I Have Been to a Gay Bar

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    Lets Go!

    So I am a lesbian & sometimes I just want to go to a gay & lesbian bar. I go to the straight clubs all the time with my straight friends. When we go I dont have fun. We always go to the same ones. We went to Hunter's gay bar I had fun but they didn't. So we haven't been back...
    1331jean 1331jean
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jul 22, 2013

    I Went To A Gay Bar

    I use to go to paddys when I first started experimenting with my sexuality I felt normal I was with people like me I made some friends and met knew people it was so cool
    jat1963 jat1963
    51-55, M
    1 Response Oct 27, 2013

    First Time

    Went with a friend to a private party at a bar that we didn't know was a gay bar.  All of the bartenders were women dressed as men, and all of the waitresses were men dressed as women.  Our waitress was like Mrs. Doubtfire.  I wasn't uncomfortable at all, but that...
    spark19 spark19
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Nov 2, 2009

    I've Been to One a Few Times

    I didn't really enjoy it as it was very clubbish.  It just isn't my scene.  I'm more of a hippie, I guess.  I have been a few times and had an ok time.  It wasn't that much different than a regular club to me, though. This was funny (at least to me, it was...
    haydenrules haydenrules
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 2, 2009

    I was in a gay bar and I was

    so hot I want one right now bottom if your up for it let me know I'll go to you if your in ny I want a gay bottom to see what he can do first time here I'm in the bronx
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    1 Response Jul 5, 2014
    packybonnar packybonnar
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Aug 19, 2015
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    Mar 15, 2014

    Going Out Without My Husband...

    When my husband was deployed, just after we were married, I had a very gay coworker.  He took me to a gay bar twice to watch the drag show, and it was a blast.  The atmosphere was so much fun, and I was completely comfortable.  Wish I knew of a place to go here, and had some...
    AloneInHawaii AloneInHawaii
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jan 2, 2011

    Yes i have and it is completely different

    than regular bar. It was okay experience
    Og94 Og94
    22-25, M
    Feb 11

    Well, 45 years or so

    and I have never been to a gay bar, that is until tonight. I'll be first to say I wasn't sure what I was letting myself in for but I'm pretty open minded guy. I've had guy friends in the past and have some now, so I let myself be convinced to go to a gay bar in Dallas... Not...
    mrtexasguy mrtexasguy
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Jan 17

    A Good Encounter At A Gay Bar

    After my close friend in the Army admitted to me (before Don't Ask Don't Tell was repealed) that he was gay, I started going to places and meeting new people that I normally wouldn't have. The first time that I went to a gay bar with him was to a place called OCH, and it even...
    NefariousDrake NefariousDrake
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 25, 2012

    I had no idea it was a gay bar mind.

    I've led a pretty sheltered life. my friends took me there for a joke and I kept getting chatted up by really butch lesbians lol, it was ages before I actually twigged where I was!
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 7, 2015

    My ex-girlfriend and me were out in Newcastle

    one night, and she introduced me to Powerhouse. Honestly, I think we were the only two straight people in there. But what a night!! I danced my a**e off (possibly not the best choice of phrase!) And it was so good, every time we went to the Toon after that, we ended up there...
    Mick672 Mick672
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Aug 19, 2015

    1980s And 1990s

    i would go to the gay bars with my best friend who happen to be gay..i never to this day had so much fun in a bar...the dancing, the lights, the visuals, the music, the sex, the drugs and booze,  the bathrooms....it was amazing!  the mirrors everywhere..i loved watching...
    WindyCityCat WindyCityCat
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 21, 2010
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    Mar 7, 2015

    I have been wanting to go to a gay bar

    for ages. So last night I dragged my straight best friend with me as my wingman. It turns out that the gay bar we went to was mostly guys, but that was alright since everyone was super friendly. I never hanged out with so many gay guys in my life before! Everyone was really nice...
    rowanweir rowanweir
    18-21, F
    Mar 14, 2014

    A Bad Encounter At A Gay Bar

    One of my close friends I met in the Army admitted to me that he was gay (before Don't Ask Don't Tell was repealed) and so I started going places with him and hanging out with people I otherwise wouldn't have. We were at this gay club in Austin called OCH and we were both...
    NefariousDrake NefariousDrake
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Nov 22, 2012

    Any gay bottom guys h

    now let's chat
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    Mar 21, 2014

    It's one of the best experience I have ever had.

    It's so much fun! Everyone was really nice and happy to see a new face.
    HandsomePrince1 HandsomePrince1
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 27, 2014
    Sufferedloss Sufferedloss
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 4, 2014
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    May 4, 2014

    Me and a French, Bolivian,

    and an American dude went out to explore the city we lived in. So we ended up in a gay bar. Man it was weird...I didn't know it was one an till I started to put the signs together...the wall posts were naked guys😳, the bartender called me sweetie😦, and the restroom sign is...
    Adamz155 Adamz155
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Jun 16, 2014

    Me Too

    I went to one in Key West with a gay friend and a girl I know. It was definitely interesting and very colorful. We stayed for an hour and a half and had a good time.
    AboveMyPayGrade AboveMyPayGrade
    41-45, M
    1 Response Sep 17, 2013

    Fun Places!

