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I Have Been Hurt

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    The fact that he's moved on

    so easily, that he's so able to say to me that he has a new girlfriend, it is killing me inside. I try to act strong, put a smile on my face and wish him luck, but deep inside, I feel pain eating up the remaining pieces of my heart. The fact that the one who said he'd love me...
    grace97eun grace97eun 16-17, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    hearts wide open.... I knew no other way to

    love. I put everything that I have, everything that is with in me, everything that I will be into it with an open heart. The longer I'm in it the wider my heart opens. I know no other way to love. To live and love so fully is the greatest joy, but can also be the greatest pain...
    tinkertwotoy tinkertwotoy 41-45, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Pain in my chest like my heart has stopped.

    My heart ripped to a thousand pieces when I hear your voice. To look at you makes me want to disappear into blackness. Love not even broken love. It will never die, I wish it would. To be free and carry this pain no longer. To live is to love is to feel this pain. There was...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    My Mom died in 2008. My Dad died in 2009.

    My finace was killed in a motorcycle accident in 2010 Just 2 weeks before we were to get married and go to Costa Rica. Yes, I have been hurt.... When I lost my Dad, it was as if I lost my Mom again and him. It was like I had lost my entire family....and had no existence. But...
    Vickielynn1960 Vickielynn1960 51-55, F Dec 21, 2014

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    I know my family loves me

    and I too want to be with them. It just hurts to have been overly disciplined and abused.
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M Dec 21, 2014

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    TheresAPossibility TheresAPossibility 13-15, F 9 Responses Jan 5

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    Peacepuppy Peacepuppy 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    I'm a junior in high school,

    and as everyone knows junior year is the hardest and most important year in high school with gpas and grades counting as a huge part. Before moving to the boston area as a sophomore, I was an all As student. I never made a grade below a 94 in my life, and studying was a huge...
    grace97eun grace97eun 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F Jan 4

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    I learned to love myself again that's how I got

    rid of the pain and yes it's time to be happy and free.
    MeJustBeing MeJustBeing 36-40, F 11 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    You acted like you liked me

    but then you rejected me and I had already grown some sort of feelings for you and it hurt when I had to say bye I cried instantly but I was probably nothing to you.
    lilellie415 lilellie415 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    It's Finally Ended

    He hurt me for so long, in so many ways. Along with his friends. They raped me, beat me, whipped me, molested me, hurt me with words. I fought for awhile, until I realised that it didnt help, it just made them angrier. And if they were angrier, they were more violent. So I let it...
    livelaughlove2904 livelaughlove2904 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    kringsy kringsy 18-21, F Sep 28, 2014

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    Boy have I. I've been spat on,

    pissed and shat on by the very people that had my respect and love. I learnt the hard way that no one on this earth owes anybody anything. As soon as she spits u out her crotch, if she wants, she can disappear and never come back. They CAN abuse you and mentally damage you...
    Unknownimus Unknownimus 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 6, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F Jan 4

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    All the trust you've put in your friends.

    .. And they stab you in the back. Over the recent weeks, 2 of my friends decide to oppose me and stab me in the back. All because they think I said something nasty about them. Now they don't want anything to do with me or talk to me. I loved those 2 friends but because of this...
    NeoxExor NeoxExor 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    He Don'T Love Me

    They said if a person loves you truly, he will never let you go no matter how difficult the situations is in life. I didn't let him go but he let me go. Why do I still think about him - A person who didn't love me.
    sunnyagain sunnyagain 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    Battle Cry

    I usually don't "keep score" of who does what to me, but after you get hurt enough it kind of just becomes a natural defense. Friend A and I got really close really fast, we went through a lot together, countless nights of phone calls trying to convince her not to drink, do...
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 22-25, F Nov 16, 2012

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    My Boyfriend Came Out

    My boyfriend Joel and I have been together for three years. Last week, he told me that he was confused as to what he wanted. And I knew exactly what he was talking about. A couple months ago, I found gay **** on Joel's phone. I confronted him about it, and was stupid enough to...
    YouBeTheAnchor YouBeTheAnchor 22-25, F 17 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    bioandproud bioandproud 13-15, F Jan 4

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    This is about a past relationship.

    The whole point of relationships is to find out whether or not you're going to marry that person, right? When my ex and I first met, he was all lovey-dovey with me and seemed really interested (I never really have people interested in me). So he and I were together for about...
    Jesxica Jesxica 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2014

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    It has taken me a long time to think about

    writing this. For a long time, this has been a big issue in my life...and something I haven't spoken about. I fell in love with a guy. A guy I thought was amazing.....funny, charming, witty, caring....all the things you would expect....and pretty easy on the eye. He seemed...
    Superficialsaint Superficialsaint 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    Funniest thing about being hurt,

    you find out who your friends are... My best friend just so happens to be a stranger. He's always there to pick up the pieces and make me whole again. Thanks to my BFF, Stranger!!!!!!!!!
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F Feb 1

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    I fell in love with someone within the span of

    one week. And now I'm weaker than ever. Initially having a bipolar stance on him I forced myself to pick a side. I chose love. He didn't. That's all.
    Sara902 Sara902 22-25, F Oct 13, 2014

