I Have Been Hurt

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 8,800 People

    Being hurt does not give us the right to hurt

    others as well. We personally know how does it feel, so let's spare them from that feeling.
    gwenllian gwenllian
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 14, 2015

    Be careful who you give your trust to in this

    world cause no matter how much they claim to care about you they very well might erase you from their lives the very next day. I would know cause it's happened to me so many times that I lost all faith in anyone but my family. You could have the most meaningful, deep and amazing...
    D4rkling D4rkling
    22-25, M
    Feb 29

    Today I saw a photo of the person

    who hurt me sooooo badly. For the first time my heart didn't squeeze in pain. I didn't flinch half as much. I didn't cry. I guess time does heal. Still I can feel an ache but not as bad as before. One day at a time....
    js246 js246
    22-25, F
    Dec 26, 2015

    1. believes the book of enoch 2.

    believes the world is flat 3. believes man never landed on the moon 4. temper 5. believes mary wasn't a virgin 6. has to earn his way to heaven 7. ptsd 8. unforgiving 9. doesn't have a job 10. stubborn 11. worst of all: not wanting me to talk to anyone but him
    softlywaking softlywaking
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 12

    The worst emotional pain is your first rejection

    and it happened to me in the first grade when i liked a boy but i knew i wasn't allowed to have a boyfriend. One day someone overheard me and he started bullying me because I wouldn't fight back. I have always hated him and because his mom and my mom know each other I will soon...
    Cheshirecupacat Cheshirecupacat
    13-15, F
    1 Response Dec 21, 2014

    I'm so confused, upset

    and somewhat lonely right now. like there's this guy I like. At first,I thought he liked me twice as much as I do but these days his actions just prove otherwise.I feel there's something wrong but he just won't tell me. I'm also jealous cause he cares for his best friend more...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 27

    Battle Cry

    I usually don't "keep score" of who does what to me, but after you get hurt enough it kind of just becomes a natural defense. Friend A and I got really close really fast, we went through a lot together, countless nights of phone calls trying to convince her not to drink, do...
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou
    22-25, F
    Nov 16, 2012

    My Tears

    Tears are falling from my eyes,as I sit and cry at night.blood is dripping from my heart,as I try to write.I have so much pain,I'm hurt a lot,I can't explain all this,I'm just falling apart.no one understands,I don't know where to startand I don't know where to end.love hurts so...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Jun 4, 2012

    Pain in my chest like my heart has stopped.

    My heart ripped to a thousand pieces when I hear your voice. To look at you makes me want to disappear into blackness. Love not even broken love. It will never die, I wish it would. To be free and carry this pain no longer. To live is to love is to feel this pain. There was...
    paliglass paliglass
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Oct 22, 2014

    my husband has found a new women.

    he wants a divorce. we were married for 30 years I feel so lost, my selfesteem is at its lowest
    truelysad truelysad
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Mar 13, 2015

    I fell in love with someone within the span of

    one week. And now I'm weaker than ever. Initially having a bipolar stance on him I forced myself to pick a side. I chose love. He didn't. That's all.
    Sara902 Sara902
    22-25, F
    Oct 13, 2014

    It is hard to let something go

    when it hurts your heart.
    Jlonely808 Jlonely808
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 3, 2015
    AlanMB AlanMB
    13-15, M
    2 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    So I've finally been able to eat something

    either than Popsicles after my tonsillectomy. I was so happy to eat Wanton I started crying. Anyways, my mom was picking my dad up from the airport and they came in while I was eating. My dad comes in, and I tell him the best I can with my sore throat that I'm so happy because...
    MermaidCurry MermaidCurry
    18-21, F
    Dec 10, 2015

    It suck I wait 8 months to see you

    and all you wanted from me is sex. You won't talk to me about anything else. And it hurts.
    lizaboo lizaboo
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jul 21, 2015

    I thought this app was made

    for friendly people to talk? It said that everyone on here is nice. I can't Believe this. I have been called a sl.t, a lier, a fake. For what? I've never even kissed a person. A lier? I haven't lied not to you anyway. How am I fake when I'm talking to you? Why has this happened...
    Brittni73 Brittni73
    13-15, F
    4 Responses May 10, 2015

    as I lay in bed it runs threw my brain again .

