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I Have Been Hurt By Someone Without Them Knowing It

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 260 People

    It's The Little Things.

    I hate knowing you hurt and not being able to help. You were always there for me and know more about me than I know about myself. And when things are going on and I am held at bay it hurts. It cuts deep. I know you think that I have too much to deal with without worrying extra...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 4 Responses Jul 5, 2010

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    All The Time Or Maybe Im Just Insecure

    yea I always overthink everything and am way too sensitive but yes I have been hurt without a person knowing it
    PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2010

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    Pass Out

    It happened today, my emotions are all over the place; angry,fuming, upset, betrayed. I needed to write this down to help me. There's this person I believed in them when NO one did, they got bullied, I stuck up for them helped them, no they didn't ask me, I wanted to help, ...
    Keelie Keelie 66-70, F Mar 24, 2010

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    My ex best friend... Before she got rid of me

    all together, she would always get on my case about the littlest things... She would make me feel like I didn't matter to hurt, push me to the brink of the depression I was already in and Half the time I didn't even tell her what she was doing to me. Why? Because I didn't want...
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 18-21, M Feb 3, 2014

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    Oh Many Times

    It seems I wear my heart on my sleeve and am a very caring and loving person..these two things combined together seems to lead to me getting hurt by my friends more times then I would like to think about..but I do pick myself up quickly and keep going..I am who I am and I am not...
    theheartofmemphis theheartofmemphis 41-45, F Feb 28, 2013

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    Yes ....now And Then ...but Havent We All

    Yes I have , but then I am sure unwittingly I have done this to another. To err is human , no? I will say , that my worst hurts have been of course something said by someone I would deeply love. There have been times when it has brought me to tears ,have burned  very badly...
    softkitti softkitti 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    You Don't Know

    how deeply you hurt me how your jibs cut me to the quick and how you damaged me you ******* ***** i want you to die a slow and painful dead and suffer greatly
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    Without U Knowing, U Hurt Me

    Dear family, I know I’m just not perfect, it hurts when u tell me things that i know about myself already, i need u just to be supportive, instead of laughing at my sorrow. Dear mum, i know that i brought shame to the family when i asked for divorce; i know u r with me all...
    sarajan86 sarajan86 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    Most People Have

    That is why, on the cross, Jesus said "Forgive them Father for they know not what they do."
    silentwitness silentwitness 46-50 May 18, 2010

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    Tends To Happen Every Now And Then.....

    I think we all tend to have this happen, at times the other has no clue what they did....but it hurts and at times it hurts like hell. Those people you thought were close friends that would stand by you to the end, the ones that promised they would be there in your time of need...
    indyjonesmama indyjonesmama 26-30, F Jul 4, 2010

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    I used to be really open, and willing to get to know others and want to get to know others. It was never surprising when I got In a new relationship. Now I just can't lol, I'll go...
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    I know i hurt so much right now, my heart suffocating like i can't breathing... But i must still go on My heart hurt feel like dying, feels like i can't do anything again... hate...
    plecea plecea 26-30, F 1 Response May 3

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    I was lonely and desperate for a companion. His name popped up on my screen alongside a smiling face. Still to this day, I have no idea how to pronounce his name but seeing it...
    KAnnie98 KAnnie98 16-17, F May 9

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    So last night my boyfriend told me to laylow about our relationship. he said he was sorry because he's been through alot. he is stressed about his life. his new job is making him...
    staceycameron staceycameron 22-25, F 3 Responses May 14

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    When you just hurt because people don't understand what they have in front of them. You give your all and they treat you like dirt 😢 on your birthday
    NatalieMarie521 NatalieMarie521 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    To hurt I've sat Next to the beach Salt and wounds overtake me I've grown To love it seems Pain and harm overwhelming What does it mean? For me to look up And see stars...
    Ymfas Ymfas 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    It is as if as soon as i start loving someone he or she moves away Same things happened again
    FallenOptimist22 FallenOptimist22 22-25 1 Response May 7

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    For me, it's hard not to put myself in their shoes. It would be nice if more people would do that. It's almost like I can feel their pain with them.
    digitaloverload digitaloverload 36-40, M 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    My ex in some ways hurt my self esteem m and left me in a state of confusion. He would call me beautiful but lust for other women. I began to feel ugly. I felt not good enough...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    By myself, it's ruining me. I can't take it anymore. I feel like I'm going insane. I am hurting people close to me. I just, I want to be done.
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    Through the looking glass of time I have gazed, Above reproach my actions have not been, But gander into your conscious O' accusers of mine, Silently I shall not bear the echoes...
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    she cheated on me. I am distraught. I am physically ill. I am lonely. my GF has always been the only friend I needed and now...
    Janish Janish 36-40, M 1 Response May 9

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    This week have just been to much for me. Been crying almost everyday of this week. Tired of everyone and everything. I'm just ready to get away from this place and everyone
    Sammie099 Sammie099 13-15, F 1 Response May 9

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    Roxvox Roxvox 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    You're rude, you are extremely rude. Stop apologizing later, just don't be rude in the first place. Because once you are rude I feel unloved unwanted
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F May 3

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    I'm trying so hard to forget you.... even though Everything about you was a lie... yet you still linger.... why can't your memory die....
    ddmagnum ddmagnum 22-25, M 1 Response May 7

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    Me enamoraste & solo jugaste & me abandonastes Y me dejaste solo... Con una foto Y por dentro roto Quiere decir que yo ya no te importo... Ya no te importo Ya dias atras fui...
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    My broken heart is really aching right now. The loneliness is painful. Struggling to keep it under wraps right now.
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    I believe in love but sometimes I'm scared of it. My crush is planning on asking me "If I like him ?" and I wanna tell him "yes" but I'm scared of getting rejected. I don't know...
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    I don't do this but I am reaching out for support right now. I am currently walking out of a 6 yr abusive relationship. 2 of those years we have been married. I have been hurt...
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    Recently, I have had quite a few life changing events that have happened. Looking back on some things, I probably would have changed some things sooner, but I can’t control the...
    Haywee123 Haywee123 22-25, F May 5

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    Dear N, I am beyond angry and sad at the hurt and devastation you have caused not only to me and the girls, but dozens of friends and family. I don’t fully understand why you...
    CapricornDad CapricornDad 41-45, M 1 Response May 1

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    goldenview goldenview 31-35 4 days ago

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    We live together but we don't ever talk about anything important or fun. He "sleeps" downstairs bc he finds it difficult to sleep in bed with me. I do my best to communicate what...
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