I Have Been Married 3 Times

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 54 People

    Life Is Not Easy

    I am currently on my third marriage and trying to fix it. I have made some serious mistakes during this marriage.
    angeleyes17 angeleyes17
    41-45
    2 Responses Jan 10, 2012

    Lost

    My name is robin,i joined this group because im having a very hard time understanding myself.i guess im going thru some kind of depression.i have been married 3 times,the first time was a drunken cheater,the second was no different,actually worse.he was a drug user and beat me...
    Rmmoore Rmmoore
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 12, 2012

    Married 4 Times and Counting

    My experience with being married four times is that it is usually better not to tell anyone that you have been married more than twice because they automatically assume something is wrong with you. i had one girl say that if she met a guy that had been married more than twice...
    bluebreeze2me bluebreeze2me
    41-45
    6 Responses Jul 15, 2009

    Married 3 Times And Once Again Alone

    I have been married 3 times with the first marrage lasting 21 years and the last 10 years. I feel like some of the other posters, that my ability to choose a mate is broken. I have currently been alone for a year and am begining to really feel lonely and don't know how to fix...
    missbegotten55 missbegotten55
    56-60
    2 Responses Jan 12, 2012

    I married my pregnant girlfriend

    when I was 17. It wasn't a shotgun wedding. I was more than willing to quit high school and join the Air Force. We were married 6 years and had two children. I was a father at age 17. My ex wanted a divorce because she felt she missed out on her youth. I remained single for 16...
    CantGetItRight2 CantGetItRight2
    56-60, M
    1 Response Feb 7, 2014

    My "Picker" Is Broken

    So, I'm not so sure as to how I feel about where I am in my personal life and how the hell I got here.  I am working on my third divorce, I'm 36, and I have one child from the second marriage. Wife number one was a girl I dated the last semester of my Senior year in High...
    ghensler00 ghensler00
    36-40
    4 Responses Aug 13, 2009

    I got married when I was 18,

    then again at 21 and again at 24. This is my longest marriage. Six years now and weve had our ups and downs. Been through alot.
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 23, 2014

    I am embarrassed and ashamed .

    I also feel pre judged. do you think it is important to divulge my past marriages when dating ?
    yankees1970 yankees1970
    46-50, M
    Apr 17, 2015

    I am on my way out of my third marriage.

    My first marriage was because of pregnancy (trying to do the right thing) and we did for 16 years but we knew it was only for the children. We have two amazing sons. Two years after my divorce, my second marriage was due to going through financial struggles and he was willing to...
    Tms8193 Tms8193
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Dec 31, 2013

    I Feel Like I Have Been Married Six Times

    My first two marriages we're unfulfilling to say the least.  My husbands practiced infidelity as a matter of course.  The relationships were crazy weird as well.  I didn't learn to get to know my boyfriends well before starting a relationship and it backfired on me with a...
    rubyetuesday rubyetuesday
    61-65, F
    1 Response Mar 11, 2012

    Married Many Times...

    You guys are mere amateurs, I've been married 6 times.  I call it serial monagamy.  The funny thing is, I wasn't even married to the man I lived with the longest, he and I made it nearly 10 years.  After my last divorce at the age of 55, I finally got it through my...
    victoriaj52 victoriaj52
    56-60, F
    6 Responses Dec 5, 2010

    Learned A Lot

    I learned after getting married ( the first time) that my husband was into drugs and eventually became an alcoholic. He was verbally and mentally abusive. After 8 years I found the courage to leave. Second marriage was good but we both made mistakes that we could not fix. He had...
    Deeinflorida Deeinflorida
    51-55, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2013

    Catholic Guilt

    It's amazing but finding a discussion forum for people enduring emotional pain from 3 failed marriages is hard to find on the net. One of the sites  I did find made me feel even worse then I already feel, like I am such an awful person and really I'm the extreme opposite...
    jalynne jalynne
    36-40
    5 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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