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I Have Been Cheated On

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    Ok...other man is in your life

    and your kids lives. He didn't come I nobly or as a friend but kind of conniving and through the back door. Doesn't matter. He may be here forever..the love affair partner of your wife. Man up. Accept it, and do what you can to be there for the kids. Don't waste energy on his...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M Oct 26, 2014

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    Lol I don't know how many times I've been

    cheated on!! Every fn relationship!!! It's kinda sad when you start getting used to it. Maybe, one day I'll find a good partner, who won't hurt me. Doubt it...but just maybe there's someone out there who's as loyal as me. I don't want to say guys are douchebags but guys are...
    Kayloves060814 Kayloves060814 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    Well I used to date someone

    and recently i found out that he cheated on me with my bestfriend. My bestfriend turn him down and he came back for me.. And I found out that he asked my bestfriend out like just now... And it's really sad that he never mention about asking me out after months. It's really sad...
    NynnaDavis NynnaDavis 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 24, 2014

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    Getting Cheated On Hurts

    I was married for 5 years and I never cheated on my ex wife and I had offers and I just said sorry i am married. The first time she was caught cheating i forgive her and told her if she ever cheated again I would divorce her. She got caught the second time & I divorced her...
    1woody 1woody 36-40, M 29 Responses Jan 12, 2012

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    Cheated on again...when will I learn?

    I let the first time go by, because it hadn't even been for a week, and you didn't have feelings for that girl. And I thought you still loved me, and I was still crazy for you. But now I find out you've been cheating again....for over 2 months of our relationship. And not only...
    WintersSoldier2 WintersSoldier2 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for 6 years and he is my life but the guy before me was a jerk. He had sex with someone in my bed whilst I was at work luckily I was left off work early and when I walked in he was doing doggie style with some guy using my pillow for support. Anyway it turns out he had been...
    mparker7789 mparker7789 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 14, 2014

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    I think I had 8 boyfriends already

    and only one that I got pretty serious with. He was not my first bf but it was with him that I thought "ah yes, this must be love". So we got together for about a year and hell yeah! I found out about his relationship with another 6 girls. But I stayed with him because I felt...
    mrmshkh mrmshkh 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2014

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    How Much Does My Life Flow With Ease? / Commanding Respect

    "Don't devalue yourself by feeling you need to please people who don't appreciate your value." You can let go other people's transgressions upon you and keep your self respect through grace that would favor your self worth and be more becoming of your loveliness. This works for...
    AceofPentacles AceofPentacles 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 30, 2011

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    Everyone is in agreement

    that I deserve so much better and it's true. It's just that sometimes I find myself asking "what if" or "why". With all of that said however, I can't bring myself to ever trust him again so what's the point in going back?
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 28, 2014

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    Just something I felt like sharing/talking

    about. My current bf and I had a fight and I guess this was his way of "getting back" at me. He began entertaining conversations with this female who KNEW that he was in a relationship but seemed to be more than willing to "obliviously" make herself available to him. (That...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F Aug 30, 2014

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    my wife of five years has cheated on me with

    nine different guys that I know of three of them were friends of mine and one was my best friend, but I can't bring myself to hurt my kids with a divorce and I'm in the army so if I do divorce ill probably never see my kids. I feel like I'm stuck and when I go home its hard to...
    george2323 george2323 22-25, M 3 Responses Nov 23, 2014

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    I discovered that my husband had solicited a

    prostitute from Craigslist. They had exchanged numbers and he had given her a time and date to meet. When I confronted him about it he said he was only trolling for pictures. I don't know what to believe. We have 3 children and one on the way. I also found a picture he had taken...
    Ann91708 Ann91708 26-30, F 9 Responses Oct 1, 2014

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    He used to have an ep account on here.

    Now it's gone. Just deleted, literally within this last half hour. I guess after I found out he deleted it. I posted on his white board saying good night I love him and for him to text me tomorrow (today) and apparently it was right over his girlfriends last post. Sigh.
    WintersSoldier2 WintersSoldier2 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2014

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    I'm 18 years old and I have just recently found

    out that my girlfriend of 6 months cheated on me 3 times In the past week. My girl friend is 15 and is known for being flirty. I have known this because as a freshman she basically blew the whole basketball team. But we weren't going out then and I thought for some silly reason...
    Bry4n Bry4n 18-21, M 9 Responses Oct 2, 2014

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    The very first guy that I was with cheated on

    me.....with my at the time best friend. Guys TRUST your intuition. I knew something was wrong whenever he'd come around us. Anyway when I found out I left him and so did she because she "couldn't hurt me like that". She and I had decided to work out our friendship BUT I had...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2014

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    its not like i expected to have a serious

    relationship with him but still .. it doesn't feel nice
    naomizz naomizz 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2014

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    14 years of my life down the drain.

