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I Have Been Hurt Alot So It Can Take Me A While To Trust

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    No Trust

    I cant trust people ive been lied to so many times it hurts.I cant trust ANYMORE not even if I ment the freaking president I wouldnt trust him its wierd and sad
    larissacrater larissacrater 13-15, F May 8, 2013

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    Warming Up To People

    It takes me awhile to warm up to new people. I'm so skittish that I can't stand it when people I don't know sits or stands too close to me in a room. I don't care how many there are. I need space. I feel suffocated when someone grabs a seat right next to me. On bad days, it's...
    noaht43 noaht43 41-45, T Aug 22, 2012

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    Truth be told, I ache with the remembrance of old pains. My heart is formed of shrapnel and my mind is an orchestra of a thousand little voices singing of what I've done... Or...
    typedwriter typedwriter 26-30, F Apr 7

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    My brother went through nasty divorce ten years ago. I helped him for 18 months preparing paperwork, consulting with his attorney, etc. so his ex-wife wouldn't take him to the...
    fourjacks fourjacks 61-65 2 Responses Apr 13

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    They never beat me in the face so that no one can see but my whole family hates me. They call me names and punish me. Like hitting me on my bum or giving me their leftovers cold as...
    SabrinaInTears SabrinaInTears 13-15, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    She would turn every single action in to something that would isolate or offend me. Thinking back now I realise I was a fool for always forgiving her every mistake, for wanting her...
    Hidebehindtherain Hidebehindtherain 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 14

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    Was planing to write this whole story about it but eh.. Think I will just give the nutt shell Version instead.. Got asked out by this girl I knew from a cuzin on Fourth of July...
    StevensTHEname StevensTHEname 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 14

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    Help! I was broken up with a few days ago. I thought I was doing fine, then sometimes I'm caught with my guard down and this pain in my chest hurts all the more. I'd call myself a...
    aintthatinnocent aintthatinnocent 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Hurts when someone shows you, you meant nothing at all and you believed you did.
    BAPhoto BAPhoto 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    Don't leave me lonely, I'm giving you life, I've offered up my heart only yours will suffice This shell I've become of what I once knew, defeated and borrowed, broken and blue. I...
    summerdaniella summerdaniella 18-21, F Mar 31

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    Just left...doesn't text me or want to talk. Anytime I try and be nice and see how he's doing he'll be short and just act like he doesn't care. Why did you even come in my life...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Apr 5

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    I once was married 9 years to a drug addict alcoholic who blatantly refused help..I tried desperately to help him, until I heard this quote from a professional nurse. Swim for the...
    cinnamonrose cinnamonrose 56-60, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Forgive not because they deserve it. Forgive because it gives you peace.
    lurveruinsit lurveruinsit 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    If you love me so much. Then how could you abandon me... Everyone leaves.
    NeeverForget NeeverForget 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I'm scared to love and make friends
    Ifeelkikeaghosht Ifeelkikeaghosht 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I started crying at a book once in school Becuz I felt so bad that this person had to go through what they did....
    MyHeadsUnderWater MyHeadsUnderWater 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    It it interesting to see the reactions of others to my situation. My family, friends, strangers, everyone has an opinion and a strong one at that. I married my hubby for the wrong...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Everybody who I've told what she does to me says that she is abusive, but I'm still not sure. I know that she's narcissistic because in all the articles I read about it almost all...
    jules401 jules401 13-15, F 7 Responses Mar 29

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    For a little over a year I have been trying to explain the reasons and motivations behind the way I have lived my life since I married my husband. I have never been able to explain...
    isis55 isis55 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I was a wild dancer that loved to do powermoves. I am a member of a Breakers Crew. However I consider myself an ex dancer. Years ago I wanted to continue practicing powermoves, and...
    HandsomeRocker HandsomeRocker 18-21, M Apr 7

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    I wanted to share a couple of excerpts from the book "Getting Past the Affair- A Program To Help You Cope, Heal and Move On---Together or Apart" by Douglas K. Snyder, PhD, Donald...
    Selfhelpme Selfhelpme 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    A Decision I Made... Years Ago. To have and to hold from this day forward. Sept 15, 2001 on this date I informed my spouse and said "I was going to transition into a woman, many...
    Trisha60ts Trisha60ts 61-65, T 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I've been with my boyfriend almost 2 years now, we had a really big argument and he wouldn't speak to me for a while I was very drunk when the argument happened and couldn't have...
    louise4444 louise4444 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I will write about this. I actually kind of want to have at least one story for each experience I've got listed, but I doubt I will ever manage all of that. I will preface the...
    Lgl700 Lgl700 51-55, M Apr 14

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    I was about 21.Being so innocent, Not knowing that there are g..ys or men who are interested in others, I was so shocked by what happened. we were in a bus, a big man sitting...
    mrsherif mrsherif 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Travelling in India.I had heard how dangerous the roads are. So was prepared to be nervous, scared, even with a local driver.Traffic in India is chaotic. Much hooting as " nobody...
    avatarunknown avatarunknown 51-55, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I was depressed all the time a mother of toe and one on the way I felt lost I had a home And husband a car a boat a family.. No reason I know now to be depressed I lost my 7 month...
    laceykight laceykight 26-30, F Apr 13

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    when me and my bff where breaking up cuz her mom found out we had been watchingporn 2gther and i was s*xting guys i met on omegle after my breakup she wouldn't let us hang anymore...
    casssss casssss 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I was dating a girl that I have been friends with and known since elementary school. We even went to the same college. We didn't date until the end of last year and it was great...
    Brennancr Brennancr 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    In complete denial....... Hello all. I have read many posts of yalls dealing with this issue. I came searching for answers and help/support because I feel very alone and scared. I...
    ashoryb ashoryb 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I got my first job as an artist's model as a 19 year old and it was all about the money. Soon I found out how much I loved being a model. I am comfortable nude, but also really...
    artonthebrain artonthebrain 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    I've been hurt before by somebody who I loved, who i would have given heaven and earth for just to see that cheeky smile, maybe that's why I hate guys and just stick to girls, I...
    littlemzedee littlemzedee 16-17, F a week ago

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    I have been cheated on alot. My first long term relationship ended in me finding out he had cheated on me atleast 5 times. When i eventually moved on, i got cheated on again, same...
    Soldottern Soldottern 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I was bullied alot in my elementary years ... And I didn't have many friends ... I kept moving alot and was bullied due to my weight...I've also have been called ugly , and stupid...
    emmawinterfrost emmawinterfrost 13-15, F Apr 12

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    I love my therapist. But I hardly get to see her because my mom cancels my appointments all the time. It's been 6 weeks now.... Oh ****, tomorrow is Friday. Which means I'm...
    yourguardianangel9613 yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I'm almost 18, and my parents control every single aspect of my life. Yeah, I've made some bad choices, but they've never given me a chance to show them I am more mature since then...
    sothisiswhatitfeelslike sothisiswhatitfeelslike 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    It saddens me so muh to see so many peole on here who have been rejected by church. I worked for my church and they restructered my position so my junior got my job. I have...
    sassychristian sassychristian 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I really wish it was. It wouldn't have been long distance. You wouldn't have cheated on me, because I would've shamed you in public because of it. You wouldn't have gotten...
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    My husbands suddenly gone from healthy to not healthy at all. He is scheduled for open heart surgery next week and I'm just shocked. We have been struggling with bills since he was...
    crystalkat crystalkat 51-55, F Apr 15

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    I feel like crying, screaming, swearing, punching, thrashing, sprinting to the other side of the world and back again, I feel hot, I feel desperate.... I feel like I don't know...
    jeweldoggy jeweldoggy 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I first met Brad when I was 11 & he was 13. His family came to vacation during 4th of July at the beach where I lived. After several summers & hundreds of letters (way before the...
    mermaid27 mermaid27 36-40 Apr 3

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    I'm currently 13 and I have been sexually harassed since I was 12. At first I thought it was my imagination and then one night I woke up while my grandfather was shoving his hand...
    DamnLyfe DamnLyfe 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 14

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    Ok, this was the scariest thing of my life... I was in a library, with a friend, and we were having a good time, until we noticed that creepy guy that was following us. Wherever...
    Litany43 Litany43 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have been with my husband for 19yrs, and have a 10yr old son. Our marriage has become stale over the past few years. I have asked for a separation but he refused. He never tells...
    vital77 vital77 36-40, F Apr 4

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    This past months were not easy at all. I wanted to die so many times. Inside I felt empty sometimes sad. I knew that my problem was because my heart was torn between what was and...
    888ob 888ob 31-35, F Apr 14

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    My husband and I have been married for 6 weeks now. I've loved him for 19 years though. Still just as much as I did when we met. He's been an addict his entire adult life. I...
    kct0314 kct0314 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 26

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    I am glad I found this group because I can not tell anyone else this story. 20 years ago when we were 16 my first love and I fell deeply in love. We dated 3 years steady and...
    upsidedownandconfused upsidedownandconfused 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    it is infuriating to receive mail from E P Allie telling me that once again a group I belonged to was deleted for a policy violation...is it unreasonable to believe someone...
    warstorm warstorm 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    When I was little I was placed in my first residential I have been in and out of facilities most of my life and have been abused there also. I'm looking for someone out there who...
    Cierra212 Cierra212 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have been going to nudist resorts all my life. Until I was 18 with my family and now I go with my wife a couple times a year. Good times.
    ashizzlee ashizzlee 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 23