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I Have Been Married 3 Times

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    I am embarrassed and ashamed .

    I also feel pre judged. do you think it is important to divulge my past marriages when dating ?
    yankees1970 yankees1970 46-50, M Apr 17

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    Lost

    My name is robin,i joined this group because im having a very hard time understanding myself.i guess im going thru some kind of depression.i have been married 3 times,the first time was a drunken cheater,the second was no different,actually worse.he was a drug user and beat me...
    Rmmoore Rmmoore 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 12, 2012

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    Married 4 Times and Counting

    My experience with being married four times is that it is usually better not to tell anyone that you have been married more than twice because they automatically assume something is wrong with you. i had one girl say that if she met a guy that had been married more than twice...
    bluebreeze2me bluebreeze2me 41-45 6 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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    I am on my way out of my third marriage.

    My first marriage was because of pregnancy (trying to do the right thing) and we did for 16 years but we knew it was only for the children. We have two amazing sons. Two years after my divorce, my second marriage was due to going through financial struggles and he was willing to...
    Tms8193 Tms8193 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    Married 3 Times And Once Again Alone

    I have been married 3 times with the first marrage lasting 21 years and the last 10 years. I feel like some of the other posters, that my ability to choose a mate is broken. I have currently been alone for a year and am begining to really feel lonely and don't know how to fix...
    missbegotten55 missbegotten55 56-60 2 Responses Jan 12, 2012

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    Married Many Times...

    You guys are mere amateurs, I've been married 6 times.  I call it serial monagamy.  The funny thing is, I wasn't even married to the man I lived with the longest, he and I made it nearly 10 years.  After my last divorce at the age of 55, I finally got it through my...
    victoriaj52 victoriaj52 56-60, F 5 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    I got married when I was 18,

    then again at 21 and again at 24. This is my longest marriage. Six years now and weve had our ups and downs. Been through alot.
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 23, 2014

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    My "Picker" Is Broken

    So, I'm not so sure as to how I feel about where I am in my personal life and how the hell I got here.  I am working on my third divorce, I'm 36, and I have one child from the second marriage. Wife number one was a girl I dated the last semester of my Senior year in High...
    ghensler00 ghensler00 36-40 4 Responses Aug 13, 2009

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    I Feel Like I Have Been Married Six Times

    My first two marriages we're unfulfilling to say the least.  My husbands practiced infidelity as a matter of course.  The relationships were crazy weird as well.  I didn't learn to get to know my boyfriends well before starting a relationship and it backfired on me with a...
    rubyetuesday rubyetuesday 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2012

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    Learned A Lot

    I learned after getting married ( the first time) that my husband was into drugs and eventually became an alcoholic. He was verbally and mentally abusive. After 8 years I found the courage to leave. Second marriage was good but we both made mistakes that we could not fix. He had...
    Deeinflorida Deeinflorida 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2013

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    I married my pregnant girlfriend

    when I was 17. It wasn't a shotgun wedding. I was more than willing to quit high school and join the Air Force. We were married 6 years and had two children. I was a father at age 17. My ex wanted a divorce because she felt she missed out on her youth. I remained single for 16...
    CantGetItRight2 CantGetItRight2 56-60, M 1 Response Feb 7, 2014

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    Life Is Not Easy

    I am currently on my third marriage and trying to fix it. I have made some serious mistakes during this marriage.
    angeleyes17 angeleyes17 41-45 2 Responses Jan 10, 2012

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    Catholic Guilt

    It's amazing but finding a discussion forum for people enduring emotional pain from 3 failed marriages is hard to find on the net. One of the sites  I did find made me feel even worse then I already feel, like I am such an awful person and really I'm the extreme opposite...
    jalynne jalynne 36-40 5 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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    When my wife finally told me for certain it was divorce, I broke down and sobbed, snot coming down, etc. Told her that was it, I wanted to end it. In a few minutes she came back...
    steverick steverick 56-60, M 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am American and live in the Midwest, but I have been lucky enough to travel to England twice. On my second visit I stayed for 3 months! It was amazing and I dream of moving there...
    anhonestgirl anhonestgirl 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. He's 22 and I am 19. I trust him very much and we have a pretty good relationship. However, for the entirety of our...
    katelynkapowski katelynkapowski 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I cannot get over the hurt that my husband caused me over three months ago. I am in therapy and doing all the reading etc. I can, but I cannot seem to let go of what happened and...
    Patilud Patilud 51-55, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My features, characteristics, and mannerisms have been compared to Vivien Leigh, the English Actress who played ''Scarlett'' in ''Gone With the Wind'. I believe the resemblance is...
    Olivia1962 Olivia1962 51-55, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have been to 13 countries and 14th is my country of origin! India!
    kushshah31 kushshah31 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My boyfriend of 4 years lied to me a lot in the past , i can't forget and it still hurts tough it have been almost a year back.. He created dating sites and lied about them,told me...
    Candymett Candymett 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    It's actually pretty funny to think that growing up, everything seemed so normal, I never even considered that every other "normal" kid doesn't grow up like I did. Any how, I...
    TheHippieBitch TheHippieBitch 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have social anxiety, depression, PTSD, agoraphobia, and other extreme health issues that I don't get any assistance for, and I can't afford healthcare, so I have to deal with...
    LyraAlluse LyraAlluse 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    For some time now, my husband has been playing me as a fool by cheating on me. He has been finally caught when I hired a PI. I received his thorough investigative report three...
    femalemusiclover femalemusiclover 46-50, F 8 Responses Jun 27

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    so yeah i have been in a super abusive relationship. more than once where i was raped 17 times, ive been hit so many times that i can't even count them and i have been kidnapped...
    Romitri657 Romitri657 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    Lately I've been having these really bad headaches that hurt so bad that even my eyeballs hurt. I don't know if they are migraines or what they are but what I do know for sure is...
    marlene41298 marlene41298 16-17, F Jun 25

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    I always get cues to guide me out of harms way. I have been blessed.
    Treasure7 Treasure7 41-45, F Jun 25

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    I have been verbally and mentally abused by my mom and dad, never really anything psychical, I mean.. I've been hit before, but nothing extreme. My mom is better about it, but my...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 25

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    YES after years of mental and emotional struggles I have been pinpointed with ASD :( Anyone else have ASD and want to talk about it??????
    mpslickrocks mpslickrocks 51-55 2 Responses Jun 25

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    Sorry to those who have been waiting to hear from me. I have been so busy that i havent had time for much else. I almost forgot my account on here so forgive me for not replying to...
    bluetoesonly bluetoesonly 22-25, F Jun 25

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    I have been in a relationship with my partner for 6 years, we were engaged for 2 but I ended that due to his drug/anger issues. We have a 4 year old son together. This week his...
    danimm danimm 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Storywriting Must Have Paid Off - So after pretty much weeks of Russell Brand related nightmares, I finally get myself some good dreams about people I like. So recently in...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M Jun 24

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    I have been to America on several occasions. I love the American lifestyle very much.
    canadiannative canadiannative 51-55, F 7 Responses Jun 24

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    I have been told more times then I can count that I look like Meryl Streep.
    czywidow7217 czywidow7217 51-55, F Jun 23

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    I have been told quite often that I look like Alec Baldwin.
    RichardsonC RichardsonC 56-60, T Jun 23

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    I have been told I look like Rick Moranis.
    jjimmy61 jjimmy61 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    I have been seen naked many times! Hope u like the pic
    Crdrinker Crdrinker 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    I have been used for sex. I was stupid and still in love with my ex, so I just wanted to do whatever I could to make him happy. I finally had to let go, and although it hurts, I...
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