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I Have Been Cheated On

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    My first real love cheated on me

    and left me for a girl who was 8 years older than him, and plus she left her fiancé to be with him. Oh! And he and one of my "best" guy friends gave each other blow jobs. So glad he's out of my life forever lol
    n0ceur n0ceur 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I have been cheated on more

    than a couple times, my latest ex cheated on me but is now texting me all the time.part of me feels like hey karma is a ***** because he says the new girl (the one he cheated with) won't give him sex, he told me he hasn't had a bj since the last time he saw me and said I was a...
    LoudMouse LoudMouse 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    I have been cheated on by my ex.

    . And right now I'm scared to fall in love again :'(
    GiftJ GiftJ 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 11

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    How Much Does My Life Flow With Ease? / Commanding Respect

    "Don't devalue yourself by feeling you need to please people who don't appreciate your value." You can let go other people's transgressions upon you and keep your self respect through grace that would favor your self worth and be more becoming of your loveliness. This works for...
    AceofPentacles AceofPentacles 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 30, 2011

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    I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on

    me. He told me all these lies like I love you and I want to be with you when it turns out he has another girlfriend. I suspected it for a while to be honest but I can't explain the pain I feel right now. I thought we had a future together but I guess I was wrong. So I guess I'll...
    Savone52798 Savone52798 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    I Was Played By His Whole Family And Was The Only One Who Didn't Know What Went On! I Feel Betrayed And Can't Stop Thinking About It.

    I feel so upset and betrayed. My boyfriend and I were expecting a child and it was one of the happiest times of my life. When my daughter was a year and a half we were having some trouble with his family, they were always wanting money or something. When we wouldn't give them...
    Bre19 Bre19 66-70 8 Responses May 30, 2012

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    Second experience with being cheated on.

    The guy that I was with at the time disappeared on me out of the blue. He said that he was with family but I found it strange that I didn't get so much as a call or text and he denied all of mine. Fast forward about a month and a half, the girl he cheated on me with called...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    Glad To Say I'm Not Bitter, Just Guarded.

    My story actually happened four years ago. I met a girl at a dinner party, talked with her a bit and thought she was cute so I asked for her number. My only intention was to be friends, yet when I called her for our first phone conversation, she was saying how she is falling for...
    outlaw64 outlaw64 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    It has broken me as a woman.

    I feel inadequate and unattractive. I don't know how to get over this betrayal. I wish I knew what was wrong with me so I could fix it and make my lover happy and fulfilled physically and emotionally.
    leftgirl88 leftgirl88 31-35, F 6 Responses Jan 28

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    The very first guy that I was with cheated on

    me.....with my at the time best friend. Guys TRUST your intuition. I knew something was wrong whenever he'd come around us. Anyway when I found out I left him and so did she because she "couldn't hurt me like that". She and I had decided to work out our friendship BUT I had...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Being cheated on is literally the most ******

    up thing you can do to a person. It mentally and psychologically destroys people. I was cheated on 2 years ago, and I haven't been the same since. I'm battling the worst of depressions and Im just at rock bottom. It makes you lose self esteem, all of it. It makes you feel like...
    angela11xx angela11xx 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    My husband told me he had cheated on me over

    the last 5 years and the over the last 9 months he was having an affair with this woman. He ended up leaving me for another woman and even moved in with her. A week later we decided to make our marriage work, he moved back in and told me he would never cheat on me and was 100...
    mcduffcm mcduffcm 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 19

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    This is not the worst thing in life.

    U will still find+love better. ( adele was here:))
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F Aug 11

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    I've been cheated on

    and I don't know how to deal. I miss him and I want him back but then I ask myself why would I? He cheated on me and it was like a stab to the heart. I feel used and alone but I don't know if I care.
    n0tw0rthanything n0tw0rthanything 18-21, F 5 Responses May 28

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    To me it's cheating to other it may not seem

    like cheating. My bf and I were dating for 1.5 years before we got a apartment together I thought everything was going good between us. One day he said he was going to go to the bathroom he had his phone with him so I was going to go on the laptop his fb was open and a message...
    Otis123 Otis123 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    First gf ever cheated on me hahaha oh man.

    Hurt for a while eventually learned to move on.
    deteste96 deteste96 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I hate myself so much I can't believe I'm

    such an idiot I thought he really liked me but he had no interest in me...I'm broken and torn and crying and I just want to kill myself and I hate myself for being such and idiot. I can't believe this
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 9

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    Idk if I am being cheated on yet.

