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I Have Been Hurt By My Sister

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    I've Been Tight Lipped For 15 Years

    My first marriage was a disaster waiting to happen. And it did. My husband at the time he was still my boyfriend slept around constantly. First with my best friend, and that hurt. I told him that I wanted to break up. I knew he didn't want to get married and after 7 years of...
    msfreespirit msfreespirit 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    My sister gave me an IOU

    for the holidays (we celebrated early). Claims she ran out of time (even though the gift exchange date was set a month before we all met up).
    imanob imanob 36-40, F Dec 4, 2013

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    She Never Stops And Lives In Denial

    my sister has hurt me too many times over relationships and career and educationshe lies and turns people against me, takes all my friends and associatesshe has gone too far this time getting me rapedand I will not forgive those around me who let her abuse methe time has come to...
    teardropkisses teardropkisses 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2011

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    I Have Two Sisters Who Disowened Me For Whatever Reason

    I have no idea why. I would try to call them and they would never return my calls so I finally stopped calling after years of trying. It's been 6 years now and they have not attempted to contact me and I have no idea why.
    Kindal Kindal 46-50, F 5 Responses Mar 28, 2010

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    My Sister Is 16 Years Older Than Me

    My sister is more like a second mother, which isn’t a good thing. One mother is enough. Let me describe the situation. My sister is in her thirties and I’m only 18. She has a different father than I do. She grew up with two brothers (the only siblings we share), and I didn...
    Idola1708 Idola1708 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    Mine True Love Fails

    AKKA AKKA AKKA...................................more then AMMA i have used AKKA but she hurted me so much bcoz she found a new company, i have learnt more from here both happiness and sadness, i was blind more then any one else i loved here,but still i love here,iam felling...
    chrisma2415 chrisma2415 18-21 Apr 24, 2013

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    Blood Betrayal

    I wish I could say this to her. You are my lil sis. At least you were, a decade ago. Now I don't know who you are, and I hate what you've become. I'm angry, disappointed, but mostly I'm hurt and betrayed. The drugs, the rehab, the alcohol, more rehab, the psych wards...
    Laceylocks Laceylocks 51-55, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2009

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    Molested &Amp; Confuessed

    I was constenly molested from the ages 9-12. By my sidters boyfriends. I hated him, so much anger towards him!! I feel stupid for leting him touch me! I was so dumb. Never told anybody, till a day my sis found out. She yelled at him but was still with him. She. Would always...
    LilJay13 LilJay13 22-25 1 Response Mar 31, 2013

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    To You Or It Or the Variety of Names I Have Referred to You As....

    By blood you are my sister, yet you remain nothing to me as yet.  Funny as it sounds, even after what you done to me, I cannot hate you, as that demands me to feel something for you and I can't give you that satisfication.  To me, you will never be my sister as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 25, 2008

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    Sibling

    Im the older sister and me and my younger sister just get on eachothers nerves, just like most siblings. Sometimes our word wars can be really vicious she's said some really mean things that have just killed me inside. I've also said some terrible things to her.. I think its...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie 22-25, F 1 Response May 5, 2009

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    Im Scared Its Too Late

    Ive been deeply deeply hurt by my sister. We're not sisters by blood, but we have grown up with each other and known each other for the last 11 years since we were 7 and 8 years old. You would think that we would grow closer as the years go by, but we've only grown farther apart...
    aj555 aj555 18-21, F May 6, 2009

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    He hurt me once n that's all I need for my heart to be shattered. But the brain as stubborn as ever gave him a second chance. And the heart was hurt again. Brain : This has to...
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    Hurts when someone shows you, you meant nothing at all and you believed you did.
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    She would turn every single action in to something that would isolate or offend me. Thinking back now I realise I was a fool for always forgiving her every mistake, for wanting her...
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    Was planing to write this whole story about it but eh.. Think I will just give the nutt shell Version instead.. Got asked out by this girl I knew from a cuzin on Fourth of July...
    StevensTHEname StevensTHEname 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Just left...doesn't text me or want to talk. Anytime I try and be nice and see how he's doing he'll be short and just act like he doesn't care. Why did you even come in my life...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Apr 5

