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I Have Been Sexually Harassed

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    It all started with this guy. Everyone warned me about him but I like to see the best in everyone and I don't trust rumors. None of the people I had talked to had any of this...
    yourguardianangel9613 yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    But Why? - At every job I have ever had, I have been sexually harassed. Why? Why does it happen to me? My first job was working at the Subway in my little town. I worked there for...
    FeistyRoadrunner FeistyRoadrunner 19-21, F 5 Responses Sep 14, 2007

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    I am 15 and have been sexually harassed several times it started when I was 12 my parents got divorced and my dad remarried which meant i had a step mom along with 2 step brothers...
    ardenella13 ardenella13 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 4

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    Once I was at my at my friend's house , we were at a party and we were having fun . I was having fun then suddenly it was too late , everyone was gone and only I my friend and his...
    naughtybabe2013 naughtybabe2013 22-25, F 11 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    Ex Boyfriend - He would send me flirty texts. In person he would stand close to me. Poke me . Reach his hand up my skirt. Grope me. Then when I told my friends..he bblamed
    wrecked123 wrecked123 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2013

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    I Have Been - it was at work, he was such a freak. I went to the back of the store to get something and he followed me. I didn't think much of it because we were busy. I went to...
    XLunaXLovegoodX XLunaXLovegoodX 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 4, 2009

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    I used to get pretty messed up at school or before school for a while I must of been 14 at the time . Taking lots of pills and mixing it with weed and wine that's the only way I...
    metallheadd metallheadd 18-21, F Feb 17

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    I'm kidding!! But I plan to anyway!! - I am a 17 year old girl who has been through alot the way it is. I was working a closing shift and it was about 12:30 when one ofthe workers...
    StrongAndAble StrongAndAble 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2013

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    Dad - It started early. Too much tickling, but he didn't mean to hurt me. It was just tickling. So when my dad started pinching my butt, smacking my butt as I passed by, or...
    Indigoscream Indigoscream 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 13, 2013

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    My school counselor- I just started college last year and was one of the first of my family to do so. So no one had any idea about college and I had to get help from a school...
    Eloisajames Eloisajames 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 8

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    I was once sexually harassed by my professor during a lecture in class...I was so embarrassed that I left the room without looking back. I contacted the head of the school and they...
    auraboreale auraboreale 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    Female Teacher-Female Student Harassment - I am young female high school student. I need a lot of advice on how to get over this. I have been harassed by my own female teacher. She...
    k218 k218 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2013

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    The Devil In My Dad - It happened 3 year ago when I was 14 (I'm 17 now) and two months before my birthday. No matter how much I try I can't seem to forget about that day - the man...
    simonexx simonexx 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2013

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    It was 10th grade when my best friend sexually harassed me..We would be walking down the hall and he would want me to hug him and I would, but then he would grab my breast and say...
    JaimeJackson JaimeJackson 18-21 1 Response Apr 6

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    As A Child... - Hi guys it was really hard for me to share my story with you because no one knows it until know maybe because gilt was killing me I wish this will help I have...
    HdreamerL HdreamerL 16-17 1 Response Sep 26, 2013

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    My Own Family Members... - I was probably about 13 when it happened and I am now 21 so I should be over it right? But im not, and i need to tell someone. My aunt and uncle are both...
    xlilblonde4lifex xlilblonde4lifex 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 23, 2011

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    A Guy Outside The School - There are weirdos around, and they wait outside schools. Trouble is this guy wouldn't have known it is a school. He was just mad! I waited for my lift...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2013

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    My First "Boyfriend" - We first met in the 5th grade. I liked him, and he liked this other girl with huge breasts. Somehow he decided to ask me out, either to make her jealous or...
    SEG524 SEG524 16-18, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2007

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    When I was 8 my babysitter (a girl) lived right across the street from me. I lived with older sister, mum and step dad. They thought it was cool that there was a babysitter right...
    saraG11 saraG11 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    By a security guard. - In 2010 or 2011 my mom higherd a baby sitter. My sitter would bring me to her boyfriends job in his office, he would give us cookies her coffee and some...
    KL952letbe KL952letbe 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    In 8th grade, there was this kid with Asperger's who suddenly decided to become obsessed with me. It started out with seemingly harmless Facebook messages that slowly progressed...
    acidxxxfire acidxxxfire 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 28

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    I'm currently 13 and I have been sexually harassed since I was 12. At first I thought it was my imagination and then one night I woke up while my grandfather was shoving his hand...
    DamnLyfe DamnLyfe 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I Was Just A Kid. - I think I was ten, or eleven at the time. Summer of my 4th grade year, I went to an art camp. I met a boy three years older than me, and we became friends. I...
    Fuzzies Fuzzies 56-60, M 1 Response Feb 4, 2012

