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I Have Been Hit By My Father

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    My Dad

    When I was little I loved my dad. He was a lot like me, short tempered, strong headed and smart. But when I got older things changed. He would get mad at my mom and I fighting and verbally abuse me. He'd call me a dumb *** and to get the **** upstairs. Sometimes if I tried to...
    NightSeeing NightSeeing 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2012

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    I Hated Him Already.

    He hit me only once, but it was without a reason. He hit me because I had my own opinion, not because I did something wrong. He hadn't realized I was a human being too, or the fact that other people have different opinions.
    HoofFoot HoofFoot 19-21, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2007

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    In The Public

    well, thinking about it make me laugh, as the argument turned into yelling in the middle of the streets, and among the shops. I just turned my head to dad, replied on that with a few cold words (the air was too hot that day), and continued walking along with him, suddenly, I felt...
    adamwillis adamwillis 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 28, 2011

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    Is It Me

    I cry I fear I live and move on but I can't tell me why I should
    jj12guy jj12guy 18-21, M Jun 25, 2013

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    A Fight With My Father

    I was talking **** to my father and I got it in my head to hit him. I was crazy, my senior year of high school.He took  me down hard after I hit him.Had me on the ground with my arm behind my back.I was so scared that he was going to just beat the crap out of me, instead he...
    Fordguy2011 Fordguy2011 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 28, 2011

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    He's Hit Me a Lot

    Not too recently, but he's done it a lot. He's an easily-angered man, and when he's angry he lashes out. I love him as he's my father, but I don't really respect him or like who he is as a person.
    SacchrineSmile SacchrineSmile 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 17, 2009

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    He Came Home Angry

    He broke a chair on my back and my rooms door was also broken. He also hit me many times. My lil sister was trying to stop him but he just throw her away. I am not even sure that if i deserved it or not but i love him anyways ;) He beat me only one time in my life and...
    Yavy Yavy 26-30, M 7 Responses Dec 27, 2008

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    I Am So Pissed Off

    have you ever had one of thouse days when nothing went right ? well that is the story of my life everything i touch turns to **** my timeing has always been off even as a child i have been different than everyone else. it always seemed to be the one who got picked on and beat up...
    angelahemingway75 angelahemingway75 26-30 2 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Tonight

    My father he me tonight. He wwas drinking, and i told him to go to hell, and leave me alone, and he slapped me in the face. my mom or brother still wasn't home yet, and he called me outta my room, and told me to get him some more beer, and I told him to go to hell, and he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 24, 2009

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    I was mostly just spanked with a belt growing

    up (and my brothers too). But in my teen years I had a few times where my dad didn't pull a belt. He really hit me instead. I was talking back to him and before I knew it he grabbed me by my shirt and back handed me straight in the mouth. I remember tasting blood and feeling...
    bigdd2013 bigdd2013 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 11, 2014

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    Once Or Twice,

    when i was younger (5-10) I probably deserved it too. I dont think i minded the pain much as the crazy look on his face.My dad use to have crazy anger issues and he would blow up at the drop of the hate over NOTHING.It was so unpredictable that it was scary.you could spill like...
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    I was in third grade

    and the teacher sent home a letter that I was supposedly being "disruptive" in class. I was giggling because I was enjoying the book I was assigned during silent reading. My teacher grew impatient and sent a note home. Having a note sent home was the worst. I had a knot in my...
    skinnypsycho skinnypsycho 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2014

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    Only Once Though.

    I will be the last person to say my father is an agressive or abusive man, because he's not. He's been a good father to me all throughout my childhood, and I was never a very easy kid to have around, especially once I passed the age of twelve. I've been horrible and I know that...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F Feb 28, 2011

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    I And My Siblings All Were

    Somehow, It did not bend me out of shape, perhaps because my mother hit me a lot more often and once even broke my finger. But what my father did may go a long towards explaining why my siblings all despised our father, now dead nearly 20 years. I was the only family member who...
    consa consa 61-65, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2011

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    So Many Times

    I cannot count all the times My Dad hit Me for no reason except I was there. One time We were at the store and He went off started beating and kicking Me I hit the floor and covered My head and prayed for death worst part was a cop watched it and walked away. When He died I did...
    slappedtomuch slappedtomuch 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 23, 2011

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    My Stepdad Still Hits Me, I'm 16

    My stepdad will slap me and my stepbrother if we are mouthing off. For other things he will belt us. He whipped my butt this morning with it until I was crying. It was for sneaking out, but I still feel he could have just grounded me or something. I think I'm too old to be hit...
    Jay7878 Jay7878 16-17, M 5 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    It Was Bad

    I was 17 at the time and thought I was grown. I got in a screaming match with my dad and to try to win it, I gave him a push backward. I have never seen my dad look like that. He was so mad that the vein in his neck was just popping out. I didn't back down though and stayed in...
    stevemy stevemy 41-45, M Mar 26, 2011

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    More Than Once...

    i have been hit by my father, by his hands, something in his hands, his belt, there was alsome something in reach for him to hit me with, and he did it so many times growing up, sometimes, to the point that i couldn't go to school, because he had actually left a bruise on me, and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    I Hate Being Slapped In The Face.

    And my father knows it. Sure, I've done alot of dumb stupid things and got spanked, no big deal. That's what happens when you're bad. Sure, you get yelled at. But after my father suffered an anurism, things were never the same. He was an alcoholic before but after he couldn't be...
    sasukesnumber1fan sasukesnumber1fan 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2010

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    My father is an alcoholic.

    I used to drink with him but one night I was really drunk, and the next thing I know I'm in a headlock. So I start punching him with my right hand (at the time my only free hand) then he slams me on the ground breaking my left hand. Enraged that my hand was broken (I knew it was...
    CodyR4495 CodyR4495 18-21, M Mar 12, 2014

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    When Younger

    My father used to be different, a very angry man. used to lose his temper easily, he would hit us til we would see things his way, in a way iy held me back from expressing myself. He is a different person now, age has calmed him down, he is a much nicer person, we get on well...
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Aug 28, 2008

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    Very Few Times

    I was hit very few times by my father.  He always told the tale of me running up to the pulpit in church and having to take me out and hit me when I was four and after I looked up at him with tearful eyes, he couldn't bring himself to ever hit me. It happened three...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 23, 2009

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    Not My Father, But Close....

    It was my mother's boyfriend. It wasn't a true "hit" but I consider this along the same lines. He moved in with us when I was in second grade. This happened when I was in middle school, I believe. Him, my mom and I were in my mom's bedroom. He was lying on the bed and...
    DietIcedTea DietIcedTea 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 31, 2009

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    Do As I Say.... Not As I Do

    I was about 16 We were having the old tired argument...Blah blah blah my roof ....blah blah  blah ungrateful....blah blah stop having the last say...blah blah blah.....but I wasn't backing down... I was right....and I said so.....Then whack !! He F ' n  Hit...
    caroli9 caroli9 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 11, 2007

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    He Really Did

    i guess those read my other story already knows this that he knocked me out for being a lesbain but what most of you dont know is last week he came round to my house demanding the money my grandmother left me a few years ago when i said no he grabbed me by the neck my friend...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 1, 2011

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    Its Happened Once Or Twice

    kind of expected when anger issues runs in my dad's family  :P
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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