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I Have Been Having An Affair For 3 Years

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    Three and We Are Lost - In the beginning it was so good. So passionate that making love brought me to tears. We cried in happiness that we found each other. He told me things that...
    jamandjellie jamandjellie 36-40 8 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    I wanted to share a couple of excerpts from the book "Getting Past the Affair- A Program To Help You Cope, Heal and Move On---Together or Apart" by Douglas K. Snyder, PhD, Donald...
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