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I Have Been Hurt By Someone Without Them Knowing It

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 265 People

    Oh Many Times

    It seems I wear my heart on my sleeve and am a very caring and loving person..these two things combined together seems to lead to me getting hurt by my friends more times then I would like to think about..but I do pick myself up quickly and keep going..I am who I am and I am not...
    theheartofmemphis theheartofmemphis 41-45, F Feb 28, 2013

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    It's The Little Things.

    I hate knowing you hurt and not being able to help. You were always there for me and know more about me than I know about myself. And when things are going on and I am held at bay it hurts. It cuts deep. I know you think that I have too much to deal with without worrying extra...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 4 Responses Jul 5, 2010

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    Pass Out

    It happened today, my emotions are all over the place; angry,fuming, upset, betrayed. I needed to write this down to help me. There's this person I believed in them when NO one did, they got bullied, I stuck up for them helped them, no they didn't ask me, I wanted to help, ...
    Keelie Keelie 66-70, F Mar 24, 2010

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    All The Time Or Maybe Im Just Insecure

    yea I always overthink everything and am way too sensitive but yes I have been hurt without a person knowing it
    PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2010

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    Yes ....now And Then ...but Havent We All

    Yes I have , but then I am sure unwittingly I have done this to another. To err is human , no? I will say , that my worst hurts have been of course something said by someone I would deeply love. There have been times when it has brought me to tears ,have burned  very badly...
    softkitti softkitti 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    Without U Knowing, U Hurt Me

    Dear family, I know I’m just not perfect, it hurts when u tell me things that i know about myself already, i need u just to be supportive, instead of laughing at my sorrow. Dear mum, i know that i brought shame to the family when i asked for divorce; i know u r with me all...
    sarajan86 sarajan86 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    You Don't Know

    how deeply you hurt me how your jibs cut me to the quick and how you damaged me you ******* ***** i want you to die a slow and painful dead and suffer greatly
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    My ex best friend... Before she got rid of me

    all together, she would always get on my case about the littlest things... She would make me feel like I didn't matter to hurt, push me to the brink of the depression I was already in and Half the time I didn't even tell her what she was doing to me. Why? Because I didn't want...
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 18-21, M Feb 3, 2014

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    Most People Have

    That is why, on the cross, Jesus said "Forgive them Father for they know not what they do."
    silentwitness silentwitness 46-50 May 18, 2010

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    Tends To Happen Every Now And Then.....

    I think we all tend to have this happen, at times the other has no clue what they did....but it hurts and at times it hurts like hell. Those people you thought were close friends that would stand by you to the end, the ones that promised they would be there in your time of need...
    indyjonesmama indyjonesmama 26-30, F Jul 4, 2010

