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I Have Been Married 3 Times

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    Married Many Times...

    You guys are mere amateurs, I've been married 6 times.  I call it serial monagamy.  The funny thing is, I wasn't even married to the man I lived with the longest, he and I made it nearly 10 years.  After my last divorce at the age of 55, I finally got it through my...
    victoriaj52 victoriaj52 56-60, F 5 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    Catholic Guilt

    It's amazing but finding a discussion forum for people enduring emotional pain from 3 failed marriages is hard to find on the net. One of the sites  I did find made me feel even worse then I already feel, like I am such an awful person and really I'm the extreme opposite...
    jalynne jalynne 36-40 5 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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    Learned A Lot

    I learned after getting married ( the first time) that my husband was into drugs and eventually became an alcoholic. He was verbally and mentally abusive. After 8 years I found the courage to leave. Second marriage was good but we both made mistakes that we could not fix. He had...
    Deeinflorida Deeinflorida 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2013

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    My "Picker" Is Broken

    So, I'm not so sure as to how I feel about where I am in my personal life and how the hell I got here.  I am working on my third divorce, I'm 36, and I have one child from the second marriage. Wife number one was a girl I dated the last semester of my Senior year in High...
    ghensler00 ghensler00 36-40 4 Responses Aug 13, 2009

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    Lost

    My name is robin,i joined this group because im having a very hard time understanding myself.i guess im going thru some kind of depression.i have been married 3 times,the first time was a drunken cheater,the second was no different,actually worse.he was a drug user and beat me...
    Rmmoore Rmmoore 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 12, 2012

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    Married 3 Times And Once Again Alone

    I have been married 3 times with the first marrage lasting 21 years and the last 10 years. I feel like some of the other posters, that my ability to choose a mate is broken. I have currently been alone for a year and am begining to really feel lonely and don't know how to fix...
    missbegotten55 missbegotten55 56-60 2 Responses Jan 12, 2012

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    I married my pregnant girlfriend

    when I was 17. It wasn't a shotgun wedding. I was more than willing to quit high school and join the Air Force. We were married 6 years and had two children. I was a father at age 17. My ex wanted a divorce because she felt she missed out on her youth. I remained single for 16...
    CantGetItRight2 CantGetItRight2 56-60, M 1 Response Feb 7

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    I got married when I was 18,

    then again at 21 and again at 24. This is my longest marriage. Six years now and weve had our ups and downs. Been through alot.
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    I am on my way out of my third marriage.

    My first marriage was because of pregnancy (trying to do the right thing) and we did for 16 years but we knew it was only for the children. We have two amazing sons. Two years after my divorce, my second marriage was due to going through financial struggles and he was willing to...
    Tms8193 Tms8193 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2013

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    Married 4 Times and Counting

    My experience with being married four times is that it is usually better not to tell anyone that you have been married more than twice because they automatically assume something is wrong with you. i had one girl say that if she met a guy that had been married more than twice...
    bluebreeze2me bluebreeze2me 41-45 6 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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    I Feel Like I Have Been Married Six Times

    My first two marriages we're unfulfilling to say the least.  My husbands practiced infidelity as a matter of course.  The relationships were crazy weird as well.  I didn't learn to get to know my boyfriends well before starting a relationship and it backfired on me with a...
    rubyetuesday rubyetuesday 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2012

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    Life Is Not Easy

    I am currently on my third marriage and trying to fix it. I have made some serious mistakes during this marriage.
    angeleyes17 angeleyes17 41-45 2 Responses Jan 10, 2012

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    sometimes I wonder if there's something wrong with me or if I'm just flat out choosing partners that are not going to make it to that point. I'm going to be 34 on next Sunday, and...
    FoxyNC FoxyNC 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 25

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    I am contemplating divorcing my husband. The problem is that this will be my third divorce and I am only 43. I made some bad decisions in my twenties based on growing up in an...
    strikes3 strikes3 41-45, F 14 hrs ago

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    Again, excuse the awkward wordings to get around the censors, but it won't let me post this story without them. I was in one for six days in February, and then they forced me to...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 7

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    my husband and i have been best friends for 20 years, in a relationship for 4 yrs and married for 1. I found out he was cheating on me just before we got married and was sending...
    mumofj mumofj 26-30, F 15 Responses 1 day ago

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    First, I know it's long, but please I need someone to help me. Any advice. Reading these stories bring tears to my eyes. I have been cheated on 3 times by the same guy. He lied...
    ArisDiCicco ArisDiCicco 18-21, F 3 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    my mom's husband (they've been married about a year and a half now) doesn't like me. I always get.plamed for stuff I didn't do. and it.allways makes me feel really bad. I would...
    EFairy EFairy 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    I'm proud to say that I have been out of the hospital for a month now. Ya I've thought about going back just because it was a safe place that I needed again but I've made it...
    sadly203 sadly203 18-21 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It's been a difficult year. There have been some low lows and I'm wondering when the highs are coming back. I've applied to 50 jobs as of February. I've been interviewed 10 times...
    msrani msrani 31-35, F Dec 5

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    I don't know how many times I have been in the hospital, but I have been through 26 brain surgeries, 2 seizures and a grand-mal seizure. I got kicked in the head by a colt (or...
    deademotion11 deademotion11 22-25, M Nov 19

