I Have Been Homeless

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 846 People

    Three yrs ago, I made the mistake of moving in

    with two irresponsible friends and we lost the apt within 3 months. I was completely broke from paying their due rent. I was desperate and ended up staying at a guy friends business office for a month. He continued to make passes but after he forced himself on me, I slept in my...
    poodahpop poodahpop
    22-25, T
    1 Response Mar 31, 2015

    As a child, my family

    and I lived in NYC's most notorious "Welfare Hotels" (the Prince George and Martinique). Despite coming from an affluent family, my college-educated mother struggled with severe mental illness which prevented her from maintaining a stable home. In addition, she left an extremely...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 12

    My car was my home for about two months.

    Still kinda homeless, but I have a place to sleep.
    Zolaura Zolaura
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 28, 2015

    I married a homeless man years ago

    and proud of it. to this day we are still married
    jojom543 jojom543
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Nov 9, 2014

    I was for three weeks,

    lost all of the money in my company, lost my investments, and investors, my wife and kids went to stay with my wife's parents, and I was out on the street, to proud to ask for help.
    httpdeathawaits httpdeathawaits
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 9, 2014

    i was homeless between the years 2013

    til this year now I'm off the streets
    bigtreez bigtreez
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jul 27, 2015

    When I was 19 I was homeless

    for 4 months. My boyfriend of 3 years at the time decided he wanted to spend all our money on indulgences in stead of paying our rent and then proceeded to leave me for a homeless chick with no teeth. I didn't tell my family because they all lived in a different country and I...
    sighimnotgoodwithnames sighimnotgoodwithnames
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 19, 2014

    I actually am homeless rn,

    have been since October 29th at 7:30pm. The worst thing is that I'll never forget about this. But at least I have friends that I can stay with for the time being. But my parents and my dog have to live miles away in a stupid Motel. I miss them every day.....I hate this
    Fainmail67 Fainmail67
    13-15, M
    1 Response Mar 20

    I was for a short while,

    my mom and I. It was scary. Don't want to go through that again. It was like only a few days but it kind of changed my life. I always share my change or some food with homeless people now if I have any.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 9, 2015

    I use to be homeless

    when I was younger. Is it weird that I actually enjoyed being homeless? First time I was homeless, I had a job, went to school, and went to therapy. I rode the bus everywhere and I loved it. I never knew my way around the city, until I became homeless. Thankfully, I had...
    strawberry99 strawberry99
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 17, 2014

    Times Of Darkness

    I was homeless from an early age and it's just something you never forget it sticks with you it in prints itself on your soul. You find after awhile nobody really notices you your invisible to everyone except your own kind.I grew up on the streets dodging the police and other...
    gelroller gelroller
    46-50, M
    5 Responses Jul 27, 2012

    I was homeless as a teenager.

    I has abusive parents and an abusive foster home. When I was 15 I ran away and lived on the streets. I was stupid enough to believe that I was "free" I hitch hiked around the country. I traded sex for rides and food when I had to. I didn't realize I was victimizing myself just...
    KnaveOfClubs KnaveOfClubs
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Jul 10, 2014

    I'm living survival now.

    wish options like living with tribes were still open haha .-
    Sauceydoll Sauceydoll
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2015

    My Homelessness Actually Was Helpful

    Okay, i know what your thinking. How can being homeless help? Okay well ive been homeless twice. With my ex husband, I was homeless for three months with two boys and another one on the way. We had no income, but our children still attended school, still were fed and had clean...
    kalamatai kalamatai
    31-35, F
    5 Responses May 8, 2012

    For 2 years in CO. '94-'96 To this day I still

    do not know how I managed to survive that. I just thank God & the kindness of others every day because I don't think I could have survived during that time without them.
    tiger3cub8 tiger3cub8
    46-50, M
    1 Response Mar 19

    I've Been Homeless On Two Seperate Occasions

    The first time I was homeless was December of '91.  It's not good being homeless during a Michigan winter lol.  I ended up being homeless for more than 3 months that time.  Then I ended up homeless again in the fall of '92, but only for a month the second time...
    pooge pooge
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Sep 18, 2007

