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I Have Been Divorced Twice

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    Divorced Twice By 30

    My first marriage is a blur. I have a hard time remembering those days. Bits and pieces come back to me now and then and I remember not really even liking my husband before we were married. It's really a long story that I may type out sometime, but not now. The short version...
    MysMomma MysMomma 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2011

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    Will The Third Be A Charm?

    I'm 33, and I've been married nd divorced twice already.I was fortunate enough I guess to marry my high school sweetheart, but we married young( I was 18 he 19) our first son was special needs (I think our relationship was doomed after that) but we managed to keep it together for...
    karliekat2026 karliekat2026 31-35, F Oct 2, 2012

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    Been Divorced Twice By Age 34.....

    I am now 34 and I have been divorced twice. The first time I was 20 and had a baby. I was young, not in love and thought 1. I had no choice and 2. I couldn't do any better. Heck, who would want someone with a child. He was a momma's boy and we ended up moving into an apartment...
    sapmoore96 sapmoore96 31-35 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    Don't Know How To Live With The Social Stigma...

    I got married when I was 21... I knew I shouldn't have married him but we had been living together (oh, the horror!) and it was expected. Next, it was expected that we would have a family and we did -- two amazing boys I love very much, but the relationship didn't survive. I...
    stillasweetiepie stillasweetiepie 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 22, 2012

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    Divorced Again ~

    I've been divorced twice and both times the shock of it all nearly killed me.  After my first divorce I swore I'd never get married again but fate and love took over.  At 30 I married the sweetest most talented man in the world until seven years later his substance...
    2xdivorced 2xdivorced 46-50, F 6 Responses Jan 11, 2009

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    But I am ever the optimist lol.

    I am old fashioned and want to be with someone forever, but unfortunately both times it has been beyond my control. My first marriage ended because I lost my mother and totally went off my head, and didn't try hard enough, and the second time he was a completely abusive moron...
    suzieb1971 suzieb1971 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 16

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    I'm am in the process of my 2nd divorce

    and it is very hard. I blame myself constantly for marrying needy, unsupportive men, but perhaps I saw something in them that they didn't see in themselves. Idk. But I do know that as of late, my focus has changed and my peace and joy are what is most important as it makes me a...
    Leavingyouforme Leavingyouforme 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    I'm Divorced But This Time I'm So Lost ...

    The first time I was married I was 20, and I thought I knew everything. Looking back, I know I was too stupid to even realize I was alive. But I got married anyway because stupidity isn't a reason to keep people from being married. After we'd been married 2 years, we had a son...
    zohy zohy 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 18, 2013

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    Third Times A Charm? I Hope...

    I'm in the process of mentally preparing myself for what will be my second divorce. I was married before although I don't count it as a "real" marriage. I wasn't in love and got pregnant after a couple of months. Due to family pressure. (having a child out of wedlock is a huge...
    Rebirth2013 Rebirth2013 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2013

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    Keeping My Head Held High...

    I had a child out of wedlock when I was 20. Father was never really interested in my son's life, let alone interested in child support. I met someone a couple years later, and got married a few years after. We were in our early twenties. I wanted it to last. Due to his infidelity...
    jlhassold jlhassold 36-40 1 Response Aug 20, 2010

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    Me Too!

    I got married at 20, had two boys and divorced at 29 because my ex had an affair with his secretary. He tried to come back after she dumped him, but it was too late. I was too hurt and couldn't forgive him. I spun out of control, partying and trying to stay busy. I had to have...
    tassae tassae 36-40 1 Response May 23, 2010

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    Third Time's A Charm...

    If at first you don't succeed, try, try again! That is my philosophy. If the world looks down on me, they don't understand. I'm not a quitter. My first husband threw me out of the house one night after a successful 13 year marriage. He was interested in another woman. I racked my...
    TolstoiFan TolstoiFan 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    Two Times Unlucky

    I have been thru the mill two times, and do not plan to go thru it a third. The lady i'm with now, is hoping, but we may or may not. Our relationship isn't that rosy either, but who's is? my first marriage was nothing near as disasterous as my second, but the first ex turned...
    alekatz alekatz 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 5, 2013

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    It's Not My Fault!!!

