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I Have Been There, Done That

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    I HAVE BEEN THERE , DONE THAT............NOW WHAT ?

    I have been there, done that....and then some !! I have been: Fat, skinny, single, married, divorced, busy,employed, unemployed, on a diet, off a diet, home , abroad, a student, a teacher, happy, sad, elated, pregnant, tired, bloated,confident, in love, out of love, betrayed...
    underconstruction underconstruction 41-45, F 8 Responses Dec 1, 2008

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    Yes, And I Sometimes Can Not Believe It...

    ...but I have. Some things to be envied, some things to be feared, things no one should ever have to accept, things everyone would love to do (and, things everyone would love to do if only they knew that thy could!) But I care not to gloat; just know, that there is nothing...
    bordendazed bordendazed 46-50 Jun 3, 2011

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