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I Have Been Hurt

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    Two months ago, I had a really bad falling-out

    with a close female friend whom I had started to develop feelings towards. I've been recovering emotionally, but I'm still reeling. If you want to know more, you can read about it here EP Link I just want to post a quick update, because I'm not sure what I should do next: A...
    JoePianist JoePianist 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 9

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    Throughout my life I have never been happy.

    I struggle from deep depression and have been hurt by many girl over a long period of time. I've been suicidal and I have had to drop out of school because I had to move when I was in ninth grade and never made any good friends were I am now. I long for a relationship where a...
    dabrownman3 dabrownman3 16-17, M 4 Responses Mar 5

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    Both in the literally way.

    ..I've broken arms sliced open legs hands head a little concision hear a little broken ankle there lol and also in the emotional way...problems with my selfish father, cheated on by three of my exes and issues with my mother
    dast3830 dast3830 18-21, F Mar 4

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    I've never been in love

    but I've damn sure been hurt. Today I went to my weekly counseling session and I said something to my counselor that I have never said out loud. Crazy thing is, when I said it, I said with a chuckle and a smirk on my face. Trying to laugh off one of the many things that hurt me...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Last Goodbye

    It's been a week since we broke up. I miss him so much.. Yet I am proud to say that I've successfully prevented myself from dialing his number, and crawling back to him. You might think I will go back w him soon. I believe I wont. How do I know? Just like normal couples, me & my...
    Aggielove05 Aggielove05 22-25, F Nov 25, 2011

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    My Tears

    Tears are falling from my eyes,as I sit and cry at night.blood is dripping from my heart,as I try to write.I have so much pain,I'm hurt a lot,I can't explain all this,I'm just falling apart.no one understands,I don't know where to startand I don't know where to end.love hurts so...
    bunga87 bunga87 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    Hiya there okay so I'm 16 in real life I have

    role played on Facebook since I was 11 my older adopted sister gave me a account that she didn't want and I love it but I have been getting bullied by her old friends saying I'm lying about who I am and i been so stressed out and I feel like I have no one I can talk to and break...
    countingstars16 countingstars16 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    Liers

    Yet another person promising opportunity for something better ten up and vanishing as soon as I become the most happy. *** all you people. I don't want friends anymore. Why would people pretend to be your friend to the point of making plans to hang out then ditch you like the...
    Cid123 Cid123 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 14, 2013

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    Many Times

    Why is it when someone loves you they continue to hurt you. I have been hurt many times by my love. From ep to an ex and things in-between. I think its part of the reason behind my depression. I try to trust but its so hard after its been broken. I have insecurities in my...
    holehearted79 holehearted79 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 25, 2013

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    Why Does He Hurt Me

    One day he's affectionate, playful, sweet..the next day he's cold, uninterested and even rude...I need to take him off the pedestal I put him on, because it doesn't look like he belongs there..he has one day free a month, but wants to spend it with the guys, not me..it will be a...
    Blondeangelmom Blondeangelmom 56-60, F 3 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    Was planing to write this whole story about it

    but eh.. Think I will just give the nutt shell Version instead.. Got asked out by this girl I knew from a cuzin on Fourth of July one year, Was together for about six months saying how in love she was with me, Then boom!, she dropped me like a hot tamale just so she can go out...
    StevensTHEname StevensTHEname 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I thought that he was the one the one

    that I had been searching for, he had no flaws. I was wrong. I've been hurt before but not like this. This was a whole new feeling like I've been repeatedly stabbed in the heart. He made me feel something new but then he took everything away. I want to just break down and give...
    staceybates3 staceybates3 18-21, F Jan 3

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    Many Times

    I've been hurt repeatedly throughout my entire life, but in tha past week, I've had 3 "friends" ditch me and tell me they no longer wanted to be my friend for whatever reason. This is why I don't get close to people.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Dec 4, 2010

