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I Have Been Cyber Stalked

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    Since 2010

    I was with my ex for about 7 years. We had several good years, but his personality changed in the last year or so and things got weird then abusive. He installed a keylogger on my computer. hacked my phone, posted private photos on **** sites. I left and moved far away, while he...
    pillpopper2000 pillpopper2000 41-45 Feb 23, 2013

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    Sibling Stalker

    My computers and home network have been accessed and remote desktop set up on my computers without my knowledge by a sibling who works in IT. She has these rages when anyone crosses her and I really think this behavior is a new frightening level of crazy--a serious escalation...
    NotAnIsland NotAnIsland 61-65 1 Response Mar 25, 2012

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    Yes I Have!

    A woman has cyber stalked me since 1999 despite me pleaing with her to leave  me the heck alone to add injury to insult she than turns up in my country and sends me threats she wants my friends, my life, every thing i have despite me showing the threats to the police I was...
    MsDelight MsDelight 41-45 1 Response Jul 6, 2008

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    Shudders!

    This happened to me A LOT on Myspace... It's the reason why I am NOT there anymore. I tore down my account with a cheer! :-D Yes... there were so many weirdos and creeps stalking me on there. But one guy, he was the most creepy, being that he lived close to my neighborhood...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 6, 2009

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    Happening Today

    I have a horrible diluted EP stalker. This male is sadly drunk on the idea that I think anything about him at all. This turd has created up to seven new accounts a day trying to talk to me here. I block him every single time it is clear that I am dealing with this brainless b00b...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    Has It Finally Ended?

    I was cyber stalked for over a year. Because of a some people I use to hang out with in chats and such. I was blamed for things they did or didnt do, when I had no control over their actions. I lived states or further away from them, but some how it was all my fault. When they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 3, 2008

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    After A 3 Year Relationship I Found Out I Was Being Monitored And Still Am

    I was in a relationship with a coder that worked for a network management software company. I am tech savvy but I had no idea the tools were out there that were used on my 2 pc's Mac laptop, android phone, internet router that's what I know of. I feel isolated, I'm afraid to...
    Leemo Leemo 46-50 1 Response Nov 8, 2011

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    Most Frustrating Thing Ever.

    A former boyfriend of three years has created 14 various accounts across multiple websites to get into contact with me. I block one without responding and he makes another. I have changed my phone number and he always gets ahold of it somehow. I am constantly changing my email...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 28, 2013

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    I Have

    I have indeed been cyber stalked.  The people who do these things have no life and they want to see people in misery cause their lives aren't good and misery is how they feel.  All they want is revenge. Anyone who chooses to bully is admitting their...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 23, 2010

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    Ten Year Nightmare

    I am now 24. The guy that took the pictures (and whose penis is shown in the pics) is now 33. He posts the pics online with my full name to humiliate me. Search my name, and his links are among the top results. I have since tried to move on with my life, I mean what the **** was...
    pullmeoutfrominside pullmeoutfrominside 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 1, 2013

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    Cyberstalker Showing Up?

    Has anybody ever had an incident where your cyber stalker who might live states away has took it upon themselves to show up to your door step? The reason why I asked is because I did a google search on my name & specific things came up like my address and my telephone number.. I...
    SorryNotSorry SorryNotSorry 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2012

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    Someone Is Stalking Me

    I am a member of another site.(Not a dating site, in case you are thinking that) I started getting messages from a man a few days ago, just saying hello. I responded with "Hello do I know you" and was told no. Then was asked "How are you?"  I again asked do I know you...
    poodles53 poodles53 56-60, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2010

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    Still Going Through It

    I am currently being cyberstalked/ harrassed online, and I cannot take it anymore, I called the PD twice and asked to press charges because I know exactly who it is. I made the mistake of answering a message and told them that I was just going to go to the police and the person...
    icanttakeitnemore icanttakeitnemore 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2013

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    They Are Watching Lol *right?*

    Nope! no joke ... seems like these things do exist, and that it is in fact illegal and persons can be prosecuted Here is some information that I got of the Internet.   http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cyberstalking#Cyberstalking_legislation   Cyberstalking is the use...
    kinkitty kinkitty 36-40, F 24 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    A Thing That Happened

    I've started writing about this at www.girlastronaut.com - would appreciate it if you would have a look and let me know if you have any suggestions. Thanks. This is a bit of an ongoing situation. When I say "ongoing" what I really mean is that the police have yet to do...
    girlastronaut girlastronaut 22-25 Nov 25, 2012

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    In my early teens around 2000,

    I created a Myspace account. This man named Chuck added me. Of course I was fine with it because he was into anime and manga and being a young teen I didn't know he was going to stalk me even to this day. Chuck was 32 years old at the time when I was in my early teens and I was...
    dreaminginjune dreaminginjune 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    On Messenger

    After going on a tirade I decided I didn't want to chat with him so I blocked him... for the next 2 weeks he would open new accounts just to add me as a friend. Every time he did he would blow up on me saying that I was ruining his life by not talking to me. Another guy would IM...
    GoddessNakiBean GoddessNakiBean 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 13, 2008

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    In Our Midst

    That's right folks. TATE IS A CYBER STALKER! On another site, she tracked down my profile and messaged me: "Aren't you going to add me as a friend, blueberry waffle man?"    
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 9, 2008

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    Cyber Stalked For Five Years.