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    Don't leave me lonely, I'm giving you life, I've offered up my heart only yours will suffice This shell I've become of what I once knew, defeated and borrowed, broken and blue. I...
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    Truth be told, I ache with the remembrance of old pains. My heart is formed of shrapnel and my mind is an orchestra of a thousand little voices singing of what I've done... Or...
    typedwriter typedwriter 26-30, F Apr 7

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    I once was married 9 years to a drug addict alcoholic who blatantly refused help..I tried desperately to help him, until I heard this quote from a professional nurse. Swim for the...
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    Forgive not because they deserve it. Forgive because it gives you peace.
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    If you love me so much. Then how could you abandon me... Everyone leaves.
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    I'm scared to love and make friends
    Ifeelkikeaghosht Ifeelkikeaghosht 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I started crying at a book once in school Becuz I felt so bad that this person had to go through what they did....
    MyHeadsUnderWater MyHeadsUnderWater 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    It it interesting to see the reactions of others to my situation. My family, friends, strangers, everyone has an opinion and a strong one at that. I married my hubby for the wrong...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Everybody who I've told what she does to me says that she is abusive, but I'm still not sure. I know that she's narcissistic because in all the articles I read about it almost all...
    jules401 jules401 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 29

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    So, my sister has always been great in school, Except for lately, She has been really depressed and have been starting to forget things, Therefore she has trouble in school since...
    Iwanttobeanonymous123 Iwanttobeanonymous123 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    For a little over a year I have been trying to explain the reasons and motivations behind the way I have lived my life since I married my husband. I have never been able to explain...
    isis55 isis55 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    i have two younger sisters (alongside two younger brothers and an older brother) whom i am overly protective of. one is 13, the other 10. the 10 year old sister has no problems...
    5203am 5203am 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    when me and my bff where breaking up cuz her mom found out we had been watchingporn 2gther and i was s*xting guys i met on omegle after my breakup she wouldn't let us hang anymore...
    casssss casssss 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I was a wild dancer that loved to do powermoves. I am a member of a Breakers Crew. However I consider myself an ex dancer. Years ago I wanted to continue practicing powermoves, and...
    HandsomeRocker HandsomeRocker 18-21, M Apr 7

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    I was depressed all the time a mother of toe and one on the way I felt lost I had a home And husband a car a boat a family.. No reason I know now to be depressed I lost my 7 month...
    laceykight laceykight 26-30, F a week ago

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    I was bullied alot in my elementary years ... And I didn't have many friends ... I kept moving alot and was bullied due to my weight...I've also have been called ugly , and stupid...
    emmawinterfrost emmawinterfrost 13-15, F Apr 12

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    I've been with my boyfriend almost 2 years now, we had a really big argument and he wouldn't speak to me for a while I was very drunk when the argument happened and couldn't have...
    louise4444 louise4444 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I've been hurt before by somebody who I loved, who i would have given heaven and earth for just to see that cheeky smile, maybe that's why I hate guys and just stick to girls, I...
    littlemzedee littlemzedee 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I have been cheated on alot. My first long term relationship ended in me finding out he had cheated on me atleast 5 times. When i eventually moved on, i got cheated on again, same...
    Soldottern Soldottern 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    It saddens me so muh to see so many peole on here who have been rejected by church. I worked for my church and they restructered my position so my junior got my job. I have...
    sassychristian sassychristian 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    A Decision I Made... Years Ago. To have and to hold from this day forward. Sept 15, 2001 on this date I informed my spouse and said "I was going to transition into a woman, many...
    Trisha60ts Trisha60ts 61-65, T 3 Responses Mar 24

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    My husband and I have been married for 6 weeks now. I've loved him for 19 years though. Still just as much as I did when we met. He's been an addict his entire adult life. I...
    kct0314 kct0314 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 26

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    In complete denial....... Hello all. I have read many posts of yalls dealing with this issue. I came searching for answers and help/support because I feel very alone and scared. I...
    ashoryb ashoryb 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    it is infuriating to receive mail from E P Allie telling me that once again a group I belonged to was deleted for a policy violation...is it unreasonable to believe someone...
    warstorm warstorm 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    EmptinessofSeth EmptinessofSeth 31-35, M 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    And I'm not sure why. This is the second time i have been blocked without provocation.
    anton88 anton88 22-25, M Mar 21

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    Today when I open my inbox. I have been 'blocked'. Why? am I wrong? So please informed  me if I wrong? And I have highlight the word, the red colour one. Above are some...
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