I Have Been Cheated On Forum & Chat Board | how to get over being cheated on

i just found out my girlfriend of 6 years cheated on me for the second time the first time i took her back this time i cant but i feel so alone and empty i dedicated my life to her and now feel like i am losing every thing i held dear in my life what do i do? also my first love makes it harder.

 

I'm really sorry to hear that. It must be especially hard since she you thought she changed and gave her a second chance. My first love said he would never ignore me, or cheat on me, both of which he did. It wasn't as long as your relationship, but we were in the process of moving in together. I really do feel for you though. Especially that loneliness you have. Everyone in my family is happy and has someone special in their lives, kinda sucks being left in the cold.

My advice to you is to try and distract yourself. Find something that makes you happy, that has no attachment to her, and go out and do it! When you are alone at home, call up some of your friends and see if they want to hang out. Then you won't be sad and you'll be so distracted you'll forget about whatshername. I know how much it hurts, you just have to distract yourself as much as possible and go out and have fun. You're free now!

 

 I've been in your shoes before and I know its not easy. But its true the best thing for you to do is to go out and do stuff with your friends or family. The more you are alone the worse you will feel. If she calls or texts you as much as you would like to dont answer her calls or texts. Slowly but surely you will forget her. Be patient and you will see that something much much better will come along. God Bless!!!
 

 

Seems impossible doesn't it. One day at a time. Even one hour at a time. Thats how it was for me. Even every minute you can get thru is good. Its hurts like hell and feels like it will never go away.

People live they don't give up. Its temporary. Pain will stop. Just have to wait, keep busy, slowly but surely smile and make yourself happy. 
No one else can do this, its all up to you. Think about yourself and the things you want and you will eventually get them. :)
Keep keeping on

 

I am in the same boat you are in. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years and all of a sudden he just stop staying at my house and goes home. He does not answer his phone anymore. He acts as though i don't exist. I am taking the advice as well and i know its going to be hard for me too. We can do it. Time heals all pain. I'm going to do everything i can to get over him. I'm crying now as I'm typing but what wont kill us, will make us stronger. 

 

I know you feel like it's the end of the world, but it's not; life goes on and will go on and you will meet someone eventually who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.  Be thankful you weren't married with children....