    the past I have to relive every night the words "NO please stop" that I threw out of my face those words meant nothing and I will live my life reliving it again and again . good night
    Ashisshy Ashisshy
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 20

    I come from a background of pain

    and rejection. I was a victim of abuse physically and sexually. I was abandoned by my biological mom, neglected by my first step mom. I was beaten by my brother. I was used by people I called friends. I grew up a brunt of so many jokes. People ignored me when I talked and...
    Macross2020 Macross2020
    31-35, M
    1 Response Feb 25

    " you know what truly aches the most?

    Is having so much inside you and having no slightest clue of how to pour it all out" Christopher Poindexter.
    thoughtfulheart thoughtfulheart
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jan 13, 2014

    An Instance

    This isnt much of a story, rather an experience.. My bf, messaged me in evening that a girl he met 2 days ago asked him to go out for a movie, I didnt like that.. I am posssesive and all that.. But I didnt ask him not to go or anything.. He calls me up in the night and says I...
    bujji14 bujji14
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 2, 2013

    If someone can't see you

    for your worth, if someone can't see how AMAZING you are, with all of your complexity, all of your imperfections, if someone can't see you for YOU - your mind, heart, and soul... ...then they don't deserve you. Don't doubt yourself, and don't compare yourself to others. You...
    ERMAHGERD1 ERMAHGERD1
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 17, 2015

    Dear You, You've hurt me in the worst way

    possible and you don't even realize it. I gave you something I don't give a lot of people at all. Trust. I trusted you with my heart, my emotions, and my body, all of which you violated in unforgivable ways. I loved you, and I always treated you like the number one thing in my...
    myghostsayshi myghostsayshi
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 10, 2015

    I got hurt a lot of time by parents,

    friends, school life I have been hurt by everything in my life but no one understands me I just wanna die
    lookket lookket
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 3

    Sucks investing so much time in to a girl

    that goes back with her ex
    ejizzle808 ejizzle808
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 11

    You said you love me.

    But you want to destroy me.
    floweronfire floweronfire
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 25

    How do I stop these flashbacks?

    They seize me and I feel like I'm drowning. I relive everything that happened and I just want it to end somehow.
    monstertrainwreck monstertrainwreck
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 20

    My Boyfriend Came Out

    My boyfriend Joel and I have been together for three years. Last week, he told me that he was confused as to what he wanted. And I knew exactly what he was talking about. A couple months ago, I found gay **** on Joel's phone. I confronted him about it, and was stupid enough to...
    YouBeTheAnchor YouBeTheAnchor
    22-25, F
    12 Responses Oct 20, 2013

    This happens on a daily basis.

    Which is why my guard is now up. I use to be optimistic, but my view as of Saturday has changed. After all, I don't matter. Right?
    ToughKitty ToughKitty
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Feb 24

    You have broken every f-in rule

    and I have loved you like a fool
    Sparkles24seven Sparkles24seven
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Aug 24, 2015

    I learned to love myself again that's how I got

    rid of the pain and yes it's time to be happy and free.
    MeJustBeing MeJustBeing
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    signeccaa signeccaa
    26-30, F
    Feb 24

    What really hurts is finding out

    that your mother had an allergic reaction - but prefers to have the company of her friends through it as opposed to family. Then people wonder why I don't bother as much. If she prefers him over flesh and blood - then good luck to them because I am just about done with trying...
    LoneSouls LoneSouls
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 24
    Aquarius01 Aquarius01
    18-21, F
    Feb 28

    Sometimes it hurts so much to be right More

    than it hurts to be wrong.
    thoughtfulheart thoughtfulheart
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Apr 26, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Nov 16, 2014

    I am sick of hurting myself.

