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I Have Been Cheated On

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    The very first guy that I was with cheated on

    me.....with my at the time best friend. Guys TRUST your intuition. I knew something was wrong whenever he'd come around us. Anyway when I found out I left him and so did she because she "couldn't hurt me like that". She and I had decided to work out our friendship BUT I had...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Why did I think I could be different?

    I thought his love for me was genuine and in return my love would fix his emptiness. I'm foolish to have trusted him and believed in him. I hate this lonely part of moving on. I have to stop letting him suck me back into him. The only way forward is to move on.
    leftgirl88 leftgirl88 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 11

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    9 Years Of Marriage And She Had 2 Affairs With Strange Men In The Past 6 Months!

    It's now 7 days since the first clue, 4 days since I found out she was sleeping with him, and 3 days since I confronted her. I am still sick to my stomach. It's all I can do to not vomit when I look at her. Why so bad? Well.... We've been married for 9 years and have a 6 year old...
    FrustratedVT FrustratedVT 31-35 34 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    I was fifteen my sophomore year

    when I met an eighteen year old senior and fell in love. He told me he loved me after a week and by two months I thought we would be together forever. We both wore promise rings and we dated for two years. Near the end of our relationship we began to argue a lot. There were a...
    MarineGirlfriend0810 MarineGirlfriend0810 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    I think it's just something people go through.

    You choose what hurt controls you and I say f*** cheaters. If you don't want me, don't be with me. Competition isn't for me
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Aug 11

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    Getting Cheated On Hurts

    I was married for 5 years and I never cheated on my ex wife and I had offers and I just said sorry i am married. The first time she was caught cheating i forgive her and told her if she ever cheated again I would divorce her. She got caught the second time & I divorced her...
    1woody 1woody 36-40, M 29 Responses Jan 12, 2012

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    Glad To Say I'm Not Bitter, Just Guarded.

    My story actually happened four years ago. I met a girl at a dinner party, talked with her a bit and thought she was cute so I asked for her number. My only intention was to be friends, yet when I called her for our first phone conversation, she was saying how she is falling for...
    outlaw64 outlaw64 22-25, M 5 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    I think I had 8 boyfriends already

    and only one that I got pretty serious with. He was not my first bf but it was with him that I thought "ah yes, this must be love". So we got together for about a year and hell yeah! I found out about his relationship with another 6 girls. But I stayed with him because I felt...
    mrmshkh mrmshkh 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on

    me. He told me all these lies like I love you and I want to be with you when it turns out he has another girlfriend. I suspected it for a while to be honest but I can't explain the pain I feel right now. I thought we had a future together but I guess I was wrong. So I guess I'll...
    Savone52798 Savone52798 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    How Much Does My Life Flow With Ease? / Commanding Respect

    "Don't devalue yourself by feeling you need to please people who don't appreciate your value." You can let go other people's transgressions upon you and keep your self respect through grace that would favor your self worth and be more becoming of your loveliness. This works for...
    AceofPentacles AceofPentacles 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 30, 2011

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    I did not write this,

    I wanted to share it on EP for all the ones who have been betrayed. Studies have proven this to be completely true. THEY ALWAYS AFFAIR DOWN Men always affair DOWN….WAY DOWN… So is there really an attraction to the other woman? Not really. It’s just that they are the...
    Brokenami Brokenami 31-35, F 7 Responses Apr 23

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    I'm going through so much .

    I met a guy on Facebook he chased me for months before I finally gave him the time of day . I wouldn't really talk to him much but one day I finally decided to give him a chance . We didn't really date much we kind of just jumped into a relationship . We dated for months and in...
    nicolevi nicolevi 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 8

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    its not like i expected to have a serious

    relationship with him but still .. it doesn't feel nice
    naomizz naomizz 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    This is not the worst thing in life.

    U will still find+love better. ( adele was here:))
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F Aug 11

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    Cheated on again...when will I learn?

