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I Have Been Hurt By Some One I Love

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    Reaccuring Pains

    It seems that every time I turn around someone I love is hurting me. They're breaking my heart, and breaking my mind. I can't stop them of course. I've fallen, and when I've fallen, there's no possible way for me to shield from the blows they throw my way. Sometimes...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    I Really Did Love Him - At One Time, and I Still Do

    My hubby - this started years ago with his drinking.  He broke my heart, and I don't think it ever was the same. For four years, I've been waiting for some type of closure -- I'm glad that we are doing this. I'm not setting my heart up to be crushed again - I won...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 1, 2009

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    Exposed Heart

    I'm tired of showing trust cause I always get hurt.So no more showing love cause its not even worth.All of this pain that your bringing me in return.Your like a plate of spicy food leaving me with heart burn.I thought we had something special but I must have been dreaming.I guess...
    Cali4fun Cali4fun 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 27, 2012

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    Just There.

    I want to write this then I don't - which means I know I need to (OK - NOW that everyone is completely confuses ...)  Crucify Myself ' - Every finger in the room - is pointing at me I want to spit in their faces, but I'm afraid of what...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 28, 2009

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    Let Down And Not Good Enough

    I'd been with him 4 years, had a wonderful son who had additional needs. We'd face things together thick and thin and at such a young age, but over the years he'd become bored of me. I'd come in from work and all he want to do is talk to his friends whilst playing the xbox, i use...
    webby88 webby88 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    Erase Time!!

    I just want to go back to when things where so new when we had strong love a strong connection when seeing each other was a special thing. When you use to spoil me and just plan loved me for who I was. I wish I could erase time and go back. Back to when I was happy when we...
    Bessy91 Bessy91 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2013

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    Still Hurting

    Ill start from the the start of everything ... It was July last year when I first started talking to my partner 'K' she lived about 2.5 hours away at the start we talked for hours on the phone and not long after we decided to meet it was a Wednesday. I had never met K before...
    Kangaboy91 Kangaboy91 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 13, 2013

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    My Ex Raped Me And Abused Me In A Few Ways...i Was Only 15

    Even though I was raped at age 12, I expected more from someone that I loved... It was my ex bf from 2008 and we were having sex i didnt like it but I fellt like I had to do it for him and I said stop three times and please stop its not rape so what is it! He went as fast and as...
    sweetmusic2011 sweetmusic2011 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2011

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    Pools O Blue

    Ive been hurt whether it be friend, family, or partner. Im sucha sensitive soul so Im easily hurt by words or actions. Im considerate of other people, I dont react until I think about how their going to feel. So many people dont do the same for other, so inconsiderate its so mind...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2011

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    Confused

    I was hurt by someone I trusted and loved he made me believe him, when we first met he tald me that he is involved bt he promised to love me and the other girl equly but as time went he told me not to , not sent him callbacks he will call me that broke my heart I told myself...
    malindie malindie 18-21, F Jun 18, 2009

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    Many Times

    i have been hurt more times than i can count.  only those i love have the power to hurt me...strangers...who gives a crap?  some knew they were hurting me and some were so abosrbed in them selves they didnt even notice what they were doing...but the most recent...hid to...
    Amala82962 Amala82962 46-50, F Dec 30, 2008

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    Tired Of Being Lied To

    Last year i started dating this amazing guy who I thought was perfect for me. He treated me like I was his everything. But everything started going downhill for the last couple of months. I found some pictures of another girl on a phone and asked hi to stop talking to the girl...
    skatie17 skatie17 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2013

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    Real Bad

    I wanted to be perfect for him, and he knew that. He took me for granted and pretended he cared just to keep things easy. Well it wasn't easy for me. My heart was breaking. He told me what he didn't like about me, i tried to change myself so he could see i could love him...
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F Jan 5, 2009

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    laila654 laila654 13-15, F Aug 6

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    He Said He Loved Me Then He Left Me

    I've written elsewhere about how i fell in love online. For me it was truely real not fake online crap. He claimed he felt the same way way. In fact he siad I love you before I did. We dreamt dreams together. We made plans. Hesaid he was coming tomorrow to get me in Canada and...
    goddessofnight goddessofnight 46-50 May 28, 2009

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    Hurt And Tired

    ive been with him for awhile at first was rough he was getting out of a bad relationship and so was i , soem guys take there depression or bad times and make it worse by being drunk all the time that was my case i let him put me down yell at me fight with me about her take off on...
    xxjustlikeyouxx xxjustlikeyouxx 18-21, F Oct 15, 2009

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    Haven't We All.........

