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I Have Been Hurt

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    I'm tired of being hurt.

    It's caused me to developed an uncaring attitude towards girls who claim to have feelings for me. If she starts to take me for granted, treating me like garbage, acting like she could toss me aside without a care, I tell her so. If she tells me she's sorry, and that she still...
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 2, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F Jan 4

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    I know my family loves me

    and I too want to be with them. It just hurts to have been overly disciplined and abused.
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M Dec 21, 2014

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    it’s not that you never knew what you had

    until it was gone, truth is you new exactly what you had you just never thought you’d lose it.
    Angelcum Angelcum 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 26, 2014

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    "Silence is a girls loudest cry,

    you know she's hurt when she starts ignoring you" -Drake Paris Morton
    SairaE SairaE 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2014

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    From the day i was born i was hurt my father

    left my young teen mother the day i was born. At age three I was abused by my mothers boyfriend At age four i was taken away from my mother and was adopted At age six i was molested by my grandpa/adopted dad At age 14 i slept with a guy i barely knew at school for loss of self...
    mslexibae mslexibae 13-15, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Great, so one more added to the list.

    .. check... *sigh* I shouldn't have gone up there....
    imgivingupnow imgivingupnow 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2014

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    I had a few friends,

    who I have been friends with since the fourth grade. I'm in seventh now. So, I always sat with them for lunch. But after, say February? They've been acting weird. I stopped talking to them as much because they cared about popularity, and I couldn't give a fudge about people who...
    PercyJacksonisAWESOME PercyJacksonisAWESOME 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 7, 2014

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    kringsy kringsy 18-21, F Sep 28, 2014

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    I was bullied I cut..

    most ppl would be like so..but some care lol well u haven't cut in like a year so YAY
    bioandproud bioandproud 13-15, F Jan 4

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    I learned to love myself again that's how I got

    rid of the pain and yes it's time to be happy and free.
    MeJustBeing MeJustBeing 36-40, F 11 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    Battle Cry

    I usually don't "keep score" of who does what to me, but after you get hurt enough it kind of just becomes a natural defense. Friend A and I got really close really fast, we went through a lot together, countless nights of phone calls trying to convince her not to drink, do...
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 22-25, F Nov 16, 2012

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    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 8 Responses Nov 12, 2014

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    Boy have I. I've been spat on,

    pissed and shat on by the very people that had my respect and love. I learnt the hard way that no one on this earth owes anybody anything. As soon as she spits u out her crotch, if she wants, she can disappear and never come back. They CAN abuse you and mentally damage you...
    Unknownimus Unknownimus 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 6, 2014

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    This is about a past relationship.

    The whole point of relationships is to find out whether or not you're going to marry that person, right? When my ex and I first met, he was all lovey-dovey with me and seemed really interested (I never really have people interested in me). So he and I were together for about...
    Jesxica Jesxica 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2014

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    My Mom died in 2008. My Dad died in 2009.

    My finace was killed in a motorcycle accident in 2010 Just 2 weeks before we were to get married and go to Costa Rica. Yes, I have been hurt.... When I lost my Dad, it was as if I lost my Mom again and him. It was like I had lost my entire family....and had no existence. But...
    Vickielynn1960 Vickielynn1960 51-55, F Dec 21, 2014

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    He Don'T Love Me

    They said if a person loves you truly, he will never let you go no matter how difficult the situations is in life. I didn't let him go but he let me go. Why do I still think about him - A person who didn't love me.
    sunnyagain sunnyagain 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    I've been deceived. The knife blade still

    protrudes from my injured bleeding heart. You didn't even have the courtesy to remove it before you moved on to the next unsuspecting victim.
    abrokenlittlegirl abrokenlittlegirl 46-50, F 4 Responses May 24, 2014

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    An Instance

    This isnt much of a story, rather an experience.. My bf, messaged me in evening that a girl he met 2 days ago asked him to go out for a movie, I didnt like that.. I am posssesive and all that.. But I didnt ask him not to go or anything.. He calls me up in the night and says I...
    bujji14 bujji14 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    You acted like you liked me

    but then you rejected me and I had already grown some sort of feelings for you and it hurt when I had to say bye I cried instantly but I was probably nothing to you.
    lilellie415 lilellie415 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    I never thought that one day he would hurt me.

