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I Have Been to a Gay Bar

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    First Time

    Went with a friend to a private party at a bar that we didn't know was a gay bar.  All of the bartenders were women dressed as men, and all of the waitresses were men dressed as women.  Our waitress was like Mrs. Doubtfire.  I wasn't uncomfortable at all, but that...
    spark19 spark19 36-40, M 3 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    Met Someone I Knew When Going To The Gay Bars

    I decided to go out to a gay bar one night back in early 80's. It was a Friday night and it was very crowded. I was near the dance floor and was just watching the crowd for a while. Time went on and it was getting ready for the bar to close and I turned around and there was my...
    brian365 brian365 61-65, M 1 Response May 21, 2013

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    Any gay bottom guys h

    now let's chat
    Dloveski Dloveski 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    Going Out Without My Husband...

    When my husband was deployed, just after we were married, I had a very gay coworker.  He took me to a gay bar twice to watch the drag show, and it was a blast.  The atmosphere was so much fun, and I was completely comfortable.  Wish I knew of a place to go here, and had some...
    AloneInHawaii AloneInHawaii 31-35, F 6 Responses Jan 2, 2011

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    Dloveski Dloveski 36-40, M Feb 20

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    Been to Quite a Few!

    If you have gay friends it's just something you do. I'm not  so callow as to get all insecure and defensive about it - it's fun! The only complaint I've ever had was at one place the music was a little loud.Now I come to think of it,so were some of the clothes... Beats a lot...
    Rob22make3 Rob22make3 41-45, M 3 Responses Oct 15, 2008

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    I've Been to One a Few Times

    I didn't really enjoy it as it was very clubbish.  It just isn't my scene.  I'm more of a hippie, I guess.  I have been a few times and had an ok time.  It wasn't that much different than a regular club to me, though. This was funny (at least to me, it was...
    haydenrules haydenrules 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 2, 2009

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    I was in a gay bar and I was

    so hot I want one right now bottom if your up for it let me know I'll go to you if your in ny I want a gay bottom to see what he can do first time here I'm in the bronx
    Dloveski Dloveski 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I Used To Be Straight But Now I'm A Regular

    I never would have gone in a gay club or bar before but now I'm a regular customer, I've met many men there and enjoy it like you can't imagine. If my wife were to find out it'd be a real problem. I wish I knew I was gay along time ago.
    MonicaCD MonicaCD 51-55, T 2 Responses May 13, 2012

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    Pub Crawl

    Years ago when we visited England a large group of us went on a pub crawl. We had lots of fun. One of the pubs we ended up at was for gay men and we didn't realize it until we went in. They were nice to us and the ladies room was perfectly clean - the ladies rooms at the other...
    deadant7 deadant7 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2012

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    Dloveski Dloveski 36-40, M May 4

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    Well Not Quite

    Never been to a gay bar, but I was once at a regular bar and someone got gay on me. I was a casino runner at the time, and a regular customer of mine came up to me and asked me if I wanted to go home with him and "suck his ****". I didn't take him up on that sparkling...
    VendettA12 VendettA12 33, M 2 Responses Feb 15, 2009

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    Going Tonight.

    If your in Detroit and drop by the Adams Apple for some Karaoke and laughs, I'm the tall good looking guy. I prefer gay guys, not just because they give good head, but because they are generally gay, not pissed off and looking to prove how tough they are. Laughter is the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 19, 2013

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    Going, Going, Gone.

    Three in the same night actually. The first was empty, it being the start of the night. We accidentally walked into the toilets at first because we got lost :D My friends and I (For we were a group) went to leave soon afterwards and the DJ sort of guy who was very much enjoying...
    Emptysoul30 Emptysoul30 22-25, M 12 Responses May 21, 2010

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    My Gay Club

    I want to start out by saying this is my first time writing a TRUE STORY that happen when I was younger. At the time I had just turned 18 and had a girlfriend. I knew I was curious about being with other guys at a younger age but I never dared my self to do anything about it...
    Thinkingalways Thinkingalways 26-30 2 Responses May 22, 2013

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    Strange New World.

