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I Have Been Hit On By Someone of the Same Sex

Ummm.. Thanks? 404 People

    It's A Compliment

    It's happened a few times, and it makes me feel good about myself in a similar way to when a girl hits on you. It's nice to feel attractive.
    Asclepius Asclepius
    22-25, M
    Jun 29, 2010

    I Got Hurt A Little

    Yes, it happened a couple of times. I don't really care and do not have issues being around lesbians, since I am sure about my sexuality (straight). However I felt a bit hurt last time it happened. I got along well with this girl from work and I suspected she was lesbian. I left...
    thinkandfeel thinkandfeel
    36-40, F
    Nov 18, 2009

    I Really Didn't Mind, But There Was No Reason For Me to Find Them Interesting.

    I am not averse to it, but would have to have someone not only be sincere, but inetersting - and intellectually attractive.
    deleted deleted
    Apr 21, 2009

    When I was 14 I had a friend

    who had a crush on me and she wasn't shy about expressing it. My awkwardness disguised the mutual affection. I am very "hard to get" as it were. In the end she started following me and even ended up clinging on to me every time we went to say goodbye, to telling her Mother we...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 28, 2015

    In School

    In school, this guy I used to knew in the 10th grade. He knew I was a heterosexual, but he was just hitting on me to **** me off because he knew I didn't like guys that way.
    tampabaybucsfan tampabaybucsfan
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 1, 2009

    Numerous Times

    And the thing is, I was never the one who initiated. Here's my experience:  The first fight I was ever in was in the middle of the eighth grade. I never engaged in it. It was P.E. and I was in a private school, therefore we had to change out of our nice uniforms into our P...
    HypeArt HypeArt
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 9, 2009

    Ive Been Hit On By Someone of the Same Sex.

    I have alot of bi friends but im as straight as they come. This one particular time just hanging out I met this girl and she was wikid cool. We have the same taste in music and well shez just a kick *** person. We were talking abt Hapkido when all of a sudden she jus kissed me. I...
    applescruffs applescruffs
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 1, 2009

    2 Weeks Ago

    My husband and I have been friends with this guy "T" for about 6 years now.  He is extremely anti-commitment and had never introduced us to a girlfriend until about a year ago.  "C" is wonderful and we have a lot in common.  Actually, when...
    Krypton Krypton
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Mar 24, 2009

    I Guess I Am Naive Or Slow

    I told this to a close friend here a while back. I guess I wasn't ready to share fully. But something inside me says it's alright and I need to share to move on to other things. My past isn't always an open book, but little episode seem right to share. Well so much for intro...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    1 Response Sep 24, 2008

    And Like a Fool

    I fell in love with them :| but they made that so easy by being so awesome and lovely. Glad to have you as a friend ;)  
    AnimaliaAustralis AnimaliaAustralis
    22-25, F
    May 3, 2009

    I Have Lesbian Groupies!!!!

    I've been doing some shows for the gay community recently and have been rather overwhelmed by the response!! :-)  Such a strange thing to suddenly have a fan base of women surrounding me, considering I'm as straight as they come!! haha ... but very flattering :-)
    rockyj rockyj
    31-35, F
    Dec 15, 2010

    Yes, I Have

    Lots of times in joking ways, but once or twice a few friends of mine seriously hit on me. They new I was straight, but they still made their intentions clear. It was flattering, and nothing really changed.
    fitterhappiervelcro fitterhappiervelcro
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 24, 2008

    She Begged That Kiss In The Pouring Rain

        melted in Her Sensuality she begged that Kiss in the Pouring Rain Sentiments of such sweet Sexuality  
    Demigiozia Demigiozia
    1 Response Oct 29, 2009

    Mixed Signals

    Before i knew i was bi i used to hang out with a few gay friends. They knew all the best clubs and i just tagged along for fun. In my fave bar i was waiting to get served when a women came over to me...Not unattractive but defiantly not my type and she started to chat me up. The...
    heliasub heliasub
    26-30, F
    Dec 25, 2009


    And I'm okay with that...
    Warmthoughtsofyou04 Warmthoughtsofyou04
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Aug 20, 2008

    I Suppose It's Flattering.