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    By Students - The first time was when I started secondary school, I was around 11. I just finished P.E, and was getting changed in the changing rooms. They thought it was funny to...
    Cantoiii Cantoiii 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    At Work - Yes, At first I was scared to tell anyone, but it was interfering with my life, I'm such a sucker that I would have tried to live with it, only it  was causing me...
    BKHoneyBunz BKHoneyBunz 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 9, 2007

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    I am male. throughout the entire 7th grade a male teacher would make harrassing comments about me in front of the class, referring to an embarrassing prank other boys played on me...
    eddiecarbone eddiecarbone 61-65, M Feb 21

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    By Two Men In Same Week - I have been sexually harassed when a man came to my parents house to repair walls and stuff i was 10 years old he is in the house for a month and it...
    sosono sosono 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2013

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    I Left A Job Due To An Abusive Man - I was working for a rather large real estate firm that brings in some whopping deals in my general local area... these guys are not poor by any...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2011

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    Over-reacting - Years ago, in middle school, a boy felt me up on the school bus. I knew it was wrong. I was not too young to realize that no one is supposed to touch me in...those...
    Contessina Contessina 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2013

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    Out of the blue today I remembered what happened to me when I was a teenager. I think I was 17. We had a neighbor who was a retired school teacher, and he loved to work in the...
    JoannaBe JoannaBe 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 11

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    The reason why I like submissive boys is because I know that they won't try anything funny. I probably would have turned out normal if it wasn't for a couple of particularly...
    Fallensparrow Fallensparrow 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    By a Woman? - It's really odd when you're harassed by a woman. 1. Nobody believes you. 2. People are incredulous that you didn't succumb to the sexual advance.   I just...
    penguinswon penguinswon 51-55 9 Responses Jul 16, 2008

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    On the bus home from work one day, two guys sat behind me and started making comments about how they liked my hair, which was nice to hear as I take good care of my hair but then...
    MissCheshireCat MissCheshireCat 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 24

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    It's my husband's boss and he openly makes statements to fellow men workers about look at her this or that when women come into the store. He also asked my husband to rate...
    lnerem lnerem 31-35, F Feb 6

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    Men, It Is Not Appropriate To Hit On A Woman At Work. - Especially if our job description requires us to be polite to customers, or remain seated in one place throughout most of...
    stphnmclrn46 stphnmclrn46 22-25 2 Responses Jul 1, 2013

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    That Creep Has Her Picture - My best friend has been harrassed by a boy at school and is to shy and nice to tell him to **** off. He has been sending her creepy texts, saying that...
    etyson etyson 16-17 2 Responses Jun 27, 2013

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    Right In Class - It was in freshmen year (last year), I even knew the guy too. He never showed any interest in me, but one day he started to get closer, put his hands on my hips...
    CrystalCelestria CrystalCelestria 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    Yeah, One-day... - It was not something serious so don't get worried lol but I don't know why it occurred to me now.. When I was in the 7th grade I once went to buy some chocolate...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    My Life - I've been sexually harassed by men many times, i don't know why i sexually attracted them, i mean i never act bitchy or seductive to them i always act normally but i...
    CuteNilla CuteNilla 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 27, 2013

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    Sickos At School! - At school I was sexually harrassed everyday. I would go to school and the guys would whistle and call me names such as sexy hot stuff ect. They would come up...
    MysteriousShadow MysteriousShadow 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 19, 2011

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    Pretty Good Job - It all started a year ago when I started working at Blue Bell Creameries. I quickly became an operator. Marcus they operator on the machine next to me, well he is...
    TooYoungforThis19 TooYoungforThis19 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    My Coach - I started as a gymnast when I was eight years old. At this point I was just going to a local gym with neighborhood friends. As I got better however, more and more people...
    ceco ceco 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2013

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    School Councilor- I'm not sure if it's just me or something but ya.... I go to St. Stephens Catholic school. It could be closing in a few months but we're not sure. I hope it...
    Natalia123Houck Natalia123Houck 13-15, F Feb 26

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    My Hs Guidance Counselor Is A Perv - There are like 4 guidance counselors in our high school. I think they are assigned students alphabetically - not really sure. Apparently they...
    KimmieDelta KimmieDelta 16-17, F 6 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    It has happened to me several times, and even by different people, but I will write about the one that still bothers me to this day. It was two years ago, when I was a freshman in...
    Bexenola3 Bexenola3 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I Feel Pathetic And Embarrassed. - I work in a restaurant... Same place for a couple years. Recently this new guy gets hired. He is about 15 years older than me. The moment I first...
    pinkelephantss pinkelephantss 22-25 3 Responses Jul 19, 2013

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    After Work - I never really thought of myself as a girl that guys fawn over. I'm not very pretty. I wear glasses and I close to never fix my hair up in a fashionable way. I always...
    PlainGirl PlainGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2013

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