    All started in an MIRC chatroom. Became friends with this female, started to see that she continued to follow me in all of my chatrooms that I entered so I cut off this internet friendship. Couple weeks go by & I mingle with this guy for a good couple of months & so on because...
    SorryNotSorry SorryNotSorry 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    Need Help

    Hi there, I am being cyberstalked. There seems to be a website about me stating that I am a *********. Needless to say it's not true but everyone is refusing to help me because of the nature of the harassment. Everyone (from relatives, roommates, colleagues) around me has been...
    jen16088 jen16088 31-35 2 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    This is the most frightening feeling of all.

    Having a man off the computer find out every little detail about you..He hacked my webcam and showed me that he was always watching me. I was helpless to his blackmail and threats.. He watched me do every thing and knew my every move up until he kidnapped me.. A virtual...
    LilVixen17 LilVixen17 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 28

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    The Dark One And The Month That Changed My Life

    her name means "dark" in another language. i wouldnt find this out until months later. i met her on a tori amos forum and she seemed pretty cool. she agreed with me on everything so naturally i liked her. i remember one day out of the blue i got a private message from her saying...
    pinkmonroe pinkmonroe 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 12, 2012

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    Cyber Stalked For Years!!!

    It started many years ago, He was the greatest person (wanted to say friend, but no friend would do this to you) to talk and chat with. But things started changing because I wouldn't do any sexual on cam... He then  hacked into my computer changed my passwords. Made some crazy...
    MysticBeauty MysticBeauty 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2011

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    Cyber Stalking

    It all started with a Facebook message. Not even to me, but to one of my friends. It was from a man telling her to tell me he watched me play sports on the weekend and that he hoped my exams went well. I was in shock. He knew my name. What sport I played. When my games were. My...
    EllaBelleT EllaBelleT 18-21 3 Responses Jan 7, 2011

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    Stalking Again!

    This stalker continuously keeps finding my Twitter usernames & keeps tagging, mentioning me. I actually got DM today of somebody telling me that she had my new username tagged saying that I idolize her. The hell? Again she's using that false victimization bull ish to gain...
    SorryNotSorry SorryNotSorry 22-25, F Dec 17, 2012

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    So I was on omegle and I was shown footage of

    girls wrapped in duct tape and they were crying. Then he said I would be next if the guy in (my city here) got his way. I never told him my location.
    leahevans leahevans 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 17, 2014

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    Network 'nightmares'....

    Hi, I'll start by saying thanks for having me.  Im new here, and really greatful for the opportunity to talk without fear of anything. I do sincerely believe that i am being cyber stalked, by a whole network of people. yes! im well aware of how 'CRAZY' i sound but...
    psfs psfs 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2009

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    Neighbor Stalker

    I have a neighbor who has stalked me for several years. It started over something stupid and for years they have taunted me with insults, defamation, property damage, etc., etc. Textbook. Their main theme seems to be discounting me in the community by expressing that I am...
    frustratedstalkingvictim frustratedstalkingvictim 46-50, F Jul 5, 2012

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    I know this isn't 'stalking'.

    But I'm unsure what to call it. Sure, I admit I've looked up people and continuously looked up people I couldn't get over. And yes. I guess it's pretty wrong. Sometimes you just get curious what so and so is doing now. I know I have had people tracing me online. Not for any...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Oct 12, 2014

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    I thought for 2 years I was special.

    U was unique and I had creature trying to destroy me or that reason. Now after much heartache, huge risks, and many long painful nights i discovered the truth. I was never haunted by anything, I'm not unique and anyway. I have something wrong with my head. That cause me horrible...
    Hike16 Hike16 16-17, M Mar 4, 2014

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    so yeah i have been in a super abusive relationship. more than once where i was raped 17 times, ive been hit so many times that i can't even count them and i have been kidnapped...
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    I always get cues to guide me out of harms way. I have been blessed.
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    I have been verbally and mentally abused by my mom and dad, never really anything psychical, I mean.. I've been hit before, but nothing extreme. My mom is better about it, but my...
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    I have been in a relationship with my partner for 6 years, we were engaged for 2 but I ended that due to his drug/anger issues. We have a 4 year old son together. This week his...
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    I have been told more times then I can count that I look like Meryl Streep.