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I Have Been Single For Way Too Long

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    I am so frustrated with myself I need someone

    and I don't know why. I'm a happy person and I have plenty of friends but there's a part of me that feels empty. A part of me that needs to connect with someone on a deeper level.
    bemmie bemmie 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    Every time i start liking someone,

    they kinda start dating somebody else or are still 'brokenhearted' im 16 now and i never ha a boyfriend or first kiss, i don't think that that is embaressing, but im tired of all this drama all over again????
    Mema255 Mema255 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 4

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    I have never been "In Love"

    and I'm starting to believe I might not know what that ever is like.. I know I'm only 25 and young but I've only been in one serious relationship and that only lasted six months... I've hooked up with guys and it's been happening but now I'm getting over it and it's to the point...
    angeeamor angeeamor 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 13

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    Gemini And Aries Unify

    Aries lives for a challenge and Gemini is drawn to Aries sex appeal.Ruled by Mercury, Gemini has both beauty and brains and Aries finds this a huge turn on. Gemini is witty and can make Aries laugh which is another bonus. Aries is turned on by the challenge of mysterious Gemini...
    HedoZen HedoZen 41-45, F 10 Responses Dec 28, 2011

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    I just want to be loved.

    ..but my need for intimacy and closeness came off as slutty on my last date. He flat out had to tell me he wouldn't sleep with me. All I wanted was to be close. A really long hug. Sex doesn't help.
    ralyssc ralyssc 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2014

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    almost a year. ok well maybe like 6

    or 7 months! but its still almost a year! haha
    PeaceAndLove1 PeaceAndLove1 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 12, 2014

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    its been 6 years since my last relationship

    and now I feel so lonely being single
    caroline9301 caroline9301 22-25, F 8 Responses Jul 13

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    I just want a man who loves Christ

    and will love & accept me unconditionally. I have fought many battles, I've made mistakes, I'm not proud of my past.... but what can I say? I'm human! Is there a man who will love me for me?
    lilyaudrenyanderson lilyaudrenyanderson 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Far Too Long

    I have been single for some time now. I always had things and people to distract me from the emptiness feeling. Honestly, I have gotten extremely great at masking my true emotions. In fact, I’m starting to believe them myself. That I’m alone not lonely. lol I do tell people...
    enchantedebonybutterfly enchantedebonybutterfly 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    I want to be cuddled

    and told it's alright.. I want to be first priority.. I want late night phone calls and texting all day.. I want to be in a relationship for one another not sex.. I want someone to listen to me and my crazy rants and when I get all bi polar- I want attention.. I want but I can...
    PunkRockUnicorn PunkRockUnicorn 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2014

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    I am a very shy guy .

    ...Never approached any girl to propose...Been in a relationship once in high school ...One of my friend introduced me to her but it didn't work out well ...Then in college felt in love but unfortunately she loved someone else ....I want some one who can understand me love me the...
    Eshan29 Eshan29 22-25 Jun 4

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    Haha.. Yeah I'm single

    but guess what .... I couldn't care less 😋👍
    Excusemyshittyusername Excusemyshittyusername 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2014

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    Some people: "omg I need a bf/gf,

    I've been single for over a year" me: "oh, well it's okay…I mean I've only been single for about 15 years"
    haleybug81399 haleybug81399 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    I am 20 and ALWAYS been single.

    Never had a proper relationship where someone could actually call me his girlfriend. No one was ever interested in me apart from one guy who I slept with because I thought he actually did like me. But that's another story. I bet you could guess what happened! Literally...
    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    No Boyfriend Since Birth

    I am 24 years old. I am turning 25 this year and I never had a boyfriend, I have never been kissed, and I have never been on a real date. I have been single for way too long, and all I want is to find someone that I can love and someone who will love me as well. I want to...
    softmallowgum softmallowgum 22-25, F 44 Responses Jan 15, 2012

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    I am a very shy guy .

    ...Never approached any girl to propose...Been in a relationship once in high school ...One of my friend introduced me to her but it didn't work out well ...Then in college felt in love but unfortunately she loved someone else ....I want some one who can understand me love me the...
    Eshan29 Eshan29 22-25 Jun 4

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bellecc11 bellecc11 26-30, F Jul 7

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    well im 32 and never dated.

    i want a relationship but theres a weird part of me. im a demisexual i dont lust like everyone else im probably partly asexual as well. for me its more about the bond with someone than something sexual. ive only liked 3 girls my whole life. sadly they never seen me that way...
    screechowl83 screechowl83 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I know its just a year.

    but it feels like 10
    elisef elisef 51-55, F Jul 12

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    susancc12 susancc12 26-30, F Jul 13

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    Does anyone besides me think thirty years is a

    little ridiculous to go without any sort of companionship? I wish they had an emoticon to show "desperation", but I guess I will have to settle for "depressed". Then again, does anyone out there even care?
    Solitaireman Solitaireman 51-55, M 4 Responses Jun 10

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    This whole single thing is starting to get real

    boring. I honestly just want a long term relationship & get married in a few years. I just want to fast forward to the future..
    TheQuietOne92 TheQuietOne92 22-25, F Feb 24, 2014

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    Imbatgirl Imbatgirl 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 6, 2014

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    I'm 21 going 22. I've never had a boyfriend,

    never been kissed and never gone on a proper date. My friends say I'm the ultimate good girl since I don't party and drink either and that I'd rather read my books than spend time with a boy. I'm not boring like my hobbies suggest, I actually get along well with a lot of people...
    reezaheartdogs reezaheartdogs 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 18, 2014

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    My last girlfriend and relation was

    when I was 26! I'm 41 Now. LOL ya I know pathetic right?
    Ericsexperience Ericsexperience 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 6

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    When a guy texts a simple hi how are ya,

    I immediately assume he's madly, deeply and passionately in love with me. This has to stop.
    rroossee rroossee 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    I've been single all my life.

