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I Have Been Married 3 Times

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    Married 4 Times and Counting

    My experience with being married four times is that it is usually better not to tell anyone that you have been married more than twice because they automatically assume something is wrong with you. i had one girl say that if she met a guy that had been married more than twice...
    bluebreeze2me bluebreeze2me 41-45 6 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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    Learned A Lot

    I learned after getting married ( the first time) that my husband was into drugs and eventually became an alcoholic. He was verbally and mentally abusive. After 8 years I found the courage to leave. Second marriage was good but we both made mistakes that we could not fix. He had...
    Deeinflorida Deeinflorida 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2013

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    Lost

    My name is robin,i joined this group because im having a very hard time understanding myself.i guess im going thru some kind of depression.i have been married 3 times,the first time was a drunken cheater,the second was no different,actually worse.he was a drug user and beat me...
    Rmmoore Rmmoore 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 12, 2012

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    I got married when I was 18,

    then again at 21 and again at 24. This is my longest marriage. Six years now and weve had our ups and downs. Been through alot.
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 23, 2014

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    My "Picker" Is Broken

    So, I'm not so sure as to how I feel about where I am in my personal life and how the hell I got here.  I am working on my third divorce, I'm 36, and I have one child from the second marriage. Wife number one was a girl I dated the last semester of my Senior year in High...
    ghensler00 ghensler00 36-40 4 Responses Aug 13, 2009

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    Married Many Times...

    You guys are mere amateurs, I've been married 6 times.  I call it serial monagamy.  The funny thing is, I wasn't even married to the man I lived with the longest, he and I made it nearly 10 years.  After my last divorce at the age of 55, I finally got it through my...
    victoriaj52 victoriaj52 56-60, F 5 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    Catholic Guilt

    It's amazing but finding a discussion forum for people enduring emotional pain from 3 failed marriages is hard to find on the net. One of the sites  I did find made me feel even worse then I already feel, like I am such an awful person and really I'm the extreme opposite...
    jalynne jalynne 36-40 5 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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    I Feel Like I Have Been Married Six Times

    My first two marriages we're unfulfilling to say the least.  My husbands practiced infidelity as a matter of course.  The relationships were crazy weird as well.  I didn't learn to get to know my boyfriends well before starting a relationship and it backfired on me with a...
    rubyetuesday rubyetuesday 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2012

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    I married my pregnant girlfriend

    when I was 17. It wasn't a shotgun wedding. I was more than willing to quit high school and join the Air Force. We were married 6 years and had two children. I was a father at age 17. My ex wanted a divorce because she felt she missed out on her youth. I remained single for 16...
    CantGetItRight2 CantGetItRight2 56-60, M 1 Response Feb 7, 2014

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    I am on my way out of my third marriage.

    My first marriage was because of pregnancy (trying to do the right thing) and we did for 16 years but we knew it was only for the children. We have two amazing sons. Two years after my divorce, my second marriage was due to going through financial struggles and he was willing to...
    Tms8193 Tms8193 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    Life Is Not Easy

    I am currently on my third marriage and trying to fix it. I have made some serious mistakes during this marriage.
    angeleyes17 angeleyes17 41-45 2 Responses Jan 10, 2012

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    Married 3 Times And Once Again Alone

    I have been married 3 times with the first marrage lasting 21 years and the last 10 years. I feel like some of the other posters, that my ability to choose a mate is broken. I have currently been alone for a year and am begining to really feel lonely and don't know how to fix...
    missbegotten55 missbegotten55 56-60 2 Responses Jan 12, 2012

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    I think my number is low for being almost 40 years old. I've only been with 28 different girls. I have been married for over 10 years though and only been with my wife since then.
    nccheatinghusband nccheatinghusband 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    Have been going to counseling for a couple weeks now , am having some issues reconnecting, working on it . Last session (yesterday) exact words . Mr. ....... in our professional...
    jocu123 jocu123 26-30, M 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M Jan 29

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    ^ i regret meeting you bt blessed to have known you,i hate you for making me feel that only love exited wit you & no1 else ,i hate you for making me fall deep in love wit you ,only...
    H143 H143 18-21, F Feb 2

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    I have been called crazy multiple times in my life, I'm not fishing for compliments. They're right by the clinical definition. My past from what I can remember has been fairly...
    Edg3Runn3r Edg3Runn3r 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 9

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    Yeah, I think I have been forgotten by the most important person in my life. He has up and forgotten me. I was, wait let me rephrase that, I AM in love with him. I have been since...
    wannaloveyou wannaloveyou 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have been told that I am beautiful many times. Even in a store, some people say I am beautiful. Those compliments give me a shot of confidence and make me happy for a little...
    marion13 marion13 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    All the names in here are changed This guy named Brian and I were dating for about a little more than year. He had a lot of female friends but I didn't really mind because we had...
    2323keka 2323keka 16-17 2 Responses Feb 13

