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I Have Been Single For Way Too Long

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    I am 20 and ALWAYS been single.

    Never had a proper relationship where someone could actually call me his girlfriend. No one was ever interested in me apart from one guy who I slept with because I thought he actually did like me. But that's another story. I bet you could guess what happened! Literally...
    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    almost a year. ok well maybe like 6

    or 7 months! but its still almost a year! haha
    PeaceAndLove1 PeaceAndLove1 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 12, 2014

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    I would rather be single

    than be in a bad relationship. What about you? I know eventually I will say "Love to love you, Baby." again in a joking way, but when are eyes meet, she knows it is true. :) Until that day comes, I'll be fine living my life in solo flight.
    1niceguy4u 1niceguy4u 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 10, 2015

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    All my friends are in relationships

    and I'm on my own and have been for 3 years
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have been single since 2011,

    which means I haven't got a serious relationship for nearly 4 years. I have dated some girls in those years, but they didn't wanted strings attached, which is a very respetable stand. It gets quite boring just having those dates, meanwhile your friends have been in love with...
    Hernando1987 Hernando1987 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2015

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    fragilegile fragilegile 26-30, F 7 Responses Nov 26, 2015

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    theloveofmylife2 theloveofmylife2 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 14, 2015

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    Christuner666 Christuner666 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 8, 2015

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    I really have :( Maybe I need someone,

    maybe I don't, I don't really know.
    CynthiaEdmonds CynthiaEdmonds 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 24, 2015

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    hannah44442 hannah44442 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 9, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    annacc11 annacc11 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 18, 2015

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    I'm 21 going 22. I've never had a boyfriend,

    never been kissed and never gone on a proper date. My friends say I'm the ultimate good girl since I don't party and drink either and that I'd rather read my books than spend time with a boy. I'm not boring like my hobbies suggest, I actually get along well with a lot of people...
    reezaheartdogs reezaheartdogs 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 18, 2014

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    Haha.. Yeah I'm single

    but guess what .... I couldn't care less 😋👍
    Excusemyshittyusername Excusemyshittyusername 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2014

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    But I'm scared to go back into dating.

    I feel like every guy is like my ex. Like they're gonna make me feel I'm not enough and make me look stupid. 😞
    wildflower1992 wildflower1992 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 25, 2015

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    I've been single all my life

    and now I like a guy but don't know how to act. Anyone have any advice?
    Cierra4455 Cierra4455 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2015

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    If you ever feel like you're pathetic just know

    that one year on Valentine's Day I went and bought myself a giant stuffed teddy bear because I was alone and the checkout lady asked if it was a gift for someone and I had to tell her it wasn't
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 11 Responses Jun 24, 2015

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    13 Years Of My Life For What?

    Tell Me Would You Date Me?
    leemcgucken1 leemcgucken1 13-15, M 4 Responses Dec 27, 2015

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    HedoZen HedoZen 41-45, F 10 Responses Dec 28, 2011

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    I have forgotten what it feels like to have a

    body pressed against mine, what skin to skin contact feels like. Intimacy has become a foreign concept to me
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 21

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    hi have been single for 35 years hi am a very

    broken hearted A B trying to find love & friendship or relationship hi live in UK Kent area
    Kittymad1968 Kittymad1968 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 21

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    Just when I thought I could end this

    "experience", I get proven wrong. The guy I started dated just stops contacting me.
    kbabe0181 kbabe0181 26-30, F 15 Responses Sep 24, 2015

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    People always ask me

    why I'm single? I really don't have answer to them. Even after getting 4-5 proposal from girls I didn't accept them just because I was not sure, I could manage to be in relationship. I can stay single but can't make a girl cry just because of breakup or something :D
    Srey24 Srey24 16-17, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    2 weeks...... finger fun

    and calling it a night :(
    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 17 Responses Sep 10, 2015

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    I've been single all my life.

