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I Have Been Hurt Bad In Life

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    Wtf. This guy who's 10 years older

    than me who took advantage of me and raped me when I was 16 years old just wrote me a letter from jail saying he's sorry & if I have any bad feelings against him and we were just young and he truly did like me. He hopes we can cross paths and blah be friends. Wtf. No. We never...
    Lunalovexo Lunalovexo 22-25, F May 14

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    So Now I Keep To Myself

    I have always liked people and thought they were fascinating. They also hurt me a lot. I have been: talked about (behind my back and while I was listening) Ridiculed Ignored Placated Invalidated Minimized Belittled Cursed Discriminated against Labeled Badmouthed Accused falsely...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 26, 2013

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    I forget the experience

    but learned the lesson shown.
    YoungRidah YoungRidah 18-21, M May 5

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    Lost Kitty

    some time ago my friend tana (and ex gf) and i were hangin out at her cousins house and tana asked me "ever wonder if rebecca (kitty) dosent like you?" it hurt because kitty (explanes the title) is one of my best friend and i was crushed. i felt like i couldnt trust anyone. i...
    Leon77 Leon77 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 27, 2013

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    I Overcomed

    I know I am not the only one that can admit It is not a good feeling the worse part about being hurt bad by others is when they want admit the fault I hate when people make excuses trying to justify their wrong actions To be hurt by a love one is also a painful situation...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 1, 2012

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    Living And Learning

    I woke up earlier than usual I have been getting much rest lately because the other day someone hurt my feeling so bad. I know in life we must endure hurt. Words can cut like a knife. People sometimes do not fully think before they speak and it causes them as well as others...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F Sep 14, 2011

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    Ive been rejected and ignored in life

    and its emotional abuse in my eyes. I still have some close people in my life who i appriciate and love but i dont have real friends and real love. And i think that real friends and real love are very important. I was trying hard to win friends but they went out of my way. I...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F May 5

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    Ive had a horrible past.

    . I want to be happy.. But theres nothing out there that makes me happy.. Any suggestings?
    askherseyedeger askherseyedeger 18-21, F Dec 16, 2013

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    People always tell me my experiences are

    so crazy that they seem unreal. Unfortunately they are real.
    pampsy pampsy 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    No one understands how it feels to be the cause

    of someone's death. It makes my life feel meaningless and ******. How can I live knowing this happened every day
    Lunalovexo Lunalovexo 22-25, F 1 Response May 5

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    Triangle Of 6

    ok so last nite im hangin out with my friends dylan, jarred, dalton, and lizz. ever since valentines day i realized i have something of a crush on lizz. so last nite dylan dares me to walk up to lizz and kiss her on the lipps. so i do it and then i realize how much i like her (i...
    Leon77 Leon77 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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    Can't Tell It All

    I have been hurt so many times in life. By so many different relationship. Some times you expect it from some but don't from others. I think that's how hurt comes into play. The one you feel want hurt you are sometimes the ones that cuts your feelings like a knife. I have been...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2011

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    My Life Gets Worse By The Second

    My life has gotten worse since 2 years ago my ear stopped working and the doctors couldn't figure out y then crap just started falling all around my now it is down to my grandfather dying and he was my only father figure and now I don't know what to do I wish God would help him
    KillerK9 KillerK9 13-15 Nov 4, 2012

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    Steffi97 Steffi97 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 19

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    Obviously I've been hurt many times.. but I'll never forget one of those times.. I still remember the pain as if it was yesterday.. I still feel the pain sometimes.. I used to be...
    Lily449 Lily449 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    Yes I've been hurt in the past, both physically and emotionally. I think everyone has. But I've learned that you can't carried that to the present
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    I have been, but the worst part is, that person/s doesn't even know they hurt you.
    gwenllian gwenllian 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Not able to connect with my own emotion, I can't set straight my priorities. One thing I know is I was hurt. I need to move on. I broke out, it's peaceful and quite now by myself...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F Aug 27

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    Wow! Four days of emotion packed and hipnotization. Finally bak to stupid life - didn't know if it ends that way too:/ But u will always respect you
    Sophiakhan1 Sophiakhan1 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I woke up little furious... Some celebrity picture with no close get out, and the police (who kill for fun by the way) lose their lid to "take the action." I get abuse at home...
    Jaielll Jaielll 18-21, F Sep 1