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    I've been told I have a good voice. Sexy seductive and also calm and soothing. Have been asked many times to tell someone a bed time story or to just talk till they fall asleep or...
    Cloudwolf1313 Cloudwolf1313 26-30, M a week ago

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    I guess it's happened a couple times. The most recent: I work with the football team at my university. I'm pretty close with one of the coaches. He's not that much older than me...
    MyUnspokenWord MyUnspokenWord 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    It is just so unfair, but I know that the hereafter has better in store. I cannot help but cry and hurt so much. I feel so suicidal. I really have been through so much. From birth...
    SadAbdul SadAbdul 26-30, M Nov 23

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    I have been there quite a lot of times usually on my way to the Airport from somewhere else. before 9/11 there was a convenient left luggage at Grand Central where I could leave...
    Wulfstan Wulfstan 70+, M Nov 26

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    I'll be honest. I've been 3 times, all in 2012. Neither me or any of the other girls there were actually "crazy", we were all just in really bad situations and had reached our...
    classAteam classAteam 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    I have been taken the cog elevator to the top of the Gateway Expansion Memorial Arch in St. Louis a few times in my life. I have also gotten stuck in the elevator for over 45...
    ColumbiaTiger ColumbiaTiger 41-45, M 6 days ago

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    I have been told multiple times I look like Tom Hiddleston
    Guyyyyyyyy Guyyyyyyyy 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    Have any of your stories on EP ever been plagiarized? It’s happened to me, believe it or not. In my case, it was one of my earliest stories, which I deleted from my account a...
    Rutterman Rutterman 36-40, M 8 Responses Nov 20

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    Being stalked well was one of the weirdest and f**ked up time of my life, Recently Graduated tertiary studies and was about to join my dream career, So anyway at the start of 2013...
    Arizv11 Arizv11 22-25, M Nov 24

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    Once again I find myself as an inpatient at a psych ward. I have been under a lot of stress the last two weeks as there are projects to finish and exams coming up soon. I had been...
    lisa7 lisa7 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    I have been dressing from time to time since I was 7. However, the last three years it has been most if the time. About three years ago I started wearing panties, pantyhose, and a...
    Adam59 Adam59 56-60, M 4 Responses Dec 1

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    Yeah I have been in hell. I have had my life taken away from me and sent into hell for 3 yrs and it took 5 yrs after just to cope. Dehumanized, captive, mentally tortured...
    mslvr01 mslvr01 46-50, M 3 Responses Nov 28

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    I don't know where to begin. Do u remember the first time we talked? I do. It was back at eminence in late 2013. Economics classes. It's like some twisted law of fate, I think I'm...
    Tearsinmycheek Tearsinmycheek 16-17, F Nov 29

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    It was just the once for me. It was a charity event in a pub I worked in about 20 years ago - I would have been 24 or 25 at the time. I think it must have been Children in Need. It...
    Sarah667 Sarah667 46-50, F Dec 1

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    I have been feeling alone a lot lately. All my husband seems to be interested in is his video games and when we are intimate, right after, he just gets up, cleans up, and goes...
    Mystery08 Mystery08 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    I am almost 40 years old and have been dealing with horrible headaches for 16 years now. I have tried all kinds of doctors, treatments, medications, even various surgeries...
    JunieMarie JunieMarie 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    Not much to say other than I recently just got cheated on, and I really don't know what to do with myself or the questions I have that no one can really answer. Wrapping my head...
    Panoramicdemon Panoramicdemon 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Its sort of deep, and quite raspy. My female friends in college all used to joke around, that I should have been an... operator of sorts.. (trying to keep this thing PG-13...
    BrianTheChef BrianTheChef 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 18

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    Last year I was in a psych ward because I became obsessed with suicide and my friend started to become suspicious once I tried to give her my laptop. I had a plan, and the day I...
    MerDerLoves MerDerLoves 22-25, F Nov 19

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    I have been rejected for having talent in me and this dated back 12 years ago, im a good man and i know doing what i do best is the key to happiness. dont let anyone put you back...
    obiczer obiczer 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 20

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    It is so tough to change or heal. When for my entire adult life, I have been in bad relationships. I have no more relationships( boyfriends) the past 2 years but I still get...
    Howtobeme Howtobeme 51-55, F Nov 21

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    After he raped me, he stalked me for 2 days. I didn't tell anybody for years. I was so scared. But I changed my number. I'm just glad he didn't know where I lived because it...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 22

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    but I'm no one now and worse, it gets rubbed into me every single day. At least if I had tried at 18 I would have been employed.
    Yleng Yleng 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    I have been to Mexico, costa rica, Bahamas, and Germany
    devilray71 devilray71 18-21, M Nov 23

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    I have been to NZ, Hong Kong, China, Germany, Italy, France, Dubai, Russia, Denmark, Sweden, Fiji, Canary Islands, England, Thailand, Estonia, Australia, Ireland, Austria...
    VelvetBoat VelvetBoat 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 24

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    I'm sorry, but I have to make this quick. Later, perhaps I shall add more. I have been in a loving relationship of two years. However, it all went downhill. I am writing to you a...
    AFool422 AFool422 16-17 1 Response Nov 25