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I Have Been Hurt By Someone Without Them Knowing It

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 262 People

    Pass Out

    It happened today, my emotions are all over the place; angry,fuming, upset, betrayed. I needed to write this down to help me. There's this person I believed in them when NO one did, they got bullied, I stuck up for them helped them, no they didn't ask me, I wanted to help, ...
    Keelie Keelie 66-70, F Mar 24, 2010

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    It's The Little Things.

    I hate knowing you hurt and not being able to help. You were always there for me and know more about me than I know about myself. And when things are going on and I am held at bay it hurts. It cuts deep. I know you think that I have too much to deal with without worrying extra...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 4 Responses Jul 5, 2010

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    Yes ....now And Then ...but Havent We All

    Yes I have , but then I am sure unwittingly I have done this to another. To err is human , no? I will say , that my worst hurts have been of course something said by someone I would deeply love. There have been times when it has brought me to tears ,have burned  very badly...
    softkitti softkitti 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    Without U Knowing, U Hurt Me

    Dear family, I know I’m just not perfect, it hurts when u tell me things that i know about myself already, i need u just to be supportive, instead of laughing at my sorrow. Dear mum, i know that i brought shame to the family when i asked for divorce; i know u r with me all...
    sarajan86 sarajan86 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    My ex best friend... Before she got rid of me

    all together, she would always get on my case about the littlest things... She would make me feel like I didn't matter to hurt, push me to the brink of the depression I was already in and Half the time I didn't even tell her what she was doing to me. Why? Because I didn't want...
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 16-17, M Feb 3

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    Most People Have

    That is why, on the cross, Jesus said "Forgive them Father for they know not what they do."
    silentwitness silentwitness 46-50 May 18, 2010

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    All The Time Or Maybe Im Just Insecure

    yea I always overthink everything and am way too sensitive but yes I have been hurt without a person knowing it
    PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2010

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    Oh Many Times

    It seems I wear my heart on my sleeve and am a very caring and loving person..these two things combined together seems to lead to me getting hurt by my friends more times then I would like to think about..but I do pick myself up quickly and keep going..I am who I am and I am not...
    theheartofmemphis theheartofmemphis 41-45, F Feb 28, 2013

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    Tends To Happen Every Now And Then.....

    I think we all tend to have this happen, at times the other has no clue what they did....but it hurts and at times it hurts like hell. Those people you thought were close friends that would stand by you to the end, the ones that promised they would be there in your time of need...
    indyjonesmama indyjonesmama 26-30, F Jul 4, 2010

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    You Don't Know

    how deeply you hurt me how your jibs cut me to the quick and how you damaged me you ******* ***** i want you to die a slow and painful dead and suffer greatly
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    I know my family loves me and I too want to be with them. It just hurts to have been overly disciplined and abused.
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    Me and my twin have been through so much together it's not even funny she's my bestie for life. But she puts her bf's before me I'm always there when she needs me but lately she's...
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    I was hurt by someone recently in a way that I NEVER imagined possible. This whole ordeal has just proven to me even more that you never FULLY know a person. Whether it's your...
    heartless91 heartless91 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 12

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    Who hasn't right? It's just a part of life, if you care about someone or something then there is the chance you will get hurt. With that being said it is not a feeling I want to...
    Welllaugh Welllaugh 36-40, F 21 hrs ago

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    It's funny how a person can give all their time n energy to a relationship that they thought was everything n find out years later that it was all a lie. still feeling hurt...
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    vijayramesha vijayramesha 18-21 3 Responses Dec 15

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    i feel like theirs a place in my head that i go to everytime im about to fall asleep i end up wiritng alot and jist thinking about every girl that's ever hurt me and i make a...
    BrighterDayss BrighterDayss 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    All my relationships - dating, family and friends. I've been lied to and cheated it, made feel unimportant, verbally and mentally abused to the point where i have a hard time...
    bestofme85 bestofme85 26-30, F Dec 4

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    verdeguy verdeguy 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I never thought that one day he would hurt me. Emotionally. I still remember the day we had this deep conversation about feelings and how I said that I am emotionally strong. Well...
    Toomuchlittle Toomuchlittle 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    My boyfriend and I are as happy as we could possibly be. We are soul mates, and we have a strong connection to one another. Nobody seems to understand though. Everyone accuses him...
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    I feel cold right now. Cold emotional pain running throughout my body as if it were air. I can't speak, If i do tears will follow. I feel like I'm unable to move right now, almost...
    Mixedemotions2k Mixedemotions2k 13-15, M 1 Response Dec 16

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    The worst emotional pain is your first rejection and it happened to me in the first grade when i liked a boy but i knew i wasn't allowed to have a boyfriend. One day someone...
    Cheshirecupacat Cheshirecupacat 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    You acted like you liked me but then you rejected me and I had already grown some sort of feelings for you and it hurt when I had to say bye I cried instantly but I was probably...
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    "Silence is a girls loudest cry, you know she's hurt when she starts ignoring you" -Drake Paris Morton
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    BellerMoo BellerMoo 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    Recently, and I haven't been able to prevent the flashbacks to it..
    MommyToPrincesses MommyToPrincesses 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Great, so one more added to the list... check... *sigh* I shouldn't have gone up there....
    imgivingupnow imgivingupnow 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 15

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    It's Crazy. You Think You Know A Person And It Shocks You How Heartless They Can Actually Be Towards You. Like.... You Didn't Even Know They Could Act That Way.
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F Dec 12

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    eagleeye825 eagleeye825 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 13

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