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    I feel like I've been broken into millions and millions of pieces.... By far the worst time of my life and I feel like Im stuck in a terrible nightmare.
    Isntitironic Isntitironic 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    It's just plain hurtful. To be sweet and kind to someone, to show them intimacy and let it go a little further each time, while not being pushy about it all. To show understanding...
    MasqueradeWaltz MasqueradeWaltz 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    I know what loss feels like, I know what it feels like to think love was wasted and swim in a sea of regrets and what if's, thinking what we could have done differently, maybe we...
    Shanti00 Shanti00 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Today I am hurting, and admit that I am now and again missing the person who put me in this position. I feel like I have tried to escape it, and have being doing well but when it...
    Sash9967 Sash9967 18-21, F Aug 29

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    I truly felt I was loved but it turned out everything wasn't as it was painted to be. Hurts so much to think that person really cared about you when in reality she didn't . At this...
    YoungHeartedSoul YoungHeartedSoul 41-45, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I wonder what I could have done that was so terrible... Was it something I said? How can you take a friendship and throw it away as if it were garbage? It wasn't about what...
    jojo2u jojo2u 46-50, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Eyes that bleed poison, From times before, No ointment can stop, Oozing comes forth, Memories lost behind curtains of shame, Sometimes i wish i could forget everything, Even my...
    abracakyle abracakyle 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    "Violence does not always take visible form, and not all wounds gush blood." -Haruki Murakami
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    She whisked her shoulder on mine to inform me to do her but I don't care.
    psycopower90 psycopower90 22-25, M Aug 23

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    I feel like ****. Just plain old ****. My dog is on his death bed. I've had that dog since I was five. I love him so much. Hang in there buddy.
    Hintin Hintin 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 27

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    I'm just lost. I want something to numb me and knock me out and make me forget everything. I need a friend. I need a brother. Sister. Mom. Dad. Someone to talk to.
    Jaielll Jaielll 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    I try to be nice to everyone and I didn't tell some random person how are you cause I'm going to sleep and I get called a freaking bitccchh like thanks! You know I'm not already...
    herthehurtone herthehurtone 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    When It Comes To Love: Pain is Inevitable.
    Shanti00 Shanti00 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I have been having bad dreams every single night that I forgot to take my B1 vitamin. It's always about my brothers starting to smoke or my grandpa dying before I get to visit him...
    Jessicaliners Jessicaliners 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was not born with a whole brain. I was born physically disabled and physically able. I have been given natural talents and special inside gifts. I do not look disabled to many...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    I have to say, I've never witnessed or experienced blocking at such a high frequency on any other site as much as on EP. It amazes me, humors me, and appalls me at times. Even...
    AllStarcrushNate AllStarcrushNate 26-30, M 6 Responses Sep 8

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    Update! There's hope guys - don't settle! Last time I posted it had been only one month since being cheated on - and I was a mess. Only thing I was sure of is that there was no way...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    I need to express this. I feel so alone and feel that I am going through all of the emotions at once dealing with this. I sometimes don't even know where to begin. But I pray that...
    FromJWtoJEW FromJWtoJEW 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    My husband cheated on me online. He never met the woman but many of their conversations were very heart felt and emotional. He even asked her to marry him twice. (he claims he was...
    hasinalady hasinalady 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    Thinking about my life, it should have been different. I married my soul mate or what I thought was my soul mate. It hurts to think about the life we had. At one point in our...
    Sunshinegirl07 Sunshinegirl07 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    When I was a kid, i used to have a ton of friends, then i moved.... Everyone i knew was gone. After that i never really had any friends. I would always just get through school...
    Snsndmdmam Snsndmdmam 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    This actually still scares me when I think about it so maybe it's good to get it out. Two of my closest female friends knew this guy. I never really knew much about him besides...
    Bewail Bewail 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Compared to what some of the people here have been through, I had it easy. I met a guy I thought was near perfect- he was cute, he was smart, and I thought he was sweet. I'm clumsy...
    HorizonHeart HorizonHeart 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    my boyfriend is trying to convince me that I 'admitted' doing something with another guy before our 'split up', when I didn't. I was sure he broke up with me so I turned to alcohol...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 31

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    For basically all of my life.Mostly because i keep everything bottled up inside.I know its not good for me but i have kept this bottle as a Safe mode for all of my life. Just...
    UndefinedMind29 UndefinedMind29 16-17, F Aug 19

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    I've been few continents by myself. The most difficult places have been the spanish speaking countries. ( language barriers, dangerous, etc) I must say people in Peru are nice and...
    nomadic32 nomadic32 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    Sorry I haven't been in here lately it's been a bad few days.
    Kelnea Kelnea 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Just something I felt like sharing/talking about. My current bf and I had a fight and I guess this was his way of "getting back" at me. He began entertaining conversations with...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F Aug 30

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