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I Have Been Hurt By My Sister

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    Im Scared Its Too Late

    Ive been deeply deeply hurt by my sister. We're not sisters by blood, but we have grown up with each other and known each other for the last 11 years since we were 7 and 8 years old. You would think that we would grow closer as the years go by, but we've only grown farther apart...
    aj555 aj555 18-21, F May 6, 2009

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    I've Been Tight Lipped For 15 Years

    My first marriage was a disaster waiting to happen. And it did. My husband at the time he was still my boyfriend slept around constantly. First with my best friend, and that hurt. I told him that I wanted to break up. I knew he didn't want to get married and after 7 years of...
    msfreespirit msfreespirit 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    Sibling

    Im the older sister and me and my younger sister just get on eachothers nerves, just like most siblings. Sometimes our word wars can be really vicious she's said some really mean things that have just killed me inside. I've also said some terrible things to her.. I think its...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie 22-25, F 1 Response May 5, 2009

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    Here is my story. I have a younger sister.

    Im 33, she is 27. She never wanted to do anything with me like a friend, like sister. As she was about 19 or 20, i was trying to go out with her shopping and things like that. I think she didnt enjoy that short time with me.But at the same time she was nasty to me aswell. I...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    Molested &Amp; Confuessed

    I was constenly molested from the ages 9-12. By my sidters boyfriends. I hated him, so much anger towards him!! I feel stupid for leting him touch me! I was so dumb. Never told anybody, till a day my sis found out. She yelled at him but was still with him. She. Would always...
    LilJay13 LilJay13 22-25 1 Response Mar 31, 2013

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    She Never Stops And Lives In Denial

    my sister has hurt me too many times over relationships and career and educationshe lies and turns people against me, takes all my friends and associatesshe has gone too far this time getting me rapedand I will not forgive those around me who let her abuse methe time has come to...
    teardropkisses teardropkisses 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2011

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    Mine True Love Fails

    AKKA AKKA AKKA...................................more then AMMA i have used AKKA but she hurted me so much bcoz she found a new company, i have learnt more from here both happiness and sadness, i was blind more then any one else i loved here,but still i love here,iam felling...
    chrisma2415 chrisma2415 18-21 Apr 24, 2013

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    To You Or It Or the Variety of Names I Have Referred to You As....

    By blood you are my sister, yet you remain nothing to me as yet.  Funny as it sounds, even after what you done to me, I cannot hate you, as that demands me to feel something for you and I can't give you that satisfication.  To me, you will never be my sister as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 25, 2008

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    My sister gave me an IOU

    for the holidays (we celebrated early). Claims she ran out of time (even though the gift exchange date was set a month before we all met up).
    imanob imanob 36-40, F Dec 4, 2013

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    I Have Two Sisters Who Disowened Me For Whatever Reason

    I have no idea why. I would try to call them and they would never return my calls so I finally stopped calling after years of trying. It's been 6 years now and they have not attempted to contact me and I have no idea why.
    Kindal Kindal 46-50, F 5 Responses Mar 28, 2010

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    My Sister Is 16 Years Older Than Me

    My sister is more like a second mother, which isn’t a good thing. One mother is enough. Let me describe the situation. My sister is in her thirties and I’m only 18. She has a different father than I do. She grew up with two brothers (the only siblings we share), and I didn...
    Idola1708 Idola1708 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    Blood Betrayal

    I wish I could say this to her. You are my lil sis. At least you were, a decade ago. Now I don't know who you are, and I hate what you've become. I'm angry, disappointed, but mostly I'm hurt and betrayed. The drugs, the rehab, the alcohol, more rehab, the psych wards...
    Laceylocks Laceylocks 51-55, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Obviously I've been hurt many times.. but I'll never forget one of those times.. I still remember the pain as if it was yesterday.. I still feel the pain sometimes.. I used to be...
    Lily449 Lily449 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    A Bridge Across the Pain. I remember one morning when I was three and sitting across the table from my father at breakfast, just he and I, when for no reason I could think of he...
    Steffi97 Steffi97 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 19

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    Yes I've been hurt in the past, both physically and emotionally. I think everyone has. But I've learned that you can't carried that to the present
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    I have been, but the worst part is, that person/s doesn't even know they hurt you.
    gwenllian gwenllian 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm just lost. I want something to numb me and knock me out and make me forget everything. I need a friend. I need a brother. Sister. Mom. Dad. Someone to talk to.
    Jaielll Jaielll 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    It's just plain hurtful. To be sweet and kind to someone, to show them intimacy and let it go a little further each time, while not being pushy about it all. To show understanding...
    MasqueradeWaltz MasqueradeWaltz 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Today I am hurting, and admit that I am now and again missing the person who put me in this position. I feel like I have tried to escape it, and have being doing well but when it...
    Sash9967 Sash9967 18-21, F Aug 29