    It's not that I'm ashamed of it or anything, just I want to meet someone new. I live in a small town where everyone knows basically everyone and the only place a person my age can meet other people is school. The guys at my school are very attractive, but their personality is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 11, 2013

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    I have never been "In Love"

    and I'm starting to believe I might not know what that ever is like.. I know I'm only 25 and young but I've only been in one serious relationship and that only lasted six months... I've hooked up with guys and it's been happening but now I'm getting over it and it's to the point...
    angeeamor angeeamor 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 13, 2015

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    would be nice to wake up

    and have someone to care about...someone to say i love you to...someone to squeeze and hold onto. but lets be honest....im too nice. no female in her right mind wants me ive learned to accept that. and have nearly turned my back on finding anyone. idk why i even write on here...
    Chrispy793 Chrispy793 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 23, 2015

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    Me *Looks up stuff for future wedding all the

    time* *Looks up children's names all the time* *Plans future* *Stays single*
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 26, 2015

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    Single since birth, it's funny

    but it's true. It's really way too long.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 13, 2015

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    I feel like I have no chance of being in a

    proper relationship... I had a girls night out with some friends last night which was fun, but I found myself feeling like the 'grenade'- my friends are really attractive and had guys fawning over them and wanting to talk to them all night where the only attention I got was a...
    charllymarie charllymarie 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 19, 2014

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    I want to be cuddled

    and told it's alright.. I want to be first priority.. I want late night phone calls and texting all day.. I want to be in a relationship for one another not sex.. I want someone to listen to me and my crazy rants and when I get all bi polar- I want attention.. I want but I can...
    PunkRockUnicorn PunkRockUnicorn 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2014

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    Ugh it's actually so hard to meet people

    now that I'm out of High-school :-(
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 7, 2015

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    Try like..forever :( just

    when I think a guy likes me...it's just as a friend
    allaboutbellasnj allaboutbellasnj 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 10, 2015

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    Actually I'm not single.

    . I've never been have a boyfriend since birth I'm 16 turning 17 (I'm not transgender haha) I'm just focusing to my studies and especially to my Family, Friends/Bestfriends and to my Dreams ( - _ -") There's a lot of time for that ;) I need finish my study first my mom told me...
    QueenAnn7 QueenAnn7 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 14, 2015

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    TBT, I've never really had a true girlfriend;

    the most I've had was a few online relationships that never really got anywhere. All I really want is someone I can be close to, someone who trusts me, someone who I can say "I love you" to, and I want someone who can do the same for me. Is that really so much to ask?
    GoldXilla GoldXilla 18-21, M Nov 10, 2015

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    Feeling depressed, unloved,

    lonely.. Want someone to fall in love with!
    ithinkithink ithinkithink 26-30, F 8 Responses Aug 9, 2015

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    since birth and I am proud of it.

    .. and I plan to stay so until I am 22
    hummingtree hummingtree 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 8, 2015

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    How do 14 year olds even get pregnant.

    . Like I haven't even high fived a guy in a year. The hell
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 22, 2015

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    michael334 michael334 56-60, M 3 Responses Sep 21, 2015

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    Yea I've been single

    for six years. It's been a while
    EGriffin EGriffin 16-17, T 1 Response Nov 13, 2015

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    I've been single probably

    because most think I'm a weirdo so most tend to stay away sadly thats why I go on these apps so no one meets the real me 😔
    BluExo BluExo 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 16, 2015

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    My marriage ended in 2007!

    Where are a the good women at? Oh yeah! Mid 30's.....the good ones are taken or have been hurt by the "Bad Boys" they are drawn to....and are now too jaded to give a good guy a chance.
    Iamdavidok Iamdavidok 36-40, M 3 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    I was single the first 36 yrs of my life.

    Then I was married for 17 yrs. Now I have been single for a little over a year. I am happier now than when I was in a bad marriage. I hate sleeping alone. I am not sure if I will marry again. I would like to be in a dating relationship though.
    Fatherofthedaughter Fatherofthedaughter 51-55, M Sep 14, 2015

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    The reason is I need to learn to trust last

    time I try that I got hurt didn't even date just befriend someone at my college internship and thank GOD I listen to my heart and befriend him first and listen read through the lines, I am start befriend before I every date it's the best way. I really was hurt I put my heart and...
    sonrisa89 sonrisa89 26-30, F Nov 6, 2015

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    Yes, I guess it has been "way too long" now.

    I do not even know how it came to be so long. Time has just passed very promptly. At first it was all about healing, then becoming more healthy then it was about work. Now, I no longer even know what it's about lol. Sometimes I wonder if I may not simply always be this way. I...
    GhostPizza GhostPizza 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Things would be so much easier

    and life better if men and women had more respect and kindness for each other. Imagine how much more fun we would have together without any abuse and hard feelings. Being safe and comfortable with each other would be like heaven. :)
    1niceguy4u 1niceguy4u 51-55, M Sep 10, 2015

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