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I Have Been Hurt By Someone Without Them Knowing It

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    Yes ....now And Then ...but Havent We All

    Yes I have , but then I am sure unwittingly I have done this to another. To err is human , no? I will say , that my worst hurts have been of course something said by someone I would deeply love. There have been times when it has brought me to tears ,have burned  very badly...
    softkitti softkitti 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    My ex best friend... Before she got rid of me

    all together, she would always get on my case about the littlest things... She would make me feel like I didn't matter to hurt, push me to the brink of the depression I was already in and Half the time I didn't even tell her what she was doing to me. Why? Because I didn't want...
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 18-21, M Feb 3, 2014

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    Most People Have

    That is why, on the cross, Jesus said "Forgive them Father for they know not what they do."
    silentwitness silentwitness 46-50 May 18, 2010

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    Without U Knowing, U Hurt Me

    Dear family, I know I’m just not perfect, it hurts when u tell me things that i know about myself already, i need u just to be supportive, instead of laughing at my sorrow. Dear mum, i know that i brought shame to the family when i asked for divorce; i know u r with me all...
    sarajan86 sarajan86 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    You Don't Know

    how deeply you hurt me how your jibs cut me to the quick and how you damaged me you ******* ***** i want you to die a slow and painful dead and suffer greatly
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    Pass Out

    It happened today, my emotions are all over the place; angry,fuming, upset, betrayed. I needed to write this down to help me. There's this person I believed in them when NO one did, they got bullied, I stuck up for them helped them, no they didn't ask me, I wanted to help, ...
    Keelie Keelie 66-70, F Mar 24, 2010

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    Oh Many Times

    It seems I wear my heart on my sleeve and am a very caring and loving person..these two things combined together seems to lead to me getting hurt by my friends more times then I would like to think about..but I do pick myself up quickly and keep going..I am who I am and I am not...
    theheartofmemphis theheartofmemphis 41-45, F Feb 28, 2013

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    It's The Little Things.

    I hate knowing you hurt and not being able to help. You were always there for me and know more about me than I know about myself. And when things are going on and I am held at bay it hurts. It cuts deep. I know you think that I have too much to deal with without worrying extra...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 4 Responses Jul 5, 2010

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    Tends To Happen Every Now And Then.....

    I think we all tend to have this happen, at times the other has no clue what they did....but it hurts and at times it hurts like hell. Those people you thought were close friends that would stand by you to the end, the ones that promised they would be there in your time of need...
    indyjonesmama indyjonesmama 26-30, F Jul 4, 2010

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    All The Time Or Maybe Im Just Insecure

    yea I always overthink everything and am way too sensitive but yes I have been hurt without a person knowing it
    PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2010

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    Hello fellow EP members.I go by fruitypunch15.I would like to share a personal experience with you.I have been going threw some personal issues.As of last week both my parents...
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