    One of my friends is actually a pretty good singer, plays a dozen instruments, and often gets small gigs in bars, and i like to go along to support her.. and because im still secretly crazy about her, but thats a whole different story... One day she invites us all to a gig in a...
    MrWinstonSmith MrWinstonSmith 22-25, M 1 Response May 27, 2013

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    Well it was an LGBT club.

    The only one in this island I live in. My god it became my addiction! It was such an amazing space with great people, great music, awesome and lovable owners and staff and the environment there was so acceptive! I have never in my 16 years of life felt so at ease with my...
    HeyRainbow HeyRainbow 16-17, F May 28

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    Great Place to Go...

    In a city where I work frequently there is a great gay bar.  I have several male gay friends that are also coworkers. Several times a year I will go out withe these co-workers barhopping and inevitably we end up at the end of the night at a gay dance club/bar.  I...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 15 Responses Oct 16, 2008

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    Did I Just Say That???

    One of my best girl friends is bi-sexual.  She moved to another state a few years back but her family is in my area so she still comes to see visit me once in awhile and we'll go out on occasion. One time I was at an evening safety meeting at work.  My fellow...
    Creamsicle Creamsicle 41-45, F 8 Responses Oct 16, 2008

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    Lets Go!

    So I am a lesbian & sometimes I just want to go to a gay & lesbian bar. I go to the straight clubs all the time with my straight friends. When we go I dont have fun. We always go to the same ones. We went to Hunter's gay bar I had fun but they didn't. So we haven't been back...
    1331jean 1331jean 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 22, 2013

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    My first experience. I am slightly built

    and rather feminine in my actions. In school I was teased a lot and beaten up by a bully once. For that reason, since turning 21 while I have been able to go to bars, I have never gone to one alone. I work in a male environment where my job requires meeting the public, both...
    atoyboy atoyboy 18-21 2 Responses May 28

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    lesbiancouple lesbiancouple 18-21, F Sep 11, 2013

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    Going Tonight

    I have been to gay bars many tines and I love it I love the music the dancing the drinks and the guys I go at least a couple times a month sometimes I dress in drag when I go and sometimes I dont
    Jannisemichael Jannisemichael 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 22, 2012

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    Sufferedloss Sufferedloss 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    Been To A Few

    and being honest they can be good fun or total dross, depends on the clientele and the atmosphere. One thing you can virtually guarantee though is that someone will chat to you, even if they do have a motive lol
    shortsy shortsy 41-45, M Dec 12, 2012

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    I Have Never.

    I have never been in a gay bar or any bar that much really i would love to but i'm really nervous and get really worried if i'm out in a far place for too long ya pathetic right but still i would love to go to a gay bar maybe hook up with one or two guy's get talking and maybe...
    simon28 simon28 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    Me Too

    I went to one in Key West with a gay friend and a girl I know. It was definitely interesting and very colorful. We stayed for an hour and a half and had a good time.
    AboveMyPayGrade AboveMyPayGrade 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 17, 2013

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    Fun Places!

    In Paris there are some great gay bars. The guys don't hit on you for sex, even if you're not wearing anything, but they might ask where you bought something! There are good bars and clubs in Narbonne, but you gotta know which is best for what you're looking for. The clubs in...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Fun Story

    I don't think you can really go anywhere more fun then going to a gay dance club. Seriously. Many years back, a Guy I'll just call Loki, had invited me to go out with him. We ended up going to a place called Omaha Joy. That night they were having drag competitions. I had a...
    Skunktails Skunktails 26-30, M 5 Responses Jan 23, 2009

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    1980s And 1990s

    i would go to the gay bars with my best friend who happen to be gay..i never to this day had so much fun in a bar...the dancing, the lights, the visuals, the music, the sex, the drugs and booze,  the bathrooms....it was amazing!  the mirrors everywhere..i loved watching...
    WindyCityCat WindyCityCat 41-45, F 1 Response May 21, 2010

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    I'm Stright But Like Gay Bars