    It's not that I'm ashamed of it or anything, just I want to meet someone new. I live in a small town where everyone knows basically everyone and the only place a person my age can meet other people is school. The guys at my school are very attractive, but their personality is...
    slytherinseeker98 slytherinseeker98 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 11, 2013

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    Hey I'm single looking

    for a girl or transgender
    Chaospi2 Chaospi2 16-17, M Jun 27

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    I have been single since 2011,

    which means I haven't got a serious relationship for nearly 4 years. I have dated some girls in those years, but they didn't wanted strings attached, which is a very respetable stand. It gets quite boring just having those dates, meanwhile your friends have been in love with...
    Hernando1987 Hernando1987 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 19

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    Me *Looks up stuff for future wedding all the

    time* *Looks up children's names all the time* *Plans future* *Stays single*
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 26

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    I haven't had a legitimate relationship in 2

    years. I've tried dating websites, but there is never a mutual feeling. I pray about finding someone, but I'm truly afraid it will never happen.
    ambiblue ambiblue 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    I've been single for over a year now.

    Honestly, I'm enjoying it. I would look to date and make friends but I'm totally fine with taking my time. I think some people want to get married sooo bad bc they've reached a certain age or feel empty. Love will come on its own time...no need to rush.
    BrittBratz BrittBratz 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 4

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    The intimate relationships I have had could be

    counted on one hand. One freaking hand! I know guys who need a file cabinet for all the relationships they have had. I do not have a "little black book", it is more like a post-it note.
    Solitaireman Solitaireman 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 20

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    anamsaor anamsaor 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2014

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    How Pathetic

    Last time I checked it's been about 18 years.. And yes, that's my age as well.. So I've been single since I was born, how greattttt  *sarcastic chuckle* Yup, I'm never an official anything with anyone :/
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 13 Responses Nov 16, 2010

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    Two Years, Four Months And Counting...

    I have been single for two years, four months since my last "formal" relationship. I have had some "FWB" but thats it. Sad huh?
    courageunderpressure courageunderpressure 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    I feel like I have no chance of being in a

    proper relationship... I had a girls night out with some friends last night which was fun, but I found myself feeling like the 'grenade'- my friends are really attractive and had guys fawning over them and wanting to talk to them all night where the only attention I got was a...
    charllymarie charllymarie 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 19, 2014

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    To be honest I've never had a real relationship.

    I mean I've dated but the guys just wanted to use me. I'm 19 and almost 20 and i pray to god every night that one day I'll find him or he'll find me.
    PrincesaMonica101 PrincesaMonica101 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 9

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    I am a very shy guy .

    ...Never approached any girl to propose...Been in a relationship once in high school ...One of my friend introduced me to her but it didn't work out well ...Then in college felt in love but unfortunately she loved someone else ....I want some one who can understand me love me the...
    Eshan29 Eshan29 22-25 3 Responses Jun 4

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    I have only had online relationships,

    but I want a real one. Someone I can hold, kiss, love fully and deeply. Cause I want to know real love outside my family...
    personalldemon personalldemon 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 25

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    It's been three years

    since my last relationship, yes being single at first is fun, but after sometime passing by, it gets very lonely. Meeting the right person has become a very difficult task to accomplish. I'm not giving up, but the hardest thing is finding someone to give you a chance.
    veigns veigns 22-25, M 3 Responses Jun 5

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    There are so many times I wish I could find

    that right girl. Whenever I hear from people close to me say they have finally have a b/f or g/f, it seems like I am the one that is left completely out. Sometimes I feel that I am doing something wrong or maybe for some reason, I don't deserve the happiness I see what my...
    Barefooter25 Barefooter25 36-40, M 4 Responses Mar 17, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    sadaccaa sadaccaa 26-30, F Jun 5

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    It has been over thirty years

    since I have had a serious relationship. Why do women see me as a hideous, repulsive and worthless piece of ****?
    Solitaireman Solitaireman 51-55, M Jun 5

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    I've been single for

    so long I don't know how long anymore. Online dating is terrible. Everyone seems to be coupled up. Why can't I meet someone.
    GivenToFly182 GivenToFly182 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Lonely,Single And Feeling Down

    Hi everyone who is reading this story i'm a single person from the caribbean. Ok let me start.........................everyday i get up same routine jump in my car, go to work , get stress out from my strenuous day's work, face 2 hours or more of traffic in my car which is very...
    Kihmara Kihmara 26-30, M 4 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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