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I Have Been Reunited With My First Love

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    Fear Factors

    I recently reconnected with a man I've been in love with for over 32.5 years on FB.  We've both been married for 20 years.  We spent the last three months talking, texting and we finally got to see each other again for the first time in 23 years a few weeks ago.  I found that...
    RRLS1020 RRLS1020 46-50 5 Responses May 7, 2011

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    I Want To Be Reunited With My First Love

    My story began in 1982 in high school, when I met my first love. We were everything to eachother. Only the two of us existed for eachother. When we finished school, we were forced to go our seperate ways. It was like a knife in my heart. Now and then he came to visit me. I...
    AnjaBB AnjaBB 41-45 Apr 19, 2012

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    Unbelievable!

    I have recently been reunited with my first love! We have not seen each other in 35 years. Have not been a couple in 40!  We broke up because we were young and foolish. We were passionately in love then. Stupid reasons for break-up. Just young and dumb we say. Anyway, i moved...
    dale3952 dale3952 56-60 4 Responses Jun 30, 2011

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    Found My First Love And He's Married!

    Ok, I went out with firstlove for 5 years we were a force of nature then and I knew he loved me dearly, as I loved him, but we were too young and we drifted apart, studying in different colleges in different states. Fast forward 5 years and I get married and firstlove is...
    jotrac jotrac 41-45 4 Responses Nov 12, 2011

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    Married, But Forbidden Love Of 27 Years Back Again....so In Love With Forbidden Love

    about 2 months ago i got a phone call...I don't know if this is the right number but this is Daniel. I immediately knew who it was. it was a forbidden love 25 yrs ago. he was 18 i was 29. i was married, but we were in love. my husband found out and we moved immediately and daniel...
    mywishalso mywishalso 56-60 3 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    I met my first love when we worked together.

    I was 18 and he was 16. We had an on and off relationship for about 5 years. It was hot and heavy...even tho we were young and still learning...the sex was amazing! I ended things finally because I realized h wasn't going to want to settle down anytime soon! I was ready to...
    MyCrazyLife63 MyCrazyLife63 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Tangled Webs

    At last I found him! Or so it appears to me. I knew him when I was 13 and he saved me from my broken heart over and over again. I was young, naieve and in love with his cousin. I loved him more than life at that time and all he did was break my heart every day. His name: Rick. He...
    ylove ylove 26-30, F Jul 26, 2012

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    My Lost Love From My Teens...

    I met him on a bus on the way home from the mall when I was 13. He was charming, confident and kind. He asked me to go with him to a popular teen hang out that weekend. My dad surprisingly gave permission to go out with him. We dated throughout the whole summer and into my...
    saxavian saxavian 31-35 2 Responses Dec 5, 2011

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    We Both Divorced Our Spouses For Each Other.

    I joined facebook and the first person I looked for was my first love from high school. I "friended" him and a few hours later he accepted. We emailed back and forth for a couple day and then a few days later agreed to meet in a Sam's Club parking lot to see each other. I got...
    livinglodge livinglodge 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 17, 2011

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    30 Years Later ...... He Still Rocks My Boat :)

    Well wonders never cease. Who knew that when my very FIRST boyfriend and I parted ways it would be for thirty years (almost to the day) when we would start dating again. Through the help of facebook my beau located me about two years ago and it was wonderful just to know...
    AlwaysRemembers AlwaysRemembers 41-45, F 16 Responses Jun 26, 2008

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    It Has Been 6 Years Since I Last Saw Her But 3 Since We Last Spoke.

    As I walked out of the mall yesterday, there she was with her mom and sister. After a took break up in 2005 and then making up in 2008 (through e-mail). It had been more than 5 long years that I had seen her. She was still beautiful with those hazel eyes i fell in love with back...
    IamKing IamKing 22-25 2 Responses Sep 27, 2011

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    She Didn't Forget

    I woke up on the morning of my Birthday last week wondering if I was going to Hear from Her..It had been a little while since we had spoken...As the day progressed I received numerous well wishes from friends and Family... And then Yes A e- mail from my first love...Something...
    ccarnut97 ccarnut97 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 19, 2012

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    I Want To Be Reunited With My First Love

    My story began in 1982 in high school, when I met my first love. We were everything to eachother. Only the two of us existed for eachother. When we finished school, we were forced to go our seperate ways. It was like a knife in my heart. Now and then he came to visit me. I...
    AnjaBB AnjaBB 41-45 1 Response Apr 19, 2012

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    Reunited After 43 Yrs.

    I too have been reunited with my first love after 43 yrs. and can say I have never been happier.  We both think it was fate just by the turn of events. He has been divorced for the last 3 yrs. and my divorce will be final in a  week.  I never forgot my first love...
    paz1 paz1 56-60 16 Responses Aug 14, 2009

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    Reunited After 20 Years And It's All Still There !!!!

    My first love contacted me on facebook during the summer, my heart pounded when I saw his name and photo. Initially I didn't contact him, scared of opening up old wounds and I'm also in a relationship with 2 children. Eventually curiousity got the better of me and I replied...
    lovepup lovepup 36-40, F 13 Responses Oct 14, 2010

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    I first met Brad when I was 11 & he was 13.

    His family came to vacation during 4th of July at the beach where I lived. After several summers & hundreds of letters (way before the internet) later, I lost my virginity to him. For many years I thought of him on & off & actually made not-so-nice comments about my sexual...
    mermaid27 mermaid27 36-40 1 Response Apr 3

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    Be Careful What You Wish For

    I, like many of the other people posting, have been reunited with my first love. We lived one street away from each other and became boyfriend/girlfriend almost immediately. We were both 13. We were together on and off all through jr high and hi school. We even got engaged...
    sjohnke sjohnke 46-50 5 Responses Jan 16, 2013

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    Avoided Being Rear Ended

    I was on the freeway off ramp with my 2 kids, both babies. One in my tummy, the other in a car seat. It was late so we were stuck in traffic. I also have a really bad cold so I think I was spaced out. Next thing I know something tells me to look up, I look up at the rear view...
    wouldbe wouldbe 31-35, F Oct 8, 2012

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    The Grass Has Never Been Greener!

    I met a boy that became my first love at the age of 13.. It was the summer before Freshman Year.. 1983. We were best friends and loved being with each other. We were each others "Firsts" and our love for each other grew over the years. We broke up in Junior year- I got "bored...
    masquerades222 masquerades222 41-45 2 Responses Dec 9, 2011

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    Finally

    He and I dated from ages 6-13 and then I made a horrible mistake and broke his heart, with the help from my "friend" who ended up dating him. I have thought about him everyday since then. Then three months ago I friended him on facebook. He accepted and after we spent 3 1/2 hours...
    1 Response Jan 14, 2013

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    Should I....or Shouldn't I.....?????

    After 20 some years I reconnected with my first love....After getting over the shock of hearing from me she slowly opened up and shared her feelings for me...and I shared how I had never stopped loving her..We quickly realized we had been feeling all the same things about each...
    ccarnut97 ccarnut97 41-45, M 7 Responses Oct 27, 2011

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    Our 65 Impala Falling In Love.

    I found my first love this past Sept. Then we started to chat then I just could not believe I was actually talking with him after 28yrs of been separate. He wanted to get together and I just thought that I have gained some weight from my twins and feeling a little insecure so I...
    dreamergirl1971 dreamergirl1971 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 16, 2013

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    Losing You And Becoming An Atheist.

    It was a long time ago. 3 years now. I said goodbye and kissed you goodnight at the tram stop and was walking back home, wondering what would happen, how will things turn out, why did it have to be like that? I was hurrying as it was getting cold when I hit someone who was...
    neii19 neii19 18-21, M Jun 10, 2013

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    Mine

    scott was my first real boyfriend and I was his first real girl. One blissful year of highschool love struck teens. One New Years eve my best friend convinced me i should not be with him(this was at a girls sleepover in the 80's with booze and other mind altering substances) and...
    shelaina shelaina 36-40, F Jan 24, 2010

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    Reunited And It Feels So Goood :)

    Well, my first love and I had an instant connection when we first met at only 16 years old. I remember exactly how I felt, how he looked, everything from that first moment that we spoke almost ten years ago. He and I fell in love over a few months and had a strong relationship...
    happycamper2012 happycamper2012 26-30 Sep 20, 2012

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    Summer Of 82

    I was 14, he was 15. Lots of first's, but no full intimacy back then. What a wonderful summer of 1982. Man did I love him, and I guess he loved me more than I could ever know, until 29 years later. When he got his drivers license, it gave him a new freedom and I was but a little...
    Heatofthemoment Heatofthemoment 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 24, 2012

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    Opened The Door To Unexpected Heartache With A Failed Reunion

    Made contact with my high school boyfriend after 25 years. I'm married with children; he's not. We talked about the past, and being together again. The conversations were very sexual in nature at his instigation. It seemed like a future together could be possible. Now he's...
    FeelsLikeImLosIng FeelsLikeImLosIng 41-45, F 6 Responses May 31, 2012

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    Reunited W/1st Love

    Well, my story started back the summer when I was only 12 , and he 13. We connected instantly. At that time, I was being sexually abused by a close relative and my love ran away with me ; he was trying to save me , of course we were only kids so we were found in 38 hours . Well...
    Cheyennepaige Cheyennepaige 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2012

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    First Love Never Dies

    I met my first love when I was 14. No one to this day has ever made me feel like he does. He has been in my life in waves through children , changes, even death of loved ones. He got married three times since we began, and 1 time he did ask me to marry him but I couldnt. Either...
    LadyTred LadyTred 41-45 Nov 4, 2013

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    Not Just A Teenage Love Anymore...this Is Real!

    I posted this story as a reply to another member's story but wanted to post it here so that I can get some additional input. I have to say that I am really grateful to those of you who have posted your stories before and who have had positive outcomes. You typically only hear...
    bethkins24 bethkins24 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 19, 2012

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    5th Times The Charm???

