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I Have Been Married 3 Times

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 51 People

    I Feel Like I Have Been Married Six Times

    My first two marriages we're unfulfilling to say the least.  My husbands practiced infidelity as a matter of course.  The relationships were crazy weird as well.  I didn't learn to get to know my boyfriends well before starting a relationship and it backfired on me with a...
    rubyetuesday rubyetuesday 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2012

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    Married Many Times...

    You guys are mere amateurs, I've been married 6 times.  I call it serial monagamy.  The funny thing is, I wasn't even married to the man I lived with the longest, he and I made it nearly 10 years.  After my last divorce at the age of 55, I finally got it through my...
    victoriaj52 victoriaj52 56-60, F 5 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    Learned A Lot

    I learned after getting married ( the first time) that my husband was into drugs and eventually became an alcoholic. He was verbally and mentally abusive. After 8 years I found the courage to leave. Second marriage was good but we both made mistakes that we could not fix. He had...
    Deeinflorida Deeinflorida 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2013

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    I am embarrassed and ashamed .

    I also feel pre judged. do you think it is important to divulge my past marriages when dating ?
    yankees1970 yankees1970 46-50, M Apr 17

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    My "Picker" Is Broken

    So, I'm not so sure as to how I feel about where I am in my personal life and how the hell I got here.  I am working on my third divorce, I'm 36, and I have one child from the second marriage. Wife number one was a girl I dated the last semester of my Senior year in High...
    ghensler00 ghensler00 36-40 4 Responses Aug 13, 2009

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    Life Is Not Easy

    I am currently on my third marriage and trying to fix it. I have made some serious mistakes during this marriage.
    angeleyes17 angeleyes17 41-45 2 Responses Jan 10, 2012

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    Married 4 Times and Counting

    My experience with being married four times is that it is usually better not to tell anyone that you have been married more than twice because they automatically assume something is wrong with you. i had one girl say that if she met a guy that had been married more than twice...
    bluebreeze2me bluebreeze2me 41-45 6 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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    Catholic Guilt

    It's amazing but finding a discussion forum for people enduring emotional pain from 3 failed marriages is hard to find on the net. One of the sites  I did find made me feel even worse then I already feel, like I am such an awful person and really I'm the extreme opposite...
    jalynne jalynne 36-40 5 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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    I married my pregnant girlfriend

    when I was 17. It wasn't a shotgun wedding. I was more than willing to quit high school and join the Air Force. We were married 6 years and had two children. I was a father at age 17. My ex wanted a divorce because she felt she missed out on her youth. I remained single for 16...
    CantGetItRight2 CantGetItRight2 56-60, M 1 Response Feb 7, 2014

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    I got married when I was 18,

    then again at 21 and again at 24. This is my longest marriage. Six years now and weve had our ups and downs. Been through alot.
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 23, 2014

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    Lost

    My name is robin,i joined this group because im having a very hard time understanding myself.i guess im going thru some kind of depression.i have been married 3 times,the first time was a drunken cheater,the second was no different,actually worse.he was a drug user and beat me...
    Rmmoore Rmmoore 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 12, 2012

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    Married 3 Times And Once Again Alone

    I have been married 3 times with the first marrage lasting 21 years and the last 10 years. I feel like some of the other posters, that my ability to choose a mate is broken. I have currently been alone for a year and am begining to really feel lonely and don't know how to fix...
    missbegotten55 missbegotten55 56-60 2 Responses Jan 12, 2012

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    I am on my way out of my third marriage.

    My first marriage was because of pregnancy (trying to do the right thing) and we did for 16 years but we knew it was only for the children. We have two amazing sons. Two years after my divorce, my second marriage was due to going through financial struggles and he was willing to...
    Tms8193 Tms8193 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Recently, I have had quite a few life changing events that have happened. Looking back on some things, I probably would have changed some things sooner, but I can’t control the...
    Haywee123 Haywee123 22-25, F May 5

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    I don't do this but I am reaching out for support right now. I am currently walking out of a 6 yr abusive relationship. 2 of those years we have been married. I have been hurt...
    cpowers89 cpowers89 26-30, F 16 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have been married for 25 years. We have 2 kids together who are adults now. They were tweens when I found out about my wife's infidelity. I think I kept the marriage together for...
    Etdos Etdos 41-45, M 14 Responses May 6

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    Fainted once, have been four times put to sleep for surgery.
    macmann macmann 56-60, M Apr 29

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    I have been intimate with an unhappy married woman...
    cashetty69 cashetty69 51-55, M 4 days ago

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    I have been a few times. Once was on my birthday and my friend pushed my piece of cake in my face and a few times making those youtube videos where you ask you're friend a question...
    skylerGrace skylerGrace 13-15, F 1 Response May 19