    Emotionally. I still remember the day we had this deep conversation about feelings and how I said that I am emotionally strong. Well, he did a good job in throwing the words back at me once he was "done". Letting people close to me has always been a tough job. I never liked...
    Toomuchlittle Toomuchlittle 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2014

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    The teachers who I looked up to

    for guidance and inspiration did not realize that the constant embarrassment, harsh words, and bullying from them would affect a small child. From then on I was and still am scared of getting hurt.
    Cutiepeachpie Cutiepeachpie 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F Jan 4

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    My Boyfriend Came Out

    My boyfriend Joel and I have been together for three years. Last week, he told me that he was confused as to what he wanted. And I knew exactly what he was talking about. A couple months ago, I found gay **** on Joel's phone. I confronted him about it, and was stupid enough to...
    YouBeTheAnchor YouBeTheAnchor 22-25, F 19 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    I don't know where to begin.

    Do u remember the first time we talked? I do. It was back at eminence in late 2013. Economics classes. It's like some twisted law of fate, I think I'm being punished for sth I'd done long ago. I remember u back from O'levels. U were very boyish back then. Shy as usual. But I...
    Tearsinmycheek Tearsinmycheek 16-17, F Nov 29, 2014

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    Goodbye world, goodbye.

    I give up, and thank you to those who have attempted to support me. I realize that I'm too weak to accept the fact that he has broken up with me. I'm not strong enough. I'm weak and I have no help. So I'm consisting suicide though I know what comments are going to come. I...
    grace97eun grace97eun 16-17, F 11 Responses 6 days ago

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    The worst emotional pain is your first rejection

    and it happened to me in the first grade when i liked a boy but i knew i wasn't allowed to have a boyfriend. One day someone overheard me and he started bullying me because I wouldn't fight back. I have always hated him and because his mom and my mom know each other I will soon...
    Cheshirecupacat Cheshirecupacat 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2014

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    why girl let guy hurts her many times?

    let me tell you one thing, she knows that he is worth all of the tears and pains. she knows that he is all she ever wanted. she knows that not giving him the second chance is bad. she knows that loving him is all that matters. she knows that he needs her. and she knows, that...
    rockettothemoon08 rockettothemoon08 18-21, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    "Violence does not always take visible form,

    and not all wounds gush blood." -Haruki Murakami
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    TheresAPossibility TheresAPossibility 13-15, F 9 Responses Jan 5

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    I feel like the more he's moving on with this

    new girl he's hurting me more. I'm so mad and at the same side I'm becoming more suicidal everyday. I want to kill myself because of all the pain.
    grace97eun grace97eun 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I feel cold right now.

    Cold emotional pain running throughout my body as if it were air. I can't speak, If i do tears will follow. I feel like I'm unable to move right now, almost as if I were paralyzed. I just want to scream. I want to smash something into millions of little pieces. I just want to...
    Mixedemotions2k Mixedemotions2k 13-15, M 1 Response Dec 16, 2014

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    " you know what truly aches the most?

    Is having so much inside you and having no slightest clue of how to pour it all out" Christopher Poindexter.
    thoughtfulheart thoughtfulheart 46-50, F 4 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    over & over & over & over over & over over &

    over over & over over & over πŸŒ’πŸŒ’πŸŒ”πŸŒ•πŸŒ–πŸŒ—πŸŒ˜πŸŒ‘πŸŒš But I'm still standing here, heart scarred & beating strong beneath the armour of my smile, fierce warrior & slayer of doubt on a quest for love, peace & lightness.
    AsteriasAura AsteriasAura 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2014

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    I fell in love with someone within the span of

    one week. And now I'm weaker than ever. Initially having a bipolar stance on him I forced myself to pick a side. I chose love. He didn't. That's all.
    Sara902 Sara902 22-25, F Oct 13, 2014

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    I never thought you would be

    so meaningful to me
    juliabesa081 juliabesa081 56-60, F Dec 24, 2014

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    Forgive not because they deserve it.

    Forgive because it gives you peace.
    lurveruinsit lurveruinsit 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2014

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    Pain in my chest like my heart has stopped.

    My heart ripped to a thousand pieces when I hear your voice. To look at you makes me want to disappear into blackness. Love not even broken love. It will never die, I wish it would. To be free and carry this pain no longer. To live is to love is to feel this pain. There was...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    I don't have any feelings left.

    Not love , hate ,passion for life. I have had my heart ripped inside out more times than I can count in the last 6 months . The shear lack of trust I have for the ones that I love and that claim they love me I don't think I can ever get past it. 20 years ago if someone told me...
    1tanner 1tanner 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    I think you still like me,

    But we can't escape the fact that I'm Pushed you so much..I knew this was going to happen,So I am not blaming you for this.I am not angry,either.I should be but I am not.I just feel pain.A lot of pain.I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt,But I was wrong. :-(((((((
    koustav1 koustav1 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    Peacepuppy Peacepuppy 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    I still have feelings of disappointment,

    humiliation and a little anger at myself for letting it happen. I let my guard down. I thought I liked him - it was a crush, I know that now. He knew it too, and used it to get what he wanted. I think about him far too much, about what he's doing, is he thinking about me... I'm...
    Chaosforthefly Chaosforthefly 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    Sometimes it hurts so much to be right More

    than it hurts to be wrong.
    thoughtfulheart thoughtfulheart 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 26, 2014

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    Why Does He Hurt Me

    One day he's affectionate, playful, sweet..the next day he's cold, uninterested and even rude...I need to take him off the pedestal I put him on, because it doesn't look like he belongs there..he has one day free a month, but wants to spend it with the guys, not me..it will be a...
    Blondeangelmom Blondeangelmom 56-60, F 4 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    1losthope 1losthope 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    My Tears

    Tears are falling from my eyes,as I sit and cry at night.blood is dripping from my heart,as I try to write.I have so much pain,I'm hurt a lot,I can't explain all this,I'm just falling apart.no one understands,I don't know where to startand I don't know where to end.love hurts so...
    bunga87 bunga87 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    My mother just called me

    and had an entire conversation with me about how my younger brother (20) got cheated on while him and his gf who is 18 were on a 'break'. She went on and on about how sorry she felt for my brother and how terrible it was. MEANWHILE.. Both of my parents (who have always been...
    kros10 kros10 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    K people...just because I was raped,

    doesn't mean I am not a human...it means I am a victim and I need people too support me...I am a human being and hurt just as much as you do...maybe not over the same things but I hurt...I was hurt by family...I am the black sheep now because of this and it hurts...
    ThePeebs ThePeebs 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2014

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    To Love A User Life was extraordinary

    for that fleeting moment before I discovered I already had one foot in hell.
    abrokenlittlegirl abrokenlittlegirl 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 29, 2014

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    MommyToPrincesses MommyToPrincesses 16-17, F Dec 23, 2014

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    The fact that he's moved on

    so easily, that he's so able to say to me that he has a new girlfriend, it is killing me inside. I try to act strong, put a smile on my face and wish him luck, but deep inside, I feel pain eating up the remaining pieces of my heart. The fact that the one who said he'd love me...
    grace97eun grace97eun 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's Finally Ended

    He hurt me for so long, in so many ways. Along with his friends. They raped me, beat me, whipped me, molested me, hurt me with words. I fought for awhile, until I realised that it didnt help, it just made them angrier. And if they were angrier, they were more violent. So I let it...