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I Have Been Divorced Twice

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    Will The Third Be A Charm? - I'm 33, and I've been married nd divorced twice already.I was fortunate enough I guess to marry my high school sweetheart, but we married young( I was...
    karliekat2026 karliekat2026 31-35, F Oct 2, 2012

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    Two Times Unlucky - I have been thru the mill two times, and do not plan to go thru it a third. The lady i'm with now, is hoping, but we may or may not. Our relationship isn't...
    alekatz alekatz 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 5, 2013

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    Divorced Twice Is a Social Stigma - Just dealt with second divorce. My first marriage failed because he hid the fact that he had drinking habit and second one due to his...
    msdepressed msdepressed 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    Divorced Again ~ - I've been divorced twice and both times the shock of it all nearly killed me.  After my first divorce I swore I'd never get married again but fate and love...
    2xdivorced 2xdivorced 46-50, F 6 Responses Jan 11, 2009

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    Divorced Twice By 30 - My first marriage is a blur. I have a hard time remembering those days. Bits and pieces come back to me now and then and I remember not really even liking...
    MysMomma MysMomma 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2011

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    Keeping My Head Held High... - I had a child out of wedlock when I was 20. Father was never really interested in my son's life, let alone interested in child support. I met someone...
    jlhassold jlhassold 36-40 1 Response Aug 20, 2010

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    Third Time's A Charm... - If at first you don't succeed, try, try again! That is my philosophy. If the world looks down on me, they don't understand. I'm not a quitter. My first...
    TolstoiFan TolstoiFan 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    My First Husband - I met him a a dance club in the springtime. I was out with my friend/roommate & her fiance. Not the most promising place to meet a future spouse. I was young...
    crunchymomof1 crunchymomof1 31-35, F Apr 27, 2013

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    It's Not My Fault!!! - I have a tendency to address problems or disagreements in relationships using this rule: if there is a problem, figure out who is at fault, discuss it...
    TryingToBeBetter TryingToBeBetter 31-35 2 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    Been Divorced Twice By Age 34..... - I am now 34 and I have been divorced twice. The first time I was 20 and had a baby. I was young, not in love and thought 1. I had no choice and...
    sapmoore96 sapmoore96 31-35 2 Responses Apr 25, 2012

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    Third Times A Charm? I Hope... - I'm in the process of mentally preparing myself for what will be my second divorce. I was married before although I don't count it as a "real...
    Rebirth2013 Rebirth2013 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2013

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    But I am ever the optimist lol. I am old fashioned and want to be with someone forever, but unfortunately both times it has been beyond my control. My first marriage ended...
    suzieb1971 suzieb1971 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    I'm Divorced But This Time I'm So Lost ... - The first time I was married I was 20, and I thought I knew everything. Looking back, I know I was too stupid to even realize I was...
    zohy zohy 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 18, 2013

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    I'm am in the process of my 2nd divorce and it is very hard. I blame myself constantly for marrying needy, unsupportive men, but perhaps I saw something in them that they didn't...
    Leavingyouforme Leavingyouforme 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    Divorced Twice By The Age Of 30 - I just turned 31. I've been married and divorced twice. My dad left when I was 12, and i never really had a good relationship with him. I'm not...
    girlrunner girlrunner 31-35 4 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    Divorced Twice Then Got Cancer - I got divorced 2 times, i come from a pakistani asian background, it can be a bit of a backward culture at times in regards to marriage being...
    millionz millionz 31-35 Jul 26, 2011

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    Divorced Twice - I have been divorced twice, my first husband was a lovely guy but was addicted to computers and got us into a lot of debt, just as I got out of that relationship...
    madonna40 madonna40 36-40 Jun 18, 2013

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    Shame - hi all. i'm 40 and divorced twice. both divorces were legit; they needed to happen. i really thought and hoped the 2nd would go the long haul. but i was miserable. we both...
    2 Responses Jan 26, 2013

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    I am thinking about divorcing my second husband but I am afraid of the stigma attached to being divorced twice. I worry about how it will affect me and my grown children to know...
    Christmas87 Christmas87 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 23

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    Life Happens - Yep, been there, done that, got the T-shirt. First one was a psycho, marriage lasted 5 Long long years. Second one lasted 12 years, been divorced 4 years from him...
    Atis Atis 41-45 2 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    Twice Divoced - I was married at age 19 to my first husband.  I moved to a big city after high school and got a job at a Big Boy as a waitress and his parents owned it. ...
    lhockey lhockey 31-35, F Aug 8, 2007

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    Don't Know How To Live With The Social Stigma... - I got married when I was 21... I knew I shouldn't have married him but we had been living together (oh, the horror!) and it was...
    stillasweetiepie stillasweetiepie 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    Me Too! - I got married at 20, had two boys and divorced at 29 because my ex had an affair with his secretary. He tried to come back after she dumped him, but it was too late. I...
    tassae tassae 36-40 1 Response May 23, 2010

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    My husband and I have been married for 6 weeks now. I've loved him for 19 years though. Still just as much as I did when we met. He's been an addict his entire adult life. I...
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    isis55 isis55 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    In complete denial....... Hello all. I have read many posts of yalls dealing with this issue. I came searching for answers and help/support because I feel very alone and scared. I...
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    louise4444 louise4444 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Selfhelpme Selfhelpme 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    ash5698 ash5698 13-15, M Mar 21

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