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    I know I'm on here. I just came to post this. I decided it would be best for my best friend(online) and I to just stop talking. I told him today. Why you ask? Because I clearly...
    CyanideY CyanideY 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    The majority of dangerous situations that I have been in were either a product of my environment, or inevitable outcomes to repeated juvenile choices I wittingly made. Being in...
    bronzeeyedblonette bronzeeyedblonette 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    How could someone think that it's okay telling me that I must really want someone that beats me, especially knowing that I have been in an abusive relationship before.
    BrokenGiggles BrokenGiggles 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So...my boyfriend and i met online. We have been dating for 6 months. We have Skyped several times. Ever since the begging of our relationship, I've always felt like he doesnt care...
    erixaz erixaz 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    chavacc11 chavacc11 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I have been bullied because of my sexuality. I am a lesbian (and proud of it) but people would spread rumours, tease me, call me names, ect. but although this was horrible, I think...
    isolatedgirl123 isolatedgirl123 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have been hurt, physically, and mentally. I have moved 7 times, I moved out of my moms at 13, and into my dads. My mom was an alcoholic, and my dad is a compulsive ling...
    Stark2660 Stark2660 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Doesn't it sucks that the one person you love and trust is the one who actually hurts you the most. Because of them you just decide to shut down and not let yourself to be open to...
    Livelife0532 Livelife0532 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Wow I don't even know where to start….but in a nutshell, my father has been emotionally manipulative and abusive for his entire life. I did not really feel the wrath of his evil...
    kimalee77 kimalee77 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Wow I don't even know where to start….but in a nutshell, my father has been emotionally manipulative and abusive for his entire life. I did not really feel the wrath of his evil...
    kimalee77 kimalee77 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    Honestly who HASN'T been hurt in their lives? Sometime, somewhere, someone is going to let you down. It's just a given. Now if you are constantly being hurt by others, then maybe...
    LonesumnTx LonesumnTx 51-55, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My cousin was actually he's now 17 he's a Fourth of July baby ... But the thing is no one remembered in our family ... We were all having a party and he was inside and I guess he...
    Hatfield24 Hatfield24 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Ok how do I explain this? So one day this pretty girl sent a friend request on Facebook. I didn't know her, no mutual friends but I accepted. A short time later she sent me a...
    TheGreatMelanzo TheGreatMelanzo 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I have been married for four months but we have been together for 8 years. I knew going in he was an addict but he was clean. he had a few relapses over the years but got clean...
    vanillasparkles vanillasparkles 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I recently confronted my LG's about their past and current behavior at the dinner table. I have been abused physically, mentally, verbally and emotionally abused by them since I...
    HelloEla HelloEla 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    Growing up with a narcissistic father.
    imveryboring imveryboring 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I have been married to my husband for 5 months now and I have a son from a previous relationship. My husband use to do meth and smoke weed a few years back but was clean for quite...
    dissapointed325 dissapointed325 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I have been married to my husband going on 3 years however we have been together for 6. We have a 4 year old daughter together and the last 9 or so months have been complete...
    magsssmae magsssmae 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    It suck I wait 8 months to see you and all you wanted from me is sex. You won't talk to me about anything else. And it hurts.
    lizaboo lizaboo 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    Dear Friend. Indeed, I did think of writing an experience... The ONLY reason I have thought about it is the 'invisibility' You have mentioned. I am a very introverted person now...
    becomeinvisible becomeinvisible 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I remember it so clearly I had everyone on a account. It was like an instant messenger and we talked all the time. Then one day everyone was gone because they couldn't accept me...
    Autumnflowers Autumnflowers 18-21 2 Responses Jul 20

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    so do you ever wonder why a small cut bleeds for an hour? so I don't knit what I hit, but my thumb kept bleeding and would not stop. so it made me wonder what I did wrong. if...
    Sadiemay523 Sadiemay523 18-21, F Jul 20

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    I've been hurt so much from people that said they loved me. they have hurt me emotionally and physically. I feel nothing for these people anymore as I have moved on. with all this...
    ForgetableMe ForgetableMe 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    My life is awfull place. But i dont know who to blame to . Myself or others? I was growing up in abusive family. I went to school and i had friends as i was 8 years old. Then my...
    lonely4560 lonely4560 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    My boyfriend of 6 years cheated on me in January and I barely found out about over a week ago... The only time he met up with the girl was when the cheating happened. But he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I was abused until the age of 24 (almost 25), and when I left the house my mom was finally able to have the courage to divorce my dad. She tried to get custody of my younger sister...
    LyraAlluse LyraAlluse 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    There's something I don't understand. I have been chatting to someone on a different website, we were getting along fine then one day she blocked me. I was always nice to her...
    Accg23 Accg23 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 14

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    In my childhood, l was physically abused.......as in kicked, punched, slapped. I don't want to go into details at this time, though, don't know if l ever will. Writing this has...
    MistyGoddess MistyGoddess 41-45, F 17 Responses Jul 14

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    Well kinda more been stuck in the middle of them. For the past several months I have been stuck in an odd situation where I know one of my siblings was in an abusive relationship...
    Sportser Sportser 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 13

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