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I Have Been Hurt By Someone Without Them Knowing It

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 259 People

    Without U Knowing, U Hurt Me

    Dear family, I know I’m just not perfect, it hurts when u tell me things that i know about myself already, i need u just to be supportive, instead of laughing at my sorrow. Dear mum, i know that i brought shame to the family when i asked for divorce; i know u r with me all...
    sarajan86 sarajan86 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    Pass Out

    It happened today, my emotions are all over the place; angry,fuming, upset, betrayed. I needed to write this down to help me. There's this person I believed in them when NO one did, they got bullied, I stuck up for them helped them, no they didn't ask me, I wanted to help, ...
    Keelie Keelie 61-65, F Mar 24, 2010

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    All The Time Or Maybe Im Just Insecure

    yea I always overthink everything and am way too sensitive but yes I have been hurt without a person knowing it
    PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2010

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    It's The Little Things.

    I hate knowing you hurt and not being able to help. You were always there for me and know more about me than I know about myself. And when things are going on and I am held at bay it hurts. It cuts deep. I know you think that I have too much to deal with without worrying extra...
    luckypickle luckypickle 22-25 4 Responses Jul 5, 2010

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    Yes ....now And Then ...but Havent We All

    Yes I have , but then I am sure unwittingly I have done this to another. To err is human , no? I will say , that my worst hurts have been of course something said by someone I would deeply love. There have been times when it has brought me to tears ,have burned  very badly...
    softkitti softkitti 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    Tends To Happen Every Now And Then.....

    I think we all tend to have this happen, at times the other has no clue what they did....but it hurts and at times it hurts like hell. Those people you thought were close friends that would stand by you to the end, the ones that promised they would be there in your time of need...
    indyjonesmama indyjonesmama 22-25, F Jul 4, 2010

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    Oh Many Times

    It seems I wear my heart on my sleeve and am a very caring and loving person..these two things combined together seems to lead to me getting hurt by my friends more times then I would like to think about..but I do pick myself up quickly and keep going..I am who I am and I am not...
    theheartofmemphis theheartofmemphis 41-45, F Feb 28, 2013

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    Most People Have

    That is why, on the cross, Jesus said "Forgive them Father for they know not what they do."
    silentwitness silentwitness 41-45 May 18, 2010

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    My ex best friend... Before she got rid of me

    all together, she would always get on my case about the littlest things... She would make me feel like I didn't matter to hurt, push me to the brink of the depression I was already in and Half the time I didn't even tell her what she was doing to me. Why? Because I didn't want...
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 18-21, M Feb 3, 2014

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    You Don't Know

    how deeply you hurt me how your jibs cut me to the quick and how you damaged me you ******* ***** i want you to die a slow and painful dead and suffer greatly
    wotaloser wotaloser 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 5 months.. before we started dating I knew she had a male friend for over 20 years. they would go to the movies go to his house...
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    you knew i fancied you, your friends also knew. we had been getting along great, but i kinda knew we weren't going to go that way, you vaguely cited religion as a reason even...
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    Someone here on EP really hurt me. He acted like he would always be there for me, but when I needed someone most, he did something that I couldn't possibly forgive. Let's just say...
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    My ex-boyfriend and I were a long-distance relationship. My late husband and I started as a LDR, so I knew I could handle it. I'm implicitly very trusting and I believe honesty...
    Mollywobbles225 Mollywobbles225 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    A couple of posts regarding infidelity on here reminded me of this: When I was a girl my mother kept telling me she had a friend, a woman, who she went out with at times. She said...
    JoannaBe JoannaBe 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    you'd think I would be used to it. that id remember how it felt. that it wouldn't hurt this bad after so long, 15 years actually. but it hurts the same. I wish I didn't have to...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    tinkertwotoy tinkertwotoy 41-45, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    People are like electric sockets, every time I touch them I get shocked. Eventually we learn to quit poking things that shock us. Even mice do that.
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    For those who worry about being hurt - follow the advice above. I have always believed this to be true...
    Liverpool47 Liverpool47 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 26

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    It has taken me a long time to think about writing this. For a long time, this has been a big issue in my life...and something I haven't spoken about. I fell in love with a guy...
    Superficialsaint Superficialsaint 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    I've been reject by more girls than I can count. The ones I like "just want to be friends". It has made me very introverted and lonely.
    Benny412 Benny412 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 16

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    http://www.cracked.com/article_21884_5-awful-realities-being-man-who-was-raped-by-woman.html?utm_source=newsletter&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=weeklynewsletter
    edgyfox edgyfox 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 7

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    No one gives a damn. About me. I'm So ready to just die.
    sassygirl42 sassygirl42 41-45, F Feb 25

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    It's time to die. No one gives a damn
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    Interesting enough, I put down a nice long replied that took a lot of thought for someone, for I really cared what she was trying to say. Unfortunately, somehow, she never...
    Sparrowhawk1161 Sparrowhawk1161 46-50 1 Response Feb 19

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    KorruptedKid KorruptedKid 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Even though its like eating glass when I say his name--the other man---it is of incredible benefit to my children that they have a good time with other man and their mom.They don't...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 17

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    writingforlife6 writingforlife6 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    kingbrizo kingbrizo 16-17 1 day ago

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    I'm glad to be here. Because before, I was past help. I didn't know how to voice my pain in any other way than that of self harm, and eventually, attempted suicide. But my mum...
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    Jackk1992 Jackk1992 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    I'm proud to have been blocked by some of the people who have blocked me. They are the types that usually get blocked and thrive for that. I'm talking about the trolls. It feels...
    jayciedubb jayciedubb 46-50, M Feb 7

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    i never had them before this year. Last year was my 1st year at a new school, but i had no issues. At 1st they were few and far between...i would have one here or there and they...
    KizzieCamille KizzieCamille 16-17, F Feb 10

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