    ~ I have hurts from practically everybody I have ever loved. I am almost positive that I will be hurt again. It's life, I try to forgive, pray I'll forget, & move on. My father was the biggest one for hurting me without knowing. Mom comes in at a close second only...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 19, 2009

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    Y Did You Leave Me

    Why are you leaving in this time of need, Why are you leaving me why indeed. What have I done was it something that I said, Or is it that you have found someone else instead. What is the reason why you want to go, Do I deserve to be treated like so. All this time we...
    omnis0714 omnis0714 16-17, M 2 Responses Dec 30, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I most certainly will. I can forgive people who hurt me, but if anyone hurts someone I love, they will get closely acquainted with the skillet.This one's for you L3 ;-)
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 15

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    I am not usually an angry or violent person, although if you want me to become one, the best way to do that would be to hurt someone I love (I wouldn't recommend it).
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    If you hurt somebody I love, I won't hesitate you come after you. I wont hesitate yo hurt you in return.
    SilverEyedWolf SilverEyedWolf 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    If you hurt someone I love get ready for a beat down you lay a finger on my friend your toast
    Dinosaurfanatic Dinosaurfanatic 13-15, F Aug 6

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    A Bridge Across the Pain. I remember one morning when I was three and sitting across the table from my father at breakfast, just he and I, when for no reason I could think of he...
    Steffi97 Steffi97 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    Apparently, I will be hostile even if someone try to hurt someone I don't know. So I was in my room changing when I heard a woman screaming, like someone was close to hurt her. I...
    danjgust danjgust 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I'm only 21 years old but can happily say that me and my younger sister have had the most idyllic childhood with many of our fond memories being spent with our grandparents. My...
    deathfromabove1066 deathfromabove1066 22-25, F Aug 1

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    I will not react if you insult me. I will not even flinch if you betray me regarding little things. For those i simply avoid you and stop being your friend. But, betray my trust...
    DestinyAuthor DestinyAuthor 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    People are drawn to me, they call upon me, they often ask me for advice which I have no qualifications to give. I am very careful not to give advice, but to give factual accounts...
    Human0xymoron Human0xymoron 41-45, F Aug 1

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    Dear hurt, Why can't you leave me alone? Why is it that you always find your way to suck me in, with no fair warning? Hurt, you put me down so many times. You keep telling my...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F Aug 4

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    I hurt the person I love. The person I'd give my life for. I didn't do anything explicitly wrong, I suppose it's because I never gave enough time, even when I felt I was. I said...
    Beccyayresxxx Beccyayresxxx 18-21 Aug 10

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    Eyes that bleed poison, From times before, No ointment can stop, Oozing comes forth, Memories lost behind curtains of shame, Sometimes i wish i could forget everything, Even my...
    abracakyle abracakyle 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    My mother just called me and had an entire conversation with me about how my younger brother (20) got cheated on while him and his gf who is 18 were on a 'break'. She went on and...
    kros10 kros10 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 30

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    Nobody was "hurt" so to speak. The story is hilarious more than anything now. Wedding planning can bring out the worst in people, like parents. My then fiance and I were sat down...
    ShimmerSquirrels13 ShimmerSquirrels13 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    i swear the only one who can make fun of my family is me. No one has the right to otherwise
    bamala bamala 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    Peter, if you hurt my best friend, expect hell to pay :)
    404Paint 404Paint 18-21, F Aug 15

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    I feel like ****. Just plain old ****. My dog is on his death bed. I've had that dog since I was five. I love him so much. Hang in there buddy.
    Sneckip Sneckip 13-15, M 21 hrs ago

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    I'm just lost. I want something to numb me and knock me out and make me forget everything. I need a friend. I need a brother. Sister. Mom. Dad. Someone to talk to.
    Jaielll Jaielll 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I try to be nice to everyone and I didn't tell some random person how are you cause I'm going to sleep and I get called a freaking bitccchh like thanks! You know I'm not already...
    herthehurtone herthehurtone 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I have 20 rules rule 16 do not mess with who I love if you want to live
    Hime9908 Hime9908 13-15, M Aug 15

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    I had a boyfriend and then I met this guy and he got my friends number and started telling her to tell me that he thought I was pretty and so I told him to please stop and he didn...
    Livelovelaugh56 Livelovelaugh56 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    They always judge me for what i do or what i wear, they always force me to do things they always call me names ugh..
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F Aug 1

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    there are people in your life...:(
    Larten Larten 18-21, M Aug 6

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    Picture explains it all. I don't need ignorant peoples opinions.
    Internallysound Internallysound 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 7

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    I'm heartbroken. Disappointed but what's new. I respect honesty. I feared the same time. The first line of lines is usually not the honesty. I just want to go straight for the...
    stainedlove143 stainedlove143 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    "Violence does not always take visible form, and not all wounds gush blood." -Haruki Murakami
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    She whisked her shoulder on mine to inform me to do her but I don't care.
    psycopower90 psycopower90 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    It can and will get worse. Trust me.
    ray9725 ray9725 18-21, M Aug 6

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    But unintentional hurt seems inevitable when dealing with human beings. It especially hard to face when you hurt someone you love and never get to apologize.
    popuptarget popuptarget 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    I hurt some one willy bad so on October 26 2014 I am going to kill my self for them I want to do this in woods where no one can find me people and people want me to do things and...
    painfulwedgiegirl painfulwedgiegirl 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 18

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    well i once made fake profiles... and i hurt someone i love with them i didnt mean to he just got involved... but i didnt make it to hurt him you know... he has hated me for it...
    heeeeey heeeeey 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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