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I Have Been Hurt Enough

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    No....

    What a terrible relationship. For two years, I have endured and dealt my fair share of ****. It just ended two days ago and I feel I'm going to lose it. I have no friends to talk to. I have a therapist but he's useless. All of this anxiety and pain has bubbled over and I can no...
    SadSammy86 SadSammy86 26-30, F Nov 4, 2012

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    Decisions

    As the titl of this group says, I have been hurt enough. I saw another post saying that it is 99% of our behaviour and our decisions that lead us to where we are today. While I know that is pretty true, that is just plain old ******. I have diverted from the topic already without...
    JJLLBB JJLLBB 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    Sometimes I Just Wish

    sometimes I wish I could REALLY turn back the hands of time, then i know I would be so much better off. when I look back on my life I see pain, hurt and suffered abuse. sometimes I wish I was a new born again where I could get a BRAND new start at life. I wish I had a better...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 9, 2012

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    I'm Stronger Now

    I need to start opening my eyes more, listen to my gut, and be aware, and responsibile for myself.
    rockyj rockyj 31-35, F Jul 21, 2011

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    I hate people >~< I have no friends.

    .. And when I do they cross my back next time I'm going to knock that sucker out one punch I'm not afraid anymore!
    UndeadArmy115 UndeadArmy115 13-15, M Feb 28

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    This Hurt Is Killing Me

    I have my parents and that is all. i know i am blessed to have them in my life, but every single other person that i have had a connection to or trusted has hurt me beyond repair. i wonder...do i have a sign on my forehead that says "please hurt me!!" i am so forgiving and...
    goodheart00 goodheart00 22-25, F 3 Responses May 26, 2011

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    Abandoned From Childhood

    well my parents were more interested in making more kids than helping the ones they did have so its nbo wonder i'm so screwed up
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 24, 2011

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    Wasn't I Worthy Of Your Love?

    My biological mom put me and my brother up for adoption in the early 70s.She was a drug addict I heard.She then moved to California,got married and had more kids.She abandoned me and my brother in the house one day to go out on a drug binge ,I suppose.CPS of Buffalo,NY took over...
    gibbsann gibbsann 41-45 Jun 24, 2011

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    Eye Opener(a New Beginning)

    Call it coincidence or just plain madness! I continue to encounter men whose  minds are focused on just one thing....(you know what that is!) It seems as if no one wants to get to know anyone first anymore.There is more to me that meets the eye...Most times a person's ulterior...
    gibbsann gibbsann 41-45 Dec 9, 2011

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    Forgotten

    There may just be a few who remember that day. The one with the orange juice spilled on the front of the most expensive dress she has ever owned, the day that she didn’t eat and passed out, having to stop by the hospital prior to their first vacation, and the unwanted flowers...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Feb 27, 2011

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    Poison

    Sometimes a song just says it better.
    FellidayaFiresong FellidayaFiresong 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2013

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    I Can't Believe This

    I even tried to resist because I thought if I didn't go after what I wanted this time that it would matter but it doesn't mean ****. My path was chosen long ago and I can't find any other roads to take anymore.
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 22, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Obviously I've been hurt many times.. but I'll never forget one of those times.. I still remember the pain as if it was yesterday.. I still feel the pain sometimes.. I used to be...
    Lily449 Lily449 18-21, F 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    A Bridge Across the Pain. I remember one morning when I was three and sitting across the table from my father at breakfast, just he and I, when for no reason I could think of he...
    Steffi97 Steffi97 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    Dear hurt, Why can't you leave me alone? Why is it that you always find your way to suck me in, with no fair warning? Hurt, you put me down so many times. You keep telling my...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F Aug 4

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    It's just plain hurtful. To be sweet and kind to someone, to show them intimacy and let it go a little further each time, while not being pushy about it all. To show understanding...
    MasqueradeWaltz MasqueradeWaltz 22-25, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    Today I am hurting, and admit that I am now and again missing the person who put me in this position. I feel like I have tried to escape it, and have being doing well but when it...
    Sash9967 Sash9967 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I woke up little furious... Some celebrity picture with no close get out, and the police (who kill for fun by the way) lose their lid to "take the action." I get abuse at home...
    Jaielll Jaielll 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    there are people in your life...:(
    Larten Larten 18-21, M Aug 6

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    Anyone wanna talk I'm bored...
    laila654 laila654 13-15, F Aug 6

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    Picture explains it all. I don't need ignorant peoples opinions.
    Internallysound Internallysound 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 7

