woody
    41-45, M
    24 Responses Jan 12, 2012

    I was 16 at the time

    and my pig boyfriend was having sex with a 13 year old. i think he was 17. glad he vanished outta my life.
    Ang012685 Ang012685
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2015

    Just something I felt like sharing/talking

    about. My current bf and I had a fight and I guess this was his way of "getting back" at me. He began entertaining conversations with this female who KNEW that he was in a relationship but seemed to be more than willing to "obliviously" make herself available to him. (That...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM
    22-25, F
    Aug 30, 2014
    pgable pgable
    51-55, M
    1 Response Mar 5, 2015

    You ask yourself was any of it true ?

    Was I the only one who was in this relationship . If you weren't happy why couldn't just just have left ? Why did you have to hurt me for your own satisfaction ...
    Coolcatsandcoffee Coolcatsandcoffee
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 23, 2015

    How Do You Get Over The Hurt?

    My husband and I have been married for 19 years. I found out 3 months ago that he was cheating on me. I decided to stay, but I am having the hardest time. He is sorry for what he did to me and has cut all ties with the other woman. I just can't seem to get over it. I try...
    wcooksey wcooksey
    36-40
    78 Responses May 29, 2012

    my wife of five years has cheated on me with

    nine different guys that I know of three of them were friends of mine and one was my best friend, but I can't bring myself to hurt my kids with a divorce and I'm in the army so if I do divorce ill probably never see my kids. I feel like I'm stuck and when I go home its hard to...
    george2323 george2323
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Nov 23, 2014

    Everyone is in agreement

    that I deserve so much better and it's true. It's just that sometimes I find myself asking "what if" or "why". With all of that said however, I can't bring myself to ever trust him again so what's the point in going back?
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 28, 2014

    Well, it's official people.

    I have been cheated on. That girl I was dating; I found out today from one of her friends that she had slept with someone on Friday. I confronted her earlier this evening and she admitted it to my face. I will not be explaining her reasons here but you get the point. She didn...
    NeoxExor NeoxExor
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Dec 20, 2014

    Second experience with being cheated on.

    The guy that I was with at the time disappeared on me out of the blue. He said that he was with family but I found it strange that I didn't get so much as a call or text and he denied all of mine. Fast forward about a month and a half, the girl he cheated on me with called...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 12, 2014

    Ok...other man is in your life

    and your kids lives. He didn't come I nobly or as a friend but kind of conniving and through the back door. Doesn't matter. He may be here forever..the love affair partner of your wife. Man up. Accept it, and do what you can to be there for the kids. Don't waste energy on his...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire
    41-45, M
    Oct 26, 2014
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