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I Have Been Cheated On

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    Why did I think I could be different?

    I thought his love for me was genuine and in return my love would fix his emptiness. I'm foolish to have trusted him and believed in him. I hate this lonely part of moving on. I have to stop letting him suck me back into him. The only way forward is to move on.
    leftgirl88 leftgirl88 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 11, 2014

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    One of my very worst relationships,

    it kept going for 1.5 year total, dont ask me why i kept going back to him because i have no memory of those times, i only know what has happened. He cheated on me with atleast 7 girls that i know of, i had my suspicions multiple times and his bestfriend became my bestfriend. He...
    EverythingAndAnything EverythingAndAnything 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    My husband cheated on me 13 years ago.

    He apologized and I forgave him. It still hurts. I doubt that he will ever understand why our marriage will never be the same again.
    Connie85 Connie85 46-50, F 21 Responses Jun 21

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    Everyone is in agreement

    that I deserve so much better and it's true. It's just that sometimes I find myself asking "what if" or "why". With all of that said however, I can't bring myself to ever trust him again so what's the point in going back?
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 28, 2014

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    Someday you’ll miss me like i missed you.

    Someday you’ll need me like i needed you. Someday you’ll love me and but I won't love you.
    Heartbroken46 Heartbroken46 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 5

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    All the names in here are changed This guy

    named Brian and I were dating for about a little more than year. He had a lot of female friends but I didn't really mind because we had the same group of people and his friends were also my friends. One of his friends had made a comment about him and Kristen hanging out a lot by...
    2323keka 2323keka 16-17 1 Response Feb 13

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    Well, it's official people.

    I have been cheated on. That girl I was dating; I found out today from one of her friends that she had slept with someone on Friday. I confronted her earlier this evening and she admitted it to my face. I will not be explaining her reasons here but you get the point. She didn...
    NeoxExor NeoxExor 22-25, M 4 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    My husband told me he had cheated on me over

    the last 5 years and the over the last 9 months he was having an affair with this woman. He ended up leaving me for another woman and even moved in with her. A week later we decided to make our marriage work, he moved back in and told me he would never cheat on me and was 100...
    mcduffcm mcduffcm 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 19, 2014

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    I've been cheated on

    and I don't know how to deal. I miss him and I want him back but then I ask myself why would I? He cheated on me and it was like a stab to the heart. I feel used and alone but I don't know if I care.
    n0tw0rthanything n0tw0rthanything 18-21, F 4 Responses May 28, 2014

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    14 years of my life down the drain.

    Where do I even begin. I was always so accommodating and never expected much and I know now that's were I went wrong. I'm sure he was cheating with different women through out the years but I only caught him once. It all unfolded at 6 am one morning when e was snoring so loudly...
    candace36 candace36 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    Ok...other man is in your life

    and your kids lives. He didn't come I nobly or as a friend but kind of conniving and through the back door. Doesn't matter. He may be here forever..the love affair partner of your wife. Man up. Accept it, and do what you can to be there for the kids. Don't waste energy on his...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M Oct 26, 2014

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    I'm sharing this with you

    because I want to know how I can move forward from this. I do love my husband but I feel so betrayed by his actions. And not just him his family and friends new about this too! I have been with my husband for six years and we have been married for three. A past relationship...
    2011dolly40 2011dolly40 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    Now has anyone ever had a joyful experience

    being cheated on? Hold on I can't hear you with all the *wailing, crying & shaking, sounds of hearts shattering like a fallen chandelier...* <> I didn't think so. Trust me you fu.ckin cheaters confessing your affair openly to your partner will hurt them *just as much* as...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    How do we expect for the person

    that broke us, to be the one to fix us?
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    I have been cheated on by my ex.