    In Paris there are some great gay bars. The guys don't hit on you for sex, even if you're not wearing anything, but they might ask where you bought something! There are good bars and clubs in Narbonne, but you gotta know which is best for what you're looking for. The clubs in...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 3, 2013
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    Feb 20, 2014

    I had my first gay experience at one I've never

    enjoyed it so much I felt so good and loved by them
    mischef mischef
    46-50, T
    1 Response Mar 1, 2015
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    1 Response May 4, 2014
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    1 Response Sep 2, 2015
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    May 4, 2014

    Fun Story

    I don't think you can really go anywhere more fun then going to a gay dance club. Seriously. Many years back, a Guy I'll just call Loki, had invited me to go out with him. We ended up going to a place called Omaha Joy. That night they were having drag competitions. I had a...
    Skunktails Skunktails
    26-30, M
    5 Responses Jan 23, 2009
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    1 Response Apr 19, 2015

    Did I Just Say That???

    One of my best girl friends is bi-sexual.  She moved to another state a few years back but her family is in my area so she still comes to see visit me once in awhile and we'll go out on occasion. One time I was at an evening safety meeting at work.  My fellow...
    Creamsicle Creamsicle
    41-45, F
    7 Responses Oct 16, 2008

    In Texas we definitely have our fair share of

    gayborhoods and gay bars as well and to be honest the one's I've been to are pretty good although they're kinda slipping on their music though. Some of the guys there are pretty cute too sadly I haven't been in a while just because I wasn't in the mood but since school is about...
    10Shadow 10Shadow
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 12

    Strange New World.

    One of my friends is actually a pretty good singer, plays a dozen instruments, and often gets small gigs in bars, and i like to go along to support her.. and because im still secretly crazy about her, but thats a whole different story... One day she invites us all to a gig in a...
    MrWinstonSmith MrWinstonSmith
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 27, 2013

    I have went with my girlfriend before,

    but didn't dance or kiss any guys. I kinda want to tonight, she danced with a girl last time
    StephanieDan StephanieDan
    36-40, M
    1 Response Apr 25, 2014

    Hi everyone I was refused entry to a gay bar

    recently for not being gay and it got me thinking If a gay person was denied entry to a bar I normally go to it would probably be in the newspapers the day after so why is it ok to refuse entry for a straight person in a gay bar?
    Mrunderstood Mrunderstood
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Jul 1, 2015

    Well Not Quite

    Never been to a gay bar, but I was once at a regular bar and someone got gay on me. I was a casino runner at the time, and a regular customer of mine came up to me and asked me if I wanted to go home with him and "suck his ****". I didn't take him up on that sparkling...
    VendettA12 VendettA12
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Feb 15, 2009

    Hey Girl! I Want to Take You to a Gay Bar!

    All different videos for the same song.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q54LJ5RsqRw http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tJpRWcdRNRU   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tTzs9G-VOZ4   Let's start a war.
    fitterhappiervelcro fitterhappiervelcro
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Oct 16, 2008

    Great Place to Go...

    In a city where I work frequently there is a great gay bar.  I have several male gay friends that are also coworkers. Several times a year I will go out withe these co-workers barhopping and inevitably we end up at the end of the night at a gay dance club/bar.  I...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    14 Responses Oct 16, 2008

    Well it was an LGBT club.

    The only one in this island I live in. My god it became my addiction! It was such an amazing space with great people, great music, awesome and lovable owners and staff and the environment there was so acceptive! I have never in my 16 years of life felt so at ease with my...
    HeyRainbow HeyRainbow
    18-21, F
    May 28, 2014

    I Have Never.

    I have never been in a gay bar or any bar that much really i would love to but i'm really nervous and get really worried if i'm out in a far place for too long ya pathetic right but still i would love to go to a gay bar maybe hook up with one or two guy's get talking and maybe...
    simon28 simon28
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2013

    When I first came out,

    I cut my hair short and lived by stereotypes for a while. One night I got dressed and wanted to go to a bar... I spent ages getting dressed. Put on these ridiculous clothes I wouldn't wear now... I looked like Tyler Oakley that night lmao. Anyway, went to a bar that I'd found...
    malinica malinica
    18-21, F
    Dec 29, 2015

    I secretly wear my wifes skirt pantyhose

    and panties when she's out love the feel of the pantyhose get hard minute I pull em on I lay on bed rubbing my legs imagining it's another man which really turns me on would love another man to run his hand up my pantyhose legs under my skirt then slipping it down the front of...
    wifestights wifestights
    46-50, M
    Feb 22
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