    I let the first time go by, because it hadn't even been for a week, and you didn't have feelings for that girl. And I thought you still loved me, and I was still crazy for you. But now I find out you've been cheating again....for over 2 months of our relationship. And not only...
    WintersSoldier2 WintersSoldier2 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 21

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    I was Seeing my girlfriend

    for over 3years, she was my first love and I always have her what ever she wanted, she fell out with her family and moved into my house, for 5months we lived with my parents until finally getting a place of our own. It took us a few months to get on our feet but it was truly a...
    nathanunited94 nathanunited94 18-21, M 5 Responses Oct 20

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    I'm 18 years old and I have just recently found

    out that my girlfriend of 6 months cheated on me 3 times In the past week. My girl friend is 15 and is known for being flirty. I have known this because as a freshman she basically blew the whole basketball team. But we weren't going out then and I thought for some silly reason...
    Bry4n Bry4n 18-21, M 9 Responses Oct 2

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    EliHudson16 EliHudson16 16-17, M Aug 12

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    I have been cheated on ,

    not just once . And I feel like I've become kind of paranoid :( I can't trust any guys anymore . It's painful to have your heart broken .
    Psychedilc Psychedilc 18-21, F 42 Responses Oct 9

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    When ever I let someone in they're always

    telling me the nxt day tht they had the a gf the whole time we were talking and I don't want to do bc it hurts and now I have trust issues
    loveandcareabout loveandcareabout 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 15

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    My husband told me he had cheated on me over

    the last 5 years and the over the last 9 months he was having an affair with this woman. He ended up leaving me for another woman and even moved in with her. A week later we decided to make our marriage work, he moved back in and told me he would never cheat on me and was 100...
    mcduffcm mcduffcm 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 19

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    I had been married for four months

    before I found out that my husband, whom I have been in a committed relationship for 9 years including a year-long engagement, cheated on me. It was a recipe for disaster, really. There were two instances before that he might have cheated on me, but trusting the relationship, I...
    krk314 krk314 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    Oh yes. Mrs Tryagainuk is a fine woman-

    clever, sexy and very attractive. And also wont to stray. She thinks I believe she has stopped- however iCloud tells me differently....
    tryagainuk tryagainuk 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 30

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for 6 years and he is my life but the guy before me was a jerk. He had sex with someone in my bed whilst I was at work luckily I was left off work early and when I walked in he was doing doggie style with some guy using my pillow for support. Anyway it turns out he had been...
    mparker7789 mparker7789 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 14

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    Cheating, Spying And Getting Caught

    My wife had a so called emotional affair with someone over a 3 month period in a car while going to and back from work daily. They were in the car together for about 2 hours total a day. They ended up holding hands, pulling to the side of the road and kissing a handful of times...
    lost143 lost143 41-45 57 Responses Jun 20, 2012

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    I hate myself so much I can't believe I'm

    such an idiot I thought he really liked me but he had no interest in me...I'm broken and torn and crying and I just want to kill myself and I hate myself for being such and idiot. I can't believe this
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 9

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    I discovered that my husband had solicited a

    prostitute from Craigslist. They had exchanged numbers and he had given her a time and date to meet. When I confronted him about it he said he was only trolling for pictures. I don't know what to believe. We have 3 children and one on the way. I also found a picture he had taken...
    Ann91708 Ann91708 26-30, F 9 Responses Oct 1

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    He used to have an ep account on here.

    Now it's gone. Just deleted, literally within this last half hour. I guess after I found out he deleted it. I posted on his white board saying good night I love him and for him to text me tomorrow (today) and apparently it was right over his girlfriends last post. Sigh.
    WintersSoldier2 WintersSoldier2 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    I have been hurt so many times by every single

    person I have trusted...for once in my life I just want to meet that one person who won't hurt me...I want to give up on love
    nerdyme nerdyme 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    well that's a lie. i think to be cheated on,

    you have to have been in a seriousness relationship so I guess it's not even a possibility that I've been cheated on fml
    amyrobbyy amyrobbyy 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    It has broken me as a woman.

    I feel inadequate and unattractive. I don't know how to get over this betrayal. I wish I knew what was wrong with me so I could fix it and make my lover happy and fulfilled physically and emotionally.
    leftgirl88 leftgirl88 31-35, F 6 Responses Jan 28

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    I'm sharing this with you

    because I want to know how I can move forward from this. I do love my husband but I feel so betrayed by his actions. And not just him his family and friends new about this too! I have been with my husband for six years and we have been married for three. A past relationship...
    2011dolly40 2011dolly40 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    14 years of my life down the drain.