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    I'm heartbroken. Disappointed but what's new. I respect honesty. I feared the same time. The first line of lines is usually not the honesty. I just want to go straight for the...
    stainedlove143 stainedlove143 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    Eyes that bleed poison, From times before, No ointment can stop, Oozing comes forth, Memories lost behind curtains of shame, Sometimes i wish i could forget everything, Even my...
    abracakyle abracakyle 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    "Violence does not always take visible form, and not all wounds gush blood." -Haruki Murakami
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    She whisked her shoulder on mine to inform me to do her but I don't care.
    psycopower90 psycopower90 22-25, M Aug 23

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    I feel like ****. Just plain old ****. My dog is on his death bed. I've had that dog since I was five. I love him so much. Hang in there buddy.
    Sneckip Sneckip 13-15, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm just lost. I want something to numb me and knock me out and make me forget everything. I need a friend. I need a brother. Sister. Mom. Dad. Someone to talk to.
    Jaielll Jaielll 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I try to be nice to everyone and I didn't tell some random person how are you cause I'm going to sleep and I get called a freaking bitccchh like thanks! You know I'm not already...
    herthehurtone herthehurtone 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't understand how hard it is for your bf/gf to just do the things that will bring happiness. Why do things that cause pain? Why not just be single instead of dragging someone...
    endlessdreeamer endlessdreeamer 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Interesting enough, I have received 6 emails from different people and a few of them have been so ridiculous and just plain amused me! It was very easy to tell they were fake, but...
    BeachBum1970 BeachBum1970 41-45, M 41 mins ago

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    this poem remind me of my grandma, she was big on rescuing and burying any dead animals on the roads I learned alot from her LONELY DOG POEM(COPIED) ...ADOPT! Once I was a lonely...
    dannygirl89 dannygirl89 22-25, F Aug 16

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    I have been physically abused by my alcoholic dad ever since I was in 3rd grade. He went to jail for a couple years but is now back. It has gotten better now that I am bigger and...
    ihill032299 ihill032299 16-17, M 1 hr ago

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    Update! There's hope guys - don't settle! Last time I posted it had been only one month since being cheated on - and I was a mess. Only thing I was sure of is that there was no way...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I need to express this. I feel so alone and feel that I am going through all of the emotions at once dealing with this. I sometimes don't even know where to begin. But I pray that...
    FromJWtoJEW FromJWtoJEW 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was adopted at birth and the woman who adopted me raised me since birth so that is my mom or so I thought..Throughout my entire life things were a struggle..I began cutting...
    ChandlerTitus1 ChandlerTitus1 18-21, F Aug 16

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    my boyfriend is trying to convince me that I 'admitted' doing something with another guy before our 'split up', when I didn't. I was sure he broke up with me so I turned to alcohol...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    ...I was raised in a non-religious home, if my parents stressed education instead of religion and if I was encouraged to go to a university at 18 rather than deciding to go to...
    Whodathunkit78 Whodathunkit78 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    Compared to what some of the people here have been through, I had it easy. I met a guy I thought was near perfect- he was cute, he was smart, and I thought he was sweet. I'm clumsy...
    HorizonHeart HorizonHeart 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Just something I felt like sharing/talking about. My current bf and I had a fight and I guess this was his way of "getting back" at me. He began entertaining conversations with...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My husband cheated on me online. He never met the woman but many of their conversations were very heart felt and emotional. He even asked her to marry him twice. (he claims he was...
    hasinalady hasinalady 46-50, F 3 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    :) on the outside but :( in the inside!I've been through a lot of pain physically as well as psychologically so i've been through hell and been through a lot more than a average 21...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    New to this. I'm 26 and have been with my fiancé for almost 8 years and we have a 3 year old son. My son's father started taking percocets and moved to smoking crack and shooting...
    Danielle727 Danielle727 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I have been married to my husband for 5 years. When we first got together during our last year of college, we liked to party as any young kids do. We would drink and smoke and...
    youaremystrength youaremystrength 26-30 3 Responses Aug 5

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    Bringing relationships to completion and walking away with loving detachment: exerpt from Ch. 18 of Oneness Acceptance, unconditionally, of whatever has been presented, without the...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21 4 Responses Aug 7

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    I like to take nude summit photos. I am as much embarrassed by this as I am excited, so I make sure no one is around. Recently I was at the summit of a local mountain just...
    xxname xxname 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 8

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    so far in my life i have been to canada, usa, spain, netherlands & iceland. i've also been to scotland, ireland & wales, but seems as they're part of great britain, i'm not...
    samosborne12 samosborne12 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    So, I have not long come out of a private hospital here in the UK as an NHS patient (state funded to you American folks) and it's gone fairly well overall. I went in in a state...
    SolitaryFriend SolitaryFriend 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    I am currently married and unsure if I am in an abusive relationship or if I am just difficult to deal with. My husband has never hit me, but the things that he says to me and...
    Gonzales96 Gonzales96 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 16

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