    Where do I even begin. I was always so accommodating and never expected much and I know now that's were I went wrong. I'm sure he was cheating with different women through out the years but I only caught him once. It all unfolded at 6 am one morning when e was snoring so loudly...
    candace36 candace36 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    Is there really moving on

    after your partner has been unfaithful? I feel like he's moving forward and I'm still struggling, & I don't want to keep bringing it up as we have agreed to put it behind us but I'm beginning to resent him for being able to just pick up and carry on when my whole world has...
    manders86 manders86 26-30, F 11 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    I've been cheated on twice.

    I think I knew it but I was in such a bad head space that I just let it happen the first time. The second time though I didn't take it and I know I'm in a better head space now and I wouldn't put up with it again.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2014

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    He's been cheating on me this whole time.

    Just got off the phone with girlfriend #2 and we got a plan to get some answers. No longer a military girlfriend.
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    Why did I think I could be different?

    I thought his love for me was genuine and in return my love would fix his emptiness. I'm foolish to have trusted him and believed in him. I hate this lonely part of moving on. I have to stop letting him suck me back into him. The only way forward is to move on.
    leftgirl88 leftgirl88 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 11, 2014

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    My husband told me he had cheated on me over

    the last 5 years and the over the last 9 months he was having an affair with this woman. He ended up leaving me for another woman and even moved in with her. A week later we decided to make our marriage work, he moved back in and told me he would never cheat on me and was 100...
    mcduffcm mcduffcm 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 19, 2014

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    I had been married for four months

    before I found out that my husband, whom I have been in a committed relationship for 9 years including a year-long engagement, cheated on me. It was a recipe for disaster, really. There were two instances before that he might have cheated on me, but trusting the relationship, I...
    krk314 krk314 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 21, 2014

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    My boyfriend of 3 years just cheated on me with

    his ex. One of her friends was nice enough to tell me about it( she even had pictures of there conversation ) when I asked him he blamed it all on her and said he was stopping anyway. But I realized he would of just continued if he wasn't caught:(
    EverWinter EverWinter 22-25, F 31 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    Well, it's official people.

    I have been cheated on. That girl I was dating; I found out today from one of her friends that she had slept with someone on Friday. I confronted her earlier this evening and she admitted it to my face. I will not be explaining her reasons here but you get the point. She didn...
    NeoxExor NeoxExor 22-25, M 4 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    I was Seeing my girlfriend

    for over 3years, she was my first love and I always have her what ever she wanted, she fell out with her family and moved into my house, for 5months we lived with my parents until finally getting a place of our own. It took us a few months to get on our feet but it was truly a...
    nathanunited94 nathanunited94 18-21, M 5 Responses Oct 20, 2014

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    I'm sharing this with you

    because I want to know how I can move forward from this. I do love my husband but I feel so betrayed by his actions. And not just him his family and friends new about this too! I have been with my husband for six years and we have been married for three. A past relationship...
    2011dolly40 2011dolly40 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    How do we expect for the person

    that broke us, to be the one to fix us?
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    I have been cheated on by my ex.

    . And right now I'm scared to fall in love again :'(
    GiftJ GiftJ 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 11, 2014

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    So I just told my boyfriend I think we should

    have a break as We are starting to 'fade away' from each other and he tells me he's been seeing someone else for a few months now! So he's been cheating on me for months and apparently he's been sleeping with him in my bed! Just wait till I check our car cameras and garage...
    cbailey301 cbailey301 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    I hate myself so much I can't believe I'm

    such an idiot I thought he really liked me but he had no interest in me...I'm broken and torn and crying and I just want to kill myself and I hate myself for being such and idiot. I can't believe this
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    I've been cheated on

    and I don't know how to deal. I miss him and I want him back but then I ask myself why would I? He cheated on me and it was like a stab to the heart. I feel used and alone but I don't know if I care.
    n0tw0rthanything n0tw0rthanything 18-21, F 4 Responses May 28, 2014

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    It has broken me as a woman.