    I used to live in Columbus,OH. I was a truck driver travelling across the country. I ended up back in Columbus and went back to my favorite bar. It had turned into a gay bar. I ended up hanging out with a lesbian couple. It was a blast. Mentally we just clicked and had a...
    888jake 888jake 46-50, M 4 Responses Jun 20, 2012

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    I Went To A Gay Bar

    I use to go to paddys when I first started experimenting with my sexuality I felt normal I was with people like me I made some friends and met knew people it was so cool
    jat1963 jat1963 51-55, M 1 Response Oct 27, 2013

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    Yup With My Friend

    Nothing crazy happened. A lot of Britney Spears and Lady Gaga music. I don't find their music that great. I danced with my female friend some and had a fun evening. I realize this is not an exciting story but it's 100% true haha.
    NotApplicable NotApplicable 22-25, F 1 Response May 7, 2013

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    Dloveski Dloveski 36-40, M May 4

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    A Bad Encounter At A Gay Bar

    One of my close friends I met in the Army admitted to me that he was gay (before Don't Ask Don't Tell was repealed) and so I started going places with him and hanging out with people I otherwise wouldn't have. We were at this gay club in Austin called OCH and we were both...
    NefariousDrake NefariousDrake 22-25, M 3 Responses Nov 22, 2012

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    I have been wanting to go to a gay bar

    for ages. So last night I dragged my straight best friend with me as my wingman. It turns out that the gay bar we went to was mostly guys, but that was alright since everyone was super friendly. I never hanged out with so many gay guys in my life before! Everyone was really nice...
    rowanweir rowanweir 18-21, F Mar 14

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    Me and a French, Bolivian,

    and an American dude went out to explore the city we lived in. So we ended up in a gay bar. Man it was weird...I didn't know it was one an till I started to put the signs together...the wall posts were naked guys😳, the bartender called me sweetie😦, and the restroom sign is...
    Adamz155 Adamz155 22-25, M 3 Responses Jun 16

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    I have went with my girlfriend before,

    but didn't dance or kiss any guys. I kinda want to tonight, she danced with a girl last time
    StephanieDan StephanieDan 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 25

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    First Time @ The Eagle....

    I'm still in the closet to most of my friends and family, but have come out to a few trusted friends. Went to a convention in the big city with a long time gay friend.  Afterwards he wanted to go for a drink.  Being away from home I figured it was "safe" and so he dragged me...
    sougo sougo 46-50, M 3 Responses Nov 22, 2012

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    Hey Girl! I Want to Take You to a Gay Bar!

    All different videos for the same song.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q54LJ5RsqRw http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tJpRWcdRNRU   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tTzs9G-VOZ4   Let's start a war.
    fitterhappiervelcro fitterhappiervelcro 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 16, 2008

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    Love It!

    I'm a female and I have been to gay bars before. Let's be honest, the music is great and as a female, you don't have creepy dudes hitting on you or trying to dance (or dry hump) on you the whole time. This past weekend, a bunch of us went to a gay bar in town...we were more than...
    luckygal123 luckygal123 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 10, 2011

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    Dloveski Dloveski 36-40, M Mar 15

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    A Good Encounter At A Gay Bar

    After my close friend in the Army admitted to me (before Don't Ask Don't Tell was repealed) that he was gay, I started going to places and meeting new people that I normally wouldn't have. The first time that I went to a gay bar with him was to a place called OCH, and it even...
    NefariousDrake NefariousDrake 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2012

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    My Wife Took Me

    My wife took me to a club in Minneapolis, Minnesota called "The Gay 90's" on some holiday, I don't recall which. I had a good time as I recall. I ended up very drunk. I remember enjoying the drag show they had. Overall it was fun.
    JosetteLaRoc JosetteLaRoc 36-40 May 19, 2013

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    I Am Bi. I....

    I am a 25 year old bisexual woman from US. I discovered that I was bi-curious when I was 17. I went out looking for one thing and found another. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I am bi. After one experience with a woman (she was hot, passionate and...
    bisexuallucy bisexuallucy 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2012

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