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    I have been in a relationship with my wife now for almost 4 years in Aug. and two of married the same month. We have a son who's also about to be 4 years old. We started talking...
    aaguilar0813 aaguilar0813 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Used to attend county fair pulls with dad. We joined a tractor club dedicated to keeping old farming ways alive. My wife and I were married during our annual expo. Dad passed...
    RocknRollCowboy71 RocknRollCowboy71 41-45, M May 15

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    I have been seen naked numerous times. I suppose the first time I was seen naked by someone other than my immediate family was when I was sleeping over at a friends house. We...
    gatordude gatordude 31-35, M 1 Response May 5

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    can't remember someone who hasnt called me crazy ....... today ... several times I have been called that by someone i consider them a brother and best friend. ... even though...
    lonesomedove80 lonesomedove80 31-35, F 1 Response May 10

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    Here is some of the dreadful things I experienced while being gangstalked. And yes. it does exist. This may help you if you are reading to identify with some, if not all. Also, at...
    goldenview goldenview 31-35 May 20

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    There has been many times in my life when I have either felt lonely, felt down, and depressed that I've gotten encouragement by either writing another person, read stories of...
    babyglp babyglp 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 30

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    Dear N, I am beyond angry and sad at the hurt and devastation you have caused not only to me and the girls, but dozens of friends and family. I don’t fully understand why you...
    CapricornDad CapricornDad 41-45, M 1 Response May 1

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    The first time, I had attempted suicide around 30 years old, I attempted to cut my wrists, it was over the fact that I lost everything and I was a hardcore alcoholic, while in the...
    squeezenbiteme squeezenbiteme 31-35, M 1 Response May 14

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    I have been to France, Germany, Switzerland and Italy several times.I would love to go to Scandanavia and Austria
    Wulfstan Wulfstan 70+, M May 17

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    I have been reunited with my first love.... We met in Job Corps in the early 90. At the time I had a boyfriend. But he was always around making me laugh. Till one day he ask me to...
    alwayshisbaby73 alwayshisbaby73 41-45, F 2 Responses May 18

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    l been three times. I'm not no badass or anything. I just was at the wrong place at the wrong time and I guess did the wrong thing to solve it. No one's perfect and we all know...
    BuickLesley BuickLesley 18-21, M May 19

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    A lot of times! For the last two years I have been living in Germany. Spas here are nude and mixed when attending a sauna or a steambath. Even poolareas and sauana gardens are...
    niceskip niceskip 46-50, M a week ago

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    I have been Blocked a few times and I don't care. I just laugh it off sometimes
    ColeSweety ColeSweety 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have loads of times just because I love pain I always annoy people so they come and beat me up, might go out and start a fight now
    IWantToBeTortured IWantToBeTortured 18-21, F 2 Responses May 12

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    This last year has been all over the spectrum, from really really good, to just brutal. I think I am starting to understand why I am struggling so much with being confident in...
    loneranger91 loneranger91 22-25, F 1 Response May 6

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    Given that I've been really bummed out of late and there's no shortage of drugs available to me (methamphetamine and mdma is very prominent in my groups, opiates benzos etc is easy...
    chinawhite007 chinawhite007 26-30, M 2 Responses May 12

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    Emptiness, drowns you in black crippling depression, in water so deep you can't see the bottom and from the bottom cannot see the surface, I have been hurt I've been used I've been...
    ddmagnum ddmagnum 22-25, M 1 Response May 14

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    It all goes back to May of 2012. At the time I was still in the process of disputing my claim for SSI (Supplemental Security Income) and still coping with the worst of my severe...
    WorldCreator WorldCreator 31-35, M 1 Response May 16

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    I have been busy and don't ever what to experience that feel for long durations again. Busy-ness, importance, and productivity are not synonymous. I know a lot of people take pride...
    Elsahen Elsahen 22-25, F 1 Response May 1

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    I always wonder what would my life would have been like if I wasn't born in what seems to be my imagination. If people genuinely knew my existence and made a celebration out of it...
    deathnotefreak deathnotefreak 18-21, F 3 Responses May 4

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    What is the longest you have been naked in public for - not on a clothing optional beach or nudist resort, but out naked for whatever reason, be it for a dare, a walk in the...
    Bartimaues Bartimaues 18-21, M 9 Responses Apr 29

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    it changed me it happened in 2000.. i was 20 years old all my life i have been a laughing stock by my family. my parents wouldn't do anything about it only say i am just...
    lonesomedove80 lonesomedove80 31-35, F 3 Responses May 3

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    Hi, my dream is to centralise one forum for all people who have been betrayed in this way. Due to the popularity of the "I am not the other woman" I'm suggesting this group. If...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 5 Responses May 6

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    I have been single for way to long. All my friends are happy with their significant others. I am plus sized and it hurts. We are studying Romeo and Juliet in school and I'm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses