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I Have Been Hurt Alot So It Can Take Me A While To Trust

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    Im in a long distance relationship with someone

    that I no longer trust. Idk how to totally forgive him for the mistakes he's made 😔
    charnicepretty charnicepretty 18-21, F Jun 22, 2014

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    No Trust

    I cant trust people ive been lied to so many times it hurts.I cant trust ANYMORE not even if I ment the freaking president I wouldnt trust him its wierd and sad
    larissacrater larissacrater 16-17, F May 8, 2013

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    Warming Up To People

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    noaht43 noaht43 41-45, T Aug 22, 2012

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