    I have a tendency to address problems or disagreements in relationships using this rule: if there is a problem, figure out who is at fault, discuss it, apologize, and get over it.  Because of that, I always looked at the problems in my marriages by trying to fairly...
    TryingToBeBetter TryingToBeBetter 31-35 2 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    Life Happens

    Yep, been there, done that, got the T-shirt. First one was a psycho, marriage lasted 5 Long long years. Second one lasted 12 years, been divorced 4 years from him, and I still can´t figure out if he´s a nice guy or not, and wether I am the baddy or the goody. Anyway...
    Atis Atis 41-45 2 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    Divorced Twice Then Got Cancer

    I got divorced 2 times, i come from a pakistani asian background, it can be a bit of a backward culture at times in regards to marriage being forced on someone..... that was the first marriage, more like a wedding day really 2nd marriage, married a single mother (milf) who got...
    millionz millionz 31-35 Jul 26, 2011

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    I am thinking about divorcing my second husband

    but I am afraid of the stigma attached to being divorced twice. I worry about how it will affect me and my grown children to know that their mom just can't figure out how to get it right
    Christmas87 Christmas87 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 23

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    Twice Divoced

    I was married at age 19 to my first husband.  I moved to a big city after high school and got a job at a Big Boy as a waitress and his parents owned it.  I moved in with him right away and was pregnant not long after...we decided to get married.  The day after our...
    lhockey lhockey 31-35, F Aug 8, 2007

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    Divorced Twice

    I have been divorced twice, my first husband was a lovely guy but was addicted to computers and got us into a lot of debt, just as I got out of that relationship my second "husband" came along and took full advantage of my situation he was controlling and manipulative, his...
    madonna40 madonna40 36-40 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    Divorce Book

    My name is Dan Burley and I have lost 2 friends because they committed suicide while going through a divorce. I want people facing relationship issues to feel a sense of community by reading other peoples stories. Therefore, I am writing a book about people’s separation and...
    divorcewealth divorcewealth 36-40, M Jul 2, 2013

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    Divorced Twice By The Age Of 30

    I just turned 31. I've been married and divorced twice. My dad left when I was 12, and i never really had a good relationship with him. I'm not sure if maybe that has something to do with my failure of relationships or not.  My first marriage was when I was pretty young. I was...
    girlrunner girlrunner 31-35 5 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    Divorced Twice Is a Social Stigma

    Just dealt with second divorce. My first marriage failed because he hid the fact that he had drinking habit and second one due to his mother's harassing nature and he hid that he was not potent. Can you please guide me that how to identify a person. People hid facts and...
    msdepressed msdepressed 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    My First Husband

    I met him a a dance club in the springtime. I was out with my friend/roommate & her fiance. Not the most promising place to meet a future spouse. I was young & dumb & so was he. I was 20 & he was 18 when we met. He & I dated for a year. He went to a military college 3 states away...
    crunchymomof1 crunchymomof1 31-35, F Apr 27, 2013

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    I am contemplating divorcing my husband. The problem is that this will be my third divorce and I am only 43. I made some bad decisions in my twenties based on growing up in an...
    strikes3 strikes3 41-45, F Dec 17

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    ofcourse yes, it was true when I used to loved you, you came into my world taught it would be forever Not knowing you were only in to play games That havent been enough to make me...
    yanmutami yanmutami 31-35, F Dec 7

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    So my parents 52nd Anniversary is today. With the joy of wishing my parents so much happiness with this big celebration, I find myself quite sad with the sobering realization that...
    LOOKN4NSIGHT43 LOOKN4NSIGHT43 41-45, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    if anyone here needs someone to talk to, you can talk to me. I have been in 2 domestic relationships. one when I was 15 & the other when I was 19.
    isuhbelle isuhbelle 18-21, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Again, excuse the awkward wordings to get around the censors, but it won't let me post this story without them. I was in one for six days in February, and then they forced me to...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 7

