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I Have Been Hurt Alot So It Can Take Me A While To Trust

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    Im in a long distance relationship with someone

    that I no longer trust. Idk how to totally forgive him for the mistakes he's made 😔
    charnicepretty charnicepretty 22-25, F Jun 22, 2014

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    No Trust

    I cant trust people ive been lied to so many times it hurts.I cant trust ANYMORE not even if I ment the freaking president I wouldnt trust him its wierd and sad
    larissacrater larissacrater 16-17, F May 8, 2013

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    Warming Up To People

    It takes me awhile to warm up to new people. I'm so skittish that I can't stand it when people I don't know sits or stands too close to me in a room. I don't care how many there are. I need space. I feel suffocated when someone grabs a seat right next to me. On bad days, it's...
    noaht43 noaht43 41-45, T Aug 22, 2012

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    hey :P I was here before, I know. You might recognise my username... or maybe not? I deleted my old account, and quit EP for a while. I'm surprised no one has taken this username...
    shadowdancers shadowdancers 13-15, F 3 hrs ago

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    sorry if i end up rambling - but i have been holding things in for quite a while and need to vent.... keep in mind that i only knew a small portion of the problems before we were...
    naiveUSMCvet naiveUSMCvet 46-50, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I finally got the opportunity to fulfill a long time dream of mine, which was to get a home where both my girls would have their own rooms. I moved a month before my daughter...
    unbrokenground unbrokenground 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    there is no greater pain in this world than having your own mother tell you she doesn't love you. I wish she had just aborted me or adopted me out if she couldn't love me due to...
    kk1874 kk1874 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm American and my mom is German. Outside the USA, I've lived in Germany and Denmark, and attended Bible schools in England and Austria. I've also visited Ireland, Belgium...
    drmjr drmjr 46-50, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My family rather have me live on the streets then get counseling and stop the verbal, emotional and physical abuse in the household. So now I am forced to wander the streets until...
    Deadlynightshade5 Deadlynightshade5 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Which is so insane But society lost its soul And caring suffer hurt by uncaring
    OddButResilient OddButResilient 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    All my friends are in relationships and I'm on my own and have been for 3 years
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm hurting for different reasons and i dont know where to start my healing process.. what issue to tackle first(sigh) Why can't i find peace and move on? Accept what i cannot...
    sweetsandlove sweetsandlove 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have been more times than I can count. I was doing really well for a long time and then I took my abusive boyfriend back. It ended terribly, with restraining orders and me in a...
    xoPandoraBlack xoPandoraBlack 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    This is a true story of what happened to Greg Zaffuto. I have just experienced much the same and do not want this to happen to you, so I am sharing the following. I apologize for...
    Grace2U Grace2U 66-70, F a week ago

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    I just hate seeing someone sad and upset. It breaks my heart each and every time. Usually if I see someone sad and upset I do what ever I can to cheer them up. I know I can't help...
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M a week ago

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    I am not so sure to tell my parents that I am going out late at night with my friends and that I have been in other places they would surely not permit me to go. I just lied...
    Jubbydith Jubbydith 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    and I still am! My boyfriend/Master is 13 years older than me. We have been together almost 3 years and we live together and are very happy
    ServingGirlUK ServingGirlUK 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 5

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    So at the end of 2014 I found out that my best friend of 9 years and her bf plotted to use me for my money and my helpfulness. We had always talked about our future and things we...
    aquamoongoddess aquamoongoddess 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 5

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    BULLYING AS A DOMINO EFFECT ... My father group up as an orphan because his parents were killed in the second World War and he suffered at the hands of the German soldiers that...
    LozzyFromRome LozzyFromRome 46-50, M 3 Responses Feb 4

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    We both Hurt each other in different ways. Very bad... I feel responsible for everything, but I know everyone is responsible for their own decisions, including what we put in our...
    Starkizzed21 Starkizzed21 22-25, F Feb 4

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    I have been blocked by some weird men .
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 3

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    I have been talking to guys on here and I kind of like it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 2

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    I have been sick, really sick. It started before Christmas with cellulitis in the sinus cavity. Then my upper molar abscessed into the already infected sinus. It was one thing...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 32 Responses Feb 2

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    I'm back on a psych ward after being gone for just over a year. Initially I was on an "intensive care" unit where most things were restricted, including camera phones, which was...
    SolitaryFriend SolitaryFriend 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 2

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    now I know this is nothing compared to some of the stories I just seen on here, but here it goes....I started dating my boyfriend almost 6 years ago...during the 6 years we have...
    teeq22 teeq22 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 2

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    Making Peace with Your Past: Choosing Forgiveness Are you haunted by something that happened in your past? Whether someone wronged you or you made a decision you regret, Dr. Phil...
    Q2013 Q2013 46-50, F Feb 2

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    Yes, I like to go to nude beaches. However, it is not my first choice if I cab choose. I do prefer a secluded peaceful place . Doesn't matter if it is by the water, in the...
    niceskip niceskip 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 2

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    Like sixsix68, I have been to Orient Beach on St. Martin long ago. My wife and I spent a day there.The most usual past of the day was that we took in the sales pitch for one of...
    beachlover492000 beachlover492000 61-65, M Feb 1

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    I have been photographed naked outdoors a few times, mostly on nude beaches in the Caribbean.States side nude beaches are few and far between. The only only time I can remember was...
    beachlover492000 beachlover492000 61-65, M 1 Response Feb 1

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    My best friend since third grade betrayed me a lot and because she was "troubled" I wanted to believe it was her issues and not her weakness of character causing her actions and...
    sambular1313 sambular1313 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    This article is for those who need help avoiding the friendzone, not ones who are already in it. I feel most comfortable writing this in article-form rather than anything else...
    ManfredVonCletensctine ManfredVonCletensctine 18-21, M Jan 31

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    I knew a few times that my kids would get up at night and find my ex and I enjoying ourselves, what I didn't know is that my one son would sneak out and watch us in the living room...
    donontario donontario 61-65, M 3 Responses Jan 29

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    The guy I was with recently dumped me and I realized that all the significant, romantic relationships I have been in have been abusive in some form. They've either flat out abused...
    terrywill15 terrywill15 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I worked in construction for fifty years. Worked in wood houses and concrete and steel buildings. Have done things just to get it done now instead of waiting for all kinds of...
    boldtimer boldtimer 66-70, M Jan 28

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    It's getting to the point now if I don't know if I can keep going. I am practising acceptance and making peace with what may come to me. But what I can't take anymore is the...
    32forever2016 32forever2016 31-35, M Jan 27

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    I've never really talked about it except to people I'm closest to, so here goes nothin. When we started dating he treated me like I was precious and gave me attention i had never...
    SnowWhite87 SnowWhite87 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 27

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    I have been through two abusive relationships, I am out now and safe. I want to tell everyone out there that no abuse is exceptable no matter if it's emotional physical or sexaul...
    chockywhockydoda chockywhockydoda 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    Tonight he threw my dinner at the wall. I have been snowed in without access to my car as it is BURIED in snow. On my boyfriends way home I had asked him to pick up something...
    dcp1058 dcp1058 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 27

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    I have been in an age-gap relationship for almost eight years. I'm 27 years old, my wife is 48. I love her very much, and I'm looking forward to many more years with her.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 26

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    Today, I had another conversation with my mom. Yes, I love her. Yes, she was there and saw (all of the abuse of me and my siblings.) Hard for her. She spends her days trying to...
    frspch frspch 51-55, F 6 Responses Jan 25

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