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I Have Been Hurt Alot So It Can Take Me A While To Trust

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 340 People

    No Trust

    I cant trust people ive been lied to so many times it hurts.I cant trust ANYMORE not even if I ment the freaking president I wouldnt trust him its wierd and sad
    larissacrater larissacrater 16-17, F May 8, 2013

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    Warming Up To People

    It takes me awhile to warm up to new people. I'm so skittish that I can't stand it when people I don't know sits or stands too close to me in a room. I don't care how many there are. I need space. I feel suffocated when someone grabs a seat right next to me. On bad days, it's...
    noaht43 noaht43 41-45, T Aug 22, 2012

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    Im in a long distance relationship with someone

    that I no longer trust. Idk how to totally forgive him for the mistakes he's made 😔
    charnicepretty charnicepretty 18-21, F Jun 22, 2014

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    My features, characteristics, and mannerisms have been compared to Vivien Leigh, the English Actress who played ''Scarlett'' in ''Gone With the Wind'. I believe the resemblance is...
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    Forgiving someone is easy, but being able to trust them again is a totally different story.
    cat1989 cat1989 26-30, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    so yeah i have been in a super abusive relationship. more than once where i was raped 17 times, ive been hit so many times that i can't even count them and i have been kidnapped...
    Romitri657 Romitri657 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I am working on an assignment for my current college course dealing with intercultural communication. The assignment requires that I ask someone who is not from the US and has...
    localrocklover localrocklover 26-30, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    Lately I've been having these really bad headaches that hurt so bad that even my eyeballs hurt. I don't know if they are migraines or what they are but what I do know for sure is...
    marlene41298 marlene41298 16-17, F a week ago

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    I can't take it anymore . I think I'm going to be sick . My brother have been acting like a completely bratty selfless ( there's are words I want to say but I'd get deleted if i do...
    crazyram45 crazyram45 22-25, M a week ago

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    For the past few days I have been having a lot of stomach pain and I've also been having a lot of diarrhea. I have noticed that whenever I eat cheese my stomach starts to hurt and...
    caitlyn41702 caitlyn41702 13-15, F a week ago

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    I have been verbally and mentally abused by my mom and dad, never really anything psychical, I mean.. I've been hit before, but nothing extreme. My mom is better about it, but my...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 25

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    I have been in a relationship with my partner for 6 years, we were engaged for 2 but I ended that due to his drug/anger issues. We have a 4 year old son together. This week his...
    danimm danimm 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    I have been told more times then I can count that I look like Meryl Streep.
    czywidow7217 czywidow7217 51-55, F Jun 23

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    You ask yourself was any of it true ? Was I the only one who was in this relationship . If you weren't happy why couldn't just just have left ? Why did you have to hurt me for your...
    Coolcatsandcoffee Coolcatsandcoffee 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    I have been used for sex. I was stupid and still in love with my ex, so I just wanted to do whatever I could to make him happy. I finally had to let go, and although it hurts, I...
    jellolia jellolia 16-17, F Jun 22

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    HARDY9849 HARDY9849 51-55, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    I smiled with heart and my soul cherished with happiness. My eyes were only seeing the flowers and fragrances all around everywhere. I began to live and smile after years of hard...
    zainshah1 zainshah1 26-30, M Jun 22

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    I was lying down watching the movie Sucker punched and got worked up. I don't even remember starting to touch myself, but I got really into it, so much so, that I had to slip my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jun 22

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    Relationships have taken their toll on me in the past. I have been emotionally broken by those I cared for and loved. So many times so that I have lost a piece of me. It takes alot...
    ForgetableMe ForgetableMe 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    Someday, someone is going to thank you for letting me go... :)
    Pinaybarbie Pinaybarbie 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 22

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    My "friends" stabbed me in the back. They spoke to one of the moms saying how terrible and angry I am. This mom gave me ****. I said whatever ignore it. Then I find out yesterday...
    GeorgiaMaroulis GeorgiaMaroulis 18-21, F Jun 21

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    I am not gonna pretend that being a Christian is easy and that it's always a good time, cause its not. It's really tough a lot of the time and I have seen things, I have been...
    NicoleWahlstrom NicoleWahlstrom 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I'm tired to hurt I and I dont to fall again for someone who will leave me
    jayn12 jayn12 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I have been told by many people, both boys and girls, that I have very cute feet. I try to take very good care of them and I usually try to keep my toenails painted as much as I...
    leahphillips62 leahphillips62 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    I wish I was important enough to you so you would try, instead of just letting me go. You know what I wanted to hear, not "Fine, goodbye". Theres a lot of hurt feelings and broken...
    RawrrItsAlexa RawrrItsAlexa 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    I am a domestic violence survivor. I joined a support group recently. And have been going back ever since. I cry every time I go. Because I am feeling more and more safe. I've been...
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    I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months We've been so happy for this time it's been like a whirlwind romance I have most definitely fallen for him I love him so much Last night...
    Confuzed11 Confuzed11 22-25 2 Responses Jun 19

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    This isn't an uncommon thing in my sex life. Like today... I was giving an fwb some head earlier when my housemate's boyfriend walked into my room. The fwb was caught off guard...
    amyadventurous amyadventurous 22-25, F 12 Responses Jun 17

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    If someone can't see you for your worth, if someone can't see how AMAZING you are, with all of your complexity, all of your imperfections, if someone can't see you for YOU - your...
    ERMAHGERD1 ERMAHGERD1 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 17

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    I will be the first to admit. It has been almost a year since I have been exclusive with a guy. My past doesn't define me. It certainly does have an impact on my everyday life. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17

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    Ive been picked on all of my life aswell, as i read the stories of users in this group. This is something that ruined my self esteem and my life pretty much. With my old EP account...
    lonely4560 lonely4560 31-35, F Jun 17

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    It hurts to be rejected. I entered a long distance relationship with someone I knew from high school. We clicked on almost every level. Our beliefs really matched up and he was so...
    souldigger7 souldigger7 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 16

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    Who can take a horn.y Wedg.is sl4ve?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 14

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    i have been in a mental hospital for suicide and self harm. they diagnosed me with depression and had to take pills for it.the pill made me feel better but i guess i got used to...
    ladyangel924 ladyangel924 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 14

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    I"m scared of guys big time
    mariab402 mariab402 18-21, F Jun 13

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    I have hurt people and said dreadfully horrible things when I let my anger and pain take over. I still can't believe some of the things I said when I was angry or hurt.
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 13

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