    He is away with ranger school in the army. I had to drop something off at his house yesterday that he told me to put it in the bottom drawer of his dresser.
    jlhhlj123 jlhhlj123 22-25, F Jul 17

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    Why did I think I could be different?

    I thought his love for me was genuine and in return my love would fix his emptiness. I'm foolish to have trusted him and believed in him. I hate this lonely part of moving on. I have to stop letting him suck me back into him. The only way forward is to move on.
    leftgirl88 leftgirl88 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    dre07 dre07 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    Wth..

    So just about everyone I've seen has ended up cheating on me. Kinda clear that theres something wrong with me haha That aside though, why would you not break up with them first? Just easier to go find you someone else while still playing girlfriend? Anywoos My last girlfriend, we...
    Dyrnwyn Dyrnwyn 26-30, M 6 Responses Jan 28, 2012

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    EliHudson16 EliHudson16 16-17, M Aug 12

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    Cheating, Spying And Getting Caught

    My wife had a so called emotional affair with someone over a 3 month period in a car while going to and back from work daily. They were in the car together for about 2 hours total a day. They ended up holding hands, pulling to the side of the road and kissing a handful of times...
    lost143 lost143 41-45 57 Responses Jun 20, 2012

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    It hurts me to think

    that all boys care about these days are sex and seeing you naked... Will boys ever change???? :(
    Bellacallidora Bellacallidora 13-15, F 9 Responses Aug 13

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    I think I had 8 boyfriends already

    and only one that I got pretty serious with. He was not my first bf but it was with him that I thought "ah yes, this must be love". So we got together for about a year and hell yeah! I found out about his relationship with another 6 girls. But I stayed with him because I felt...
    mrmshkh mrmshkh 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Just something I felt like sharing/talking

    about. My current bf and I had a fight and I guess this was his way of "getting back" at me. He began entertaining conversations with this female who KNEW that he was in a relationship but seemed to be more than willing to "obliviously" make herself available to him. (That...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F Aug 30

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    I am a scorned woman,

    but there will be no fury.
    tashielee tashielee 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 20

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    Well I used to date someone

    and recently i found out that he cheated on me with my bestfriend. My bestfriend turn him down and he came back for me.. And I found out that he asked my bestfriend out like just now... And it's really sad that he never mention about asking me out after months. It's really sad...
    NynnaDavis NynnaDavis 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    9 Years Of Marriage And She Had 2 Affairs With Strange Men In The Past 6 Months!

    It's now 7 days since the first clue, 4 days since I found out she was sleeping with him, and 3 days since I confronted her. I am still sick to my stomach. It's all I can do to not vomit when I look at her. Why so bad? Well.... We've been married for 9 years and have a 6 year old...
    FrustratedVT FrustratedVT 31-35 34 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    I have been hurt so many times by every single

    person I have trusted...for once in my life I just want to meet that one person who won't hurt me...I want to give up on love
    nerdyme nerdyme 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    How Do You Get Over The Hurt?

    My husband and I have been married for 19 years. I found out 3 months ago that he was cheating on me. I decided to stay, but I am having the hardest time. He is sorry for what he did to me and has cut all ties with the other woman. I just can't seem to get over it. I try...
    wcooksey wcooksey 36-40 63 Responses May 29, 2012

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    I'm sharing this with you

    because I want to know how I can move forward from this. I do love my husband but I feel so betrayed by his actions. And not just him his family and friends new about this too! I have been with my husband for six years and we have been married for three. A past relationship...
    2011dolly40 2011dolly40 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for 6 years and he is my life but the guy before me was a jerk. He had sex with someone in my bed whilst I was at work luckily I was left off work early and when I walked in he was doing doggie style with some guy using my pillow for support. Anyway it turns out he had been...
    mparker7789 mparker7789 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Throw Something At Me...

    I still can't get over it. Every day I question whether or not I can go on with her. All my thoughts somehow turn into thoughts of her being intimate with someone else. At first these thoughts would appear and break me so quickly that they disappeared right away. Now they linger...
    BeautyEvolving BeautyEvolving 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    I have a lot of internal conflicts.

    I am constantly blaming myself as to why certain things have happened to me in my life. I have secretly dealt with depression and self harm my whole teen age life and have parents who were very against self harm making it impossible to approach them on. I suffered in the dark...
    ImAWorkInProgress ImAWorkInProgress 16-17, F Jul 22

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    14 years of my life down the drain.