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    I feel like I've been broken into millions and millions of pieces.... By far the worst time of my life and I feel like Im stuck in a terrible nightmare.
    Isntitironic Isntitironic 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I woke up little furious... Some celebrity picture with no close get out, and the police (who kill for fun by the way) lose their lid to "take the action." I get abuse at home...
    Jaielll Jaielll 18-21, F Sep 1

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    I know what loss feels like, I know what it feels like to think love was wasted and swim in a sea of regrets and what if's, thinking what we could have done differently, maybe we...
    Shanti00 Shanti00 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    I wonder what I could have done that was so terrible... Was it something I said? How can you take a friendship and throw it away as if it were garbage? It wasn't about what...
    jojo2u jojo2u 46-50, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Eyes that bleed poison, From times before, No ointment can stop, Oozing comes forth, Memories lost behind curtains of shame, Sometimes i wish i could forget everything, Even my...
    abracakyle abracakyle 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    "Violence does not always take visible form, and not all wounds gush blood." -Haruki Murakami
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    She whisked her shoulder on mine to inform me to do her but I don't care.
    psycopower90 psycopower90 22-25, M Aug 23

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    I feel like ****. Just plain old ****. My dog is on his death bed. I've had that dog since I was five. I love him so much. Hang in there buddy.
    Hintin Hintin 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 27

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    I try to be nice to everyone and I didn't tell some random person how are you cause I'm going to sleep and I get called a freaking bitccchh like thanks! You know I'm not already...
    herthehurtone herthehurtone 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    When It Comes To Love: Pain is Inevitable.
    Shanti00 Shanti00 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    I have a younger sister called Lily she was put up for adoption when I was 13 (she was 7). Luckily I still get to see her on weekends. She will grow up to be a beautiful young lady...
    HandsomePrince1 HandsomePrince1 16-17, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I need to express this. I feel so alone and feel that I am going through all of the emotions at once dealing with this. I sometimes don't even know where to begin. But I pray that...
    FromJWtoJEW FromJWtoJEW 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I have to say, I've never witnessed or experienced blocking at such a high frequency on any other site as much as on EP. It amazes me, humors me, and appalls me at times. Even...
    AllStarcrushNate AllStarcrushNate 26-30, M 6 Responses Sep 8

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    I have a little sister who is developmentally disabled, she met a guy and got pregnant. She thinks that this guy will stay with her and help her. He has three domestic violence...
    keiraames keiraames 26-30, F Aug 25

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    For basically all of my life.Mostly because i keep everything bottled up inside.I know its not good for me but i have kept this bottle as a Safe mode for all of my life. Just...
    UndefinedMind29 UndefinedMind29 16-17, F Aug 19

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    My dad had an affair while married to my mom. And I found out I have 2 half sisters. One of them is 9 years old, and the other is younger than her. I have never seen them. I don't...
    T410 T410 18-21, M Aug 22

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    Update! There's hope guys - don't settle! Last time I posted it had been only one month since being cheated on - and I was a mess. Only thing I was sure of is that there was no way...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    my boyfriend is trying to convince me that I 'admitted' doing something with another guy before our 'split up', when I didn't. I was sure he broke up with me so I turned to alcohol...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 31

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    Thinking about my life, it should have been different. I married my soul mate or what I thought was my soul mate. It hurts to think about the life we had. At one point in our...
    Sunshinegirl07 Sunshinegirl07 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Just something I felt like sharing/talking about. My current bf and I had a fight and I guess this was his way of "getting back" at me. He began entertaining conversations with...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F Aug 30

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    My husband cheated on me online. He never met the woman but many of their conversations were very heart felt and emotional. He even asked her to marry him twice. (he claims he was...
    hasinalady hasinalady 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    I've been so busy with school work , my son and other family things I haven't been on in forever . First I lost my second child a month ago so I've been going through that and...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I've been few continents by myself. The most difficult places have been the spanish speaking countries. ( language barriers, dangerous, etc) I must say people in Peru are nice and...
    nomadic32 nomadic32 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    Well that was fun...I had an accident at the farm and ended up with a concision...I have been here for 2 days now and I don't even know what happened...must have been bad cause my...
    BustyRedHead321 BustyRedHead321 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 4

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    I have been cheated on more than a couple times, my latest ex cheated on me but is now texting me all the time.part of me feels like hey karma is a ***** because he says the new...
    LoudMouse LoudMouse 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    I live in a city that is very expensive and only work in a fairly low paid industry. long story short I cant live with family and I am a Christian who believes it is better for me...
    funkykristi funkykristi 31-35, F Sep 10

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    I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and he is my life but the guy before me was a jerk. He had sex with someone in my bed whilst I was at work luckily I was left off work...
    mparker7789 mparker7789 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have been, and still am part of a really abusive selfish mother and an enabler father. My mother is so derailed mentally, she is viciously crewel. She has antagonized me from...
    pistacchia pistacchia 46-50, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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