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I Have Been Hurt By Someone Without Them Knowing It

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 265 People

    All The Time Or Maybe Im Just Insecure

    yea I always overthink everything and am way too sensitive but yes I have been hurt without a person knowing it
    PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2010

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    Pass Out

    It happened today, my emotions are all over the place; angry,fuming, upset, betrayed. I needed to write this down to help me. There's this person I believed in them when NO one did, they got bullied, I stuck up for them helped them, no they didn't ask me, I wanted to help, ...
    Keelie Keelie 66-70, F Mar 24, 2010

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    Most People Have

    That is why, on the cross, Jesus said "Forgive them Father for they know not what they do."
    silentwitness silentwitness 46-50 May 18, 2010

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    Tends To Happen Every Now And Then.....

    I think we all tend to have this happen, at times the other has no clue what they did....but it hurts and at times it hurts like hell. Those people you thought were close friends that would stand by you to the end, the ones that promised they would be there in your time of need...
    indyjonesmama indyjonesmama 26-30, F Jul 4, 2010

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    You Don't Know

    how deeply you hurt me how your jibs cut me to the quick and how you damaged me you ******* ***** i want you to die a slow and painful dead and suffer greatly
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    It's The Little Things.

    I hate knowing you hurt and not being able to help. You were always there for me and know more about me than I know about myself. And when things are going on and I am held at bay it hurts. It cuts deep. I know you think that I have too much to deal with without worrying extra...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 4 Responses Jul 5, 2010

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    My ex best friend... Before she got rid of me

    all together, she would always get on my case about the littlest things... She would make me feel like I didn't matter to hurt, push me to the brink of the depression I was already in and Half the time I didn't even tell her what she was doing to me. Why? Because I didn't want...
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 18-21, M Feb 3, 2014

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    Yes ....now And Then ...but Havent We All

    Yes I have , but then I am sure unwittingly I have done this to another. To err is human , no? I will say , that my worst hurts have been of course something said by someone I would deeply love. There have been times when it has brought me to tears ,have burned  very badly...
    softkitti softkitti 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    Without U Knowing, U Hurt Me

    Dear family, I know I’m just not perfect, it hurts when u tell me things that i know about myself already, i need u just to be supportive, instead of laughing at my sorrow. Dear mum, i know that i brought shame to the family when i asked for divorce; i know u r with me all...
    sarajan86 sarajan86 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    Oh Many Times

    It seems I wear my heart on my sleeve and am a very caring and loving person..these two things combined together seems to lead to me getting hurt by my friends more times then I would like to think about..but I do pick myself up quickly and keep going..I am who I am and I am not...
    theheartofmemphis theheartofmemphis 41-45, F Feb 28, 2013

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    Forgiving someone is easy, but being able to trust them again is a totally different story.
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    im scared to write this cuz i dont open up bout negative stuff on ep. my dad has aways said abusive things towards me n my mother n always keeps us afraid of him n under his comand...
    JennaRee JennaRee 13-15, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    so yeah i have been in a super abusive relationship. more than once where i was raped 17 times, ive been hit so many times that i can't even count them and i have been kidnapped...
    Romitri657 Romitri657 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am working on an assignment for my current college course dealing with intercultural communication. The assignment requires that I ask someone who is not from the US and has...
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    Lately I've been having these really bad headaches that hurt so bad that even my eyeballs hurt. I don't know if they are migraines or what they are but what I do know for sure is...
    marlene41298 marlene41298 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    For the past few days I have been having a lot of stomach pain and I've also been having a lot of diarrhea. I have noticed that whenever I eat cheese my stomach starts to hurt and...
    caitlyn41702 caitlyn41702 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I'm not anyones type I've been told or im too ugly or weird or disgusting or anything you can imagine to hurt someone's feelings, but I'm used to it, once I escape my home town I...
    personalldemon personalldemon 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have never had someone tell me they liked me ??. There's this guy I like and he is always staring at me and I know he's interested but he doesn't say anything. Maybe one day...
    sendmetohogwarts sendmetohogwarts 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I Have Never Had Someone Telling Me They Have A Crush On Me except as a joke.
    LavenderHart009 LavenderHart009 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have been told more times then I can count that I look like Meryl Streep.
    czywidow7217 czywidow7217 51-55, F 5 days ago