    Where do I even begin. I was always so accommodating and never expected much and I know now that's were I went wrong. I'm sure he was cheating with different women through out the years but I only caught him once. It all unfolded at 6 am one morning when e was snoring so loudly...
    candace36 candace36 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    well that's a lie. i think to be cheated on,

    you have to have been in a seriousness relationship so I guess it's not even a possibility that I've been cheated on fml
    amyrobbyy amyrobbyy 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    Idk if I am being cheated yet.

    He is away with ranger school in the Army right now. He asked me to put his phone in the bottom drawer of his dresser. When I got to his house, I just wasn't thinking and put it in the top drawer. I found where he's kept all my letters and just skimmed through him. However, I...
    jlhhlj123 jlhhlj123 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    I have been secretly dating the guy I was in

    live with for two years for a week- and 3 weeks ago he left for a trip to Europe. He messaged me on Facebook for 3 days and from then on ignored all of my messages. I had no idea when they were getting back so I just waited and hoped. When they arrived back, he wouldn't answer...
    MentoPiano MentoPiano 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I was fifteen my sophomore year

    when I met an eighteen year old senior and fell in love. He told me he loved me after a week and by two months I thought we would be together forever. We both wore promise rings and we dated for two years. Near the end of our relationship we began to argue a lot. There were a...
    MarineGirlfriend0810 MarineGirlfriend0810 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    I just had my second child,

    he was born last week. This pregnancy was specially hard on me, I was in and out of the hospital. I was sick constantly yet, I tried my best to keep my husband happy, he would physically and sexually reject me all the time. He seemed distant but ok at the same time. I found a...
    Thinkpink87 Thinkpink87 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    EvaSFenty EvaSFenty 18-21, F Jul 24

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    Has anyone been cheated on by their bf

    or gf and went on to be able to trust them again? I found out my bf was cheating on me before I left for my deployment 7 months ago. I found out a week before I left and he begged me to stay w him. We made it the whole 6 months of my deployment and I just got back 3 weeks ago...
    5683me 5683me 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 5

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    Two days after we got married my husband

    cheated on me with his ex who left him 6 months before he met me and after we married she came back to him and he cheated on me with her for 3 months until I caught him. He told me she said that shes pregnant with his child and I told him to ask her to take a paternity test...
    jennny098765 jennny098765 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I was in a relationship with my

    now ex for 15 months and he cheated on me. It hurts so much. For me being in a relationship is the only thing that makes really happy. He was the only one who made me feel beautiful. I regret all the things I let him do to me sexually they we all firsts for me, and he knew it...
    SelfishMachines SelfishMachines 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    What's wrong with me

    that I was turned on when I found out he cheated on me?
    ChaseOnTheFly ChaseOnTheFly 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 30

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    I had been married for four months

    before I found out that my husband, whom I have been in a committed relationship for 9 years including a year-long engagement, cheated on me. It was a recipe for disaster, really. There were two instances before that he might have cheated on me, but trusting the relationship, I...
    krk314 krk314 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    Getting Cheated On Hurts

    I was married for 5 years and I never cheated on my ex wife and I had offers and I just said sorry i am married. The first time she was caught cheating i forgive her and told her if she ever cheated again I would divorce her. She got caught the second time & I divorced her...
    1woody 1woody 36-40, M 29 Responses Jan 12, 2012

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    I think it's just something people go through.

    You choose what hurt controls you and I say f*** cheaters. If you don't want me, don't be with me. Competition isn't for me
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Aug 11

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    I did not write this,

    I wanted to share it on EP for all the ones who have been betrayed. Studies have proven this to be completely true. THEY ALWAYS AFFAIR DOWN Men always affair DOWN….WAY DOWN… So is there really an attraction to the other woman? Not really. It’s just that they are the...
    Brokenami Brokenami 31-35, F 7 Responses Apr 23

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    Related Experiences

    Update! There's hope guys - don't settle! Last time I posted it had been only one month since being cheated on - and I was a mess. Only thing I was sure of is that there was no way...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    My husband cheated on me online. He never met the woman but many of their conversations were very heart felt and emotional. He even asked her to marry him twice. (he claims he was...
    hasinalady hasinalady 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    To "I am the other man", FU you coward. Thanks for your part in destroying my marriage. Yes I made mistakes but have been man enough to change and not hide.
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 6