    Wandering No More

    I've been on both sides of this issue, as receiver and provider. I was homeless for six years. I usually stayed in shelters because I felt safer there than on the streets. At least the shelters were staffed, and they were relatively safe. In the summer, I occasionally slept...
    timotito timotito
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Feb 24, 2009

    Lived Better When I Was Homeless

    I was homeless for two years because that was the lifestyle my ex-husband loved. I learned to make crafts and sell them at the Saturday & Sunday markets, and also at a Wednesday market in another town. We slept at rest stops, and twice a week were able to get a cheap motel...
    vavamama vavamama
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 18, 2008

    The worst part about being homeless,

    not having a place to call your own, is that you're always "on." You never get to turn yourself off and just relax. You know that feeling you get after work when you go home and sit down on the couch and can just breath a big sigh of relief and be completely on your own for that...
    b1tch2u b1tch2u
    31-35
    5 Responses Jan 15, 2015

    I've been homeless twice before

    and this time makes 3! I had been sharing a flat with 2 friends and things were going great. Money was tight but Dave was good with money and bills and made sure the rent was paid every month. Twice in the last year, I spent my rent money but Dave covered it both times. Then I...
    Sonnyboy921 Sonnyboy921
    46-50, M
    1 Response May 11, 2014

    I was homeless at the age of 26.

    And I won't lie I was determined to end my life upon winding up homeless. My life was monotonous and tedious. Boring jobs, no friends, no family present in the same province as me... But I am here. I don't know why sometimes. I hope that it gets better but it feels a lot like...
    lon3lygam3r lon3lygam3r
    26-30, M
    5 Responses Jul 14, 2014

    I lived homeless for 6 months on the streets of

    Atlanta Georgia. I was protesting for equality for all. I live as others had to so i could see the struggles they faced every day and the prejudice that others have for them. If the people at the top refuse to meet everyone else in the middle, then i would rather live on the...
    rickybobby33 rickybobby33
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Jan 6, 2014

    I been homeless many of times in my life mainly

    after breaking up with a girl. I've lived in sheds skips bins burnt out building doorways wood's I managed it as was young and street wise could take care of myself. It's happened to me now again been living in my brothers brick shed for four weeks now put in a power supply bed...
    Leylandlad Leylandlad
    36-40, M
    1 Response Dec 19, 2015

    I Was Homless For 7 Months.

    I lived on the streets and in and out of homeless shelters for seven months. I was evicted from my flat ended up on the streets stayed as permanently drunk as I could, and thought to myself, " Thats it! I'm staying just where I am now, because there is nothing more...
    MayBee MayBee
    41-45
    3 Responses May 30, 2008

    The UN definition for "Homeless" is

    when your rent or mortgage are greater than 70% of your income. Societies tend to go into revolution when "monthly food costs" exceed 38% to 44% with 42% considered a tipping point. Technically, I have been homeless my entire life by the UN definition.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 3, 2014

    On the cold streets of the big apple.

    Bags so heavy i could not take a bite. The world on my shoulders. That's how it felt, crying internally pushing for shelter. I could see the crystals in the foggy exhale of my breath. The sorrow of abandonment in my eyes, when I'd reflect in my reflection. Others yes there we're...
    AndrogynousBeauty AndrogynousBeauty
    22-25
    2 Responses Dec 11, 2014

    Homeless But With a Kind Heart

    Five years after I was married, we became homeless. We lived in the car and sometimes in a tent or under a bridge. I was taught growing up that you stand by your husband. My husband and I may have been homeless but he still worked. He use to work at a restaurant and we would...
    yoreg yoreg
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Oct 19, 2007

    I was homeless for 6 months

    when I was 12. I was able to over come and get my own place and have a steady great paying job before i joined the army. I never begged or panhandled persay. I had the balls to do something about it. Its why i dont feel sorry for homeless or donate to them. Get off your ***
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 14, 2015

    Going On Ten Years

    I've never been wanted. From thirteen years old I've been shuffled from parent to parent (Virginia and Alabama) and even lived with my aunt for a while (in South Carolina). I got kicked out before I was eighteen. I moved in with a boyfriend, Clayton. His dad didn't mind if I...
    MadamAZC MadamAZC
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 22, 2013

    "When the people I used to know found out what

    I'd been doing, how I'd been living they asked me why. But, it's no use talking to people who have a home, they have no idea what it's like to seek safety in other people, for home to be wherever you lie your head" I've never had to live on the streets, thankfully. I've always...
    mattihope mattihope
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 2, 2014

    I have been homeless

    for a month at the age of 15/16 spend my birthday on the street
    Jared999 Jared999
    16-17, M
    1 Response Oct 6, 2015

    When You See A Homeless Person Would You Think?