    . And right now I'm scared to fall in love again :'(
    GiftJ GiftJ 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 11, 2014

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    I think I had 8 boyfriends already

    and only one that I got pretty serious with. He was not my first bf but it was with him that I thought "ah yes, this must be love". So we got together for about a year and hell yeah! I found out about his relationship with another 6 girls. But I stayed with him because I felt...
    mrmshkh mrmshkh 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2014

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    So I just told my boyfriend I think we should

    have a break as We are starting to 'fade away' from each other and he tells me he's been seeing someone else for a few months now! So he's been cheating on me for months and apparently he's been sleeping with him in my bed! Just wait till I check our car cameras and garage...
    cbailey301 cbailey301 22-25, M Nov 4, 2014

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    I swear like I never want to get married

    or fall in love,love is stupid ....I feel true love is thing of luck or chance :/ I don't care for finding the right one or the right one finding me ...ppl are unloyal unfaithful selfish greedy lying confused beings
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 14

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    Getting Cheated On Hurts

    I was married for 5 years and I never cheated on my ex wife and I had offers and I just said sorry i am married. The first time she was caught cheating i forgive her and told her if she ever cheated again I would divorce her. She got caught the second time & I divorced her...
    1woody 1woody 36-40, M 28 Responses Jan 12, 2012

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    I wish people would just leave instead of

    killing every emotion in a person by doing this. I guess some people can handle it better then others but let me tell you it really destroys people like me.
    2isbetterthan1 2isbetterthan1 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2014

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    pgable pgable 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 5

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    I caught my girlfriend sleeping with this guy.

    . I want to kill myself, I don't know what to do... Do I hurt him or myself???
    GodlessWorld GodlessWorld 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 19

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    Being cheated on is literally the most ******

    up thing you can do to a person. It mentally and psychologically destroys people. I was cheated on 2 years ago, and I haven't been the same since. I'm battling the worst of depressions and Im just at rock bottom. It makes you lose self esteem, all of it. It makes you feel like...
    angela11xx angela11xx 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    Pumpkin carving with Other Man.

    "This has nothing to do with you" Clear as day God cuts through this angry fog. His blade is sharp with truth cuts me right through the lie of jealousy--mortally wounds it and He shows no mercy.. It's "jealousy " bloodstains the sword red Jealous at OMs house my kids are...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    The biggest coward is a man

    who awakens a woman's love with no intention of loving her .
    Heartbroken46 Heartbroken46 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 4

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    The very first guy that I was with cheated on

    me.....with my at the time best friend. Guys TRUST your intuition. I knew something was wrong whenever he'd come around us. Anyway when I found out I left him and so did she because she "couldn't hurt me like that". She and I had decided to work out our friendship BUT I had...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2014

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    You ask yourself was any of it true ?

    Was I the only one who was in this relationship . If you weren't happy why couldn't just just have left ? Why did you have to hurt me for your own satisfaction ...
    Coolcatsandcoffee Coolcatsandcoffee 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    How Do You Get Over The Hurt?

    My husband and I have been married for 19 years. I found out 3 months ago that he was cheating on me. I decided to stay, but I am having the hardest time. He is sorry for what he did to me and has cut all ties with the other woman. I just can't seem to get over it. I try...
    wcooksey wcooksey 36-40 75 Responses May 29, 2012

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    My boyfriend and I were in a 4 year

    relationship, then suddenly a girl texted me saying that she's in a 1yr relationship with my boyfriend. I asked him about it and he denied it. Three months passed and the girl texted me again,. Saying that he chooses her over me, that they are living together & all those hurtful...
    iminamess iminamess 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    I think it's just something people go through.

