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I Have Been There, Done That

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    I HAVE BEEN THERE , DONE THAT............NOW WHAT ? - I have been there, done that....and then some !! I have been: Fat, skinny, single, married, divorced, busy,employed...
    underconstruction underconstruction 41-45, F 8 Responses Dec 1, 2008

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    Where are they when I needed them? They only be friendly to me when they needed me or needs me to be their scapegoat! But after that they will just go back and ignore or being...
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    I was about 21.Being so innocent, Not knowing that there are g..ys or men who are interested in others, I was so shocked by what happened. we were in a bus, a big man sitting...
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    I've been with my boyfriend almost 2 years now, we had a really big argument and he wouldn't speak to me for a while I was very drunk when the argument happened and couldn't have...
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    It it interesting to see the reactions of others to my situation. My family, friends, strangers, everyone has an opinion and a strong one at that. I married my hubby for the wrong...
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    More than once (Written on March 25) I re posted this I have been lead on about four times. Twice the other person found someone else and kicked me to the curb like trash. One I...
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    Everybody who I've told what she does to me says that she is abusive, but I'm still not sure. I know that she's narcissistic because in all the articles I read about it almost all...
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    Age 17. Being there felt unreal, yet safe. I wanted to get out but I met some really nice girls there. After I got back to school I had a hard time because I felt like I didn't fit...
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    There is alot I can put up with and a lot I can take from another person and ignore. However today has broken the camels back. I find myself beyond angry. I'm furious and out done...
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    I was just betrayed by one of my "closest" friends. She just ditched me while we were on a weekend away. She planned the weekend for us. She seemed so excited about it. Then there...
    iseekhim iseekhim 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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    :( ;( friday 21st march........sun shone brightly and day started,had a list of chores to do......my lazziness and ignorance to work proved a real blame n taunt fr me.... why s it...
    Mughee Mughee 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    so here i am.i have.not posted on ep before but i hope i can be of some inspiration. life for me used to be hard as a child i was abused both emotionally and sexually.i was...
    strongerandwiser strongerandwiser 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    15 years ago I met my husband, senior year of high school. I became pregnant with our oldest son 3 short months after we started dating (just after graduation). He was a raver...
    karieanne karieanne 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Truth be told, I ache with the remembrance of old pains. My heart is formed of shrapnel and my mind is an orchestra of a thousand little voices singing of what I've done... Or...
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    Thanks dad, thanks for "joking around." and hitting me, if it was a joke I doubt you would've done it so much and so hard. Thanks for kicking me, and slapping me, throwing me into...
    trippyprincess trippyprincess 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    I just found out yesterday that my girlfriend cheated on me with one of her coworkers. We'd been together for over two years. I'm so lost and confused. I feel so weak and unloved...
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    It doesn't happen very often, thank goodness. Dad saves this for the more serious offenses. It was a week before this last Christmas. Dad had to work at night and told me to stay...
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    Hello...... I am hoping somebody could give me some advice, I'll explain my situation and I'll try to keep it short.... I think I have a narcissistic mother. In fact I am pretty...
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    Please someone take their time to read this, I feel like a lot of people can relate to this. I put a lot of thought into this. It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose...
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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
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    Please somebody out there please read this...it would mean so much. It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever...
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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
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    needinganescape needinganescape 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 1

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