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I Have Been Hurt By Some One I Love

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    Real Bad

    I wanted to be perfect for him, and he knew that. He took me for granted and pretended he cared just to keep things easy. Well it wasn't easy for me. My heart was breaking. He told me what he didn't like about me, i tried to change myself so he could see i could love him...
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F Jan 5, 2009

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    My Ex Raped Me And Abused Me In A Few Ways...i Was Only 15

    Even though I was raped at age 12, I expected more from someone that I loved... It was my ex bf from 2008 and we were having sex i didnt like it but I fellt like I had to do it for him and I said stop three times and please stop its not rape so what is it! He went as fast and as...
    sweetmusic2011 sweetmusic2011 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2011

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    He Said He Loved Me Then He Left Me

    I've written elsewhere about how i fell in love online. For me it was truely real not fake online crap. He claimed he felt the same way way. In fact he siad I love you before I did. We dreamt dreams together. We made plans. Hesaid he was coming tomorrow to get me in Canada and...
    goddessofnight goddessofnight 46-50 May 28, 2009

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    Haven't We All.........

    ~ I have hurts from practically everybody I have ever loved. I am almost positive that I will be hurt again. It's life, I try to forgive, pray I'll forget, & move on. My father was the biggest one for hurting me without knowing. Mom comes in at a close second only...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 19, 2009

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    Erase Time!!

    I just want to go back to when things where so new when we had strong love a strong connection when seeing each other was a special thing. When you use to spoil me and just plan loved me for who I was. I wish I could erase time and go back. Back to when I was happy when we...
    Bessy91 Bessy91 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2013

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    Y Did You Leave Me

    Why are you leaving in this time of need, Why are you leaving me why indeed. What have I done was it something that I said, Or is it that you have found someone else instead. What is the reason why you want to go, Do I deserve to be treated like so. All this time we...
    omnis0714 omnis0714 16-17, M 2 Responses Dec 30, 2008

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    Confused

    I was hurt by someone I trusted and loved he made me believe him, when we first met he tald me that he is involved bt he promised to love me and the other girl equly but as time went he told me not to , not sent him callbacks he will call me that broke my heart I told myself...
    malindie malindie 18-21, F Jun 18, 2009

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    I Really Did Love Him - At One Time, and I Still Do

    My hubby - this started years ago with his drinking.  He broke my heart, and I don't think it ever was the same. For four years, I've been waiting for some type of closure -- I'm glad that we are doing this. I'm not setting my heart up to be crushed again - I won...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 1, 2009

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    Hurt And Tired

    ive been with him for awhile at first was rough he was getting out of a bad relationship and so was i , soem guys take there depression or bad times and make it worse by being drunk all the time that was my case i let him put me down yell at me fight with me about her take off on...
    xxjustlikeyouxx xxjustlikeyouxx 18-21, F Oct 15, 2009

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    Tired Of Being Lied To

    Last year i started dating this amazing guy who I thought was perfect for me. He treated me like I was his everything. But everything started going downhill for the last couple of months. I found some pictures of another girl on a phone and asked hi to stop talking to the girl...
    skatie17 skatie17 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2013

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    Reaccuring Pains

    It seems that every time I turn around someone I love is hurting me. They're breaking my heart, and breaking my mind. I can't stop them of course. I've fallen, and when I've fallen, there's no possible way for me to shield from the blows they throw my way. Sometimes...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    Many Times

    i have been hurt more times than i can count.  only those i love have the power to hurt me...strangers...who gives a crap?  some knew they were hurting me and some were so abosrbed in them selves they didnt even notice what they were doing...but the most recent...hid to...
    Amala82962 Amala82962 46-50, F Dec 30, 2008

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    Let Down And Not Good Enough

    I'd been with him 4 years, had a wonderful son who had additional needs. We'd face things together thick and thin and at such a young age, but over the years he'd become bored of me. I'd come in from work and all he want to do is talk to his friends whilst playing the xbox, i use...
    webby88 webby88 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    Still Hurting

    Ill start from the the start of everything ... It was July last year when I first started talking to my partner 'K' she lived about 2.5 hours away at the start we talked for hours on the phone and not long after we decided to meet it was a Wednesday. I had never met K before...
    Kangaboy91 Kangaboy91 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 13, 2013

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    Just There.

    I want to write this then I don't - which means I know I need to (OK - NOW that everyone is completely confuses ...)  Crucify Myself ' - Every finger in the room - is pointing at me I want to spit in their faces, but I'm afraid of what...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 28, 2009

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    Pools O Blue

    Ive been hurt whether it be friend, family, or partner. Im sucha sensitive soul so Im easily hurt by words or actions. Im considerate of other people, I dont react until I think about how their going to feel. So many people dont do the same for other, so inconsiderate its so mind...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2011

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    Exposed Heart

    I'm tired of showing trust cause I always get hurt.So no more showing love cause its not even worth.All of this pain that your bringing me in return.Your like a plate of spicy food leaving me with heart burn.I thought we had something special but I must have been dreaming.I guess...
    Cali4fun Cali4fun 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 27, 2012

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