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I Have Been Hurt By Someone Without Them Knowing It

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 263 People

    You Don't Know

    how deeply you hurt me how your jibs cut me to the quick and how you damaged me you ******* ***** i want you to die a slow and painful dead and suffer greatly
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    All The Time Or Maybe Im Just Insecure

    yea I always overthink everything and am way too sensitive but yes I have been hurt without a person knowing it
    PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2010

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    Pass Out

    It happened today, my emotions are all over the place; angry,fuming, upset, betrayed. I needed to write this down to help me. There's this person I believed in them when NO one did, they got bullied, I stuck up for them helped them, no they didn't ask me, I wanted to help, ...
    Keelie Keelie 66-70, F Mar 24, 2010

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    Without U Knowing, U Hurt Me

    Dear family, I know I’m just not perfect, it hurts when u tell me things that i know about myself already, i need u just to be supportive, instead of laughing at my sorrow. Dear mum, i know that i brought shame to the family when i asked for divorce; i know u r with me all...
    sarajan86 sarajan86 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    Most People Have

    That is why, on the cross, Jesus said "Forgive them Father for they know not what they do."
    silentwitness silentwitness 46-50 May 18, 2010

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    Tends To Happen Every Now And Then.....

    I think we all tend to have this happen, at times the other has no clue what they did....but it hurts and at times it hurts like hell. Those people you thought were close friends that would stand by you to the end, the ones that promised they would be there in your time of need...
    indyjonesmama indyjonesmama 26-30, F Jul 4, 2010

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    My ex best friend... Before she got rid of me

    all together, she would always get on my case about the littlest things... She would make me feel like I didn't matter to hurt, push me to the brink of the depression I was already in and Half the time I didn't even tell her what she was doing to me. Why? Because I didn't want...
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 16-17, M Feb 3

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    It's The Little Things.

    I hate knowing you hurt and not being able to help. You were always there for me and know more about me than I know about myself. And when things are going on and I am held at bay it hurts. It cuts deep. I know you think that I have too much to deal with without worrying extra...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 4 Responses Jul 5, 2010

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    Oh Many Times

    It seems I wear my heart on my sleeve and am a very caring and loving person..these two things combined together seems to lead to me getting hurt by my friends more times then I would like to think about..but I do pick myself up quickly and keep going..I am who I am and I am not...
    theheartofmemphis theheartofmemphis 41-45, F Feb 28, 2013

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    Yes ....now And Then ...but Havent We All

    Yes I have , but then I am sure unwittingly I have done this to another. To err is human , no? I will say , that my worst hurts have been of course something said by someone I would deeply love. There have been times when it has brought me to tears ,have burned  very badly...
    softkitti softkitti 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    me and my ex broke up about a week ago weve been trying to stay friends (ive been trying to stay friends) and we play this pc game together so the night before last she told me...
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    So much so that my heart starts hurtin' and my eyes start wellin' with tears !!!!!
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    I wrote this poem My heart is like a chameleon able to change shapes, colors and air. Am I Able to to fall in love with out your poison killing me. Is my heart Able to shine with...
    rico20989 rico20989 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 30

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    im such an idiot i let her hurt me again just tryin to be nice to her ....
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    One of the girls I considered my friend has done me so much wrong. It all started on 9th grade...just because I was friend of the guy she liked. I believe this is an awfully stupid...
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    I think I have stopped crying long enough to be seen by other humans lol. Gotta love crying into your pillow alone. Still it feels like it cleanses the soul so it can't be all bad...
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    H-old O-n P-ain E-nds. #yeah
    kringsy kringsy 18-21, F Sep 28

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    To Love A User Life was extraordinary for that fleeting moment before I discovered I already had one foot in hell.
    abrokenlittlegirl abrokenlittlegirl 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    It just happened so many i don't even know who to trust or who to believe.
    Manny570 Manny570 16-17, M Oct 10

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    My husband just beat me again.
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    I learned to love myself again that's how I got rid of the pain and yes it's time to be happy and free.
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    No one listens and no one cares. Oops too bad I know I'm right this time. Moving on, bro.
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    Duh. Lol Some fear. Some got reasons. Me is the type with reasons.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    Bang bang..they shot me down.
    Myrose3 Myrose3 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So you carry on and your soul deadens and a little piece of you dies.
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    I have been out of my abusive relationship for many years about 7 years now and it is still something that haunts me. I don’t really have an outlet to talk about it and try and...
    Ruger1212 Ruger1212 31-35, F Oct 1

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    I've had a few relationships, but only two of the girls I dated I ended up falling on love with. The first was my first love (a bit obvious). The second was my recent ex. I trusted...
    shadow2233 shadow2233 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I think I have hurt someone.So I met this guy who called himself weird but that's okay becoz I liked weird guys since they were fun.And after some conversations he started talking...
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    vinnew vinnew 36-40, M 19 Responses Oct 6

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    lostsouluk lostsouluk 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    Oh boy do I have a story.....Let's just start by saying, I do not need anyone telling me how stupid I am....no one can tell me anything I haven't already said to myself....I have...
    chitownfool chitownfool 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 24

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    I have been cheated on more times than I can count, I feel that person wasn't meant to be mine if he cheated on me in the first place. Yes it hurts but you know there is someone...
    denaellis575 denaellis575 46-50, F 8 Responses Sep 24

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    Who hasn't been caught by the deception of another's selfish acts. I am not a cheater, never have and never would. Its not for the lack of interest either. Many women have asked...
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