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I Have Been Hurt By Someone Without Them Knowing It

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 257 People

    You Don't Know

    how deeply you hurt me how your jibs cut me to the quick and how you damaged me you ******* ***** i want you to die a slow and painful dead and suffer greatly
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    All The Time Or Maybe Im Just Insecure

    yea I always overthink everything and am way too sensitive but yes I have been hurt without a person knowing it
    PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2010

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    Oh Many Times

    It seems I wear my heart on my sleeve and am a very caring and loving person..these two things combined together seems to lead to me getting hurt by my friends more times then I would like to think about..but I do pick myself up quickly and keep going..I am who I am and I am not...
    theheartofmemphis theheartofmemphis 41-45, F Feb 28, 2013

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    My ex best friend... Before she got rid of me

    all together, she would always get on my case about the littlest things... She would make me feel like I didn't matter to hurt, push me to the brink of the depression I was already in and Half the time I didn't even tell her what she was doing to me. Why? Because I didn't want...
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 18-21, M Feb 3, 2014

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    Pass Out

    It happened today, my emotions are all over the place; angry,fuming, upset, betrayed. I needed to write this down to help me. There's this person I believed in them when NO one did, they got bullied, I stuck up for them helped them, no they didn't ask me, I wanted to help, ...
    Keelie Keelie 66-70, F Mar 24, 2010

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    Most People Have

    That is why, on the cross, Jesus said "Forgive them Father for they know not what they do."
    silentwitness silentwitness 46-50 May 18, 2010

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    Yes ....now And Then ...but Havent We All

    Yes I have , but then I am sure unwittingly I have done this to another. To err is human , no? I will say , that my worst hurts have been of course something said by someone I would deeply love. There have been times when it has brought me to tears ,have burned  very badly...
    softkitti softkitti 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    Without U Knowing, U Hurt Me

    Dear family, I know I’m just not perfect, it hurts when u tell me things that i know about myself already, i need u just to be supportive, instead of laughing at my sorrow. Dear mum, i know that i brought shame to the family when i asked for divorce; i know u r with me all...
    sarajan86 sarajan86 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    Tends To Happen Every Now And Then.....

    I think we all tend to have this happen, at times the other has no clue what they did....but it hurts and at times it hurts like hell. Those people you thought were close friends that would stand by you to the end, the ones that promised they would be there in your time of need...
    indyjonesmama indyjonesmama 26-30, F Jul 4, 2010

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    It's The Little Things.

    I hate knowing you hurt and not being able to help. You were always there for me and know more about me than I know about myself. And when things are going on and I am held at bay it hurts. It cuts deep. I know you think that I have too much to deal with without worrying extra...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 4 Responses Jul 5, 2010

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    I should not say that all men have hurt me. I do not think that all men are evil or blame everyone in my life but I have been hurt by a lot of men. I don't want to be bitter and I...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    I never know when to Shut up Chill out Let Go Stay Strong Have Fun Be Serious Forget Mistakes Remember Little Things Most importantly, I never know when to GIVE UP When is a...
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    Everyday hearts are broken Despite how much we try to deny It hurts us so much It makes us feel so hurt We cry and cry Well I hurt and cried over his inflicting abuses No one...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    My husband left my daughter who was 5 months at the time and I to be with another woman. He told his friends that I was being a nag. I just had a baby and my hormones were all out...
    cocoaslim cocoaslim 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    you'd think I would be used to it. that id remember how it felt. that it wouldn't hurt this bad after so long, 15 years actually. but it hurts the same. I wish I didn't have to...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    Omg. This jerk on here harassed. Me big time. !!!!! He. Flirted ugh. Me. Sent me messages about what he would do to me. Then then. I didn't get wet. He tried to make me feel...
    sassygirl42 sassygirl42 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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    Last year I found out that my brothers hates me. he called my grandma to tell her that I was sleeping with a bunch of guys and was a drug addict. the problem is that we bought a...
    abhay49 abhay49 26-30, F Mar 19

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    It was me. It was my hand holding that sharp blade. It was my fist that bruised tender skin. Those were my words that pierced the heart. I was the one who did it all and I wanted...
    Ilikeclouds Ilikeclouds 13-15, F a week ago