    You choose what hurt controls you and I say f*** cheaters. If you don't want me, don't be with me. Competition isn't for me
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Aug 11, 2014

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    Cheating, Spying And Getting Caught

    My wife had a so called emotional affair with someone over a 3 month period in a car while going to and back from work daily. They were in the car together for about 2 hours total a day. They ended up holding hands, pulling to the side of the road and kissing a handful of times...
    lost143 lost143 41-45 57 Responses Jun 20, 2012

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    I am beginning to think there is something

    wrong with me that my boyfriend has to cheat on me. Although he has not physically cheated on me, I have caught him on a dating website twice now. He lies to these girls about his name, age, background and has no intention of hanging out with them, but that doesn't matter. I...
    creepinbeauty creepinbeauty 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    my wife of five years has cheated on me with

    nine different guys that I know of three of them were friends of mine and one was my best friend, but I can't bring myself to hurt my kids with a divorce and I'm in the army so if I do divorce ill probably never see my kids. I feel like I'm stuck and when I go home its hard to...
    george2323 george2323 26-30, M 4 Responses Nov 23, 2014

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    My boyfriend of 3 years just cheated on me with

    his ex. One of her friends was nice enough to tell me about it( she even had pictures of there conversation ) when I asked him he blamed it all on her and said he was stopping anyway. But I realized he would of just continued if he wasn't caught:(
    EverWinter EverWinter 22-25, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    So my girlfriend of eight months told me she

    had oral with another guy, but she didn't give him anything in return, he did the oral. I am not sure how I should take this. I love her, and we are long distance. She told me he noticed she was sad, and asked if she was lonely. She said she was lonely, but not that kind of...
    james0855 james0855 22-25, M 2 Responses May 2

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    How Much Does My Life Flow With Ease? / Commanding Respect

    "Don't devalue yourself by feeling you need to please people who don't appreciate your value." You can let go other people's transgressions upon you and keep your self respect through grace that would favor your self worth and be more becoming of your loveliness. This works for...
    AceofPentacles AceofPentacles 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 30, 2011

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    I was 16 at the time

    and my pig boyfriend was having sex with a 13 year old. i think he was 17. glad he vanished outta my life.
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I have been cheated on ,

    not just once . And I feel like I've become kind of paranoid :( I can't trust any guys anymore . It's painful to have your heart broken .
    Psychedilc Psychedilc 18-21, F 37 Responses Oct 9, 2014

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    I've been cheated on twice

    and the bad part about is the last guy swore he would never do me the same. I can't get passed it, I try to forget but can't. I just hate how they always text me to get me back. I want to get passed it and move on.
    TheTruth94 TheTruth94 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Heartbroken46 Heartbroken46 41-45, F 9 Responses Mar 18

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    Is there really moving on

    after your partner has been unfaithful? I feel like he's moving forward and I'm still struggling, & I don't want to keep bringing it up as we have agreed to put it behind us but I'm beginning to resent him for being able to just pick up and carry on when my whole world has...
    manders86 manders86 26-30, F 11 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    I hate cheaters... Like

    if you're not happy in your current relationship don't just ******* go out and **** with someone else. Like no, break it off with them if you're not happy. Cheaters are just as worse as liars. Cheating may not really seem like a big deal to you, since you're the not the victim...
    HazeyHaley HazeyHaley 13-15, F 2 Responses May 4

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    I'm going through so much .

    I met a guy on Facebook he chased me for months before I finally gave him the time of day . I wouldn't really talk to him much but one day I finally decided to give him a chance . We didn't really date much we kind of just jumped into a relationship . We dated for months and in...
    nicolevi nicolevi 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 8, 2014

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    I hate myself so much I can't believe I'm

    such an idiot I thought he really liked me but he had no interest in me...I'm broken and torn and crying and I just want to kill myself and I hate myself for being such and idiot. I can't believe this
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    being cheated on is the worst feeling ivy ever

    had to deal with always be faithful it hurts your partner in ways that just destroyed a person
    Tracyforrest Tracyforrest 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 5, 2014

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    Second experience with being cheated on.

    The guy that I was with at the time disappeared on me out of the blue. He said that he was with family but I found it strange that I didn't get so much as a call or text and he denied all of mine. Fast forward about a month and a half, the girl he cheated on me with called...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2014