    I used to shoot a lot of pool. Pretty much daily at this one bar. One guy I had known for a while, shot with often, asked me one night if I was gay. Told me he was and hoped I was interested. I declined gracefully. The strange thing was at one time or another I was hit on by...
    Lampwick Lampwick
    51-55, M
    42 Responses Mar 11, 2009

    Simple Assumptions

     Before I became a nurse assistant, I was employed in the retail industry. You don't get benefits, just grief at times. Minimum weage gets old after awhile, and you smile as you struggle. You do meet some pretty interesting people though. There have been a few times I was...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 22, 2009

    And .....

    ......I ended up moving in with her! Happy days! :-) Amber xx
    AmberDuponte AmberDuponte
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 4, 2013

    Was a Mistake On Her Part

    I was at the state fair one night with a couple friends and had on a big football jersey and jeans and a ball cap...This girl gets my attention from behind outside the line and tells me, "My cousin wants to know how old you are." I told her and she asks me, "You...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 1, 2009


    I don't really mind when anyone hits on me, as long as they are respectful.  I think that it's great when people are confident enough in their sexuality (being either straight or otherwise) to express their attraction to another person.
    strawsandink strawsandink
    2 Responses Jul 1, 2009

    Thank God For Small Favors

    Thankfully I have been hit on by the same sex, or else I would never date. lol I'm usually waaaay too shy to hit on other people.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    Apr 12, 2010


    When my friend Emily has a drink, she becomes obsessed with my boobs. She's very skinny, complelty flat chested and always says she wants mine. Just before we finished up for school in the summer we ended up in London Bridge. An old man's pub where they did awesome wasabi peas...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 19, 2008

    In The Past

    I lived in San Francisco before the AIDS epidemic hit and was hit on by men several times.  This isn't bragging on my part.  Back then if you were male and had a pulse you were going to get hit on by someone.
    deleted deleted
    Nov 18, 2009


    Normally, I just brush off any advances by joking or saying something to the effect of "If I weren't" One time though, I had a very persistent young woman keep hitting on me. She was the friend of a friend and actually quite a sweet person. If she didn't...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21
    22-25, F
    Aug 20, 2008

    I'm An Actor

    I get hit on more my men than women. It's flattering though!
    passionateactorxox passionateactorxox
    31-35, M
    4 Responses Nov 18, 2009

    Yes All the Time!

    Touched,kissed,hit on ,invited to hot tub parties ....why me lord ,why me .
    redheadsrule redheadsrule
    36-40, F
    Aug 21, 2008

    Please, Hit On Me!

    It happens all the time, and I really do enjoy it. Women are so..beautiful. :D
    LylaRocks LylaRocks
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Oct 3, 2008

    She Was Really HOT!

    My husband and I were at a fund raiser, and this young girl comes up, and starts a conversation with me! She kept telling me that I was the most beautiful woman she had ever seen! Well of course I was flattered! She did stare in my face, which made me a bit uncomfortable! And...
    Marci2 Marci2
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Feb 5, 2013

    More Than Once....

    Its very flattering but not really my cup of tea.  
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Aug 20, 2008


    i've had girls attracted to me. first time was very weird. i find it kind of flattering though. well ok depending on who really is attracted to me...  it's no different to me then having a guy i'm not at all interested in  try to start something.
    amarriedgirlssecrets amarriedgirlssecrets
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 1, 2008

    All the Time By Both Sexes

     I get “hit on” a lot these days.  I don’t really think it has to do as much with my physical appearance although I do know I am above average in that respect.  Almost every time that I go to the gym, certain offices, bars, dance clubs, wherever...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    30 Responses Aug 20, 2008

