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I Have Been Hit By a Man

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 68 People

    Oh Yes...

    Before I met my husband I was engaged to a man who I had knew for a while.  We were planning an August wedding.  The whole ball of wax.  He lived about 7 hours from me.  I had known him and his family for years, I used to go to school with his sister. ...
    beaglewoman beaglewoman
    26-30, F
    Dec 18, 2007

    Several Times In My Life.

    The first time was with someone that I thought was a caring friend till we took our relationship further.  I sometimes think he just wasn't ready for a deeper relationship with me.  It was on our second time for intimacy that he told me how screwed up I made him feel...
    deleted deleted
    May 11, 2008


    When I was in college I was in an abusive relationship and I am so glad I was able to put this in my past.  I was not only hit, but I was slapped, punched, had my hair pulled out, and was eventually shot by this man. (Ironically he shot me long after I left him and...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    18 Responses Oct 26, 2008

    The Ex

    I was with my ex partner for 13 years and never had he hit me but 1 day we went bowling on a friends birthday outing, And he could not stop drinking or pace himself once he started, it was a long day then back to the local my friend owned and he said a remark that wasn...
    breezef2002 breezef2002
    46-50, F
    Mar 30, 2008

    SO Scary

    That is horrible and sad.I was hit by my Dad  but never a boyfriend or husband.Honestly I'd punish the person who hit me.I just would put them away.I hurt for women who are abused.There are reasons why a woman can't or won't get judgments here.It is so scary
    wiseowl wiseowl
    61-65, F
    Mar 30, 2008

    Pregnant Alone Scared and Being Beat

    My daughter was still in my belly when my ex husband use to beat me so hard that I would go to work with black and blues all over me and bite marks. He would lock me in the house and go see the girl he was ******* without a care. I felt so alone, then I had my daughter early due...
    MiseducatedChik MiseducatedChik
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Jan 27, 2008


    When I was 16 I was punched in the face by a man who then raped me after hitting me, and who threatened to kill my family and me if I told anyone.  In college I was punched, strangled and slapped by my boyfriend at the time.  I was too scared and weak to get out of the...
    yoyy yoyy
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 28, 2008

    Still Happening

    I still get hit by my husband but now its less often or he may hold his self back from hitting me and just choke me or throw me agaist a wall or smack me or rip my clothes or yell in my face so loud that i think my head will pop off just from the impact. He scares me...
    goldie25 goldie25
    31-35, F
    22 Responses Dec 6, 2007

    Almost Only Men

    I have almost only been hit by men. I guess the first time was when i was in 2nd grade. man that hurt a lot. I don't know if i would really consider him a MAN though. then once on the street in front of port authority in NY. I don't like being hit or manhandled. I usually really...
    Tacit Tacit
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jun 12, 2008

    A Few Times....

    My husband was always verbally abusive ,,, but a few yrs ago we were really having a rough patch financially and i guess emotionally...we have always had pretty bad fights but they were never violent up untill that point no matter how angry he was he had never hit me..but one day...
    ava12982 ava12982
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Nov 25, 2009

    NOT My Husband

    My father used to beat the crap out of me, and I had a boyfriend who started out as being emotionally abusive, moved on to verbal abuse and finally physical abuse.  This culminated with a shotgun being held to my head.  I didn't have the guts to leave him until he was...
    mj915 mj915
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Dec 6, 2007

    Middle Not Man...just Guys

    Guys use to insult me and stuff all the time then we started getting into physical fights, i been strangled against the bathroom wall by a guy who was at least 3xs my weight. I still won. My smartness and mad spitting skills helped. I spitt in his face since i couldnt moved and i...
    sweetmusic2011 sweetmusic2011
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 26, 2011

    In It Right Now

    well i'm in a realationship right now where it's verbally, emotinally, and physically. after nearly 4 yrs of being together. 2wks ago i was a nasty ***** because i went out to a party after being sick. it was my birthday during that week. all i wanted to do was have fun. whyy am...
    whnyme whnyme
    Oct 26, 2008

    Have One Too Mate

    Where to start really? I usually get hit in a friendly sort of way from my friends when I've sort of gone into a conversation of me own. Puts me back into reality. But I remember I was once hit in the face by this random friend of me Dad. But, hehehe, a loyal mate I have gave him...
    Luangi Luangi
    18-21, F
    Oct 16, 2007


