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I Have Been Molested By a Family Member

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 181 People

    My Grandma Died And My Grandfather Was Crushed.

    When I was 3, my grandma on my dad's side died. Obviously, I was only three, so I was sad but I didn't know exactly what was going on. After that, my grandfather went into a "dark place". He would molest my sister and I and expose himself to us. My mom caught him eventually and...
    BlueRea BlueRea
    18-21, F
    Jun 7, 2012

    My Uncle Molested Me, And I'm So Angry I Could Tell The World

    My uncle molested me when I worked for him one summer. I had recently gone through some other sexual trauma, and when this happened something inside of me snapped. Instead of fighting it, I allowed it to continue because I believed that I was truly worthless. What began as...
    aquaticpickle aquaticpickle
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Aug 5, 2013

    It Was So Long Ago...

    I have always known something went wrong with me as a kid, I just didn't know what. I had suspicions, inklings, gaps in my memory that just couldn't be filled. Then six months ago, more than 26 years later, I started having dreams. I knew when I woke up from the first one what...
    Huggyface Huggyface
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 10, 2011

    My Cousin Did It, And I Don't Have A Problem With It.

    When I was 8 to 10 years old, my parents sent me down to my Aunts and Grandparents in VA every summer while my parents were going through their divorce. One of my cousins just turned 13 when it started to 15. He would wake up around 2 am and wonder if I was awake. He wanted to...
    Perfxion Perfxion
    26-30, M
    Jul 21, 2012

    Done By An Uncle For So Long, Confused If I Let It Happened

    A very close uncle often visits ever since I can remember. It was by the time when im in grade 4 (10-11)when he started touching me. It would start off by him telling me bed time stories. Since he and my mom are close, he usually sleeps with me. In the beginning, it was just a...
    lonewolf323 lonewolf323
    26-30, F
    Sep 1, 2013

    How Do You Break Down The Wall?

    There are a lot of sickos out there. I am relieved to a point that my abuser is rotting in HELL but many years later, I still suffer. It affects my marriage and my personal self. I have sexual hangups that I myself believe to be stupid but can't seem to get over. Really, how...
    beachbytch beachbytch
    1 Response May 18, 2011

    Deep Breath

    He is not worth the energy to type this, Ive said this before, i cant change what happened, I can only change the way I think about it, there is now more oxygen on this planet to breathe Que Sera Sera via Karma
    SilverShells SilverShells
    46-50, F
    Nov 28, 2010

    Yes An Uncle

    yes when 13 yrs old  staying at an uncles place, i woke and  found him naked  in my bed playing with my penis, and made me touch him and rub him,  this happened a few times over the week we stayed with him, and he would walk around naked in the house and told...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Oct 24, 2010

    Still Haunts Me To This Day

    It started when I was only 4. I remember us staying in a motel in Lousiana while my uncle, his wife, and my mom went to truck driving school. Me and my little brother would rotate from each room every other night because my mom couldn't handle my brother and me at the same time...
    singlemom85 singlemom85
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 7, 2011

    In Bed With My Father

    The very first time he came into my bed i felt a hand move through my clothes. i was 11 then, in class 5 and therefore very aware that whatever was about to happen was far from right. there was no need for him to whisper coz mama had blacked out on the bed in her room. so here he...
    nimimi nimimi
    Dec 2, 2012

    Is There A Title For This Story?

    I am new to this....   I am a victim and survivor of childhood molestation. I was molested by my uncle for 4 1/2 years. He took my virginity, childhood, trust, love, etc. I struggle with what he did to me and the aftermath of his actions every day. I try and take the bad and...
    AnnaRaye AnnaRaye
    26-30, F
    Jun 14, 2011

    My Step Brother Who Betrayed Me

    It started when I was about 9 my mom married and moved in my step brother he first exposed his private to me. As time went on it progressively got worse inappropriate talk then full blown sexual acts, he would come in my toom while I was sleeping and fondled me, kissed me. He...
    raregemini raregemini
    26-30, F
    Sep 3, 2013

    This Has Got To Stop Somewhere

    im a 24 yr old mother of 3 boys i recently learned some news that hurt me down to my soul i cant stop crying or thinking about it my 7yr old son told his aunt that my brother molested him yesterday and it happened 3yrs ago he said my brother pulled down his pants an played with...
    tashamac tashamac
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 6, 2011

    I was molested by my grandpa.

    Multiple times throughout ny childhood, this man ******** me of my innocence. What's worse is that my older cousin had the same experience with him too, but she stayed silent and essentially let it happen to me. I only told a couple of really close friends, and recently told my...
    LonelySoulGirl LonelySoulGirl
    22-25, F
    Nov 26, 2014

    When I Was 9

    By one of my brothers. Me, 2 of my sisters, and 1 brother were playin truth or dare. And they dared my brother to have sex with me. I didnt want to do it, tried to leave when they dared it, but they said no, its a dare, you HAVE TO do it. We went and laid on the floor...
    PeaceLovinIndividual PeaceLovinIndividual
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 30, 2010

    Where Do I Get The Strength To Remember?????

    To start off I'm 37 yrs old I finally found my soul mate 8 yrs ago and now we are married. He is in a lot of pain because of things that happened to me as a child by my father and by my way of not hurting was to block and not remember everything my dad did to me . It started off...
    Tarnishedhalo34 Tarnishedhalo34
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Oct 11, 2010

    Old Enough To Want To Foreget.

    I am just old enough that I wish the night mares would end.  My brother molested me from age 5-13 hence the dreams that keep popping into my head;  the only dreams I have; that I can recollect I don't want to.  Need help to speak to parents who never believed me...
    symalo symalo
    Oct 19, 2010

    It Was By My Great Uncle.

