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I Have Been Hurt By Some One I Love

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    Many Times

    i have been hurt more times than i can count.  only those i love have the power to hurt me...strangers...who gives a crap?  some knew they were hurting me and some were so abosrbed in them selves they didnt even notice what they were doing...but the most recent...hid to...
    Amala82962 Amala82962 46-50, F Dec 30, 2008

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    Reaccuring Pains

    It seems that every time I turn around someone I love is hurting me. They're breaking my heart, and breaking my mind. I can't stop them of course. I've fallen, and when I've fallen, there's no possible way for me to shield from the blows they throw my way. Sometimes...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    Pools O Blue

    Ive been hurt whether it be friend, family, or partner. Im sucha sensitive soul so Im easily hurt by words or actions. Im considerate of other people, I dont react until I think about how their going to feel. So many people dont do the same for other, so inconsiderate its so mind...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2011

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    Exposed Heart

    I'm tired of showing trust cause I always get hurt.So no more showing love cause its not even worth.All of this pain that your bringing me in return.Your like a plate of spicy food leaving me with heart burn.I thought we had something special but I must have been dreaming.I guess...
    Cali4fun Cali4fun 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 27, 2012

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    My Ex Raped Me And Abused Me In A Few Ways...i Was Only 15

    Even though I was raped at age 12, I expected more from someone that I loved... It was my ex bf from 2008 and we were having sex i didnt like it but I fellt like I had to do it for him and I said stop three times and please stop its not rape so what is it! He went as fast and as...
    sweetmusic2011 sweetmusic2011 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2011

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    Hurt And Tired

    ive been with him for awhile at first was rough he was getting out of a bad relationship and so was i , soem guys take there depression or bad times and make it worse by being drunk all the time that was my case i let him put me down yell at me fight with me about her take off on...
    xxjustlikeyouxx xxjustlikeyouxx 18-21, F Oct 15, 2009

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    Just There.

    I want to write this then I don't - which means I know I need to (OK - NOW that everyone is completely confuses ...)  Crucify Myself ' - Every finger in the room - is pointing at me I want to spit in their faces, but I'm afraid of what...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 28, 2009

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    Still Hurting

    Ill start from the the start of everything ... It was July last year when I first started talking to my partner 'K' she lived about 2.5 hours away at the start we talked for hours on the phone and not long after we decided to meet it was a Wednesday. I had never met K before...
    Kangaboy91 Kangaboy91 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 13, 2013

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    Y Did You Leave Me

    Why are you leaving in this time of need, Why are you leaving me why indeed. What have I done was it something that I said, Or is it that you have found someone else instead. What is the reason why you want to go, Do I deserve to be treated like so. All this time we...
    omnis0714 omnis0714 16-17, M 2 Responses Dec 30, 2008

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    I Really Did Love Him - At One Time, and I Still Do

    My hubby - this started years ago with his drinking.  He broke my heart, and I don't think it ever was the same. For four years, I've been waiting for some type of closure -- I'm glad that we are doing this. I'm not setting my heart up to be crushed again - I won...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 1, 2009

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    Confused

    I was hurt by someone I trusted and loved he made me believe him, when we first met he tald me that he is involved bt he promised to love me and the other girl equly but as time went he told me not to , not sent him callbacks he will call me that broke my heart I told myself...
    malindie malindie 18-21, F Jun 18, 2009

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    He Said He Loved Me Then He Left Me

    I've written elsewhere about how i fell in love online. For me it was truely real not fake online crap. He claimed he felt the same way way. In fact he siad I love you before I did. We dreamt dreams together. We made plans. Hesaid he was coming tomorrow to get me in Canada and...
    goddessofnight goddessofnight 46-50 May 28, 2009

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    laila654 laila654 13-15, F Aug 6

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    Let Down And Not Good Enough

    I'd been with him 4 years, had a wonderful son who had additional needs. We'd face things together thick and thin and at such a young age, but over the years he'd become bored of me. I'd come in from work and all he want to do is talk to his friends whilst playing the xbox, i use...
    webby88 webby88 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    Haven't We All.........

    ~ I have hurts from practically everybody I have ever loved. I am almost positive that I will be hurt again. It's life, I try to forgive, pray I'll forget, & move on. My father was the biggest one for hurting me without knowing. Mom comes in at a close second only...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 19, 2009

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    Erase Time!!

    I just want to go back to when things where so new when we had strong love a strong connection when seeing each other was a special thing. When you use to spoil me and just plan loved me for who I was. I wish I could erase time and go back. Back to when I was happy when we...
    Bessy91 Bessy91 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2013

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    Real Bad

    I wanted to be perfect for him, and he knew that. He took me for granted and pretended he cared just to keep things easy. Well it wasn't easy for me. My heart was breaking. He told me what he didn't like about me, i tried to change myself so he could see i could love him...
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F Jan 5, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I am not usually an angry or violent person, although if you want me to become one, the best way to do that would be to hurt someone I love (I wouldn't recommend it).
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M Aug 21

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    Obviously I've been hurt many times.. but I'll never forget one of those times.. I still remember the pain as if it was yesterday.. I still feel the pain sometimes.. I used to be...
    Lily449 Lily449 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    A Bridge Across the Pain. I remember one morning when I was three and sitting across the table from my father at breakfast, just he and I, when for no reason I could think of he...
    Steffi97 Steffi97 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 19

