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I Have Been Hurt By Some One I Love

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    I Really Did Love Him - At One Time, and I Still Do

    My hubby - this started years ago with his drinking.  He broke my heart, and I don't think it ever was the same. For four years, I've been waiting for some type of closure -- I'm glad that we are doing this. I'm not setting my heart up to be crushed again - I won...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 1, 2009

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    Pools O Blue

    Ive been hurt whether it be friend, family, or partner. Im sucha sensitive soul so Im easily hurt by words or actions. Im considerate of other people, I dont react until I think about how their going to feel. So many people dont do the same for other, so inconsiderate its so mind...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2011

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    Haven't We All.........

    ~ I have hurts from practically everybody I have ever loved. I am almost positive that I will be hurt again. It's life, I try to forgive, pray I'll forget, & move on. My father was the biggest one for hurting me without knowing. Mom comes in at a close second only...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 19, 2009

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    He Said He Loved Me Then He Left Me

    I've written elsewhere about how i fell in love online. For me it was truely real not fake online crap. He claimed he felt the same way way. In fact he siad I love you before I did. We dreamt dreams together. We made plans. Hesaid he was coming tomorrow to get me in Canada and...
    goddessofnight goddessofnight 46-50 May 28, 2009

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    Still Hurting

    Ill start from the the start of everything ... It was July last year when I first started talking to my partner 'K' she lived about 2.5 hours away at the start we talked for hours on the phone and not long after we decided to meet it was a Wednesday. I had never met K before...
    Kangaboy91 Kangaboy91 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 13, 2013

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    Confused

    I was hurt by someone I trusted and loved he made me believe him, when we first met he tald me that he is involved bt he promised to love me and the other girl equly but as time went he told me not to , not sent him callbacks he will call me that broke my heart I told myself...
    malindie malindie 18-21, F Jun 18, 2009

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    Just There.

    I want to write this then I don't - which means I know I need to (OK - NOW that everyone is completely confuses ...)  Crucify Myself ' - Every finger in the room - is pointing at me I want to spit in their faces, but I'm afraid of what...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 28, 2009

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    Erase Time!!

    I just want to go back to when things where so new when we had strong love a strong connection when seeing each other was a special thing. When you use to spoil me and just plan loved me for who I was. I wish I could erase time and go back. Back to when I was happy when we...
    Bessy91 Bessy91 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2013

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    Let Down And Not Good Enough

    I'd been with him 4 years, had a wonderful son who had additional needs. We'd face things together thick and thin and at such a young age, but over the years he'd become bored of me. I'd come in from work and all he want to do is talk to his friends whilst playing the xbox, i use...
    webby88 webby88 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    Exposed Heart

    I'm tired of showing trust cause I always get hurt.So no more showing love cause its not even worth.All of this pain that your bringing me in return.Your like a plate of spicy food leaving me with heart burn.I thought we had something special but I must have been dreaming.I guess...
    Cali4fun Cali4fun 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 27, 2012

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    Y Did You Leave Me

    Why are you leaving in this time of need, Why are you leaving me why indeed. What have I done was it something that I said, Or is it that you have found someone else instead. What is the reason why you want to go, Do I deserve to be treated like so. All this time we...
    omnis0714 omnis0714 16-17, M 2 Responses Dec 30, 2008

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    Reaccuring Pains

    It seems that every time I turn around someone I love is hurting me. They're breaking my heart, and breaking my mind. I can't stop them of course. I've fallen, and when I've fallen, there's no possible way for me to shield from the blows they throw my way. Sometimes...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    Many Times

    i have been hurt more times than i can count.  only those i love have the power to hurt me...strangers...who gives a crap?  some knew they were hurting me and some were so abosrbed in them selves they didnt even notice what they were doing...but the most recent...hid to...
    Amala82962 Amala82962 46-50, F Dec 30, 2008

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    Tired Of Being Lied To

    Last year i started dating this amazing guy who I thought was perfect for me. He treated me like I was his everything. But everything started going downhill for the last couple of months. I found some pictures of another girl on a phone and asked hi to stop talking to the girl...
    skatie17 skatie17 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2013

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    Real Bad

    I wanted to be perfect for him, and he knew that. He took me for granted and pretended he cared just to keep things easy. Well it wasn't easy for me. My heart was breaking. He told me what he didn't like about me, i tried to change myself so he could see i could love him...
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F Jan 5, 2009

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    Hurt And Tired

    ive been with him for awhile at first was rough he was getting out of a bad relationship and so was i , soem guys take there depression or bad times and make it worse by being drunk all the time that was my case i let him put me down yell at me fight with me about her take off on...
    xxjustlikeyouxx xxjustlikeyouxx 18-21, F Oct 15, 2009

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    My Ex Raped Me And Abused Me In A Few Ways...i Was Only 15

    Even though I was raped at age 12, I expected more from someone that I loved... It was my ex bf from 2008 and we were having sex i didnt like it but I fellt like I had to do it for him and I said stop three times and please stop its not rape so what is it! He went as fast and as...
    sweetmusic2011 sweetmusic2011 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2011