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    I wear girls clothes and got to a park at night to walk around and have been beaten up a few times I guess I deserved it
    soaked44 soaked44 46-50, T 1 Response Feb 16

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    What a difference a year makes. 12 little months......Wow! I can scarcely believe it. Today is the first anniversary of my EP membership! When l look back, the year has flown.The...
    2BlossomBlue 2BlossomBlue 51-55, F 16 Responses Feb 15

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    I'm warning you now that my experience is a book... I'm sharing because I want those who may be going through this right now to know that only one thing will make the relationship...
    DaylightDancer DaylightDancer 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    I upped the friendship level with a friend last night. She and I have been friends for 10 or so years. She knows that within the last 2 years I have been leaning to the nude side...
    cmcneal76 cmcneal76 36-40, M 9 Responses Jan 29

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    Time and time again, I have been hurt by ppl I believed in and thought were my friends. I have been hurt by someone who was stupid. I have been hurt by someone who is intelligent...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F Feb 1

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    A couple weeks ago, 6 days after my 20th birthday, I had had enough with stress and my depression. Granted, I wasn't taking my medication properly, which probably contributed in my...
    KorruptedKid KorruptedKid 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I'm glad to be here. Because before, I was past help. I didn't know how to voice my pain in any other way than that of self harm, and eventually, attempted suicide. But my mum...
    betruetoyourself14 betruetoyourself14 13-15, F Feb 7

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    i have been bullied since i was a kid i don't know why i'm depressed still going to school my sisters don't understand they also bullied me nobody understand how i feel i feel...
    gamergirlo gamergirlo 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    This world is really starting to get to me...I have not been on here much because I have been so busy with other people who think I am some kind of angel...which I am not an angel...
    MMMartin MMMartin 51-55, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    Wow! Violated doesn't even begin to describe how I feel right now!! I was catfished by a girl by the name of "plunkedd" on okcupid! She was using pictures of a Russian model and I...
    idciloveit idciloveit 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 30

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    I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 5 months.. before we started dating I knew she had a male friend for over 20 years. they would go to the movies go to his house...
    ihavesomeissues ihavesomeissues 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 8

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    you knew i fancied you, your friends also knew. we had been getting along great, but i kinda knew we weren't going to go that way, you vaguely cited religion as a reason even...
    spiralvortex spiralvortex 26-30, F Feb 9

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    Well it's been a while since I have been on...I guess the reasons are...my boyfriend and I broke up...and I also lost my pappy about a week ago
    SexySam93 SexySam93 18-21, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    Things about where I live, my age and what I do, and about my health and my days. I have been asked why am I single.... And, now I have been asked what am I like in bed.... Am I...
    Rovigatti Rovigatti 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am currently the spouse of a cocaine addict. We have been together for 5 years and the addiction has been on and off in those years. We have a beautiful baby boy together and my...
    carriox carriox 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I have been seeing this guy for over a year. we have great chemistry. we laugh and we can talk for hours. but he never compliments me. he says that we are just friends even tho we...
    BruisedLoveSickFool BruisedLoveSickFool 22-25, F Jan 27

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    Again, I have been blocked for no reason. I said Hi, she said Hi Baxk, then blocked me. no reason at all. grrrr
    lion1776 lion1776 41-45, M 4 Responses Jan 29

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    lately i have been starting to realizing so many things about life that just make me feel so dumb.I used to cry and make a big drama out of bad things that happened to me but now i...
    IsmaelAlejandro IsmaelAlejandro 16-17, M 3 Responses Jan 29

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    I have been to many different countries during my life time. When traveling, I love to learn different cultures and languages.
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 30

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    I'm proud to have been blocked by some of the people who have blocked me. They are the types that usually get blocked and thrive for that. I'm talking about the trolls. It feels...
    jayciedubb jayciedubb 46-50, M Feb 7

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    Stupid simply because I questioned what they believed. Abuse, because I have the capacity to use the powers of reason God given. Names and belittling because they have been...
    Rovigatti Rovigatti 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    i never had them before this year. Last year was my 1st year at a new school, but i had no issues. At 1st they were few and far between...i would have one here or there and they...
    KizzieCamille KizzieCamille 16-17, F Feb 10

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    Can everyone please treat each other nicely?! Youngers, elders just everyone, treat them WELL, please. In going to tell you why- Your not born with a personality, it's your life...
    writingforlife6 writingforlife6 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    Ageism has really messed me up. Messed is an understatement and I am really trying not to cuss but I can't think of another word to describe and make you understand HOW BAD AGEISM...
    charlieisme charlieisme 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    It isn't really a huge deal. But I'm Canadian for one. And I have been to the US, Mexico, Cuba, Dominican Republic, Honduras, Costa Rica, Jamaica, Bahamas, Belize, Barbados, Saint...
    thinisgoodana thinisgoodana 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    I have been fat for as long as I can remember I relised In year 2 I did not like it at first year 3 people started telling me Im fat by year 4 I wighed 45kg I did not have much...
    matto432 matto432 13-15 1 Response Feb 13

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