    I don't want to look forward to the dark nights yelling in my ear to go play with the devil and sail the oceans that want to drown me. I am diseased with sadness where hope only lies within the dark grasp of a selfish boy. What am i looking for, what do i desperately desire that...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 15, 2015

    Which is so insane But society lost its soul

    And caring suffer hurt by uncaring
    OddButResilient OddButResilient
    46-50, M
    Feb 10

    I want to say to those people

    who have been hurt , that all of you have a kind heart and have feelings that's why you got hurt. You have done a very sweet mistake of caring about other people. There is nothing wrong in that. Your hurt is a symbol that you care and love. And don't ever in your life have...
    Somexyz Somexyz
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Oct 4, 2015

    I miss you, you know

    who you are. How could you hurt me like this 😔
    Youand0nlyou Youand0nlyou
    70+, F
    1 Response Dec 14, 2015

    If u want to know me then keep reading

    if not then don't wast your time. 3 almost 4 yeas ago I had moved to a small town called clever, I was very sad and depressed because I was realizing what was going on around me at home. At home my step dad was giving me an my step sisters beer at a very young age, I had...
    christophzzzs christophzzzs
    13-15, M
    1 Response Jul 9, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Nov 12, 2014

    It has taken me a long time to think about

    writing this. For a long time, this has been a big issue in my life...and something I haven't spoken about. I fell in love with a guy. A guy I thought was amazing.....funny, charming, witty, caring....all the things you would expect....and pretty easy on the eye. He seemed...
    Saintlysinner Saintlysinner
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 15, 2015

    I have been hurt so many times No one cares So

    i will hide my hurt And trying to heal my hurt But i hope i can find the one who can healing my hurt with happiness and love.
    Bluedust Bluedust
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 24

    "Hope we can be friends" he says.

    He says it was the most ease... While my heart dies a little inside. Is it so easy for him to say? He doesn't know I'm drowning in my own tears. Does he know the extent to which he hurt me? I have questions. He has answers. I won't ask him though.... for what? It wouldn't change...
    endlessl0ve endlessl0ve
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Dec 10, 2015

    The hurt that I felt around this time last year

    has stuck with me till now. It's weakened me. It's made me more depressed, it's made me lower my self image and made me think less of myself. I hate how I look, who I am, what I do, where I live. My lack of self love is eating me alive and the sad part is that I could accomplish...
    Nyx5 Nyx5
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 2

    it’s not that you never knew what you had

    until it was gone, truth is you new exactly what you had you just never thought you’d lose it.
    Angelcum Angelcum
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 26, 2014

    Everyone that cares has been hurt sometime,

    but it means you cared to much about the wrong people.
    GemmaL GemmaL
    18-21, F
    Mar 31

    It's Finally Ended

    He hurt me for so long, in so many ways. Along with his friends. They raped me, beat me, whipped me, molested me, hurt me with words. I fought for awhile, until I realised that it didnt help, it just made them angrier. And if they were angrier, they were more violent. So I let it...
    livelaughlove2904 livelaughlove2904
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 3, 2013

    It's sad when you've been hurt

    so many times that you learn to build a wall to keep you from getting hurt anymore, but can that wall ever be torn down ?
    oneme05 oneme05
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 22, 2015

    "Violence does not always take visible form,

    and not all wounds gush blood." -Haruki Murakami
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 19, 2014

    Someday, someone is going to thank you

    for letting me go... :)
    Pinaybarbie Pinaybarbie
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jun 22, 2015

    It's sad how some people just watch.

    They know that you're hurt. They know that you're broken. So why don't you just offer your shoulder already? It's that simple. Watching is harder than helping. You know that they're suffering. Suffering alone... Is much worse than suffering together. Inside, I'm screaming and...
    Dawb183 Dawb183
    16-17, F
    Jan 10

    I am starting to dislike you

    for hurting me once, for making me cry, for making me think less of myself, for making me underestimate my own value, for having me as something to kill your time until you find someone better. Sometimes I feel I want to get my revenge.
    MissGaga MissGaga
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    julieccaa11 julieccaa11
    26-30, F
    Dec 10, 2015
    puppydoglover puppydoglover
    13-15, M
    2 Responses Feb 24

    it hurts so much its only been 3 days I know

    but I just want this hurt and depressed state to go away I don't want to miss him anymore. I want to forget and move on but it feels so impossible
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Sep 12, 2015

    I want to forget everything

    that I've said before to you. :( </3
    Aquarius01 Aquarius01
    18-21, F
    Feb 28
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