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    My Boyfriend Came Out

    My boyfriend Joel and I have been together for three years. Last week, he told me that he was confused as to what he wanted. And I knew exactly what he was talking about. A couple months ago, I found gay **** on Joel's phone. I confronted him about it, and was stupid enough to...
    YouBeTheAnchor YouBeTheAnchor 22-25, F 19 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    Battle Cry

    I usually don't "keep score" of who does what to me, but after you get hurt enough it kind of just becomes a natural defense. Friend A and I got really close really fast, we went through a lot together, countless nights of phone calls trying to convince her not to drink, do...
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 18-21, F Nov 16, 2012

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    It's Finally Ended

    He hurt me for so long, in so many ways. Along with his friends. They raped me, beat me, whipped me, molested me, hurt me with words. I fought for awhile, until I realised that it didnt help, it just made them angrier. And if they were angrier, they were more violent. So I let it...
    livelaughlove2904 livelaughlove2904 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    What makes us unhappy is the idea ,

    the perception of how it should be.
    thoughtfulheart thoughtfulheart 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    The hurt I expiernced

    when I was...
    ripevan ripevan 16-17, F Feb 8

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    He hurt me once n that's all I need

    for my heart to be shattered. But the brain as stubborn as ever gave him a second chance. And the heart was hurt again. Brain : This has to stop. Heart : You know you still love him. Me : Cry it out.
    lurveruinsit lurveruinsit 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Yea I have been hurt in the past

    but who hasn't? I've learned, loved, lost, forgave, and moved on because there is nothing worse than hanging onto hurt without healing. That's like having an open wound that won't go away, one day it'll get infected.
    tah34 tah34 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    Well, i have been in a relationship

    since 4 years and everything was goin pretty well until he started working with his father. He is always so busy that he doesnt realize that i exist. He doesnt even meet me . This is really hurting me :(
    princessvashu princessvashu 18-21, F Mar 6

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    Hurt me with the truth

    but please, never comfort me with a lie.
    Mjj101 Mjj101 13-15, M Dec 3, 2013

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    I have lost all respect

    for myself since last relationship and let people treat me like ****,wondering if I will ever find happiness
    stunningblueeyes stunningblueeyes 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    Happy One Year

    First off happy one year...oh wait I almost forgot how sweet that would of been, to forget. To pretend actually forget, not for a minute, no but forever. Not who you are but what you once were. Its hard for me now, and I can't bring myself to blame you, I just keep on blaming...
    Vronii4 Vronii4 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2012

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    Hurts when someone shows you,

    you meant nothing at all and you believed you did.
    BAPhoto BAPhoto 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    I even hurt a lot in my life ,

    maybe because I didn't find the right people or I never been my self in my first years at middle school I been through bullying and people called me names I got beating a lot I didnt understand what surviving means I hate me I hated my life becuz no one get me , then I got...
    ziaJamal ziaJamal 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    my heart feels like Humpty Dumpty,

    it started to fall but no one was there to catch it... and now none of the kings horses or kings men can put my heart back together again... <|3 ):
    sweetheart05 sweetheart05 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    Truth be told, I ache with the remembrance of

    old pains. My heart is formed of shrapnel and my mind is an orchestra of a thousand little voices singing of what I've done... Or could have done. But My troubles which burn like fire and poison like the snake in the river are so trite in comparison to the injuries which others...
    typedwriter typedwriter 26-30, F Apr 7

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    He Don'T Love Me

    They said if a person loves you truly, he will never let you go no matter how difficult the situations is in life. I didn't let him go but he let me go. Why do I still think about him - A person who didn't love me.
    sunnyagain sunnyagain 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    bigprogamer bigprogamer 31-35, M Feb 20

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    He Posted Pics Of Me On The Internet For Money

    Yes, there are some things that you do when you are in love. The pics that he posted were for him only. I was playing on his computer last night and i could not believe my eyes. I have never been so hurt. I don't post those kind of pics because i think they are private. I have...
    kimintheclouds kimintheclouds 36-40, F 10 Responses May 6, 2012

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    I have been hurt, but have only risen from my

    pain and became a stronger person
    ash5698 ash5698 13-15, M Mar 21

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    That's true... That how I feel.