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    An Instance

    This isnt much of a story, rather an experience.. My bf, messaged me in evening that a girl he met 2 days ago asked him to go out for a movie, I didnt like that.. I am posssesive and all that.. But I didnt ask him not to go or anything.. He calls me up in the night and says I...
    bujji14 bujji14 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    I was bullied I cut..

    most ppl would be like so..but some care lol well u haven't cut in like a year so YAY
    bioandproud bioandproud 13-15, F Jan 4

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    Time and time again, I have been hurt by ppl I

    believed in and thought were my friends. I have been hurt by someone who was stupid. I have been hurt by someone who is intelligent. I have been hurt most of my life by ppl who I thought truly cared. My hurt has been much more at ease since someone I call Stranger has come...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F Feb 1

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    My mother just called me

    and had an entire conversation with me about how my younger brother (20) got cheated on while him and his gf who is 18 were on a 'break'. She went on and on about how sorry she felt for my brother and how terrible it was. MEANWHILE.. Both of my parents (who have always been...
    kros10 kros10 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    A couple of posts regarding infidelity on here

    reminded me of this: When I was a girl my mother kept telling me she had a friend, a woman, who she went out with at times. She said that the reason why I never met this friend was because the friend alas did not like kids. I believed her because she was my mother. I believed...
    JoannaBe JoannaBe 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 8 Responses Nov 12, 2014

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    My Tears

    Tears are falling from my eyes,as I sit and cry at night.blood is dripping from my heart,as I try to write.I have so much pain,I'm hurt a lot,I can't explain all this,I'm just falling apart.no one understands,I don't know where to startand I don't know where to end.love hurts so...
    bunga87 bunga87 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    Sometimes it hurts so much to be right More

    than it hurts to be wrong.
    thoughtfulheart thoughtfulheart 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 26, 2014

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    you'd think I would be used to it.

    that id remember how it felt. that it wouldn't hurt this bad after so long, 15 years actually. but it hurts the same. I wish I didn't have to live with this ****. now I can't even be around my freaking family. I'm so on edge right now. it's been awhile dunces he's yelled like...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    MommyToPrincesses MommyToPrincesses 16-17, F Dec 23, 2014

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    "Violence does not always take visible form,

    and not all wounds gush blood." -Haruki Murakami
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    you knew i fancied you,

    your friends also knew. we had been getting along great, but i kinda knew we weren't going to go that way, you vaguely cited religion as a reason even though i knew that was bollocks but i thought you were fun. i should have known this would happen as you were head over heels in...
    spiralvortex spiralvortex 26-30, F Feb 9

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    I still have feelings of disappointment,

    humiliation and a little anger at myself for letting it happen. I let my guard down. I thought I liked him - it was a crush, I know that now. He knew it too, and used it to get what he wanted. I think about him far too much, about what he's doing, is he thinking about me... I'm...
    Chaosforthefly Chaosforthefly 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    I never thought you would be

    so meaningful to me
    juliabesa081 juliabesa081 61-65, F Dec 24, 2014

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    why girl let guy hurts her many times?

    let me tell you one thing, she knows that he is worth all of the tears and pains. she knows that he is all she ever wanted. she knows that not giving him the second chance is bad. she knows that loving him is all that matters. she knows that he needs her. and she knows, that...
    rockettothemoon08 rockettothemoon08 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    Love someone is not think how beauty you are .

    ... Thin or fat is simple..... Love just need your take care and understand to each other... Love is not think about rich or poor I just wonder why the old people offend the lesbian..., and always separate the Panther For me, I always resolve it with my family and they...
    fabara fabara 26-30, F Feb 10

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    Forgive not because they deserve it.

    Forgive because it gives you peace.
    lurveruinsit lurveruinsit 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2014

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    Goodbye world, goodbye.

    I give up, and thank you to those who have attempted to support me. I realize that I'm too weak to accept the fact that he has broken up with me. I'm not strong enough. I'm weak and I have no help. So I'm consisting suicide though I know what comments are going to come. I...
    grace97eun grace97eun 16-17, F 9 Responses Jan 22

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    The worst emotional pain is your first rejection

    and it happened to me in the first grade when i liked a boy but i knew i wasn't allowed to have a boyfriend. One day someone overheard me and he started bullying me because I wouldn't fight back. I have always hated him and because his mom and my mom know each other I will soon...
    Cheshirecupacat Cheshirecupacat 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2014

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    "Silence is a girls loudest cry,

    you know she's hurt when she starts ignoring you" -Drake Paris Morton
    SairaE SairaE 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2014

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    I feel like the more he's moving on with this

    new girl he's hurting me more. I'm so mad and at the same side I'm becoming more suicidal everyday. I want to kill myself because of all the pain.
    grace97eun grace97eun 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 25

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    For those who worry about being hurt - follow

    the advice above. I have always believed this to be true...
    Liverpool47 Liverpool47 41-45, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    K people...just because I was raped,

    doesn't mean I am not a human...it means I am a victim and I need people too support me...I am a human being and hurt just as much as you do...maybe not over the same things but I hurt...I was hurt by family...I am the black sheep now because of this and it hurts...
    ThePeebs ThePeebs 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2014

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