    It happened when I was 15. My family and I went on a vacation to see some cool stuff. On our way back we decided to go see my Great Uncle. Well we spend the night at his house and we were gonna leave the next day despite the fact that he was wanting to go fishing/camping. Well we...
    ChessMonkey ChessMonkey
    18-21, M
    Nov 24, 2012

    I Was Molested By My Best Friends Brother

    I was about 6 maybe 5. I was at my best friends house. My parents always dropped me off so that they could work nights. My best friend and I would always sneak into his brothers room. Once, my best friend had to go to the emergency room because his ***** was bleeding, and his...
    ward2222 ward2222
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 31, 2011

    2 Cousins And 1 Best Friend

    At the age of three, i was being babysat by my cousin(girl, age 13). she took me into the bathroom and did things to me that no one else should with my little sister in the other room.Every time she babysat me, she did the most awful sexual things ever. she told me it was a...
    pattycake11 pattycake11
    Apr 17, 2013

    I Liked Sex With My Uncle

    It started one night in the tent camping when I was 11. We were wrestling wearing only underwear. He ended up on top of me and started humping my butt..I was giggling and writhing under him with my **** pencil hard, which his fingers had discovered. We kept going until he groaned...
    lovewhenithurts lovewhenithurts
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Jan 13, 2013

    My Uncle

    From when I was 8 until I was 13. He was also my pimp.
    deleted deleted
    Apr 19, 2011

    What Happened To Me ...

    When I was 5, maybe 6 years old I remember telling my mom that paw paw (paternal grandfather) was "bad".  I can recall that she dismissed my complaint and it hurt so bad she did not believe me.  He was bad.  I knew it then and as I grew older I realized there were others like...
    dallaslynn dallaslynn
    51-55, F
    1 Response Feb 18, 2011

    Me Too

    This weekend I found out my cousin was molested growing up. She is filing charges and keeping her attacker from doing it again. I on the other hand can't do it because while I don't blame myself I do feel like in some ways I was complacent in the attacks. Mine went much further...
    shan03 shan03
    Mar 23, 2011

    I Was 25 When My Uncle Touched My Left Breast

    It was in Eid 2010, an afternoon, I could not remember the exact date. But I was 25 at that time. We were at his house for eid, and I was putting a used plate in his kitchen sink, washing my hands after that. When I was rushing to leave after washing my hands, he was right behind...
    taintedingenue taintedingenue
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 26, 2012

    My Uncle Molested Me As a 6 Yr Old Boy...

    It continued well into my teens.  He sodomized me around 11 or 12.  I still wish it had never happened to me.   I am very confused even as an adult.  Even in my molestation, I craved the attention and wanted to experiment with other boys and even had crushes...
    flynnonlyson flynnonlyson
    21 Responses Aug 6, 2009

    Im O.k With It

    I was molested by legal deffinition as a child from age 9 until around age 12,but I dont really have any bad feelings from it. My brother and I moved in with my uncle when I was 9 yrs old and we lived with him until I was 12. I can remeber that he wasnt much on wareing under...
    brenda241 brenda241
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Mar 31, 2010

    My Uncle

    My mom's brother would live with us off-and-on when he lost a job or was hiding from someone he owed money to. I had no father and he'd talk nice to me and give me backrubs, so I was willing to let him do things. He knew how to get me going, too. I'm sure I wasn't the only one...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 23, 2010

    I don't know what has brought this **** memory

    up but yes I was molested by a family member, all i can say as 8 year old child no kid should go through this, I lost a lot of self esteem, till this day I am not comfortable around men even my own father, Now If you are a person being sexually exploited please reach out and...
    Arizv11 Arizv11
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 12, 2014

    21 Years Of Holding It In...

    I was molested by my uncle starting at age 9 with a kiss.  A kiss that was supposed to be a lil peck until I felt his tongue touch my lips.  Then throughout my childhood and teen years, he molested me and told me if I told anyone that it would tear apart our family...
    RobinTx RobinTx
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 8, 2010

    Molested By My Grandfather

    I must have been 4 or 5. I remember that I was going to school half days. Both of my parents worked, so my grandparents would come get me and watch me until one of my parents picked me up. Anyway, the first time it happened my grandfather had me sit on his lap, while the tv was...
    ochicabebeo ochicabebeo
    5 Responses Apr 20, 2011

    In Bed With My Father

    The very first time he came into my bed i felt a hand move through my clothes. i was 11 then, in class 5 and therefore very aware that whatever was about to happen was far from right. there was no need for him to whisper coz mama had blacked out on the bed in her room. so here he...
    nimimi nimimi
    Dec 2, 2012


    When I was around 4 or 5 my sister who is 9 years older than me started molesting me until I was about 9 or 10.My mother didn't find out until I was 16 and she acted as if she cared but when it came down to confronting my sister about what she did my mother told me that my...
    Prettygirl13 Prettygirl13
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Dec 18, 2010

    I was sexualy abused by my mother

    when i was a child we had oral n rectal sex it was very intence n special and yet i loved n enjoyed what we did n how we did it, theres more but i will chat on this privately
    howard1945 howard1945
    56-60, M
    4 Responses Dec 12, 2014

    Molested By My Brother

    I was molested by my brother when I was a child.  It is the first thing I remember and it had to go on for ten years I think.  Finally my mother found out somehow, but never moved him out of the house.  The only reason he stopped is because I would fight him. ...
    2angryforwords 2angryforwords
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2010

    I'm So Screwed Up

    I was molested by both male and female family members as well as males who were not family members between the age of 4 and 10. I have to say that I never felt like I had been molested, rather that I had seduced them. I felt unloved and not paid attention to, as one of 5...
    tim51 tim51
    61-65, M
    4 Responses Mar 29, 2010
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