    ..I was in pain so much.
    xoshorty21 xoshorty21 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    " you know what truly aches the most?

    Is having so much inside you and having no slightest clue of how to pour it all out" Christopher Poindexter.
    thoughtfulheart thoughtfulheart 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    Forgive And Forget?

    Giving someone your heart is hard to do. Especially when you hand it over time and time again and whenever you get it back there is more bandages on it. I just never really grasp why some people can keep hurting the people who love them and claim to love them back? I left...
    meowgirlx meowgirlx 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    Why would you want to unlock a heart

    if it's just full of hurt? But I have to.
    avessel avessel 22-25 Jan 4

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    Forgive not because they deserve it.

    Forgive because it gives you peace.
    lurveruinsit lurveruinsit 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Back and forth. I'm so tired.

    These feelings are bad and they are many.
    ChizzyVanGogh ChizzyVanGogh 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 9

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    Don't leave me lonely,

    I'm giving you life, I've offered up my heart only yours will suffice This shell I've become of what I once knew, defeated and borrowed, broken and blue. I wish I could quit you, and I wish I'd forget, too much love have I offered, too many times you'd reject. Yet you'll still...
    summerdaniella summerdaniella 18-21, F Mar 31

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    oakdolphinking oakdolphinking 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 30

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    Hurt

    I feel like I cant trust anyone I just get f***** over again and again. This guy said he liked me and turned out he was just.leading me on because he was just having fun and he turned around and started doing that with my best friend and she back stabbed me and flirted with even...
    ThisismeXD ThisismeXD 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    Oh, The Power Of The *p* ! {quite Lethal}

    Hmmmm. So since when have men allowed the power of the *P* to take total control of their being? (When applied correctly) LMBO, the *P* can truly ruin a nation ;~)  Why do men lose themselves and get all caught out there in their feelings, loosing their minds over a "proper shot...
    BIGAMISTRESS BIGAMISTRESS 36-40, F 1 Response May 8, 2012

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    She would turn every single action in to

    something that would isolate or offend me. Thinking back now I realise I was a fool for always forgiving her every mistake, for wanting her, she says that she was hurt but how come the other person never can see the pain they cause. She doesn't deserve to be longed for 😔
    Hidebehindtherain Hidebehindtherain 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I Never Give Up

    I AM HURT BY SO CALLED FRIENDS BUT I DON'T WANT TO GIVE UP.Never to Give Up One day a farmer’s donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally he decided the animal was old and the well needed to...
    mona87 mona87 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 28, 2013

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    Okay so bf dumped me last week saying

    that he'd met someone new the night before and they had a 'mind blowing connection' and whilst he was really sorry, he wanted to pursue it. He then told me that he didn't believe in love at first sight but he did after seeing her. It was brutal. I have never hurt him and a...
    MsKB MsKB 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 19

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    Hunted

    Cold darkness clutched my heart as his leather glove reached inside. Finding its intended target he began plucking petals, spraying pesticides. I pull away, frightened but the poisons already pricked the skin. Numbed my fingertips, I bit down on a bloody tongue. I hear a...
    IvoryTapestry IvoryTapestry 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 14, 2012

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    Ifeelkikeaghosht Ifeelkikeaghosht 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    They never beat me in the face

    so that no one can see but my whole family hates me. They call me names and punish me. Like hitting me on my bum or giving me their leftovers cold as food when they are mad or lock me into the pantry. What hurts most is kneeling on stuff. I think they enjoy making me hurt.
    SabrinaInTears SabrinaInTears 13-15, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I hate being the daughter

    who always ***** up I hate being the one who she hate so much the one she takes all her anger out on I just wanna ended it
    countingstars16 countingstars16 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    Its really hurt when someone u love insulted you

    as a person and called u~~"momo"
    shyiree shyiree 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    Prey

    Sunday night I was hanging out with my best friend/brother. For the most part we were having an awesome time, especially since I haven't seen him in months. We were laughing and joking around - then he did what he always does - he pokes me or or pinches me because he thinks the...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 2, 2008

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