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    I've been hurt a lot in the past so it's really hard for me to open up and trust people. So many guys but not that many would be so sweet and caring saying they won't leave and...
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F Jun 24

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    It hurts when you love some1 n he/she dont loves you back 😭
    tanayvashisth tanayvashisth 18-21, M Jul 1

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    I have been seeing a man that has been going through a divorce. We have been together for 1.5 years. There were times that were special and we were very happy. Other times that...
    HelpingMe HelpingMe 36-40, F Jul 8

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    Last year I had one person in my life that I trusted. I have known her since I was young and despite her being my mothers age she was my best friend and like a mom to me. I could...
    blahlahblah599 blahlahblah599 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I believed in a lie and planned my future based on a lie. I loved with my everything and like never before the only person who has hurt me so bad and left me heart broken and empty...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 1

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    How you spent all your life being faithful but i guys everyone gets cheated on once in a lifetime. I just thought i wouldn't ever be on the same boat! :( everything hurts me...
    shomal93 shomal93 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    To those who are hurting because of betrayal, a break-up or whatever else that could go wrong in a relationship- don't worry, everything will be OK. You will survive! Let this...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F Jul 6

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    I was planning to sneak out with my friend and there was no way to get out of the house so my dad was still up. So I jumped from a two story window and hurt my foot. But I did that...
    Hiimamyimdead Hiimamyimdead 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I will either not talk to you, or be the biggest b.i.t.c.h if you hurt anyone I care about.
    mandarin125 mandarin125 13-15, F Jul 6

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    I don't believe in hurting anyone at least not deliberately.
    booklover87 booklover87 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I broke my bone and can never play piano again. I hate broken bones. Every time I play a not with my right ring finger, it feels like needles jabbing my arm. I love piano and will...
    Mustlovecats Mustlovecats 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    So my arm....... Ya u broke I feel down the stairs when I wasn't that much awake 😢😢😢
    thatgirldailey thatgirldailey 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I wear my heart on my sleeve and I know I shouldn't but I can't
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    So many times. There's no way to fix me anymore. I'm broken
    Britt199b Britt199b 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    My mum tells me since my heart is so good many people take advantage of my heart I like making people happy so what ever it is they ask for I try to do and since this is who I am...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I almost hurt someone I loved very dearly.
    Nick1354 Nick1354 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    My Mom's Death I remember it clearly as though it happened yesterday. She was an amazing woman. Very independent yet not. My dad really held her together. I remember the...
    PoetryNEmotion PoetryNEmotion 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Hello I am the wife of a drug addict. We have been married for 2 years July 21st. I began to notice major changes in his behavior and mood changes. Also the way he was w me. He...
    CE21 CE21 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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    I'm sharing this with you because I want to know how I can move forward from this. I do love my husband but I feel so betrayed by his actions. And not just him his family and...
    2011dolly40 2011dolly40 41-45, F 21 hrs ago

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    i have been with my husband since i was 15 married now 23 years but together much longer. last year in Feb while laying in bed watching a movie with my husband he was on FB. I...
    jplm420 jplm420 46-50, F 7 Responses Jun 25

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    To long I was in the trap of a abusive marriage. Everyday waking up trying to convince myself it was the "right" thing to do by staying. To keep my family together. Everyday his...
    Happythoughts7771 Happythoughts7771 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    When you said i do, it was supposed to be forever. I was never going to have to walk away from you. I was never going to know the pain of losing my lover, best friend and husband...
    icandoit13 icandoit13 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Sometimes I say mean things when I'm mad but I don't mean to hurt people. I wouldn't want to physically hurt someone or something. We are all gods creation and he wants us to...
    GeorgiaAlicee GeorgiaAlicee 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I often find myself wondering what if....how would we have been together if we had ever really had the chance.... I always kept these thoughts to myself, afraid of what you'd think...
    Oso41412 Oso41412 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I would never hurt someone intentionally. It's mean and unwise. I've been a victim of such sorts & I'm not angry with myself as much as I am feeling pity for that person. He'll be...
    IntomeYousee IntomeYousee 36-40, F Jul 1

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    My Abuser Has My Children-"No big deal!" I told the father of my twins. He brought them back from a visit and told me to come out to the car and help bring in their stuff. Once we...
    BabylessMommy BabylessMommy 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    I have been bullied before I been bullied but I haven't told a lot of people I love EP because it's like a journal and I can show how I really feel and how I really am Back to...
    Hiddenamoungus Hiddenamoungus 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    It's pretty normal for guys actually..but i have been into fist fight just twice.. The first was when i was 11..that kid was twice bigger than me and with a big lousy mouth..he...
    9thguy 9thguy 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Let’s be real here. Being stalked can be either fun or scary. It’s fun because you might feel like a celeb, and it’s scary when you might like “OMG who-is-this-person...
    HikoukiGumo HikoukiGumo 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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