    So, I met my first REAL love when I was 13 and he was 14. We met at a church youth group on a Wednesday night. I went to the school that was at the church, but he did not. I started noticing him a few weeks before we actually "met." When we finally "met", I was sitting in one of...
    lfleet86 lfleet86 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2012

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    I was married in 2004

    and he left in 2011. I always believed that when I got married, I would stay married until "death do us part", divorce was not an option and though I had some doubts and we had bumps from the very beginning, we had such a connection, I thought it was forever... He dated right...
    Danztchr Danztchr 31-35 1 Response Feb 14

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    Contacted My First Love After 20 Years

    I knew this boy in 5th grade and it was like love at first sight the moment he walked in the class room. He came to my school from another school in the middle of a class session. As soon as he was shown his seat, our eyes met and I think after that moment on, we couldn't but...
    lovemetender2 lovemetender2 41-45, F Jan 20, 2011

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    Reunited With My First Love

    I just reunited with my first love on Facebook, It's been like 19 years that since we last time we saw each other. He requested me on Facebook and I was shocked to see his name. I did accept his friendship. And we talk everyday, he say he has thought bout me all the time, and I...
    ptedddy ptedddy 41-45, F 3 Responses May 28, 2013

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    20 Years And 2 Failed Marriages Later

    The first woman I ever loved got my number from Facebook and sent me a text a week ago. We haven't seen each other in nearly 20 years. We brokeeach others hearts along time ago simply because we were young and dumb and didn't understand what we were getting into. Now here we are...
    dragontattoooguy dragontattoooguy 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    Love, Lost Love & Happiness

    I am 45 and have been married for almost 20 years. We have 3 daughters. I "love" my husband but am not "in love" with him. He is very verbally abusive to me and the family. He is now trying to do better because I told him that I...
    bebemily bebemily 41-45 7 Responses May 6, 2009

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    Temporary Hold

    Back on 1992 I dated a boy named Tyrone. He 16 years old I 16 going on 17. We met at Denison Job Corp. We were quite the couple. He did his thing with his friends I did mine. We never smothered eachother,but when wanted to spend time with eachother NOONE could tear us apart. We...
    smiles2em4 smiles2em4 36-40 Nov 12, 2012

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    I Have Been Reunited With My First Love An I Believe Its Destiny

    hE WAS MY FIRST LOVE AT 15 YEARS OLD, WE WERE SO IN LOVE AN WE WERE SEPERATED BY PARENTS, 20 YEARS LATER WE REUNITE AN ITS AS IF WE NEVER SKIPPED A BEAT, WE ARE TOGETHER AS OF 10/10/2010 AN HE LOVES ME AS MUCH AS I LOVE HIM, ITS SO WILD, WHO WOULD HAVE EVER THOUGHT THAT WE WOULD...
    ANGELFIRE2274 ANGELFIRE2274 36-40 5 Responses Dec 28, 2010

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    After 22 Years..i Got To Look Into Her Eyes Again

    It's been a couple weeks now since my first love and I spent a afternoon together...I have to say I truly sleep better at night now knowing she had a nice life with a great Family...Sure sitting there with her it was hard to deal with the fact that she was not " mine" anymore...
    ccarnut97 ccarnut97 41-45, M May 15, 2012

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    Friends In College

    He and I both attended the same private college in Tennessee.  I used to be the social butterfly and would organize little outings for all who were interested.  Picnics, hiking, camping, you name it.  My friend was part of that network of friends.  I remember he was always...
    floridaladybug floridaladybug 41-45 Mar 21, 2011

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    Unforgettable Moment

    The day J-mar and I were accidentally met in the place of full of strangers, while I was reading the book of “Bakit hindi ka crush ng crush mo?” and waiting for the next jeep. Exactly he came to my side and he called my name while smiled at me. His eyes has full of hope...
    Sharot27 Sharot27 18-21, F Sep 2, 2013

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    I Still Love Him

    I recently reconnected with my first love on Facebook,I guess we had both  tried to find each other throughout the years but nothing came of it until now.... I'm single, he is with someone but not married and they have a beautiful son together, a part of me out of respect for...
    Annalee888 Annalee888 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 27, 2011

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    I recently read that a first love leaves an

    imprint in our brain such as when the baby imprints on a mother. With this being said, is that why the pull of first love is too much for many of us? My first love was 20, I was 16. We lived in an unusual place. I often wonder if one of the reasons it was so wonderful was...
    Confusedsoul73 Confusedsoul73 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    16 Years Apart And Still In Love

    I was 15 years old and he was 17, we were together for four and a half years. During our time together even though he was older, he never pressured me for sex, it was a genuine loving relationship. There was a lot of heavy petting, making out, and some oral stuff but we both...
    Yumsweetcandy34 Yumsweetcandy34 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 1, 2012

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    Sparks That Never Left

    23 years ago I fell in love with a boy that was simply not ready to settle down. He left for the military and told me he wasn't coming back ... To me that is . I quickly married a boy I was only 16 but I felt I needed to prove I was worth being loved and could love someone back...
    westendpark westendpark 36-40, F 12 Responses Sep 5, 2013

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