    I never pondered this question, until after I became homeless. What does it mean to be homeless? To some it means some it means nothing it does not affect their lives in any way. In fact these people often see a homeless person and walk on the other side of the street. During my...
    jlewis3555 jlewis3555
    56-60, M
    3 Responses Oct 22, 2012

    Just A Sad Story

    we were once homeless, but we felt at home we were in it together, we were never alone and together we struggled and we made it out we survived together, I thought that was all it was about delusions of love, I'm the biggest fool around the world ate away at us, tearing us down...
    paradoxical paradoxical
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 7, 2013

    Homeless Since Age 15;

    Not your typical American family. Mom leaves father, I'm age 3. Mom meets verbally abusive alcoholic, I'm age 4. Many years of physical abuse come from my mum. Lots of CPS. Father dies early teens. I react badly. Moms boyfriend fractures two of my ribs. Sent me to grandmas...
    LivingToLearnLearningToLove LivingToLearnLearningToLove
    22-25, M
    32 Responses Aug 25, 2013

    Well, if you want to get technical,

    I still am. I'm still in and out of a few of the shelters in my area. However, I know this is a temporary situation that was meant to teach me something and I have already discovered what it is so the experience has more or less been valuable. I'd say my attitude towards...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 8, 2014

    It's Happened More Than Once

    This is a very painful subject for me...and when I joined this group, I really thought I could write this story, but I'm not ready to, yet. I would just like to share that security is tenuous, at best.  For many, all it takes is an illness, a little bit of corporate...
    SerenitySeeker SerenitySeeker
    41-45, F
    11 Responses Jun 19, 2008

    Not having a home, a place safe

    and out of the elements is one of the saddest things that can befall a human being. I can relate to the experience in the sense that for 7 months my family and I had to drift form hotel to hotel, trying to find an affordable place to live. By God's grace, my hubbs and I still...
    ShebrewRed ShebrewRed
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 27, 2014

    I Know People Who Live In Cars

    I have never been homeless except by choice. There are times that I get the wind in my hair and hit the happy trail and meander here and there... There are options for this squirrel {nests} in several locations. It has been my honor to offer food and shelter to...
    PeaceOnEarth PeaceOnEarth
    46-50, F
    11 Responses Nov 13, 2008
    Aries323 Aries323
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 15, 2015

    When I was a kid my dad went to jail

    and then my mom and I had to live on the streets and one day she said she was going to go to the store but I knew she didn't have money and she left and didn't come back so I was left in the streets alone intill some police came by and picked me up
    tyler12341212 tyler12341212
    16-17, M
    5 Responses Jun 3, 2014
    CandiceMarieAllcoxx CandiceMarieAllcoxx
    22-25, T
    2 Responses May 29, 2015

    and still am.....I have 2 weeks to leave my

    parents home with my 3 daughters all because of my heartless dad. crunch time!
    almonjoiii almonjoiii
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 28, 2015

    Coyotes And Ants

     At the ripe old age of sixteen, my father, who is a pentecostal preacher, found out a "family secret" that had spanned about 6 years, involving me...and he also found out that I was in a relationship with another girl that I went to school with and hung out with...
    concreteardrop concreteardrop
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Dec 30, 2009

    And it looks as though I'm about to be again.

    I really thought this year would be our good year, but we're about to have to move AGAIN. 7th move in just over 5 years. Fabulous.
    ProfessorYaffle ProfessorYaffle
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 31

    In The Winter..

    My family had a fallout..I was banned from my grandmothers house because I wasn't giving her my entire paycheck when I was working, and raising my cousins baby. It was November and snowy..I slept between pop machines and a wall outside of a grocery store. I stole food..my "dad...
    morbidkittie13 morbidkittie13
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 26, 2011
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