I Have Been In An Abusive Relationship Forum & Chat Board | I'm scared he'll come after me

My ex boyfriend has been in jail for over two years now for abusing me and he gets out in 2013. I know that's awhile away, but I can't help being scared thinking he's going to come after me for finally leaving him and standing up to him. He almost killed me last time...if the police didn't arrive when they did I would have probably bled to death. I know he's angry he's been in jail before for abusing me and he told me how much he hates it there. And this time it's worse because my whole family knows what he did to me, his family has disown him, and I threw away everything he's owned. He has no where to go when he gets out, and I have a strong feeling that when he does get out that he will come looking for me. I keep having nightmares about seeing him again and I started getting flashbacks again when I pass familiar places where he has attacked me before. I'm not crazy, but I feel as if he does get out and find me I will have to kill him. I feel like I have no choice. Dead people can't hurt you anymore, but people who go to jail get out and come after you again. The last time I sent him to jail and he got out on bail he almost killed me, and I can't let him hurt me again.
 

 

i think so you should discuss this fear with your family and if possible change your address , phone number so that he cannot find you . please let your family and friend know what he can do and what you fear. 

 

i too am feeling very scared as my ex has found out the area i have relocated to so it will only be a matter of time before it starts all over again, we have actually been split up nearly 5 years but during that time he has hounded me, broke up a new relationship, and destroyed me all over again, finding this site has renewed my strength somewhat, and so many of the stories have had an alarming similaritiy to mine ? question were they all made at the same slime ball factory ???? the things they say and do are hardly original are they? some times it heals to vent i hope he never finds you and i hope there will come a time when we can all stop running, i wish you all the very best for your future, you certainly deserve it baby girl xxx