    In The Restroom

    One time when I was in college I was in a restroom sitting in one of the stalls. It was in the basement, where hardly anyone went, and I was the only one in the room. Someone else walked in and went into the stall next to me. A few seconds later he stuck his head under the...
    Pyramania Pyramania
    56-60, M
    1 Response Sep 17, 2013

    Yes I Was

    I wrote about this before in another story. But at that time I was "slow" and didn't act on it. Lesson learned for this gal! Next time, ACTION! I'll not be left at the gate again ... I'll be in his bed.
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    May 18, 2009

    I Have Been Hit On By Someone of the Same Sex

    I have been hit on Someone By the Same Sex many times. It is very odd for woman not to flirt or hit on me. I seem to attract more woman than men sometimes, its kinda crazy. personally I think its a total turn on, and think its awesome =) BroknWings.
    deleted deleted
    May 18, 2009

    I Enjoyed It

    I knew this kid named James in highschool. He was a senior, he was 3 years older than me and openly gay. Back then I considered myself straight, but I started questioning it when I met him. He was tall and thin, with short brown hair, an angular face, and from what I heard, a...
    What12345 What12345
    18-21, M
    Sep 3, 2012

    Not So Innocent Girl On Girl Dancing Lol

    I have had a few girls hit on me. but it is always just like being extra friendly and maybe asking if i am gay. lol but the time it happened at the club was a totally different story. I was with my boyfriend, so she couldn't think i was gay or single for that matter. But she was...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 1, 2009

    That Just Happened?

    Gosh. I must have been 14 or so. There was an older woman, not that much older..but she was in her midtwenties and worked for my mom and dad at their resturant. Anyway. I was there as a waitress and she was a cook. I remember one time being in the back kitchen, we started...
    Ashwe20 Ashwe20
    18-21, F
    Mar 30, 2010

    Yeah Thanks But Research Before You Dive In :)

    I don't get people who get all homophobic about it. I mean yes I'm not gay but thanks for the compliment. You are more than welcome to look at my pics or read my stories because they are public, which means everyone can see them. Not everyone can see them except for people I...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 19, 2009

    It Was Inevitable.

        When I was twelve my Dad came out and announced he was gay. It took me a while to adjust but that's another story. We had parties at the house. I liked my dad's friends. Especially the guys. I was an attractive girl and I felt I could be so comfortable with...
    75Angels 75Angels
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Nov 13, 2009


    I truly dont mind when a woman approaches me and expresses that they are interested in me. It's just another human being trying to obtain whatever urge it is they have. I dont know whats appealing about me.. I have had my fair share amount of men and women approach me. Im more...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jun 5, 2009

    I Am Sort Of Submissive Sexually

    I am sort of submissive sexually, and that seems to be obvious to people around me. So when another girl is attracted to me and hits on me, it usually leads to us having sex. I mean, my being a little blonde **** is not just limited to guys; In the ***** club, I was around a lot...
    LittleBlondeSlut LittleBlondeSlut
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 10, 2010

    "What Should I Do In a Gay Bar If .........?"

    Many times I enjoyed bringing a straight friend with me to a gay bar for their 1st time.  It never fails they ask what they should do if they get hit on or asked to dance by a lesbian.  It always makes me chuckle.  The answer I give is always the same. ...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom
    51-55, F
    13 Responses Jan 6, 2009

    It's Not Strange

    Being a lesbian it's not uncomfortable to be hit on by a woman (or young ladies)  It's not only a compliment, but can be amusing too.   There's something about some straight women who need to know that lesbians are attracted to them too.  Sorry, not my...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom
    51-55, F
    1 Response Oct 19, 2008


    Not all the time or anything. But one of my friends is bi. (but still very flamboyant :P) He's at least 6 years older than me and I'm completely straight, but I found out recently that he has a really big crush on me. Kinda weirds me out, but he respects my boundaries and doesn't...
    TheOnlyBenis TheOnlyBenis
    22-25, M
    Apr 14, 2011

    All The Time.

    I used to work in restaurants.And I have a nice *** do the math.
    deleted deleted
    Apr 14, 2011
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