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    How shocking. And sad. And gross.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    Story of my life actually, Im always heartbroken, and people I care about so much only care too little for me.
    clamsbeestrees clamsbeestrees 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Im sorry good bye this is too hard
    Lasbutterfly Lasbutterfly 16-17, F Mar 8

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    either love me completely or not at all. I don't want half of you.
    imabitchimamother imabitchimamother 31-35, F Mar 9

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    i always ask myself whats missing on me why he betrayed me eventhough i did everything just for him ...........
    croujallendalle croujallendalle 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    & it's over, I'm done through... Getting over this is hard but not impossible!
    rosiewindswept rosiewindswept 18-21, F Mar 11

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    my husband has found a new women. he wants a divorce. we were married for 30 years I feel so lost, my selfesteem is at its lowest
    truelysad truelysad 51-55, F 4 Responses Mar 13

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    So the guy who used me and I told To never talk to me again. Walked up to me at a party tonight and asked if I was okay. I was till you showed up
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I will never give my heart to someone again. I have been hurt too many times. How can anyone be so cruel ?
    sassygirl42 sassygirl42 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 11

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    I hurt someone I loved. I Ment to make things easier. They told me they were leaving me. It would have been harder for them to go than me. So I walked away. It washer that told...
    venkel venkel 46-50, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Doing it My way! In restropect I wish I had not I would have heeded my Parents advice and not married young or married my first wife. I worked too hard for the family only to...
    TheEnglander TheEnglander 66-70, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Last year I went out of my way to help a friend. A co-worker, but someone I considered a friend. Someone I care about. Well, I *thought* she was a friend. I campaigned for this...
    AlanFromHere AlanFromHere 41-45, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have been hearing it a lot more this year, so I guess a thank you to puberty is in order lol :P
    BraedenPhillips BraedenPhillips 13-15, M 5 hrs ago

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    I'm so mad I can't stand it. I want to hurt someone. Someone please give me advise.
    Jada16 Jada16 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 14

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    So I kind of dropped off this website for a while. I settled my insecurities and confusion so I just didn't really feel the desire to be here. And honestly? I don't really want to...
    Gab1331 Gab1331 18-21 1 Response Mar 15

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    yesterday my band teacher, fagner, was trying to get us to pit more emotion into our music. ive gotten to where i don't show anything anymore. he then went on to say that bad...
    kingbrizo kingbrizo 18-21 Mar 5

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    Great way to blow off steam and release a lot of aggression but the hearts kind of gone, seems like people now just want to hurt someone or start a fight rather than have fun
    SlayerFan420 SlayerFan420 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    I think we all have been told this line, even just once. IDK if its just me, but I'd rather receive any compliment than this. It makes me too dependent on my physical appearance...
    DeuxExMachina DeuxExMachina 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    well I have Bern in Ann abusive relationship for about6 yrs. Although it is mostly verbal. I never would have Boehm with someone like that for long before. Somewhere along the...
    giggles1469 giggles1469 46-50, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    On more than one occasion in my life I have been told that I am no good to anyone on this Earth and never will be. I have been told that I am useless and that I will never amount...
    hannahphillips hannahphillips 13-15, F Mar 7

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    I have been in an emotionally abusive relationship for 11 yrs now. We have a 6 yr old son together. Things started off good he was laid back , funny, charming , hardworking...
    mnc13085 mnc13085 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    Yahallo!~ This is Lydia returning from It's-been-forever-Land! A lot has been going on lately. I have moved in with my new gf (a bit hasty I know but we were just so compatible). I...
    Lydia93 Lydia93 18-21, T 1 Response 4 days ago

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    The man I love is abusive and I have been with him for about a year now see he is a alcoholic abusive guy but he is 36 I am 21 almost 22 I am also paralyzed and have epilepsy but...
    kmccrady12653 kmccrady12653 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have been so many times near love .... under the sky with all the stars up there...looking at moon ... feeling my heart pumping....like a love ... but i have been so many times...
    Jackk1992 Jackk1992 22-25, M Mar 1

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