    I feel inadequate and unattractive. I don't know how to get over this betrayal. I wish I knew what was wrong with me so I could fix it and make my lover happy and fulfilled physically and emotionally.
    leftgirl88 leftgirl88 31-35, F 6 Responses Jan 28, 2014

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    Second experience with being cheated on.

    The guy that I was with at the time disappeared on me out of the blue. He said that he was with family but I found it strange that I didn't get so much as a call or text and he denied all of mine. Fast forward about a month and a half, the girl he cheated on me with called...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2014

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    Being cheated on is literally the most ******

    up thing you can do to a person. It mentally and psychologically destroys people. I was cheated on 2 years ago, and I haven't been the same since. I'm battling the worst of depressions and Im just at rock bottom. It makes you lose self esteem, all of it. It makes you feel like...
    angela11xx angela11xx 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    Now has anyone ever had a joyful experience

    being cheated on? Hold on I can't hear you with all the *wailing, crying & shaking, sounds of hearts shattering like a fallen chandelier...* <> I didn't think so. Trust me you fu.ckin cheaters confessing your affair openly to your partner will hurt them *just as much* as...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    I have been cheated on ,

    not just once . And I feel like I've become kind of paranoid :( I can't trust any guys anymore . It's painful to have your heart broken .
    Psychedilc Psychedilc 18-21, F 37 Responses Oct 9, 2014

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    I think it's just something people go through.

    You choose what hurt controls you and I say f*** cheaters. If you don't want me, don't be with me. Competition isn't for me
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Aug 11, 2014

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    I have been cheated on more

    than a couple times, my latest ex cheated on me but is now texting me all the time.part of me feels like hey karma is a ***** because he says the new girl (the one he cheated with) won't give him sex, he told me he hasn't had a bj since the last time he saw me and said I was a...
    LoudMouse LoudMouse 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    Pumpkin carving with Other Man.

    "This has nothing to do with you" Clear as day God cuts through this angry fog. His blade is sharp with truth cuts me right through the lie of jealousy--mortally wounds it and He shows no mercy.. It's "jealousy " bloodstains the sword red Jealous at OMs house my kids are...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    One of my very worst relationships,

    it kept going for 1.5 year total, dont ask me why i kept going back to him because i have no memory of those times, i only know what has happened. He cheated on me with atleast 7 girls that i know of, i had my suspicions multiple times and his bestfriend became my bestfriend. He...
    EverythingAndAnything EverythingAndAnything 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Cheating, Spying And Getting Caught

    My wife had a so called emotional affair with someone over a 3 month period in a car while going to and back from work daily. They were in the car together for about 2 hours total a day. They ended up holding hands, pulling to the side of the road and kissing a handful of times...
    lost143 lost143 41-45 57 Responses Jun 20, 2012

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    I was fifteen my sophomore year

    when I met an eighteen year old senior and fell in love. He told me he loved me after a week and by two months I thought we would be together forever. We both wore promise rings and we dated for two years. Near the end of our relationship we began to argue a lot. There were a...
    MarineGirlfriend0810 MarineGirlfriend0810 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 5, 2014

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    being cheated on is the worst feeling ivy ever

    had to deal with always be faithful it hurts your partner in ways that just destroyed a person
    Tracyforrest Tracyforrest 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 5, 2014

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    My boyfriend and I were in a 4 year

    relationship, then suddenly a girl texted me saying that she's in a 1yr relationship with my boyfriend. I asked him about it and he denied it. Three months passed and the girl texted me again,. Saying that he chooses her over me, that they are living together & all those hurtful...
    iminamess iminamess 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    All the names in here are changed This guy

    named Brian and I were dating for about a little more than year. He had a lot of female friends but I didn't really mind because we had the same group of people and his friends were also my friends. One of his friends had made a comment about him and Kristen hanging out a lot by...
    2323keka 2323keka 16-17 3 Responses Feb 13

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    How Do You Get Over The Hurt?

    My husband and I have been married for 19 years. I found out 3 months ago that he was cheating on me. I decided to stay, but I am having the hardest time. He is sorry for what he did to me and has cut all ties with the other woman. I just can't seem to get over it. I try...
    wcooksey wcooksey 36-40 70 Responses