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    I have been told quite often that I look like Alec Baldwin.
    RichardsonC RichardsonC 56-60, T 6 days ago

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    I have been told I look like Rick Moranis.
    jjimmy61 jjimmy61 51-55, M 6 days ago

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    You ask yourself was any of it true ? Was I the only one who was in this relationship . If you weren't happy why couldn't just just have left ? Why did you have to hurt me for your...
    Coolcatsandcoffee Coolcatsandcoffee 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have been used for sex. I was stupid and still in love with my ex, so I just wanted to do whatever I could to make him happy. I finally had to let go, and although it hurts, I...
    jellolia jellolia 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    Good Morning I really hope you find the time to read this email. I am a Police Officer in one of the biggest forces in the UK and I had the unfortunate experience of meeting...
    HARDY9849 HARDY9849 51-55, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I smiled with heart and my soul cherished with happiness. My eyes were only seeing the flowers and fragrances all around everywhere. I began to live and smile after years of hard...
    zainshah1 zainshah1 26-30, M a week ago

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    Someday, someone is going to thank you for letting me go... :)
    Pinaybarbie Pinaybarbie 31-35, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I'm tired to hurt I and I dont to fall again for someone who will leave me
    jayn12 jayn12 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I have been told by many people, both boys and girls, that I have very cute feet. I try to take very good care of them and I usually try to keep my toenails painted as much as I...
    leahphillips62 leahphillips62 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    I wish I was important enough to you so you would try, instead of just letting me go. You know what I wanted to hear, not "Fine, goodbye". Theres a lot of hurt feelings and broken...
    RawrrItsAlexa RawrrItsAlexa 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    tomorrow will be 6 months. im actually proud of myself. i kept this a secret for 6 months from my family without them even knowing. yay me. you go girl!!!!!!!! (loll, i cant...
    ThatOneSomaliGirl ThatOneSomaliGirl 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 20

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    I am a domestic violence survivor. I joined a support group recently. And have been going back ever since. I cry every time I go. Because I am feeling more and more safe. I've been...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months We've been so happy for this time it's been like a whirlwind romance I have most definitely fallen for him I love him so much Last night...
    Confuzed11 Confuzed11 22-25 2 Responses Jun 19

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    If someone can't see you for your worth, if someone can't see how AMAZING you are, with all of your complexity, all of your imperfections, if someone can't see you for YOU - your...
    ERMAHGERD1 ERMAHGERD1 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 17

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    Ive been picked on all of my life aswell, as i read the stories of users in this group. This is something that ruined my self esteem and my life pretty much. With my old EP account...
    lonely4560 lonely4560 31-35, F Jun 17

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    It hurts to be rejected. I entered a long distance relationship with someone I knew from high school. We clicked on almost every level. Our beliefs really matched up and he was so...
    souldigger7 souldigger7 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 16

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    I had been diagnosed with bulimia nervosa , and I have relapsed a few times .there have been days where I have thrown up more than a 100 times , sometimes out of anger without any...
    lauraknightsoto lauraknightsoto 18-21, F Jun 14

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    i have been in a mental hospital for suicide and self harm. they diagnosed me with depression and had to take pills for it.the pill made me feel better but i guess i got used to...
    ladyangel924 ladyangel924 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 14

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    I"m scared of guys big time
    mariab402 mariab402 18-21, F Jun 13

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    I have hurt people and said dreadfully horrible things when I let my anger and pain take over. I still can't believe some of the things I said when I was angry or hurt.
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 13

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    I was in an abusive relationship for 4 years, which I managed to escape about a year ago. For a long time I was very relieved that I was out of the situation because I never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 13

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    I have been told this by many different people on many separate occasions my father has said it my brothers and my "friends" and I must think to myself maybe I'm not worth it if...
    Painfulsoul14 Painfulsoul14 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 13

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