    I smacked him first suppose its debateable whether or not I had it coming...LOL It never happened again and was married to him for nearly 20 years.... Just chalked it up to an oops...
    Lexus Lexus
    36-40, F
    13 Responses Dec 30, 2007

    He Hit Me For 3 and a Half Yrs

    My first husband beat me for three and a half yrs till I left one night when he feel asleep.  I got my two kids in the car just in time and locked the doors when he came out the door after me. I knew If he got me He would kill me.  I had a spare set of keys under the...
    SouthernGirl08 SouthernGirl08
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Nov 19, 2007

    But Its Never His Fault

    It first started at home growing up, I have no recollection of how young I was. Thats how it always was. Belts, wooden spoons, a back brush which that time he bragged about the *** beating he gave my sister and I and proudly had us show our bruises. The worst was a radiator hose...
    strawberry1969 strawberry1969
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 11, 2008


    .....and while being hurt physically I too have reacted with violence in an effort to defend myself. It certainly is not an excuse this bad behavior but rather a provide a poor explanation. I continue to battle with myself on controlling my behavior and reaction in times of...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 2, 2009

    Me 2

    Let me start by saying i do not believe anyone has the right to hit another! I am a very mellow person and even if i am angry i will talk to you , not yell! I know myself very well and at what point i have to back away from a given situation! When tears flow , i am going to snap...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 21, 2007

    The black sheep should handle the blue bruises.

    My stepfather loves to hit, insult, neglect and truly hurt people, I guess.. I've been raised to listen, or else! My little brother, who's 3 years younger, is now following his example. He took kickbox lessons, and has gotten big and agressive. One day had beaten me to a bloody...
    PinkBunnyProject PinkBunnyProject
    22-25, F
    Sep 2, 2008

    Ex-husband Was the Culprit

    Well, ex-husband and father... But let's focus on one creep at a time. He was an alcoholic. It started off with pushing and shoving, and graduated into slammed fingers in the door, stepped on feet, and being hit over the head with the phone when I tried to call the cops...
    Dragonflower Dragonflower
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 6, 2007

    My X Is An *******!

    he was just manupilative and abusive mentally and physically.
    sneakybehavior sneakybehavior
    22-25, F
    Dec 6, 2007

    I Started Early

    I was slapped in the face, HARD, when I was 13 by my first "boyfriend".  I don't remember his reason, but he hit me so hard, all I could hear was loud ringing in my ears.  When I was 15, I was hit by a friend's boyfriend...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 22, 2009

    It Will Never Happen Again

       My EX husband use to hit me. It didn't happen right away. Maybe 6 months after I got married. Women where meant to stay home cook, clean, have sex when husband wants it NO matter What & have babies. Thank GOD I did not have any with him...
    mommatrish mommatrish
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Feb 6, 2008


    i have been hit by one man...that man was my father...
    anonymous555 anonymous555
    22-25, F
    Oct 9, 2007

    It Hurt More Than I Thought It Would

    The first time we were at sixth form collge together. We had been close friends since school, really close. One afternoon, like most friday's we went to the local pub for a drink and a chat. It wasnt just us, there were about 30 of us from college in the pub. I remember laughing...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 11, 2008

    At the Hands of My Exhusband.....

    I was 18, married with a baby and so very alone. He worked up and down the east coast 5 days a week throughout the first 2 1/2 years of our marriage. So essentially I was a single parent, married to my boyfriend on the weekends only. He would come home exhausted of course...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 21, 2008

    My Ex

    Yep the ex. I forgave him as his mum had just died and I knew he was under a lot of pressure and stress at the time. He knocked me out in a bar, I was old cold and the police were called, I didn't press charges just told them to lock him up for the night and carried on drinking...
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Oct 5, 2007

    Keep Fighting to Get Out

    He told me if i ever left him he would kill me . He wasn't kidding. He started by sneaking into my room and watching me sleep ...I switched the locks he broke in and had a friend of his watch me . He followed me everywhere i went and would sneak in to see what i was doing.He...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Dec 25, 2007

    Then He Bragged About It...

    The first time that I can clearly remember being hit by a man was by my ex-husband. We had been arguing, and he just flew off and slapped the **** out of me. He hit me so hard that the next morning I had a black eye. I didn't know that you could get black eye just from being...
    bgordo2 bgordo2
    22-25, F
    Apr 10, 2008
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