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I Have Been Hurt Alot So It Can Take Me A While To Trust

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 334 People

    No Trust

    I cant trust people ive been lied to so many times it hurts.I cant trust ANYMORE not even if I ment the freaking president I wouldnt trust him its wierd and sad
    larissacrater larissacrater 13-15, F May 8, 2013

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    Im in a long distance relationship with someone

    that I no longer trust. Idk how to totally forgive him for the mistakes he's made πŸ˜”
    charnicepretty charnicepretty 18-21, F Jun 22

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    Warming Up To People

    It takes me awhile to warm up to new people. I'm so skittish that I can't stand it when people I don't know sits or stands too close to me in a room. I don't care how many there are. I need space. I feel suffocated when someone grabs a seat right next to me. On bad days, it's...
    noaht43 noaht43 41-45, T Aug 22, 2012

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    Trust is earned. It's like a rubber, the more it's used the less it becomes. I've completely lost my trust in people. Some people who I am so close to I still don't trust them...
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    I don't have any feelings left. Not love , hate ,passion for life. I have had my heart ripped inside out more times than I can count in the last 6 months . The shear lack of trust...
    1tanner 1tanner 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 6

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    I'm tired of being hurt. It's caused me to developed an uncaring attitude towards girls who claim to have feelings for me. If she starts to take me for granted, treating me like...
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 2

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    K people...just because I was raped, doesn't mean I am not a human...it means I am a victim and I need people too support me...I am a human being and hurt just as much as you do...
    ThePeebs ThePeebs 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 17

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    Butterflylove45 Butterflylove45 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 12

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    koustav1 koustav1 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 12

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    How people replace us from their life..??One day we are everything,the next day we are nothing....Some day they pray to get us,And another day they regret to love us...Time changes...
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    I didn't know I could ever hurt this bad. I've probsbly cried off two pounds today
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    "Silence is a girls loudest cry, you know she's hurt when she starts ignoring you" -Drake Paris Morton
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    http://www.experienceproject.com/question-answer/What-Do-I-Do-If-My-Bf-Suddenly-Started-Acting-Really-Distant-And-When-I-Ask-Why-He-Claims-Its-Nothing-But-I-Know-It/4241582
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