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    I've been told twice that I have gorgeous eyes. (Or eyelashes haha) one was by this girl and she said that she liked my dark brown eyes I was all like aww thx. And another time my...
    youngnfunboi youngnfunboi 13-15, M 6 days ago

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    I have been dressing from time to time since I was 7. However, the last three years it has been most if the time. About three years ago I started wearing panties, pantyhose, and a...
    Adam59 Adam59 56-60, M 5 Responses Dec 1

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    It's been a difficult year. There have been some low lows and I'm wondering when the highs are coming back. I've applied to 50 jobs as of February. I've been interviewed 10 times...
    msrani msrani 31-35, F Dec 5

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    What are your symptoms??? I wanted to stay home last night, yesterday was a long day, but I went into the hospital emergency room. I guessed I would be left in the waiting room...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Yeah I have been in hell. I have had my life taken away from me and sent into hell for 3 yrs and it took 5 yrs after just to cope. Dehumanized, captive, mentally tortured...
    mslvr01 mslvr01 46-50, M 3 Responses Nov 28

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    I don't know where to begin. Do u remember the first time we talked? I do. It was back at eminence in late 2013. Economics classes. It's like some twisted law of fate, I think I'm...
    Tearsinmycheek Tearsinmycheek 16-17, F Nov 29

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    It was just the once for me. It was a charity event in a pub I worked in about 20 years ago - I would have been 24 or 25 at the time. I think it must have been Children in Need. It...
    Sarah667 Sarah667 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    I have been feeling alone a lot lately. All my husband seems to be interested in is his video games and when we are intimate, right after, he just gets up, cleans up, and goes...
    Mystery08 Mystery08 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    I am almost 40 years old and have been dealing with horrible headaches for 16 years now. I have tried all kinds of doctors, treatments, medications, even various surgeries...
    JunieMarie JunieMarie 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    I've been told I have a good voice. Sexy seductive and also calm and soothing. Have been asked many times to tell someone a bed time story or to just talk till they fall asleep or...
    Cloudwolf1313 Cloudwolf1313 26-30, M Dec 10

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    I guess it's happened a couple times. The most recent: I work with the football team at my university. I'm pretty close with one of the coaches. He's not that much older than me...
    MyUnspokenWord MyUnspokenWord 18-21, F Dec 11

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    Not much to say other than I recently just got cheated on, and I really don't know what to do with myself or the questions I have that no one can really answer. Wrapping my head...
    Panoramicdemon Panoramicdemon 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 12

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    my husband and i have been best friends for 20 years, in a relationship for 4 yrs and married for 1. I found out he was cheating on me just before we got married and was sending...
    mumofj mumofj 26-30, F 16 Responses Dec 17

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    First, I know it's long, but please I need someone to help me. Any advice. Reading these stories bring tears to my eyes. I have been cheated on 3 times by the same guy. He lied...
    ArisDiCicco ArisDiCicco 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 17

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    2, both female. I've had 2 different cyberstalkers in my internet lifetime. They were both female and both under the age of 25. Stalking is a very serious thing. Cyberstalkers are...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 5 days ago

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    I have been extremely obese all my life. It's a genetic predisposition, because my mom is a really big woman too. And of course I always ate a lot and I hated it to move my body...
    ssbbwjean2000 ssbbwjean2000 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have been fat since I was in the 3rd grade. My family has a weight issue on both sides..that's not an excuse...but it does make it a little more likely that I WOULD be oveweight...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    There have been a few occasions in my life when I learned how s%xual a woman can be to a man... Unfortunately in my case it started with my father. I remember doing gymnastics...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    There have been a few occasions in my life when I learned how s%xual a woman can be to a man... Unfortunately in my case it started with my father. I remember doing gymnastics...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 26

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