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    Apparently, I will be hostile even if someone try to hurt someone I don't know. So I was in my room changing when I heard a woman screaming, like someone was close to hurt her. I...
    danjgust danjgust 18-21, M Aug 26

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    It's just plain hurtful. To be sweet and kind to someone, to show them intimacy and let it go a little further each time, while not being pushy about it all. To show understanding...
    MasqueradeWaltz MasqueradeWaltz 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Yes I've been hurt in the past, both physically and emotionally. I think everyone has. But I've learned that you can't carried that to the present
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    I have been, but the worst part is, that person/s doesn't even know they hurt you.
    gwenllian gwenllian 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Eyes that bleed poison, From times before, No ointment can stop, Oozing comes forth, Memories lost behind curtains of shame, Sometimes i wish i could forget everything, Even my...
    abracakyle abracakyle 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I wonder what I could have done that was so terrible... Was it something I said? How can you take a friendship and throw it away as if it were garbage? It wasn't about what...
    jojo2u jojo2u 46-50, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I truly felt I was loved but it turned out everything wasn't as it was painted to be. Hurts so much to think that person really cared about you when in reality she didn't . At this...
    YoungHeartedSoul YoungHeartedSoul 41-45, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Today I am hurting, and admit that I am now and again missing the person who put me in this position. I feel like I have tried to escape it, and have being doing well but when it...
    Sash9967 Sash9967 18-21, F Aug 29

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    I woke up little furious... Some celebrity picture with no close get out, and the police (who kill for fun by the way) lose their lid to "take the action." I get abuse at home...
    Jaielll Jaielll 18-21, F Sep 1

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    I know what loss feels like, I know what it feels like to think love was wasted and swim in a sea of regrets and what if's, thinking what we could have done differently, maybe we...
    Shanti00 Shanti00 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    I feel like ****. Just plain old ****. My dog is on his death bed. I've had that dog since I was five. I love him so much. Hang in there buddy.
    Hintin Hintin 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 27

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    I'm just lost. I want something to numb me and knock me out and make me forget everything. I need a friend. I need a brother. Sister. Mom. Dad. Someone to talk to.
    Jaielll Jaielll 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    When It Comes To Love: Pain is Inevitable.
    Shanti00 Shanti00 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    I feel like I've been broken into millions and millions of pieces.... By far the worst time of my life and I feel like Im stuck in a terrible nightmare.
    Isntitironic Isntitironic 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I try to be nice to everyone and I didn't tell some random person how are you cause I'm going to sleep and I get called a freaking bitccchh like thanks! You know I'm not already...
    herthehurtone herthehurtone 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    "Violence does not always take visible form, and not all wounds gush blood." -Haruki Murakami
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    She whisked her shoulder on mine to inform me to do her but I don't care.
    psycopower90 psycopower90 22-25, M Aug 23

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    Yet I get hurt by people Some men here don't know how to behave with women.It is our mistake that we trust such people.One of my friends here is deeply hurt and crying her heart...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I hurt some one willy bad so on October 26 2014 I am going to kill my self for them I want to do this in woods where no one can find me people and people want me to do things and...
    painfulwedgiegirl painfulwedgiegirl 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 18

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    Approximately three years ago I made a profile on a dating site. I met a male on that site who was around my age. Maybe three or four years younger than me. We communicated on-line...
    ValentinePena ValentinePena 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 31

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    I have to say, I've never witnessed or experienced blocking at such a high frequency on any other site as much as on EP. It amazes me, humors me, and appalls me at times. Even...
    AllStarcrushNate AllStarcrushNate 26-30, M 6 Responses Sep 8

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    Update! There's hope guys - don't settle! Last time I posted it had been only one month since being cheated on - and I was a mess. Only thing I was sure of is that there was no way...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    Around 7 months ago I hurt someone in a very bad way and I mean seriously bad. I hurt him and I was denied the chance to apologise to him, regardless whether he forgave me or not...
    GirlWithTheRedHair2013 GirlWithTheRedHair2013 16-17, F Aug 24

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    My husband cheated on me online. He never met the woman but many of their conversations were very heart felt and emotional. He even asked her to marry him twice. (he claims he was...
    hasinalady hasinalady 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    Thinking about my life, it should have been different. I married my soul mate or what I thought was my soul mate. It hurts to think about the life we had. At one point in our...
    Sunshinegirl07 Sunshinegirl07 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Just something I felt like sharing/talking about. My current bf and I had a fight and I guess this was his way of "getting back" at me. He began entertaining conversations with...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F Aug 30

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    I've been so deeply depressed as though I have lost all hope of anything I thought I wanted life. I feel numb and helpless as though I don't know what the meaning of life is...
    gongetit121 gongetit121 26-30, F Aug 23

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    my boyfriend is trying to convince me that I 'admitted' doing something with another guy before our 'split up', when I didn't. I was sure he broke up with me so I turned to alcohol...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 31

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    This is my first relationship. We have been together for 1.5 years. 3 months ago, I felt like I was being taken for granted, so I told my boyfriend I wanted to break up. I could...
    Kittys23 Kittys23 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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