    Where do I even begin. I was always so accommodating and never expected much and I know now that's were I went wrong. I'm sure he was cheating with different women through out the years but I only caught him once. It all unfolded at 6 am one morning when e was snoring so loudly...
    candace36 candace36 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    It hurts me to think

    that all boys care about these days are sex and seeing you naked... Will boys ever change???? :(
    Bellacallidora Bellacallidora 13-15, F 10 Responses Aug 13

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    Just something I felt like sharing/talking

    about. My current bf and I had a fight and I guess this was his way of "getting back" at me. He began entertaining conversations with this female who KNEW that he was in a relationship but seemed to be more than willing to "obliviously" make herself available to him. (That...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F Aug 30

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    Well I used to date someone

    and recently i found out that he cheated on me with my bestfriend. My bestfriend turn him down and he came back for me.. And I found out that he asked my bestfriend out like just now... And it's really sad that he never mention about asking me out after months. It's really sad...
    NynnaDavis NynnaDavis 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Second experience with being cheated on.

    The guy that I was with at the time disappeared on me out of the blue. He said that he was with family but I found it strange that I didn't get so much as a call or text and he denied all of mine. Fast forward about a month and a half, the girl he cheated on me with called...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    Now has anyone ever had a joyful experience

    being cheated on? Hold on I can't hear you with all the *wailing, crying & shaking, sounds of hearts shattering like a fallen chandelier...* <> I didn't think so. Trust me you fu.ckin cheaters confessing your affair openly to your partner will hurt them *just as much* as...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 3 Responses Oct 13

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    I have been cheated on by my ex.

    . And right now I'm scared to fall in love again :'(
    GiftJ GiftJ 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 11

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    I just had my second child,

    he was born last week. This pregnancy was specially hard on me, I was in and out of the hospital. I was sick constantly yet, I tried my best to keep my husband happy, he would physically and sexually reject me all the time. He seemed distant but ok at the same time. I found a...
    Thinkpink87 Thinkpink87 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    EvaSFenty EvaSFenty 18-21, F Jul 24

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    Being cheated on is literally the most ******

    up thing you can do to a person. It mentally and psychologically destroys people. I was cheated on 2 years ago, and I haven't been the same since. I'm battling the worst of depressions and Im just at rock bottom. It makes you lose self esteem, all of it. It makes you feel like...
    angela11xx angela11xx 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    Lol I don't know how many times I've been

    cheated on!! Every fn relationship!!! It's kinda sad when you start getting used to it. Maybe, one day I'll find a good partner, who won't hurt me. Doubt it...but just maybe there's someone out there who's as loyal as me. I don't want to say guys are douchebags but guys are...
    Kayloves060814 Kayloves060814 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 21

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    Ok...other man is in your life

    and your kids lives. He didn't come I nobly or as a friend but kind of conniving and through the back door. Doesn't matter. He may be here forever..the love affair partner of your wife. Man up. Accept it, and do what you can to be there for the kids. Don't waste energy on his...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    He's been cheating on me this whole time.

    Just got off the phone with girlfriend #2 and we got a plan to get some answers. No longer a military girlfriend.
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 3

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    Pumpkin carving with Other Man.

    "This has nothing to do with you" Clear as day God cuts through this angry fog. His blade is sharp with truth cuts me right through the lie of jealousy--mortally wounds it and He shows no mercy.. It's "jealousy " bloodstains the sword red Jealous at OMs house my kids are...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    How Do You Get Over The Hurt?

    My husband and I have been married for 19 years. I found out 3 months ago that he was cheating on me. I decided to stay, but I am having the hardest time. He is sorry for what he did to me and has cut all ties with the other woman. I just can't seem to get over it. I try...
    wcooksey wcooksey 36-40 66 Responses May 29, 2012

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    I have been cheated on more

    than a couple times, my latest ex cheated on me but is now texting me all the time.part of me feels like hey karma is a ***** because he says the new girl (the one he cheated with) won't give him sex, he told me he hasn't had a bj since the last time he saw me and said I was a...
    LoudMouse LoudMouse 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 6

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    I've been cheated on twice.

    I think I knew it but I was in such a bad head space that I just let it happen the first time. The second time though I didn't take it and I know I'm in a better head space now and I wouldn't put up with it again.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 3

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    I've been cheated on

    and I don't know how to deal. I miss him and I want him back but then I ask myself why would I? He cheated on me and it was like a stab to the heart. I feel used and alone but I don't know if I care.
    n0tw0rthanything n0tw0rthanything 18-21, F 5 Responses May 28

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